How NOT to purge when organizing - Passive Purging!

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  • Опубліковано 28 гру 2024

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  • @TheCraftyOrganizer
    @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому +6

    Thanks for watching! Let me know if you are guilty of any of these 'passive purging' habits! Don't forget to click the like and subscribe button!!

    • @viviangouldthorpe8366
      @viviangouldthorpe8366 6 років тому +2

      I can relate to the “I’ll take care of that full donate box later.”

    • @kbaccari88
      @kbaccari88 5 років тому +2

      New subscriber and I love your videos.

  • @denisehampton3102
    @denisehampton3102 11 місяців тому +2

    Ok this Happened today, my 97-year-old mother passed away on Sunday and we were trying to clean out around her chair. She had one of those tins that you get popcorn in at christmas and my sister would just pitch it straight out, so I'm looking through it per your recommendation. "Don't just pitch it look through it" there were some envelopes in there and there was actually a $1000. In one of those envelopes! we needed it so bad and I'm so thankful God put it In there 4 years ago for us to find it today! Thank you for your advice. I don't usually ever throw anything out without looking, but my sister sure does! so thank you. Listen to this lady. She is right! It literally pays 💵💲💲!

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  11 місяців тому +2

      I am so sorry to hear about your Mom... but am glad that a simple tip brought a discovery to make things easier for your family at this difficult time. Sending you hugs and healing thoughts. xoxox

  • @writerlisakaye
    @writerlisakaye 3 роки тому +4

    While purging my craft room I found A TON of stuff that needed to go. I knew of some folks I thought could benefit from them. One friend was looking for beading stuff but only of a certain size. One friend wanted Washi tape. One friend said she'd take anything I wanted to get rid of (okay, friend, you asked) and anything she didn't want she'd take to the library where she works. It was great to know things were going to be used.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  3 роки тому

      It feels really good to have people who WANT the things. Makes it easier for you too. :)

  • @jac4YouTube
    @jac4YouTube 5 років тому +17

    What motivates me to purge is to watch an episode of Hoarders, I don't want my home to look like theirs, less is more (space)

  • @sophiarentzing
    @sophiarentzing 5 років тому +6

    So true. About the passive purging, that's what worries me on Hoarders or Hoarding Buried Alive...how they tell the clients to just let go of stuff without looking through it. I could never do that.

  • @kdramsey965
    @kdramsey965 4 роки тому +1

    “Passive purging” is a new term to me. Wow, I have been the recipient of those and it can be so overwhelming.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  4 роки тому +1

      It really is! I have a few members that still do it.... I just say thank you - and take it straight to donation!!!! Unless it's something really good! LOL

    • @colleenshaw1607
      @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому +1

      Actually i would call it "item renting" since you place conditions on how the items are re-homed. I am a recovering hoarder and things going to waste really is a set back for me. I know there are many ethical issues around thift stores but i don't make it a requirement of a "perfect place" to give my item away. I just make an effort once to creatively take it to someone who could potentially use it or even just consider it before it is donated or discarded. For example, i know where there are congregations of homeless women, so when i was downsizing from plus size which we all know is expensive AF! I put together various backpacks, bags and travel suitcases of those clothes combined with some essential hygiene items i didn't like/want/found for free like hotel soap and perhaps a few other odds and ends i stumbled on that might seem helpful. I would select one female out kf the community there to speak with and ask her to split it up equally and that i entrust her to do so. Within 5 minutes, all of the ladies would swoop in with at least 3 to 5 quality outfits that were season appropriate, many being the larger ladies I'm sure who had a harder time finding clothes in their size, much less cute and potentially used for interviews. Also, the antique dealer is a great place to downsize if you have things that you inherited and no one in the family has an interest in it. Bonus for getting some extra cash for your efforts and giving a quirky part of history another chance. Also, many nursing homes appreciate seasonal and holiday decor. My mom and i cut down about 90% of the Christmas and Thanksgiving stuff by offering it to our local nursing home. They were thrilled to have it available to bring joy to their residents. Also, theater departments will take nearly anything, i mean ANYTHING! Some items that are repairable that are needed for their program might be delegated to a student or assistant to refurbish/repurpose for their needs. There's a billion and 1 ways theaters use old curtains, left over paint/construction materials, old clothes in a wide variety of sizes (usually don't need modern ones but could be a fun new home for grandma's old house coat) craft materials, tools, industrial supplies, you name it!! Just make sure to call the department administrator to see what holes they lack in their collection. Could be an awesome way to also put some old treasures to work and enjoy seeing them in production. Also, remember that metal items can be taken to scrap yards and given cash. Metals are going for a good price right now due to the new tarriffs and logistical international nightmare covid threw a wrench into. If you really want to go on a deep dive, you can put up curb alerts on craigs list, fb market place, free cycle or see if there is an earth ship community in case you have things that would be difficult to discard like old tires. Just think creatively if it keeps you motivated to keep going. It doesn't have to depend solely on people you know, the thrift store or the trash. In certain ways, i have improved by switching my acquisition towards consumable items. Sure, 6 costco sized bundles of papertowels, 10 containers of laundry soap, 8 packs of disposable dishes, 6 bags of cat litter, 4 large boxes of trash bags, 4 gallons of paint with extra rollers/brushes/stir sticks, thousands of nails/hooks/zip ties/bolts/command strips/velco/duct tape/bolts/screws, 8 spare led light bulbs, 5 extra surge protectors, chargers by the handful, 3 spare routers, 10 40 gallon storage totes of non-perishable food, never throwing out medicine of any kind (unless certain is spoiled) and 30 rechargable batteries can be overwhelming. However, given enough time, these items will decrease in volume while giving me a sense of a "practical savings account " as global prices have increased, reducing my need to go to stores and potentially saving money or at least less pressure to acquire more. I was a fashion hoarder for the longest time which just got to be to difficult because it's harder to part from something that you find aesthetically pleasing but not the size you currently are or been able to use because of the quantity of clothing

