WHERE YOU AT_____!? (finish that sentence for me) … Aaannnnedd we're back with part 2 of my "7 Types Of Girls You Shouldn't Date" series! I've also attached part 1 to this video for all the new people joining the family! Hope you all enjoy! Much love and let me know if y'all have ever had to deal with one of these, and how y'all handled it 👀
1-if your girl acts like a single person,Keep her single 2-If your girl keeps bad hygiene,Stay away before you get infected 3-An ex is irrelavent,you do not want someone who keeps talking about irrelavent things 4-If you only give give give and she only takes takes takes,dump her 5-If she doesn't dress properly,talk to her,if she doesn't respect your wishes or at least try to,you know what to do 6-If she says yes to everything you say,you won't know when you say something wrong until it's too late (applies to anything in general),so make sure you get a girl who can see where you're coming from but gov you a diffrent opinion if and when it's better than yours 7-If she just wants you just for the sake of having you and does extreme things to have you picking her,Don't pick her
7 needs to be expanded on what you mean by extreme. Because I really don't see most doing stuff much more than asking u out. Unless you've already rejected her which is a diff situation
Honestly if youre focusing on yourself that doesnt necessarily mean that you're a selfish person. A selfish person is someone that makes it about them self 24/7 all the time, focusing on your self is different
@@carlosmorgadosilva3517 so being "selfish" when you're alone and not with someone is just taking care of yourself and taking care of your business. Being selfish in a relationship is messed up because you are not alone 🤔 you have to put effort and time in with your partner or you are actually just being a selfish person lol
A narcissist, for better or for worse, will expect their partners in the relationship to only care about their needs even if it came at the cost of their partner's mental, emotional, and physical wellbeing. A narcissist only cares about their partner in the sense that they have someone there giving them all the adoration and reverence they feel they're entitled to despite doing almost to absolutely nothing to be worthy of either. They are an absolute drain on the other person's energy and they lack the empathy to care.
I just stumbled across your video, and as a woman, I must commend you on your wisdom. If women should keep their standards reasonably high, so should men.
Finally a not-toxic male role model for these kids. Keep up the good work bro, just bumped into your channel and it seems like youre a good guy who doesnt hate women for no reason.
Smell is not always about bad hygiene, I do wash myself everyday and still in school if I'm really stressful I do have a bit of smell, and there is also bacterial vaginal discharge can also make you smelly, so if you see some girl being smelly don't think its always bc of she doesn't take care of herself, or there may be the disease called Trimethylaminuria but it is rare
Smell ain’t too bad true, but thankfully people can tell the difference between that and someone being a slob. Example: I’m a dude, works outside most days, does stuff on computers inside, showers everyday with soap. With or without deodorant, within 3-5 hours, that smell is back; limited, but it’s there. Some things you can do, some things you can’t help. Just do what you can and you’ll be golden. Least that’s what I think, my old man still rips the shit into me sometimes after I’ve showered, saying I need another one.
1. Don't date a 304. 2. Don't date a trash panda. 3. Don't date someone who compares you. 4. Don't date a very selfish person. 5. Don't date someone who doesn't respect you. 6. Don't date someone who kisses your you know what. 7. Don't date anyone in the Dark triad, of personalities. (I.E. Narrsasists, Psychopaths, and Machiavellists.)
This actually made me feel really good. As a female I appreciate how you didn’t say things like, “stay away from women who aren’t absolutely obedient to you” and other similar statements.
The only men that are going to say that are control freaks and/or insecure men. No regular man that wants a long term loving partner is going to say that. Saying yes to everything isn’t helpful and saying no to everything is annoying. Most men want a woman that has some backbone but not a pushover.
@@insertIPhere so the actually _few_ percentage of men that want an absolutely obedient housewife type women are the normal ones and the majority of regular calm men are strange because they don’t agree with the sexualization and objectification of women?
This is gonna be some great and helpful advice that I will definitely be taking into consideration (I never have and never will feel the touch of a woman)
4:00 the fact that I lowkey experienced this shit before with my ex bf and how he broke up with me saying how he wanna go back to his ex is INSANE… 😭 Being used as a rebound was so unexpected
@@duomie5933Personal preferences like not wearing makeup has nothing to do with not taking care of yourself or who u are on the inside,so don’t think abt it too much!!❤ But ig it does up the chances of finding someone😅
@duomie5933 its not about make up, its about putting an effort in the way one presents, like being formal in a formal event. You can be presentable without make up, but it is a factor, it shows that you took the extra time and effort to be there. Theres other ways if you dont wear it, like dressing according to the context, brushing/styling your hair or even the way you act
Remember that this doesn't mean that all women who have these qualities are bad because they could change themselves for the better or at least tone it down if they really love you and want your relationship to continue.
