Why You So Mad Bro: Ashley Holmes v Trevor Holmes S24 E62
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- Ashley is done with Trevor's verbal abuse and has officially separated from from after he burned her personal items. Trevor wants to move back into the house and start new.
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He asking for a baby while he can’t even pay for the gas bill 😂😂😂
He wants to trap her
Makes ZERO sense.
WELL SAID I WAS WITH A STUPID MAN LIKE THIS, SO GLAD WERE NO LONGER TOGETHER
D-e-g-e-n-e-r-a-c-y
@@God-Love-Freedom you can say that again!!!!!!!!
Every statement he made literally began w/ blaming her for his inadequacies. Did he say the hair dryer & extra mirror time got the gas cut off? Run, girl, run!
He is full of excuses. He have anger problems
That’s the problem with him not having no brain that doesn’t know the difference between a gas bill & a electric bill?? SMH!!🤦🏾♀️
Can't even pay a 60 dollar gas bill. I see why he was so jealous.
Yes he did!😮😲🥴...run quick,fast and in a hurry! Loser!
and if she didn't put in all that effort to look pretty enough for him, he would complain that she let herself go. There's no winning with men like this
1:50 - "He is disrespectful, unstable, and broke." Damn, what else is there to say? Case closed!
I screamed 😂
I was like welp this is a case closed 🤣🤣🤣
Run sister, run. 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️ 🏃♀️
🤣🤣🤣
She said a mouthful. She came prepared. Papers served. Divorce is pending. 🎯🎯🎯
Judge said "You sound silly as a mug"😂😂😂and he does
😅
😂 judge wants to get him to answer a simple question. 🤔. He just cannot.
😂😂😂 I love her
And is😂
As a mug 😂😂😂 ain heard that in a minute
He took no accountability at all and placed blame on her for every single thing. I’m glad she’s leaving him.
Its what narcissists do.
The sad thing is... he was like this for 10 years. She is fed up.
CK, he is not a narcissist, he is what you called a Sorry man that’s empty. The sad part about it, he will find himself another victim, someone who is desperate to have a man.
@@lostu5108 I 100 % agree with you , and that's how narcissists operate .. its only when the " victim " he chooses has had enough of being bled dry , emotionally, financially, morally.. in every way .. they easily move on to the next woman , and they have inbuilt radars they can pick vits out easily, thing is he will reflect and mimic everything she wants in a man and she falls then it's too late.. he will never latch on to a strong woman .
He's one of those guys - the ones who keep saying "Oh, she pissed me off. Oh, she did this and that, she said this and that"!! It's all her fault - he's as pure as the driven snow, completely innocent!! Well, not only are you innocent, but you 'bout to be SINGLE AGAIN!!! Honey, pack his pictures and his plants, put them on the porch, change the locks, and DON'T LOOK BACK!! He is NOT worth the energy it takes to argue with him . Just kick him out - he's still a little boy!!!
Too many immature men get married for stability and not wanting to actually be a real husband who leads. They search for a 2nd mother to take care of them
Good point 😂😂😂
They’re called “ HOBOsexuals”. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Too many immature people…
He doesn't want a divorce because she is his meal ticket he is a poor excuse of a man he sounds like a big kid throwing a tantrum he should have went with her, he stayed out all night but don't want her to go out.
No children, no car , no home boy BYEEEEE people who RAGE can hurt you eventually. Wonder who paid for the front Door to be repaired. She uses to much utilities he sounds STUPID. Yes honey you can do bad all by yourself, you don't have to sign to be DIVORCED
Hit head on the nail. Heard a man say he got married for stability. And does like to be taken care of.
That relationship stress takes it toll on people. She looks older than her age. She's been with him from 25-33 and the nonsense she is dealing with, isn't getting better. She's lucky she's still alive.
These are the type of men who end up on fatal attraction episodes. Men like this are so dangerous
Real talk they get upset when a woman is ready to move on tired of the BS so they want to kill her instead sad too
Very dangerous
Girl.... your on point.
But he fine though!!!!!
