How to "Deal With" Difficult Students

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  • @anastasiae.9110
    @anastasiae.9110 3 роки тому +118

    There is always that one student that stirs up the rest of them

  • @AGDinCA
    @AGDinCA 2 роки тому +44

    I deeply appreciate how you "see" students. You see them as people, deserving respect while also keeping them to account. This approach truly helps students reach their potential and fosters self-pride, yet encourages them to ever raise their bar.

  • @jeannelle_
    @jeannelle_ 3 роки тому +54

    Omg, I needed this! I’m so used to teaching preschool - elementary students. This is the first time I’m teaching middle school and I have no idea how to handle behavior 😭 saving this

  • @ShainaCampbell-gj4sl
    @ShainaCampbell-gj4sl 6 місяців тому +4

    You're one of the best ones I've met so far. You don't speak like you've never had the experience and you are straight to the point.

  • @kathy6937
    @kathy6937 3 роки тому +59

    I love your approach to teaching. I can tell that you really care about your students💛

  • @jonelya
    @jonelya 6 місяців тому +5

    4:39 Remove emotions as much as possible from yourself
    7:10 consequence ladder

  • @GiannaMarie212
    @GiannaMarie212 22 дні тому

    This was so helpful as a first year middle school teacher so blessed I found your channel! You are an inspiration!!

  • @KathleenKeenan-h8l
    @KathleenKeenan-h8l Рік тому +1

    Thank you for the tips and The Highlighted numbers. I agree, we need to monitor ourselves and our behaviors as well.

  • @drearroyo1229
    @drearroyo1229 3 роки тому +8

    These are fantastic tips that even as a veteran teacher I need to remember. I really appreciate this video.

  • @sunshineboo235
    @sunshineboo235 3 роки тому +17

    I am a young teacher and I am currently working with upper elementary/ middle/ and high school students with little experience in those age groups. My studies reflected elementary-level pedagogy. I have noticed significant strides in approaching and confronting with a neutral and clear mindset has greatly helped me build students’ trust at an exponential rate.

  • @JuliaR.Tyquiengco
    @JuliaR.Tyquiengco 2 місяці тому +1

    Thanks for your video! This will apply for elementary students as well! ❤

  • @MarchionessDarby62
    @MarchionessDarby62 3 роки тому +8

    Great tips! I also treat every day as a new one - maybe a student and I had words, but I will treat him/her exactly the same the next day, as if nothing happened. That shows consistency, and it shows that you’re not trying to target that student. It helps to calm things down.

  • @Keitamulopoofficielle
    @Keitamulopoofficielle 2 місяці тому

    I used to teach a bunch of those students. I agree with you. Knowing what to say and how to say it is crucial!

  • @halliebensinger7805
    @halliebensinger7805 2 роки тому +3

    Love your approach. Don't be too hard on folks who use the term "deal with". I don't think it is used with disrespect intended. It is a common coloquilism, especially in the south. "Deal with" infers how do I "work with" or "manage", etc.

  • @TheGamePlanEduSolutions
    @TheGamePlanEduSolutions 3 роки тому +6

    You explained how to deal with difficult students really well! Thanks for the great points about being mindful. I completely agree that students react in response to how WE react. Teachers definitely hold more influence and control in their students' behavior (by controlling their own approach first!) than they sometimes realize. Thank you for sharing your insight!

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  3 роки тому +1

      Exactly! Well said. Thank you for taking the time to comment!

  • @briana_gadberry
    @briana_gadberry 3 роки тому +6

    Can you PLEASE do a classroom tour and first year teacher must haves??

  • @JJ-nn9de
    @JJ-nn9de 3 роки тому +9

    I just completed student teaching and my "challenging" children (jr. high) were my favorites! I have a fear of calling home to communicate concerns. My parents (I wasn't the type to get in trouble) would get crazy angry for everything: ex- getting screamed at while asking for homework help and/or hit. It makes me so hesitant to reach out for fear of getting students screamed at or beat (it is very hard not to project).

