@@stephenfoster1257 I don’t understand what you mean? Intuition is something that is unique to an individual. If you know what you are sensing, you know something is wrong. We all use intuition daily to make choices. Some of our choices may be subconscious. This is a part of the intuitive process and abilities we each carry as beings upon this planet. Fathers and mothers use intuition all the time when it comes to their children. Using it when it comes to the other relationships in life is imperative to survival.
Nah hes right, I get the same squicky feeling when my hubby is depressed that I get when somethings wrong with anything else, and he'll try to say, "nothing I'm fine." DONT LISTEN, LIFT UP YOUR MAN. GIVE HIM HIS FLOWERS. I'll just walk by and say, "Hey, you know what? I appreciate you and everything you do." Then skedaddle away before he feels like he has to return fire, cuz no, that ones yours today babe
That's a great thing to do. I'm sure he appreciates it every time you do that. Thank you for treating your man right and giving me hope to find a woman who will do the same for me.
, other races of women don't play these games with their men 🙄they move in SILENCE but in a good and healthy way for their men, they evolve and level up his happiness 🙏🏽🤲🏾🙏🏽part of the reason other races of women get it is because they have a blueprint on their culture, we as black people don't have that because we were stripped of our culture , so at the end of the day we as black people are really just moving on the fly with emotion and not being able to truly show love for each other 🙏🏽🤲🏾
Was about to comment the same thing. And was even wrong as intuition would come from observation, thus they do relate. They only want to hear what makes them feel good
@@creatorrashidaaliyael We are all the sum of both a man and a woman. Not sure why you're trying to diminish that fact. Anyway men and women do not think the same way about things. There are whole books on the topic. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus? So I'm not sure what coming from a woman has to do with a man's thinking other than what he learned growing up?
I’m a woman who goes hard on behalf of women, but I’m fair. Right is right and wrong is wrong, and dude was right. Obviously doesn’t fit with every woman, but it’s enough of an issue across the board to agree that dude is correct for the most part.
My fiancé actually does pay attention whether or not if I'm happy about anything. Like you said "obviously doesn't fit with every woman, but it's enough of an issue across the board...". My fiancé told me herself "There's very little of us women who want to be good to their men, there's just many times that some women end up with a messed human being rather than a man, so they're jaded". It's on both men and women, but I agree with the man here too, it's really dependent on whether or not you truly care and love your Significant other. If one doesn't care, it shows in their actions.
@@newmnsilver you’re right about that. It goes both ways, but if a woman is jaded, she jaded because she chose the wrong man so therefore at the end of the day, it’s her fault because chose that person and Did not require commitment, marriage, or did not vets co correctly
I believe they can go hand in hand. For me intuition is a strong feeling based on zero evidence that something is going to be okay regardless of what it looks because of the feeling of overwhelming peace or there is something extremely wrong and I am so agitated deep down I cannot shake the feeling. Both of these for me are based on zero evidence just a knowing…. Observation can be the same way but it is evidence based, if he stopped doing this (whatever it may be)…. Let me see how he moves the rest of this week. This will then trigger the intuition. Just trying to make sense of this using how it happens for me.
My wife knows me up and down. Sometimes she wont do anything about it right away, because she's human also. But she's taught me over the years that she knows me...and CARES. I try to be the same for her. I'm just not as good at it. Because my intuition is not as strong.
This is the first time I’ve disagreed with the lady at the end. They didn’t even try to understand where he was coming from, just an immediate “nope that’s not true.”
I understood what he was saying. It's all about us and not trying to see how he's doing or his feelings. I get it and it's true. That's why I communicate and we don't talk over each other.
They understood exactly what he stated. They did just didn't like what he said, because he checked them with a direct and logical question, and that question non of these females couldn't answer ....why? They don't have an answer.
She wasn’t wrong with how she responded said its a minimal the women he is speaking of is selfish and the only way her radar comes up is when he stops paying her way. If a couple have been working together and communicating and and you’re man decided to stop. We go well that’s new maybe he’s off but it goes his whole attitude change. And if you talk about he doesn’t tell you why or it’s a half ass excuse. Of course we’re on alert but man have that radar too sometimes y’all need to fix it. Men just stop during things and it’s actually awkward when you don’t know why. Especially when you don’t give the bare minimum but this is my opinion.
