The sweetest people often carry the toughest burdens. She’s very lucky that she has a partner that truly cares about her and wants to help her through her anxieties.
Weirdly enough i find the reverse comfort audios more comforting than the other ones because i can't imagine a better feeling than making someone else feel better
Honestly, when I feel bad, I solve the root cause of the issue. The comfort audios just annoy me because it just isn’t how I want to approach my problems
6:10 to anyone who doesn't understand. It is a common therapy technique to ask someone to point out 5 physical things they see and 5 things they hear to help them stay grounded in reality.
Awww, she's so precious! I want to protect her, hold her and tell her everything is all right. I went through something similar so I can relate, makes me all the more want to hold her close and help her through everything!
I remember coming home one day from school to an empty house. Our WiFi was taken because we were getting a new one, so I couldn’t call anyone. And this is when I was in a phase where I was worried every time my parents left me alone at the house. So that mixed with no note on the door and not being able to call made me start to freak out. I cried and cried thinking that my family abandoned me. But after a short while, my dad came through the door and I hugged him, still crying. I never felt so relieved in my life. This is a very accurate representation of that moment.
As someone who has had abandonment issues my whole life and still is suffering from it, this really hits home for me. I can't describe how many times I've panicked calling my friends and my past exes begging for them to not leave me. I've lost too many people that I care about, and I really appreciate videos like this. It helps me know that I'm not alone, and the acting is superb. Thank you so much for this.
I will walk through the fires of eternity, crawl through the depths of Taurturaus, and battle with Hades himself to ensure that this smol bean never feels an ounce of pain ever again.
*Artisan&Gloomy gives you a hug to comfort and reassure you. He regret his actions and changes his feelings to never go back the way he was. He now cares and worries of you.*
Me in a nutshell. Afraid that everyone will leave, and every friend I have will suddenly hate me. Afraid that everyone is lying, even the most trustworthy friends. Whenever my last SO had talked to a group of friends I was afraid that I would forgotten. As toxic as that sounds… I was forgotten.
She really needs a big hug filled with love and deserves all your love. ❤️ She is honestly a keeper. 😊 She is worried about you because she loves you very much, and because of her precious boyfriend. 🥰
"Cause its always raining inside my head Forget all the things I should have said" - Staind I like how you captured her guilt at feeling these feelings, at admitting she felt them at all. My mental health is good, but this reminds me of whenever it isnt.
I can't believe I didn't listen to you before! This is so sweet, I'm glad to finally listen to this. I love the emotion, how real it feels, especially how accurate it feels when you have abandonment issues.
Babe we'll get throught this together. *holds her close* when i said i love you i meant it and knew what i was getting myself into. I love you so much even when you worry to much. Your very special to me ❤
Poor bean such kind and innocent should not be hurt or feel a burden to others. Remember all living beings deserves a better life. To quote Peter Cullen the voice of Optimus prime: be strong enough to be gentle.
When i have a girlfriend like her i would do anything for her to be safe and that she won't worry so much like i would reply to her massages when i have enough power of my phone and if i see her crying in front of me i would hug her immidiatly and comfort her
Listening to this.... it made me feel "OK. Someone fucked up in your past, and now we're here to resolve it. I can't do that, but I can be here as you get the help to do so."
@@LapideVoice Another thought that crossed me but felt a bit rude to admit to thinking was "OK, whose luggage is this?" But that's one of those thoughts that should stay just that; thoughts. Right?
@@LapideVoice thank you for confirming what I already figured. :) Luckily, I've never had to wonder this about a SO's situation, and even if I may do, yeah... never gonna say that!
