Greys Anatomy - It`s Unbearable (Cristina Yang)

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  • From Greys Anatomy Episode 4x14 - The Becoming
    CRISTINA YANG: There my sexual relationship. Preston Burke. On paper. Satisfied?
    It is not difficult sir... it is simple. Burke is not here. He's gone and he's the better for it. He's winning the Harper Avery award and being celebrated all over the world. That is not difficult. He's out there and I'm here where everything is the same. I still live in his apartment, I walk the same halls of this hospital, I wear the same scrubs. It is not difficult. This is where I chose to be. But sir, when his hand was shaking, I performed the surgeries, I kept his secrets, I nursed his pride... you know it and I know it, he knows it. He knows it and yet nowhere in that newspaper article does my name appear. I am the unseen hand to his brilliance. And yet while everything is the same it is very, very different. Now I'm lucky if I get to hold a clamp. Hahn treats me like... I was his hand and now I'm a ghost. That is not difficult... it's unbearable. Everybody is proud of him... but I'm not... I do not wish him well.

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  • @KellyLouiseYeahx
    @KellyLouiseYeahx 9 років тому +1886

    I will never understand how Sandra Oh did not win Emmys etc. every single year she was on the show. Every year, no matter what the rest of the season was like, she delivered flawless acting like this.

    • @masterprocastinator8884
      @masterprocastinator8884 6 років тому +26

      true.

    • @MJ-tz1je
      @MJ-tz1je 6 років тому +26

      Ugh and she missed out again for Killing Eve

    • @1FlyJedi
      @1FlyJedi 4 роки тому +45

      I COULD NOT have said it better. She CARRIED this show through its darkest times.

    • @HP1818
      @HP1818 3 роки тому +9

      She’s nabbing them accolades for Killing Eve. It took years but she’s finally getting her due

  • @elHEARTBREAKER
    @elHEARTBREAKER 6 років тому +994

    "I was his hand and now, I'm a ghost" that's sound writing and Sandra delivered it with perfection.

    • @mustafa-cx2fg
      @mustafa-cx2fg 4 роки тому +31

      and it was all downhill after she left the show.

  • @famuns
    @famuns 11 років тому +668

    YESS CHRISTINA... "I know everybody is proud of him but i'm not and i do not wish him well". This is the best Christina monologue of the series

    • @colamusix
      @colamusix 2 роки тому +8

      Reminded me of an actor's interview, like real interview, but I forgot whom and where.
      Q: What would you like to say to your Ex?
      A: I wish him well *smiles beautifully*
      *The interviewer sense smth off about her perfect smile*
      Q: When was the last time you lie?
      A: Just know hahaha

  • @rebeccam2176
    @rebeccam2176 4 роки тому +548

    I love how Adele is relating to this with Richard. That sigh she gave was so powerful

    • @MarissaCooperButPoor
      @MarissaCooperButPoor 3 роки тому +76

      I felt that too. There are those unspoken connections sometimes in the show that make the acting so brilliant.

  • @user-hn9fl3mx5h
    @user-hn9fl3mx5h 5 років тому +609

    I can’t explain it, but something about her saying “I do not wish him well” makes me feel better about feeling that way sometimes, even though it makes me feel kind of petty

  • @TheSurvivalChicks
    @TheSurvivalChicks Рік тому +47

    Adele’s face when Cristina said she nursed his pride. She was relating to her. 👏

  • @zenahanna2613
    @zenahanna2613 4 роки тому +205

    This hits so hard, I cried when I first watched it, she was the backbone of his surgeries for so long and she never got credit! And when he left she got treated like crap from Hahn and it’s so relatable

  • @jennifersotosegundo2409
    @jennifersotosegundo2409 9 років тому +1164

    I will NEVER forgive Burke for what he did to Cristina. He broke her.

    • @yughioASTA
      @yughioASTA 5 років тому +28

      He saved her

    • @jessjess8574
      @jessjess8574 5 років тому +51

      Facts and then each cardio person who was supposed to teach her didn’t like hann didn’t bc she hated Burke and then teddy bc Christina knew more than her plus Christina had the guy she wanted

    • @humanespresso2803
      @humanespresso2803 5 років тому +1

      tbfh same.

    • @WildGameRide
      @WildGameRide 4 роки тому +11

      @@jessjess8574 Christina did not know more than Teddy!