Absolutely agree... His not signing the paper attitude and statement he made gave me the feeling of *If I can't have you and get what I want (financially sucking you dry) then no one else can have you.* vibe...
She did the right thing to sign those divorce papers. Y’all seen what Judge Star did smoothly? Let Trevor see those papers, you got served 😂😂😂😂❤
@Gloria - she was smooth with that one!!
I caught that too 😂😂😂😂
I dont know wen he threw the drink in her fast but she should have signed the next hour & never looked back
Smooth as a mug
To save this lady
I love Star! When she said "you ever look at somebody and know that they are sorry, and I mean sorry," I hollered! Thanks for keeping it real!
I can only shake my head. He barely does the minimum, and thinks he supposed to be treated and served. His abusive mentality is disturbing. He's financially, emotionally, verbally, spiritually, and intellectually immature. He does not want any responsibility. He wants to be taken care of, uplifted, and treated like a king. You can never be a king with no kingdom.
Him: "I iNveSted NiNe YeArS aNd I diDn't gEt a ChAnCE to HaVe aNY kiDs!!"
Me: 🗣THANK GOD! Girl, ruuuunn!
WHY THE GAS GET CUT OFF SIR?!?!!? 😂😂😂
Because of her mirror time and running the hairdryer. Does that run on gas? 🤔😂😂☹️
@@maxdminimalist715 right 😂😂😂
@@maxdminimalist715 i don’t think her doing her makeup or going out has anything to do with the gas bill 🙄🙄
@@camerynr8344 yo! Silly as a mug. Gas ain’t high 😂
@@camerynr8344 my point exactly! His gaslighting however is off the charts. 😜
Hopefully she won't need a restraining order...he seems demanding and angry.😖
I can see him hiding in the bushes🌳👀🌳
I was thinking the same thing hopefully he doesn’t know where she lives❤But I would try to get a restraining order and some steel😮❤
@@Gloria-fx6qz Unfortunately, nowadays that piece creates a peace of mind.
Seriously he looks crazy!
Please .. I left the marriage to get away from the toxicity ❤️
I would've left him after he threw that drink
YES!!!!
PERIOD. That is unbelievably disrespectful
@@ceejay9919 it iss! I wonder why she stayed so long
She is a doormat. No reason to throw a drink
amen i would have threw drink right back at him
He’s angry because of his shortcomings with being a bum!
Pretty much, a whole bum and that’s why he’s angry
Yep exactly this
😅😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
I was thinking the same thing!
Exactly!
"I don't want no scrub
A scrub is a guy that can't get no love from me
Hangin' out the passenger side
Of his best friend's ride
Trying to holla at me" ( T- Boz, Rip Left Eye & Chili are laughing at you Trevor) 😁😁
The car we bought that i signed for ended up being crashed by her new drug dealer boyfriend after I left ❤
This fool tried to say the gas bill went up...because of her blow dryer usage....what kind of blow dryer does she have??!! 🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️
Non electrical apparently
Must be the leafblower
@@anarky10 🤣🤣 exactly!
@@anarky10 Y’all are hilarious!!😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@quielaivory9104 not a lady but thanks
Judge Star saying, "What's wrong with you, why you so mad?" needs to be a meme😁
He is exactly like a child that gets mad and throw a temper tantrum smh
I know someone exactly like this . 😳😳
Never threw a temper tantrum I’m my life but I have been pushed and walked over to the point I just couldn’t take it anymore. ❤
@@trevorholmes3848 no but you can handle things in a mature way. ✌🏼👊🏻
I bet he messed up her teeth. Cause those look uncomfortable. Who throws a coke AND THEN takes a walk to cool off
Wrong again 😊❤
He only wants to stay together because he has no where else to go
exactly!
He's a Home-o-sexual...just with someone for a place to stay
He says he has been living from pillar to post. That means homeless.
I live on my own and support myself I work every day just the same as you ❤
@@trevorholmes3848 this didn’t show you in the best light sir.
He opened up with, “I’m tired of living pillar to post, so I want my marriage to work”… told me everything I needed to know.
So upset?a grown man with no self control
Never argue with a drunkard
You don't get to be crazy, AND broke! Pick a struggle! And, if that struggle affects others, in a bad way, then, stay by yourself, until you figure it out!
