Pattaya Thailand, newbie advice on taking a Thai Girlfriend
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
- Newbie Advice on if you should take a full time Thai Girlfriend
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During my current stay I was able to take an intensive look behind the scenes of the so-called Supermodels from the most famous Agogos here. I spent 3 days "holyday" with my now ex-girlfriend and her 2 best friends in their house.
I am very disillusioned and shocked. Massive alcohol and drug addiction, psychotic episodes are the order of the day,. They spend their income on drugs, bar hosts and tomboys, have endless debts to banks and credit brokers, and cannot pay their rent arrears.
What first appeared to me to be a dream woman now turned out to be a lovable but hopelessly fallen young woman with no possibility of rescue.
So - always think carefully about whether you should really fall in love with a working lady here in Pattaya. Never become a sponsor, which I luckily avoided.
Thanks for your insight
Sounds like my US girlfriend. Unknown drugs, messes, beer parties messing up her apartment, problems with the law, endless soap opera.
Finding a long term healthy relationship in Pattaya (specially) is like winning a lottery. The chance is one in millions. Not only the bar girls, but every single girl in the city is aware of the game. The funny part is that the most of the guys are also aware of the scam, but the one who thinks with their Di. always end up in the trap. Again, the scammers are everywhere, not only at the bars. Happened to me.
I did. And she's smokin hot, super cook too.
You can talk and meet women from anywhere in Thailand. Met mine in Bangkok and brought her back. My girl said she was through with Thai men because they cheat, fight with her, and do not support their children once they separate. People are a product of their environment. Girl learns from others how to play the game, if you do not understand the rules they will let you learn them the hard way
Yeah right
Giving money to a woman without you getting your needs fully met is the worst a man can do. Only thinking about it insults every fiber of my being. It hurts my heart & soul. Boys never ever simp for a woman...
I agree that's it's not a real relationship, but it happens in the west too. How many beautiful girls go out with guys because of their status or money?
agree but at least you can walk away with no lawyers involved.@@TerribleEnglish
@@gbtedx1157 Well, if you don't get married you can, but surely the point of those relationships is to get married (at least on the women's side)
Amen brother
@@TerribleEnglish Alot of men with status and money are the worst when it comes to dealing with women.
When you first visit Thailand and meet a girl, possibly half your age, you are in fantasy land, she looks great she looks after you, she puts you first and even puts food on your plate.
It is a fantastic experience and memories, as I say it’s a fantasy experience.
I’ve experienced this and when I called from uk my love of my life she was with another man. I cried like a child.
In Thailand you go to a bar or night club and girls want you, it’s like a fantasy.
Fantastic time with the girls but realise you are the money and that’s it 😔
This is why you go young that way the girls you get are nothing your not used to
Yes yes yes ATM farrang’s
Bar girls don't look for love. They are there to earn their money. Many due to poverty. But I take comfort that they work hard for their money and give me the best service possible even though it might seem like love. That's more than enough. I don't fall in love with them. I learned it the hard way.
When I hear young worm voice I allways turn the volume up, Daddy Daz! Suge a joy to listen, too !!! Thank you so much for your great work !!!
Awwww the best part of the video were those cute silly Beagles at the end! 🐕🐕🐕🐕 I hope all the pets get good owners!
I was surprised at all the pets available! Too cute. I hope they all get good homes as well.
I was waiting for them getting cooked 🤣
For the life of me, I can't understand a man who lives thousands of miles away actually thinking he has a girlfriend in a place like Pattaya, let alone a faithful one. Bonkers.
I have watched your channel for many months now. First thanks for your info and advice. Second I remember your Thai girl "golden rule" so to speak for go go beer bar or gents. Thai girls main goal is to extract as much money as possible while you are interested in her and you as the man have connected emotionally. To her it's business.