    • @kdramsey965
      @kdramsey965 3 роки тому

      @@colleenshaw1607 I’m sorry if my comment was triggering. That was not my intention. We donate to a local thrift store that benefits a woman’s shelter. I understand what you mean by struggling with things that might be wasted. Both of my parents were children of the depression (my dad was very organized in how he kept things, and he kept a lot) so if I cannot recycle something it is frustrating as to how best responsibility dispose of it.

  • @yvettealba7431
    @yvettealba7431 5 років тому +1

    Yes please check all boxes that haven't been checked. My husband was a mover and was packing for a client who's father had passed. He was told to throw away the shoe boxes. My husband always check and thank goodness he did. One box had $9,000 in it. The family were shocked! They thanked him.😀

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому

      We found a rolex and a diamond ring by checking things first!!!

  • @catb8661
    @catb8661 5 років тому +5

    I have a "roll call" I go through when purging. I first take a picture of the item to send my daughters to see if any of them want the item, then I ask friends, followed by charity. I am a big believer in keeping things out of landfills, so I'm a huge recycler.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +1

      That's awesome!!!!! And no transfer of 'obligation' that way. Well done!!!

  • @ArtyAntics
    @ArtyAntics 4 роки тому +2

    I’m still catching up on all your videos, this is my fave video so far! Love that you talk about boundaries and ASKing before you pass things on. I really get stressed when people give me stuff I don’t need. I (+ my hubby) just want to be in control of what I have in the house, after all it is our home! I’m guilty of the pileup, Especially during the pandemic, it’s been hard to go to the tip and charity shops aren’t back to normal yet but I’ve been using Facebook market place to let people collect free items. It just takes a lot longer!

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  4 роки тому +1

      I've not been purging as regularly as usual... and I've been crafting MORE. So my home is starting to look cluttered. I need to go through and get rid of stuff again! By the way.... Your Alice in Wonderland books are AMAZING!!!

    • @ArtyAntics
      @ArtyAntics 4 роки тому

      The Crafty Organizer thank you 😊 it’s amazing what you can make with scraps!

  • @stamperssecret5379
    @stamperssecret5379 4 роки тому +1

    Hello from Dallas. Yay! Finally got confirmation on patron!

  • @dianaredflowers7928
    @dianaredflowers7928 4 роки тому +1

    🙋🏻‍♀️Hi Norrine,
    This another good video. I really enjoyed your acting scenes 😆, great job. Everything you mentioned made total sense, smart advice. THANK YOU!!! ❤️

  • @pens_and_stationery9983
    @pens_and_stationery9983 5 років тому +6

    I usually bring stuff that i can't throw away to work with me and put it in the break room with a note to my coworkers to take what they want. Everything that is left after a week, I trash.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +1

      That's a great way to purge... without giving obligation with it. Awesome job!