People can improve themselves, but they can’t change who they are fundamentally. Your true self can only be hidden for so long. Thinking that someone can change who they are only causes problems, heartbreak and actions people will regret. People who appear to go good to bad were actually always bad, that’s who they were from birth. Good examples of this are prison inmates who commit the worst crimes you can think of. Now this IS NOT a comparison, but sexual orientation works the same. Gay people didn’t become gay, that’s what they were born sexually attracted to. It can heavily depend on the imdividual. People who redeemed themselves only did that because they lost then found who they were. You can give chances, yes, but you can’t expect most people to change. When you spend enough time with someone, the more likely you’ll see their true character, especially when they’re drunk (legal drinking).
But also give yourself the same credit if you both aren’t on the same page it’s ok to pass up an opportunity for both your sakes. If it’s meant to be, you all will find yourselves together in the end.
One total deal breaker is sharing intimate things or random texts to their friends. Imagine telling a secret to them and suddenly everyone knows. Or them sharing what intimacy is like
If you ask me, there is no perfect girl. But there is always the best choice, and I think that’s what you should look for. Because if you look for EXACTLY what you want, you’ll never be happy. Find the one that makes you happy, and there will always be someone out there that is close enough to perfect for you. But always look for the flags, green and red. Search for someone who isn’t perfect, but close to it
My guyyyy, a girl does not "HAVE" to wear makeup, if i all concerned about that the you probably just loving her for the looks and nothing else, u should love your girl all natural too
He just said in the video that a girl doesn’t need to use make up all the time (especially if it is too much eugh), but it’s mostly about her caring about her appearance ENOUGH to show that she cares, you see?
Men honestly i'm proud of this men, everytime i see a men talking about woman they be acting like complete animals ,pysicopats really.(hating woman in all shapes of forms is what i'm saying) This dude is respectfull and make good points wich i honestly agree with, because he talks about both people in the relationship is not just a one way thing.(because relationships are not a one way thing). I can only hope he does'nt fall to the dark side,keep with the good work fella.🏅
YESSIRR berto keep up the good content summers been plain but I’ve got better hygiene now and stopped bad habits keep on making more content to help me out and know which girl is the one thanks for all the advice berto and also fire vid like always🔥🔥🔥🔥
After watching this i think i got a keeper, takes good care of herself, styles good. Supports me when im down. Shes a lil insecure but thats from a really bad relationship she had before me and im building her up out of that shes getting alot more confident. Next tuesdsy makes 9 months together and hopefully many more to come.
For me, too much makeup is a serious red flag and turn off. I personally hate makeup, since I believe it hides your true colours. Now, I won’t say no to a little bit, or having a crazy amount for fun. Sometimes it’s also to cover up stuff like scars, I can understand that. I mean when ladies have to take about an hour or two (I’m looking at you sis) to simply make themselves presentable to the general public. I’m thinking “Who the f*ck are you trying to impress?” Cause to me, if you’re making yourself more beautiful with makeup, it better be for me and me alone. And a reminder, if you’re a dude and with them, you’ll likely be paying for it all, just saying. That’s just what I’ve seen with people around me. High maintenance isn’t always a good thing and rarely is. If I’d categorised this on the list, it would be the “Selfish” kind, who specifically only worries about their outward appearance.
Sometimes ladies do that for Work too. So is a bit weird to expect her to do this things " just for u and u alone". I mean, it's not for YOU, it's for HER and her JOYNESS or OBLIGATIONS
For many women, sacrificing is basically being the yes, man girl. Being selfish, you can go everywhere, but being unit, you at least partly do "yes, man" thing. Listen to him, when you are not in the mood. Listen to his music, even if you not so much into it. Because of love and being less selfish. Being selfish would mean always pushing your ideas of spending time first rather than being soft kind and supportive girl. Being honestly nagging and irritating or selflessly supportive sometimes are only choice when not everything goes smooth by itself. Many girls have both a lot of make up and really unclean body while others prefer minimalism and cleanliness. Histeroid type of girls would be very flirty on the outside but very rejecting and shy on the inside. Faithfulness and not bringing ex is fair and 100% unquestionably and about moral value, rather than lifestyle. Being caring as being green flag of dressing well is very questionable. Amber Heard is very cold and manipulative yet she has skills in dressing. Dressing is manipulation of your outer impression . And in the end, children usually take quite a lot of time from mother. Mothers rarely has opportunity to dress well instead of being attentive to their child's surroundings. Before motherhood, it easier, but with growth of family, it becomes more and more draining. Better less judge by looks in today society. Most gold diggers smell well and appear very nice yet lacks humanity, because being good human is less priority than impress and control people around them. With judging like that, most guys would definitely prefer the most narcissistic girl in group of girls unconsciously like girls seem to chose playboy Chad in hope that he has features of good father and supportive figure genetically. See Kanika Batra videos to have clear vision. She is well groomed yet totally sociopathic and without any remorse to strangers if its not beneficial to her. Even her care about meaningful people is calculated and reciprocal.
