I can’t be the only one who felt this way after learning they were pregnant?
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- Опубліковано 2 лип 2024
- Did you continue riding through your pregnancy?
At what point did you realize it was no longer safe to continue?
I’d love to hear your stories in the comments - I know there are so many mixed opinions on this subject.
I feel it comes down to - how big of a part of your life is it when you found out?
If you’d just started learning, it’s probably not the best idea to continue.
However, if you’re a confident rider who’s ridden most of your life and it’s simply your lifestyle, then it’s safe to trust your gut to know when it’s time to call it quits.
It’s like someone who goes to the gym when pregnant - if you’re someone who’s always worked out, everyday - then there’s less harm to continue through pregnancy than someone who just decided to start going.
But I’d love to hear your thoughts - kind words only please. All negativity will be deleted. This is a safe place not a place for judgement.
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Anyone who says pregnant women shouldn't ride because it's dangerous should also agree pregnant women shouldn't travel in cars. That is also pretty dangerous.
Even when you can’t ride, you can still lead him through the trails
@@cathynewyork7918 great minds think alike
A good rule of thumb is - whatever level you were at before pregnancy is safe to continue. Falling does NOT cause miscarriages except in bad novels and movies. The uterus is well protected.
At some point, your growing belly is going to make it hard to get on the horse ... stop then.
He knows you're pregnant..he'll take good care of you ❤
My doctor said to keep riding, as it keeps muscles in shape. She said "you'll know when to stop." That said, she did say to stay in the arena to remove variables that would spook a horse. Congrats by the way!
I have read stories of women who have run marathons when they were 6+ months.
No jumping through flaming hoops until after the baby.
Do what you are comfortable doing. When you can't ride anymore, take him out for walks or just be there with him. His presence will be enough 😊
You still being there with him will reassure Rudnick that he isn't being "replaced" by the baby. As long as you two have been together, you have a bond. He will be careful with you.
I rode my horse until I was 7 to 8 month along, I just walked my horse,your body will tell you when it's time to stop,I had a healthy baby girl
I'm just your average, lambda equestrian. I started riding at 12 and had my first daughter at 28. At the beginning of my pregnancy my issues were more psychological than physical, I was afraid to fall and lose the baby. My obstetrician told me that during the first months of pregnancy the fetus was well protected by the pelvic bones, so I kept on riding - carefully of course.
At 6 months, I started to have short breath and lower back pain. In addition, I took quite a lot of weight and was worried about my horse well-being (I was too heavy), so I stopped riding.
Of course, every woman is different.
I know the stress of your work. I used to be a nurse. Giving all you have in situations like that costs us, but we are willing to pay that price. So, I understand why you need this. Please just let your doctor know you are riding. Roan knows. He knew you were pregnant before you did. He followed you around”protecting” you. He’s good. My only concern is riding too far away from home, something did happen and you’re so far away. Stupid question, but your cellphone can call for help from there? But really, you have to do what you have to do for your mental health. It’s incredibly important because it’s how you do life.
@@cathynewyork7918 many trekkers, who go out where there's no cell service, have a Garmin communication device.
Oh no we’d definitely not do any long rides alone and we always have cell service for emergencies! Not a stupid question at all!
My mom was training and riding all through her pregnancies. But she was a gentle trainer before it was a thing. Late 50s and early 60s. We came out fine and were riding almost before we could walk.
Given your bond with Rudnik, I think it will be fine. Just be watchful. ❤
Sensitive people are the most compassionate people. Try not be sad... It'll be a few months at the most. I think your body will tell you when to stop.
But only for awhile, at least you can still be with Rudy throughout.
Take good care now! 😊❤💪
My grandfather, an MD, told my mother who rode a lot not to jump anything over 5 feet. At the time, she was riding trained jumpers, not novices like Rudnik. Your decision makes sense. Your body will tell you!
I had a horsemanship class for 2 consecutive semesters at university and the lady teaching the class was pregnant throughout that time. She said the doc told her she could continue to ride until she felt like she couldn’t anymore. Best of luck to you. Just get some advice from a trusted professional. God bless.
I teach prenatal yoga (I'm NOT a doctor), and have been pregnant myself. Consult with YOUR doctor. My doctor told me that I could "do anything you were doing before, adjusting as you got bigger." And that's what we tell our pregnant yoga students: "We're gonna modify this for you, and you will have to do some re-thinking about your practice, but you CAN and SHOULD keep your practice up." You will be fine - just be careful and don't overdo it.
This is so quiet i love it no unecessary talking
My doctors always told me that I could continue doing any activity I've always done until my body told me to stop. So i water skied until I was 4 months when I got a pain along the side of my belly. ❤
I agree with your decision. It makes good sense.
Remember the joy of your connection to him. When you feel it is time to suspend riding till after the baby. It is an opportunity to spend time with him and sort out a modified routine and teach new skills for when the baby arrives. Enjoy
I'm in New Zealand and 2009 a friend of mine won a National Eventing Title while she was 4 and a 1/4 months pregnant with her Daughter. She stopped riding shortly afterwards, just gave lessons. Her Daughter turned out just fine.