Great inside information Daz. This insight from the woman's perspective in Thailand makes it easier to understand what's really happening. Having multiple sponsors some of these ladies sound more like a "Time-Share" 🤣. Many guys might prefer that their Thai girlfriends don't speak as much their former girlfriends/wives in the West.😂. I have also heard "Benefactor" in lieu of sponsor when I completed an assignment in Vietnam. Soap operas must be universally popular. Many women in Vietnam seemed to watch soap operas almost as much as many women in the USA.😅
I follow Dave in Columbia and he works in the industry and says Soaps are huge in Columbia too and went on to add that all the different groups and sub cultures are represented and ppl connect with their culture through the soaps. I thought that an interesting observation.
Not in Pattaya no , but I comment , been here in Bangkok now 8 months , everything still going well with my gf , she works 5 days pw , we have space , we get along well , never asks for money ..as said before , she has never worked in bar scene etc .. yes can get moody & a bit fiery at times but it’s fine .. I rolled the 🎲 & so far it’s going great .. so far 😊
Another very good video packed full of information and tips. Thanks Daz. Keep up the good work.
love these walking taking story sessions ...keep going
Good market there...lots of clothing shops & nice food shops.
Thanks for the great video 😁
My girlfriend is an accountant and has never asked me for money although i pay for food and accomodation when we go traveling, its a very different expirence dating a regular Thai girl. But i know her family up in Korat sponge off her constantly. After dating Japanese, Burmese, filipina and Indonesian girls i would say she is the least jelious or paranoid of them all. My only gripe is how many hours she can sleep for and her time keeping but i learned to be used to it with Asian girls over time.
People watching over the years around asia from Subic bay to Orchid towers and beyond i would say most western guys are too soft hearted with bar girls and equate attention with attraction and thats just not the case. Your a customer nothing more. In patts use the word Gik dont bother saysing girlfriend.
If you want a real Thai girlfriend you need to get away from the bars, visit night markets around the country and ask girls about food, All Thai girls love food and talking about food.
female nature is global they are what they are stay single never simp
Great video. Very informative especially the class system and customs
i wish there were channels on Vietnam n Vietnamese girls like this channel. your videos have gems of valuable information. i can better understand my relationship with my Vietnamese ktv girlfriend better because of the insights you shared in this video. thank you!
Been married to my Thai lady for 26 years now, but I still like to watch your videos.
Great video daz , good information buddy , your hairdresser friend sounds like a fountain of knowledge , keep up your great reviews
So, I also have something there but I wouldn't call it a relationship.
She is a waitress from a Thai restaurant and I invited her to a evening of party when I saw her the first time.
Now everytime I come over we stay some days together and really do normal things like you would in a relationship. We also always stay in contact when I'm back home, but she never asked me for anything. Not when I'm there with her and also not when im back home. Of course I pay for food and drinks but she always trys to give it back to me in form of little gifts or anything.
I nearly forget, this is running for about 5 years now.
So the thing I want to tell you all with that is, that there is a possibility to have a normal life with a thai girl there. She also asked me many times if I want her to come to my home. For some weeks or forever. But that's something I don't want.
We all know it's nice to have something going with some kind of feelings but on the other side we all also know that things like gents clubs, soi 6 and some changing with different girls is nice.
So guys, just do what's the best for you all. 👌
I'll be back in February 👌
Nice advice and content again 👌
Ps: I also saw her home and her family. And still there was not a little question about spending money for somebody.
So in the end. Always treat the girl as you want to be treated and you will have the best time 👌
Very informative Daz, thank you. I am not rich, but I know one thing - it is only money!
Always like your stories and advice ! Luckily I have "a heart of steel" and haven't found "the love of my life" in 13 holidays in Pattaya yet. 😂🤣😅 Probably saved me a small fortune !!! 🙊💰Looking forward to moving to Pattaya in 2024 !!!!! 💪
I've seen so many vids from you, and I love to ready the comments as well. I don't know, wheter I will remember all this insights and warnings, when I will have my first holiday in sin city... Thank you and all those, who want to warn us too. 👍
This man make so much sense. I’ve been and seen what Daz is taking about and if I’m honest if it wasn’t for him and listening to what he says, who knows what or how it would have been like 😂 “all Thailand girls like gold” 😂
Very good info Daz. Thanks! 💯
Great video. I am not even thinking about a Thai Girlfriend until I retire there.