You've just earned a subscriber. I like how you express your thoughts while acknowledging that not everything is just black and white. I agree with the list because it made sense. I always thought that it's a shallow thing to get turned off by women or men who can't dress. This part is what you can get easily cancelled for because people nowadays forget to do their reality check that how you present yourself is how you manage yourself. I think people take it to extreme about the saying "accept your partner as they are." Like, there's a difference between idealogy and reality.
I disagree being selfish doesn't mean caring for your self it means caring only about yourself its inherently wrong man or women it doesn't matter selflessness is a good thing not selfishness we should all strive to be less self-centred
I personally value a girl I can find comfort in. Someone I can say anything to without worrying about weirding or highly offending them. Someone who will help me on my darkest of nights and celebrate my brightest of days
Question for you guys. I brush my hair, do it up, always wear deodorant, and always try to wear perfume. I have a very relaxed style of dressing, exercise shorts and oversized tshirts. When I go out, it’s usually a nice babydoll top and jean shorts. I always NEVER wear makeup because it makes me feel super gross and uncomfortable. I am a bit chubby, but I’m trying to lose weight. Is there anything here that I need to change?
You're doing amazing. You don't need to wear makeup to be beautiful; that was just a specific example I was making! Keep working on yourself and strive to be the best version of yourself, and everything will work out. 🙏
Ngl bro im desperate asf for a gf I feel empty without one 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏 I just want to date a girl who's chill and ideally has similar interests that's all I want
I was in the phase that u are in well i didn't get a girl obviously since im ugly but i just gave up idk if its the right thing to do but tbh im at peace so dont really care if its the right thing to do
Ideally, fix that before dating anyone. I get it, I was young once too, but that trait alone will lead to all sorts of problems down the road, especially while in a relationship. It might also blind you to a lot of red flags. Especially as a man, it's important to at the very least _strive_ to learn to be content alone (have your own hobbies, interests, projects), even if we all innately desire intimate companionship. Hopefully, with time, this will come naturally.
If you don’t care enough to have good hygiene or standards for yourself, it definitely can show people that you don’t care about the other aspects in your life
The only girlfriend I’ve had/will have had, had been with 4 guys before me. And 2 immediately after I broke up with her for using me for sexual deviancy+ shit talking my only friends+bad mouthed my mother.
She's bi-sexual but never with just another girl only with a man in tow, she's really expecting something in compensation, could be anything under the sun but it's definitely something she thinks you won't be willing to do or give and she's probably right
I would like to add to this. BOTH lovers must enter into the relationship thinking, "How can I add joy to this person's life and what can I do to bring peace and love to their soul? Can I share the space in this relationship equally? Am I healed enough to connect and build upon that connection with this person?" Too many people barely if ever consider the other's needs when seeking the fulfillment of their own. It took me 5 years of marriage and 34 years of life to learn what a healthy approach to relationships is. I did not have rolemodels for that. I had to figure it out alone. I hope my words have helped whomever reads this.
i dont wear make up because 1. im not allowed to (overprotective parents) 2. I personally dont like how it looks on other people, sometimes i get uncomfortable looking at people with makeup. Im not sure what it is but Im just not a fan. Is that bad?
No it isn't I just believe that everyone should prioritize their own happiness and comfort. It's important to remember that self-expression and self-care take different forms for different individuals. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🙏
I have a bone to pick with number four however, if you want to avoid a relationship to focus on yourself; that's not selfish. The complete opposite of selfishness would be not wanting to put someone else in a relationship that might not work.
As a girl, I completely agree with this. Sometimes girls can be nasty and guys should have standards too cuz some gorls I know just aren’t good people :,(
I agree with most of these. The only one I even remotely disagree with is number 2. And even then it's just barely. It's just something that I find pretty easy to work around, and I myself am fairly tolerant to bad smells so I'm a bit biased.
