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  • @KelvinTroyJohnson
    @KelvinTroyJohnson  10 місяців тому +7

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  • @tamikascales888
    @tamikascales888 4 місяці тому +120

    I’m 42 and I have a 24 yr old pursuing me. He’s very intelligent, an entrepreneur, mature, attractive, and fun Lord help me🙈

    • @GeorgeDavis-z8r
      @GeorgeDavis-z8r 4 місяці тому +24

      Give him a chance

    • @KH-nt7ej
      @KH-nt7ej 3 місяці тому +12

      Go for it.

    • @puglif3708
      @puglif3708 3 місяці тому +14

      I'm 21 and she's 33 She has read me like a book and i dont know if i can really trust her or not you got any advice

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  3 місяці тому +13

      @@puglif3708 get out of your head. If a woman is still entertaining you, you’re in the game. Enjoy the relationship as you would any other. Need help? Book a coaching session with me: lovecoachatlanta@gmail.com.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  3 місяці тому +7

      I’d love to hear how this turned out.🤣

  • @Maggiebenjee
    @Maggiebenjee Рік тому +129

    Guys. You need to be fit as well. Idk why guys think all they have to bring is dck.

    • @morganbmgtow8879
      @morganbmgtow8879 6 місяців тому

      with older women 15-30 years older all they want is dk; this a wonderful thing about women as they age; sexually women stop aging at 40.. any healthy woman 20-40 years older will wear da sweet fuk out any 30 year old man❤

    • @Joan-r6w
      @Joan-r6w 4 місяці тому +6

      😂😂😂

    • @kristinm2577
      @kristinm2577 3 місяці тому +2

      Amen!!!!

    • @maggie3004
      @maggie3004 3 місяці тому +3

      I’m tearing up laughing 😂

    • @sagsungoddess
      @sagsungoddess Місяць тому +3

      THANK YOOOOOOUUUUU 🙌❤️🔥💯🌟🎁🎉🦋🎊🤣

  • @lamart3857
    @lamart3857 8 місяців тому +74

    Be confident,dominant and persistent and shes all yours

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  8 місяців тому +21

      Lol. Yeah, that’s part of it. The other part is knowing when to give up, back up and leave her alone. A man has to know the difference. Thanks for watching.

    • @okomorPatrick
      @okomorPatrick Місяць тому +1

      Please can you hook me up with a older woman of about 60year

    • @paulrobak8151
      @paulrobak8151 Місяць тому +1

      @@okomorPatrickBro, that’s why he posted this video - so YOU can take care of business! Come on now. 🙄

    • @reneemattier5883
      @reneemattier5883 11 днів тому

      Dominant? Dude, just be yourself.

  • @nmc1859
    @nmc1859 Рік тому +149

    As an 'older' woman ..this is all good advice !!! 💖💖💖

    • @Queen-to2cj
      @Queen-to2cj Рік тому

      hello I'm interested in you let get to know each other

    • @Vanessaadedeji
      @Vanessaadedeji 3 місяці тому

      I hope I can get to meet you... I connect with you

    • @UnicRat
      @UnicRat 3 місяці тому

      I think so, too. Because when you are older than him, you tend to think that you misread him, like "I don't think that's what he meant, I'm a fossil compared to him"....

    • @samkelokhumalo9270
      @samkelokhumalo9270 20 днів тому

      @@Vanessaadedeji😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @KristianBrown-f1q
    @KristianBrown-f1q Рік тому +144

    That's what's up I'm 25 my wife is 40 she is very beautiful

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +10

      Yes! Good stuff. Thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe then the bell so you don't miss anything coming up.

    • @yanusteenbok
      @yanusteenbok 9 місяців тому +3

      Im in some sort of connection with a 40 yr old but i don’t like the fact that when im like 40 yr old , she will be like 63 yrs old. How do you look at that part???

    • @deequinn997
      @deequinn997 8 місяців тому +17

      @@yanusteenbokyou’re overthinking the age difference which is completely understandable and it’s ok. Im seeing a 23 year old i just turned 33 and he is also overthinking so i did right by him and cut him off so he can figure himself out and try to date within his age group. You should try that as well. You have a valid concern but life isn’t guaranteed what if you die tomorrow or she does and you missed out on something amazing because you were overthinking the future. The future doesn’t exist

    • @jorgegabrielgarciagutierre1722
      @jorgegabrielgarciagutierre1722 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@@yanusteenbokFind a younger cougar then 😂

    • @maureentaylor8745
      @maureentaylor8745 6 місяців тому +3

      Thanks for this video. Fit, Feminine and Fun, I agree...age is not a problem unless you make it a problem.