All good points Also a lot of Thai Women that I have talked to Who are married to A foreigner. say that they /we are more romantic. . Not All Thai men are duds but many see marriage as the chase being over. He makes the money She stays at home and raises the kids. The romance was for the past/courting time period.
Hopefully you speak very well Thai . Because if you tell me that your gf speak English,Then one thing is sure .You are dreaming
The beautiful young ones all have sponsors and a thai boyfriend who takes the money off her
Right
8:13 We usually call sponsor to a guy sending money every month but apart from these “designated sponsors” girls also have “friends” or occasional sponsors that can send them a small amount of money every now and then. Maybe just 100 or 200$ for any reason, it could be her birthday, Christmas, new year, a trip, a gift to buy sexy clothes and get some pics, whatever..
If you consider designated plus occasional sponsors I would say 99% bar girls who have worked for more than 6 months have at least 1 sponsor and usually a handful of them.
I was wondering why a pretty face young girls want to be with us as foreign people and I found out about it just with the beginning of your video thank you man I follow u and I went to pattaya before I do and everything u tell is right god bless u and I will meet u when I come back
Why on gods earth would you want a girlfriend in Pattaya when you can have a different one at any given time day or night
True
If you are living in Pattaya permanently the bar scene becomes pretty boring after a while. That's why many expats eventually end up with a single girlfriend. Of course, the wisest of them get two or three.
You can have a girl for the next 10 years every day if you go with every girl in pattaya
Aran yes your correct it gets very boring having a couple of older ones on the go at the same time is the way to go she will be doing the same
@@philliproberts7294As long as everyone is on the same page, that works well. 👍
Worst scenario is to sponsor a Thai gf and if you come visit in Thailand, she tries all kinds of excuses not to spend happy time with you. What you have to do is to cut your losses and run for the hills. Just leaving her stone cold will make her lose face. That is the worst part for the gold digger.
Very interesting video in many respects. In particular, that Korean and Japanese men also value social standing (in the girl), and that a wealthy, upper-middle class Thai man actually will consider the rural girl --- but only if she is a plaything on the side. :)
Daz, I understand ur logic in going against the arrows, u get to see more sorts that way! 😂😂😂
I once met a girl at a famous bar on the six! The place with the black and white floor tiles and girls in union jack dresses - you know the one?
I met her every year for 4 years until the pandemic hit Thailand.
Truly stunning girl but her birthday was on a different date every year!!
what was her name
Thanks for this video. Great market 👍
I continue to be amazed at guys sponsoring the bar girls. I would find a normal working girl that works in a shop or business. You would always never know what the total truth is with bar girls.
I always feel these apply to working girls. Ive never had any experience with a 'non' working girl . Maybe its the laziness in persuing when you know you can just walk over to a bar n get it easy. Ill try it next time
Question: I am aware of all those traps but I experienced a situation that plays with my mind:
What if the bar girl never asks for a barfine?
What if the same bar girl never asks to be paid LT/ST? What if she never asks to be bought some jewelry?
Heck she's not even asking to fill her motorbike with gas she's paying it by herself. I just took her out for a few nights out which I would do with a Western girl anyway and it would have cost me more in Europe
Now I'm back home she keeps calling me, asks no money. The only time I tried to offer her a new smartphone (because hers is crap) she went angry and says she can afford a phone herself. And when I call her anytime she always responds or she's crying if I don't call her for 3 hours. She's even willing to pay 50% of my flight to return in Thailand
Where is the scam here? Did I potentially hit the 1 in a billion jackpot?? I'm either ultra lucky or ultra dumb for not figuring out what kind of scam I potentially fall into!
She is playing the long game.
Could be amazing luck, yes. There's a possibility she's playing "the long game". Either way, enjoy it as long as it lasts, and watch for red flags.
Great insight from the Thai girl side 🙏🏼
Hola Señor Daz!. Great information . Gracias
I've had a girlfriend for 19 years swapping all the time is good fun but you meet some crazy annoying ones. If you meet one you enjoy being with why keep swapping. I tell my girl I don't want to be happy I want to be sad with you. She puts up with my bad jokes and doesn't get mad easy. Does everything for me and works. I help her my job is empty the bin everything else she does. 😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 oh and get drunk every night she doesn't drink so I get 2 beers in every bar.