    • @disneyrockz12
      @disneyrockz12 4 роки тому +29

      Burke might be the love of Cristina’s life, but Cristina is destined for more greatness

  • @ClaytonGWilliams
    @ClaytonGWilliams 9 років тому +559

    This scene is SO powerful!

    • @m.odickson7498
      @m.odickson7498 9 років тому +23

      That was. I need to catch up on my GreysAnatomy. Dr Yang is one of my favorite characters.

  • @alexs7784
    @alexs7784 8 років тому +396

    Sandra Oh should have been nominated every year

  • @faderpie
    @faderpie 6 років тому +434

    The best actor on Grey's without a doubt was Sandra Oh. It blows my mind that she never got an Emmy for her work on Grey's.
    It also seems to me that after 10 seasons on the show, Cristina never loved a man like she loved Burke, not even Owen. It's a shame that he broke her because he was the only one who understood her.

    • @dinai9340
      @dinai9340 3 роки тому +32

      there is always that person you love the most, the person you do everything for, the person you compromise the most with, and that's the person who will break you the hardest. You never love anyone like that again, it's not a bad thing, it's just you learn how to protect yourself.

  • @MsGraceyGee
    @MsGraceyGee 9 років тому +198

    Sandra Oh is such a brilliant actor!

  •  10 років тому +154

    This scene is so good. What a complex and yet so believeble character Cristina is! Gonna miss her in Grey's Anatomy best times.

  • @bunixnix07
    @bunixnix07 5 років тому +69

    when her tears fell in the right moment. feels! very realistic acting! right through the heart!

  • @ericajo3310
    @ericajo3310 10 років тому +152

    I can't believe this had happened to me in real life. The unseen hand [brain] to his brilliance [success]. I couldn't resonate with this scene, with Cristina any more than I already do.

  • @MoonMoon-fx1op
    @MoonMoon-fx1op 3 роки тому +39

    What makes the scene better is the fact there's no music. Grey's is notorious with choosing the perfect song for the scene but I'm glad there wasn't any here.

  • @miriamtsionov
    @miriamtsionov 5 років тому +100

    This is the most iconic speech of Greg's anatomy

  • @Sonsajin452
    @Sonsajin452 10 років тому +76

    This was one of her best moments and it hit home

  • @bazingaisunderrated
    @bazingaisunderrated 11 років тому +47

    Her acting slays me. She's so, so good.

  • @beetiiinhoo
    @beetiiinhoo 10 років тому +87

    After 10 years ago, still turn I see this scene that happened to me. P-E-R-F-E-C-T!

  • @sunitaramakrishnan3795
    @sunitaramakrishnan3795 6 років тому +40

    every scene sandra oh does is brilliant........and she absolutely killed it in this scene

  • @joanpaulablas9541
    @joanpaulablas9541 7 років тому +51

    I love cristina yang. Powerful acting.

  • @lunarikariko981
    @lunarikariko981 2 роки тому +12

    Damn. That’s some damn good acting. How the hell she has won out of 12 Emmy noms is a shame. She deserves a win for each one!

  • @Arlyneya
    @Arlyneya 10 років тому +40

    My first favorite Cristina moment.

  • @igcgnerd
    @igcgnerd 11 років тому +38

    Best acting Sandra oh has done on this show! Emmy worthy!

  • @adobokkeumbap
    @adobokkeumbap Рік тому +8

    “i kept his secret, i nursed his pride… i was his hand and now, i’m a ghost. that’s not difficult. it’s unbearable. i know everybody is proud of him but i’m not and i do not wish him well.”
    i’m coming back to this after a year and my god, cristina was running around the hospital trying to keep his secret, almost abandoning her own career for the sake of his, even marrying him. but NOT ONCE, have i heard burke said ‘thank you’ from any surgery. his ego was too big for her. he could not accept that it was what had become of him and he probably never saw her be the same level as him until a decade later when he heard she was nominated for the harper avery.
    by the time he was doing okay, cristina was losing her identity, forgetting who she should be instead of another man’s hands.

  • @gabrielafranco4203
    @gabrielafranco4203 9 років тому +26

    Amazing scene! My favorite!

  • @sabrinabrightful8072
    @sabrinabrightful8072 2 роки тому +22

    It is in this moment that you realize it is not the man she misses, but her teacher/education

  • @payneicecold3000
    @payneicecold3000 9 років тому +204

    I think deep down she loves him more than any man she has ever loved.

    • @dkw7973
      @dkw7973 8 років тому +13

      +payneicecold3000 Yea, I believe that. Since he's her first real love

    • @connie.n9756
      @connie.n9756 8 років тому +4

      True.

