When You WANT To Make A Man Miss You Avoid DOING These Things

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  • When You WANT To Make A Man Miss You Avoid DOING These Things... In this dating advice video, I will give you the three surprising things that make a man miss you that you should not overlook. You may want to make a man miss you on first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process.
    I don't want you to be with a guy that you can't make him miss you. I want you to know the different ways you can make a man miss you when you are in a relationship with him or dating him. Embrace this dating advice to learn how to make a man miss you badly.
    I want you to know how to make any man miss you and want you. If you feel like your man has become distant or you're worried he doesn't text or call as much, this is the right dating advice for you as I will explain how to make him miss you badly. Watch to the end to the things that make a man miss you.
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  • @nianijones4611
    @nianijones4611 4 місяці тому +178

    From a female perspective and what has worked for me: make sure you look and smell good whenever he sees you, smile and look happy instead of looking mad and pissed off. Be feminine and turn off the masculine energy, when he looks in your direction smile and greet him. When he is ready to talk, respond in a caring and soft manner…yet respectful to yourself. I believe men just need space sometimes and that’s ok. If you want him to miss you, appear to be a place he can return to that is peaceful. If you want him out of your life, move on 🤷🏽‍♀️ I see nothing wrong with telling a man he makes you feel good and safe when he’s around and you miss him, but you respect his space. I don’t like games, so I don’t play them.

  • @imissny
    @imissny 4 місяці тому +55

    There is nothing better than finding someone who matches your energy. 🖤

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +106

    Confidence: Is when you truly believe the person whom wants you wants you back, but being realistic about what is going on in the connection. Love is not supposed to be confusing.

  • @paulettejuarez12
    @paulettejuarez12 4 місяці тому +149

    I think the bigger question should be how are you planning on making a healthy relationship playing mind games with each other.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +12

      🙏

    • @PricelessJesus
      @PricelessJesus 4 місяці тому +7

      Don't do it. It's unhealthy 😢

    • @skinate
      @skinate 4 місяці тому +11

      @@MeetStephanSpeaksI think the follow up question is how do you plan on building a healthy relationship by not being the real you.

  • @angelasharpley1111
    @angelasharpley1111 4 місяці тому +48

    A guy came in my restaurant last week, he said he see’s transparency when he looks in my eyes. No games ❤ it was a touching compliment.

  • @denanikiawilliams
    @denanikiawilliams 4 місяці тому +71

    I have to stress that We have to make sure we are in a position to hear from our Heavenly father. Seeking his will in choosing the spouse he need us to be with because of his purpose. My encouragement is to be very vulnerable and dont be scared to be wrong and thrive from that. God will see you through it all🙏🙏🙏.

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +5

      Well said 🙏

    • @denanikiawilliams
      @denanikiawilliams 4 місяці тому +3

      @@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you sweetheart and thank you for receiving ❤🙏💪🙌

    • @ms.j.w.4208
      @ms.j.w.4208 4 місяці тому +3

      AMEN!!❤🙏🏾❤

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +67

    Right.. nobody should be playing games. It just doesn't work..

  • @anajimenez5372
    @anajimenez5372 4 місяці тому +21

    Love your videos! The part about not always being available is more about making sure as women we continue to have our own life. As long as you’re not doing it as a game, if you usually go to Bible study Tuesdays don’t miss that for a date. If you hang out with your sister on Friday nights keep doing that don’t reschedule for a date. It’s a balance.

  • @CLAUDETTEBELFIELD
    @CLAUDETTEBELFIELD 4 місяці тому +28

    I would like to chime in on this post. I am from the Generation X Generation, and by now, in this stage in our lives, we don't have time for games. Gaming should never be played or even discussed. Who has that type of energy? I feel that most good women are always opened for conversation when things seem dismal, distant, dull, or even dark. Our generation is a little more used to the men, taking lead with conversations and approaches. I do know things in society with dating etiquette have changed, but if a man is really feeling a woman, then shoot your shot. A man with his own unique approach can vibe whether or not the woman is for him or not. If a guy really wants that conversation, then all he has to do is reach out. I guess I am a little old school. Before the texting game, if you wanted someone, you either called or wrote. I'm just saying.

