If You Get OBSESSED When You Like Someone, WATCH THIS!
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- Опубліковано 30 чер 2024
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The energy of obsession is a very repellent energy. It literally is repelling love, it is repelling connection, and it is repelling that which you want. So in this video, I'm gonna show you how to stop obsessing, how to stop sending someone energy that they can feel that then repels them and has them walk away and leaning back, and I'm gonna show you how to heal this from the inside out so that you can be in your own frame, you can feel 100% worthy, whole, and complete and not need or necessarily want their approval.
You're able to actually connect with them at a deep level that is authentic and attractive. So the first thing we need to learn about this and we need to understand is what is obsession and why is that obsessive energy there? Now, first off, let me say that anything we really, really want, anything we really, really think about, we are really, really sending energy. And the energy of obsession is that of worry.
Worry. The energy of worry is this anxiety, it is this negative, it's almost like, imagine like the way reality works is you get more of what you focus on. And by focusing on obsession or having an obsession with someone else, there's this underlying current of worry of what if things don't go right? What if things go wrong? And what is happening is that energy, 'cause remember, especially in relationships, people are attracted to other people based on energy. And if we are harboring the energy of worry, of wondering if they're gonna call us back, of wondering what they're doing, of sending them that energy, they are feeling that and it is literally projecting them to then do something else, go away, and not actually connect in an authentic level.
And one of the main things about this is that obsessive energy and that energy of worry is in a way somewhat manipulative. Because think about it, what I'm saying is I want your energy. I want you to be this way with me. And it's like people feel that and they go, ooh. It's almost like the cup's not already full. Now, I had to shed this pattern. Even back in high school, I remember this one time, I'll share this story I don't think I've ever shared before, but many of you know the story of seven to 15 years old, I wasn't allowed to, if you've been watching my videos, but I had the ex-stepmom in my life where my brother and I had no freedom.
We weren't allowed to have friends, we weren't allowed to watch TV. We were normally just doing yard work and stuff like that. At 15 years old, my dad divorced her, and finally, and when he divorced her, my brother and I had all this freedom.
We were allowed to have friends, we were allowed to go to school activities, we were allowed to connect with people. So I didn't really start connecting with people 'til I was about 15, 16 years old at all. Like, literally if someone wanted to hang out at school, I had to make up an excuse because I knew I wasn't allowed to.
So I had my first girlfriend around 18 years old, 17 or 18 years old, and as I was starting to date, because I was allowed to, I was very socially awkward because I didn't know how to really connect with people because I never was allowed to growing up.
And when I was in this energy, there was this one girl that I was dating, or not even dating,
just, we were flirting, and I was first off learning like what that was like. And I was like, oh, I
just like her, you know? And what happened is we got each other's phone number. Nothing really happened, it was just mildly flirting.
Got each other's phone number. I then went on this camping trip with that of my brother and someone else that was like a family friend. I go on this camping trip and I just wanted to call her. So what I did is I called her, but she didn't pick up. Well, I assumed that because I'm on this camping trip it must be that I don't have reception, so I called her again. I called her again, and I called her again.
And I literally called her probably 20 times within an hour. But I just thought maybe that the connection wasn't going through. But I remember I then created this whole story in my head, this whole narrative in my head, and after that, I remember going to school three, four days later after the weekend, and it was like we weren't even, there was like, it was weird, obviously.
Because it wasn't that my phone was not getting reception. It was that literally I was calling her 15 times and it's fricking weird. And I look back at that and I can clearly see that obsessive energy, that energy of worry, not only is it repelling because you're sending energy, but it's just pretty creepy, you know, from a certain perspective.
And that's because I was wanting something from her. She could feel that, I was wanting her approval, I was wanting her validation. - Розваги
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@@waelfaraj6705 what does it mean ?
if you treat someone like a celebrity they'll treat you like a fan ✨
"If I am getting attracted to an emotionally unavailable person then I am emotionally unavailable for me" ..Thank you...
Before one gets into a relationship with anyone, or also before manifesting a SP, one should really reflect on one's own behaviour, actions and most of all interpretations. The way one interprets things is crucial. And never forget that everyone is you pushed out. Be true and open, but also smart about your own stuff. And love unconditionally and not needy. Only then you can manifest your SP successfully and also keep them! 💖
Your commnt is very interesting that is what I was thinking, wouldnt what Aaron teach be against manifesting an sp?
Because how cn you manifest an sp if you dnt want or dnt imagine yourself being with that persn?
