Shocking || It Time to Learn your ESSENCES to Unlock Your Pretty Privilege (Kibbe)

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  • Опубліковано 17 тра 2024
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    The Gamine (1:09)
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    The Dramatic (2:36)
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    The Natural (5:25)
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    The Classic (6:56)
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    The Romantic (8:34)
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    The Igungue (10:10)
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    The Ethereal (12:35)
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 554

  • @Tatianaclicks
    @Tatianaclicks  2 місяці тому +335

    Hey Guys thanks for your overwhelming support. Just to let you know I do have a speech impediment and it’s something I work on daily.
    Love your Support and Dont forget to comment your mix in the comment section

    • @sherry7347
      @sherry7347 Місяць тому +38

      I didn't even notice your speech impediment. This was fantastic material and has inspired me to get more into my personal style and challenge myself to show it through the summer. thank you :)

    • @SanaaJadeCruz
      @SanaaJadeCruz Місяць тому +29

      I love the way you speak you remind me of my daughter she has a speech impediment and she works so hard too. Your eloquence and ability to spark inspiration in others is remarkable ❤ you have a unique gift 💝

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Місяць тому +9

      @@sherry7347 awee thank you 🩷

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Місяць тому +6

      @@SanaaJadeCruz girl that is so sweet

    • @sherry7347
      @sherry7347 Місяць тому +12

      @@Tatianaclicks I also have a speech impediment and this is so cool to me because it is such an amazing example of not limiting yourself. I have been wanting to do certain things but shy away because of speech . So, amazing job! You doing you on this platform is healing and inspiring 💖. Ty !

  • @unbotheredsis1934
    @unbotheredsis1934 Місяць тому +628

    my comeback is very critical. i’m the main character of my life, so I gotta dress like the main character. period

  • @n.n8991
    @n.n8991 2 місяці тому +873

    It's nice to find an essence video specifically for black girls and natural hair! I would also suggest the mob wife and office siren aesthetic for the romantic essence.

    • @sedie94
      @sedie94 Місяць тому +9

      Thanks for this comment! I really identify with the Romantic essence and want to explore more style options~❤

    • @Infojunkie-lj1up
      @Infojunkie-lj1up Місяць тому

      Yesss

    • @OfJournalandJourney
      @OfJournalandJourney Місяць тому

      Yes!

  • @rubyreduxx
    @rubyreduxx Місяць тому +211

    FINALLY an essence video geared towards Black Womens

  • @plorer1235
    @plorer1235 Місяць тому +471

    Essences :
    1:10 "The GAMINE"
    2:35 "The DRAMATIC"
    5:35 "The NATURAL"
    6:56 " The CLASSIC"
    8:34 "The ROMANTIC"
    10:10 "The INGENUE"
    12:34 "The ETHEREAL + INGENUE"

  • @intergalacticbnb
    @intergalacticbnb 2 місяці тому +842

    I love that your content is geared towards naturals. And not just hair but that it incorporates personality, style, etc. Informative, humorous, and relatable. Please keep it up!

  • @sampledarchives
    @sampledarchives 2 місяці тому +463

    Utilizing the feminine archetypes in this way was absolutely genius. Begging for more content around this.

    • @gorlunion
      @gorlunion Місяць тому +24

      BEGGINGGGGGGGGGG

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Місяць тому +23

      I plan to make some this month

  • @Loaf0fBread
    @Loaf0fBread Місяць тому +202

    I’m an Asian girl here, and I wanna say thank you for providing a different perspective, it helped me to better understand the principle behind the essences bc of the variety of examples you provided. I feel like I watched other videos on the same topic but it barely made a dent in my understanding of fashion. Thank you for this!

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Місяць тому +13

      I’m glad I could help!! I barely understood myself when I first learned about them!! So I just wanted to break it down

  • @lavellans
    @lavellans 2 місяці тому +276

    The centering of natural hair is everything ❤ please never stop

  • @makeithomewithsade4176
    @makeithomewithsade4176 Місяць тому +141

    A classic everyday, a dramatic on a girl’s night, a romantic on a date night

    • @MegaJasmine87
      @MegaJasmine87 Місяць тому +10

      I love this - diff looks for diff occasions 👌🏿

    • @yk-who-it-is
      @yk-who-it-is 14 днів тому

      RIGHTTT

  • @zahrascrown
    @zahrascrown 2 місяці тому +179

    It’s so nice to see a guide that truly embraces diverse beauty and encourages us to find our unique aesthetic through our feminine essence.