  • @victoramougou9433
    @victoramougou9433 Рік тому +98

    I am in a situationship with a woman who’s 20 years old than me I’m 27. I have more chemistry with her than I had with my previous relationship and the attraction is crazy.
    Never felt this passionate about a woman in a long time.
    And the one thing she told is that I was able to tap in her mind intellectually that’s why she was interested in me and asked me for my number

    • @sinseudonimo1885
      @sinseudonimo1885 11 місяців тому +2

      LoL

    • @deequinn997
      @deequinn997 8 місяців тому +10

      That’s hot. Im 33 dating a 23 year old man. He’s far more mature than anyone my age and any older man I’ve ever dated in the past

    • @MrTrollbaby
      @MrTrollbaby 8 місяців тому

      ​@@deequinn997 That says a lot about your choices n men

    • @MrTrollbaby
      @MrTrollbaby 8 місяців тому

      She horny and knows it wont last. She wont let you know until she walking out the door or you leave first. Like the man said, 'she got no time for games'. But thats paradoxical. The game she playing is a double edged sword. "No games" and "games". Does it feel like things are happening abnormally faster than usual, like passionate sex all the time and she already saying that she loves you? RUN! 😂

    • @DariusW-2000
      @DariusW-2000 7 місяців тому +10

      My uncle is 49 who is married to his wife that is 37. My friend is 23 and his wife is 47 with no kids. Me and my wife are 23. My sister is 21 and her husband is 22. My parents are in their 50s and still happily married.

  • @katyarnold-ji8sv
    @katyarnold-ji8sv 2 місяці тому +9

    I would caution any older woman who is dealing with a younger man. If the younger man is asking for money, looking for a mother figure leave him alone. Don't ignore the age difference.

  • @juniorronaldbeasleywaltbab2219
    @juniorronaldbeasleywaltbab2219 6 місяців тому +39

    I'm 22 years old and my girlfriend is 56❤❤

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  6 місяців тому +12

      Oh wow.. drop the knowledge. How did you meet her and how did you get her to say yes?

    • @rhondarobinson4096
      @rhondarobinson4096 2 місяці тому +8

      And here I am being shy at 53 and my boo is 27 ❤

    • @destinyhampton2412
      @destinyhampton2412 Місяць тому +1

      Are you still with her?
      I'd like to speak to her as a female.
      I have questions regarding me.

    • @CarolynLockhart-nn3kb
      @CarolynLockhart-nn3kb 18 днів тому

      Yes, that's awesome. Im glad you are dating an older woman. Enjoy, and have fun, you wil learn a lot from her.

    • @martinbeyer73
      @martinbeyer73 День тому

      Im 30 and just want on a date with a woman who is 50 it was amazing i really like her.

  • @Entelechhhy
    @Entelechhhy 4 місяці тому +18

    I’m married to someone 10 yrs younger. I always tease him and tell him I’m gonna trade him in soon for a newer model and we joke and call him old man because he has less energy than me. He never makes a joke about my age and I don’t let my age affect how submissive I am with him. If he had acted differently it would never have worked

  • @kylegolson81
    @kylegolson81 Рік тому +37

    Blessed my wife 47 im 38 🎉we rocking 8 years

  • @SophisticatedApproach
    @SophisticatedApproach Рік тому +46

    I'd recommend the direct approach if the guy sees choosing signals from the woman. If not, build attraction until you do see those signals. 👍🏽

  • @AshleySpeaks4U
    @AshleySpeaks4U 6 місяців тому +21

    SPOT ON! ❤ We do NOT mess around.

  • @valkylva
    @valkylva 10 місяців тому +22

    I’m 33 and one thing I dislike about dating men my age or older is they like to be SO CAUTIOUS. They are attracted to me and talk to me but they hold back and tip toe around and are less likely to commit. Women like men who desire her and go after her just like he says! Think about it, a beautiful woman could have 10 men trying to get her attention. Maybe a few of them are catching her eye. The ones who actually show they want her and desire her will be way more appealing than the one that drags everything on and is scared to be forward.
    In my opinion showing you want and desire a woman right off the bat is way more masculine and attractive than a man who’s holding back. Men who hold back seem unsure and its unattractive!

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  10 місяців тому +2

      Ooohhhhh yes! Yes! Yes! 🔥🔥👏🏾👏🏾 you articulated this perfectly. This is the conversation I am attempting to have with the men. Go after what you want. The worst she can say is no. If she says, no, nothing changed, but if she says yes, everything changes. Great comment. Hit subscribe for more conversation like this.

    • @DariusW-2000
      @DariusW-2000 10 місяців тому +3

      My friend is 23 and he is married to a woman that is 47. They both enjoy going to the gym working out, traveling and just enjoying life. They didn't worry about the age situation at all. Me and my wife is 23 same age.

    • @ccheyenne
      @ccheyenne 4 місяці тому +3

      Ok but not all women feel this way. I honestly hate it when guys are that forward. I don't like the feeling of being desired for my body, and if we don't know each other obviously my looks are all the information you have. If we actually know each other it's different because my personality and my intellect are part of the equation. If we've been talking and hanging out casually there is a whole backstory of conversations, moments of connection that have built up into that desire, and if the approach is along the lines of I really like you, you're very interesting, then that is a appealing to me.
      But a random guy walks up to me and goes straight to telling me he desires me? Automatic no, don't care if you're the emperor of the universe, that's a MAJOR turn off for me.

    • @SR77736
      @SR77736 2 місяці тому

      Yup bc they are unsure. Who has time to.waste bc they're scared?

  • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
    @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx Рік тому +62

    Lol I’m dating a 25yo! Lol 😂 I’m 36 was his idea

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +25

      Alot of men find older women very attractive just stay in the reality of the situation and tell them the truth about your expectations and direction.

    • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
      @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx Рік тому +8

      @@KelvinTroyJohnson he say he does not care the age gap 🤷‍♀️yes we need to talk about it

    • @mahmoudqurash7358
      @mahmoudqurash7358 11 місяців тому +1

      Y’all still dating?

    • @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx
      @ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx 11 місяців тому +1

      Was 7months ago so no! Lol he is 25 works if you want something for a free months or the moment but that all

    • @Informativeeye
      @Informativeeye 10 місяців тому

      ​@@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kxSo you are not together anymore.

  • @molleycharles9313
    @molleycharles9313 Рік тому +18

    I have a feeling the guy that just walked up to me at Walmart watched this 😂
    Came right up to me and asked for my number said I was gorgeous.
    I didn’t even know how to respond at first since he is about the same age as my son.
    I said I’m 38 and he said “ I’m 18 and still interested”
    Another guy walked up to me and said be careful it’s a trend right now.
    Wtf

    • @thobanihlela6235
      @thobanihlela6235 10 місяців тому +4

      But how did you feel about it that metters don't let bad vibes let you don't if you love him try and get ahold of him he might be young and be your forever soul mate

    • @BadBoy-wm1ir
      @BadBoy-wm1ir 9 місяців тому +1

      😂

  • @JamRockzs05434
    @JamRockzs05434 Рік тому +41

    Just picked up this nice fine older black woman in the gym came straight to her and all that's left is pursuing the right way

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +4

      Yes sir!!!! They love it. Hit Subscribe for more dating and relationships tips.

    • @iori7390
      @iori7390 11 місяців тому +2

      @@KelvinTroyJohnsonnah he needs to hit something else first 💀

  • @WhiteMamba93
    @WhiteMamba93 2 місяці тому +5

    I'm 31, starting dating a 55 year old woman who is feminine and fit.
    She's very patient with me and kind.
    But you're completely right when you say be straight up with them. She knows what she wants and was playing coy with me when I was "taking things slow"
    She definitely wants me to move faster. Which is new for me as women my age or younger take a bit to open up with and to.

  • @shatterking215
    @shatterking215 Рік тому +79

    I just turned 34 and I am dating a fit blonde 40 year old woman. She turns 41 in a month so we have about a 7 year age gap so it’s not that much but damn does she know how to treat a man.
    I have been blown away by how easy she makes it for us to be together since day one. Older women put in more effort.

    • @calaragazza3556
      @calaragazza3556 Рік тому +14

      You’re older too lol

    • @vp5867
      @vp5867 Рік тому +3

      What if u want to start a family with her isnt she past her biological age and wouldnt it br difficult to have children

    • @justsomeguywithamustache2901
      @justsomeguywithamustache2901 Рік тому

      ​@@vp5867they can still have sex and adopt kids lol

    • @shamarirose7288
      @shamarirose7288 9 місяців тому +7

      ⁠@@vp5867 As long as a woman has her uterus and still has menstrual cycles then she can still get pregnant at anytime and it happens way more often than people think, for example my ex’s mother had him at 45, I have a 42 year old cousin that’s currently pregnant and I have met plenty of young adults that had empty nest parents over 40 with babies and toddlers which is why women over 35 still need birth control, just remember that just because the clock starts to slow down doesn’t mean it’s done ticking.😂

    • @vp5867
      @vp5867 9 місяців тому

      @@shamarirose7288 fair enough but what about the medical complications that come with it because of middle age and also difference in life experience between the younger man and older woman I'm not saying the age difference is twice the age but for example 2-5 yrs age difference and how to make it work in the long run

  • @MrTrollbaby
    @MrTrollbaby 8 місяців тому +9

    Be authentic unapologetically
    Act your age with confidence
    Humour

  • @andyconcepcion5883
    @andyconcepcion5883 Рік тому +15

    I went straight to her got her number and she went from asking me for my number to "you're too young goodbye"😕

    • @DrDillDough
      @DrDillDough 11 місяців тому

      You most likely have an immature personality

  • @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy
    @HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy 10 місяців тому +7

    It's not gonna be that simple. Bcuz older women know that guys want it easy and think that older women are easier bcuz they're older. And that's not getting over either.

  • @sarahzimmerman6145
    @sarahzimmerman6145 3 місяці тому +7

    Daaaamn! Thanks, Kelvin! That's some good advice. I'm a 42 year old women & just started talking to a 21 year old guy. I found this short while overthinking things but this video really made me just want to relax & have fun with him!

    • @kafui9150
      @kafui9150 Місяць тому

      @@sarahzimmerman6145 30yrs single male here🇬🇭❤️✌️

  • @pixie9366
    @pixie9366 Місяць тому +4

    Too scary for me. I think I would be worried the whole time about the age difference. I could have everything in common with him and really fall hard for him but I know one day he will be finished having his fun and will leave me for a younger woman to start a family. There’s no point starting something that you know won’t last long term. 💔

    • @gaylenemitchell5448
      @gaylenemitchell5448 Місяць тому

      Where is ur confidence and ur faith he can also marry u too

  • @wilalco6104
    @wilalco6104 Рік тому +15

    Guys, take it from a guy in his 50s whose been married for 30 years. If I could do it over again i'd be a Virgin till I was 49.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +2

      HAAAAA!!! I hear ya. Thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe then the bell so you don't miss anything coming up.