    • @me-meluv6921
      @me-meluv6921 3 місяці тому +2

      Big facts 💯 very well said.🎉🎉😂

  • @ceomariamaboney
    @ceomariamaboney 4 місяці тому +7

    Show him who you are… or “he can get the hell on” 😂❤🙏🏾

  • @ikrikr4330
    @ikrikr4330 4 місяці тому +11

    I think make yourself 💯 available and vulnerable if you see there is effort from him. Reciprocating his energy. Say yes!! If he’s the one ….. you will know because he will stick around. No more games !!!

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 4 місяці тому +9

    HONESTY is the best policy just be yourself
    I,ll continue to be 100 percent me

  • @khadijahrehman8792
    @khadijahrehman8792 4 місяці тому +12

    I don’t want anybody missing me I’m better off alone ….. I’m tired of doing house chores need some rest goodnight guys 😉

  • @skinate
    @skinate 4 місяці тому +14

    In end goal just be yourself and respect yourself.

  • @kris123-v9w
    @kris123-v9w 2 місяці тому +1

    Gosh, I have played all of these games, and you're right, they just drove me nuts and made me insecure :(

  • @Mswinters1924
    @Mswinters1924 4 місяці тому +4

    Awww that intro was touching and I totally agree. I believe all of us would long to have their love interest miss them…great advice!

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +28

    People should be following their OWN intuition, and not base their decision on mere "advice". It's your life to live. People have to take accountibility for their OWN ACTIONS. Not saying "Well he or she said for me to do this.." As adults we must not give other people control of our life...

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +27

    The heart is a beautiful thing...

    • @docwhoshops
      @docwhoshops 4 місяці тому +4

      The Bible says the heart is deceitful above all things. When our heart is in the right place, it is a beautiful thing, but our hearts can be deceptive and wicked too. It’s so complicated this thing called life! I just I’m trying my best to follow God so that my heart will stay in the right place.

    • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
      @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +1

      @@docwhoshops I don't always listen to what the bible says, because you have to use discernment considering how many times the scriptures have been tampered with. People know when their heart is in the right place or not, and certainly TMH does.

    • @victoriousneish429
      @victoriousneish429 3 місяці тому

      ​@@docwhoshops 💯 exactly what I said 😂 the heart ❤️ renewed by Christ is a beautiful thing!

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +10

    Trust issues...if someone is used to people lying to them to the point where even if people are being honest with them about things they have already told them, then again that is the fault of the person with the trust issues...

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +9

    I always say analyze things from your highest sense or vibration, because it would be a shame for anyone to misjudged based on their own insecurities. It should be an equal give and take. No other way. I am usually a great communicator, so if I have done that and someone still doesn't get it, then that isn't my fault.

  • @Cindy_Love_2025
    @Cindy_Love_2025 4 місяці тому +11

    Lovely quote!❤️
    …We need transparency & openness.💯Showing who you are..💯
    I agree💯
    I love this👍🏼💯❤️
    Excellent video!
    You’re always on point!

  • @pudgie011
    @pudgie011 4 місяці тому +4

    Im tired of these men honestly have met 4 already in dating sites and they end up being married...im coming to the conclusion of wanting to be single now and not have to deal with too much nonsense! Sadly it comes to that! Im enjoying my life with friends that are single as well and having a great time with them.

  • @francoisefenner1551
    @francoisefenner1551 4 місяці тому +15

    It all sounds exhausting.

  • @Epic-m4h
    @Epic-m4h 4 місяці тому +2

    Well said. Treat people how you want to be treated

  • @heatherpilaroscia9911
    @heatherpilaroscia9911 3 місяці тому

    My ex used to call me insecure and while I know we all have insecurities in life, I would always say that HE was the one making me insecure in our relationship. Looking back on our relationship I can see now that I was right and being with him was the issue, not my insecurities.

  • @Liimeno
    @Liimeno 4 місяці тому

    It's the way this youtuber, this man, came in after a CERTAIN youtuber.. *cough cough player's club anyone?* started putting all these manipulation tactics in my head. Me knowing that IS NOT ME am just like "Really this is what is gonna take me to my dream guy?..." I know it's all on me of what I decide to do but this guy is giving advice that isn't..so toxic. Thank you.

