ASMR Flinching in Front of Your Girlfriend F4A

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  • Опубліковано 2 гру 2024

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  • @melisaamell
    @melisaamell 2 роки тому +263

    I have been experiencing violence for several years. and when someone is being nice to me ive never had that person but this kind of audios is really making me cry because ive never had that kindness from someone. and thank you so much for the audio its so cute

    • @alphawolf8503
      @alphawolf8503 2 роки тому +18

      Bro that's horrible I hope things are getting better for you

    • @jakocat666
      @jakocat666 8 місяців тому

      Ye

    • @JJ10453
      @JJ10453 28 днів тому

      hope you will find someone in the future better u dont deserve that im so sorry

  • @Akiduy
    @Akiduy 2 роки тому +305

    I'm so pathetic, man.
    I'm crying over this just because I know that I'll never get to experience it in probably forever.
    I've been single my whole life. I know I'm doing something wrong I just don't know what it is.
    I'm getting old I should be over this by now and yet here I am, still looking and listening to these audios.

    • @oceanofgaming
      @oceanofgaming 2 роки тому +70

      You are not pathetic. The right person just didnt come along yet. Better be alone than with the wrong person

    • @trackerrzz_3130
      @trackerrzz_3130 2 роки тому +21

      I think that’s where I’m heading aswell

    • @czb117
      @czb117 2 роки тому +23

      I empathize with you man. It's been over 2 years since I've been on a date, prior to that I spent several years in a relationship where it felt like nothing I did was good enough. There are days, sometimes weeks, where I feel so empty and depressed because I lack the relationship I always hoped for.
      Personally, I cope by trying to channel my energy into other things. I exercise every day, I've been learning a new language, and teaching myself computer programming. My hope is that someday with a better career my living situation will improve and maybe I'll attract the right person. It'll often feel like my goals are impossible, but I try to make myself stick to my productive habits and hobbies even on bad days.
      I don't know if you're familiar with MatPat from the game theorist channel, but I've heard him speak multiple times about how he sees life as a spectrum from content and happy to interesting. It makes a lot of sense. I've seen a lot of people who already have their career, house, spouse, etc tend to lose interest in or not have time for their former hobbies.
      So with that, my best advice to you is for this: if your life isn't happy, focus on making your life interesting.
      Sorry for the novel length comment.
      Wishing you the best.

    • @Cod6NoobMw2
      @Cod6NoobMw2 2 роки тому +8

      Damn that’s tough,

    • @Zhiel01
      @Zhiel01 2 роки тому +8

      You can do it man !

  • @bio9leader60
    @bio9leader60 Рік тому +46

    Finally, one of these that shows how easily flinching can happen after physical abuse.
    I flinch all the time for practically no reason. It doesn't need yelling, it doesn't need a tense situation, it can just be two people, cleaning a kitchen.

  • @angelofpain3890
    @angelofpain3890 2 роки тому +44

    It’s nice to hear someone say this even if it isn’t direct thank you it helps, kinda needed it today

  • @snek9041
    @snek9041 2 роки тому +817

    Snek did not flinch. Snek just was consuming innocent children's souls.

  • @lynnix524
    @lynnix524 2 роки тому +89

    videos are so nice, they dont judge you, they give you whatever u need to hear but its just a screen with sound, in the end, we got to look up from our screen, if u hv anything ur dealing with dont keep it to yourself, find someone u can talk to, if there is no one to talk to, its ok, stay strong, u got this ^v^
    sorry, take everything i said with a pinch of salt, but whoever is reading this, have a good day 😊

    • @takezolover
      @takezolover Рік тому +2

      your the sweetest person ever :(

  • @mikehoncho81
    @mikehoncho81 2 роки тому +37

    I have never heard/had this much reassurance in my whole life

  • @W04HXDD
    @W04HXDD Рік тому +23

    For anyone who sees this, just know that your loved deeply and ur very important for some people. goodbye lovely.

