Mother nearly RUINS MY VACATION by not BOOKING MY FLIGHT like she PROMISED - Reddit Podcast
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0:00 Entitled nearly ruins my trip to New York City, putting off booking my flight ticket she was offering as a gift, forcing me to desperately buy a last-minute flight. (u/Mkheir01)
4:17 My friend is upset that I got engaged before she did, and now she is being very resentful because of this. (u/kaninpelle)
7:12 Am I the Jerk for giving my son’s room to my grandchild? Because my son is furious with me, claiming that I am trying to erase him from the family. (u/DriveNo648)
10:34 Am I the Jerk for not wearing the wedding dress that my step sister made, since it looks awful and isn’t to the specifications that I wanted? (u/ThrwayStepSisDress)
14:42 Am I the Jerk for refusing to help out my dad’s wife with her newborn baby? (u/Virtual_Credit_9458)
18:32 An Entitled Karen goes on a long, insulting rant about my art work, not knowing that she was in reality making fun of my home. (u/TheRosyGhost)
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Story 1: “How ungrateful of you to take matters into your own hands after I not follow through with my word!” NTA. Never rely on that empty care package again. Horrible woman.
Story 1: Lesson learned: Never trust parents who are entitled.
Story 2: If the boyfriend hasn't asked to marry her after 5 years of their relationship, and at least three years of this man dodging actually asking her to marry him it's a pretty good indication that he's not rushing to get married, or not get married specifically to her, and he's using her as a placeholder until he finds the one he actually does want to marry.
Story 4: Sounds more like OP's dad's girlfriend was trying to sabotage OP. She didn't communicate with OP, didn't show updates, didn't show OP the progress, didn't listen to OP's requests regarding her wedding gown, and sized up the dress dramatically. It sounds less like "slapping it together at the last minute" to me, and more like she actively tried to sabotage OP's day. Especially given that she had made ball gowns prior to offering to make the wedding dress. She clearly knows how to cut and sow gowns, so to size up the gown several inches is an active choice, not an accident. As for her making a completely different dress to what was requested and agreed upon, it makes far more sense if it's sabotage compared to putting it off until the last minute.
On the third story about the son's bedroom. Before I let the story finish, op, first it's YOUR Home not your son's house, he is acting like a child, he is a grow man and needs to act like it. You make that room up for the baby. Congratulations on the first Grandchild.
Story 2 sounds like she not your best friend. She's bitter about the fact that her relationship is failure and taking it out on you because yours is going foward.If she is your best friend she would be happy for you right now. She needs leave that zero.
Before I let the fourth story finish, op, it is YOUR Wedding and NO ONE ELSE'S. If she didn't make the dress the way you wanted, then you Have the right to get the Dress you want.
Story 3: the sun is just being an entitled and immature little man child. He's a grown-ass adult who doesn't even live with his parents anymore meaning he doesn't even need the room anymore. He really needs to just grow up and move on.
Story 5: the way I see it it's not the original poster's baby so it's not their responsibility. If the stepmom and the dad couldn't take care of the kid well then they really shouldn't have had that kid. But I also have to ask where is the dad why isn't he helping to take care of his own kid?
Could speak to the stepmom in waiting and open up about the baby mums house
Story #1: my money says that mom was low-key trying to sabotage OP's trip, because reasons.
I hate entitled people
Me too. Entitled people are assholes!
Story 2 - If her boyfriend is smart he will NEVER propose. And if she keeps pushing He should leave Her.
Story 3 - He's overreacting on the "erase him from the family" part, but other than that I fully agree with him you should not be giving away his room like that.
Story 4 - It's your wedding. It's your dress. You wear whatever dress you want. If you want to get married in lingerie go ahead and do it. If you want to get married jeans and boots go ahead and do it. Nobody has a say in the matter except you and the man you're marrying.
Story 5 - Absolutely NTA. His kid is NOT your responsibility in ANY way. If you don't want to deal with their kid you don't have to.
Do you understand that the son in Story 3 is a grown man who no longer lives at home? That room isn't 'his' anymore. It's now a room in his PARENT'S HOUSE.
@@mstb2023 Exactly. Yes, it can make one sad when a part of our long-ago life changes and things won't be the same as we remember anymore, but if it's not your home, you don't get to decide what happens to it or how it's used. Time marches on and things change. Son is off base with his attitude. If there are mementos there that he would like to have, he should ask for them to be put aside for him, but other than that, he needs to accept the situation.