    • @okomorPatrick
      @okomorPatrick Місяць тому

      ❤❤❤

  • @rickeymaliktv
    @rickeymaliktv 6 місяців тому +19

    This man told no lies I'm 27 dating a 41 yr old woman she is so 🔥

  • @daphenebaines4702
    @daphenebaines4702 2 місяці тому +7

    #2 is crucial!! Cougar and Auntie are no-nos. Just call me beautiful.

  • @jeannineholmes4390
    @jeannineholmes4390 6 місяців тому +5

    Not Bad!!!! I’ve been married to a younger man for 35 Years. (4 years apart) We have 2 children who are now College Graduates!!! 🎓 it’s been a good life. His Family says he’s always acted like an old(er) man. He’s very Mature!!!!
    Best wishes and Blessings!!

  • @efilms5123
    @efilms5123 Рік тому +10

    19 she 31 she look 20 tho i love her personality should i take it serious?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +4

      Great question. My anawer to this question is do your futures match? Are you both clear on what you want? I.E. Kids, House, Careers, Living. What is her expectations of you. Go deep on this and don't sugar coat. Tell the truth. If it doesn't match up, be ok about walking away.

    • @asdfghjkl3003
      @asdfghjkl3003 9 місяців тому

      How did you meet her

  • @Nortongroove
    @Nortongroove 17 днів тому +1

    I’m ready guys! Just be honest and straightforward, cause our gen has no time or inclination for gaming.

  • @DouradaBambina
    @DouradaBambina Місяць тому +2

    Sweet ❤ is not a problem if you make it a problem. Word! Dude was insecure about my age even after a great and fun filled date. He became wishy- washy. I surrender to God and wished him well. Fee months later, he admitted he had made a huge mistake however by that time, I was flying to Tulum and met someone also younger who didn’t see any issue with my age. We know what we want and at same time, we no longer waste time.

  • @yanni_ramtol3879
    @yanni_ramtol3879 24 дні тому +1

    I am 48 but ppl think Im in my 30s sometimes 28. A 20 yo wants to marry me. I am poor and I dont sleep around he knows I am conservative. He does not care abd he saud he can wait for marrisge. I am so afraid bc we have a 27 years if difference he will be 21 soon. He has been my friend for 2 years he says he lives my character but people will judge me I am so afraid but I fell in love with him.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  24 дні тому

      @@yanni_ramtol3879 sometimes in life, you have to be the practical one. This boy is not even fully legal yet. His brain is not finished forming. It might feel good to have a young man chasing you, but you have to do the thinking in this situation. No matter how you look, your birth certificate is what it is. He’s going to want all the things normal 20-year-old boys want and as a mature woman, many of those things don’t match. For his sake, cut him loose. There is a man in his 40s and 50s who would loved to have a woman who looks like she’s in her 30s. Good luck. If you need further help, book a session. Lovecoachatlanta@gmail.com.

  • @MarshawnCarter
    @MarshawnCarter 6 місяців тому +15

    I'm 24 and my wife is 47. Her daughter is about to be 18 and we just had our newborn son last month. I met her when i was 21 and she was straightforward with what she wanted from me. I love that grey natural hairstyle on her, she also workout at the gym to stay fit and healthy. She is very freaky and we didn't worry about the age gap because we both are adults. She always cook me some healthy foods.

    • @daddypfp734
      @daddypfp734 5 місяців тому +1

      How’d you get around age questions, I’m having trouble with dating older women, I don’t like women my age to inexperienced and immature

    • @efrenhernandez7510
      @efrenhernandez7510 3 місяці тому

      ​@@daddypfp734don't over think things too much just let it flow and have fun with it and if you really enjoy it you are in the right place.

    • @TonyTrinidad-n8d
      @TonyTrinidad-n8d 2 місяці тому

      Sounds like my wife & daughter

    • @michellehernandez2840
      @michellehernandez2840 19 годин тому

      She got pregnant in her late 40s? That's great.

  • @BridgetMouton
    @BridgetMouton 2 місяці тому +1

    Hmmmm! I guess this is a real thing these days

  • @Aimee-f8w
    @Aimee-f8w Місяць тому +1

    True. Be honest. Don’t call us “older”… we younger than you at heart. ❤

  • @deniseeugene1852
    @deniseeugene1852 2 місяці тому +2

    If you get her to smile. That’s an in. The direct approach is what older women are use too.

  • @gallen2101
    @gallen2101 2 місяці тому +2

    The most mannerly respectful dates I have been on were with younger men. I couldn't have imagined that after being widowed at 55

  • @King_Ced
    @King_Ced Рік тому +5

    What if women is the one who cares about the "age difference"?

