I'm 34 & In Love With A 77 Year Old Man | LOVE DON'T JUDGE
Вставка
- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- SUBSCRIBE to Love Don't Judge here: bit.ly/3z0dq6y
IMANI and Larry have been together for 9 years, although they didn’t put a label on their relationship until 2-3 years ago. They met on a dating site when Imani was looking for something more casual and she didn’t expect to get into a relationship with someone much older than her, but that changed when she met Larry. Imani had dated older men before but a 43 year age gap is not something she was used to. The pair are aware of their age gap and how that may affect the future. Imani says “It’s only natural to worry about someone's health as they get older” and Larry admits they openly discuss “those things”. Imani admitted that “If it ever came to a time where we went our separate ways, I would date a woman, I am bisexual, no-one could compete with Larry''. The pair live a lavish lifestyle with Larry treating Imani to shopping sprees in Paris, she says “It has to be the most spoiled I’ve ever gotten”. She admits that Larry spoils her on a regular basis and rarely says no. Though their friends and family haven’t judged their age gap, the same can’t be said for people online. Imani admits people assume she is a housewife and Larry says “people assume our relationship is different and people are uncomfortable with different”. Comments they have gotten online are “you in it for the money by honest” and “But will you make Daddy and sandwich?”. The pair don’t let the negative comments affect them and say their relationship works because of great communication. They say “they never put each other down and are never disrespectful to each other even when we’re upset”. The pair are now planning their wedding and next holidays around the world.
Follow Imani:
Instagram - @iheartinc_
TikTok - @iheartinc
Videographer: Alexis Duran
Producers: Kathryn Lewsey, Alicia Bailey
Editor: Hailey Wang
If you have an amazing story and want to appear on the show, please email trulycasting@futurenet.com with the subject line ‘Love Don't Judge’ and the team will be in touch!
Follow Love Don't Judge on social media!
/ lovedontjudgeshow
/ lovedontjudgeshow
/ lovedontjudgeshow
She's beautiful. And he looks fantastic for 77, she's kept him young and vibrant.
💯
Facts
is it me or is her voice kinda relaxing and refreshing
I love a rich sultry alto voice on a woman 🥰
It's just you
"his voice"
its not just you. I too like her voice
@@MsYoung00088Stopppittt 🤦🏽♀️🤣😆🤭
Out of all the relationship videos pertaining age gap, I find this one most genuine. Her voice and her demeanor and his demeanor doesn’t seem like it’s all bs. People will have opinions on them but this is mine. I too am in an age gap relationship.
I also like the couple that the girl is 33 and the guy is 68 they’re also mixed relationship too
I mean if u got 💵💰 you can make anything happen I see 😂
I'm in a age gap relationship to.
It's the happiest I've been
@@AHamSandwich516as a woman I wouldn’t expect a man his age to not have it together. Money can also bring peace.
At this point they’ve been together nine years I’d hope it’s genuine lol but I do get what you mean and I agree.
He looks great for 77.
That he most definitely does ! Like WOW
Amazing!!!!!👌🏾👌🏾
Absolutely!
9 years is a long time to fake it guys. She is in it for love.
People fake it for longer lol years have nothing to do with it .
She's in it for the life style he's been providing her.
@@thefriendlypsychopath3894 True that, dem boys from the hood weren't payin like crispy white.
@@thefriendlypsychopath3894 100%, but she's a smart woman. I had way too many women date me while I was broke, I thought of all of them as idiots. Just crazy how low she's gotta stoop to get a rich guy.
Not too bright are you
This is the most genuine age gap relationship I have ever seen
sure...
Other way around, feminists god mad 😂
Same! God bless them! ❤❤
Yea like a supply and demand type of relationship
Is it me or does he look like the Colonel Sanders from the KFC logo?
@@marszz333 I thought the same thing! Was looking for the comment. Decided to post my own comment about this... I was like Colonial Sanders is that you??? 👀
😂😂
😂😂😂🎯
Good one 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Stopppittt 🤦🏽♀️🤣😆🤭
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
He is fatherabulu, he has great powers, he can help you.