If a woman knows that her man is unhappy, shouldn't her intuition tell her to look into it the same way that she would look into if and/or why her dude is cheating?
In other words, We notice. We just don't care until it starts affecting us. She was so preoccupied with disproving his claim that women *aren't* as intuitive as they claim, she ended up emphasizing his point that women are selfish.
You didnt even hear the totality of the conversation before immediately making a negative assumption villanizing her. Perhaps you missed that she had to establish a baseline of distinction between intuition and deductive reasoning rooted in love and/or care. The audience member's question was predicated on his belief that intuition is the driving force that helps a woman cater to her mans uncommunicater or spoken needs. His belief was false and therefore needed clarification and correction before a full answer could be given which we were not privy to. Assumption is the foundation of misunderstanding. Listening to make arguements and not to understand is toxic activity that leads to lonliness. Communication is a vital key to a healthy relationship.
@@nquisitivt I'm not villainizing anyone. I simply stated what happened in the clip. I didn't miss anything ma'am. Perhaps you didn't notice in my comment that I acknowledge that she made the clarification between intuition and deductive reasoning...but she did not actually rebuff his point. The point being that women, generally, do not make efforts to comfort their men unless him being unhappy affects her negatively. Her response: intuition and observation are the same thing. Imagine if instead of responding to your comment as I have, my initial response was to correct your grammar. The fact is, in this clip, she did correct him on the correct word to use; but doing so actually made women look worse. I actually would love to see her full explanation, because the message her response in the clip gives off only supported his observation that women are inherently selfish in relationships.
@@lamargordon6017 your post made no mention of a clarification and you didnt simply state what happened in the clip. We have to be honest with ourselves and others to reach an understanding and new level of growth. You made an assumption and stated your opinion albeit uninformed because you did not have the benefit of her entire response. She also didn't CORRECT the audience member or anyone else for that matter. She defined the difference between the term audience member used and the term that actually applies. She further went on to clarify that her co panel member minimized and simplified the answer to the audience members question by answering in a one dimensional way without full understanding when I think she believed her co panel member intellectually knows better. Now I definitely heard a twang of attitude that I think is attributed to her disbelief in her co panel members answer, but still unnecessary and perhaps is the reason why you perceived correction innstead of clarification.(just a guess, I could be wrong) I respect your opinion and your right to believe as you choose even if I dont agree. What I am more concerned with is ensuring we both are operating from facts so that this exchange can create better understanding on both sides and we can express thoughts void of familiar responses that serve no one and stifles further communication and understanding.
The question was clearly grieving that women WON'T ADDRESS male unhappiness like they will male cheating. They IGNORE whatever their _intuition_ , feelings, etc. tell them, unless they are facing loss of whatever they _want for themselves_ out of the relationship. Betta STOP that. And betta STOP PLAYING DUMB and DODGING when a man brings it up, if you want the future to go better.
Yes but what do the women who actually detect it do about it?? He’s definitely right most of them simply don’t care unless their needs are met first/selfish.
This is actually shockingly true. I feel like men are expected to always upkeep their side of things, no matter what they're going through personally, and as long as she's happy your unhappiness never gets addressed. But the minute your unhappiness becomes her issue, it's a problem that's always on you; yet it never works the other way around. Whenever a woman's unhappy it's always the guys fault, even partially, but for men it almost always gets overlooked or at worst mocked.
🙄Imma need y’all to stop standardizing toxic relationship dynamics. For real because BOTH sides are expected to upkeep their side of things. Nobody is responsible for your happiness. So what are you actually talking about? When we have issues in the relationship that entail the actions or words from our partners or the world, within a healthy relationship, you talk to each other to resolve the issues. That’s how normal healthy relationships work. If one partner is always getting their needs met while the other is being ignored…that’s toxicity and it needs to be addressed to satisfaction OR end it*.
@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 I feel generally, men are EXPECTED to be responsible for their woman’s happiness. Whether that’s right or wrong varies based on person I agree, but GENERALLY a man is expected to be responsible for her emotions. “Happy wife happy life”. And that is not typically reciprocated. And whenever the topic is addressed it gets flipped to be the guys fault. So it’s not a toxic relationship dynamic as much as it is legitimately expected out of a man by the majority of women.
