ASMR | Ramble About Mother's Day, Neck Cream, & Cat Trees (Whisper)

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  • Опубліковано 6 лют 2025
  • Nail Color: Sally Hansen Insta-Dri, "ASAP Apple," two coats, and one coat of "Out The Door" shiny top coat.
    Your eyes don't deceive you! My hair is blue!
    If you don't like it, don't worry - it'll wash out. Eventually. Maybe.
    This video features a whispered ramble about my bummer of a Mother's Day, and my "do-over" treat to myself. We'll also talk about Gold Bond Neck & Chest Cream (it's wonderful!), pull-apart taco bread, and cat trees. It's a ramble for the ages! I hope you enjoy it. :)
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 368

  • @lotownowentown
    @lotownowentown 3 роки тому +414

    OBSESSED with this hair color on you. You can pull anything off, seriously.

  • @MsBrasil89
    @MsBrasil89 3 роки тому +128

    She always looks so good! Love her outfit choices and nails

  • @AutumnsVeil.
    @AutumnsVeil. 3 роки тому +125

    I'm sorry your mother's day sucked. You really didn't deserve that at all!! 😥 You're clearly such an awesome mom and I know when your boys get older they will truly understand how lucky & blessed they are to have you as their mama! 🌻💙💙💙

  • @soapforthesoul
    @soapforthesoul 3 роки тому +77

    You are so patient. My mom would have been IRATE if I had brought three extra kids into the house without asking permission. I never would have heard the end of it lol. You’re the best

  • @cynthiawhitaker5255
    @cynthiawhitaker5255 3 роки тому +58

    I taught school for 25 years and I ALWAYS did a craft for the kids to take home for their moms for this very reason! Sorry your boys didn’t take you to lunch or give you a gift. You deserve it!

  • @haleyroberts3354
    @haleyroberts3354 3 роки тому +101

    Mary your hair is amazing!

  • @PSPplayer17
    @PSPplayer17 3 роки тому +72

    Not a single mom but my fiancé and son didn’t even acknowledge Mother’s Day. I had to tell my son it was Mother’s Day he said “oh I forgot” an hour later I said “usually on Mother’s Day you tell the people you love who are mothers…” and he goes “uh happy Mother’s Day”. That was the extent of my day lol. Had to run errands for my fiancé too all day. Ugh I feel you.

    • @lexi3774
      @lexi3774 3 роки тому +6

      I’m so sorry. Happy late Mother’s Day! Being a mother is one of the hardest jobs yet it is so rewarding. Mothers are truly the best because of all they do for their children. 💙

    • @papabear12
      @papabear12 3 роки тому +15

      Sounds like you’re allowing yourself to be disrespected and unappreciated. That’s on you for not teaching him differently or settling for a shitty fiancé. You deserve better for yourself. Do something about it.

    • @sazzy_uk200
      @sazzy_uk200 3 роки тому +1

    • @marsmontufar6319
      @marsmontufar6319 3 роки тому +11

      Maybe rethink the fiancé?

  • @lisashoemaker8161
    @lisashoemaker8161 3 роки тому +114

    As soon as you mentioned having a crappy Mother’s Day, being a single mom, I had to laugh. That’s my story every year. I’m a single mom of 2 boys, and they just don’t seem to think much of the holiday. 😅😒

  • @tayrey9434
    @tayrey9434 3 роки тому +11

    I told my son I had an “ok” Mother’s Day, (I didn’t mention it was because my husband and I were just bickering all day) and he started tearing up and said “but Mother’s Day is the happiest day for you?” in confusion. He is right, it’s not necessarily about only others appreciating you, but you appreciating them. He loves me and acted as if it were a regular day, but deep down, he obviously felt thankful and just happy to be around me. I got right down next to him, hugged and kissed his little cheek and said “you’re right buddy, you’re the best thing in my life and you made my Mother’s Day amazing. Every day is special because of you” and his tears ceased. Such a beautiful moment for me.

  • @7aylor5
    @7aylor5 3 роки тому +190

    I bet that other moms Mother’s Day gift was a day of silence lol

    • @SouthernASMRSounds
      @SouthernASMRSounds  3 роки тому +38

      I hope she enjoyed it, whatever she was doing!