Give it some time. I was really into a man that decided he didn’t want to be with me. I was obsessed with him 😂.. I thought about him constantly. it’s been 3 years. I found someone else. I still love him, but I don’t want to be with him anymore. Just give it some time. This too shall pass..
Well what dating sight did they meet on 😅 i need me a larry 😂😂
Right lol 👀🤔
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Girl she's there for the money literally lmao 🤣 😅
A Grady or an Earl for me😂😂
Not mad at it. No drama, peace, and money. Sign me up!
lol me too 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤭
😂😂😂
Okurtttt!!!! Period😂😂😂😂😂
I’ve noticed that at 51 and single I get more attention than I did at 21 and single 😂.
The old man is having fun. Let him be happy.
She is bisexual....
Finally, a normal couple on here...
Normal? Look like stepdad and daughter😂😂🙄
@@lamino8-tg6roright lmao
@@lamino8-tg6roI think they mean a normal age gap couple
@@lamino8-tg6roreally I think you exaggerating
@@lamino8-tg6ronormal in regards to their relationship not their looks. Did you not watch? Not everything is about appearance but apparently some people don’t get that.
Good for them. They both seem happy, loving, and respectful of each other. She said she could write a book. She should definitely write a book.
He doesn't look 77
You right 87
He doesnt act it either
@@iamBlackTech95 😅
@@iamBlackTech95😂😂😂😂
I'm 37 and husband is 65. We have and 8 mth old son and he has 4 adult children and 4 grandchildren.
I actually like this couple!
Me too. They are a lovely couple
I believe she loved him more than money but also the things he can bring to her life like the feelings and knowledge he has for her
I heard her say “he spoils me on a regular basis” and that’s all I needed to know
Shopping sprees.. dont we all need those😂
larry got the bag
😂😂😂😂 facts
As he should any man that loves a woman will spoil her SMH
A husband should spoil his wife. What are you on about? Jealousy is a wicked thing if you allow it to be.
This is probably the best relationship I ever saw on age gap relationships here in the channel. It's top 3 for certain.
She’s stunning! And he looks great for 77! God bless them both ❤
This couple seems normal compared to some “age appropriate” toxic ones
💯
Probably because most of it was just for the sex and that's it
How is this relationship normal and what can he offer or what can she offer him. Why can't they find someone their own age isn't that nasty to be dating someone who is way older than older enough to be your own grandfather how do people not see that as a red flag
@@jj5469why do you care so much? How does it affect you? Except your skewed opinion. People don’t live to make ur view on what people should look in a relationship. It’s their life. Why do you care? Them dating doesn’t hurt anybody? Why do you care? Worry about yourself.
@@ririo8593 Why do you care what I put in my comment because it seems like you big mad because I am speaking the truth and I don't owe you no explanation you ant my dam mom. I can comment whatever I want weather you like it or not. How about you worried about yourself than worrying about what I got going on. It's my statement and my opinion thank you very much. Nobody has to listen to your dumb comment and if people are hurt of what I said, oh well too bad too sad they will be okay
i was 27 and my bf at the time was 56. i loved him; he just couldn’t stop cheating 🙆🏽♀️😭😂
Seriously, even at age 56? 😂
@@wnetfo4607 yes. he was really live. Every kind of Jordan sneaker, suits on deck, Yu-Gi-Oh themed hayabusa & harley motorcycles, still could get it up and put it down 😂😂😂🤣
I’m 37 and my husband is 62, I don’t have daddy issues. Never was into older men, all my previous relationships were in my age bracket. I just found that everyone I was with was so immature and I was ready to grow up after I turned 21. We’ve been married for 17 years, and been together for 17 years, only took 4 months for him to pop the question. The biggest misconception is that people think I’m with him for the money because he is older. Not the case, everything was always 50/50. And because of me, he has been able to retire early, he has been retired for 5 years now. His medical insurance is covered by my employer 100% as mine is too, we pay zero. I pay the utilities, grocery, pet bills etc. I have 2 kids from my previously relationship and he has 3. My kids are his and his are mine.
People with daddy issues don’t recognize it in themselves because your dad could have always been in your life but you still subconsciously have daddy issues.