@@Agape122 OK. So what is the whole meaning, we play games our complete life, and act and never be ourself and show our fears or worries?
@@mirceatim3274 I dnt understand your comment
@@Agape122 you attract what you are. Visualizing is the old paradigm. It can work but you have to be in a higher frequency. If you are in a lower frequency, it's obsession and repelling, all the things Aaron is talking about. If you focus on yourself instead, the universe can reflect back to you what's on the inside- love for the self- therefore love from another can physically manifest. The universe is a mirror. That's what the law of attraction is- the law of mirroring. That's why visualizing and imagining being with them already is taught- it is meant to inspire the feelings you WOULD feel IF you were in that reality now (so the new reality can then be physically reflected back to you). But it's harder to accomplish this way. That's why the new teaching is to focus on yourself, your own heart, your own love. Same thing, different route, much easier to accomplish because the old way, for most people (myself included) is more likely to take you out of the vibration of love. Aaron's soulmate meditation works wonders. I met someone after listening to it for a week, I didn't even know what I really wanted until I met this person, they continue to blow me away. And all the mediation does it connect you to your own heart. Personally, I think it is the healthier way because once you get that person, you're more likely to not push them away. Because then you won't rely on them to love you. When you love you, they will too. It's not about what you deserve but what you learn. We are here to learn to love. Mostly ourselves, for that's how we can cultivate the most powerful kind of love, the kind of love that changes the world.
@@Agape122 you can have a desire, but give up the needing and wanting so much. Instead love unconditionally and know that you are a magnet. 😊 Of course on can manifest am SP, but without worry, anxiety and obsessing over the person or the manifestation. 😊 I think what Aaron says doesn't go against manifesting an SP either. 😊
Obsession is the main sign of love addiction. If it's addiction you can't just shut it off by wishing it away. Try the 12 steps of you can't stop.
You can obsess over someone without acting on it and it will drive them crazy for you. Constant thinking of another will cause them to do the same in return.
the ego creates desire, then desire creates attachments and attachments create obsessions. underlying every obsession is the ego's desperate attempt to get control of a person, concept, outcome or thing because it views that thing as the gateway to human happiness. but in reality the thing itself is not doing this; it is your mental concept of that thing that provides the pay-off, that keeps you addicted to the pursuit and therefore imprisoned in your own mind. attachments can only shift between pleasure and pain; they do not operate on the same energetic field as true, lasting happiness. in reality it is more likely to cause suffering because the more pleasure we experience from the pay-offs, the more pain our bodies and psyches create to maintain homeostasis. happiness is a choice we have to make every day from the seat of consciousness. nothing and no one will show up one day and make the decision for you.
Very true
Watching this as I’m healed now… or at least 90% healed as I don’t believe we are ever fully healed… I just can’t believe I used to live my life like this and with such obsessive energy. Watching this now shows me how far I’ve come 🥰 I can relate to it all, but thankfully I’m not living it anymore
What did you do to heal?
I knew you were gonna say, if you want obsession to go away, you need to be in the present moment aka stay!
Yep. Every. Single. Guy. That I come across and know they are interested in me...they immedieately act disinterested and start to friendzone me. Because I waffle like a girl in early high school except I'm 30. This video could have not come at a better time. Thank you Aaron. I only discovered freedom as my 20s ended.
Ever female i talk to wants me until i tell them im interested. And they pursued me first..
I used your attract love meditation for 30 days and i stopped obssesion
Gotta love the universal devine timing. Ive felt like crap last 2 weeks and biggest was the feeling that in 35 yrs never been chosen first by someone or been their first choice. I had a brain wave that its becuase I haven never chosen myself then as soon as I pulled out my phone this video came up
Definitely anxious attachment here.thanks for articulating the energy behind obsession and brining clarity.
I think I got myself being obsessive from watching Korean dramas. They always end up with their first love, first boyfriend, or anyone who's first. So, when I grew up, I thought I will also end up with my first. but NO. it made me obsessed with them with that thought.
This is a lot of good info! People just need to take a minute to actually listen to what you have to say. Youre not like those other "motivational youtubers", This is some real life energy advice
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This video is for me, I have no idea why it happens but it's uncomfortable for me to experience. And I've noticed that repulsion which sucks because I actually want a healthy relationship with the person.
i just went over this today with a client--yes! I used Eckhart Tolle's "Pain Body" to describe this, but I love Aaron's possible explanation regarding emotional availability and parenting. So true. ❤
As within , so without...