    • @mariaguild2024
      @mariaguild2024 Рік тому

      Yes that is the "ultimate" last resort for me!

  • @Nipun_Chauhan
    @Nipun_Chauhan Рік тому +1

    This seems actually helpful. Thank you, Amanda !!!

  • @rossb7899
    @rossb7899 Рік тому

    This video was fantastic! I’ll definitely use these tips in my high school classes.

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  Рік тому +1

      I'm so glad you found it helpful

  • @lordprosser
    @lordprosser 2 роки тому +1

    I really dig your video and I used some of the approaches with a troublesome class today. 1) favouring peace over control 2) giving a role to someone who keeps talking 3)not being too personal. The class enjoyed the lesson. Many thanks Rodney

  • @myrojyn
    @myrojyn 2 роки тому +1

    I am a substitute teacher so this is a good reminder!

  • @aishaheart1
    @aishaheart1 3 роки тому +1

    Good channel!!!! Gonna definitely use the consequence ladder in my future job as a teacher.

  • @etynathalie8637
    @etynathalie8637 6 місяців тому

    So interesting! Many thanks for sharing these useful tips!!

  • @sergioespitia7847
    @sergioespitia7847 2 роки тому

    Absolutely helpful. Unfortunately, there are many times that Ss agree to make the class more difficult.

  • @DayTrripperr
    @DayTrripperr 2 роки тому

    I am going to be a secondary earth science teacher in about 1.5 years. Your channel really helps me feel prepared.

  • @created2bless322
    @created2bless322 Рік тому

    Yes, many great tips! I've done some before especially moving close to someone being disruptive or just looking at them briefly, sometimes they just want to be acknowledged. I work at a school based in a shelter for children. There are challenging situations and sometimes kids just refuse to do their work. It is my job to engage them but sometimes they just need a breather/space. Thank you, just found you and subscribed

  • @askban9318
    @askban9318 Рік тому

    Very excellent ideas, miss thank you very much.

  • @chloewebb335
    @chloewebb335 2 роки тому +2

    This is great thank you!!

  • @RJN8580
    @RJN8580 2 роки тому

    Thanks!! I’m transitioning to Middle School 🏫 next August.

  • @alicelindborg5096
    @alicelindborg5096 Рік тому +1

    Needed to hear the one about assumptions. As a sub, though, a heads up with constructive suggestions about how to deal or not with a student is helpful. The best was the peace or control comment. Thank you!

  • @eeyore539
    @eeyore539 Рік тому

    This is very good advice, thank you!

  • @marissapeoples8799
    @marissapeoples8799 Рік тому +4

    What if while you’re addressing one student, 5 more are doing something else to cause issues

  • @sk42178
    @sk42178 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your approach to teach. By the way, where did you get your floral top? It's so pretty and goods on you.

  • @halcarson6213
    @halcarson6213 2 роки тому +1

    I really wish my teachers growing up had seen this video and followed this advice. As a kid I was a weird mix of way too smart, too "mature" for my age (read: traumatized), socially undeveloped, and ADHD with issues with authority and following rules...with parents that put a world of pressure on me for being a math prodigy. I learned how to control my behavior more by highschool, but in elementary school this one teacher would make me sit apart from the rest of the class, punish me for correcting her by giving me extra work, talked to the classroom about how I was "special" with me in the room, forced me to wear plain jeans and a plain shirt despite there not being a uniform, and frequently giving me 0s on assignments for "no reason" (perceived rudeness). All in all it sucked. I hope that today more teachers are following advice like you give. I found this video because I am homeschooling my little brother who is ADHD, addicted to video games, procrastinates, always does the bare minimum (usually less), and has problems with authority. I have an easier time with it than my parents bc I understand some of the issues, but it can still be difficult to get him to work without getting in a fight. Thank you, hopefully I can apply some aspects of these, though I don't have a classroom setting or a school system framework.