  • @tesseworld
    @tesseworld Місяць тому +80

    I dress according to how i feel, and I wear all of these styles

    • @alexatkins9515
      @alexatkins9515 27 днів тому +2

      Same!!!

    • @lavonaedwards3864
      @lavonaedwards3864 11 днів тому +1

      Yes I have many essences lol. I always say I am eclectic because I am all of these at different times and sometimes many of these at once because I have layers

  • @sssaaaiii21
    @sssaaaiii21 Місяць тому +88

    My best friend and I were messaging each other about this last night😭 about finding an aesthetic that suits us and then this video comes on my recommended👁️👄👁️

  • @janea8093
    @janea8093 Місяць тому +56

    I’m definitely the natural. I’m chill. I don’t want to be the loudest in the room but I want to be presentable

  • @beautifulblackswan01
    @beautifulblackswan01 9 днів тому +4

    I am convinced this woman needs to be protected at all costs. The black femeale community needs your channel, Tatiana. Honestly.
    Another Sista from London, UK

  • @pelomk9022
    @pelomk9022 Місяць тому +62

    I gravitate towards natural, classic and romantic essence.

  • @SaadetOZTRK
    @SaadetOZTRK 2 місяці тому +113

    I don't know my essence but I liked this video a lot

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  2 місяці тому +6

      Thank you!!

    • @Nwakaego_
      @Nwakaego_ Місяць тому +1

      Same here.

    • @lawsome2068
      @lawsome2068 Місяць тому +14

      Whatever makes you feel the most comfortable to the point that your self confidence shines through. There's not really a set essence it's just people's preferences and what makes them feel their best and most confident.

  • @vv0011
    @vv0011 2 місяці тому +352

    Respectfully❤
    Sade (Sha-Day)
    Zoe Kravitz (Zo-E Kra-Vitz)
    ballet (ba-lay, it’s a French word drop the t in pronunciation and pronounce the ‘e’ as an ‘a’ like the last e in Beyonce)
    coquette (Ko-Khet)
    ethereal (E-thear-real)
    Amazing video, not being rude just informative ❤

    • @MimiNwabuokuMD
      @MimiNwabuokuMD Місяць тому +54

      ❤ Thank you dearly for being kind! We need kindness out here in these interwebs.

    • @Justonevideoplease
      @Justonevideoplease Місяць тому +12

      Is English her second language? This is my first video

    • @SpiciestBee
      @SpiciestBee Місяць тому +66

      She has a speech impediment and it’s posted in her top comment 👍🏾

    • @TheKonnoisseur11
      @TheKonnoisseur11 Місяць тому +8

      I like her channel but “ballet” and “ethereal” really bothered me

    • @maliahjoy2959
      @maliahjoy2959 Місяць тому

      It was her saying woman instead of women for me​@@TheKonnoisseur11

  • @-Marshy-725
    @-Marshy-725 Місяць тому +43

    Not trying to be weird, but the way you speak is so cute 😭❤

  • @mostbeautifulbelovedgarden
    @mostbeautifulbelovedgarden 13 днів тому +5

    I’ve heard Tyla is ingenue as her main. I could see romantic but I really feel like she has more of the childlike youthful look of an ingenue than the mature depth of romantic

  • @ooops4064
    @ooops4064 2 місяці тому +49

    I literally feel so lost about myself as far as styles and what looks good on me hair wise, clothing wise, etc. this is so helpful

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  2 місяці тому +4

      Np Glad I could help. I will be posting more connect. Also learning my body type helped me a lot in my clothing selection

  • @bellatatulli
    @bellatatulli Місяць тому +23

    found myself dressing up more dramatic since 2 years and my life literally changed. I have never felt so sexy and so me!

  • @commentpoliceofficer7991
    @commentpoliceofficer7991 2 місяці тому +53

    I was waiting for someone to break down why everyone is attracted to Tyla and her naturally allure on one of these femininity channels lol 😂 👏

  • @autumnof1992
    @autumnof1992 Місяць тому +11

    I love the earthy black girl aesthetic.

  • @DayeDayeX
    @DayeDayeX Місяць тому +17

    Thank you for centering this around black women 🙏🏾💛

  • @GoddessCreation
    @GoddessCreation 2 місяці тому +20

    Definitely have a mix of Ingenue essence (majority) with a tad bit of that dramatic “glam” side. I also love all things heels, furs, and glitter sometimes!