  • @vayes7958
    @vayes7958 Рік тому

    Great rewatch my friend

  • @lindajones5584
    @lindajones5584 5 років тому +1

    I absolutely love your videos.

  • @tresgib
    @tresgib 5 років тому +3

    Great idea about being sure what is in the boxes being purged. I once grave away a box of items that I meant to keep. Anniversary gifts from my husband, and other gives from my children. Not replaceable. Even my parents wedding rings. And photos. Thanks goodness I did get the rings back but everything else was gone. Oh and to top it off one of the photos was my wedding photo. So be sure to check thoes boxes before giving them away.

  • @SimpLeeBeth
    @SimpLeeBeth 4 роки тому +2

    Good points!

  • @reneelarner4315
    @reneelarner4315 5 років тому +3

    I loved this video, too. You did a great Edith Bunker! I thought that was cute! I'm trying to figure out which one I would be.
    I'm definitely not the over purger. Thank you!!💞💞

  • @mossyoakmom8880
    @mossyoakmom8880 5 років тому +7

    I personally like when people are getting rid of things and pass them my way. I never feel obligated to keep the things but I do like going through the things in case there is something I want. What I don’t want goes immediately to the thrift store.

  • @renaparker4579
    @renaparker4579 6 років тому +7

    Norrine,
    You are excellent! You're speaking on things I've never heard organisers talk about. Thank you!😉 One thing I do is schedule regular donations.
    I aim for once a month, but it can be overwhelming if I wait. Sometimes I take items back from the donation pile if it sits too long. To be more effective, I schedule pickups about every other week.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому +1

      That's what I do as well!!! Great point, and thank you for the feedback. ♡

  • @elisabethsargent
    @elisabethsargent 5 років тому +1

    I was so confused when I saw the title, since we could all use to purge a bit. This was a great video!! Thanks for sharing!

  • @clairechocolate12
    @clairechocolate12 Рік тому

    This is just… perfect!!!

  • @astralsuchi
    @astralsuchi 5 років тому +1

    Super helpful!

  • @Daystar311
    @Daystar311 5 років тому +3

    Passive purger here! I get stressed about purging, but since I moved into our poor little abused home with very little storage space, I have no choice! I've already purged my closets, but my craft room! Ugh! We have to renovate every single part of this home and I need the boxes of stuff gone to get ready for flooring (after we fix the plumbing and electrical)! So, thanks for the inspiration!

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому

      Ok, I recorded this because I AM A PASSIVE PURGER! LOL I am always trying to 'share' my treasures. :) Glad you liked the video.

  • @Janice_V
    @Janice_V 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks!

  • @kbaccari88
    @kbaccari88 5 років тому +7

    My mom is such a minimalist, she's always bringing my grandma's old clothes.
    "Here's some orthopedic Reebok sneakers, your kids might want. If not you can throw them out".
    She could've just thrown them out lol.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +3

      Ha ha! Did you show her this video?? Thanks for the comment and watching.

  • @colleenshaw1607
    @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому +1

    Also, don't forget your local community theater or high school drama department. These organizations usually need a wide variety of items that most places won't take. Anything from fabric, crafting materials, decor, tools, furniture, weird antiques etc. Call them and get the OK. Many times they might offer pick up for large items. The donations allow them to shift their budgets that are already razor thin into increasing the quality of their production and possibly even expand their program/services

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  3 роки тому

      Wonderful suggestion!!!!! And lets the kids have more options to be creative with!!!!

    • @colleenshaw1607
      @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому +1

      @@TheCraftyOrganizer exactly. Many theater departments run on tight budgets and can be very helpful to have those props, costumes, sets and supplies be provided by the community. You would be surprised on how useful knickknacks, scrap wood, old buttons, unused hosiery (vital for females to keep their microphone batteries stable), condoms (not joking, used to reduce clothing noises from the microphones as well as reduce risk of shock because of sweat hitting the microphone) scrap fabric, bags of sand (big part of set safety and stability) and other not highly desired items can make an impact on the quality of the show. Just about all theaters are organized super pack rats in the most benevolent way. If you don't want to throw it away, give the theater or high school a call.

