1. Tact: behaving with sensitivity,considerate, not talk about something's at dinner or funerals 2. Emotional Intelligence: empathy understanding others point of view 3. Speak with courtesy: politeness 4. Practice kindness 5. Practice level headedness. Avoid confrontation and arguments 6 Don't talk about your achievements 7. Correct etiquette and social rules: table manners, phone manners no yelling no multiple rings, don't spend on people paying, use your earphones, don't click thru their phones, take your leave, respect personal space and boundaries, don't screaming the street, inappropriate 8. Respect yourself 9. Practice self confidence not arrogance by contentment 10. Practice self control and Ctrl your emotions et sont allow to dictate. 11. Elegance online: discreet 12. Be authentic
As a flight attendant, I noticed that there are so many people who lack empathy. One passenger is annoyed that their missing a vacation , while the other is going to a funeral, another has a fear of flying. So many emotions/ energy trapped on a small plane, it would be nice if people were more considerate of others 🥹
I think that's the main point of practicing empathy, etc, and incorporating the behaviours mentioned in this video. If we are considerate and controlled in our our behaviour as our way of life, it would stop the inconsiderate assumptions that one could arrive at in such a setting as was mentioned.
Let me say that you are soft spoken and polished.Whenever I listen to you not only do I master elegance, but also add something to my vocabulary. Thanks for wholesome content
I love this. I am so happy that the youngers, like you, are discarding the crap that those before you thought was cool. It's not cool. It's crappy. Manners arent boring. It isn't mundane. Style is not mundane. It is actually the profound and the exceptional. Congratulations for catching this while you are young enough to enjoy its future fruits.
Miss Vivian, Can you make a video on how we can practice elegance while being a college student? Because as a student we are in budget, have to study and to manage clubs societies, live in dorm. It would be really helpful if you could make a video on it😊❤
When I was in college decades ago, we all practiced elegance. It was a private college and most of us were from affluent families. It's really how you carry yourself. I notice young women curse alot in public. F bombs left and right. Not a good look. Also dress more modest. Showing too much skin actually puts women at risk. "Fo real".
As a student, wear clean, ironed clothes, carry yourself well (meaning, shower daily, smell nice, be polite n kind, arrive to places ontime, smile n exude confidence). Be well-read, n learn about worldly topics, still hangout with friends at bars, clubs, to be socially intelligent but dress classy. With time it bcomes part of you
Hello dear , this vedio is the summery of all . Previously i wasn't that much of elegant. I dressed up modestly but didn't understand which style will go with me. I had some etiquette issues. Last 8-9 months now I'm studying on elegence , manarism , classy & timeless fashion, values & so on. And yes, the results are showing now. I'm more confident & beautiful than before . We wants more vedios from you.
This is such a God given anointing on you. You do it so perfectly with such elegance and you carry yourself so graciously. I am happy to see the Lord Jesus behind it all who has given you the wisdom to put together well thought out points for each video. May the Lord continue to bless you always.
So wonderful. Thank you. I applaud your poise, class, elegance, sophistication , flawlessness in character, beauty and diction. Excellence at its peak. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I really appreciate this video and your channel. If you meant to do this or not, there is so much BIBLICAL WISDOM for women here. I feel like I'm listening to the book of Proverbs when I listen to you.
I’ve watched your videos again and again and again and I still love them. It’s not easy to transform in flick of a finger but these reminders keep me in check and it somehow reminds me to sit up straight and the rest follows. You truly are such an inspiration to many women. And these topics align with my religion as well so it’s not difficult at all to apply. Because Islam is all about modesty and respect for self and others. Keep up your empowering work my dear Vivian. And may God bless you in it. Bunches of love❤️🌹
I am unsure if you have a school yet but please do expand. This is both good for individuals and a cultural community. Flawless reminders for myself on a daily basis. Cannot say how much value these videos are especially the one about affordable functional wardrobe.