    • @boop8127
      @boop8127 9 місяців тому +1

      Agree. I mean yeah im flattered. And things are fine now. What about im 59 and hes 41? Is he reallllly going to stick it out ??? 10 years diff maybe. 16 years? 😢

  • @theblissfulbeauty_
    @theblissfulbeauty_ 5 місяців тому +2

    Message Approved…. #43

  • @annicecaldwell1271
    @annicecaldwell1271 Рік тому +9

    You're absolutely right!!!!

  • @markpurvis896
    @markpurvis896 2 місяці тому +1

    Most older women love attention for self validation. Stroking their ego’s goes a long way.

  • @thobanihlela6235
    @thobanihlela6235 10 місяців тому +3

    28 years please get me one 2000's are doing to much older woman know how to take good care of us

  • @efrenhernandez7510
    @efrenhernandez7510 3 місяці тому +2

    Im 25 dating a 45 year old woman and honestly there is nothing better than that , is been fun in many way and just gonna keep enjoying every moment that there's is to come .

  • @nikkisinfatuated13
    @nikkisinfatuated13 10 днів тому

    I think this is horrible advice. An older experienced woman is tired of aggressive ass thirst buckets. Play it cool. Damn.
    Im a PROUD cougar. Love my cub.
    And age is definitely a contributing factor. This shit takes work and communication.
    Mister I get what you're trying to do, but nah. Im dating someone 15 years my junior and he did the complete opposite of all this.

  • @stylzeswift9705
    @stylzeswift9705 24 дні тому

    It's just a sexual thing...there is going to be a problem and the problem is going to be called compatibility anything over a 12 yr age difference will not work. Unless it's only about sex..

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 3 місяці тому +1

    Don't be scary when you come straight at her to let her know you like her !! Practice before you do this with a trusted female like an auntie or your sister. I actually think dating someone at work is a BAD idea.

  • @Ćipe-yt
    @Ćipe-yt Місяць тому +1

    I 'm 22 my wife will soon be 39 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🔥

    • @Ćipe-yt
      @Ćipe-yt Місяць тому +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @DJGiorgo18
    @DJGiorgo18 2 місяці тому

    I might be asking the obvious, but what if your in a situation where the older woman don’t respect the the dynamic and even jokingly belittle you(Awwe your a baby compared to me). I feel disrespected and a bit demoralizing for not taking you seriously

  • @Me-eb3wv
    @Me-eb3wv 4 місяці тому +2

    How do you do #1 without coming off as a creep?

  • @daddypfp734
    @daddypfp734 5 місяців тому +1

    Y’all help me out, I’m 19 and very very well off I’m only gonna have to work a few more years to be able to retire anytime(I won’t ever retire), and I feel like older women don’t date younger men because immaturity, lack of life experiences, and no financial security. I hate that they assume that, because I have none of those issues. Do you have any advice? The women I like are mid 20’s+

  • @Dids010
    @Dids010 4 місяці тому +2

    Oh my goodness I just love younger men! It’s like a complete barrier…I’m 49 and if I meet an older man - even slightly older, I’m like “nope”! Just can’t do it! What’s going on?!

  • @iberiae591
    @iberiae591 3 місяці тому +2

    1,000 % amazing advice!!!!
    I met my love and married same year. he was 29 and I was 43. We so good together ❤❤I’m now 53 and he’s 40

    • @istarhabeen
      @istarhabeen 2 місяці тому

      Beautiful❤. Do you guys have kids together? Im in a similar situation but a bit afraid.

    • @iberiae591
      @iberiae591 2 місяці тому +1

      @@istarhabeen thank you. 😊
      No we don’t have kids as I have 2 of my previous marriage and he has been an amazing stepdad inspite that he does not have any of his own: my kids were 17 and 11 when we married. Now they are 29 and 26 they have a very healthy relationship as adults. Respect and love are key factors.

  • @jacquizbak
    @jacquizbak Місяць тому +1

    Wise words happy to c the knowledge is finally becoming common sensical eh❤🎉😮😂

  • @navina4271
    @navina4271 Місяць тому

    But if he persue her ,y would he call her a couger ,,n why would he suddenly have a problem with the age gap,,one is pursuing me ,,I've nvr done it,thats y I'm here,,im scared i don't want to do it, don't think i can ,,i have no time to waste

  • @xtrm2009
    @xtrm2009 Місяць тому

    Haha! Kelvin, my friend: You make it sound easy! 😫 There's this older coworker of mine and i don't know if she is into me. She might be like 60 but she's aging nicely actually. Everytime she sees me, she kinda gets excited and wants a hug. I noticed she always rejects my handshakes and instead walks straight towards me for a damn hug. No joke. Lmao.. Until one time, I was minding my own business and tried to ignore her when she kept calling my name, asking me to go up to her. I tried to walk away and there she went again coming towards me and this time she ran her hand all over my ab area after wrapping me in her arms.. no lies. and I was thinking "whoa lady, calm down" Haha! Matter of fact, one time another coworker told me that woman was talking about me, saying at one point "Ooh that body.." Don't know what goes on in her mind or what are her possible intentions.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Місяць тому