  • @kwamd.1461
    @kwamd.1461 2 місяці тому

    As a man, I appreciated this perspective.

  • @sunnysideup3757
    @sunnysideup3757 3 місяці тому +1

    I wish I was born on the earlier years where love isn’t so complicated.

  • @Afternoon99
    @Afternoon99 4 місяці тому +4

    My opinion about “don’t always say yes to him” is…
    It’s not about me playing game. But most of the time women are afraid to offend men by saying no or refuse to do things, even though she’s uncomfortable. And many times we tend to do that. That’s why the topic of “don’t always say yes to him” exists. Because we are afraid to offend men and their reactions after we said no would make us feel like a bad guy. So I feel like this topic is actually to tell women that we don’t need to say yes to everything men ask for when we are uncomfortable or unable to. For me personally I’m not playing game if I ever say no to men, but it’s because I really can’t. I wouldn’t say no to the things I want to do with him either, if I can’t or don’t want to for a reason, then I would say no. If I can or want, I would say yes. Simply like that but sometimes people take this topic in the wrong way.

  • @TerryGuzmanMartinez
    @TerryGuzmanMartinez 4 місяці тому +12

    Good to know this from a man. Thanks 😊

  • @__una_k
    @__una_k 3 місяці тому

    Oh my gosh that quote you said at the beginning. I literally had tears streaming out of my eyes. That was a few days ago. I've come back to this video just now to hear you say it again and the same thing happening. Beautiful ❤

  • @PeggyHartman-e2q
    @PeggyHartman-e2q 4 місяці тому +2

    That is playing games. All these things are playing games. When you like each other you will know it , period. You will know the difference and you won’t have to question it. It won’t matter who calls who. You won’t keep account of injuries. You will know by , if he does what he says he’s going to do .

  • @TawandaClark-ii9ps
    @TawandaClark-ii9ps 4 місяці тому +4

    Why is missing someone has to be a bad thing? It is not supposed to be..no tricks there.A person can show a person exactly whom they are, but they have to be paying attention...

  • @roxymitchell4296
    @roxymitchell4296 4 місяці тому +1

    Being a person of peace has to be in your character. If you don't this is something you should work on. It is important for you to work on your own peace before you can offer peace.

  • @boogienights418
    @boogienights418 4 місяці тому +1

    @13:00 Stephan is speaking FACTS! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Wise_Sauce
    @Wise_Sauce 4 місяці тому +35

    Points 🤗
    2:15
    6:16
    9:55
    16:09

  • @milliemill3782
    @milliemill3782 4 місяці тому +3

    This is so funny because I am one of those naturally mysterious people. I'm really trying to work on it because there is a guy that lives across the hall from me and he told me I "move like a spy"...lol. That sounds really bad.

  • @TanyaOden
    @TanyaOden 3 місяці тому

    Great video! Game players need to get played. Sorry not sorry. It's childish and manipulative. Ain't nobody got time for that. One thing about "game playing & playing a role" sooner or later they're going to forget their lines...more like "LIES" and get exposed. But when you're being yourself, transparent and tell the truth you don't have to worry about that!

  • @Jazzitay
    @Jazzitay 3 місяці тому

    Thank u for speaking and teaching in a positive healthy way❤🙏🫵🏼

  • @angelasharpley1111
    @angelasharpley1111 4 місяці тому +2

    Sweet quote

  • @nikitad3987
    @nikitad3987 3 місяці тому +1

    What if he’s there for you when you need him, but you find out he’s into other woman as well? I’ve felt it best to pull back, not call, text etc. People give time to whom they want to give their time to. My thing is, why help me if you’re into others? What is his agenda? Have his cake and eat it too? Who has time for that🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @CC-mc9dw
      @CC-mc9dw 3 місяці тому

      I see this as well with my counselor whos attracted to me, I think he’s inconsistent because like a lot of men- they just want to sleep with you.

    • @CC-mc9dw
      @CC-mc9dw 3 місяці тому

      Keep your boundaries and if he pulls back or does something you don’t like, match his energy

  • @Coraferguson3
    @Coraferguson3 4 місяці тому

    Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @albertshinskiy
      @albertshinskiy 4 місяці тому

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

    • @Coraferguson3
      @Coraferguson3 4 місяці тому

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?