Do what you need to do, I'm sure Rudnik will take best care of you. ❤
Take it easy…walk on him…no cantering etc., only you know how you feel. It isn’t for ever remember, just while you’re carrying. Congratulations…your baby will grow up and form beautiful relationships with horses just like you xx
Have a friend who rode every day, pregnant, easy delivery as it strengthens the muscles..
So I’m just a man. I ride bicycles for the peace of mind, but have a spin degeneration disease sometime I have give up riding do to the pain. But I get pass the pain the last two years have been very hard. But now I’m on the mend going six months without riding when by fast, for you it will too. Then you will be a mother! And have the joy of teaching your child to ride. Maybe you can’t ride during your pregnancy but you and your horse can still go for long walks along that beautiful trail. When my time come to an end there will no one in life to hold my hand. Take joy from what you do in holding a person hand as they pass.
Congratulations! I was very active during my pregnancy and it made a huge difference in the delivery. The night I went into labor I was running up and down the stairs playing with my beagle puppy. You will know when to stop.
I rode until the bump made getting off impossible. Getting on was less of an issue.
The riders I have known who got pregnant continued riding at their usual level until they got so big that it became uncomfortable and disrupted their balance to the point that they needed to stop in order to be safe for the remainder of their pregnancy. They were experienced riders and were able to ride until later in the pregnancy. I think as long as you feel comfortable and confident in your riding skills, take precautions and do not take any unnecessary risks attempting new things you are not already competent with, you should be fine to continue on until you feel in your body that you need to stop. Everyone is different and how long you can continue to ride safely will largely depend on how you feel and how your body develops through the pregnancy. Hopefully, you will be able to continue on for quite a few months.
As long as there’s no complications, you can ride and have that baby right upon that horse if you so desire😄💓💗Go Girl👍
We had a 16.1 hand Appy gelding..he raced, he was a pony horse, he was the horse out son graduated to from his pony. Our son used to shiny up Appy leg, saddle lacings, etc. to get in the saddle. Time for halter or bridle Appy would drop his head tilmson was done..so many wonderful memories of that horse.
I was riding in my 6th month. Granted, it was easy and slow trail riding, but I was still on a horse. The doctor said as long as I didn't hurt, it was fine. The only reason I stopped was due to a tragedy.
Every body is different,I was an ocasional Ryder when very young,at 23 years got pregnant for the second time ,but I didn’t know I was,so I went riding one Sunday and I almost lost the baby,every person has a different reaction to sports and pregnancy,I think you will know when to quit,many blessings with the coming baby !
Firstly, may I respectfully point out that your job has FAR heavier physical demands and risks than a gentle ride along a path does. Secondly is that Mongolian women, Siberian women, and Native American women have ridden horseback throughout their pregnancies with no problems at all, countless times. 🙂 I think as long as you feel ok with it, and just keep it on a chill vibe, you can probably ride until you feel like it's time to stop.
You are being wise to listen to your inner voice. Rudnik seems smart and patient.
Riding is therapeutic and meditative. ❤
It all depends on you and the horse. Choose where you ride to try to reduce the chance of a spook, though any horse can spook at anytime. If you can either ride with someone or check in at the beginning and end of each ride so someone knows “to call out the cavalry” if you are overdue. I suspect you won’t feel too many physical changes until half way or so. May be shorter rides when the baby starts bouncing on that bladder too much 🤣 It was suggested that I give up riding (more driving really) when I had kidney surgery 7 years ago. I currently own 6 drafts and drive anywhere from one to 3 at a time. I am more cautious since I don’t have a back up kidney anymore but give up horses, heck no. I try to only drive when someone else is on the farm or text my husband as I leave the barn and when I return, it makes him feel better. Good luck and just remember how embarrassing it is to end up in your own ER (like my RN sister did one night).
As long as you choose and are okay with, that being said that last month severly messes with ya lol Congrats kid, enjoy they grow fast,too fast.
Just get on that horse and ride. It doesn’t mean you gallop! Just ride. Enjoy. And, true…your horse knows you are pregnant. Hell, I was is labor and rode a bike because I was tired of walking. My son, 10 lbs 2 1/2 ozs was born a few hours later with no issue. Just ride! Enjoy!
We had horses for about 20 years…even the grumpy mares were like pussy cats around children..the younger, the gentler the horse. About preteen time it changed..not as trusting of adults
Just an old guy here, so what do I know? My wife taught gymnastics and trampoline work well into the pregnancy of our second child. She was hands on, on the balance beam, floor exercise, and trampoline. She did not stand off to the side and shout instructions. Our daughter was perfect, arriving right on time. You know yourself and your needs better than any doctor. You know Rudnik better than any horse whisperer. You two (and B) will work it out and you will make the decision when it is time. I wish you all All the Best!
Thank you so much 🥰
You know yourself and your horse better then anyone. Your mental health and happiness is just as important as your physical. You’re not doing the ‘crazy’ stuff so you’ve already cut back on your activities. It’s better to stay active and fit through pregnancy than to become weak and out of shape. Unless you have a definite issue, or health concern there should be no reason to stop riding. Women are tougher and more resilient than people give us credit for. YOU will know when you have to stop.