  • @msylvini
    @msylvini 2 місяці тому +33

    I LOVE your channel especially it's focus on aesthetics!
    I'm a writer and try to incorporate a variety of black women. These essences have given me another layer beyond our hair and politics! ♥️

  • @tiaaa7108
    @tiaaa7108 2 місяці тому +56

    Awh great video. Thanks for including women of all sizes ❤

  • @AbianahAlmeida
    @AbianahAlmeida 2 місяці тому +36

    This channel is so unique and a gift to your viewers thank you💖

  • @samanthaslife5190
    @samanthaslife5190 29 днів тому +1

    Absolutely love and appreciate this video!!! Felt so understood when you got to the essence i resonate with❤

  • @StrawberryPeach707
    @StrawberryPeach707 Місяць тому +1

    Im shook with how helpful this video was. THANK YOU!

  • @iceprincess13
    @iceprincess13 Місяць тому +10

    cracking up at the "I'm gonna cut you" comment about dramatics because it's so true! loved the video 💗

  • @sakura-rc3ed
    @sakura-rc3ed 2 місяці тому +19

    your videos are so thoughtful and fun to watch especially since our hair is centered. i really appreciate what you do

  • @goddess214
    @goddess214 Місяць тому +1

    I love this channel! Thank you so much for posting all these gems 🤍

  • @MoreOfSiren
    @MoreOfSiren 2 місяці тому +3

    I love thissss! I’m into essences so this video is perfect for meeeee! I’m definitely romantic but i think there’s a touch of ingenue in there too!

  • @withloveandchills7674
    @withloveandchills7674 Місяць тому +3

    You just read my entire life, I'm a natural for sure and now I know some outfits and accessories to go for. Loved the detail of this video and all of the pictures, very wide range of women - love the representation

  • @mac9683
    @mac9683 2 місяці тому

    Love your content. I feel like I’m between romantic and dramatic with a hint of classic

  • @channelearth5672
    @channelearth5672 Місяць тому +3

    I'm definitely The Natural and The Classic. I just vibe so well with those looks. I like to keep it simple.

  • @EmL-kg5gn
    @EmL-kg5gn Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for explaining this with a lot of modern examples!! It really helps me understand these more

  • @LittleMissSunshine721
    @LittleMissSunshine721 Місяць тому +6

    I feel like I’m a mix of these essences! Great video, and thank you for featuring women of different shapes, shades and sizes! 🥰

  • @FairyPrincess281
    @FairyPrincess281 2 місяці тому +19

    I thought i was ingenue, but I'm really natural 😊❤

  • @strudelh
    @strudelh 2 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for making this ! I already kinda know which one I am but I’m glad it to see it more in depth !

  • @Heynaninani3069
    @Heynaninani3069 Місяць тому

    I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!! I’ve been trying to find my essence and aesthetic for a while but couldn’t find any catered to people who look like me. Thank you Thank you!!

  • @lianadotjpeg
    @lianadotjpeg 27 днів тому

    Thank you for making this video. 😍 I really appreciate the focus on natural hair.

  • @Renaye83
    @Renaye83 29 днів тому

    Sis! This is the BEST video I have seen in a long time! Very visually appealing, clear, concise, great examples! I learned that I'm a natural and will definitely be using this as a guide so i can start intentionally styling myself. Thank you for this information ❤👸🏾

  • @julyelexis
    @julyelexis Місяць тому

    This was AMAZING! It was helped me a lot with finding my style. I’ve realized I am a classic and every style you named I’ve made a Pinterest board about. THANK YOU!

  • @MisfitJetta-du8rg
    @MisfitJetta-du8rg Місяць тому

    Thank you so much. I’ve felt so lost with my hair and clothes. I appreciate it so much.

  • @remichantelleb
    @remichantelleb Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for making this. I have found my essence: the natural and classic. I can work on improving it. ❤️

  • @Thekenyatta
    @Thekenyatta 2 місяці тому +4

    1. Thank you 🙏🏾 this breakdown is so helpful as I’m building my music career and unneeded to describe my style. I’m definitely a little bit of everything, but an even mix between romantic and classic.
    2. You can sing 🎶 it’s a muscle and your tone is cute 🥰
    3. Love this channel! Love your voice and content ❤️

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  2 місяці тому

      Awwe thank you! Wish you the best of luck on your music career

  • @lisalisa3223
    @lisalisa3223 Місяць тому

    This is such a nice break down bc I feel I embody 3 of these essences.
    For work: Classic
    going out/leisure: Romantic / Natural (I’ll bounce between both)

  • @kev8006
    @kev8006 Місяць тому +10

    I'm a natural wanting to be a classic lol😂 Thank you for the information!

    • @Tatianaclicks
      @Tatianaclicks  Місяць тому +2

      Don’t worry you can mix essences

    • @kev8006
      @kev8006 Місяць тому +1

      @@Tatianaclicks Thank you 😊 I'll keep that in mind.