😂 that’s right! Pick a damn struggle!
Lmao! Sometimes if comes as a package deal, as you can see
I don’t think this guy will ever figure it out. He never took responsibility for any of his mistakes.
@@sophiaandre139 none, not one.
Perfectly stated!
Her walk alone wit her head held high! 😩 Blessings Queen! 🤎 God got a better one for u..
VERY SMART WOMAN..to have finally seen the light. No kids. No house. No loose ends. She just probably saved her life. I would get a restraining order as well..something tells me he is the persistent type of POS.
Everything is her fault...he takes no accountability..he's full of BS
LIKE MOST OF THE MEN ON DIVORCE COURT
@@leelee185 I’ve seen lots of women who have been wrong too on divorce court.
@@gailsmith836 so true
😱 Gurl, why are you with this dusty? You can do BAD all by yourself! No kids, no house, y'all share nothing? What's keeping you around...history?? ruuuuUUUNNN! Work on yourself, and upgrade yourself boo. Nobody gonna want him, but another version of him.
OMG 😃 HE really said the gas bill was so high because she using the hair dryer to much 🤣🤣 what a bum . You just didn't pay the bill
Stupid at its best lol
Whyyyy do these women give men so many chances to screw them over??! You have ONE TIME to act like you're about to disrespect me. There won't be a second.
Well said sis
His pipe game ain’t getting the job done anymore!
Hahaha
I have been in extremely volatile situations and even a relationship where abuse was prevalent and even then I have NEVER experienced having someone throw a soda in my face. That would have honestly scared me.
Yeah that should've been the last straw
She's not telling the judge everything; I believe her husband is abusive. If he was willing to do something so stupid in front of everybody, God knows what he does behind closed doors.
I hope she stays safe
that is legally, technically 'assault and battery'.
@@rons.6683 Yes
The second I saw him I thought to myself "oh this dude look crazy" 😂 I was right! Lol
Shame on you ‘I looked handsome 😊❤
That young lady knew that was her opportunity to serve that man them papers and I’m glad she realized sooner than later that she didn’t have to stick around for the struggle lol. God bless them both. And I hope they both get some good help and support
This Man is so mad at her, I’m kind of scared for her🙏🏾
He is mad because she makes more than him...he is jealous of her
A man who is not living to his potential will always take it out on his woman.
That man is not balanced and she need to STEP EXPEDITIOUSLY!
Judge Star:
You ever met somebody and you know they sorry?
That boy sorry 🤣🤣...
Me: spoken just like my grandma would say
Shame on Star for slandering my character for the sake of a t.v broadcast 😂❤
He’s mad and angry because he’s broke 🫠 Ashley better run fast 🤦🏾♀️
😲 Wow! I hope she realizes this isn't healthy at all. He is abusive and disrespectful.🥴 One is enough for me to run super fast the other way
Only reason he want to work it out.. ?"Keyword" HOMELESS . One thing I can't do is a ole fool and a dumb one at that!
He said he will never put her in danger. But throwing a drink in her face and kicking in the door? Its all abuse. All of it. Abuse comes in different forms. Bro, you totally put her in danger.
what kind of drink was it? i'd be pissed if it was a beer, would've been a waste of a perfectly good beer
He threw a drink in her face he is abusive I can’t believe he did that but then again yes I can because everything is her fault it is never his fault. Dude you have to pay the light and gas bill you blame it on her because she want to fix herself up in the morning you have a roof over your head that she’s paying the entire rent never mind
I'm sorry Judge Star but a grown woman can have a night out with friends and family without having to check in. I would have been gone after the thrown drink. Good on her for realizing happiness is the goal of any relationship.
Agreed! I was like...what does she need to check in with him for. He already knew she went out.
Yes! They was hanging out. You may be looking for nothing, but your crew is having a good time! Cheers! See ya soon! love you!
So that means the same for a man, right? He don't need to check in.