    • @mariaguild2024
      @mariaguild2024 Рік тому

      Ooof..you were "correcting" your teacher? ..you're brave lol

    • @aimeeanderson9258
      @aimeeanderson9258 Рік тому

      My cousin w ADHD & Asburgers (sp?) Worked out a system w/ his profs where he recorded their mistakes in a notebook and discussed his concerns after class! He now has his PhD and is a college prof himself!!!!
      Annnd, now I teach 10th grade at a school where the children really struggle academically ...and I come home to my own brilliant 8 yr old son... with ADHD, Autism, and authority issues... my challenges feel unrelenting. 😮

  • @tomover9905
    @tomover9905 2 роки тому

    Impressive presentation, Amanda. Thank you

  • @teresitagayapa2797
    @teresitagayapa2797 2 роки тому

    thank you for sharing ,your so kind @ very well explanation

  • @marcelasandoval7741
    @marcelasandoval7741 3 роки тому

    Thanks so much for your recommendations teacher. Seeing you from 🇨🇴 Colombia. 🌻

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  3 роки тому

      Wow that's awesome! Hello!

  • @Emily-df9dk
    @Emily-df9dk 2 роки тому

    I’m definitely dealing with culture shock. I was all honors Englisb until AP was available, but I’m teaching CP, where two out of my nearly eighty students got an A on their EOC last year, and most failed.
    I have to remember how I felt in math class in high school.

  • @lecarsan7611
    @lecarsan7611 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @tilahun321
    @tilahun321 3 роки тому

    Thanks! excellent model for teachers!

  • @StaceySummers-k9e
    @StaceySummers-k9e Рік тому

    Wow, amazing video!

  • @irvg.9307
    @irvg.9307 3 роки тому

    Love the transparency!

  • @slimk8744
    @slimk8744 Рік тому

    Thanks, Amanda, it helped me a lot. i must also say, you are so beautiful

  • @RollandElliott-t3z
    @RollandElliott-t3z Рік тому +3

    1. be mindful of behavior.
    Teachers can escalate the behavior.
    how to descalate the situation.
    Have a consequence ladder
    kicking student out of classroom
    they will hold onto grudge
    2. address them in private with post it note
    tone matters. address the entire classroom.
    calling a kid out gets them
    3. reach out with prior teacher or current one to help
    4. dont' make assumptions about student
    6. consequences for behavior, not academics
    7. do not be tough with one kid to make a point
    with entire classroom.
    8 call parents

    • @npguru
      @npguru 8 днів тому

      None of this works with illegal Hispanic students

  • @shea5542
    @shea5542 2 роки тому

    Good advice. Thank you.

  • @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
    @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 роки тому

    Interesting deal with vs teach to

  • @trainingaccount7528
    @trainingaccount7528 2 роки тому

    Intelligence and beauty - blessed

  • @taniagonzalez4064
    @taniagonzalez4064 3 роки тому +2

    How do you ideal with students who are really behind (I teach english in a private school) parent sometimes think that just because they pay , kids deserve a high grade. Some of the kids who are behind is because they just don't go to school not connect to their online classes.

  • @dannywinters2905
    @dannywinters2905 5 місяців тому

    Good video thank you!

  • @clau_sing_
    @clau_sing_ 3 роки тому +2

    very useful advice ! ^^

  • @kayleegoff141
    @kayleegoff141 3 роки тому

    My instructor that I had for music in the curriculum and he would give me his students blank slate because the instructor said you might of experience being penalized for other students mistakes from the other music teacher’s, band directors and marching band directors.

  • @emeldabonilla7529
    @emeldabonilla7529 3 роки тому +15

    Any tips for virtual teaching? Sometimes it’s so hard to build relationships online

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  3 роки тому +1

      Hey! I recently posted this video. ua-cam.com/video/A39QLRbgaSg/v-deo.html Hopefully it's helpful but for sure building relationships remotely is HARD

  • @vickymoore7852
    @vickymoore7852 3 роки тому +1

    Thank You

  • @ladylablab0529
    @ladylablab0529 3 роки тому

    hey teacher thnks for this awesome video. Do have a video for online teaching?