  • @jeannebowes2898
    @jeannebowes2898 5 років тому +1

    I used to keep a large basket of items by my back door for donation. My friends knew that they could check out the contents and take what they wanted. Usually everything went , then I would donate to the local church charity shop. I love the Lupus Foundation front doorstep pickups.Your kids will probably not want Grandmas china! Now I am a senior senior that is very downsized , Housekeeping is very easy.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +1

      Love, love, LOVE your back door donation spot! Great job, Jeanne!

    • @jeannebowes2898
      @jeannebowes2898 5 років тому +1

      Call Clutter Fairy We are gradually selling out for our next move, since we are senior seniors.

    • @colleenshaw1607
      @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому +1

      As a person with depression, i appreciate this! I always mean well but the last mile of anything is always the hardest

  • @carollippincott4699
    @carollippincott4699 5 років тому +2

    Thanks for the info. I am beginning today to organize. Your videos are encouraging me!

  • @NikkiSixxIsMyGod
    @NikkiSixxIsMyGod 5 років тому +2

    Awesome tips. My mom gives me lots of things...but she has started asking first. 😁 My kids are the ones telling me to keep certain things for them...I started a box for the one that turned 18 in August...just a little starter pack that I am sure we will add more to as we go.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +1

      That's awesome!!! I love it when I get hand-me-downs that I need/want. It's the other ones that I try to avoid getting and giving. :)

    • @NikkiSixxIsMyGod
      @NikkiSixxIsMyGod 5 років тому +1

      @@TheCraftyOrganizer I so agree. I have gotten so many things like that and while I appreciate the thought in giving...I don't appreciate the added clutter. I used to have guilt in getting rid of things like that...I guess at 50+ I have just gotten to the end of my rope with it though. I keep going through things and getting rid of stuff. Collector/Hoarder it seems...but getting better on my own with it all. 😁

  • @Ang-dj6fe
    @Ang-dj6fe 5 років тому +5

    Just found your channel. Love it!!! My biggest problem is, well, everything you mention in your videos, but I need to find one craft and stick to it. What is your suggestion for that? I do get very attached to all my items.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +1

      That's a hard one.... I am inspired by a few things as well. I'd say just pair it down to the 3-4 you love the most. Don't let the money invested be your deciding factor. I kept mostly paper/scrapbook crafts... as I can do so many things with those types of materials. But I also have all of my old stamps and punches. They just come in handy so often! LOL

  • @carolcarroll-thomas2735
    @carolcarroll-thomas2735 4 роки тому +1

    Yes today I have boxes and boxes??! Thank you? So go to a cat rescue group for their annual sale!! My husband was over joyed

    • @colleenshaw1607
      @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому

      Fantastic place for old towels and blankets!! If you ever have an extra pet carrier, they never have enough to give away and can really make a difference in getting animals adopted

  • @Holli_Sassafras
    @Holli_Sassafras 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve watched almost all of your videos and I love them all! But I am dying to know what the letter Y is for.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  2 роки тому

      lol It was just a letter I found in a thrift store… and I thought - Y not?!?

  • @sulagnapanda3332
    @sulagnapanda3332 5 років тому +1

    OMG ! I do all that you have just mentioned and mostly the second and the last. You are so right!

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому

      🤣😂 I love that you admit it. I used to be guilty as well. Thanks for watching!!!

  • @julietannOsfan1972
    @julietannOsfan1972 5 років тому +1

    Great tips.

  • @justenemckelvy-overstreet2357
    @justenemckelvy-overstreet2357 5 років тому +1

    I am definitely a passive purger! I’m trying to get rid of a lot and I have but there is more!
    Thank you so much for these videos😍

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому

      You are very welcome! Let me know if you need help. :)

    • @colleenshaw1607
      @colleenshaw1607 3 роки тому

      If the idea of directly giving it to a thrift store doesn't motivate you, you can also try other creative ways to donate such as decor for nursing homes, nearly anything to your local high school theater department (check with the director first for what's on the wish list, the bigger the school, the more items they will accept) take metal items to scrap yards, call your local CASA organization to donate school supplies/toys in good condition/kids items for kids in the foster care/social worker situations, old items to antique dealers, post curb alerts on Craigslist or fb marketplace. Many of these places will pick up but not all. Just an idea to keep you going while also giving a place that might have more limited means/direct interest in the items a chance

  • @norrineburke6691
    @norrineburke6691 6 років тому +1

    Oops! I've done these! Thanks!