@@greatestever4568You aren’t lying. And this is coming from a woman. 😅 I’ve been guilty of this. This is how I know I’m not ready for a relationship is because I want to mostly benefit from the relationship & give the bare minimum on my end. I’m too lazy lol I’m very self aware which a lot of people both males and females aren’t.
@@greatestever4568 I'd say it is a toxic relationship dynamic. I agree with you both and I don't actually think you two disagree but it could just be the way I'm interpreting the conversation. The fact that it's expected is actually ridiculous and I'd say men need to put their foot down on this one en masse. Happy wife happy life is a garbage old school mentality that needs to be left alone. Both spouses need to be happy and though you should participate and be involved in your spouses life, you are not and will never be the source of his or her happiness. Trying to be causes frustration and resentment.
LOOKED like he got shut down. What really happened is that homegirl led a troop of women in a chorus of 🎶 " _Here is why men should avoid AAAALL of us, AAAAALL of us_ !!" 🎶
The question the Man asks is "why can't women tell when their Man is unhappy AND actually use that information to make the Man happy ( or try to make him happy ) / taken care of" The response from the bro in the panel is right 💯 The woman in the panel was just .. well.. idk.. escaping accountability .. As usual.. It's amazing
Man asked a legit question and got told he was wrong for asking the question and women still dont understand why men say its better to not say anything at all
It's funny how the true question was only answered by a man on the panel, yet dissected by the women on the panel in attempts to question its validity as a question itself. #Answer the question😂
Check the faces of the women in the audience when dude is making his point, then along comes miss no accountability to excluse the fact that dude that asked the question was onto something she was only quick at dismissing his question as minimal because he has a point. Women will side step any logical argument because they hate to be wrong, nothing a woman does is ever wrong to her as long as her ego is at stake.
She said women can "absolutely tell" when their men are unhappy. But look at how her intuition (that she just went so hard for), this SAME intuition that they will engage at even the SLIGHTEST suspicion of cheating, did not help her to know that this man was clearly asking why women won't give *equal attention and fire* to DEAL with _men's unhappiness_ . Seems like she knew......and didn't care. That response is SO common, and _SO telling_ . It has a lot to do with why so many men won't even TALK to women anymore.
The Question itself spoke soooo much volume it Muted the female heavy audience, but yet ALL the Women chose 2turn their listening ears off when the Male response was True, they denied it Bullshit
And also a majority of the time intuition is always looked over due to the emotions. Women are very very smart and they don't need intuition to tell if someone is cheating. But what good is it if you decide to stay
Women go for attractive guys and be accusing the dude of having ho*a before the relationship even starts. That's not being smart. That's just being insecure.
I think he hit the nail on the head when he said "selfish" man or woman, you know when your partner is unhappy and choosing to do nothing about it is definitely selfish
"Intuition" is just picking up on nonverbal queues, it's not some superpower. Women tend to be better at picking up nonverbal queues than men (this is well documented). For this particular situation, the question becomes which nonverbal queues is she going to respond to? That's completely up to the individual and what's important to them, not a blanket like "she only cares when she suspects cheating". Miss me with all of that
Women claim to be intuitive, yet when men point out how often women get into relationships with shitty men, women's excuse is always "I was tricked!", "some people are really good at pretending", "some men will put on act and then show their colors when it's too late!" If women were so intuitive, then they would able to spot the bad guys right away. Being able to notice these things is *precisely* what intuition is useful for. So either women are not as intuitive as they claim to be, or they are but just choose not to use it when it matters most
And i totally agree because I myself have ignored things until I was made unhappy. I'm not saying to be address everything but don't discount or dismiss anything. Just tuck it in your file and see what becomes of your observation. That will let you know if it's intuitiveness or something else. Observation is everything
your version of what intuition is not accurate. What you defined is deductive reasoning and often times this is the trigger that women are employing to confirm or disprove a cheating man. Intuition in this instance is the internal confirmation. Lets not confuse intuition with choice. JUST SPEAKING ON WOMEN RIGHT NOW:Many women get the feeling he is no good loud and clear, but then CHOOSE to ignore their intuition AND the observable signs. This is the truth for some. For many others the lower vibrational batches of men are deceptive seeking only to please self. Intuition is very much like a weapon or tool in a video game. You may not always have access to it until you reach a certain level and its going to take you exhausting several lives learning how to use it effectively. Its in that infancy stage of intuition or realization that its intuition AND that it is a power that can be harnessed is when the low vibrational guy is able to deceive. Some women never learn to control it thinking that it is random at best. The women who have harnessed the power are the ones unwilling to waste time responding to men with: "Immediately, no." are the same women being admonished for being too picky and at the same time being told its their own fault for getting got by a no good man.