Ya'll be so mad about the makeup comments, it's not like she gotta have that full professional done face lashes baked skin the whole package but a little contour on the undereye, some mascara a nice hairdo to show you've got that extra effort and time spent to your appearance
The ex part is so true tho my ex gf always mentioned how much better i was from her previous boyfriend, i told her to stop it but from time to time she would mention ist. As the guy said it doesnt matter if its positive or negative remarkd eventually she will fall back like in my case cause at the end she said "i know you but i knew my ex better" altough she was saying how much better i was....stay safe yall
I got Clickbait it. I thought it was gonna be an animation. It’s on his life story of all 7 types of girls he dated as ananimation, but not face-to-face
I hate the fact that I try to fix my face as much as I can but when I just really want to feel pretty and want to wear make up, my mom is always in that “Your beautiful the way you are” but nobody else thinks that way.
Not putting on makeup doesn't mean you don't care about your appearance. Personally I try to make my hair look nice rather than trying to make my face prettier (I mean I still wash my face to take care of its health and appearance). For me makeup is just for fun!
WHERE YOU AT_____!? (finish that sentence for me) … Aaannnnedd we're back with part 2 of my "7 Types Of Girls You Shouldn't Date" series! I've also attached part 1 to this video for all the new people joining the family! Hope you all enjoy! Much love and let me know if y'all have ever had to deal with one of these, and how y'all handled it 👀
WHERE YOU AT BERTO!? 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
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Where you at BERTO
Bro’s raising the next generation of men to have standards, just like women were raised to have standards 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣💯💯💯
Man I m just doing my best, I’m glad yall rock with it 💯
Fuck standards I just want some poom poom
@@WhereYouAtBertothanks for the help!
Girls In this generation is cooking guys to death bro 💀 like me
dawg this is 14 personalities down now 💀
Meanwhile me as a girl taking notes
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How’s that going
meanwhile me taking notes from kepler 22b to form an understanding of human relationships...
@@slyce541nga you is not an alien 😭😭
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1-if your girl acts like a single person,Keep her single
2-If your girl keeps bad hygiene,Stay away before you get infected
3-An ex is irrelavent,you do not want someone who keeps talking about irrelavent things
4-If you only give give give and she only takes takes takes,dump her
5-If she doesn't dress properly,talk to her,if she doesn't respect your wishes or at least try to,you know what to do
6-If she says yes to everything you say,you won't know when you say something wrong until it's too late (applies to anything in general),so make sure you get a girl who can see where you're coming from but gov you a diffrent opinion if and when it's better than yours
7-If she just wants you just for the sake of having you and does extreme things to have you picking her,Don't pick her
7 needs to be expanded on what you mean by extreme. Because I really don't see most doing stuff much more than asking u out. Unless you've already rejected her which is a diff situation
Bro underrated comment
Spoiled the vid
@@sgtdebonesthe video was different
4 was me but only she dumped me 💀 oh and 6
Honestly if youre focusing on yourself that doesnt necessarily mean that you're a selfish person. A selfish person is someone that makes it about them self 24/7 all the time, focusing on your self is different
Amen to that brotha
It makes sense, yet that sounds like narcissism and I don't know if it's the same thing
@@carlosmorgadosilva3517 so being "selfish" when you're alone and not with someone is just taking care of yourself and taking care of your business. Being selfish in a relationship is messed up because you are not alone 🤔 you have to put effort and time in with your partner or you are actually just being a selfish person lol
A narcissist, for better or for worse, will expect their partners in the relationship to only care about their needs even if it came at the cost of their partner's mental, emotional, and physical wellbeing. A narcissist only cares about their partner in the sense that they have someone there giving them all the adoration and reverence they feel they're entitled to despite doing almost to absolutely nothing to be worthy of either. They are an absolute drain on the other person's energy and they lack the empathy to care.
@@janelle57759 exactly, its two different things thought
My gf likes messy hair, and dislikes makeup, but she has good hygiene
Hey that's great bro
That’s a low maintenance woman congrats to you 🫡🫡
messy hair is styled to look like this and no makeup is better
@@memes_dealer65 your “opinion” is valid not factual know the difference and when to keep it to yourself 🌚
Tbf, everybody should have good hygiene. It can be agreed by pretty much everybody that good hygiene is the bare minumum.
I just stumbled across your video, and as a woman, I must commend you on your wisdom. If women should keep their standards reasonably high, so should men.
Tbh, this isn't even high standars, like, good hygiene
@@valenunhence the “reasonably”!
Is that not what he said many a times?
Finally a not-toxic male role model for these kids. Keep up the good work bro, just bumped into your channel and it seems like youre a good guy who doesnt hate women for no reason.