I hope that same energy is kept for a man
@@sweetsweet81 it should go both ways. All we should have to say is “babe I’m going out with friends, we going here”. That’s the end of the story I’m not checking in every hour on the hour.
i live for the way Judge Star and Robert roasted the guy at the end
He says since the separation he's tired he's been going from pillar to post and wants to come back home.
Sounds like a blues song maybe he can be a blues singer..
Talking about she didn't give him a baby. He felt that would trapped her but she already had a baby. HIM.
On point! He is homeless... He needs to get himself together!!!
Lawd...I'm so tired of THESE BUM A$$ MEN...And he only wants it to work because he has no stability for himself and she is what keeps his everyday livelihood running. He confirmed this himself when he said, "Well judge, I love my wife and my life has been in shambles and I've been from pillow to post for the last 8 months" i.e, I'm a bum, my life not together enough for me to stand on my own, and I know at this age, finding another woman to take care of me is minimal...
Sadly there will be another to pick him up and carry him just like she did...I'm so glad she did not have a baby with him
Hopefully she is fruitful with a stable and respectful mate in the future.
I'm tired of the woman that fall for that oakey doak, especially when the red flags are waving in their face.
Toxicity at its best!! She better step ASAP!!
As soon as the camera panned to him, I immediately felt something was off about this dude.
My only concern is that when you marry the vows are for better or worse..... I definitely think people need to be more careful of marrying and divorcing! I think premarital counseling should definitely be a MUST!
I agree. But worse is when u are SORRY….Pre-marital & marital counseling are for mature ppl who have a foundation to actually build mad/or work on their marriage. Throwing a drink ur wife face is equivalent IMO to hitting her in the face. NOT OK!
that's your "only" concern?!? He's wearing red flags & waving around a stop sign!
No she needs to leave him. He’s a PoS
She's not telling the judge everything; I believe her husband is abusive. If he was willing to do something so stupid in front of everybody, God knows what he does behind closed doors.
That's what I was thinking, she probably too scared to say it front of other people!!
Girl be glad you didn’t let him knock you up. He wanted that permanent tie to you. Clean cut, drive away from his sorry behind. To the left, to the left. 🎉
Pride is deaf, it cannot hear rebuke. Pride is blind, it cannot see warning signs. Pride is mute, it cannot speak uplifting words about others. Pride is lame, it cannot walk in the ways of the Lord. Pride is a hindrance and a handicap in the life of every Christian. - Rev. Victor M. Jackson
I already see he’s a Waffle House kind of guy that’s the extent of his sophistication
Really 😏🫥😒 dude .. ❤
She said that she was in divorce court because he was disrespectful, unstable, and broke but many women are meeting men that are disrespectful, unstable, and broke in the beginning and they enter into a relationship with them anyway! Sad but true!😒
When Judge star made that comment to Robert @4:04 I knew exactly how this episode was going to go😅
He's truly messed up,he's delusional,Run Lady!!!!!
Her statement before she signed the papers was very well said
You can't spend the GAS bill money on Nonsense...especially not in Georgia... u will be without GAS for a few days.... I used to work for the Gas company so I know 😂😂😂
Lol y’all quick in GA y’all don’t play
@@breffasnbread girl.... it used to be so crazy. Some customers has would get cut off on Thursday and it may not get cut on until Monday or Tuesday! 😂
@@Singlehood2Marriage damn!!!!
He's a damn fool that has absolutely NO SELF ACCOUNTABILITY.
Ain't no way,he would had thrown a coke in my face and I would still be with him,the police would had been called on his sorry but.and she stayed with this clown,then got fed up after visiting her family,gurl I would had left this clown after the soda incident 🤦
Exactly 💯 I agree. Because if he's doing that to her in public I can imagine what he might do in private smfh. She needs to run and fast
I love Star! Well spoken and the truth. I knew this would be good with Star as the host, she speaks eloquently and I love it
*tap tap* "WHY THE GAS GET TURNRD OFF SIR" 😅🤣
I'm sorry but this guy is not making sense.... I'm not sure how they got married in the 1st place.🙄
She has grown and he has not kept up
@@VashtiPerry True... that's definitely great insight .... she's matured and he's still in his 20's mentality.