I didn't listen to the complete video till now and saved it for later , just read the 'reverse comfort' and saw the thumbnail and tears started lurking out from my eyes . Now , I'm going for classes, I hope I can control myself for 4-5 hrs
@@LapideVoice No no , it wasn't that bad that you have to feel sorry . I thought you were asking jokingly so I replied in a sarcastic way too. I mean yeah it was true that I cried during my classes but it wasn't bad, it feels nice sometimes when we cry so if anything then I just want to say thank you for this awesome content rather than make you apologise 😔
Huh? No no i mean the over worrying/panicking bit. I havent had a significant other abandon me, like sometimes when a long while passes without hearing from my girlfriend i'll get worried, deep down i know shes fine but still worry, ya know?@@LapideVoice
Unfortunately, I do suffer from abandonment issues due to losing friends and being left out of shit a lot. I have someone I care about who tends to me since I’m a bit possessive of her and clingy as fuck which she doesn’t mind. I try to let her be herself and just do what she wants since as much as I want her around me 24/7, she’s still human. I wish I didn’t have these issues that cause me to get possessive but fuck it. Such is life I guess.
Its good that you are aware and are trying to keep your friend in her worth while acknowledging your needs. Im no therapist, but it at least sounds like you know yourself decently well
@@LapideVoice I do know myself quite well, that much I know for sure. I also know my friend very well and she is understanding of my personality and insecurities. The same way I am understanding to her insecurities and personality since she and I have some things we’ve suffered through that were similar. I just know that one thing I love to have is her company at any moment, and the affection she loves giving is something I love to receive from her. I do try my best to help her while making sure I talk to her about my struggles and needs since I know I’m meeting her needs as much as she also wants to meet my needs. She just needs a good role model since her parents are garbage at being parents, she also needed a good friend too. I also needed a friend, as well as required help for my mental health issues and she gave me that help. So honestly, I owe her a lot.
Hey, im sorry okay, im sorry for what i do to you. Actually i want to tell you that im fine,but my phone died. Now, i promise to not do that again, and i will be here for you. When ever you need me. I promise...*hold her tight,and make her comfort*
I hate how word for word this sounds exactly like me. Is this a bad thing to be scared people will just abandon me. I don’t want to sound controlling but I’m scared of people leaving me and i wish people like me for me
Of course u can show it first, a common complaint among women in relationships is that their man isn't being vulnerable enough around them so she starts to feel shut out of his life
The sweetest people often carry the toughest burdens. She’s very lucky that she has a partner that truly cares about her and wants to help her through her anxieties.
Yeah she is... and I've heard that saying before. Idk how true it is
Let’s just eat a cheeseburger and boogie down and we’ll all cheer up 🧌
Yes, a truer statement has never been said.
Love ❤
@@LapideVoiceit’s true as hell. look at me
Weirdly enough i find the reverse comfort audios more comforting than the other ones because i can't imagine a better feeling than making someone else feel better
I can completely relate
Honestly, when I feel bad, I solve the root cause of the issue. The comfort audios just annoy me because it just isn’t how I want to approach my problems
I just can’t imagine someone else comforting me
@@SombreroGuy2.0 right ? It feels wrong somehow
Whenever im comforted, it feels fake even when I know its sincere, so when im the one comforting, it just feels better
Sounds like someone who needs a massive hug .*Sent while hugging a pillow*
Awww thats so sweet! Id hug you but euh... *taps phone glass* kinda hard
You're literally me
Took the words right out of my mouth bro lol
@@LapideVoicelol same here
6:10 to anyone who doesn't understand.
It is a common therapy technique to ask someone to point out 5 physical things they see and 5 things they hear to help them stay grounded in reality.
Yeah its what i learned in therapy too and i found it works a lot! I want ppl around me to learn of it too
Isn’t it called “The Grounding Technique”?
@@AlexRodriguez-g9fit is. I used it before, it helps.
The fact that someone is waiting for me,there is someone who needs me and is dependent on me this truly is the only reason i like reverse asmr so much
That makes a lot of sense!
Awww, she's so precious! I want to protect her, hold her and tell her everything is all right. I went through something similar so I can relate, makes me all the more want to hold her close and help her through everything!
I am glad that this video was able to move you as much as it did!
she's so real for this
real
Yep, right in the feels. And really kind of relatable.
Thats a good or a bad thing?
@@LapideVoice for you and the audio it's a good thing.