You don't have to explan yourself to anybody lol but I like my older men as well and I'm 23
It sounds like you have enhanced his life tremendously ( usually it is the other way around). However if it works for you both God bless
Girl it shouldn't be 50 / 50 he his the man 😊. And you shouldn't be paying for everything, girl you need to put some money away for your children.
She’s pretty and he doesn’t look 77 😍 I’m sure she keeps him feeling young 🙂
I think that many unintelligent people simply cannot understand how incredibly beautiful and attractive it is when you meet someone who satisfies you on an intellectual level as well.
🏆Yes! It's such a gift🎁!
Agree!
They don’t
So true
Simply chasing after earthly pleasure rather than securing genuine connection with matured and intellectual partner!
😂she must be a Shera's student. Sprinkle sprinkle
True. Younger men are stuck in immaturity because even at 40 they think and behave like 20 something year olds, it's exhausting. Naturally Younger women are more mature so it makes sense to be with older men.
@@khrisi9410this is it
M0ney
"When I saw his bank account it did not disappoint". I have yet to see any woman fall in love with a poor old man.
it will never happen brother LOL
Very true 😂
@@azazello1784 poor men don’t deserve women 🤦🏾♀️
@@azazello1784 poor men shouldn’t be dating lol
LOL😂
You go Girlie, I am 52 years old my man is 67 and he still spoils me tremendously. So just stay and enjoy it ❤
That’s not really a big age gap though
@@LiliGosden 15 years isn’t a big age gap?
@@katehudson6490 Oh wait never mind 😅
Good for her! I am happy for her. She is out here traveling the world and enjoying life. This is what peace, relaxation, and love looks like.
If they are happy as they say they are, WHO are we to judge them 🤷🏽♀️ Life is wayyy tooo short to not experience a true love & happiness 💕
Amen❤
He is a handsome gentleman u do what u love girl ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Most of the relationships I’ve seen on this channel are nonsensical af, but this one actually seems to make sense. They appear to be very real and care about one another.
You know what they make a lovely couple and if they are happy than good on them.
My first response to the title was “girl no you not” 😂but they seem normal
Same!
Imani is beautiful on the inside and outside as well.
I think this is a lovely relationship. She's keeping him young at heart and he has so much life experience that he can teach her. They can learn from each other and grow together. True love knows no bounds. Age shouldn't matter. As long as they're loving adults. I wish them the best❤❤❤
They are the cutest! Their relationship may be shocking on the outside, but they seem to really love one another. I pray they have many more years together. ❤
I wish both of them all the very best. Cheers to 9 years! 😁❤❤
What a beautiful and genuine couple! This is the most convincing age gap relationship I've seen in a long time. They are both very cool and relaxed people and he looks fabulous & so youthful for 77! I think they really are in it for the long term and I wish them a long and happy marriage. ❤❤❤
I'm not in it for money... What do you like about him? Shopping sprees in Paris😂
For real
She’s so in it for the money. Pretty darn obvious.
Pretty "darn obvious" to who??? Because I certainly don't see it. I guess its suppose to be "obvious" simply because YOU said so 🙄. I swear I can't stand narrow-minded, ignorance.
As if shopping sprees are something to hate! 😂 It's wonderful to be with a man who can afford generosity and a decent lifestyle. If she was suffering in a "struggle love" situation maybe you would feel better about her. He has no complaints, though. 💰 He proposed. 💍
@@natashadickson4819 Yes there's nothing wrong be with a man who loves and wants to provide for their family. But when an older man who is older enough to be your grandfather dating or marring a young woman is now experiencing life is a problem. Because the older man comes off as a sugar daddy and a pervert Because why would someone wants to date someone who is way older than them other than money.
Good for them. As long as they are happy, love don't judge.
Ngl they look happy 🤷🏾♀️.
He could be her dad 🤷♂️
@@FavourEkhator-t4k She's not biracial
Love is love, it does not matter the age, as long as its legal and they are of age.
I just ran straight to the comment section 😂 and I’m seeing positive vibes 🫶🏾
That's great grandpa age, smh
Do it girl! Be happy! Life is too short!!!!