There are many good Thai women. Just need to look for one at the right place. My girlfriend is a civil servant. She has a steady income, owns a house and a car. She doesn't ask me for money. I considered myself lucky as this type of women are hard to find. My girlfriend likes me partly because of my deep understanding of their culture and also my fluency in Thai language.
Your hairdresser is the best 👍
Perhaps your could find yourself (and us) a local experienced Thai manicure specialist and perhaps a restaurant owner. That would be great expansion of story varieties ))
Fukk no, never ever send money abroad to a Thai girl. Ever. Been there, done that, learned the hard way. I've got a few regulars I see every trip and I take care of them then.
Interesting info. Good to know 😊
Daz you continually give foreigners critical information about living & visiting Thailand. Thank you.
I get scammed at least once a week. I go into a bar, buy drinks, pay for a gal, go back to my apartment and then she takes advantage of me. I keep hoping that one day I will be able to take advantage of her.
very interesting and well-spoken...
I want to visit your Thai hairdresser friend, wealth of information and the good gossip.
As long as live or holiday in Thailand,you cant avoid love scams ,if there is love relation everything possible..willingly or unwillingy will.happen for sure😊
Hi Daz
It’s it a night market that starts around 5 pm
No no no me not have sponsor na kha ! 😂😂😂
The class system is very strict in Thailand, also most of the girls have children, thai men wont take care and support another mans child,relationships are seen as security, thai women look at western men to give them financial security
Interesting info 🙏
Thai ladies dont love, i got to this conclusion. Forget the strong deep love you had in the west. Here is all about a "contract" of love...
ATM relationships are always a mistake. Great advice BTW
It's truly sad how the matter of 'social standing' affects life choices and everyday behaviour. It sadly explains how young girls in the bar scene define themselves by their wealth and material possesions, thus making it a priority to aquire it. "My worth is defined by what I have and peoples opinion of me". This makes it easier for them to take degrading work if they consider themselves to have little value in the first place. 💔
Thanks for another great video
Just a quick question any advise on cheapest way out to Thepprasit Night Market? Or just get a motorbike or Bolt/Grab?
Yes 1700 to 2200 Fri, Sat, Sun , Bolt is always the cheapest
As above
Funny using the term sponsor when it means your just a walking atm machine🤣🤣
I’m so glad I’m too much of a asshole to give 2 shits about someone’s sob story I’d legit never fall for this😂😂
Ok I see message about negativity regarding Thailand .
I married a Thai woman.
She worked for a company, that my company was involved with.
We have been together for 9 years, she is lovely.
This is nothing to compare with the first time visiting Thailand and falling in love with a fantasy.
I’ve done it falling in love with a woman half my age, it was fantastic and sex, well I’m not going into detail , just a fantasy.
Warning people about the potential problems even financial problems is not a bad thing, although like me it will not be considered when you walk down the soi with a beautiful girl on your arm.
Very informative video your hairdresser is a wealth of good knowledge, I have had a Thai girlfriend living with me for the past 11 month , we do the bar scene maybe twice a week she drinks apple juice and maybe the odd beer , I have about 4-5 bottles but I refuse to spend all my money in bars . I pay my ladies mortgage , truck repayments along with foods clothes etc . She speaks very good English as she is a widow from a farrang marriage , does she love me - possibly , will she stay with me forever- possibly , it’s all about the money - honey 😊Just don’t fall in love 😊
A Wise man once said, cut out all the money and see if they stay with you. That is the true test. Just sayin........
I better stay as “butterfly” on my 2 weeks holidays. I dont want to be on a LDR i think its non-sense. Try different girls every time visit Thailand is best.
Just like in any Country, there are good people and bad people. Thai Women are no exception. Most Thai Women are very traditional, respectful and caring. Family, is of most importance. I found My darling Thai Wife in Buriram, She's a farm Girl, We have a very happy Marriage, and Her Family loves Me.