    • @blackgrlfly
      @blackgrlfly 7 років тому +26

      she explicitly said to owen that she loved him more than she ever did burke

    • @payneicecold3000
      @payneicecold3000 7 років тому +9

      BlackGirlFly What's that have to do with Burke being her FIRST love. Don't worry I will wait.

    • @blackgrlfly
      @blackgrlfly 7 років тому +5

      payneicecold3000 Your comment has nothing to do with that, you stated that she loved him more than any other.

  • @nedababic8865
    @nedababic8865 2 роки тому +5

    This scene is one of the reasons why she's my favorite character Her actual sentimental speeches were always some of the best.

  • @yairyhezekiahbloom2607
    @yairyhezekiahbloom2607 10 років тому +54

    Sandrah Oh is remarkable. Love this scene.

  • @mahelalover
    @mahelalover 13 років тому +17

    This is so touching

  • @sofiasantella3418
    @sofiasantella3418 Рік тому +13

    "There, my sexual relationship, Preston Burke on paper, satisfied?"
    "I know this is difficult for you-"
    "it's not difficult, Sir, it is simple: Burke is not here, he is gone and he's the better for it, he is winning the Harper Avery award and being celebrated all over the world; that is not difficult, he's out there and I'm here, where everything is the same. I still live in his apartment, I walk the same halls of this hospital, I wear the same scrubs, even that is not difficult. This is where I am, this is where I choose to be. But Sir, when his hand was shaking I performed his surgeries, I kept his secrets, I nursed his pride; you know it, I know it and he knows it. He knows it, and yet nowhere in that newspaper article does my name appear. I am the unseen hand to his brilliance. And yet while everything is the same it's very very different: now I'm lucky if I get to hold a clamp, Hann treats me like... I was his hand and now I'm a ghost. That's not difficult, it's unbearable. I know everybody is proud of him but I'm not and I do not wish him well"
    This speech needed to be written down

    • @DavGeo21
      @DavGeo21  Рік тому +1

      It is written! But the more the merrier! :)

    • @Beautifulme1976
      @Beautifulme1976 3 місяці тому +1

      Even though I agreed with what she said I didn't feel bad for her at all.

  • @kamea4023
    @kamea4023 5 років тому +6

    Wow Christina Yang, Sandra Oh! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @sophiealenaa
    @sophiealenaa 4 роки тому +13

    This hit deep for me in a non-surgical way.

  • @hamprus20
    @hamprus20 11 років тому +10

    pure brilliance

  • @lizzyb9050
    @lizzyb9050 4 роки тому +4

    This is... pure gold.

  • @MrRaccoon92
    @MrRaccoon92 2 роки тому +10

    everytime i watch the older GA clips i couldn't fathom how it went from this quality kind of show into some very cheap kind, as what it is today..

  • @ceyoncelazarusknowles2678
    @ceyoncelazarusknowles2678 4 роки тому +9

    Yep, still makes me 😢

  • @jlynnd1616
    @jlynnd1616 Місяць тому

    One of Christina's best scenes

  • @VacantChannel
    @VacantChannel Рік тому +2

    First time I ever watched this scene, I HAD TO replay it 4, maybe 5 times. I said, "Maaaan......... Sandra Oh is just stellar."

  • @imwatchingthetube
    @imwatchingthetube 12 років тому +21

    In the episode, the nurses strike Dr. Sloan because he had one-night stands with each of them. It started to get out of hand when they refused to work with him and it impacted his ability to do surgery. The hospital's board required everyone to sign a paper listing any sexual relationships with any other hospital employee.

  • @kewchiemonster
    @kewchiemonster 2 роки тому +5

    their whole relationship was so toxic. him pushing her over and over again to do things she clearly didn’t want to do and her being so in love with him that she couldn’t speak up for herself. he asked her to marry him after a few months, not years, months. just a horrible character and i’m glad he left.

  • @jilliancaldwell8326
    @jilliancaldwell8326 5 років тому +34

    not to be dramatic but i cry everytime i watch this scene

  • @karimashraf3223
    @karimashraf3223 6 років тому +7

    Best scene

  • @VivianMonroe-gt7ny
    @VivianMonroe-gt7ny 7 місяців тому +2

    How many of us are behind the scenes while someone in higher authority takes credit for our hard work & gets paid more.