Some people that have anything nasty and negative to say are just jealous, of your guys relationship!!
please 😭could never
Yh I'm very jealous of them I always wanted to date my grandpa
She's gorgeous! They seem like a loving couple ❤❤❤
she’s going to end up leaving him as soon as his health declines/he gets older. To me that isn’t genuine!
No way Larry hitting that right now way and you peeped when she said, he rarely says no to buying her things so money plays a major part of this relationship 😂😂😂
Money is major even if you're single. Married or not, there are bills to be paid. 🙄
This BS is not cute…. Sickening
Yes! I can't agree with you more! All supportive comments are people who are lying or they're naive! He's got the money to buy this gold digger!
If yall had this opportunity bet ypu would take it 😂 stop hating
@@susieparham3501 no my morals are strong and my stomach is weak!’ He’s too old!
@@BeautyisHerName692 well good for you because you don't have to deal with it
They look so awkward together
What a beautiful couple. This lady has the most beautiful smile añd aura about her. Much love from Australia ❤
Well he’s 77 and able to go hiking with her so I guess he’s in good shape
He got money
Good vibes.
Us women put a lot of our heart into relationships. Seems like older men have more appreciation and genuinely ready to give it their all due to all the life experience. It's not to say younger men can't share these same characteristics, it's just that maybe there's more of a grass is greener mentality with them..This inturn can male younger women not feel the security they need to stop worrying etc.
Love requires risk so at the end of the day it's encouraging to see the positives that can come out of that risk.
He is attractive. She has a glow....there perfect together
I see she didn't care about the height difference either. She cared more about finding a good companion.
I love to see a happy, loving relationship 🤗💙
This one seems super genuine. To each their own!
They seem super happy. Congratulations.
They seem very happy. I'm happy for them. ❤😊
Iv always liked older men. Health issues can happen at any stage
They look like such a beautiful couple. Im happy they found each other ❤
This is the only couple I’ve ever seen in a large age gap that seems normal.
Oh yeah bag secured 😂😂
Get that bag sis
Stopppittt 🤦🏽♀️🤣😆🤭
A GOOD MAN IS BEST FOR ALL FEMALES REGARDLESS OF AGE, RACE OR COLORS. WE WANT RESPECT, LOVE AND SUPPORT, AS WE GIVE RESPECT, LOVE AND SUPPORT THE REST WILL FOLLOW, AS WE GROW TOGETHER. 🙂
This is basically a lesbian with a sugar daddy. 😂
The music is too loud and distracting
They have been together for 9 yrs, so met when she was 25 and he was in his late 60s. Grand dad age. That’s interesting
This was sooooo heart warming! Hope the wedding 💒 is amazing 🤩
The most generally fake. She said the best thing about him is that she uses his money that's crazy. That poor old man can find Somebody better.
Bro i think it’s for the money 🤷♀️
It is she basically said she into women
Wishing you continued happiness, cousin Imani!
My girl is 35 will be 36 years old in October in I’m 27 I will be 28 years old 😅 soon and I’m happily in love 😻 couldn’t want more
Now this is a marriage!
It's not so much about the outward. It's much deeper than that
A old fool, he’s desperate and she’s a user 😢
The reason you two click is because she has an old soul and your counterpart has young vibrant energy. Perfect Match. God bless.
If I’m honest , he is very handsome.
They look happy. Unlike some of these couples on here..😂
They genuinely seem into one another
Sir you will live to be in your hundreds & you have found your angel for sure you make a fabulous couple & you will be in great health .
She said he never tell her no.. I hope she don't take him for everything...
This women just wants money.
Of Course
He’ll yes she struggled to much
You sure are making a lot of assumptions. Imani is very independent and strong. Here’s what you don’t know that I do. These two people genuinely love one another. I have personally known Larry for 30+ years and here’s what else I know … he was always a good guy, but he’s a better man with Imani as his partner. She has brought out the very best in him. And, I’ve never seen him happier. Should they be denied a truly great love because small minded people assume that she just wants money? Oh, wait!! That’s the point of this entire series! 😂 And that mistakenly assumes that she’s unable to create her own wealth AND that money matters more to her than her time, her body, her soul and her self-respect. This is a relationship based on mutual respect … something that is fundamentally impossible if each partner lacks self-respect.