Smell is not always about bad hygiene, I do wash myself everyday and still in school if I'm really stressful I do have a bit of smell, and there is also bacterial vaginal discharge can also make you smelly, so if you see some girl being smelly don't think its always bc of she doesn't take care of herself, or there may be the disease called Trimethylaminuria but it is rare
Smell ain’t too bad true, but thankfully people can tell the difference between that and someone being a slob.
Example: I’m a dude, works outside most days, does stuff on computers inside, showers everyday with soap. With or without deodorant, within 3-5 hours, that smell is back; limited, but it’s there.
Some things you can do, some things you can’t help. Just do what you can and you’ll be golden. Least that’s what I think, my old man still rips the shit into me sometimes after I’ve showered, saying I need another one.
@@voidedgames7491 ye
1. Don't date a 304.
2. Don't date a trash panda.
3. Don't date someone who compares you.
4. Don't date a very selfish person.
5. Don't date someone who doesn't respect you.
6. Don't date someone who kisses your you know what.
7. Don't date anyone in the Dark triad, of personalities. (I.E. Narrsasists, Psychopaths, and Machiavellists.)
What is 304?
@@cyanide6185a room for hotel😂
This actually made me feel really good. As a female I appreciate how you didn’t say things like, “stay away from women who aren’t absolutely obedient to you” and other similar statements.
The only men that are going to say that are control freaks and/or insecure men.
No regular man that wants a long term loving partner is going to say that.
Saying yes to everything isn’t helpful and saying no to everything is annoying.
Most men want a woman that has some backbone but not a pushover.
i will promise you, as a guy. a normal man has never said that ever.
you don’t speak for all males, though. There are straight men who prefer women who can actually think for themselves.
@@akari8228 that’s why i say normal, no normal human would say something like that
@@insertIPhere so the actually _few_ percentage of men that want an absolutely obedient housewife type women are the normal ones and the majority of regular calm men are strange because they don’t agree with the sexualization and objectification of women?
This is gonna be some great and helpful advice that I will definitely be taking into consideration (I never have and never will feel the touch of a woman)
Real.
Why tho?
How 9 hr ago?
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@@Dubz1. wait ur right, HOW?!?!
4:00 the fact that I lowkey experienced this shit before with my ex bf and how he broke up with me saying how he wanna go back to his ex is INSANE… 😭 Being used as a rebound was so unexpected
Hey we all been thru some bs like that lol, but that’s what life is about, All the Ls are just lessons at the end of the day to make us better people
True, L's aren't for the losses, it's for the lessons gained.
@@WhereYouAtBerto you’re so real for this 😭
Me as a 16yr old girl taking notes for future
Respect it 🙏
Based 🤜🤛
bro i almost teared up when he mentioned "a girl who doesn't wear makeup" 😭
@@duomie5933Personal preferences like not wearing makeup has nothing to do with not taking care of yourself or who u are on the inside,so don’t think abt it too much!!❤
But ig it does up the chances of finding someone😅
@duomie5933 its not about make up, its about putting an effort in the way one presents, like being formal in a formal event. You can be presentable without make up, but it is a factor, it shows that you took the extra time and effort to be there. Theres other ways if you dont wear it, like dressing according to the context, brushing/styling your hair or even the way you act
This is just good af this man is just helping people with relationships yall better sub to this man
bruh I swear when listening to Berto it feels like you're listening to a wise sage this man is awesome
it's the empathy and experience
On God ❤
Remember that this doesn't mean that all women who have these qualities are bad because they could change themselves for the better or at least tone it down if they really love you and want your relationship to continue.
Totally agree
People can improve themselves, but they can’t change who they are fundamentally. Your true self can only be hidden for so long. Thinking that someone can change who they are only causes problems, heartbreak and actions people will regret. People who appear to go good to bad were actually always bad, that’s who they were from birth.
Good examples of this are prison inmates who commit the worst crimes you can think of. Now this IS NOT a comparison, but sexual orientation works the same. Gay people didn’t become gay, that’s what they were born sexually attracted to.
It can heavily depend on the imdividual. People who redeemed themselves only did that because they lost then found who they were.
You can give chances, yes, but you can’t expect most people to change. When you spend enough time with someone, the more likely you’ll see their true character, especially when they’re drunk (legal drinking).
But also give yourself the same credit if you both aren’t on the same page it’s ok to pass up an opportunity for both your sakes. If it’s meant to be, you all will find yourselves together in the end.