  • @janedeluxxe
    @janedeluxxe 3 роки тому +3

    POWERFUL SCENE

  • @sergiobucarey
    @sergiobucarey 10 років тому +4

    te voy a extrañar tanto, te amo cristina yang

  • @godyalphonse5860
    @godyalphonse5860 7 років тому +17

    I wish Burke would come back

  • @xomoriah1
    @xomoriah1 3 роки тому +2

    i know this exact feeling! 💔

  • @danielabraham1280
    @danielabraham1280 10 років тому +3

    my idol

  • @imaanali9705
    @imaanali9705 3 роки тому +1

    I really Do feel for Christina

  • @samihasamin5813
    @samihasamin5813 18 днів тому

    Unpopular opinion: Christina saying “I am the unseen hand to his brilliance” confuses me. Preston Burke was already great long before Christina came along. Sure, she helped him during the phase of his tremors and she deserved credit for that. But to say that she is the reason behind his brilliance makes me feel infuriated for some reason. Even when they were in a relationship I felt that she treated him like a child. I don’t know, this whole things just does not sit well with me.

  • @pg5180
    @pg5180 11 місяців тому +1

    She was right to never sacrifice herself for men again like what did that ever get her? Not even a Fucken thank you from him or a mention in his speech ?

    • @Beautifulme1976
      @Beautifulme1976 3 місяці тому

      She dated men in power for the exact reason of getting ahead.

  • @yeryang8314
    @yeryang8314 Рік тому

    burke broke her, but he was also the only man who understood her.

  • @lakshmiprabha2404
    @lakshmiprabha2404 8 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jash2527
    @jash2527 2 місяці тому

    She ate them up.

  • @lelainasmart9230
    @lelainasmart9230 3 роки тому +1

    What episode is this please !!

  • @shabrinaaztl
    @shabrinaaztl 2 роки тому

    WHICH EPISODE THIS IH

  • @tysontaylor8228
    @tysontaylor8228 8 місяців тому

    what episode is this?

  • @desireegittens3425
    @desireegittens3425 2 роки тому

    Seems like Christina is spell bound by her old flame
    Or is he really an old flame??
    Will she get back with him??

  • @amenaaldoory8786
    @amenaaldoory8786 Рік тому

    which eopside

  • @amenaaldoory8786
    @amenaaldoory8786 Рік тому

    which eopside and seson

  • @zeetuslupeedus
    @zeetuslupeedus 5 років тому

    Cry every fucking time!!!

  • @Jfleming321
    @Jfleming321 4 роки тому +1

    Why did she have to give her sexual relationship with Burke to them again?

    • @davidsinnott7160
      @davidsinnott7160 3 роки тому

      Because despite him having left, the hospital would still be liable if any legal issues were raised regarding their relationship. So anyone in the hospital who had a relationship with a coworker had to declare it on the form to clear the hospital from any legal liability.

  • @theresea.k5749
    @theresea.k5749 2 місяці тому

    Burke was the smallest man who ever lived

  • @tyshaunthomas6343
    @tyshaunthomas6343 3 роки тому

    Okay Brent Faiyaz

  • @shenequa9293
    @shenequa9293 Рік тому

    this show went seriously downhill after they let go of burke and the way they did it was sad as heck. all the burke and christina fans till this day still hurt by that shit i couldn't even get pass season 3... they were the BEST actors on that show not even grey, THE STAR could compare to them! she couldn't stand a chance! i liked them more than her and mc dreamy, their chemistry was on FIREEEEE makes me wonder if they messed around behind scenes as well. i love them.....

    • @MoonMoon-fx1op
      @MoonMoon-fx1op Рік тому +1

      True, but much drama happened behind the scenes and they decided to let Isaiah Washington, the man who played Burke go. They did ruin his character, his and TR Knights's, the man who played George.

  • @connie.n9756
    @connie.n9756 8 років тому +20

    Bullshit!!!after all these years I stumble upon this scene and it makes me so mad.In this particular scene Cristina is a very bitter and jealous woman who was dumped at the alter.Everything that happened between Burktina was mutual.He never forced her to keep his secrets or lie for him.As a matter of fact she was the one one that said to him"no one has to know "when she found out about his tremors.Everything she is...Burke thought her..She is a badass surgeon because of Burke.Forgive me I don't agree with Cristina on this one,she blew it with Burke and he dumped her,even though he loved her so much.i am a Burktina fan.💔😡