Yeah the observation.... Then the intuition... Or however you wanna play it. They know they just don't care. Emotional invalidation at its finest... And every woman that clapped when she said her take is toxic and narcissistic. Just like her.
Most people play games. They know their partner is unhappy but don’t feel compelled to do anything about it until they receive a negative outcome. Then they start bargaining and offering to do whatever it takes to make it work.
I wonder if she would have said "your right sometimes where caught up in our well-being. Sometimes our partners say their fine but as women we do sense theirs more to it. Open communication with out judgement and allowing them to speak and answer. We don't have all the answers so where quick to point the finger.
This is because most women have never been taught and have never really cared about being a true friend to a man. Many of our interactions have historically been transactional in nature as men have been seen as a resource. The first thing most women want to know about a man is “what does he do?” The thing that men ask is “what does she look like?” Men’s feelings are rarely if ever taken into account, almost like we’re not human! Just like I’ve heard on this show, most women are irritated and turned off by an emotional or sensitive man. In short, I don’t know what’s going on with you and I really don’t want to know. Now, let’s go eat. 😅
A person can be taught but never learn the gems. Learning should come from experience. Many women just don't care but expect men to care. It's a forever Neverending cycle.
@@jas1565 I can’t disagree with the other way around, but I did say that mostly men and women’s relationships have been based on transactions. Are there anomalies? Of course, but for the most I think even you can agree that this has been the case. For the most part, we’ve just developed a system of being able to co-exist with one another.
@@sbrownmsw as a woman with several male friends who hears/sees the way other men react when I even mention I have male friends or how they talk about women in general, I think it's men who make those relationships transactional.
The woman at the end said a whole lot of nothing that made the crowd react. That was completely dismissive and pretty disappointing because she is usually on point.
If she don’t know that her man is unhappy then that’s not her man nd she don’t even like him like that period . If you locked in with someone you notice everything about your partner when they hungry, when they bothered stressed that just comes with the territory of being in a relationship even in friendships so idk what he was even getting at?
They know, they admit they know... but don't care... which is SO much worse 😅 they think he cheating and get mad. They KNOW he unhappy but do nothing to fix it... 😢😢😢
“You talking about a feeling and a whole subconscious process versus an observation.” Well what’s the difference? Honestly. You can tell when a man is unhappy. So you just don’t care?
It's funny how when accountability needs to take place most women minimize shit. Dude is speaking facts and the chick completely minimized that shit. Then all the woman agreed with that shit. She literally proved his point. FOH!
Facts...my man asked a very valid question and did you hear the room full of women gasp after it was asked? These women WONDER why men aren't interested in them these days
If they can tell that makes it worse and solidifies what he was saying. They only care if you’re unhappy when you stop doing things for them outside of that they could care less.
If a husband tells his wife that he's unhappy about something she's doing, will she: A. Tell him he's wrong for being unhappy about anything she's doing, because everything she's doing is justified B. Tell him she has more reason to be unhappy about him than he has about her, and he's been ignoring her unhappiness C. Talk to him about how she can change what she's doing so that he's more happy? Husbands know it will be _both_ A and B. It won't be C.
Of course they believe in "women's intuition", even though most women don't actually have it. And of those who do, they're only right about 25% of the time. That's what I've seen.
No matter how emotionally intelligent a woman is or sounds, she is always, always (and I mean every single one of them) too narcissistic to see a man’s pov. Incapable of hearing, understanding and onboarding what he is saying and accepting it to do better. Especially if she’s intelligent. Now she’s especially skilled in cleverly minimizing what he says with her oratory skills.
Usually she's spot on, but not here. Shuttin statements down and not diving deeper, simply because you disagree is the main issue in resolving any type of conflict for any type of relationship
Yep deflecting at it's best. Intuition is exactly what he said. She tried to separate it by feelings. Well ladies we don't go off our feelings like y'all.
I don’t think it’s that women don’t know, when a man is unhappy. I think it’s more about she doesn’t care, when the man is unhappy. That always tells me that, he’s not the one she really wants.