On the fourth story again, op your father and his girlfriend CROSSED THE LINE. I would block them until all of them GROW UP.
On the fifth story, op you are NOT the jerk at all. Your dad is a DISGUSTING piece of CRAP. It's his and his wife's job to take care of the baby, NOT yours or your siblings job.
On the last story, op, that karen is BAT CRAP CRAZY.
Don't put your plans on other people's hands
Wedding dress step-sister had best get her current attitude out of her system before she starts trying to sell custom dresses for a living. Not doing things the way customers want is going to end up with her not getting paid or maybe even getting sued. I have a sneaking suspicion that step-mom had something to do with this as well, possibly suggesting to her daughter things that she would have liked to have on her dress or just things she knew OP wouldn't like. I also think step-sister dawdled on getting the dress to OP on purpose, thinking that OP wouldn't have time to get another dress in time.
Wedding dress story: Zoey is in for a rude awakening if she doesn’t listen to her brides and just does what she wants to in designing their wedding dress. She obviously has a lot of growing up to do and has a lot to learn about the service industry.
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Story 1. Never depend on anyone else to book a flight.
Story 4: I'm wondering if the woman making the dress made something that was not only her style but also designed to fit her and not OP.
Story 1: Ok, whats the mom's deal here? It's almost like she did all of this on purpose so that the OP couldnt go. There is a difference between being lazy and procrastinating and just trying to sabotage someone. I think its clear the mom was trying to sabotage this trip, and for no good reason. The OP is right, the mom has absolutely nothing to be grateful for and i can see why the OP is still mad about this. If that were me, i would limit contact over the way the mom was acting.
Story 2: The OP's "friend" here is a major drama queen here. Talk about being very jealous and having sour grapes. I can almost see why the friends bf hasnt propsed....with the way she's acting to someone else getting engaged. If she doesn't smarten up, i say don't invite her to your wedding, she could cause some issues.
Story 3: Not the jerk at all. Brad moved out 3 years ago, and didnt care for the room to begin with... so why is he getting all up tight here? He's just being an over-grown man-child here and really needs to both shut up and grow up.
Story 4: No way is the OP a jerk. Anyone that is either upset at the OP or on Zoe's side here shouldve been uninvited to the wedding and probably should limit contact with. Now, while i'm sure that Zoe did a decent job on desigining and creating that dress, she did a ton of things wrong. She didnt make the correct size, the wrong design, didn't update the OP in any way shape or form.... so how on earth could she possibly expect the OP to wear it on her wedding. The OP even offered to pay her for the work her did, and Zoe declined, so she has no right to be on the 'verge of tears' here. OP has absolutely nothing to feel bad about here.
Story 5: OP is by no means a jerk here, but the dad is and majorly. I know if i were the OP, i would be wanting to get away from this household and ASAP. OP had every right to not want to be involved in the life of the new baby here, as cold as it may sound, but he doesn't. The dad clearly doesnt care about the OP and his siblings, so why should the OP care about the new family he wants to create?
Story 6: Honestly, i would've told this Karen to screw off. In situations like this, i 100% condone nasty vulgar language directed at someone.
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Book your own flight
Blud called her dress stuiped is crazy
Its weird that Zoie didn’t give Op any updates, but from the sound of it seems Stella told her not to, just to ruin the wedding in some way
Very possible.
On the first story, your mother almost cost you your plane. I don't blame you for doing it for yourself.
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Step-mommy wanting help with her baby from OP is barking up the wrong tree. He owes her nothing. If she can't handle her own kid, she shouldn't have had one. She can try to get help from her pathetic excuse of a husband, but it's doubtful she'll get any more help from him than OP and his siblings got when their mom was dying and daddy was out catting around. He's probably doing the same to her right now, because that's what cheaters do, they keep cheating. If OP or his siblings want a relationship with the baby, that's fine, but step-mom should not be trying to get any of them involved in her issues. And it's most likely that if OP continues to refuse and moves out asap, she'll be trying to get the next oldest sibling to take over her childcare responsibilities. OP should warn his siblings about this.