    • @Bfolks84
      @Bfolks84 7 років тому +42

      Constance Nwaokobia I think something you didn't mention was that Burke was trying to mold Cristina to be something that she wasn't. Every step of the way in their relationship he kept pushing her to give up little pieces of herself until she found herself standing in an alter with shaved eyebrows because she was trying to please him. She was trying to be what he wanted and that's incredibly demoralizing when you think about it. You're dating someone who doesn't love you for you but for who they think you should be. She lost herself in that relationship and then he leaves her as if she meant nothing to him. And to add insult to injury he goes on to do successful things and be celebrated while she's left there feeling like a nobody. She's resentful of him and because of that she can't feel anything for him but contempt. Maybe she thinks he got everything from me but he will not get my congratulations. He won't take that from me too. It's very deep what she's going through here. Very poignant performance by Sandra Oh.

    • @allypat3002
      @allypat3002 7 років тому +6

      Constance Nwaokobia I agree. Christina is good because she had an awesome teacher who gave her oppurtunities to learn. She was above the curve, however, with another tutor she may have been great, but not extraordinary. She kept his secret for her benefit, so that she can perform the surgeries that HE would have walked her through. True, she is the unseen hand that aided his success, but it was a brilliant mind that guided thise hands. Even without Christina's help, Im sure that he would have been very successful, probably a little later after his tremor was corrected. Christina's problem is that she has always kept pace with Burke, a surgeon who could teach her at her pace and her level. Now that he's gone, she back in the slow lane, ahead of anyone else, but still with limits. And it is driving her nuts

    • @cuetherain3699
      @cuetherain3699 6 років тому +13

      Constance Nwaokobia Burke was manipulative and idealistic, everything she learned that made her the amazing doctor she is came from Teddy, she was her best teacher, not to mention Cristina was amazing for her level way before Burke. Manipulation isn’t consent. You must truly hate women to be this cold hearted and judge mental. Not all of us like to take it lying down and let our husbands control us, Burke was an asshole who much like Owen didn’t accept Cristina but created a version of her that he wanted and expected her to bend to his wants and become that, to sacrifice her self worth and who she is as a person to become who he wants. Stop romanticizing Burke. He was manipulative and a prick.

    • @Beautifulme1976
      @Beautifulme1976 3 місяці тому

      Christina is only at the level because she sleeps with all her attendees. Notice how with when Burke left she rained off all the lady Cardio surgeon. Then alone came Owen. Then she expacts them to put her in on all the surgeries they are in.

  • @connie.n9756
    @connie.n9756 8 років тому +13

    Unseen hand in his brilliance?????Get over yourself Cristina.She nursed his pride..oh please girl you need to have a seat.This scene was raw,she was still hurting.You aren't Preston Burke...she just wanted to ride on his cloaktail of success.He is Winning Harper Avery and been celebrated..you are pissed and don't wish him well.But then he decides to hand his institute to you..just like that,he could've given it anybody.He did it not out of REDEMPTION like some fans felt but out of LOVE.That man will always love her,even though he didn't marry her.Still a Burktina fan.

    • @melissalavone6743
      @melissalavone6743 6 років тому +60

      When his hand was injured she preformed all of his surgeries for him and let him take the credit so nobody would know. If she hadn't done that, his career might have ended either waiting for his hand to recover or he would make a fatal mistake in surgery on his own. Cristina is right.

    • @linonacnh9915
      @linonacnh9915 5 років тому +28

      He didn’t give her a small gesture of “thank you” at all. You may say that he gave the Institute to her as a “thank you” but doesn’t excuse him for the unfair treatment of Cristina. Also Cristina is not the type of person to ride the “cocktail” of another Doctor to success. She wanted to be the best, Burke was her role model. We see that during the time she left Seattle Grace to work at Mayo Clinic in Minnesota. We see her do that when she decided to leave own to pursue her dream to become great.

    • @delmeshiabrown8480
      @delmeshiabrown8480 4 роки тому +14

      What show were you watching??

    • @jennylein.
      @jennylein. Рік тому +1

      Ehh.. at that time she didn't know about what Burke would do in the future. Get out of your time machine and don't spoil the show, little guy.

    • @Beautifulme1976
      @Beautifulme1976 2 місяці тому +1

      Christina didn't do that to help him out, remember Burke was going to take a leave of absence. Christina was the one to come up with the plan of doing his surgeries for him. WATCH SOW ARE YOIU GUYS WATCHING?

  • @marialetizia2512
    @marialetizia2512 3 місяці тому +1

    Sandra is unbeliavable, such a powerful (and feminist!) speech so powerfully delivered🔥🔥🫂