    • @joeydipippa5862
      @joeydipippa5862 3 роки тому +3

      You should make a Lynette video with your blue hair.

  • @ballinonabudget99
    @ballinonabudget99 3 роки тому +34

    once your kids get older they will be great on mothers day. they will learn how much you do for them and it will make up for mothers days like these.

  • @TessaLCastro1216
    @TessaLCastro1216 3 роки тому +50

    I'm really sorry about your Mother's Day, Mary😔 If it's an consolation, your hair looks lovely & your videos always make my day. I hope your week is going well so far.🦋🌻

  • @tortimeese
    @tortimeese 3 роки тому +16

    There is nothing that I like more than logging onto UA-cam and seeing that Mary has posted a ramble video. Ramble on, Mary--you're the best. P.S. Love the blue--it's beautiful on you.

  • @lisashoemaker8161
    @lisashoemaker8161 3 роки тому +72

    Don’t you want to go spend time with your mom? “Nah, we’re good.” 😂😂😂

  • @emilysanders5260
    @emilysanders5260 3 роки тому +8

    You’re whispered rambles are my absolute favorite💛

  • @Blah243
    @Blah243 3 роки тому +45

    I love the blue so much!! You look so confident & sassy!

  • @evilmiscreantgirlfriend
    @evilmiscreantgirlfriend 3 роки тому +1

    well i’d like to give you a special mother’s day thank you for helping so many people relax and sleep

  • @georgianelson9551
    @georgianelson9551 3 роки тому +3

    You are *such* an amazing mum, cat momma, woman, creator. We love you, queen.

  • @lenlenlen355
    @lenlenlen355 3 роки тому +2

    Your hair looks soo good, blue really suits you. It's a well deserved gift after that busy day.
    I feel connected when others share their bad days too, like i feel that everyone don't share this side of their life, so i appreciate your transparency 💜

  • @pamelaroy8007
    @pamelaroy8007 3 роки тому

    your a very special person - may all your days be filled with abundant grace and joy-- God bless u dear

  • @julitucci
    @julitucci 3 роки тому +31

    your hair!!!! love it☺️

  • @sazzy_uk200
    @sazzy_uk200 3 роки тому +1

    I've had Mother's Day when i was single and it is awful, especially now with social media you tend to see these "perfect" Mother's Day and it makes you feel so inadequate. I came to the conclusion that it's only a day, you will always be an amazing Mum. You had a rotten day by the sounds of it. I hope you are ok. You will eventually forget about it all. Lots of Love to you Mary, your hair looks fab!! xxx

  • @sarasiffermann9874
    @sarasiffermann9874 3 роки тому +1

    My mom has been a single mom with me for about 10 years and I always make sure I make mothers day really special for her!! Sorry to hear about your Mothers Day Mary !

  • @masterpieceinthemaking9061
    @masterpieceinthemaking9061 3 роки тому

    Hi Mary! I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoy your videos. I'm really partial to your sandwich making videos and grocery hauls. They give me strong mom vibes. I'm not as close to my mom as I would like to be and sometimes it gets to bothering me, but then I will watch some of your videos and it soothes me. Thank you so much for what you do! Happy belated Mom's Day!

  • @emilybemmilee531
    @emilybemmilee531 3 роки тому +3

    That was so sweet of Glenda! I’m glad you got a nice gift. You sure deserve it.

    • @ashleyfaith532
      @ashleyfaith532 3 роки тому +1

      I’m new to Mary’s channel and I always hear her mention “Glenda the Good Witch!” What is their relationship, who is this wonderful human?!

    • @Slayurexistence
      @Slayurexistence 3 роки тому +3

      @@ashleyfaith532 her ex husband

    • @emilybemmilee531
      @emilybemmilee531 3 роки тому +4

      I believe Glenda is her most recent ex husband. They didn’t have kids together. I believe her second ex is the father of the kids. And I don’t believe he is maybe a very nice man.....from what she has alluded to on here before. I think her and Glenda still have a good relationship and are friends, which is wonderful. I feel weird discussing her personal life but that’s just what I’ve learned from listening to her - don’t mean to step on your toes Mary. Anyways :)

    • @Slayurexistence
      @Slayurexistence 3 роки тому +2

      @@emilybemmilee531 ohh I thought she had two kids with glenda the good witch ! That’s interesting

  • @mariaolker
    @mariaolker 3 роки тому +10

    I've learned if I want a nice mother's day, I have to plan it myself.