You are such a shining light and so generous with your pearls of wisdom. I enjoy and learn so much from your videos and I am deeply grateful for holding the space for all of us…..sending so much love and light your way Vivian❤️😘
Excellent advice 😊 thanks for the video everything that was mentioned was crucial essential and keep bad behaviour in check. In the old days young ladies used to go to Finishing School and given all your gracious advice plus how to walk properly good posture how to get out of a car how to entertain more or less most of the issues you've covered on other videos all totally correct.❤😂 keep up the good work brilliant job. You made me smile 😊😊
❤be tactful. Consider if your words would affect the feelings of the other ❤show empathy Be in the shoes and see from the other person's view. ❤watch your tone... Your tone carries more message than words ❤ practice kindness in words and actions ❤ practice level headed ness. Avoid drama/confrontation ❤ Be civil and cordial with someone else ❤be respectful no matter how young,old ,rich or connected someone is. ❤ practice self confidence not over confidence and arrogance ❤Let others tell about how good you are.be content. ❤master self control don't let your emotions control you. ❤ practice elegance online,cross checking.don't be an open book. ❤be authentic.set boundaries.your happiness should not be at another person's comfort. ❤
This is so needed. I do hope others seek this helpful information. My mom passed these golden nuggets to me as a child and I have tried to do the same for my children. God bless you ❤
Hello Vivian, my name is Sabine and I live in Toronto, Canada. Thank you very much for all your videos that I watch almost religiously. Your videos have helped me level up. I have a request, please. Would it be possible for you to make a video about how to deal with people who have betrayed you and show disdain to you. I am going through this and I always have these very negative emotions (anger, resentment). I am doing my best to fight these emotions because I don't want to make a fool of myself. Thank you very much again, Sabine.
Vivienne, your hair looks especially beautiful and elegant worn in an updo! It complements and balances your facial bone structure. Its great that there are casual styles AND dressy evening styles as you are wearing here, that can look lovely with both street and evening attire. Hope to see you use this type of hairstyle much in the future!
I think this information should be taught to early teens at school. I really feel like kids nowadays are missing this in their life. Also I am using this information for myself. Thank you very much. Do you go into schools and teach these to young teens?
What a lovely and important video. Sad that I ve gone through life knowing these things but never really practicing them fully. Will teach them to my grandchildren and hope they turn out more elegant than their grandparents 😢😢
I have followed you for a very long time now And I see all the good talks and works I just wanted to compliment you for such good work Keep going high The Almighty God Bless You and always be with you It's Gifty from Ghana.❤️
My my you have wonderfully told us what the Apostle Paul had directed us rather encourages us to be beautiful inside out ward … yes being the Beautiful women we are created to be … thank you continue to grow 🎉
Thank you very much for your advice on the journey to elegance. I am very young however I absolutely hate it when persons are crass. Your videos motivate me to be a better version of myself
Hello Miss V😊 I LOVE your content and articulate presentation!🤍 I resonate with everything. Thank you🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼 Just technical feedback in case you haven’t noticed. The sound quality of your microphone sound like it’s old and analogue. Maybe needs better mixing? Or warmer sound? I’ve listened to many great quality videos and podcasts. Just needs adjusting maybe?
Your dress code is your personal commercial. It tells the world who you are & how you want to be treated. First impressions are important.
Absolutely 👍
I wish I can turn back the clock,Sisi Vivian ❤😢
Fun fact: it takes 20 additional interactions with a person to undo a bad first impression.
