Useful Tools to Help Deal the Grief
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- Опубліковано 6 сер 2023
- Today I’m chatting with Erica Messer, a pet parent who lost her beloved cat Wolfgang in a very traumatic way, and was thrown headfirst into a sea of grief she had no idea how to navigate.
Erica’s journey back from the depths of her grief included creating a website, Wolfie’s Wish, so that she could share what worked for her with other pet parents mourning the loss of their own animal companions.
Today, Wolfie’s Wish provides a wonderful resource for people who’ve lost a beloved pet and don’t know how to cope or where to turn for help.
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I lost my 18 month old two weeks ago today in a horrific accident. When she died, so did a piece of my heart. The pain and grief are overwhelming. I miss her so much.
I lost my special little girl last September but I'm still heart broken. I did get 2 Yorkies 6 weeks ago but I still miss her. She helped me in dealing with MS and she kept me moving so that I couldn't give up. I had her for 15.5 years. 😢💔
My dog, almost a month ago, collapsed on the floor (after going crazy barking and jumping around when the mail carrier came) and was gone in less than 5 minutes. He was taking heart meds but other than his cough being a little worse the week prior, he was living a normal, active life. I’m glad he didn’t have some lingering illness and went into decline, but I can’t help but feel that if he were visibly ill and declining, I would have had time to prepare, to spend more quality time with him. Im still stunned and in disbelief
Lost a very special bond
in my heart Jan 2022
Unexpectedly
And then again lost
another part
of my heart April 2023
Knowing it would happen,
Didnt make it any better
Now I Have
my sweet one boy left,
He also lost, all he knew.
Thank you Dr.Becker,
I lost my best friend Rocky ,
Three months ago.
Thank you both for sharing your heart concerning grief! When my cat Linus passed I was devastated! Grief is difficult for everyone! Luckily I found both of you on my journey! The Wolfies Wish cards have been very helpful! Also I have been able to understand my grief a bit better just from this interview! Thanks again ladies for all you do to help us heal our hearts! 😘
Thank you to both 🩷 I lost my baby boy Goldi (Norwich terrier) this year on March. He was 15.5 years old… I‘m still totally heartbroken and I also realized, through that video, that I’m stuck in my grief💔. Please continue to do what you do. Thank you!!💜
My BFF in the whole world passed in May. I am terribly broken and lost. I have anger because a medication took out her heart and her death was horrible. also my vet refused to give her heart meds. YEP malpractice. Had another idiot vet say she had heartworms and that the tests don't work (malpractice case number two).That guy was insane. My dog had an ECHOCARDIOGRAM 3 months prior with an internal medicine specialist. She was cleared for surgery for an infection in her neck..a pocket. There was NO infection as long as on antibiotics. YEP although rare..the meds killed her. I blame her death on big pharma and my vet that refused her meds. NO VET had ever had their license revoked for killing a pet (malpractice). Pets are property and have little value. She was in fairly good shape for her age and then we began a certain antibiotic for over 2 months and it took out her heart. All vets refuse to admit this drug did it. ALL TESTS done point to that medication. I am 1000% sure it killed her. And I am angry as hell. She had a few years left in her. And she fought to stay alive. She did NOT want to die. Seen it in her eyes. I will never move past this. EVER! Funny, the night she died at 2am..not one soul heard me screaming bloody murder. I was in a business parking lot..then in my drive..no one heard me. I could hardly speak for weeks. NOW I hate drs and I hate big pharma......lots of anger...that will never leave me. I have two more seniors and last night, one just had a fainting spell. Another heart issue. My other dog I am having a test done to check for Degenerative Myelopathy. She is dragging her back feet. I got a new dog. I really did not want one...still don't..but she's here...I wished I hadn't of. I got her for one of my dogs cause she was lonely and grieving too. I thought it would help. Everyone said it would help us both. WRONG...she hates the new dog and i am not up for this right now. Guess I am screwed now and stuck with a dog. I wasn't ready. honestly, I want to go be with my BFF.....thats where I really want to be.
I'm so sorry for how these things happened, to your BFF.
I understand how you feel about all that Vet and Med stuff
It's like we can't trust anything and there isn't any help.
The only vet I trusted was in Connecticut, smith ridge, they are holistic naturapathic vets there.
But I don't have the ability to go there any more. But I may try too.
You have the right to be angry. But take care of yourself, for BFF, remember that your sweet BFF would want you to be in a happier state, try to just love on the other two , they and you are left to remember BFF.
Hope you find some solice,
Sending blessings
That you may have the health for the two and new one and you too.
@@ZFabia2010 Thank you for your kinds words.
@@crazydoglady5 you deserve a sympathetic ear, us fur baby mom's have to stick together 💕
Gotta network, give heads up on good vets, and we need to have sopport when we need it, especially when they are ill, or when they cross
the rainbow bridge.
We want them to stay
Soo Soo much
I truly know
@@ZFabia2010 you are right. Its bad enough losing them no matter what but the anger along with it..intensifies that hurt. I am looking for a new vet. Hard to find a good one anywhere. dont even want to go to any the way I feel. BUT I have to...
@@ZFabia2010 lso the reason i didnt want anymore dogs...cant trust the medial system not to kill my dogs.
I lost my wife this year and my service animal is getting really old. Sad sad time even thinking about it. 😂
❤🌈🐾
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