He sweet talked her, probably laid the pipe down really well.
Judge Star looks at him like ," dude you stupid". 😆 🤣 😂 😹
I love Star!!! I appreciate the authentic judgment and wisdom. She served him just when he thought he could stagnant the plaintiff from moving on with her life!
Start bashed me for the sake of her predominant female audience 😂❤
He has an excuse for everything.
Her first mistake was paying the bigger bills... Not even a 50/50
When he threw that drink? I would have left then. He's sorry, like Judge Star said. What did she see in him? I hope she will be okay, because he looks like the type to harm someone physically. She better run in those pretty heels!!!!
He's angry because he knows he's a bum and upset at himself that he can't leave because he needs her to take care of him. He's mad he's about to lose his meal ticket.
There’s no stress like relationship stress. That stuff can age you.
like a lot of men: attractive until they start talkin’
💯
Big turn off.
The best thing for them is a divorce their both miserable with each other and don’t consider one another’s feelings she’s gone mentally and he need to stop ignoring it💯
He has mental problem run poor excuse for a man.🥺 Just saying.
This man looks like he will do harmul stuff to her sigh. He's so annoying and angry
BM can't even make their relationships work with their preferences...🤣 Also, how is he going to bring up a baby when he can't even provide for himself? Make it make sense.
She’s going to need a restraining order, she got the same black angry bird
These men 😢
some.....but yeah this was a fool..
He had the audacity to bring up a baby when he can’t even keep the electricity on.
The way he’s standing and the way he walks, he’s been in prison and he’ll be back in prison. He don’t know no better…
This guy has no business being married. He needs to move back to his mother's house.
The drink story….that woulda been the end of him. 🤷🏾♀️
She married the WRONG ONE. He can’t even answer a yes no question. Nothing is his fault. Small bills are an inconvenience to him so he don’t pay them. LOSER
I’d never be able to stay among society after my parter throws a drink in my face. Like put me in the cuffs immediately. That’s really crazy 😭
Not put me cuffs 😂💀
I CAN'T GET PAST THAT TOP ROW OF TEETH 😂😂😂
Men constantly come up short and have every excuse of why, never a solution and wonder why their wife or girlfriend has an attitude all the time he’s dangerous as well💯
Sorry AND had the audacity to be mad that he didn't get a baby out of her!
He was going to use that baby to control her. I'm so happy she was smart enough to not get pregnant by this bum.
She does need to leave. He needs a lot of help
Excuses, excuses, and more excuses. There is no accountability🚩🚩🚩Red flags all round🎯🎯🎯✅✅✅
Of course, he doesn't want to get divorced. She's his meal ticket. He has nothing to contribute and has a bad temper to boot.
What a freaking lame, if he's tossing drinks in her face in public.. kicking in doors acting a plum fool in front of her family I know good and well he's tagged her head up a few times! RUN VERY FAST GIRL TF
Proud of you lady ❤
Best of luck
Disrespect is a pet peeve for me. Never
After 8 months of being separated he still ain't got his own spot!!! Congrats on your divorce sis👏👏
Nothing worse than a sorry, desperate man in need of shelter
I had to laugh to myself. I was thinking how he sound stupid when the judge said "You sound silly like a mug."
I really do love Judge Star on here!
So he tried to defend not paying a bill for a playstation game at 34 years old throwing a drink in her face kicking a door in throwing a fit at her parents house with some of the most sorry pathetic excuses a 16 year old wouldn't make and then says she won't give me a baby boy please
They need to divorce. He is not ready for marriage. He have anger issues.
@@bee12355 what on earth gave you that idea, and where did you acquire the singular talent for stating the obvious?🤣
His eyes look dead and angry. Leaving him won't be easy. He can't even pay $50-60 a month on bills, there's no way he'll let his cash cow go this easy. I hope she has a good support network because I can see him turning to more extreme violence if she isn't careful.
Threw his drink in your face!? I’m clenching my pearls 😳
She went out of town to visit family she sees a couple times a year and invited him to come. How selfish and childish. All sums up to his own insecurities
It would have been over when he threw a drink in my face.