You attract that which is like your chosen energy frequency through intentions , thoughts , feelings, and actions
Most of it is subconscious isn't it?
It is said that the subconscious mind is 90 or 95 percent of our minds but remember that your conscious mind does plant the thoughts , ideas and beliefs into your subconscious mind to accept as the conscious mind acts like a gate or a door to filter those beliefs first ...
Couldn't relate more, as an emotionally unavailable person, I always attracted emotionally unavailable guys. When emotionally available guys, expressed their love to me, it kinda scared me away.
Thinking about it, all my healthy and long term relationships were like a tennis practice. You shoot, they shoot back. It just flows. Sometimes you're not responsive, they don't overreact, they just stay who they are. Sometimes they are not responsive, you do the same, knowing it is temporary and you let them be. Arguments do occur, you freely let out your emotions and manifest your authentic self, you don't act overly nice. Of course you make your point in the nicest way possible so that they can understand, but you don't hide your point or seem agreeable in fear of losing them.
If one of the partners is much more emotionally invested in a relationship than the other, it is bound to become toxic. I've been on both sides, I know it very well. If you're making all the effort, it's not even a relationship but you believe it is, or you believe that one day it will be. If they are doing all the effort, you know it's not a relationship but you don't care. It is best to never get into that trap in the first place. If you just want one night stand with a person, be honest. Don't make them fall for you just to leave them soon (they'll become clingy, and they'll get hurt). If a person seems uninterested from the beginning, just leave them alone. You'll never win their attention, you'll never be able to change them. Neither should you try. When things just click and two people meet on a common ground, neither of them has to make any extra effort.
This is perfectly said. I've also been on both sides and it was exactly like this
I'm in this very weird situation where it all started very casual and then we both started catching feelings aka he directly told me he fell in love with me.. but later on told me he is emotionally unavailable not ready to be in another relationship soon (he is practically divorced and wants to focus on his projects right now) I am in love with him too and couldn’t stand the idea of getting him out of my life.. we’re kind of trying to be friends but it’s really hard, Im thinking about maybe trying to be friends with benefits again because I miss being with him so much but at the same time the anxiety of not knowing if we’re ever going to be in a relationship is killing me 😢 It is painful for me both ways, not seeing him anymore or actually being with him but being always confused on where we’re at
@@sOofiiexD Sorry to hear that but my advice is let him go. What you're going through is common, and I assume you are not a teenager and you would know this is a common thing, since you said he is practically divorced (I don't know what "practically" is). Casual needs to remain casual, if you can't keep it there it may not be for you. It will perhaps sound rude but "friends with benefits" is just a pragmatic exchange in which both people benefit each other, use each other. There is necessarily an element of selfishness, and dehumanization of the other person. Because at the end of the day you have to acknowledge that there is something you find devaluing in this person that prevents you from having a relationship with them. Being not ready is just an excuse. Staying friends ultimately depends on acknowledging this devaluing element, it is settling for less. For you to stay friends with benefits, you need to find a person a jerk, too nice for you, too simple, etc etc. You have to remain selfish. There won't be all-encompassing and non-profitable love coming out of that. In most cases it doesn't work, and the wisest thing is to not assume that you are an exception. So just don't go there, because the moment you don't see such problems with the person you hook up with, you establish deeper bonds. If it is not mutual you are in trouble. It feels like this guy was going through a phase following a chaotic marriage (perhaps). You boosted his confidence, you were a new body, he was infatuated. Then it faded. He used you, you used him. Initially at least. You should face this honestly and let it go. I know it is hard because you have developed emotions for him, and you will perhaps not listen to anyone but just keep doing what your emotions compel you to do. But the longer you keep this the more painful it will be. Let it go, you will move on and find happiness elsewhere.
“Attachment is the great fabricator of illusions; reality can be obtained only by someone who is detached. ”
― Simone Weil
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“What if it’s a form of self sabotage” 😳🤯
I used to get obsessed like this as a teenager; such tough times.
Best to learn this stuff asap
Yep, me too. Very obsessed.
I am obsessed with someone but I stopped calling them if he wants me he'll be back
Promise yourself you'll stop overthinking. 🥰
I still find myself in obsessive energy over my toxic ex and now after watching this video I can see how ridiculous it really is putting this together with everything I leaned from your letting go videos it's now easier to see how I have been . And it's not in the right place . Thanks again.