1. Tact: behaving with sensitivity,considerate, not talk about something's at dinner or funerals
2. Emotional Intelligence: empathy understanding others point of view
3. Speak with courtesy: politeness
4. Practice kindness
5. Practice level headedness. Avoid confrontation and arguments
6 Don't talk about your achievements
7. Correct etiquette and social rules: table manners, phone manners no yelling no multiple rings, don't spend on people paying, use your earphones, don't click thru their phones, take your leave, respect personal space and boundaries, don't screaming the street, inappropriate
8. Respect yourself
9. Practice self confidence not arrogance by contentment
10. Practice self control and Ctrl your emotions et sont allow to dictate.
11. Elegance online: discreet
12. Be authentic
Thank you! ❤
As a flight attendant, I noticed that there are so many people who lack empathy. One passenger is annoyed that their missing a vacation , while the other is going to a funeral, another has a fear of flying. So many emotions/ energy trapped on a small plane, it would be nice if people were more considerate of others 🥹
I think that's the main point of practicing empathy, etc, and incorporating the behaviours mentioned in this video. If we are considerate and controlled in our our behaviour as our way of life, it would stop the inconsiderate assumptions that one could arrive at in such a setting as was mentioned.
You absolutely GLOW! Would you consider doing a makeup tutorial? You skin is flawless, your foundation is perfect, and your eyeshadow is to die for.
So sweet🥰
I Agree with you 101% my dear, this makeup is sleek like satin. 👌👌👌 As in it's milky
@@rebeccaowowa4312it's actually called a dewy look
The Skin can be Flawless, Without Makeup
Let me say that you are soft spoken and polished.Whenever I listen to you not only do I master elegance, but also add something to my vocabulary.
Thanks for wholesome content
So true!
A gentle answer turns away wrath But harsh words Stir up anger.
Godly wisdom
Proverbs! ❤
I love your voice when you say, “Point number one!”
It makes me sit up straight and listen! 😅❤
I love this. I am so happy that the youngers, like you, are discarding the crap that those before you thought was cool. It's not cool. It's crappy. Manners arent boring. It isn't mundane. Style is not mundane. It is actually the profound and the exceptional. Congratulations for catching this while you are young enough to enjoy its future fruits.
Miss Vivian, Can you make a video on how we can practice elegance while being a college student? Because as a student we are in budget, have to study and to manage clubs societies, live in dorm. It would be really helpful if you could make a video on it😊❤
My humble request too
When I was in college decades ago, we all practiced elegance. It was a private college and most of us were from affluent families. It's really how you carry yourself. I notice young women curse alot in public. F bombs left and right. Not a good look. Also dress more modest. Showing too much skin actually puts women at risk. "Fo real".
@@danilaroche1156I went to a private college too. Our deans always told us to resist foul language, keep our rooms and appearance neat and be kind.
@@starrjohnson1327same here.
As a student, wear clean, ironed clothes, carry yourself well (meaning, shower daily, smell nice, be polite n kind, arrive to places ontime, smile n exude confidence). Be well-read, n learn about worldly topics, still hangout with friends at bars, clubs, to be socially intelligent but dress classy. With time it bcomes part of you
Vivian, by a landslide you are the most gracious lady I have EVER seen! Thank you so much for sharing your insight and wonderful personality ❣️
I'm teaching my 12 yo niece how to be elegant using your videos. She remembers it and practices it. 🙂
There is hope for the future.
That's so lovely. Your neice will remember your input!😊
This video is pure gold! Every lady can benefit from these pearls of wisdom. Thank you!
Thank you for making the world a better place through your messages, Vivienne ❤
Hello dear , this vedio is the summery of all . Previously i wasn't that much of elegant. I dressed up modestly but didn't understand which style will go with me. I had some etiquette issues. Last 8-9 months now I'm studying on elegence , manarism , classy & timeless fashion, values & so on. And yes, the results are showing now. I'm more confident & beautiful than before . We wants more vedios from you.
This is such a God given anointing on you. You do it so perfectly with such elegance and you carry yourself so graciously. I am happy to see the Lord Jesus behind it all who has given you the wisdom to put together well thought out points for each video. May the Lord continue to bless you always.
This is genius, thank you!! Forget the woke agenda and just implement these principles. It's all about respect of ourselves and of others...
“Wokeness” aka “treating everyone with respect and dignity” is a cornerstone of elegance. They aren’t opposites as your comment suggests
I love channels like this. So important. Thank you.