@@xaphan_fallen_angel thats good to hear!
I remember coming home one day from school to an empty house. Our WiFi was taken because we were getting a new one, so I couldn’t call anyone. And this is when I was in a phase where I was worried every time my parents left me alone at the house. So that mixed with no note on the door and not being able to call made me start to freak out. I cried and cried thinking that my family abandoned me. But after a short while, my dad came through the door and I hugged him, still crying. I never felt so relieved in my life.
This is a very accurate representation of that moment.
I am so sorry you went through that..
@ I was going through a phase
Plus, I went through worse.
As someone who has had abandonment issues my whole life and still is suffering from it, this really hits home for me. I can't describe how many times I've panicked calling my friends and my past exes begging for them to not leave me. I've lost too many people that I care about, and I really appreciate videos like this. It helps me know that I'm not alone, and the acting is superb. Thank you so much for this.
I am glad you managed to get some comfort from this video
I accidentally pressed to another asmr video and never before i been so mad for 1 second XD
This video is too adorable.
Oh oops...
The desperation in your voice when you said “I missed you” broke my heart.
Oh i hope itll heal soon!
@@LapideVoice, I’m that scared person you portray here.
I will walk through the fires of eternity, crawl through the depths of Taurturaus, and battle with Hades himself to ensure that this smol bean never feels an ounce of pain ever again.
Must protect bean!
“I’m not good enough “
*sprays you with spray bottle
You knock that off
LMAO that is one way to do it
Having Someone To Hold What A Dream🤗
*Artisan&Gloomy gives you a hug to comfort and reassure you. He regret his actions and changes his feelings to never go back the way he was. He now cares and worries of you.*
Aww, that's so sweet! She would love that
Me in a nutshell.
Afraid that everyone will leave, and every friend I have will suddenly hate me.
Afraid that everyone is lying, even the most trustworthy friends.
Whenever my last SO had talked to a group of friends I was afraid that I would forgotten. As toxic as that sounds… I was forgotten.
Im sorry you went through that
I hope you’re doing better now :(
She really needs a big hug filled with love and deserves all your love. ❤️
She is honestly a keeper. 😊
She is worried about you because she loves you very much, and because of her precious boyfriend. 🥰
Yes she is definitelly a sweetheart
"Cause its always raining inside my head
Forget all the things I should have said" - Staind
I like how you captured her guilt at feeling these feelings, at admitting she felt them at all.
My mental health is good, but this reminds me of whenever it isnt.
Yeah i recognize that...
This was wonderful. I struggle with abandonment as well and it has been a real problem. I'm a lot better but it still gets to me some times.
Thats okay! I hopw it getz better
Omigosh your accent is adorable!!! Love it, keep up the good work.
Thank you! Glad you like it
I can't believe I didn't listen to you before! This is so sweet, I'm glad to finally listen to this. I love the emotion, how real it feels, especially how accurate it feels when you have abandonment issues.
Oh hi there!
I am glad to hear you enjoyed it! It was indeed rather realistic, I'm really proud of the writing and the acting in this one
Ok, now I wanna give the girl in the drawing a hug. She needs one fr.
Yes she does
@@LapideVoice (thinking) …
(Holds arms out) Come here.
This is probably the most amazing audio I've listened to it made my heart ache so much when you cried you are amazing ❤❤
Thank you so much for the kind words they mean the world to me!
Babe we'll get throught this together. *holds her close* when i said i love you i meant it and knew what i was getting myself into. I love you so much even when you worry to much. Your very special to me ❤
... this is exactly the response i imagine the listener having lets goooo! That means i did my job ^^
this was the only crying asmr i could find
i dont usually watch these kinds of videos but i needed crying asmr to help me cry
0:00 "hey. uhm.. dababy?"
There's just something in my eye. If this happened irl with me, I'd be smothering them in kisses, cuddles, smores and hot cocoa
Aww! Thats so sweet
YEP we are sleeping feeling loved tonight
Whoo!