There's this guy who sends me messages every year just to ask how am i doing. and when i finally decided to take him seriously he began to disappear. lol he hasn't replied for 3 weeks already??? i've been stopping myself not to get obsessive but here i am.
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When you described you calling 20 times I found it so sweet, Like a little child to hug ❤
Yes ive been waiting for this. I needed your advice 2 years ago, well in kindergarden actually. Gotta stay busy distract the thoughts & kind of pretend you don't care-get a life! Fill your own cup-love you FIRST....its tough sometimes...bpd...im so alone. Im going back to therapy soon.-self-sabatoge YES.
I dont care if we end up working out.
Its ok if it doesnt work out between him & i.
I can love me without others validation.
I am worthy of healthy love.
I am ok without others' approval.
I get tired of obsessing. I catch myself doing it and try to refrain and distract myself. But it’s always a constant buzz in your head. Waiting to take over with vivid memories and day dreams. It’s a bit starry. Def not grounded.
This came at the right time I obsessed so much about the person I’m dating
To the *incredible person* seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Just allow grace to let it in.
This is true, I just lost my GF just becouse I was obsessed in the relationship
Mind blowing video Aaron! This has become a huge realization for me in my marriage for the last year and how it connects to all my past relationships. Both of my parents were emotionally unavailable and I constantly felt rejected. Thank you for these useful videos.
14.36 so true. being treated like a fan (or crap) when chasing someone who doesnt want you
This is me , that’s what I was doing for over 5 years unconsciously. You just opened my eyes bro. Thanks
This happens when someone is obsessing about you, too. You can feel it. Super uncomfy.
You get more of what you focus on!
People are attracted to other people based on energy!
Hi Aaron. thank you for this video. I feel so confident right now that I don't need to think that I was struggling to overcome obsession, but it's was mentally hurting me. But I know I'm worthy and I know my desire will find me when it's time.
Best part of the whole message bird flys into window out of no where 😂I hope it’s ok… distraction but godly 😂❤distraction
I swear my energy makes the perfect video from you pop up in my feed at literally the perfect time!
Wow!! This was a powerful message for me. Thanks for sharing!!
I’m really happy for you! Both you and Heather are so lovely together. Such loving and caring people 🤍🙏💟 you deserve each other (I say it in a positive way 😁)
This was RIGHT on time, as Always, Aaron💯💯💯🔥
Thank you so much for this video ! I really appreciate the openness and honesty that you speak on.
I actually started crying… thank you for this video, it really helped. Thank you so much. 💛
This video helped me so much to open my eyes on how I've been sabotaging my own self trying to find the right person after watching this help me realize to just flow and enjoy the now be happy now with out expectations
Explaining this so clearly, thankful I was guided here today.
Oh my gosh a bird literally just sat outside my window at the same time I listened to you say that a bird flew into your window! 😂
LET GO, BEING THE BEST VERSION OF ME AND BEING IN THE PRESENT MOMENT (HAVING FUN) 👏
just in time , thank you brotha . Really needed to hear this
Omg ! I so love your channel! My mom was a narcissist and I was the scapegoat she was so strict on us until my sister shot herself! We weren't allowed to have friends neither but she allowed me to get molested by her 36 year old friend when I was 14 and she told me that it was my fault if it truly happened! I got shot by my ex at 20 years old and he killed himself! My mom alienated me from my father she pushed him away and it hurted so badly! I was so afraid of being abandoned in my relationship until I healed myself! You are exactly correct Aaron! Thank you for your amazing videos! I did use to feel not good enough from my mom and dad so I seeked validation in the wrong ways but im so thankful spirit has helped me to heal! I've started speaking my truth in Hopes that it inspire others
wow you are a strong person, I'm sorry that happened to you I just subscribe to your channel my past haven't been as rough as yours but your vids are inspirational too keep speaking your truth
Beautiful home to match your beautiful soul thank you
Thanks god I clicked on this video :) Really needed those advice!
i absolutely needed to hear this today. god bless you!
This is so true Aaron! Thank you!
Man is wise af. Says some line which hit you in heart and mind at the same time
Thanks aaron, you have taught me so much that i cant thank you enough
Keep up the work 💯💯
I'm so happy and grateful that I came across this ~ hallelujah 🌟✨🌟
When that bird hit the window I took that as my sign that I Am Worthy!!! 💯❤️🙏🏾
Obsessing energy and lack of energy create a lack of reality, so hard to become whole without others' whole affirmations....
