1. Know your value!!! (Do NOT doubt yourself.) 2. Take yourself and your worth seriously. You need to BE A QUEEN to be treated like one. 3. Don’t give easy access to anyone, at any time. Access to your energy should be expensive. 4. Do NOT only express your boundaries. YOU MUST show them. 5. Always be ready to walk away. 6. Show that you are focused on actions not on words. 7. Have a healthy degree of skepticism. You’re not naive and you’re not negative. 8. You must be willing to say NO and you must be willing to lose the man, if needed. 9. Never EVER chase a man! A truly worthy woman, (who knows her worth) does not EVER chase a man. Giving the same energy that you're getting is key and if you don't like that energy then move on!!! NOW!!! It can be hard but that's when you need to choose yourself over the damn illusion/fantasy. A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period. So... If he ignores me I will step back and he will lose me. Simple. Simple. Non-dramatic and uncomplicated. I don’t, under any circumstance: play these childish-abusive-controlling mind games. I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me, and treats me as the Queen, I AM. (Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!) Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman: who knows my worth. Period. Also, We create each moment. This moment contains, through my focus, both positive and negative... I can put my attention on what I lack, what I don't have, what traumas I do have etc... And, I can put my attention on the calm moment that I am in, NOW, the food I just ate, and the fact that my body is satisfied, the shelter I do have... (You get my idea!) Both are here... And now. For the sake of fairness, I will allow myself to cry my pains, in the moment if/when they come/arise, AND also acknowledge the beauty I still have in my life NOW. Pain? Yes. Suffering? Indeed. And, also: wonderous magical divine beauty. Blessings to you!
Idk what to do lol! This guy pursued me hardddd and after about 2 weeks we ended up kissing and some other stuff (he was on top of me but clothes were on and no touching under clothes) and we dud it again but I’m scared he will think less of me (he said he doesn’t) but I don’t want him to think we’re FWB, I wanna be with him!! Idk how I’m supposed to come back from that 🤦♀️
Hey! So long as you’re both enjoying time together and you feel safe and good! You can never truly know, but it seems clear that there is a positive connection!! Celebrate that and when the timing is right you can continue to tell him how you feel. Something like “I feel anxious not knowing that we are not on the same page and I need better clarity in our relationship. Even though I don’t care about titles, I think we should be exclusive. What do you think?” Hopefully that can open up more conversation!
If he has agreement with his partners to continue that way then it’s between those adults. However if it’s not, then one should consider their well-being and boundaries and if that behavior is something tolerable or not. Just because he won’t take no for an answer doesn’t mean your answer needs to be yes.
Take a step back either way. Not a deal breaker.
Definitely! Dating is so unique to us all. It’s good to step back and better observe how things are going and moving forward.
1. Know your value!!! (Do NOT doubt yourself.)
2. Take yourself and your worth seriously. You need to BE A QUEEN to be treated like one.
3. Don’t give easy access to anyone, at any time. Access to your energy should be expensive.
4. Do NOT only express your boundaries. YOU MUST show them.
5. Always be ready to walk away.
6. Show that you are focused on actions not on words.
7. Have a healthy degree of skepticism. You’re not naive and you’re not negative.
8. You must be willing to say NO and you must be willing to lose the man, if needed.
9. Never EVER chase a man! A truly worthy woman, (who knows her worth)
does not EVER chase a man.
Giving the same energy that you're getting
is key
and if you don't like that energy
then move on!!! NOW!!!
It can be hard
but that's when you need to choose yourself
over the damn illusion/fantasy.
A man who loves a woman will not ignore her, ever, period.
So...
If he ignores me
I will step back
and he will lose me.
Simple. Simple.
Non-dramatic
and uncomplicated.
I don’t,
under any circumstance:
play these childish-abusive-controlling
mind games.
I will only be with a man who values and appreciates me,
and treats me as the Queen, I AM.
(Daughter of the Most Hight; King of kings!)
Because I am a beautiful and kind and divine
and sexy and wise and intelligent and magical woman:
who knows my worth.
Period.
Also,
We create each moment.
This moment contains,
through my focus,
both positive and negative...
I can put my attention on what I lack,
what I don't have,
what traumas I do have etc...
And,
I can put my attention on the calm moment that I am in, NOW,
the food I just ate, and the fact that my body is satisfied, the shelter I do have...
(You get my idea!)
Both are here...
And now.
For the sake of fairness,
I will allow myself to cry my pains, in the moment
if/when they come/arise,
AND
also acknowledge the beauty I still have in my life NOW.
Pain? Yes.
Suffering? Indeed.
And,
also:
wonderous magical divine beauty.
Blessings to you!
Bring comfortable with your own self outside of any relationship is always valuable.
Idk what to do lol! This guy pursued me hardddd and after about 2 weeks we ended up kissing and some other stuff (he was on top of me but clothes were on and no touching under clothes) and we dud it again but I’m scared he will think less of me (he said he doesn’t) but I don’t want him to think we’re FWB, I wanna be with him!! Idk how I’m supposed to come back from that 🤦♀️
Hey! So long as you’re both enjoying time together and you feel safe and good! You can never truly know, but it seems clear that there is a positive connection!! Celebrate that and when the timing is right you can continue to tell him how you feel. Something like “I feel anxious not knowing that we are not on the same page and I need better clarity in our relationship. Even though I don’t care about titles, I think we should be exclusive. What do you think?”
Hopefully that can open up more conversation!
@@jimmycue thank you soooo much!! ❤️❤️❤️
Plan interesting activities instead of just hanging out
Jimmy Cute 🥰
Thank you
Not for him...
For you then?
Just pinning 3:32 🙂
🎉 Thank you!
Wat if he is married and committed to the marriage and at the same time needs pleasure with other woman and cnt tk no for ananswere
If he has agreement with his partners to continue that way then it’s between those adults. However if it’s not, then one should consider their well-being and boundaries and if that behavior is something tolerable or not. Just because he won’t take no for an answer doesn’t mean your answer needs to be yes.
Because of original installation, men are designed to go forth .......and look for fresh meat. Old meat becomes hard to swallow.
Designed or programmed?
you sound like a 1 time hookup guy. nothing to offer or build on. get the sex then it is Over. Next