      @@xtrm2009 wow. I know these situations actually happen so I believe you. Here’s my advice. If you two work in the same area for the same company, do not do this! There’s a saying “ don’t 💩 where you eat.” Or “don’t get your 🍯 where you get your 💰.” If you work on the other side of the building and hardly ever see each other, maybe. Right now you are only thinking of all the things that could go right. But when it comes to interrupting your money, you have to think of all the things that could go wrong. Reach out if you need coaching: lovecoachatlanta@gmail.com

  • @amysalas802
    @amysalas802 Рік тому +4

    I’m 42 and my boyfriend is 29. Go get Um fellas

    • @sinseudonimo1885
      @sinseudonimo1885 11 місяців тому

      LoL boyfriend don't be ridiculous

    • @BladimirButin
      @BladimirButin 8 місяців тому

      @@sinseudonimo1885 he’s getting his fetish out

  • @aidasellsflorida
    @aidasellsflorida 5 місяців тому +1

    Approved and I’m #43 I am just hesitant about younger men.

  • @4danieltorresjr
    @4danieltorresjr Рік тому +3

    She’s about to turn 21 in July looking younger than she actually is and I’m turning 19 in September. We’ve been and still are talking but it’s looking real good so far. She DEFINITELY is liking me so far. She doesn’t have many friends, studying electrical engineering, is busy but still manages to reply on decent times, never leaves me on read. I’d say her Ukrainian parents raised her right

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +6

      This sounds great. Two years isn’t exactly a real age difference but it can be a maturity difference. Sounds like you’ve got a good thing going on. Cool.

  • @Caysonator007
    @Caysonator007 Рік тому +16

    I’ve got a 42 year old non mom sending me pics n sh!t. And she is a baddie. Like a French model not a day over 32. And I’m 23. I think she’s going thru a split or sum and not telling me. But I’m tryna seal the deal. She definitely wants it, now I just gotta get her to really slide thru. Ooooooo boi. Wish me luck. 😂

    • @Sixpackpuma
      @Sixpackpuma 11 місяців тому +5

      I'm 18 and I find older women attractive and sexy. A, I too young to pursue relationships with them?

    • @klausseize4147
      @klausseize4147 11 місяців тому +3

      How is it going so far,you done secured that baddie👀🔐

    • @Caysonator007
      @Caysonator007 11 місяців тому +4

      @@Sixpackpuma he11 nah. You would be surprised how much they are into young men. You just have to be confident, and play it smart. 18 is a lil young. But the right one will be down. Plus you won’t be 18 for much longer.

    • @Caysonator007
      @Caysonator007 11 місяців тому

      @@klausseize4147 bruh. 😂. I’m onto the next one / 2. I got to hit. But she was a lil crazy. Ofc. She told me not to nut, and I thought she meant it better last a while. But no, she literally didn’t want me to nut at all. Even though I was wearing a rubber. She used the fact that @bortions are now illegal as her excuse for being terrified of getting pregnant. And then after going at it for like 10 - 15 mins, her husband (that she promised was just a friend that lets her live with him multiple times) (aka sugar daddy or really good friend.) started spam calling and texting her mad af. So then she finally admitted that she is married, and trying to get a job so that she can leave him and move out. So then she left after I laid it down good, but she blue balled tf outa me, and had me pay for a hotel room for the night. When she coulda just came to my house, especially since she was only staying for like 2 or 3 hours. But she was talking like she wanted to spend the night the whole time. So luckily I only got a like $60 hotel room. But hey, it was fun. She had a lot of features to enjoy. It gave me a crazy story to tell. Taught me some lessons. And now I’ve been hittin this super tiny 30 year old Asian girl, that looks younger than me. 💯🔥🤷‍♂️. So Ig it is what it is. That’s life for ya. And heck, it probably ended up more entertaining / interesting / productive than if it all went smoothly anyways.

    • @Caysonator007
      @Caysonator007 11 місяців тому +1

      @@Sixpackpuma idk about relationships though. At least with the baddies. No matter what they tell you, they are probably looking at you as their lil boy toy or sum. If not, they are probably desperate, or missing something in their life that they are searching for. Just remember “listen to their actions, not their words.” Their words mean nothing, and can bounce around at the drop of a hat. Lying doesn’t matter to them at all, and sometimes they honestly don’t even realize they are lying. Because everything they say and do is based off of their feelings, and their feelings completely contradict themselves on a regular basis. But hey, this applies to every girl and woman. Don’t think they are gonna be completely different because they have an extra 10 to 20 years on this planet. They might have some slight differences, but a woman’s nature is woman’s nature. They either have good character, or they don’t. You don’t gain it from 20 to 50.

  • @deborahgloria3867
    @deborahgloria3867 11 місяців тому +4

    Nice to hear a mature response

  • @LordonWiserman
    @LordonWiserman 2 місяці тому +1

    I am a 20 year old dude who has a "Crush" on a work college of mine and she is 28 years old and i found out that she has alot of common tastes when it comes to some subjects but then a part of dummy me doesn't know if i should take the opportunity to ask her out for some activities around town or is she just potentially "messing" with me or just making friendly talk.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  2 місяці тому

      It's ok to have a crush...it's another thing to have a crush that you want to pursue at work..DO NOT DO THIS.. Unless you work in the same building on opposite sides and hardly ever see each other, "don't sh*t where you eat." Office romanaces are almost always a bad idea. It will be hell if the relationship goes side ways...Just find another 28 yr old who doesn't work with you.