Forget Pattaya guys. Go to Patong, there are beautiful and faithful girls over there 🤣
What were those fried balls that lady was making at 12:35 in the video? Thanks
It's Takoyaki, japanese food 🙂
The american guy found a unicorn girlfriend its like putting the lottery on someone wins obviously but most don't. And even then its the luck of the draw not your skill that pulled it off. Right place right time. If he split up with her the chances of him finding someone else similar is next to zero. Western men in pattaya should have to many options to risk a dodgy relationship. My advice short term move on. Weather you live there or not. In todays world we are all commodities once you learn that it becomes much clearer. Romance is great for screenplays. But it does not exist in the real world anymore.
Agreed
Hi where is this market place you doing your video. I would like to go there this November thank u
Here, open Fri, Sat, Sun 17.00 to 22.00
12°54'32.0"N 100°53'34.1"E
thanks Daz.
I am planning for visiting Pattaya in February/March. Is Hotel Amber girl/visitor friendly? Please let me know! Thank you!
I think they charge, you need to ask them
" Do you have a guest or joiner fee ? "
Always stay there no joiner fee for one guest
Here is the answer…….
DON’T!
All about the 💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💵💰💰💰💰💰
Ketchup has bugs in it for colouring anyway, so you shouldn't worry about eating bugs, get stuck in and enjoy 555
Daz, I've heard so much from your hairdresser! I can't wait to meet you and your friend on my upcoming trip to Pattaya. 😄😄😄
Look at the Blue Arrow in the market on the floor your going the wrong way down a one way lol.
Let me get this right. Thai girls think it's annoying that a Farang wants a private life while being in a relationship, but she's alright with freely being allowed to look through a Thai mans phone, and possibly find messages from 3 other girls that he's dating?
Either that's Thai logic, or female logic...
But if you are a non-drinker, how will that affect your dating pool? I assume it will shrink to around 1%? It's seems the large majority of Thai women drink
WHY ?
What has YOU drinking got to do with your dating pool ? My friend only drinks soft drinks but he is happy to buy alcoholic lady drinks and he has a huge dating pool.
@everythingPattaya i dont want a drinker. Its your friends preference to accept it, but i have been around enough that nothing good comes from alcohol but chaos.
Lol I showed this to my Thai girlfriend as were moving in 2024 to Pattaya. I wanted to show her the market she couldn’t watch 😂
Why ?
@@CheekyMonkey007 unfavorable talk about Thai girls I guess
There is nothing free in this world..think about family and wife,without money nobody wants you..point is worth for spend for what and who...if its worths , its ok for me.. human life full of illusions & dream with limited time.
It’s called growing up. It’s when sex is less important than who you’re with.
Certain ones have large peckers understand.
Sigh. In Pattaya, stick to the malls, the restaurants, and any place not involved in the entertainment business.
what is the name of the market you are walking?
Thapprasit Night Market
@@everythingPattaya thank you
What about visa for thi girlfriend
If you can't see them
Don't trust them
I have had several relationships with normal Thai women. But I had the most interesting one in my home country. Through this I came into contact with the Thai community in my home country. (99% women) 95% of them from a bar. They were brought here by the white knight. These White Knights had mostly already died or had already fulfilled their task, had already divorced and had made it possible for women to have a good life. The white knights were mostly older, financially strong men. Now most of these women have mostly exchanged the White Knight against a a good looking and a lot younger Farang and are enjoying life. Without lying, I know at least 100 Thai women in my hometown, 90 of whom have gone this way. The remaining 10 are happily married to their older Farang.
... then please tell me the name of your city .....
How would I find this market?
GPS location isbelow , click where it says " more "
I hope one day i got hairdresser friend
I have just returned home from 3 weeks in Pattaya. This was my second trip and visit to Pattaya.
On my first trip I found what I considered a nice but shy girl aged around 38 or so.
I found out her English language skills were hardily beginners. Her phone was used to talk with each other. She in Thai converted to English, then my reply in English converted to Thai.