    • @henryjackson-i5c
      @henryjackson-i5c 4 місяці тому

      His name is dr apala omofulma, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

    • @Coraferguson3
      @Coraferguson3 4 місяці тому

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

  • @sandersonsister_11
    @sandersonsister_11 4 місяці тому

    This video was really helpful. Thank you so much for busting bad dating advice. Thank you.

  • @lesliefuller7615
    @lesliefuller7615 3 місяці тому

    Needed to hear this

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke 3 місяці тому

    Yes what's goes around comes back

  • @sallysierraratigan9500
    @sallysierraratigan9500 3 місяці тому

    That is a beautiful quote.

  • @live_free_888
    @live_free_888 4 місяці тому

    Stephan, thank you!!! You are such a gem to us!!!! 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

  • @WISDOM-AdikwuMarthaOka
    @WISDOM-AdikwuMarthaOka 4 місяці тому

    Wow! You gave me a total different person to this subject. Thank you!

  • @chrissylinda8150
    @chrissylinda8150 4 місяці тому +6

    1. Don’t let him think he’s gotten you too soon
    2. Don’t say yes to him every time
    3. To not contact him
    4. Be mysterious

  • @Filomena44
    @Filomena44 4 місяці тому +1

    💯 agree
    Thank you for your wise knowledge

  • @luvdogs6
    @luvdogs6 4 місяці тому

    I am so glad that I am thinking the same way. I wonder at times if I am right. You validated this for me. Thank you. I am relieved. Now the playing games to make you miss them or being mysterious really aggravates me when it's done to me. Is it to make me wonder and get bothered, is it to make me jealous? I really get turned off by this.

  • @tbyrdpaints
    @tbyrdpaints 4 місяці тому

    The best quote ❤

  • @cdpglam8895
    @cdpglam8895 4 місяці тому

    This was a good video ❤

  • @jenniferoliveira2858
    @jenniferoliveira2858 4 місяці тому

    Very interesting video!🧐

  • @-blessing16.
    @-blessing16. 3 місяці тому

    3:13 big facts 💯

  • @user-nd3tg5zn1b
    @user-nd3tg5zn1b 4 місяці тому +5

    Why do they say they miss you and love you and then ghost you? I am broken 💔

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  • @konosoangmoeketsi7231
    @konosoangmoeketsi7231 4 місяці тому

    Exactly my point

  • @karolinah12
    @karolinah12 4 місяці тому

    There is nothing you can build on with the wrong person, whatever mind pretzels you make or you don't. In the end it wont work either way.

  • @elsacubilla6805
    @elsacubilla6805 3 місяці тому

    New subscriber here🖐🏻

  • @georginaboateng205
    @georginaboateng205 4 місяці тому

    Great video tfs

  • @docwhoshops
    @docwhoshops 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you sir

  • @wandafossett846
    @wandafossett846 3 місяці тому

    😪🍉😔💦🔥💖💜😌
    I Miss you very much
    Im sorry i wasn't at the
    Great change Tour.. 🙏
    This what I'm saying!!
    A Change is gonna Cone.
    Its a Real True Connection
    Aint No Mountain High Enough
    From Getting To You. For the
    Man God has for me Will Receive
    This. Message. 🙏 And this Queen
    Queen 👑 aint begging. Just.bein
    Transparent and Vulnerable😊😍

  • @paulettealston8372
    @paulettealston8372 3 місяці тому +1

    Geese, what's up with all this extra stuff? Just be you. Be genuine, be honest. Be respectful. Be kind. If they like you for you then ok, but if they don't, then that's Ok also. Just be yourself.

  • @carmenelizabethchamorro8608
    @carmenelizabethchamorro8608 4 місяці тому

    So true there is no time to play games life is too short Need to know what you want and if you dont know what you want then there is the door see yah 🚪💯🤷🏽‍♀️🥰 Hey Stephan love & light Happy Blessed Friday 10-11-24

  • @latrinkabarnes9866
    @latrinkabarnes9866 3 місяці тому

    I emailed you bout your event in Atl on November 2... I never got a confirmation

  • @Portia620
    @Portia620 4 місяці тому

    Games prolong someone being in your life when they are NOt qualified to be there!