  • @bashful3009
    @bashful3009 3 роки тому

    Thank you for the tip about neck cream! This really helped me out. So glad you treated yourself to a fun hairstyle. It looks great and you deserved a boost.

  • @ceamean
    @ceamean 3 роки тому

    I watched this three times. Fell asleep half way twice. Watched it during an online class this time. I listened carefully to everything you said and my professor thought I was listening to him attentively. It's so cute😁

  • @kellyyyyyyy
    @kellyyyyyyy 3 роки тому

    i’m sorry about your mother’s day! i wish i couldve wished you happy mother’s day!

  • @lexicarnes1948
    @lexicarnes1948 3 роки тому +7

    Happy late Mother’s Day and I’m so sorry to hear that you had a bad day I’m praying for you and we are here for you

  • @Meowcraft09
    @Meowcraft09 3 роки тому +1

    Your videos always put me to sleep and relax me sooo much, keep this up I'm sure you'll hit a million in no time love uu. 😊

  • @ebony_3743
    @ebony_3743 3 роки тому +2

    Mary you always come prepared with the stories, and nails to match the mood! Happy mothers day!!🌷🌷❤

  • @scicchiello
    @scicchiello 3 роки тому +1

    LOVE the hair!! Not only the look of it,.. but your reasons for deciding to do it!!
    So, I had been moving around as I had started to watch this video tonight, but I was glancing back as you were talking about things. I kept thinking how great your hair really looked with the “new blue you” look, but especially because you had cut it again. I’ve always loved your shorter hair the most. It was way back shortly after finding your channel when I caught a video where suddenly your hair was noticeably shorter and it looked amazing! It was the first time I had seen one where your unique plots started to show up, and that cool personality of yours started to really come out! Since then you have made me laugh OUT LOUD many MANY of nights. Anyway, it wasn’t until I actually stoped walking around tonight that I got a better look at you... and realized that you HADN’T cut your hair after all! Lol... I think it is still fabulous though, and I just felt like sharing that memory with you. You’ve just about become an honorary family member, for as much as we watch and for as LONG as we’ve been watching! Anyway, I’m glad you got a reset on your Mother’s Day... and thank you for all your hard work. I truly enjoy every video you make! Long or short hair!!!

  • @jose-gr7jg
    @jose-gr7jg 3 роки тому +2

    I appreciate all the effort in the making of your cooking videos, they are my favorites!

  • @Tinygluten
    @Tinygluten 3 роки тому

    The blue hair looks awesome!!! Treat yo’self!! Love this Mary, happy Mother’s Day!

  • @rachelsmyth9854
    @rachelsmyth9854 3 роки тому +5

    you are our asmr mother... HAPPY MOTHERS DAY XOXOXOXO

  • @kerielfbrooke825
    @kerielfbrooke825 3 роки тому +4

    I've realised that my other half will never gift anyone the way he should. So I do all gifting. And I teach my son the value of appreciating people and showing it. So when it comes to Mothers Day, my philosophy is that I would not be a Mother without my child or his Dad. So I spend the day being a Mother and enjoy my child. If I cook, so what, I get to nourish my child. How many other women would give anything for that opportunity. I don't take being a Mother for granted. If my son pops off to play, I let him. I've done my job if he is confident and sociable. And it lightens my heart to hear him laugh. But he gave me his time. I got to sit with them both, watch a movie and nibble on the cupcakes I treated myself to, and it was perfect. No gifts, no cards. Just a happy healthy child, which is the best gift at the end of the day.