Oh they relate very well it's just that they are to selfish to care about his happiness fellas just ask yourself how often has your lady approached you and wanted to know how you were feeling if more often than not then you might have something if not so much then her selfishness is to strong for her to care about anything other than her
One thing I do is check on my man. How are you? How are you feeling today? Is there anything going on or on your mind you would like to talk about? I love my man and I always want to do what I can to see him happy mentally and physically.
Awwww shit notice that first woman shook her head talking about no….😂😂😂 boy I love women but got damn that accountability word be having them avoid it like the plague
Instead of listening what he’s trying to explain she automatically goes to fight mode “that’s minimal Bla Bla” mam you just proved his point! She could have answered it sooo much better but her Ego was on the way.
The dude asked a valid question, but instead of owning it and providing a solution to help some women be better equipped when her man brings that issue to her. Unfortunately, the young lady did not adequately address the majority of men's concern (in that 15-second clip).
Kittie immediately deflected with a response that did not even really answer or address the question, the whole point is the "intuition" part, whether you feel it is real or not. The answer would have been clearer if Trill or Tripp had answered the question. They should consider adding another female perspective to the show to counter the need to shut down the hard questions Men ask the women.
For the longest time women have been fed that propagandist statement "Happy Wife, Happy Life." Most of us go above and beyond for our women but unhappiness can still seep in..But a man's happiness falls underneath..Her job/career, the kids, her mental, her friends, any ancillary shows shes binging, if she's in school her schoolwork, her parents/family, household tasks etc..Can you see why we can to be unhappy?Put that woman first though..🤦🏾♂️
Most Women know when their man is unhappy but some choose to be dismissive of their feelings because they feel like men will “get over it” and then it becomes an unspoken problem you now have in the relationship and when you feel like your feelings are invalidated because of the lack of communication it leads to negativity or toxicity in many forms ! if you KNOW your partner is unhappy or going through something SPEAK!!
Immediately went the defensive route…Didn’t try to understand but instead downplayed what he was trying to say instead of asking him to clarify if she didn’t receive the message correctly. She literally just proved his point
Y’all notice she didn’t really answer the question but refuted it to only making it about herself? Notice what she said, “ that doesn’t even relate to what your talking about”
She just proved his point, instead of giving an explaination she made a statement to disregard and redirect and as you can see by the cheers from the women…they were waiting to be “saved” over takin accountability and responding to the question head on 🤷🏾♂️
Facts, its funny how quick the room tilted to her expression rather than sitting in what he was saying. And a woman's intuition is geared toward observation from a subconscious space. It's the things she sees but may not notice consciously that trigger her later to being aware that something is off. It just doesn't work when it has to do with a man's happiness. As my man said, it's not until a woman stops receiving the things that a man brings to the relationship that she begins to question what's up and what's wrong.
It’s been my experience that women think the relationship is going well as long as their needs are being met. There’s a reason why all my break ups have been a “surprise” to the women. I never stopped treating them well so they were still happy. Meanwhile, my needs weren’t being met, I was unhappy with that, I expressed it to them numerous times, and nothing changed, so I made a choice. I don’t want to get to a point where I’m mistreating anyone so I bounce.
First off she's wrong because an intuition is essentially a gut feeling that you have inside you that tells you that something is wrong so his question is if you can feel that your man is cheating why can't you feel that he's unhappy so she basically tried to use wordplay and make him look slow but he's on point with what he's saying
In my experience she's wrong as hell women most women are exactly what he said they're intuition never works when it comes to choosing a good man and it never works when a man is unhappy and even l the times it kicks in they still have no clue how to fix it without throwing prepared stones, I've met some good women but if we're talking majority nothing he said is false, I've literally broke down every single issue I've had in a relationship and each time and it still didn't work and when I said nothing it definitely did cache until I was gone........ Yall gotta stop defending bs and work on yourselves
Women's intuition yet most women are single mother's to unavailable nug nug's guess intuition meter is off and guess who comes in to play step dad Russell Wilson type men
And as far as what "dark & lovely" said, that is NOT a small situation AND most women can't tell when their men are unhappy because they're all wrapped up in what their men are (or aren't) doing for them.