  • @xandyreoch8d874
    @xandyreoch8d874 Рік тому +22

    Accidentally hurt a friend in a similar situation. Ive been beaten really badly before, and one time they reached out to pat my shoulder, and something just... flipped i guess. I slapped their arm away from me wayyy too hard and broke their knuckle, at the time i didn't realise it was them, i didn't feel like i was in the room at all. All i could see was something that happened before, when i "snapped out of it" i felt really awful, they would never hurt me, but i was just really afraid

  • @neuro7594
    @neuro7594 Рік тому +9

    Man false promises are hella comforting

  • @xxxtentacion983-w8e
    @xxxtentacion983-w8e 2 роки тому +39

    Just found your channel . And your videos are amazing . Lovely audio

  • @randomtube8226
    @randomtube8226 Рік тому +31

    That's the best girlfriend ever. It saddens me that I'm too unlikable and unliveable to be able to get a girlfriend like that in my life. Nobody knows that I exist, nobody will notice me gone. I'm forever single and dying forever alone 😞

    • @TheBrokenBerserker
      @TheBrokenBerserker Рік тому +8

      I fuckin' relate to that so much man

    • @danielk5489
      @danielk5489 Рік тому +4

      You're not alone bro

    • @robertlombardo8437
      @robertlombardo8437 Рік тому +2

      Well, consider this. Every statement put into words is evidence of a speaker. That means evidence of your existence is right here.
      Don't be discouraged, even girls as nice as this are only human. You just have to put yourself out there. Take good care of yourself, fix yourself up a little at a time and she'll come.
      It took time, but it worked out for me, eventually! 😊

    • @FinalCoolerdestoysEarth
      @FinalCoolerdestoysEarth 8 місяців тому

      Real.

  • @DawnD1shsoap
    @DawnD1shsoap 2 роки тому +26

    PTSD, anxiety, crippling depression! There is no question you should kill me! I want to be with Harambe I feel like shit every day! Do it by drowning under da sea!

  • @noholorust_
    @noholorust_ 2 роки тому +35

    my daily routine is simple I wake up and suffer.

  • @ShadeeDraws
    @ShadeeDraws 2 роки тому +15

    I can't relate, I'm the cleaning freak in my couple.

  • @maiwithanak4452
    @maiwithanak4452 5 місяців тому +5

    Mai did not flinch, i was committing tax evasion, and thought you were the IRS coming for my kneecaps

  • @EvanKaminski-y1i
    @EvanKaminski-y1i 10 місяців тому +5

    Wow...here i am listening to this because im so alone and unloved... like c'mon how pathetic is this im just laying here and crying my eyes out because I'm never gonna experience this

  • @SWAGBOYRETARD
    @SWAGBOYRETARD 2 роки тому +42

    i relate to this a lot

    • @ev2560
      @ev2560 2 роки тому +6

      Sorry to hear that

    • @thyOG
      @thyOG 2 роки тому +3

      That's tough to hear I hope that you are doing well

    • @huddyshoodie8246
      @huddyshoodie8246 2 роки тому +2

      i’m sorry about that

    • @Kanine80yt
      @Kanine80yt 2 роки тому +2

      I don’t think that’s a good thing

    • @goose4469
      @goose4469 2 роки тому +4

      You forgot to go to the lake today, your sin is duly noted

  • @ShadeSerpent
    @ShadeSerpent 2 роки тому +13

    Don't try and tell me this isn't my first time with you, Loralie. Because it is.

  • @jameshilton3769
    @jameshilton3769 Рік тому +2

    I flinch away from being touched on my face, on my chest, and on my back, that's where my stepmother placed the hate

  • @fushi5940
    @fushi5940 Рік тому +6

    I used to have a friend that would slap me for fun randomly for 5 years. Thankfully now I have better friends but have been left with a crazy flinch whenever someone moves their arm towards me. Just laugh it off before you get laughed at for it.