Poor bean such kind and innocent should not be hurt or feel a burden to others. Remember all living beings deserves a better life. To quote Peter Cullen the voice of Optimus prime: be strong enough to be gentle.
I really like that quote. I will definitelly keep it in mind!
the character in this video seems like a good girlfriend
WAAAAA I WANNA JUST HOLD YOU WTF YOUR ACTING IS SO GOOD I FELT SO BAD 💜💚💜💚💜💚
I am so sorry! It didnt mean to make you feel bad!
@@LapideVoice nah you're good don't worry! It just shows how good of a job you did :)
@@SuperSilver7591 i am glad it wasnt too bad
omgg 😭😭😭 this was so good and you did a wonderful job on this
When i have a girlfriend like her i would do anything for her to be safe and that she won't worry so much like i would reply to her massages when i have enough power of my phone and if i see her crying in front of me i would hug her immidiatly and comfort her
Aww that is so sweet!
@@LapideVoice what can i say for a bf that cares about they're loved ones is a spacial present that anyone could ask for
Listening to this.... it made me feel "OK. Someone fucked up in your past, and now we're here to resolve it. I can't do that, but I can be here as you get the help to do so."
That is exactly what you should do in such a situation
@@LapideVoice Another thought that crossed me but felt a bit rude to admit to thinking was "OK, whose luggage is this?" But that's one of those thoughts that should stay just that; thoughts. Right?
@@Withernall those are indeed thoughts to keep to one self
@@LapideVoice thank you for confirming what I already figured. :) Luckily, I've never had to wonder this about a SO's situation, and even if I may do, yeah... never gonna say that!
I cant thug it out anymore 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥
I didn't listen to the complete video till now and saved it for later , just read the 'reverse comfort' and saw the thumbnail and tears started lurking out from my eyes . Now , I'm going for classes, I hope I can control myself for 4-5 hrs
Ok I lost my control
Oops... hopefully not the bad type
@@LapideVoice Yup, it was the bad type, I lost my control and started crying that day (what did you think ?🤔)
@@SatyamKumar-pv1yq i didnt know hence asking. And im sorry to hear that...
@@LapideVoice No no , it wasn't that bad that you have to feel sorry . I thought you were asking jokingly so I replied in a sarcastic way too. I mean yeah it was true that I cried during my classes but it wasn't bad, it feels nice sometimes when we cry so if anything then I just want to say thank you for this awesome content rather than make you apologise 😔
This audio sounds great❤❤❤❤
Yay, thank you!
Not me physically wrapping my self around ye
Because the brain is spicy... both of em
Also i dun goofed and all teh protect
That would be very sweet
my bloodline ends with me fr... 🗣🗣
🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
If thats your wish
This was a interesting audio😔.
have a nice day and take care
Thank you! You too!
Need to comfort the precocious bean
Must protect!
Wise hen once said: “Absence makes the heart grow fonder!”
yes, that is true
I wish sm1 could care for me this much and vice versa
One day for sure
This is very relatable
Oh my... im sorry
Huh? No no i mean the over worrying/panicking bit. I havent had a significant other abandon me, like sometimes when a long while passes without hearing from my girlfriend i'll get worried, deep down i know shes fine but still worry, ya know?@@LapideVoice
@@Coreyphillips1 oh i get that now. Yeah makes sense
I love both of them equally but regular comfort I love a bit more cause I love being cared for
fair enough! it is really nice
I smell dutch , still an awsome audio keep up the work
Your sense of smell is good, glad you liked it
💚 Aye, anytime you need I'll be there.
I hope things are going alright with you irl, Lapide.
Oh Irl I'm great! I am about to go on camp so hyped for that!
@@LapideVoice oh, have fun on your camping trip. 😊
@@ArceusZer035 Thanks!
sending virtual hugs
sent
I appreciate them but luckily its all acting and im okay
I'm at my lowest rn frfr💀😭
Same
I smell dutch
Great audio btw
Yeah i am dutch ^^
Oh no, I'm so sorry! I should have paid more attention to my phone's battery!!!! (Goes to buy a dozen mobile chargers)
N-no no need for that!