    • @LordonWiserman
      @LordonWiserman Місяць тому

      @@KelvinTroyJohnson Ohh alright then thanks for the advice.

  • @donnakelley4006
    @donnakelley4006 2 місяці тому +1

    Age difference is never a problem in the beginning

  • @HollyBird29
    @HollyBird29 Місяць тому +4

    Thanks for the video! I was 58 dating a 25 year old. Now 59, almost 60, dating a 44-year-old. Life is wonderful! ❤

  • @kristamaeh74
    @kristamaeh74 Рік тому +22

    As a woman in my 40’s nothing makes me madder, sicker, and more creeped out to be referred to as “older” or “cougar.” I didn’t date younger men, but OFTEN had younger guys hit on me. Who wants to feel “OLDER”? Great advice, my friend

    • @EV-EV-EV
      @EV-EV-EV Рік тому +15

      Be mad, sick and creeped out all you want....but you are an old woman and all those labels apply to you.
      This is what happens when Instead of being married with your own kids and grand kids, you're out there dating

    • @mr.mayhem6755
      @mr.mayhem6755 Рік тому +1

      ​@@EV-EV-EV burrrrnnnnnn

    • @Galworld761
      @Galworld761 Рік тому +14

      @@EV-EV-EV you are assuming she wants to be married. It ain’t for everyone. Second, no one ages backward and when your time comes that young woman may be dating you for your wallet and send you home with a peck on the cheek after dinner. Why? Because you are old, she needed a meal and a good story to tell her friends at brunch the next day. Unless you are George Clooney, most young women don’t like older men. There are exceptions. So, just realize time is ticking for you too.

    • @firstnamelastname6717
      @firstnamelastname6717 Рік тому +1

      What’s your idea of maybe dating of hooking up with an older man and how old? Just curious 🧐

    • @justicethedoggo3648
      @justicethedoggo3648 Рік тому

      We want older women who have good womanky libido drive as well , and gets turned on by those words not like you

  • @banginzaza
    @banginzaza 20 днів тому

    Because of those corn videos 😂

  • @richardcollinsphotography1288
    @richardcollinsphotography1288 5 місяців тому +4

    Pure facts. I've dated double my age since I was 18. First older woman was 62 I was 18. First time I rode in a Corvette.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  5 місяців тому +1

      I bet she taught you all kinds of lessons beyond how to drive a corvette. LOL thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe for more.

  • @Liepos11
    @Liepos11 Рік тому +2

    Great advice! Thank you!❤

  • @causticchameleon7861
    @causticchameleon7861 Рік тому +15

    Yeah that advice sucks. Don’t come at me telling me what you want. What you desire. You want a feminine traditional woman? Then you treat me like a feminine traditional woman. Woo me. Don’t expect sex anytime before 3-4 months of steady dating. Age is a thing! It can be a problem especially if the age difference is greater than that of me and my kids. I do not want to feel like I’m raising another child. Lastly, age difference really matters if you ever want children. I’m done! I’m not having anymore and I’m not adopting any to fulfill your wishes. I am only interested in grandchildren now. If you think you may eventually want children, go date someone your age or younger.

    • @firstnamelastname6717
      @firstnamelastname6717 Рік тому +1

      What’s the story with older men and older women dating or hook ups? Just curious?🤔

    • @causticchameleon7861
      @causticchameleon7861 Рік тому +4

      @@firstnamelastname6717 Not sure what your question is. I can tell you, I’m not into hookups. They are satisfying. They leave you empty inside afterwards. Dating would be great but all the older men want is a sex partner. That’s it. So they go after younger women.

    • @xantonify
      @xantonify 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@causticchameleon7861ofcourse they do. No man takes older women seriously, atleast as a rule not the exception.
      They have been with everyone else before you, have baggage and bad experience with previous men in relationships. What did you thought?

  • @vixter28
    @vixter28 22 дні тому

    Right on ! ❤
    I’m waiting!!

  • @susansanchez1629
    @susansanchez1629 3 місяці тому +2

    You are 100% correct!

    • @kafui9150
      @kafui9150 Місяць тому

      30yrs man ❤🇬🇭

  • @therealcoachross
    @therealcoachross Рік тому +7

    That’s fit, feminine, friendly, sexy and submissive. In my KS voice..

  • @Artist-z4r
    @Artist-z4r Місяць тому

    I'm 22 and my gf is 35

  • @SatraLacerna
    @SatraLacerna 3 місяці тому +1

    Older woman straight 54 ❤

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  3 місяці тому +1

      Is this an advertisement?🤣 These guys will be in your inbox, quickly!

  • @tf4677
    @tf4677 2 місяці тому

    No please no!

  • @kalyn44-s
    @kalyn44-s 2 місяці тому

    I love this! Age is only a problem if you make it a problem. Go for what you want…straight talk, no chaser!