  • @L4DN_VN
    @L4DN_VN Рік тому +1

    I would really need a girl like her

  • @jlh357
    @jlh357 2 роки тому +8

    I was straight up tweakin

  • @venomizedtoothless474
    @venomizedtoothless474 Рік тому +6

    I live in a household with a sibling who always wants to fight so I think it'd be normal for me to flinch so no big deal

  • @ogjellydragon7908
    @ogjellydragon7908 2 роки тому +42

    I would never date someone who would like someone like me.

    • @Dibious
      @Dibious 2 роки тому +2

      ?

    • @scorpyio8187
      @scorpyio8187 2 роки тому

      ??

    • @ogjellydragon7908
      @ogjellydragon7908 2 роки тому +3

      Basically whoever would want to date me is blind or crazy

    • @Dibious
      @Dibious 2 роки тому +2

      @@ogjellydragon7908 Why's that? What's so bad about you that anyone that loves you is either blind or crazy?

    • @ogjellydragon7908
      @ogjellydragon7908 2 роки тому +6

      @@Dibious
      I swear every time I look in the mirror my reflection runs away. I'm so ugly my birth certificate is just an apology and don't get me started on my nose

  • @kitty_drug8860
    @kitty_drug8860 2 роки тому +7

    Trauma REHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE

  • @Stxrs11x
    @Stxrs11x Рік тому +1

    Man this really making me question alot of things......

  • @kabbakam
    @kabbakam 2 роки тому +7

    im so lonely

  • @Cheese12098
    @Cheese12098 11 місяців тому +6

    Cheese approved

    • @Cheese12098
      @Cheese12098 11 місяців тому +1

      And cheese did not flinch cuz cheese

    • @pandaboss6116
      @pandaboss6116 28 днів тому

      You are. Cheez

  • @Goose_Goose-ge1we
    @Goose_Goose-ge1we 2 місяці тому

    This is great but damn.. how far have I fallen to find myself here.

  • @Ace-Trix
    @Ace-Trix Рік тому +1

    This is prob my biggest fear I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m scared of being hit and it’s a big nightmare of mine

  • @thisisyourbannedaccount9882
    @thisisyourbannedaccount9882 Рік тому +2

    4:55 to 4:58

  • @ethanphillips6399
    @ethanphillips6399 2 роки тому +18

    I have had really abusive relationship's

    • @airclean6585
      @airclean6585 2 роки тому +17

      Sorry to here that, I’ll be praying for you Ethan

    • @DawnD1shsoap
      @DawnD1shsoap 2 роки тому +1

      I’ve had some too

  • @Noursinette_
    @Noursinette_ Рік тому +3

    2:24 here where the drama starts

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 Рік тому +6

    Alright, boys. Lets take a drink for every "hey!" and wake up in the hospital like the Chads we are.

  • @jameshilton3769
    @jameshilton3769 Рік тому

    I flinch really bad

  • @drummernorrason
    @drummernorrason 9 місяців тому

    Is it weird that ive never been abused but flinch when ever someone swings or puts their hands near my side of face

  • @bill6
    @bill6 2 роки тому +10

    👑

  • @Fritzinq
    @Fritzinq Рік тому

    I can’t find any for childhood trauma man. All I got was an abusive stepdad

  • @-Lucifer__
    @-Lucifer__ 2 роки тому +3

    👋

  • @Synthetic94
    @Synthetic94 Рік тому +3

    Maybe I'm in the minority here, but the initial fuss would just make me feel worse. That alone would probably force me to freak out over it.

    • @nickabstract6774
      @nickabstract6774 Рік тому

      Yeah, but this is for comfort purposes. Irl I would have to distance myself for a bit

    • @Synthetic94
      @Synthetic94 Рік тому

      @@nickabstract6774 I hear ya. Honestly I don't think this conversation would ever have a chance. The loud, annoying, and demanding tone in the initial fuss was just turn me away so fast.

  • @Freckles_Boyfriend00
    @Freckles_Boyfriend00 8 місяців тому

    😊

  • @Ilikeboys12223
    @Ilikeboys12223 Рік тому

    why does she sound like haily from tmf from @rosyclosy