One total deal breaker is sharing intimate things or random texts to their friends. Imagine telling a secret to them and suddenly everyone knows. Or them sharing what intimacy is like
Womp womp
i love watching this man's videos, even if i know DAMN well that i am NOT getting any play at all
this man is only speaking wise words and truth
If you ask me, there is no perfect girl. But there is always the best choice, and I think that’s what you should look for. Because if you look for EXACTLY what you want, you’ll never be happy. Find the one that makes you happy, and there will always be someone out there that is close enough to perfect for you. But always look for the flags, green and red. Search for someone who isn’t perfect, but close to it
0:09 you gotta stop drawing arms like this dawg, I thought Rock Lee had wrapped up boobies
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WHAT THE FUCK I can’t unsee it.
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What have you made me see
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Muscle mommy’s >>>>>
Make a story bout that 🌚
Muscle mommies are the best imo
Based.
The best kind
Berto Dropped 🗣️🔥
The tuna reference is wild bro 😂
The amount of wisdom is crazy
My guyyyy, a girl does not "HAVE" to wear makeup, if i all concerned about that the you probably just loving her for the looks and nothing else, u should love your girl all natural too
it’s not really all looks it’s just about deep love
He just said in the video that a girl doesn’t need to use make up all the time (especially if it is too much eugh), but it’s mostly about her caring about her appearance ENOUGH to show that she cares, you see?
literally, I don't really wear makeup because I don't really know how to do it, but I always make sure that I am consistently doing my skin care 😭
@@duomie5933you need makeup. My god what a horrifying site .. rather look at blue waffle and two girls and one cup then see your pfp again
Men honestly i'm proud of this men, everytime i see a men talking about woman they be acting like complete animals ,pysicopats really.(hating woman in all shapes of forms is what i'm saying) This dude is respectfull and make good points wich i honestly agree with, because he talks about both people in the relationship is not just a one way thing.(because relationships are not a one way thing). I can only hope he does'nt fall to the dark side,keep with the good work fella.🏅
I appreciate the support, and don’t worry I’m always going to stay me! They can’t change me 🙏
I’ve never heard anyone explain a girl like that, a “yes man”, but now that I look at it I’m actually a yes man, lol 😂
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mission failed we'll get them next time
YESSIRR berto keep up the good content summers been plain but I’ve got better hygiene now and stopped bad habits keep on making more content to help me out and know which girl is the one thanks for all the advice berto and also fire vid like always🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lettttss goooooo!! Proud of you family 💯🙏
@@WhereYouAtBerto couldn’t have done it without you🔥🔥🔥🙏🔥🔥🔥
After watching this i think i got a keeper, takes good care of herself, styles good. Supports me when im down. Shes a lil insecure but thats from a really bad relationship she had before me and im building her up out of that shes getting alot more confident. Next tuesdsy makes 9 months together and hopefully many more to come.
Yo it's 1 year now congrats
My man always been spitting faxs
For me, too much makeup is a serious red flag and turn off. I personally hate makeup, since I believe it hides your true colours. Now, I won’t say no to a little bit, or having a crazy amount for fun. Sometimes it’s also to cover up stuff like scars, I can understand that.
I mean when ladies have to take about an hour or two (I’m looking at you sis) to simply make themselves presentable to the general public. I’m thinking “Who the f*ck are you trying to impress?”
Cause to me, if you’re making yourself more beautiful with makeup, it better be for me and me alone.
And a reminder, if you’re a dude and with them, you’ll likely be paying for it all, just saying. That’s just what I’ve seen with people around me.
High maintenance isn’t always a good thing and rarely is.
If I’d categorised this on the list, it would be the “Selfish” kind, who specifically only worries about their outward appearance.
Sometimes ladies do that for Work too. So is a bit weird to expect her to do this things " just for u and u alone". I mean, it's not for YOU, it's for HER and her JOYNESS or OBLIGATIONS
You DEFINITELY don’t want to date a flirty girl, from experience
Gotta say I love Berto’s content so much!❤ I love how he teaches young men how to have standards and also take care of themselves! Love you Berto❤🎉
For many women, sacrificing is basically being the yes, man girl. Being selfish, you can go everywhere, but being unit, you at least partly do "yes, man" thing. Listen to him, when you are not in the mood. Listen to his music, even if you not so much into it. Because of love and being less selfish. Being selfish would mean always pushing your ideas of spending time first rather than being soft kind and supportive girl.
Being honestly nagging and irritating or selflessly supportive sometimes are only choice when not everything goes smooth by itself.
Many girls have both a lot of make up and really unclean body while others prefer minimalism and cleanliness.
Histeroid type of girls would be very flirty on the outside but very rejecting and shy on the inside.