  • @prettycyber8332
    @prettycyber8332 2 місяці тому +1

    You’re so lovely 🥰 I’m glad
    I have a name for my essences.
    Romantic-classic

  • @Awesome00012
    @Awesome00012 Місяць тому

    I love this! Definitely inspiration. Thank you so much!

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 2 місяці тому

    Thank youuuu ❤❤❤

  • @leratopheko2804
    @leratopheko2804 19 днів тому

    Wow, this podcast has just made me feel happy. Big Loves 4u 💝

  • @amaniiexxchnge
    @amaniiexxchnge 2 місяці тому +3

    I love this video so much. There’s so many diff types of women and that’s why I love them so much and love seeing diff types of styles. I hate when ppl especially women tell eachother what not to wear and how to present themselves because not everyone is the same we all have so much beauty I think we just need to enjoy that instead of tryna mold everyone into the same thing thank you for having natural hair on here. I didn’t kno what my style was until I saw the romantic genre u shared it’s me to the last detail.

  • @shaniseburris9839
    @shaniseburris9839 17 днів тому

    Loved this video!! Thank you!

  • @girlrey2000
    @girlrey2000 Місяць тому +1

    Love this essence breakdown!

  • @missfabidia
    @missfabidia 2 місяці тому +2

    80 % Ethereal + 20 % Classic

  • @platinumcloset4448
    @platinumcloset4448 Місяць тому +3

    It’s so crazy because I vouch from dramatic to ingenue all the time and the essence are so so different

  • @rreyyahh
    @rreyyahh 26 днів тому

    this is my first time seeing a video where the examples look and apply to me wow keep doing what youre doing 💗💗

  • @ravennr97
    @ravennr97 Місяць тому +1

    This was so helpful. I now know I'm a natural with a touch of ingenue.

  • @ThalvePereira
    @ThalvePereira 27 днів тому

    omg i loved this video *-* all these black references you´re on a spot! they aren´t very common on sm when talking ´bout aesthetics so good job girl u fvckin ruled well i´m Brazilian so i´m into different kinds of aesthetics but i got the point of the essences which made very much sense thank youuu

  • @tatsbykiara
    @tatsbykiara Місяць тому +2

    I really love how the examples are all of women of color! I needed this!❤

  • @jercoryiac1537
    @jercoryiac1537 Місяць тому

    Thank you SO MUCH for this! I’ve seriously been trying to figure out what my “style” is, and I’ve been so confused lol. This finally put words how I dress. Realized I’m a natural essence✨but I pull from the others depending on my mood. So helpful❤

  • @silviasoares2302
    @silviasoares2302 2 місяці тому +1

    I loved it so much!!! ❤ this was so informative and I love that you are including natural hair in it, thanks for the content!

  • @Hush-puppy
    @Hush-puppy Місяць тому

    New subscriber I really enjoyed this! Thank you for taking to time to put this together ❤

  • @ijeomawakama7200
    @ijeomawakama7200 23 дні тому +1

    well done girl! this was enjoyable to watch! you did really great at organising and categorising everything neatly and easily to understand 😊

  • @allaboutliv7402
    @allaboutliv7402 Місяць тому +1

    Omg we need a pt 2! Cuz I feel like I lean more towards edgy/alt but I also love color, heels, pink and things of that nature. So please help me 😭💕

  • @127kawaii
    @127kawaii Місяць тому +1

    This was such an interesting video concept! I really enjoyed all the photo examples ~

  • @daniela5748
    @daniela5748 Місяць тому +6

    Oh snap. I’m the “Natural” w/ a touch of “Romantic.” Thank you for this ❤❤

  • @marrieabba3607
    @marrieabba3607 27 днів тому

    I recently found my essence, which is the natural essence. I found myself gravitating towards this essence. I love how low maintenance yet chic it is. I also recently got locs too. I haven’t been able to update my wardrobe but I really can’t wait to explore more into this

  • @morob1981
    @morob1981 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this video. I have seen similar content like this, but not showcasing the melinates beauties. Seeing them helped me see myself more in these essences.❤

  • @laylakeating8135
    @laylakeating8135 Місяць тому

    Love seeing so many different looks 💓

  • @miamagination
    @miamagination Місяць тому +1

    This video is stellar!!! I love the examples and hairstyles you chose for each type. It made it so clear to figure out which ones resonate with me best (I’m a mix of dramatic + gamine + natural). I’m looking forward to more content like this - keep going, wishing you the very best ✨

  • @merriem24
    @merriem24 Місяць тому

    I’ve always love the hiking, outdoorsy essence.