@@LapideVoice You're right, better get two dozen, just to be on the safe side
@@mrmastaofdesasta6994 D-desasta! how would you even carry those around!?
@@LapideVoice watch me, I'll manage
My ass passed out on the couch: 🤤
LMAO
IVE GENUINELY REACHED THIS POINT IN LIFE IM NOT WINNING 🎉🎉😂😂😭😭
I mean why whine? Is it a bad thibg? XD
I always wondered what the motivation behind these types of videos is
Entertainment of others, just like any other story i make
@@LapideVoice as long as you aren't suffering irl
@@_SpectatorMode_ of course not! The inspiration of this video actually came from a friend who was in the speakers position
@@LapideVoice oh, I wouldn't know anything about how it all works so forgive my concern
@@_SpectatorMode_ no no its okay I do appreciate it ^^
Unfortunately, I do suffer from abandonment issues due to losing friends and being left out of shit a lot. I have someone I care about who tends to me since I’m a bit possessive of her and clingy as fuck which she doesn’t mind.
I try to let her be herself and just do what she wants since as much as I want her around me 24/7, she’s still human. I wish I didn’t have these issues that cause me to get possessive but fuck it.
Such is life I guess.
Its good that you are aware and are trying to keep your friend in her worth while acknowledging your needs. Im no therapist, but it at least sounds like you know yourself decently well
@@LapideVoice I do know myself quite well, that much I know for sure. I also know my friend very well and she is understanding of my personality and insecurities. The same way I am understanding to her insecurities and personality since she and I have some things we’ve suffered through that were similar.
I just know that one thing I love to have is her company at any moment, and the affection she loves giving is something I love to receive from her. I do try my best to help her while making sure I talk to her about my struggles and needs since I know I’m meeting her needs as much as she also wants to meet my needs.
She just needs a good role model since her parents are garbage at being parents, she also needed a good friend too. I also needed a friend, as well as required help for my mental health issues and she gave me that help. So honestly, I owe her a lot.
Damn bro I feel tha… well shit I’ve got abandonment issues ain’t this a hell of a way to find out
... a lot of people seem to have them
9:26 did somone get ubducted by an alien
Not that i remember..
Can’t be here, Gotham needs me, or maybe I need batman😞
Having batman is never a bad thing
Bro I was following the transcript, and in the vid, when she said, ''Thank God your here'', the transcript said ''things Cut your hair'' T_T
Yeah.. yt transcripts are not the greatest now are they.. *sighs* shame honestly
My commitment issues having ass
Ai, yeah thatll be trouble with this one
i promise i wont leave ; - ; i give big squeeze now
Awww! So sweet
I struggle with abandonment issues too
I'm sorry to hear so..
@@LapideVoice thank you
I enjoyed it
Glad to hear so
I wish sumone was this worried about me but I have Noone 😔
One day i know for sure
@LapideVoice yea sure maybe one day but I'd doubt it
@@the_one_0090 dont fear
@LapideVoice I'm not scared I'm just saying the truth it might not happen but it's fine
@@the_one_0090 i still think it could bur if you say so
No way you have bad abandonment issues me too (Talking to a fictional character off a youtube video I haven’t watched yet)
So, did it get up to expectations
@@LapideVoice Yeah great video keep up the good work
@@noomnom6099 thanks i appreciate it!
Please don't cry I'm here I'm safe *holds her gently in my arms* ssshhhhh please don't worry my phone died I'm sorry I couldn't answer ❤❤❤
Aww
This breakup got me down bad asf!!😭😂
Hmm.. I'd not call it a breakup as much as I'd call it a break down
@@LapideVoice that was good not gonna lie😂
are you from south africa? im normally good with guessing accents but I'm struggling over here.
Nope im not south african
Netherlands right?