Faithfulness and not bringing ex is fair and 100% unquestionably and about moral value, rather than lifestyle.
Being caring as being green flag of dressing well is very questionable.
Amber Heard is very cold and manipulative yet she has skills in dressing. Dressing is manipulation of your outer impression . And in the end, children usually take quite a lot of time from mother. Mothers rarely has opportunity to dress well instead of being attentive to their child's surroundings.
Before motherhood, it easier, but with growth of family, it becomes more and more draining.
Better less judge by looks in today society.
Most gold diggers smell well and appear very nice yet lacks humanity, because being good human is less priority than impress and control people around them.
With judging like that, most guys would definitely prefer the most narcissistic girl in group of girls unconsciously like girls seem to chose playboy Chad in hope that he has features of good father and supportive figure genetically.
See Kanika Batra videos to have clear vision. She is well groomed yet totally sociopathic and without any remorse to strangers if its not beneficial to her.
Even her care about meaningful people is calculated and reciprocal.
I watch videos as I work (sometimes) and I like to watch this stuff keep up the good work
yo dude i love your vids, as a girl im taking notes fr this is honestly rlly helpful
You've just earned a subscriber. I like how you express your thoughts while acknowledging that not everything is just black and white. I agree with the list because it made sense. I always thought that it's a shallow thing to get turned off by women or men who can't dress. This part is what you can get easily cancelled for because people nowadays forget to do their reality check that how you present yourself is how you manage yourself. I think people take it to extreme about the saying "accept your partner as they are." Like, there's a difference between idealogy and reality.
It's your first video that I watch and DAMN THATS GOOD, New subscription bro
ngl just subbed your advice funny and helpful asl
Bros out here giving the best advice possible 🗣🗣🗣 thank you help us guys out much love 😁😁
I disagree being selfish doesn't mean caring for your self it means caring only about yourself its inherently wrong man or women it doesn't matter selflessness is a good thing not selfishness we should all strive to be less self-centred
I personally value a girl I can find comfort in. Someone I can say anything to without worrying about weirding or highly offending them. Someone who will help me on my darkest of nights and celebrate my brightest of days
Thanks for adding first part
Question for you guys. I brush my hair, do it up, always wear deodorant, and always try to wear perfume. I have a very relaxed style of dressing, exercise shorts and oversized tshirts. When I go out, it’s usually a nice babydoll top and jean shorts. I always NEVER wear makeup because it makes me feel super gross and uncomfortable. I am a bit chubby, but I’m trying to lose weight. Is there anything here that I need to change?
You're doing amazing. You don't need to wear makeup to be beautiful; that was just a specific example I was making! Keep working on yourself and strive to be the best version of yourself, and everything will work out. 🙏
@@WhereYouAtBerto Thank you! And you keep doing you and making videos! They’re so good and what you say is honestly really helpful!
Jesus is the only way to salvation ❤❤❤
Ngl bro im desperate asf for a gf I feel empty without one 😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏 I just want to date a girl who's chill and ideally has similar interests that's all I want
Real but I’m at my selfish season rn
true😭 i js wanna experience teenage love
I was in the phase that u are in well i didn't get a girl obviously since im ugly but i just gave up idk if its the right thing to do but tbh im at peace so dont really care if its the right thing to do
Ideally, fix that before dating anyone. I get it, I was young once too, but that trait alone will lead to all sorts of problems down the road, especially while in a relationship. It might also blind you to a lot of red flags. Especially as a man, it's important to at the very least _strive_ to learn to be content alone (have your own hobbies, interests, projects), even if we all innately desire intimate companionship.
Hopefully, with time, this will come naturally.
@@DarkVeghetta thanks bro
As a girl I think this man needs a raise and a W in the chat
you should add "part 2" to the title, i was bamboozled seeing two wideos with same title from one creator lol
Him: talking about women. Me: THE LIGHTS REACT TO THE SOUND OF HIS VOICE OMG!!!
If you don’t care enough to have good hygiene or standards for yourself, it definitely can show people that you don’t care about the other aspects in your life
The only girlfriend I’ve had/will have had, had been with 4 guys before me. And 2 immediately after I broke up with her for using me for sexual deviancy+ shit talking my only friends+bad mouthed my mother.