Accountability and women do not go hand and hand she basically dismissed what he said because it didn't fit her narrative and came back and painted a brand new narrative 😂😂
Yeah this is First time I have to disagree with her statement, intuition definitely works both ways if you're intune with ya mate u definitely gonna know if they had a bad day or happy etc
The comment made by both panelists missed the question. The lady disregarded his comment and the guy minimized the role of a women to selfish hold diggers when we know life is more nuanced than that. They should've asked in what sense. An example would be if the dynamic in he home has changed due to a new baby or some other issue where priorities have shifted for a valid reason and adjustments need to be made.
She just dissed his comment as if he didn’t understand what he was asking and while she might be right on the difference she didn’t help either explain or even try to see what he meant
Most of the time when a man equites or uses an example to show the opposite side of things women minimalist what the man is going though on said example to villainize the man.
Its all about communication and understanding. If your man husband etc.. is unhappy is he willing to communicate the issue or sit around in the unhappiness
As a woman...i agree with the men.
Thank u!!!
My wife is disgusted with girls these days
Boomers have failed our race
Her intuition is there to protect herself not to protect him.That's why his being unhappy isn't a concern to her.
So she's selfish. That's what you saying her feelings are valuable then his.
@@richardjones377pretty much
A woman’s intuition protects the both of you.
@@creatorrashidaaliyael How? It's wrong more than right.
@@stephenfoster1257 I don’t understand what you mean? Intuition is something that is unique to an individual. If you know what you are sensing, you know something is wrong. We all use intuition daily to make choices. Some of our choices may be subconscious. This is a part of the intuitive process and abilities we each carry as beings upon this planet. Fathers and mothers use intuition all the time when it comes to their children. Using it when it comes to the other relationships in life is imperative to survival.
Nah hes right, I get the same squicky feeling when my hubby is depressed that I get when somethings wrong with anything else, and he'll try to say, "nothing I'm fine." DONT LISTEN, LIFT UP YOUR MAN. GIVE HIM HIS FLOWERS. I'll just walk by and say, "Hey, you know what? I appreciate you and everything you do." Then skedaddle away before he feels like he has to return fire, cuz no, that ones yours today babe
Congrats to y’all.
That's a great thing to do. I'm sure he appreciates it every time you do that. Thank you for treating your man right and giving me hope to find a woman who will do the same for me.
, other races of women don't play these games with their men 🙄they move in SILENCE but in a good and healthy way for their men, they evolve and level up his happiness 🙏🏽🤲🏾🙏🏽part of the reason other races of women get it is because they have a blueprint on their culture, we as black people don't have that because we were stripped of our culture , so at the end of the day we as black people are really just moving on the fly with emotion and not being able to truly show love for each other 🙏🏽🤲🏾
She just proved his point!!
Very much. Word salad served."
When you tell someone "no", their character will show....
Yup
This definitely rings true for some people..don't just skate by what was said 👌🏾
I like how all the women were cheering when she basically didn’t say anything, but only disagreed with his point with frilly words.
I'm tellin' ya now!
Was about to comment the same thing. And was even wrong as intuition would come from observation, thus they do relate. They only want to hear what makes them feel good
@@darhkz3900Intuition doesn’t come from observation…it is internal. Men also have intuition and can use it. You all come from a woman.
@@creatorrashidaaliyael We are all the sum of both a man and a woman. Not sure why you're trying to diminish that fact. Anyway men and women do not think the same way about things. There are whole books on the topic. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus? So I'm not sure what coming from a woman has to do with a man's thinking other than what he learned growing up?
You're right@@christopherchristie4642
I’m a woman who goes hard on behalf of women, but I’m fair. Right is right and wrong is wrong, and dude was right. Obviously doesn’t fit with every woman, but it’s enough of an issue across the board to agree that dude is correct for the most part.
Thank you for revealing what can be true.
As a man, thank you for being an objective woman, and not a narrowminded
My fiancé actually does pay attention whether or not if I'm happy about anything. Like you said "obviously doesn't fit with every woman, but it's enough of an issue across the board...". My fiancé told me herself "There's very little of us women who want to be good to their men, there's just many times that some women end up with a messed human being rather than a man, so they're jaded". It's on both men and women, but I agree with the man here too, it's really dependent on whether or not you truly care and love your Significant other. If one doesn't care, it shows in their actions.