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The wedding dress is basically the op step sister wants to ruin the op wedding. And the op step sister wanted to take over the op wedding and make it here's. And the story where op dad cheated on op mom. No one like his new family since it is op dad redo family.
Zoe’s taken over 😂
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Why did Emma get pregnant if the relationship was that bad parents clearly playing favourite and the son has a point
Mule muffins. She was engaged to the daddy. How horrible of an engaged couple to make a baby, lol. The guy might have seemed stand-up before and maybe he started freaking out when the reality of being a parent really hit him. We don't know how long things had been bad in the relationship. It could have been a recent downturn.
And no, son doesn't have a point. His is the only bedroom not currently actively in use, plus OP said he only visits and stays over about 10 days a year. He doesn't need a dedicated room when visiting so little and there will be someone soon who does. Things change and he needs to get over it.
Story 1 sounds similar to me my "father" promised me a train HO scale locomotive csx waited until Christmas to buy it myself back in 2019 for 200$ moral of the story don't make promises you can't keep.
So is she saying the child is his I thought was Ricky’s
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That story is one that everone sucks , the op for not including Brad in the discussion and Brad acting like that when told his room was being used for the baby,
It feels like if he’s acting like this its more like the Op his mother isn’t telling us much other that he had a messy room
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Before I let the second story finish, op she is NOT a friend at all, if she acts like that. Her boyfriend is not going to propose to her at all, it sounds like her boyfriend does not want to get married at all.
Why doesn’t he speak to the step mom and include her suspicions as a result of his actions how can he say she’s siding with the sister ??
OP mother sounds like she didn’t want OP to on this trip mostly likely op mum didn’t like band the place op and op mates going to. Even op made easy for to book the flight. Then I do it when I’m ready thinking they hold tickets for her. Because she getting someone fight they be grateful. Your mother just want going the trip on her tram
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You don't get to lay claim to square footage in your parents home.Grow up! Mom your doing the right thing!
Story 3: both are wrong... Emma might be in a bad spot now.. but shouldn't be planning on relying on her parents long enough that the baby will need its own room.... That's waaay too long
I agree both are wrong. Emma is being prioritized over the other kids for a relationship she willingly got into. They should only help her out temporarily. My sister was in a similar relationship, we all helped her get away gave her somewhere to live and later on a family friend provided housing. In the end she got back with the abusive guy and had a second kid with him. Helping people in those situations often enables them to continue making bad decisions
Regardless, the son doesn't own the room - the parents do. If the parents wanted to turn it into a yoga room, a theater room, a sex dungeon, that's their right because it's THEIR HOUSE. If they want to allow THEIR DAUGHTER AND GRANDCHILD to stay FOREVER, that's their right. It's THEIR HOUSE. Both are not wrong. The son is wrong. He has no say in it and is being childish and selfish.
how are the parents in the fault when he moved out long ago and is a grown ass adult who doesn't even come home at least 10 nights a year. The parents can do anything they want with that room it's not his house anymore, he doesn't live there. He is just being childish. And also the baby would need a room even if they only stayed for a month
@hin0 how would a fucking baby need its own room for a month? 🤣 the baby sleeps near the mom for the first year or so anyways
@mstb2023 yes I agree its their right to do so, but it's not being fair to the other kids and will likely not turn out well to reward their daughter with 2 rooms for doing the wrong thing in the first place
Story number 5 I disagree. I think OP is a little bit of the jerk. Even he doesn't feel connected to that baby, that baby is innocent. I think it's totally reasonable to ignore the dad and the step mom, but completely ignoring your half sibling is wrong. That child should be loved by everyone in the family even if you don't like how he showed up in the world. It isn't his fault that his parents are assholes! I can understand not wanting to support the Stepmom in helping take care of the baby, but I think still visiting and getting to know the baby and making the baby feel loved is important. There has to be a better balance that would give you boundaries against the parents but also make the child feel supported in loved.
if he or the siblings don't love the baby it's their choice. Yes it's not the child's fault but it's also not his right to be loved just bc. I also have a " half " siblings whom I absolutely do not like and refuse to interact or acknowledge. We are also humans with our own feelings and we are entitled to our own emotions
Agreed
The son should be there for his half siblings like a family
If he want to get revenge on stepmom and father he can get his revenge easily by being there for his half sibling and telling his little sibling the truth how his father and stepmom were so disgusting
Not by leaving your sibling
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