  • @truthbetold4639
    @truthbetold4639 4 місяці тому

    Being mysterious is not in favor of man or woman

  • @NicoleMarrero-2025
    @NicoleMarrero-2025 4 місяці тому +4

    He broke up with me but I have hope that he gone come back 😞and he told me not to block him so that means he want access to me?I don’t see myself with him unless is in person cuz we are long distance

    • @MeetStephanSpeaks
      @MeetStephanSpeaks  4 місяці тому +2

      🙏

    • @joanelulu8785
      @joanelulu8785 4 місяці тому

      Why will he break up then ask u not to block him? Cant you see this is a toxic attitude and he thinks he still has the right to go in and out of your life whenever he want??? Girl be wise!

  • @crystalvanness9139
    @crystalvanness9139 3 місяці тому

    Hi my name is Crystal I would love to have a conversation with you about this something how would I contact you to actually speak with you

  • @carmenmope371
    @carmenmope371 4 місяці тому

    Que palabras más bonitas

  • @tinabryan2502
    @tinabryan2502 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for saving me from another Heart break.I been following you for over a year ❤🙏🏽🫂

  • @Nerdish913
    @Nerdish913 4 місяці тому +1

    Love youuuu 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @monathomp4376
    @monathomp4376 4 місяці тому

    We broke up, but we still talk almost every day. We broke up a few times before and got back. I want us to get back together, i told him how i feel, and he told me how he feels. I did have some insecurities, and brought things from the past relationship into this one, due to not having time to heal. Its been a month or so since we broke up, i am over the hurt from my past. Its been two weeks, and still waiting for him to let me know what he wants to. What should i do?

    • @saydiavila1_
      @saydiavila1_ 4 місяці тому +1

      Wait. If he really loves you he will come back, pursue you. If a man wants you there is no mountain that he will not move to be with you! If he doesn’t do that then you probably need to dig deeper and ask yourself does he really love me? Does he really miss me?

    • @doroparker1702
      @doroparker1702 4 місяці тому

      You need to wait 6 to 9 months. Really want to waste so much time of your best years?
      A husband came back to his wife after 9 months and she was waiting to take him back.
      This happens but they were married for 10 or 15 years. You just tried to start a relationship.
      Forget it, focus on yourself and get yourself together.
      You better travel for some months or move to another city or another country.
      This helps you to get over your old relationship and get over this mess with the actual guy.
      Get a new phone number and don't give it to him.
      Start over and get a new life.

    • @monathomp4376
      @monathomp4376 3 місяці тому

      ​@@saydiavila1_ thank u

    • @monathomp4376
      @monathomp4376 3 місяці тому

      ​@@doroparker1702
      Ok. Thank u

  • @monaj33
    @monaj33 2 місяці тому

    If you have 3 boyfriends...they will miss you

  • @shunwilliams6180
    @shunwilliams6180 4 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @ireneutas4703
    @ireneutas4703 28 днів тому

    If he likes you he would contact you

  • @iveliceroman4524
    @iveliceroman4524 3 місяці тому

    The guy becames overly sensitive

  • @jaylaraexoxo
    @jaylaraexoxo 4 місяці тому +2

    😘

  • @ClaireFeltsman-ou8zy
    @ClaireFeltsman-ou8zy 4 місяці тому

    Goodbye to you

  • @user-fh1tr9zp3l
    @user-fh1tr9zp3l 3 місяці тому

    BAD advice is as dangerous as a HURRICANE stay clear

  • @Yesenia25-m8n
    @Yesenia25-m8n 4 місяці тому

    Just an advice. If you think writing a book is going to make you rich, think again. Dont depend on that book.Get a job. Make real money from a job.

  • @susanneberry236
    @susanneberry236 3 місяці тому

    black cat and hide in the corners

  • @luvdogs6
    @luvdogs6 4 місяці тому

    I am so glad that I am thinking the same way. I wonder at times if I am right. You validated this for me. Thank you. I am relieved. Now the playing games to make you miss them or being mysterious really aggravates me when it's done to me. Is it to make me wonder and get bothered, is it to make me jealous? I really get turned off by this.

  • @lilianlomeh4304
    @lilianlomeh4304 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