i find myself capable of manipulating / finding success in playing "the game" of each girl but choosing not to and instead being genuine which is often just bored of them. honestly i just think all dating is essentially wrong and everybody should just only ever choose their one true love. cos i think deep down we all know we are wasting our time with this shit. we know who the real one is when we meet her
There is no 'game' brother. The whole idea is just internet marketing. Men have to be proactive - that's a given. Manipulation etc is not necessary at all. Good luck on your journey brother.
There is a relationship between intelligence and introversion. Introverts tend not to good at small talk or interested in being involved in it Intelligent people can see it's a game and not interested in being filmed while they play the game Success people surround themselves with intelligent people,. Success people tend to have charisma and confidential in speaking in public (this is a skill in itself) Intelligence people also look at the financial aspects and see that's it's a bad investment, playing the game costs money and for a lot of people little reward
Keep telling yourself this if you want brother. The world doesn't care if you're introverted - you still need to make the first move and go after what you want. I work in a cognitively demanding field and enjoy quiet evenings reading philosophy. Guess what - I still invest In a social life as it is one of the best investments in my well-being I can make.
Allow me to give you all another road to go down. A bit about myself first. I'm a retired Scientist. I retired at 54 (last year). I'm a mixed race competitive Classic Bodybuilder. I have my own home and have no money problems at all. I know so many men that have been f@cked over by women. They lost everything. Now I'm intelligent enough to realise that I don't want that to happen to myself. So I don't bother with women at all. I have so many women interested in me but I just ignore them. I have also found the more I ignore them the more they seem to be attracted to me. They may seem to think I'm being hard to get but the reality is I don't want them as I'm living a wonderful life all on my own. I do whatever I want whenever I want. Nobody tells me what to do. Next year I'm going to start travelling the World. You don't need a woman to live your life.
From your message, you sound American. The situation there is slightly insane so I understand why men are guarded. However, celibacy isn't a realistic solution for most men. I'm 38 and have been travelling the world since 34 - there's literally millions of gorgeous women out there in the world waiting for guys to make the first move. I also do whatever I want whenever I want - I just have attractive women along for the ride. Good look on your travels when you depart!
@Autonomous1969 If you want to stay single and live alone you can still have a romantic/sex life if you choose to. There is literally no relationship to losing your home if you're dating casually.
1) check 2) check - fear and tiredness, double yep 3) hmmm I hope I'm not arrogant I put some of these traits down to a kind of OCD. I wouldn't say I'm particularly intelligent, but do have obsessive thinking at times.
Brilliant video, you totally called out my attitude last couple years. Need to up my game thank you
i find myself capable of manipulating / finding success in playing "the game" of each girl but choosing not to and instead being genuine which is often just bored of them. honestly i just think all dating is essentially wrong and everybody should just only ever choose their one true love. cos i think deep down we all know we are wasting our time with this shit. we know who the real one is when we meet her
There is no 'game' brother. The whole idea is just internet marketing.
Men have to be proactive - that's a given. Manipulation etc is not necessary at all. Good luck on your journey brother.
@@JoBlakeLisbon There is "game". That's why women like "bad guy" (hybristophilia).
There is a relationship between intelligence and introversion.
Introverts tend not to good at small talk or interested in being involved in it
Intelligent people can see it's a game and not interested in being filmed while they play the game
Success people surround themselves with intelligent people,. Success people tend to have charisma and confidential in speaking in public (this is a skill in itself)
Intelligence people also look at the financial aspects and see that's it's a bad investment, playing the game costs money and for a lot of people little reward
Keep telling yourself this if you want brother.
The world doesn't care if you're introverted - you still need to make the first move and go after what you want.
I work in a cognitively demanding field and enjoy quiet evenings reading philosophy.
Guess what - I still invest In a social life as it is one of the best investments in my well-being I can make.
@@JoBlakeLisbon If women really likes you, she will make it easy or even make first move.
This is why alcohol can be a useful tool, or changing location. Not as much to lose in terms of rejection if you're in a city temporarily.
Alcohol is never a useful tool. Speaking as an ex-alcoholic.
I have some better solutions that I'm going to share this afternoon!
Allow me to give you all another road to go down.
A bit about myself first. I'm a retired Scientist. I retired at 54 (last year).
I'm a mixed race competitive Classic Bodybuilder.
I have my own home and have no money problems at all.
I know so many men that have been f@cked over by women. They lost everything. Now I'm intelligent enough to realise that I don't want that to happen to myself. So I don't bother with women at all.
I have so many women interested in me but I just ignore them. I have also found the more I ignore them the more they seem to be attracted to me.
They may seem to think I'm being hard to get but the reality is I don't want them as I'm living a wonderful life all on my own.
I do whatever I want whenever I want. Nobody tells me what to do.
Next year I'm going to start travelling the World.
You don't need a woman to live your life.
From your message, you sound American. The situation there is slightly insane so I understand why men are guarded.
However, celibacy isn't a realistic solution for most men.
I'm 38 and have been travelling the world since 34 - there's literally millions of gorgeous women out there in the world waiting for guys to make the first move. I also do whatever I want whenever I want - I just have attractive women along for the ride.
Good look on your travels when you depart!
@@JoBlakeLisbon Bristol born and bred.
I love my house and no one is taking it from me.
@Autonomous1969 If you want to stay single and live alone you can still have a romantic/sex life if you choose to. There is literally no relationship to losing your home if you're dating casually.
1) check
2) check - fear and tiredness, double yep
3) hmmm I hope I'm not arrogant
I put some of these traits down to a kind of OCD. I wouldn't say I'm particularly intelligent, but do have obsessive thinking at times.
Thanks for the comment brother. I'm going to do a video on how to handle these issues later this week.