Oh, thnks for new ideas to add to my personality😊
This.. is actually really helpful. Wish i had some of these knowledge back then
She's bi-sexual but never with just another girl only with a man in tow, she's really expecting something in compensation, could be anything under the sun but it's definitely something she thinks you won't be willing to do or give and she's probably right
I would like to add to this. BOTH lovers must enter into the relationship thinking, "How can I add joy to this person's life and what can I do to bring peace and love to their soul? Can I share the space in this relationship equally? Am I healed enough to connect and build upon that connection with this person?" Too many people barely if ever consider the other's needs when seeking the fulfillment of their own. It took me 5 years of marriage and 34 years of life to learn what a healthy approach to relationships is. I did not have rolemodels for that. I had to figure it out alone. I hope my words have helped whomever reads this.
i dont wear make up because 1. im not allowed to (overprotective parents) 2. I personally dont like how it looks on other people, sometimes i get uncomfortable looking at people with makeup. Im not sure what it is but Im just not a fan. Is that bad?
No it isn't I just believe that everyone should prioritize their own happiness and comfort. It's important to remember that self-expression and self-care take different forms for different individuals. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. 🙏
i never wear makeup and i eat junk food doesnt mean i dont practice basic hygiene
The pick mes also has no issues in putting other girls down just to gain the attention and upper hand to guys based on whatever situation
I have a bone to pick with number four however, if you want to avoid a relationship to focus on yourself; that's not selfish. The complete opposite of selfishness would be not wanting to put someone else in a relationship that might not work.
This has nothing to do with the video but I love how the led's in his background faded away as he said the final line
As a girl, I completely agree with this. Sometimes girls can be nasty and guys should have standards too cuz some gorls I know just aren’t good people :,(
Too insecure the easiest to keep, but one of the hardest to want to keep
Hey, I don't care about how I look but I keep my shit clean
I’m a big person and I keep myself clean so….
I agree with most of these. The only one I even remotely disagree with is number 2. And even then it's just barely. It's just something that I find pretty easy to work around, and I myself am fairly tolerant to bad smells so I'm a bit biased.
I'll definetly use those infos when im good enough to get a girl bruh 😭
If you got one these women. Prepare to be, SMOKIN OUT THE WINDOW
6:59 bro have a good mindset, W mans
Ya'll be so mad about the makeup comments, it's not like she gotta have that full professional done face lashes baked skin the whole package but a little contour on the undereye, some mascara a nice hairdo to show you've got that extra effort and time spent to your appearance
When I went for a gf I had her personality type in mind, a healthy infj but God sent me the kinda body I wanted to, thank you God
I learn so much from this! Thanks man!
Jesus loves us and died on the cross for us
Yuh
Amen
Amen
W advice, W BGM, W video 👍
girl 2 been there, done that and pulled through. I am scarred for life.
Hey the Ls make us Stronger
@@WhereYouAtBerto Indeed mate, not doing that shit again.
The ex part is so true tho my ex gf always mentioned how much better i was from her previous boyfriend, i told her to stop it but from time to time she would mention ist. As the guy said it doesnt matter if its positive or negative remarkd eventually she will fall back like in my case cause at the end she said "i know you but i knew my ex better" altough she was saying how much better i was....stay safe yall
I learned my lesson big big BIG time with the first one. Never ever again, screw that.
The perfect counter to the control freak is the phrase”naw I’mma do my own thing”
Im so flirty and I’m obsessed with my bf and only my bf…
bro my type of girl is never on these lists so im soo good
the fact that there’s 7 types of girls you shouldn’t date tells us a lot about the dating game
good content, really help me thinking better
All of this was perfectly said 👏🏽
Thank You For This.
Thank you for your support 🙏
I got Clickbait it. I thought it was gonna be an animation. It’s on his life story of all 7 types of girls he dated as ananimation, but not face-to-face
The youngins better be paying attention, my boy Berto spitting 💯💯💯
I hate the fact that I try to fix my face as much as I can but when I just really want to feel pretty and want to wear make up, my mom is always in that “Your beautiful the way you are” but nobody else thinks that way.
This is what people need
Videos that actually teach common sense in us
Dude is doing God's duty on earth, I respect that.
Respectively Said! ❤ .He was raised fine.🎉
i want the type of girl who always flirty to me only frfr
Love your content man you changed my perspective on a lot of things in a positive way.
idk why but shy girls have always been the nicest girls I've ever been with but its impossible to even reach that point with them 😭
Not putting on makeup doesn't mean you don't care about your appearance. Personally I try to make my hair look nice rather than trying to make my face prettier (I mean I still wash my face to take care of its health and appearance). For me makeup is just for fun!
i agree with almost everything, but what I would change are small details, damn good video, can you do the male ver?
Bro is saving our life for free, respect.
Bro your videos are always so goated man giving the best tips ! thanks man
Where was this two years ago? Would have saved me from number three
the final one will easily be me on future haha