So what I have learned is there is a lot more to being with your horse than just riding - might I suggest simply spending time with your horse - like just hanging out, extra grooming - a little more light training or liberty training - just hanging out in some of those lovely spots - so again so much more to bonding with your horse than just riding
Remember, being in shape for riding and labor is good/advantageous. The weight shift to get on could be harder on your horse, use a mounting block? Also thought about, don't forget ground work. If you need to, you can do driving exercises, obstacle training, walking....
He will wait for you, and if there is a day when he needs time off, you will wait for him. You are partners, plus he has another buddy that may make more progress when he pitch hits for you!
You’ve got this 👍🌷
Keep going as long as you can and after the birth, get back in the saddle as soon as you can! Nothing compares to riding and spending time with your equine friend. 🐎
Congrats!!!
You do you. You are obviously experienced. Trust your inner knowing! God bless you. You have a beautiful story and real life! Enjoy every second!🦋
I rode a lot longer than 6 weeks. No problem
Rudnik will sense your pregnancy…I think if you keep him really involved he will take good care of you
Fallon Taylor barrel raced professionally while she was pregnant so I figure if she can do that then you can ride as long as you and baby are safe.
Don't ride fast or hard ride softly not rough 😊🤗🙏
I have total trust in your judgement. Congratulations to you both. You are such a good rider and Rudnik is so attentive to you, let him nuzzle your belly and he will learn tenderness is needed here, I'm sure. 🥹☺️
No worries, Rudnik will tell you when child is in distress and when to stop. Child and horse have a deep bond already 😊
I think Rudnik has got your back (figuratively speaking). He senses you are pregnant, as you’ve shown in previous videos. You and Rudnik have a great relationship and have built a deep bond. Bless you both (and baby). ❤
Thank you🥰
You keep riding! Eiding alone is not a danger; only a fall would be an issue, and as long as you have a calm horse and a peaceful train, that is not much of a risk.
Certainly, trail riding with alternate times riding in a paddock or arena is fine.
and yes, Rudnik will sense the need for him to be more careful, Horses are sensitive and very protective of their people. He'll be careful and calm for you, no doubt.
Can always switch to side saddle later on,
@@cathynewyork7918 I have a photo of my grandmother Sidesaddle, in all those old long dark dresses ❗Mom lived to be 94 ...her Mom passed at around the same age. Those photos of Granny 'Fanny' must be from just after the turn of the 20th Century💜
Silva Martin, Boyd Martin's wife, rode for a long time during her latest pregnancy. Just listen to your body.
Congratulations! 🎉
Trust your instincts on when to stop riding , believe me YOU will know
There's also carriage driving as an option! Could be a new way to bond without riding per se
Oh I just discovered your channel and enjoyed watching you and your horse bond❤❤❤❤
CONGRATULATIONS!💖 I think you are in safe hooves with Rudnik he will take care of you while you are out riding. Stay safe though 💖
I think careful monitoring of your particular pregnancy is key. If your health and baby's are 'all systems go', imho your exercise and Rudnik's are beneficial, no reason to stop; unless you're worried he'll spook or something, which is another matter. Take care blessings to you and your growing family.
I grew up with a big farm family..several Swedish relatives own farms yet all farming together, lots of Minnesota land. The women never stopped riding until they were too big to get themselves on the horse even with the use of a step…that was the rule.
If they felt twinges while riding they evaluated them,,is it baby moving or is it muscles having issues..then they would stop. They did not gallop..
Listen to body it will let you know when you should give up until then happy rides
Most doctors would prefer we live in hamster balls. Your body is well equipped to protect your pregnancy. Unless you have actual issues in it, trust your body ❤
Until my son…correction
Please speak to your doctor and follow his/her advice.
Well, my mother always liked to tell the story of how she was out riding her beloved horse the day before I was born. She said that I was practically born on the back of a horse. So...😊
I love that!! And honestly for us horsey gals - our happy place is in the saddle so what better way to stay relaxed during some of the toughest months of our lives ♥️
Carry on: The little guy is going to come out 'posting'
I rode everyday before and during clear up to the day I gave birth!!!! Just mind your P's and Q's
Could u switch to different dept. for a year or two?
Why would it break your heart? You'll go back to riding soon enough. It's not as if you've got to stop forever.
there's a bit of grieving for things of the maiden days ... yet the joy of a child overcomes most grief ❗At least In my experience of 73 years❗💜🙏💜‼
Any day you can't ride is heart breaking! You ride until your body tells you to stop! Congrats!
Rudnik is respectful and an experienced person like yourself KNOWS when that Time Comes to no longer Ride🏇💯‼️♥️ I'm not your Doc, just a Faithful Fan♥️‼️ All I know iza WHOA HORSEY🤣‼️ deb in RudnikCarriesMom&BabyTownz, SC🐎 07/03/2024
#RudikIfYourBackHurtsSayWHOA# 😂❤
I think of all the physical work that women have done, somtimes up to a few minutes before giving birth. I agree with the keep riding staying in shape and at some point, staying in the arena area. Ps; Mary road a donkey the day she gave birth at night, after walking a rough road a long, long while. She was likely riding side saddle, though.