  • @Michelle92413
    @Michelle92413 9 місяців тому

    When i was with my children's father, he never ever use to acknowledge my birthday or mother's day, however i always made special occasions all about him.
    I grew sick and tired of it, and left. Feeling unappreciated by the people you give your very all for is a different kind of hurt.
    My boys are still relatively young, 8 & 7, but i have raised my boys to always ALWAYS appreciate the women in our lives. It can get hard, especially when their father is constantly always going against me, trying to raise considerate, appreciative, and loving little boys.
    I hope I'm doing something right, but im being told by my kids OOSCH educators that they're the most amazing little boys that they've had the pleasure of having in their care, so that gives me a glimmer of hope that I'm raising them right. ❤

  • @lakeviaharris49
    @lakeviaharris49 3 роки тому

    Mary, you are really helping me keep my mental health together. I really appreciate you💜

  • @TheMaristocracy
    @TheMaristocracy 3 роки тому

    Happy Mother's Day, Mary!!! You have put us all to bed many, many times and made us many, many sandwiches, and, for that, we thank you 💐

  • @kiervol
    @kiervol 3 роки тому

    I love your chatty videos that I can turn off the screen and just listen while I fall asleep! It is so funny, I'm totally interested in your day, kids, neighbors, etc. Oh, and North Carolina generally because I used to live there.

    • @kiervol
      @kiervol 3 роки тому

      I listen several days in a row because they put me to sleep but I want to hear what the cats are up to! I have kids, cats, friends, a life, but I love hearing about your days!

    • @kiervol
      @kiervol 3 роки тому

      Oh, and I often plan my mothers days. I pick something out that I want, like a teapot or a book, and if I don't get anything from my family, I order/buy it and really enjoy getting a silly/pretty gift that is actually better than what I would have gotten. Your boys love you, the day can be so complicated. But pretty teapots and gorgeous hair and books are fun!

  • @linzella
    @linzella 3 роки тому +1

    Love your videos, Mary! Thanks for sharing the tip about the Gold Bond Neck Cream. I love how you always share your honest opinion about things!

  • @oakyafterbirth2801
    @oakyafterbirth2801 3 роки тому

    Mary this hair color looks PHENOMENAL on you!!!! You are GLOWING!!!!! Truly!!!!! Forever obsessed with you Mary! You’re amazing! You look so beautiful! This hair color suits you so much!

  • @arikazu6877
    @arikazu6877 3 роки тому +1

    Absolutely Beautiful! I always love to see you embrace the colors blue & yellow

  • @Tasha_0699
    @Tasha_0699 3 роки тому +20

    Your hair looks great, I love it, looks good on you

  • @Sekyung259
    @Sekyung259 3 роки тому +1

    I’m sorry Mary, as much as i love you and your videos, you make me laugh because of your stories, and thank you for giving me a good laugh after a tiring day of work and before a good sleep. Always your fan. Btw, the cats and your son’s interaction was super cute!

  • @AwkwardEmily
    @AwkwardEmily 3 роки тому +6

    I'm sorry your mothers day went sour. Mine wasn't too fun either. My husband moved out of state for work and I've been working full time/OT while raising our daughter by myself the last 3 months. My daughter (6) was in a bad mood all mothers day and my husband barely acknowledged mothers day. I'm going to take a day off from work next week while my daughters at school and have some much needed alone time. I dont know how the single moms do it, you guys are rockstars. It's only been 3 months and its kicking my butt.

  • @yuste316
    @yuste316 3 роки тому

    LOVE the blue!!! You are stunning Mary!

  • @kaciejames
    @kaciejames 3 роки тому +13

    only you could make a video with “neck cream” in the title and i’d be excited! 😂

  • @sharonmurphy567
    @sharonmurphy567 3 роки тому +2

    Love your whispered chats.

  • @tyrusquiroz8810
    @tyrusquiroz8810 3 роки тому +19

    Your hair amplifies your beauty. 😍

  • @conniebradley9307
    @conniebradley9307 3 роки тому

    Hi my dear Mary, I’m so sorry your Mother’s Day sucked for you....
    I’m digging the blue color in your hair!!!
    I’m going to have to try the neck and upper chest cream.. That sounds like a dream come true for me...
    I know you had fun putting the cat tree together! TFS this with us!!!
    Love ya hon.......🌸🌸🌸

  • @Jess-ty4b
    @Jess-ty4b 3 роки тому +21

    We don't do Hallmark holidays. Not mother's day, father's day, valentines day. We celebrate birthdays and our anniversary. But the way we look at it is you should be showing love and consideration for others all year. I don't need overpriced flowers.