  • @michaelf.bender3718
    @michaelf.bender3718 3 місяці тому

    It's funny you brought up the idea of the Battlehawks being a future NFL expansion team. I've had thoughts about that, too.

  • @tinaoffice9274
    @tinaoffice9274 18 днів тому

    Spot on.

  • @scorpionwins6378
    @scorpionwins6378 2 місяці тому

    I like an older woman and I sense she likes me back but the problem is she is a coworker and I absolutely hate resorting to dating within the company.

  • @T-Babbbldot
    @T-Babbbldot 7 днів тому

    Get a STD/STI test before & after!🎉😊

  • @Christopheristusoberadoladutes
    @Christopheristusoberadoladutes 3 місяці тому

    Followed your advise 😂😂guess what, she told on me,, i was sat down in a family meeting for advice😂😂

  • @TashinIXi
    @TashinIXi Місяць тому

    My fiancée is 14 years younger & is now bringing up a major deal breaker a baby!!!! BUT WE Talked about this from the start 😢

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Місяць тому

      People do this a lot. They Say they are OK with something and then later change their mind. A baby is something you can’t change your mind about. You will have to let him go. There’s no way around this.

  • @TonyTrinidad-n8d
    @TonyTrinidad-n8d 2 місяці тому

    Like Apt 2308 did my wife ....& His friend 🙈

  • @madehoney5052
    @madehoney5052 3 місяці тому

    You’re the reason he keeps circling back to say hi every 3 months lol too cute but no lol seriously tooo cute though

  • @Balance5403
    @Balance5403 2 місяці тому

    what if, she is married?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  2 місяці тому +1

      @@Balance5403 you want advice on how to date a married woman?

  • @misscbrown9179
    @misscbrown9179 6 місяців тому

    Have you own everything, money, car, and house or apartment 😂

  • @khaledkaissar5263
    @khaledkaissar5263 Рік тому +2

    I love old-school 😁

    • @khaledkaissar5263
      @khaledkaissar5263 Рік тому

      As long as she has a tight body…I can go till 60 yrs old if she has a nice 🍑😁

  • @Artist-z4r
    @Artist-z4r Місяць тому

    And don't overthink that's the most important thing

  • @KristianBrown-f1q
    @KristianBrown-f1q Рік тому +3

    👍👍👍💯

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  Рік тому +1

      Yes Yes! Thanks for watching. Hit Subscribe then the bell so you don't miss anything coming up.

  • @boop8127
    @boop8127 9 місяців тому

    16 year age gap. I sure hope it can go somewhere. Im the one scared about it

  • @leea3531
    @leea3531 Рік тому +2

    The 💰 gentleman

  • @mscurvy6922
    @mscurvy6922 2 місяці тому +1

    I had a younger man chase me .. and I married him and it was the biggest mistake of my life. He put me in debt and cost me a lot of mental stress ! Be careful, ladies

  • @Qwr345
    @Qwr345 3 місяці тому

    Older women come to you. You don’t go to them.

  • @delapazadu1869
    @delapazadu1869 10 місяців тому

    Heyyyy she showed so much interest after I tried this then blocked me right after for then unblocked and hasn’t replied my text what do you think ?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  10 місяців тому +5

      I think you leave it as it is.. She is undecided and confused about her feelings. Some older women feel embarrassed to be talking to a younger man. But she loves the attention.

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 6 місяців тому +1

    I’m a Jaguar 🐆 ❤❤❤❤

  • @shannanlyn290
    @shannanlyn290 Місяць тому

    Sounds right❤

  • @MultiTheWanderer
    @MultiTheWanderer 3 місяці тому

    AAÀAAMMMMEEENNNN!!!!!

  • @maui2erika
    @maui2erika 5 місяців тому

    What about kids if he is 35 and she is 50 for example, he will probably want to have kids. Right?

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  5 місяців тому +2

      That’s a conversation that should happen on the first or second date. If he says he doesn’t want children, which is something many men will say in the beginning, that’s fine. But just like women, men have right to change their minds. Thanks for watching.

    • @tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk
      @tumwesigyemoses-tu8wk Місяць тому

      I don't need kids am I welcome if yes am waiting for you

  • @IamYim
    @IamYim 8 місяців тому

    I’m 47 my husband is 42. We’ve been married 17 years. I look damn good to be my age, however I’ve always been the older wife. I’ve recently started to feel a way about it as I age. People assume that my husband and I are the same age, but I know as men age they start to desire younger women. It’s something to consider if you’re an older woman.

    • @KelvinTroyJohnson
      @KelvinTroyJohnson  8 місяців тому

      Thank you for sharing this. I may do something specific on the topic of men getting older and their sexual desires and changes with their spouse.

    • @kingshakeem
      @kingshakeem 7 місяців тому +1

      Me and my wife have the same age difference issue.. . Some issues did arise, one being children I don't have any. She has one. And the second is one you mention it, we solve that issue by allowing me to take a trip once a year pass alone. 😉

  • @rhondacummings
    @rhondacummings Місяць тому

    Absolutely!!!!

  • @patricemoreland3291
    @patricemoreland3291 Місяць тому

    I wish it was that easy to let go of the age difference🤦🏽‍♀️