On this trip I bar fined her. On the first day she wore clothing that a female swaggy ftom the 1930s wouldn't be seen dead in.
Over the 3 week period I bought her many dresses and other apparel. I don't begrudge her this. I found her to be reasonably transparent. There were a couple of instances where I thought I was being set up.
We had a great time even with her being shy about using English language.
She insisted and persisted on saying: "phom rak khun maak maak".
I have no problem with this once I know what the words mean, but, when she persisted in saying words and not showing what they mean on her phone, I got suspicious if she was just going to annoy me.
One of these sounded like nambour but it also could be mambor or similar. Meaning anyone ?
Another word: sow wouw. It seems to mean be quiet on a certain matter.
Apart from this she always writes: "Miss and love you". Not too romantic but nice.
Gaz, can you do one thing for me personally ??
I have asked some of her friends for their "line" accounts so they and I can also communicate on topics other than my sweetheart and I do.
My phone service provider in Queensland, Australia, can't get the numbers given to me to work.
What is the secret if you know ? Do they have to provide their service providers numbers along with their account number ??
If you have NO knowledge on this could you do research on the matter then a show segment for us with no knowledge on this topic ?
Many thanks in advance.
Sincerely,
B. G.
Forget her mate their is a million better and what do you think she is doing now or tonight or when she knows your sleeping
LINE is a messaging application, similar to WhatsApp, that allows users to communicate with each other. LINE numbers are not traditional telephone numbers.
Thanks for your input
@@philliproberts7294
We all know about spies? Don't we ?
@@juergenlilien2067
I know sll that. The question is, is there another set of numbers as for a service provider then a personal set of numbers to ones own account.
If a set of numbers for service provider then how to get such numbers.
Brilliant vlog Daz, enjoyed. "If a girlfriend wants to be lazy and just spend your money, that is not good!" 555. "Sponsorship is always the first step toward becoming a boyfriend" Really Daz? I think not! Giving a live in or nightly girlfriend money to spend time with you is paid companionship. Sponsors are men who do not live here and send money to a girl without seeing her until they return AFAIK.
I know sponsors living in Thailand too
Of course a guy becomes a sponsor before he becomes a boyfriend, Always !!!
@@CheekyMonkey007 555 my cynical feeling is you never really become a boyfriend to a Thai lady in Pattaya. Other areas you almost need to marry her so she saves face
what is the name of this market ?
Thepprasit Weekend Night Market
I wonder if you advertised for a live-in paid girlfriend / housekeeper, what you might need to pay to get permanent company that didn't stray off??? Is there anything like that which you have come across?Call it a salary or call it an 'allowance'? It sounds like any Thai girl is going to want money one way or the other and the idea of finding a girl who has a job and is your unpaid g/f is just not going to happen, so why not formalise it and just pay her a regular amount to save all the mucking around? Does this go on?
Money is for showing to the girls, not for giving to the girls
Why the hell someone has to pay a monthly salary to a lady for her company? wtf is this? i dont understand who does it really
In the West, they call this 'marriage'.....
Am gutted I’ve been sending £1000 a month and she said I was her one true love 😂
She always insisted we turn the lights off first and only took it from behind come to think of it I never actually saw her box clearly.
You have to think about first timers, well older men.
I went to Pattaya recently, went into a bar on the way in I touched the girls chin, she followed me in and was my partner for drinking, she was lovely, when I left I said goodby.
If my first visit to Thailand I don’t think I would of left the bar.
Waste of time giving any advise about bar girls, first timers are in a world of their own and will not listen to any negativity, they have to experience it.
This girl is different she has only just joined the bar.
What i take from this is do not get involved follow the Thai guys philosophy.
Very interesting, thanks
Not one but 3, no need to pick. The Daz rotation method. :)
Calm down guys don’t take it serious,, everything here it’s a game.having a bar girlfriend it’s always a nice experience nothing serious 🤣🤣..
Does these sponsors watch your videos?they should to understand how much money they waste for nothing!
Have your fun, but never take a Thai girlfriend. .its only ever about money, the relationship never last but will cost you a fortune and while you're away, they will hook up with anyone else who has money