I have been experiencing violence for several years. and when someone is being nice to me ive never had that person but this kind of audios is really making me cry because ive never had that kindness from someone. and thank you so much for the audio its so cute
I'm so pathetic, man. I'm crying over this just because I know that I'll never get to experience it in probably forever. I've been single my whole life. I know I'm doing something wrong I just don't know what it is. I'm getting old I should be over this by now and yet here I am, still looking and listening to these audios.
I empathize with you man. It's been over 2 years since I've been on a date, prior to that I spent several years in a relationship where it felt like nothing I did was good enough. There are days, sometimes weeks, where I feel so empty and depressed because I lack the relationship I always hoped for. Personally, I cope by trying to channel my energy into other things. I exercise every day, I've been learning a new language, and teaching myself computer programming. My hope is that someday with a better career my living situation will improve and maybe I'll attract the right person. It'll often feel like my goals are impossible, but I try to make myself stick to my productive habits and hobbies even on bad days. I don't know if you're familiar with MatPat from the game theorist channel, but I've heard him speak multiple times about how he sees life as a spectrum from content and happy to interesting. It makes a lot of sense. I've seen a lot of people who already have their career, house, spouse, etc tend to lose interest in or not have time for their former hobbies. So with that, my best advice to you is for this: if your life isn't happy, focus on making your life interesting. Sorry for the novel length comment. Wishing you the best.
Finally, one of these that shows how easily flinching can happen after physical abuse. I flinch all the time for practically no reason. It doesn't need yelling, it doesn't need a tense situation, it can just be two people, cleaning a kitchen.
videos are so nice, they dont judge you, they give you whatever u need to hear but its just a screen with sound, in the end, we got to look up from our screen, if u hv anything ur dealing with dont keep it to yourself, find someone u can talk to, if there is no one to talk to, its ok, stay strong, u got this ^v^ sorry, take everything i said with a pinch of salt, but whoever is reading this, have a good day 😊
Accidentally hurt a friend in a similar situation. Ive been beaten really badly before, and one time they reached out to pat my shoulder, and something just... flipped i guess. I slapped their arm away from me wayyy too hard and broke their knuckle, at the time i didn't realise it was them, i didn't feel like i was in the room at all. All i could see was something that happened before, when i "snapped out of it" i felt really awful, they would never hurt me, but i was just really afraid
That's the best girlfriend ever. It saddens me that I'm too unlikable and unliveable to be able to get a girlfriend like that in my life. Nobody knows that I exist, nobody will notice me gone. I'm forever single and dying forever alone 😞
Well, consider this. Every statement put into words is evidence of a speaker. That means evidence of your existence is right here. Don't be discouraged, even girls as nice as this are only human. You just have to put yourself out there. Take good care of yourself, fix yourself up a little at a time and she'll come. It took time, but it worked out for me, eventually! 😊
PTSD, anxiety, crippling depression! There is no question you should kill me! I want to be with Harambe I feel like shit every day! Do it by drowning under da sea!
Wow...here i am listening to this because im so alone and unloved... like c'mon how pathetic is this im just laying here and crying my eyes out because I'm never gonna experience this
I used to have a friend that would slap me for fun randomly for 5 years. Thankfully now I have better friends but have been left with a crazy flinch whenever someone moves their arm towards me. Just laugh it off before you get laughed at for it.
@@Dibious I swear every time I look in the mirror my reflection runs away. I'm so ugly my birth certificate is just an apology and don't get me started on my nose
@@nickabstract6774 I hear ya. Honestly I don't think this conversation would ever have a chance. The loud, annoying, and demanding tone in the initial fuss was just turn me away so fast.
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I have been experiencing violence for several years. and when someone is being nice to me ive never had that person but this kind of audios is really making me cry because ive never had that kindness from someone. and thank you so much for the audio its so cute
Bro that's horrible I hope things are getting better for you
Ye
hope you will find someone in the future better u dont deserve that im so sorry
Snek did not flinch. Snek just was consuming innocent children's souls.
Fellow friend hello
@@lilmeowmeow1515 hi
Relatable
hello fellow cat
@@たかし-n3c ヽ( ᐖゞ)
I'm so pathetic, man.
I'm crying over this just because I know that I'll never get to experience it in probably forever.
I've been single my whole life. I know I'm doing something wrong I just don't know what it is.
I'm getting old I should be over this by now and yet here I am, still looking and listening to these audios.
You are not pathetic. The right person just didnt come along yet. Better be alone than with the wrong person
I think that’s where I’m heading aswell
I empathize with you man. It's been over 2 years since I've been on a date, prior to that I spent several years in a relationship where it felt like nothing I did was good enough. There are days, sometimes weeks, where I feel so empty and depressed because I lack the relationship I always hoped for.
Personally, I cope by trying to channel my energy into other things. I exercise every day, I've been learning a new language, and teaching myself computer programming. My hope is that someday with a better career my living situation will improve and maybe I'll attract the right person. It'll often feel like my goals are impossible, but I try to make myself stick to my productive habits and hobbies even on bad days.