  • @cassandrastephan8090
    @cassandrastephan8090 3 роки тому

    Love your hair! I totally understand about the kids. We moved out of a subdivision into the country and I was so excited. I often got stuck watching the neighborhoods kids whose parents I’d barely knew! I’ve felt that frustration!

  • @liehere
    @liehere 3 роки тому +1

    Yeaaaah blue hair 😏🥳. I thought I was hallucinating at first, I turned the brightness up 100% to make sure!

  • @HandCraftedASMR
    @HandCraftedASMR 3 роки тому +1

    Loving it!!! Happy late mother's day to our ASMR momma! 😁💕

  • @lisashoemaker8161
    @lisashoemaker8161 3 роки тому +10

    On a more serious note, your hair does look great! The blue looks really good with your skin tone. And yes, your neck and chest skin looks really good!

  • @Dc97617
    @Dc97617 3 роки тому +6

    Mary said don’t let my age fool you. I’m a cool mom ✨💕

  • @lisak6321
    @lisak6321 3 роки тому

    Love your hair! Glad you did something for yourself and had fun:)

  • @gegebeltran253
    @gegebeltran253 3 роки тому +2

    Blue hair is always great. It’s my go to 😂. It looks good girl.

  • @adventureswithemilyandeliz3223
    @adventureswithemilyandeliz3223 3 роки тому

    I love your hair! I could never look good in it,but you wear it so well! Thankful you had a better day today 💓

  • @domenicavallone28
    @domenicavallone28 3 роки тому

    OH MY GOSH I AM LOVING THE HAIR!! 💙💙 Blue is definitely one of your colors ☺️

  • @deborahdrobnak5860
    @deborahdrobnak5860 3 роки тому +11

    Your hair rocks Mary, looks very nice.

  • @gillianhedley6804
    @gillianhedley6804 3 роки тому +1

    Love these ramble whispers.love your hair so cool x

  • @katieheff1
    @katieheff1 3 роки тому

    You look beautiful 😍 love your videos, you give off such a warm positive vibe! Love watching you, you always seem to cheer me up 💗

  • @julieb5745
    @julieb5745 3 роки тому +6

    Ugh those other mothers were having your relaxing day. You should send them a bill for daycare and feeding them.

  • @andreis.4584
    @andreis.4584 3 роки тому

    You look stunning 💙❤, it is nice to see you shining and so satisfied. ☺ Thanks for your whispering video ❤

  • @lilyrose3005
    @lilyrose3005 3 роки тому +1

    That colour makes your eyes pop! Hope it made you feel better after that dreadful mother's day.

  • @gabidriggers2720
    @gabidriggers2720 3 роки тому

    your hair is even more beautiful with the blue i love it!!!

  • @christheekid
    @christheekid 3 роки тому

    the blue in your hair make YOU pop 🤩🤩🤩

  • @ari-io7yn
    @ari-io7yn 3 роки тому +1

    Mary your hair looks amazing! Compliments you so beautifully 💞

  • @jd-one1
    @jd-one1 3 роки тому

    Happy Mother's Day, you look great! The hair is awesome!

  • @torriekellems1022
    @torriekellems1022 3 роки тому

    Hi Mary, a) i absolutely love the feeling blue hair gives you. B) a lot of the grocery stores with a bakery in them should be able to help with the sourdough. ❤️

  • @anna.318
    @anna.318 3 роки тому

    You're so fun dying your hair blue! It looks great on you😍

  • @sarahspice12
    @sarahspice12 3 роки тому

    OMG I love your hair!!!! 😍😍😍
    I hated mother’s day too!! My older son shattered his school laptop screen and my little one poured out all my new expensive shampoo. They really were Extra fussy and fought with each other more than usual. I was over it! I was so worn out by the end of the day.

  • @lucybell1767
    @lucybell1767 3 роки тому

    I love the blue! Funky hair suits your personality!