Your videos are always very helpful. I simply enjoy them! Thank you.
So wonderful. Thank you. I applaud your poise, class, elegance, sophistication , flawlessness in character, beauty and diction. Excellence at its peak. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I really appreciate this video and your channel. If you meant to do this or not, there is so much BIBLICAL WISDOM for women here. I feel like I'm listening to the book of Proverbs when I listen to you.
I’ve watched your videos again and again and again and I still love them. It’s not easy to transform in flick of a finger but these reminders keep me in check and it somehow reminds me to sit up straight and the rest follows. You truly are such an inspiration to many women. And these topics align with my religion as well so it’s not difficult at all to apply. Because Islam is all about modesty and respect for self and others. Keep up your empowering work my dear Vivian. And may God bless you in it. Bunches of love❤️🌹
Such a gorgeous woman thanks for taking time to create this space.
Absolutely STUNNING skin! WOW! Beautiful!
Vivian you are glowing. Keep it up.
This was a great video. I'm so happy I discovered your channel; your content is amazing!❤
I found this video incredible thank you so much for your effort
I am unsure if you have a school yet but please do expand. This is both good for individuals and a cultural community. Flawless reminders for myself on a daily basis. Cannot say how much value these videos are especially the one about affordable functional wardrobe.
Thank you, Vivian. I need your videos to help keep my self in check.
You are such a shining light and so generous with your pearls of wisdom. I enjoy and learn so much from your videos and I am deeply grateful for holding the space for all of us…..sending so much love and light your way Vivian❤️😘
For another blessing, thank you ma!
Excellent advice 😊 thanks for the video everything that was mentioned was crucial essential and keep bad behaviour in check. In the old days young ladies used to go to Finishing School and given all your gracious advice plus how to walk properly good posture how to get out of a car how to entertain more or less most of the issues you've covered on other videos all totally correct.❤😂 keep up the good work brilliant job. You made me smile 😊😊
God bless you for always dishing out wisdom
Just started my journey with this channel and I'm happy so far 🤗
You are the first and the BEST! Thank you for offering these life-changing tools.
Thank you so much for this video. More wisdom. Please be uploading more videos regularly. I always look forward to seeing your videos.
I am really impressed by your teaching. ❤it has been of help to me for some time now.
May God 🙏 continue to enrich you 💕 with more wisdom. 🎉
❤be tactful. Consider if your words would affect the feelings of the other
❤show empathy
Be in the shoes and see from the other person's view.
❤watch your tone... Your tone carries more message than words
❤ practice kindness in words and actions
❤ practice level headed ness. Avoid drama/confrontation
❤ Be civil and cordial with someone else
❤be respectful no matter how young,old ,rich or connected someone is.
❤ practice self confidence not over confidence and arrogance
❤Let others tell about how good you are.be content.
❤master self control don't let your emotions control you.
❤ practice elegance online,cross checking.don't be an open book.
❤be authentic.set boundaries.your happiness should not be at another person's comfort.
❤
Thank you so much you have helped me a lot in my journey
So gorgeous, elegant, and refined!
This is so needed. I do hope others seek this helpful information. My mom passed these golden nuggets to me as a child and I have tried to do the same for my children. God bless you ❤
Thank you so much for this video.
The way you convey the information is very helpful.
You're calm and straightforward, but compassionate.
How to ELEGANTLY...voice, execute & keep your boundaries in place WHILE trying to keep Friendships& business relationships❤
Thank you Lady Vivian❣
I just so much love listening to you Vivian. Thanks for sharing these wonderful tips about elegance
Another excellent video. I love your eyeshadow
Hello Vivian, my name is Sabine and I live in Toronto, Canada. Thank you very much for all your videos that I watch almost religiously. Your videos have helped me level up. I have a request, please. Would it be possible for you to make a video about how to deal with people who have betrayed you and show disdain to you. I am going through this and I always have these very negative emotions (anger, resentment). I am doing my best to fight these emotions because I don't want to make a fool of myself. Thank you very much again, Sabine.