You are enough for me, I am enough for you??? how much is enough??
Being humble is this is enough and more is more, being a normal ego is never is enough nothing is enough.
So hard to be detached and free or humble.
It's okay to be or not to be, relax.
My mother, always she says that is doing the right thing but nobody says thanks, maybe its time to stop being right and start being real and easy.... because nobody wants right, and wants love, freedom, and attention.
Be that that anyone like being love, happiness, free and have attention, who dont want that?? be that.
Your freakin Awesome & Amazing!! I am so blessed to listen to your videos I am literally in tears 😭!! God Bless you & yours Aaron! Love you mucho!! 🙏🥰😊❤️😍 I cannot thank you enough for touching my life & others & teaching me as you have done millions of others !! You strongly made your mark in this World!😘
Thank you, I really needed to hear this. 🙏
I needed this today. Right on time
Thank you for the video! That t-shirt looks great! On you! ;)
Love this, thank you!
Good work Aaron! Keep it up!!
Thank you so much, really needed to hear this. Is so in time.. Thanks so much..
OMG I WISH I HAD SEEN THIS A FEW WEEKS AGO AARON I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
Love your videos, Aaron!
Thank you for this. Not dating but all the other stuff resonates!
Thank you, needed this xx
I had a similar experience..as a kid; I was isolated from outside world, and now, I truly appreciate what we get from such a trauma: or experience once we feel neutral about it: it does makes you awkward or wierd, or different..but, now, as adult, i s not too bad
This is super helpful Aaron
thank you for sharing I really felt this one
right video at the right time THANKS AARON ❤️
THANK YOU AARON!
It was a huuuuuge
bull's-eye!! :D
I am so grateful for your videos ☺️
Thank you so much...love and gratitude 🙏 🥰
I don't have any drama in my family , just do not involve with any dramatic people in the first place
Now, so many things about me make sense and become clear.
Thank you
Guess I prefer a lack of balance. I fluctuate between avoidant and anxious attachment. I like things all consuming .. for a few days .. its not out of fear or worry.. its an enjoyment of feeling apart of someone.. plugged in.. but then I need my space for awhile.. prefer my own bedroom rather than sharing one.. then like the ocean tide I flow back and want an all consuming connection .. then recede to space.. so maybe people are different Aaron and it doesn't mean I push people away
This exactly how I am too
You have such a pretty house! I love the front door!💕
I really really really appreciate this honest video. Ive been through this and granted lve always kept it to myself. I just feel sooo miserable within me. Worry lead to anxiety then anxiety lead to delusion and that lead to needing space to me completely leaving all together and the other person confused. I hate obsessive energy. Last thing l wana do is hurt the other person hence why l suffer in silence. This video really helped me put things into perspective so l can do more to improve myself
Inner 👶 Healing...super important.
Revision of the past helps too, and it is essential to living one’s best life.
🙏 for your insights.
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This was me. I meet my first bf again after 15 years this year. We dated but he broken up with me as I was obsessed n clingy. N now he just want be friends. However he was mean n defamed etc. my dad passed away when I was a baby.
Life is full of fun , walk walk walk and walk out
Amazing! Love this!
When I smell alcohol weeds something like that , I walk and walk miles away for good
Divine timing with this video. Thank you Aaron ♥️
Perfect timing for me
I mean super perfect timing
You are amazing bro.
Love u Aaron x such a wise soul x
I had Anxious Attachment style in my last relationship. Aaron,you described exactly how I felt with this issue. I.ended up so bad that he couldn't find love for me in his heart. All because I didn't value myself. It's taken two years of struggle with fixing this problem. I reckon it's from past relationships as my Parents never abandoned me in my life.
Great stuff!!!
Anxious Attachment---never heard the term but love knowing about it. Anxious Attachment = Abandonment. Genius. Excellent video today! 🔥
Do you need Therapy to get past Anxious attachments, or attachment styles because I’m afraid I might have that, I also avoid making relationships Like talking to girls/ Making new Friends because of fear or rejection and abandonment, I’m also into Spirituality and Mental heath awareness so I’m pretty familiar with the holistic approach
I learned alot from you specially this video is like a mirror to me so thank you
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Omg this is righ on time😂
I was now exactly thinking " shit I am so obssesed with that guy this has to stop it can't be good that I am imagining even the face of our future kids" 😂🤪
😂😂😂
thanku Aaron 🙂💗
Sooooo Good!!
Damn !!! I’m definitely guilty of this .