  • @Olgadeni19
    @Olgadeni19 3 роки тому +1

    OKAY I LOVE THE HAIR MARY IT MAKES YOU LOOK YOUNG AND FABULOUS 🤩🤩🤩🤩 what a queen 👑

  • @stacib7837
    @stacib7837 3 роки тому +11

    I wonder what the other moms thoughts were on sending their kids to another mothers house. That's pretty selfish of them.

  • @bianncavillegas5369
    @bianncavillegas5369 3 роки тому +9

    Your hair looks lovely❤️

  • @jessiewood2834
    @jessiewood2834 3 роки тому

    Omg your hair looks AMAZING!! I love it💙

  • @graciemiranda9107
    @graciemiranda9107 3 роки тому

    Sorry to hear you had a not so happy mother's day but your looks amazing. I love when you give reviews on products. I will definitely be using the cream. Can't wait to see your cooking video & the cat tower. Take care & have a blessed day.🐈🌹🏵💮🌸💐🌷🌼🌺🌻🌻🌻 😺

  • @abbytayler00
    @abbytayler00 3 роки тому +1

    15:58 why I love being a hairdresser 🥰
    You look great, Mary! 💎💙🦋

  • @sammielovesgummybears5285
    @sammielovesgummybears5285 3 роки тому +1

    I love your hair!! Blue is so flattering on you!

  • @dgar4728
    @dgar4728 3 роки тому +1

    Been watching you a long time but first time responding...your hair...absolutely on point! Happy belated mother's day...it's mother's day everyday so...one bad day is ok lol. I hope the awesome outcome on your hair makes up for a bad mom's day a little...🤷‍♀️❤

  • @spencerallegra
    @spencerallegra 3 роки тому

    Love your hair! It fits your personality so well!
    You could call around to local grocery stores with bakery’s and see if they can set aside a loaf that isn’t cut.

  • @Carol-zb7pg
    @Carol-zb7pg 9 місяців тому

    Your hair is very pretty! Love it

  • @itskaylababyy
    @itskaylababyy 3 роки тому

    MARYYYYY GIRLLL THIS HAIRRRRR IS EVERYTHING IT LOOKS SO GOOD :) i love it so mucccccch & it really goes with you 💗💗💗

  • @chelseamurphy9171
    @chelseamurphy9171 3 роки тому +1

    You look so amazing as always mary! ❤ I really love the new hair 😍

  • @ramk9305
    @ramk9305 3 роки тому

    color looks amazing keep up the vids❤️‍🔥

  • @owentm6688
    @owentm6688 3 роки тому +2

    your hair is gorgeous mary! thanks for the great video ❤️

  • @lisaberg1853
    @lisaberg1853 3 роки тому +1

    Well its too bad you and Glenda the Good Witch couldn't make it work. Sounds like he cares about you and you him. Love your rambles.

  • @Ph0bic8
    @Ph0bic8 3 роки тому

    Love love love the hair ♥️

  • @bingewatchingintesifies809
    @bingewatchingintesifies809 3 роки тому

    OH MY GOD that silver blue hair looks incredible!!!

  • @LaCandace
    @LaCandace 3 роки тому

    Love the hair! I did mine blue a few years ago and I had so much fun with it!

  • @a5thony
    @a5thony 3 роки тому +1

    yesss queen give us that y2k realness 💙 would love to see you try more colors!

  • @kellyakins6443
    @kellyakins6443 3 роки тому

    You’re hair looks amazing!!! I love putting awesome color in my hair like that. Makes me feel sassy. Lol. But seriously , you’re hair does look really great!! 🥰

  • @komariko
    @komariko 3 роки тому +9

    I hope you had a better day today!!
    Love from Tokyo 🇯🇵

  • @camphope9344
    @camphope9344 3 роки тому

    Whole Foods, you said “more like whole paycheck.” 😂 🤣 We have a store round here called Save a lot and always called it Save a Little. Btw you look stunning in this video. 👀

  • @Mmercury24
    @Mmercury24 3 роки тому

    So sorry your Mother’s Day was crappy! Your hair looks fabulous, Mary!!!