  • @barbarahatfield9658
    @barbarahatfield9658 5 років тому +1

    Lollll so true ...... put itoutside or dornation ...... lolll thanks so much and most of all the things that we want to give to our kids , they don t even like them or not they re style . Now i ask and that help

  • @just_observing8248
    @just_observing8248 6 років тому +3

    Loveeee this. Is it bad that I’m all of those🤦🏼‍♀️😂😂👏🏻👏🏻

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому

      LOL! I AM all of these too! Thanks for watching!

    • @just_observing8248
      @just_observing8248 6 років тому +3

      Call Clutter Fairy ty for responding♥️ I have to tell ya , I listen to UA-cam all day everyday and honestly, your the best I’ve heard yet. I’m thrilled that I found you. Ty for the great info.

  • @purplemoon8637
    @purplemoon8637 5 років тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @carlajohnson8574
    @carlajohnson8574 6 років тому +1

    Where have u been all my life?! Lol. Love all your tips

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому

      :) Any requests??

    • @carlajohnson8574
      @carlajohnson8574 6 років тому +1

      I don't know where to begin. I'm putting new stamp sets that need to be labeled in one container. I also hv a container with stamps I need to use. My husband had a craftroom made up for me in our basement but he did designs pretty much based on how he felt things should be. I am very overwhelmed. Your videos are truly helping me from my craftroom to the excess dishes nobody will want. Lol.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому +1

      I'd love to help!!!!! Would you mind sending me a picture of your area via email? I can give you some tips!!! Or if you are local, I can just come help myself! :) CallClutterFairy@gmail.com

    • @carlajohnson8574
      @carlajohnson8574 6 років тому +1

      Lol. It's so much I'm embarrassed. I definitely appreciate the help. I'm in Michigan. Where are you? And I work a long shift today but will take pics when I get home this evening if that's ok

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому

      Dang, too far from Southern California. But I can't wait to see the pics!! I'll help long distance :)

  • @ladyofmagicmusze1
    @ladyofmagicmusze1 6 років тому +1

    I really enjoy your videos, I appreciate your clarity and honesty in admitting your challenges too! I'm trying to learn how to incorporate some of your tips! Thanks for sharing ☺

    • @norrineburke6691
      @norrineburke6691 6 років тому

      Thanks so much! Any areas you would like help with? I'm always looking for new video ideas ♡

  • @roxyfur
    @roxyfur 5 років тому +1

    You have a Dalmatian!?!?! Awesome series!

  • @annerohrbacker6097
    @annerohrbacker6097 4 роки тому +1

    Edith Bunker...LOL!

  • @chrisshuk3365
    @chrisshuk3365 5 років тому +2

    Call the clutter fairy, I need your help. I am getting so stressed from moving that I am having panic attacks and migraines. Do you work with anyone in the state of Michigan? Thank you. Chris

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому +1

      Oh, Chris - I don't have anyone in Michigan. E-mail me some pics of what you are dealing with.... I will see what suggestions I can make.
      CallClutterFairy@gmail.com

  • @susanvaughn7491
    @susanvaughn7491 4 роки тому +1

    My husband always says sell. It I tell him I don’t have the time nor do I want a stranger come into to my house

  • @Sunjoy1
    @Sunjoy1 Рік тому

    😁

  • @margaretcooper797
    @margaretcooper797 6 років тому +1

    Oops I am so guilty of this but my friends and family have learned to say no!

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  6 років тому +1

      Ha ha! Good for them!!!! It's sweet of you to try and find a loving home for your things.... think of the excitement the person who BUYS your items at a thrift-store will feel instead. ;)

  • @kathrynblingliciousnesshacks
    @kathrynblingliciousnesshacks 5 років тому +3

    Regrettably, I have OVERPURGED...😢

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому

      OH NO!!!! What do you regret getting rid of?

    • @kathrynblingliciousnesshacks
      @kathrynblingliciousnesshacks 5 років тому +1

      Call Clutter Fairy I mistakenly threw out some important documents & hard to find craft supplies.

    • @TheCraftyOrganizer
      @TheCraftyOrganizer  5 років тому

      :( Yikes! So sorry that happened to you.

    • @AriesRising4444
      @AriesRising4444 4 роки тому

      Never over purge before a pandemic! Lesson learned. The stuff I have had to replace cost me much more than I paid the first time!

  • @rpkent8884
    @rpkent8884 3 роки тому

    ;)

  • @safepethaven
    @safepethaven 5 років тому

    copied from Dana K White