I beleive you whole heartly. But ill speak from experience. Although i dont know her....one can assume that she needed security whatever that look liked. Emotional, Fianaical, Safety, etc. Due to the age gap as she dicussed she has gotten older and he has gotten older. He has taken her "good years" as a old wise woman would say. She doesnt want children because she is gay but he has taken her youth. I am sure she has healed by connecting with him due to all her trauma but lets be clear he benfits way more then she does on the surface. The age gap presents issues like any other couple but i question the initial motive. Anyway short clip to diagnose but dont dare anyone think this through rose covered glasses @DawnMarieKotsonis-iu3jr
Shopping sprees in Paris…yeah we know what’s up.
Jealous that you can’t do that for your women? None us want a brokedbroke. NONE OF US!
And the fact that she says she bi. Nothing wrong with being in it for the money- just be honest.
To those posting comments about Imani being a gold digger … you sure are making a lot of assumptions. Imani is very independent and strong. Here’s what you don’t know that I do. These two people genuinely love one another. I have personally known Larry for 30+ years and here’s what else I know … he was always a good guy, but he’s a better man with Imani as his partner. She has brought out the very best in him. And, I’ve never seen him happier. Imani is an old soul, and I suspect would find a younger partner dull … not because he/she doesn’t have money (there are lots of younger people with money), but because a younger person has not yet lived enough of life to know what really matters. I think she’d find that tedious. Should these two good, kind, loving, conscientious people be denied a truly great love because small minded people assume that she wants money? Or his ego is so fragile that he needs a hot, young woman? Oh, wait!! That’s the point of this entire series! 😂 You also mistakenly assume that Imani’s unable to create her own wealth AND that money matters more to her than her time, her body, her soul and her self-respect. This is a relationship based on mutual respect … something that is fundamentally impossible if each partner lacks self-respect. I also find it interesting (but not surprising) that the majority of negative comments call Imani’s motives into question but not Larry’s. Haters suck. Love rules! Can’t wait to attend this wedding!
Finally a genuine love and happy relationship♥️♥️
It's rare to find a love so genuine. Keep loving each other and ignore those people who don't matter!
She can’t make a sammich tho 4:10 😳 that’s how rich he is….to not care what she brings to the table 🤔
His gray hair intrigued you? 😂 Naw baby, his bank account did. 😂
😂😂😂😂
Oh well if it did…he can afford it and doesn’t have an issue with it. He’s also handsome so…🤷🏾♀️
@@TheresaCeeTVthe issue is not calling it prostitution, which it is. Soon as he croaks, she’ll be with a woman
no grey hair is sexy to me maybe not fully grey but the salt and pepper look 😘
@@alyilahcudjoe02 different strokes for different folks
He doesn't look 77 at all wow looks great
Age is just a number when your older of course and they look very happy flood for them
I ain’t mad at it i won’t be a hater 💯. Peace & love to them
He doesn't look 77! Lol they are traveling and enjoying life! Live it up!
Security means money
Fact
Every person is looking for some security. Security on both ends!
U act like you’re not looking for it
You're just such a gorgeous couple. Who cares what the world thinks. All that matters is that you're crazy for each other, the rest is just noise. May you both have a very, very, very long life together. ❤
Black women are so tired of being treated the way their men treat them. They want to be loved and treated the best. Talked to like a queen and they want to feel loved. I'm happy for them ❤.
You know no one can live your life but you and him and at the end of the day if you guys are happy that's the most important thing. My husband and the love of my life are 12 years apart ,and I wouldn't have it any other way.Keep living,loving , and being happy.
For the love of money ❤
They've been together 9 years. There's no debating this is a real relationship. I like them.
🙄
This is the first time I see a couple, with that big of an age gap, that I truly believe are the real deal. I’m always skeptical in relationships like this, but with them, you can see she’s very wise and mature and I think that’s why she’s attracted to him. He’s smart and has life experience. She has an old soul. You can see the love they have and he didn’t jump into marriage right away. They’ve been together 9 years already. Also, he might make good money (and it looks like she works too) but that’s not a rich man’s house.