@@nightfurmoonfang3391 yes,though technically the correct way of adressing us in english as the Dutch. Dont ask why, idk
@LapideVoice huh... actually I think I heard of that at some point
You mean the colony
@Lapide Voice do you accept scripts? and if so what would be the best way to send one to you?
I do accept custom scripts, if they arent published elsewhere as i pride myself on original content
You can email then to me at lapideva.aj@gmail.com
Hey, im sorry okay, im sorry for what i do to you. Actually i want to tell you that im fine,but my phone died. Now, i promise to not do that again, and i will be here for you. When ever you need me. I promise...*hold her tight,and make her comfort*
This is so sweet istg!
Me: ahh sweetie, I would never lose yo- that sounds cringe but doesn’t matter.
POV: you are the audio
Euh .. that aint good
@@LapideVoice it is good. To me ;-;
@@Smoke14169 if you.. say so
9:31 what is that background sound??, sounds rare like.... a roar??, maybe??
background noise for ambiance, some motor was outside and i decided it would fit!
Bro. I thought my phone died when that beeping went off in the beginning
Oops XD
I’m not much for clubbing, so when I do meet someone, I’ll be so worried for the same reasons 😕
That makes sense
I would probably pay extra extra attention for her.
Probably get her a dog.
It's 2:30 am XD
Perfect time for me to see this.
Go to bed dude its late
@@LapideVoice yeah, I had to wake up and go to airport.
First time going on a plane XD
@@mcatoz3438 hope its going well
Thanks. Hope so as well
For some reason, i was git by w question.
Do people's concentration of salt in tears differ from one another?
Idk... good question though... google also has no answers to me
Breath breath in 1 2 3 and out 3 2 1
Hey i know that trick! I use it too
@@LapideVoice huh
@@sonickountz to calm people down
@@LapideVoice yeah I like doing that what's wrong with it
Oooooooooooooh
I hate how word for word this sounds exactly like me. Is this a bad thing to be scared people will just abandon me. I don’t want to sound controlling but I’m scared of people leaving me and i wish people like me for me
❣️✨
^^
are you dutch by any chance
Yes i am
@@LapideVoice ME TOO
@@crazy_dude4230 nice ^^
i feel like im her but i cant show it first cause im a man, second im lonely as fuck, third your video was cool as fuck, felt real too...
I tried to do my best acting on it. I am glad you enjoyed it
its time to fall in love with the barbell.
Of course u can show it first, a common complaint among women in relationships is that their man isn't being vulnerable enough around them so she starts to feel shut out of his life
@@squirreldude4971 thats on the girl imo
awww u sounded a bit like bmo from adventure time in the beginning
Yeah the mic had a hiccup
Ok I'm related to this audio but I'm that listener as in 😭
Im planning on a reverse soon
@@LapideVoice How soon?😭
whenever i have time.@@squirreldude4971
Ok, I see how my actions have affected you and I’m sorry. Here, snuggle up and let me make it up to you.
Aww thats to sweet ^^
I don't wanna hear about your Ex, I am here now and I will be back in a Few Minutes *goes on to Hunt the Ex with a Sniper*
I never mentioned an ex in the video...
@@LapideVoice you said the Guy before just left and only came back to get his Clothes and stuff, before leaving
That is pretty much a Ex
@@hoshiryu oh right. Sorry im messing up videos!
@@LapideVoice don't worry *smiles* just tell me where he is now *loads Weapons*
@@hoshiryu ... euh... i never wrote that into the story... no clue
You got an accent...but i don't from which country😅
I do, and it's Dutch! I'm from the netherlands
@@LapideVoice ahh Dutch..lovely☺️
❤❤
😊
hey.... um... Dababy? 0:01
💜
^^
Ik kon gewoon de nederlands horen goeie audio tho
LMAO goed gehoord! Ik ben blij dat je het toch leuk vond
This life stuff is getting rough fellas
Yeah thats true
time to fall in love with the barbell
"Hey , where's MY kiss now, It isn't fair , I am supposed to get one too"
It was just so heartwarming 🥲🥹
It is very heartwarming yes