  • @irishchristinealvaran6033
    @irishchristinealvaran6033 2 роки тому

    Hello maam,new subscriber here! I love your approach to teaching ...❤❤❤

  • @MisterMehaiel
    @MisterMehaiel 3 роки тому

    Love this !!

  • @ramelsuyom1274
    @ramelsuyom1274 2 роки тому

    Hi I'm from Philippines can you make a vlog about interviews for teacher ... So that we can also an idea it's my first time to watch your videos, I'm interested about certain topic...

  • @ladylablab0529
    @ladylablab0529 3 роки тому

    thank you teacher..

  • @amymcneal6180
    @amymcneal6180 2 роки тому +1

    This is a very informative and well done video.

  • @lisamarie5882
    @lisamarie5882 Рік тому

    We’ve got one that completely ruins it for the rest of the class, which is not fair to them.

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  Рік тому

      Very true, it happens but....it's just the nature of the classroom and students, not every single one of them will always listen and follow directions but we do our best and we do whatever we can...

  • @kimmiller605
    @kimmiller605 2 роки тому

    Yes mine is the same

  • @leannetattrie278
    @leannetattrie278 3 роки тому

    Love!!!

  • @li.li.775
    @li.li.775 6 місяців тому

    How about how to handle student who don't want to talk during recitation?

  • @Sugari52
    @Sugari52 2 роки тому

    Topic starts at 3:54

  • @يوسفكريم-خ4ب
    @يوسفكريم-خ4ب 3 роки тому +1

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  • @sarasalgado8574
    @sarasalgado8574 3 роки тому

    Amazing content!

  • @JoanneKaravara
    @JoanneKaravara 2 місяці тому +1

    I need great help with my difficult students

  • @KathleenKeenan-h8l
    @KathleenKeenan-h8l Рік тому +1

    ,Have you created a video re: "How a SUBSTITUTE teachs difficult students' There is only day to day no month to gain trust disrespect is high

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  Рік тому +1

      AHHHH that's a great idea for a video that definitely requires a different approach

  • @junydamaris
    @junydamaris 9 місяців тому +1

    I don’t believe all these are applicable to elementary 3rd grade, right? Down for respect and keeping your cool but these 8,9,10 years old are tough. I have three that distract all the time and me going to them and pulling them to the side and speaking to them is not realistic. If I do this the rest will go bonkers

    • @amandaros3
      @amandaros3  9 місяців тому +1

      Your comment completely makes sense, and not sure how it would apply in an elementary school classroom. My career has been 7-12, so my lens for advice is definitely going to be different compared to elementary school.

    • @npguru
      @npguru 8 днів тому

      And when 6 gang up on you

  • @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382
    @parentingbeyondbehaviours6382 2 роки тому

    How about a student who has difficulty…..

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 Рік тому

      Even students can have teachers who is hard to please. That I can understand but this video would have to be about teachers that have to deal with troubled students. There are times a teacher will say to the student figure it out instead of helping them.
      The older the student gets, they take studying seriously. Maybe what this video is about is for teacher who is dealing with kindergarden students or elementary school students since at that age, they don't have a goal in mind of studying. I am sure what that means is maybe the student might be autistic and had not yet made it to college. I mean those are a group of students who is very young and not even ready to study and has no goal. I agree, even students can have difficult time with professors. There are times that students try to best to please their teacher but that teacher might be a hard ass to please. So maybe this video might be for teachers who does not do grading and maybe those students are not teens nor adults yet. This video is most likely for teachers who is dealing with troubled students. Maybe the teacher is dealing with students who is not willing to learn.

  • @jeannedigennaro6484
    @jeannedigennaro6484 2 місяці тому

    Some teachers are too negative. And power struggles are usually won by the children. Kids have to want to be in class and learning. We have to try and help them to change their attitude.