I don't know if you're familiar with MatPat from the game theorist channel, but I've heard him speak multiple times about how he sees life as a spectrum from content and happy to interesting. It makes a lot of sense. I've seen a lot of people who already have their career, house, spouse, etc tend to lose interest in or not have time for their former hobbies.
So with that, my best advice to you is for this: if your life isn't happy, focus on making your life interesting.
Sorry for the novel length comment.
Wishing you the best.
Damn that’s tough,
You can do it man !
I have never heard/had this much reassurance in my whole life
It’s nice to hear someone say this even if it isn’t direct thank you it helps, kinda needed it today
Finally, one of these that shows how easily flinching can happen after physical abuse.
I flinch all the time for practically no reason. It doesn't need yelling, it doesn't need a tense situation, it can just be two people, cleaning a kitchen.
videos are so nice, they dont judge you, they give you whatever u need to hear but its just a screen with sound, in the end, we got to look up from our screen, if u hv anything ur dealing with dont keep it to yourself, find someone u can talk to, if there is no one to talk to, its ok, stay strong, u got this ^v^
sorry, take everything i said with a pinch of salt, but whoever is reading this, have a good day 😊
your the sweetest person ever :(
For anyone who sees this, just know that your loved deeply and ur very important for some people. goodbye lovely.
Man false promises are hella comforting
Accidentally hurt a friend in a similar situation. Ive been beaten really badly before, and one time they reached out to pat my shoulder, and something just... flipped i guess. I slapped their arm away from me wayyy too hard and broke their knuckle, at the time i didn't realise it was them, i didn't feel like i was in the room at all. All i could see was something that happened before, when i "snapped out of it" i felt really awful, they would never hurt me, but i was just really afraid
That's the best girlfriend ever. It saddens me that I'm too unlikable and unliveable to be able to get a girlfriend like that in my life. Nobody knows that I exist, nobody will notice me gone. I'm forever single and dying forever alone 😞
I fuckin' relate to that so much man
You're not alone bro
Well, consider this. Every statement put into words is evidence of a speaker. That means evidence of your existence is right here.
Don't be discouraged, even girls as nice as this are only human. You just have to put yourself out there. Take good care of yourself, fix yourself up a little at a time and she'll come.
It took time, but it worked out for me, eventually! 😊
Real.
PTSD, anxiety, crippling depression! There is no question you should kill me! I want to be with Harambe I feel like shit every day! Do it by drowning under da sea!
Harambe? A man of culture i see
Just found your channel . And your videos are amazing . Lovely audio
my daily routine is simple I wake up and suffer.
Practically the same for me (most of the time, really...) :') Help...
Same. My life feels like one big punishment.
Same here bro
Mai did not flinch, i was committing tax evasion, and thought you were the IRS coming for my kneecaps
I can't relate, I'm the cleaning freak in my couple.
i relate to this a lot
Sorry to hear that
That's tough to hear I hope that you are doing well
i’m sorry about that
I don’t think that’s a good thing
You forgot to go to the lake today, your sin is duly noted
Wow...here i am listening to this because im so alone and unloved... like c'mon how pathetic is this im just laying here and crying my eyes out because I'm never gonna experience this
I flinch away from being touched on my face, on my chest, and on my back, that's where my stepmother placed the hate
I used to have a friend that would slap me for fun randomly for 5 years. Thankfully now I have better friends but have been left with a crazy flinch whenever someone moves their arm towards me. Just laugh it off before you get laughed at for it.
I'd take those slaps for you:)
I would never date someone who would like someone like me.
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Basically whoever would want to date me is blind or crazy
@@ogjellydragon7908 Why's that? What's so bad about you that anyone that loves you is either blind or crazy?
@@Dibious
I swear every time I look in the mirror my reflection runs away. I'm so ugly my birth certificate is just an apology and don't get me started on my nose
I would really need a girl like her
I was straight up tweakin
Don't try and tell me this isn't my first time with you, Loralie. Because it is.
I live in a household with a sibling who always wants to fight so I think it'd be normal for me to flinch so no big deal
Trauma REHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE
This is great but damn.. how far have I fallen to find myself here.
Alright, boys. Lets take a drink for every "hey!" and wake up in the hospital like the Chads we are.
This is prob my biggest fear I’ve never been in a relationship and I’m scared of being hit and it’s a big nightmare of mine
Man this really making me question alot of things......
Cheese approved
And cheese did not flinch cuz cheese
You are. Cheez
Is it weird that ive never been abused but flinch when ever someone swings or puts their hands near my side of face
im so lonely
I flinch really bad
I have had really abusive relationship's
Sorry to here that, I’ll be praying for you Ethan
I’ve had some too
I can’t find any for childhood trauma man. All I got was an abusive stepdad
Maybe I'm in the minority here, but the initial fuss would just make me feel worse. That alone would probably force me to freak out over it.
Yeah, but this is for comfort purposes. Irl I would have to distance myself for a bit
@@nickabstract6774 I hear ya. Honestly I don't think this conversation would ever have a chance. The loud, annoying, and demanding tone in the initial fuss was just turn me away so fast.
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4:55 to 4:58
Thankyou.
2:24 here where the drama starts
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why does she sound like haily from tmf from @rosyclosy