  • @cheryljohnston8687
    @cheryljohnston8687 Місяць тому +1

    You surprised me. I didn't expect to be on the list. But I have Natural Essance. Comfortable and Simple leaning towards Streetwear. When i was a loose natural i always loved braids and twists, so much so that i left a set in and now have locs. I've always been perceived as chill and a fly on the wall, so it shows in the way I dress. Although as a wife I have an undeniable desire to lean more into Ingenue specifically Soft Girl, so i dress this way while at home. good video

  • @meeunice
    @meeunice 2 місяці тому +1

    This was interesting! Thank you for sharing ❤ I shaved my Afro a few months ago. I'm trying to find my style again. It's quite intimidating.

  • @JustMeg29
    @JustMeg29 2 місяці тому

    Another great and beautiful video! I am totally a natural but I really believe that I may be a little mix of everything except wearing sports clothes when I am not working out. It makes me feel ugly lol.

  • @pinkmoonmeadow
    @pinkmoonmeadow Місяць тому +2

    found out i’m an ingenue! just need to start being more confident in wearing it more. tyy for a guide for black girls !

  • @UMMH2000
    @UMMH2000 2 місяці тому

    I love this ❤❤❤

  • @Lunar123424
    @Lunar123424 2 місяці тому

    I was watching and Waiting….the you said Boho Classic Natural ! That’s me 💚

  • @ImaniHospedale
    @ImaniHospedale 2 місяці тому +1

    I feel like I’m a classic/romantic /natural lol. I like to be my earthy self, but when I step out, it’s fur coats, patterns and prints☺️☺️
    At work I tone it down because of my curves👀🫠

  • @lexglowup977
    @lexglowup977 Місяць тому

    I identify with Ingenue the most but also Natural. Loved this breakdown!

  • @carpediem8855
    @carpediem8855 Місяць тому

    Love love love this video! Keep it up!

  • @rewbi2196
    @rewbi2196 2 місяці тому +8

    Nice video with amazing visuals, thank you.
    By the way, coquette is pronounced like this: "KO-ket"

  • @jlnapoleon
    @jlnapoleon Місяць тому

    Tatiana you honored us all and I honor you. Thank you

  • @alana.indigo
    @alana.indigo Місяць тому

    I absolutely loved this video! I’ve been natural hair since my sophomore year in college and have been having a difficult time relating to the femininity videos on YT because of the lack of representation of women who prefer not to wear wigs/weaves. I’ve tried but they itch! I can’t take it! 😅 GREAT VIDEO!

  • @SimplisticallyDigital
    @SimplisticallyDigital 2 місяці тому

    Great guide! I fit multiple. ✨

  • @monicacreator3168
    @monicacreator3168 2 місяці тому +1

    I like a mix of ingenue, classic, angelic and natural with a good pop of color

  • @emilyvbr1878
    @emilyvbr1878 Місяць тому

    I have struggled to understand essences until this video. Thank you!

  • @Sunny49599
    @Sunny49599 Місяць тому +1

    Girrrrllllll you ate with this video!!!!!

  • @herpderpy9445
    @herpderpy9445 Місяць тому

    You helped me put a vocabulary to what I already knew. I'm probably 80% natural/20% classic, which makes sense since there is a bit of overlap in parts.

  • @Vhusi
    @Vhusi 27 днів тому

    Thank you so much for this amazing video ❤❤

  • @khadijahmuhammad4539
    @khadijahmuhammad4539 Місяць тому

    Sis this video is amazing love it!✊🏾✊🏾

  • @xshesyourqorqeousxx3
    @xshesyourqorqeousxx3 Місяць тому

    My essence is definitely romantic. My confirmation is that I have a good chunk of the pics that you used saved on IG, I follow some of those ladies, and pics like those make up majority of my explorer page. I love Queen Pokoo’s page. She’s definitely my top beauty inspo.

  • @mmc1227
    @mmc1227 Місяць тому +4

    I like classic and ingenue.

  • @jessicabw
    @jessicabw Місяць тому

    Thank you for this breakdown!
    I think I want to aim for the classic and romantic.

  • @kemuntomaranga9576
    @kemuntomaranga9576 29 днів тому +3

    Oh this is going to go platinum in the black girl circles

  • @AmberEverywhere
    @AmberEverywhere 20 днів тому

    New Subby here!!!! I don’t know how many new moms are out there, but I love Tatiana‘s voice. It reminds me of a grown up version of Gracie‘s corner.