Vivienne, your hair looks especially beautiful and elegant worn in an updo! It complements and balances your facial bone structure. Its great that there are casual styles AND dressy evening styles as you are wearing here, that can look lovely with both street and evening attire. Hope to see you use this type of hairstyle much in the future!
I think this information should be taught to early teens at school. I really feel like kids nowadays are missing this in their life. Also I am using this information for myself. Thank you very much. Do you go into schools and teach these to young teens?
I love this lady ooh my God thanks for sharing this amazing information
Thank you very much for your informative and inspiring information.
I do love ❤️ and appreciate your advice 👍.
Thank you for this empowering and educative video and channel, which encourages women to be the best selves. 😊🙏🏿
Thank you so much Ma’am…. I’m glad I came across your channel
I look forward to every video. ❤
Wonderful words of wisdom! Thank you🙏🏻
Thank you Viv 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
Thank you so much Vivienne, you don't how much you are helping 🎉❤.
This was very impactful, thank you.
What a lovely and important video. Sad that I ve gone through life knowing these things but never really practicing them fully. Will teach them to my grandchildren and hope they turn out more elegant than their grandparents 😢😢
Such a beautiful lady. Thanks. Amen.
I have followed you for a very long time now
And I see all the good talks and works
I just wanted to compliment you for such good work
Keep going high
The Almighty God Bless You and always be with you
It's Gifty from Ghana.❤️
Thank you so much Ma'am
This video has really been helpful.
“How you speak to people is just as important as what you want to say “
My my you have wonderfully told us what the Apostle Paul had directed us rather encourages us to be beautiful inside out ward … yes being the Beautiful women we are created to be … thank you continue to grow 🎉
Thank you, I love your videos 🙂
Beautiful and practical!
Yes! I have benefited from your points.
Very informative. Thank you
Thank you for this video. I have shared your Woman of Elegance platform with some women in my church. Your hair looks pretty up nice change.
Excellent content! Thank you very much.
Thank you this video was so on point!.
Thank you so much for your videos. I have an question. Where would you recommend shopping if your on a budget? I’m looking to upgrade my closet
I am loving the yellow dress. Great information. Keep teaching,
Such good advice for young ladies! Thank you so much for all your words of wisdom !
Thanks 👍 keep the ball rolling
Thank you Vivian am learning alot,you my role model want to be like and impact my community but still learning and need God's guidance. Bravo.
I love your makeup. It is always applied with taste. Your skin glows! I think you are beautiful.
Thanks so much Vivian, always bring the best to the table. That was helpful 🙏💜
Love love love this entire look definitely giving classy
Learning en relearning,such a master piece ✅
Great video! Thanks for sharing 👏👏👏
Like your videos...they are much needed for our over all development
Thank you very much for your advice on the journey to elegance. I am very young however I absolutely hate it when persons are crass. Your videos motivate me to be a better version of myself
Beautiful. Thank you so very much.
You are 👌. I'm so glad you came across my path
One of your best videos so far. 😊
Ladies, & any men reading this: ✨ you. matter. ✨ So very much.
Thank you so much for these uploads.
Thank you so much ❤
Hello Miss V😊
I LOVE your content and articulate presentation!🤍
I resonate with everything. Thank you🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Just technical feedback in case you haven’t noticed. The sound quality of your microphone sound like it’s old and analogue. Maybe needs better mixing? Or warmer sound? I’ve listened to many great quality videos and podcasts. Just needs adjusting maybe?
As always, an excellent video. Thank you.
Outstanding message!
Thank you!
Thank you Vivian!
Great tips, thanks for sharing!
Beautifully stated wisdom!
Wow. Thank you Vivian❤
12 life saving points. Thank you.
U r very positive energy, how? Your video about friend is amazing.
I cannot get enough of this channel
I needed this refresh and reminder. I have admittedly let things slide.
I love this. Well done Viv.
Thank you Vivian
I've learnt alot