@@newmnsilver you’re right about that. It goes both ways, but if a woman is jaded, she jaded because she chose the wrong man so therefore at the end of the day, it’s her fault because chose that person and Did not require commitment, marriage, or did not vets co correctly
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0:59 She's actually the one minimizing it and confirmed the original point because intuition can be sparked by an observation
Intuition is not putting 2 and 2 together.
I believe they can go hand in hand. For me intuition is a strong feeling based on zero evidence that something is going to be okay regardless of what it looks because of the feeling of overwhelming peace or there is something extremely wrong and I am so agitated deep down I cannot shake the feeling. Both of these for me are based on zero evidence just a knowing….
Observation can be the same way but it is evidence based, if he stopped doing this (whatever it may be)…. Let me see how he moves the rest of this week. This will then trigger the intuition.
Just trying to make sense of this using how it happens for me.
@@shayalmasy101 Observation follows logic. Intuition does not. It's rooted in feeling.
@@shayalmasy101Gotchu. I would trust your intuition before I would trust the intuition of the woman in this video.
@@R.Yvette.X. but can you explain the difference?
I can definitely tell when my husband is unhappy. It takes knowing and truly caring for that person.
Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️
Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️
It’s because you care about more than yourself.
Facts
My wife knows me up and down. Sometimes she wont do anything about it right away, because she's human also. But she's taught me over the years that she knows me...and CARES. I try to be the same for her. I'm just not as good at it. Because my intuition is not as strong.
This is the first time I’ve disagreed with the lady at the end. They didn’t even try to understand where he was coming from, just an immediate “nope that’s not true.”
I understood what he was saying. It's all about us and not trying to see how he's doing or his feelings. I get it and it's true. That's why I communicate and we don't talk over each other.
100. The first time i heard her go wrong
They understood exactly what he stated.
They did just didn't like what he said, because he checked them with a direct and logical question, and that question non of these females couldn't answer ....why?
They don't have an answer.
It's deflecting bro was talking truth
She wasn’t wrong with how she responded said its a minimal the women he is speaking of is selfish and the only way her radar comes up is when he stops paying her way. If a couple have been working together and communicating and and you’re man decided to stop. We go well that’s new maybe he’s off but it goes his whole attitude change. And if you talk about he doesn’t tell you why or it’s a half ass excuse. Of course we’re on alert but man have that radar too sometimes y’all need to fix it. Men just stop during things and it’s actually awkward when you don’t know why. Especially when you don’t give the bare minimum but this is my opinion.
If a woman knows that her man is unhappy, shouldn't her intuition tell her to look into it the same way that she would look into if and/or why her dude is cheating?
Most women don't care about how and why a man is unhappy. As he stated, they're selfish.
Right, where all that energy go? 🤔😂
@@EagleZtoTheGravethat shit went away like how the dragon balls scatter across the world
@@marlom7882😂😂😂😂
@@marlom7882top tier comment 😂😂😂😂 RIP Toriyama
Intuition: the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning. Yes what he is saying is correct
Wish I had your articulation bro
Immediately just belittled n glossed over what he said typical women
Typical narcissist
In other words, We notice. We just don't care until it starts affecting us.
She was so preoccupied with disproving his claim that women *aren't* as intuitive as they claim, she ended up emphasizing his point that women are selfish.
You didnt even hear the totality of the conversation before immediately making a negative assumption villanizing her. Perhaps you missed that she had to establish a baseline of distinction between intuition and deductive reasoning rooted in love and/or care.
The audience member's question was predicated on his belief that intuition is the driving force that helps a woman cater to her mans uncommunicater or spoken needs. His belief was false and therefore needed clarification and correction before a full answer could be given which we were not privy to.
Assumption is the foundation of misunderstanding. Listening to make arguements and not to understand is toxic activity that leads to lonliness. Communication is a vital key to a healthy relationship.
@@nquisitivt I'm not villainizing anyone. I simply stated what happened in the clip. I didn't miss anything ma'am. Perhaps you didn't notice in my comment that I acknowledge that she made the clarification between intuition and deductive reasoning...but she did not actually rebuff his point. The point being that women, generally, do not make efforts to comfort their men unless him being unhappy affects her negatively. Her response: intuition and observation are the same thing. Imagine if instead of responding to your comment as I have, my initial response was to correct your grammar.
The fact is, in this clip, she did correct him on the correct word to use; but doing so actually made women look worse.
I actually would love to see her full explanation, because the message her response in the clip gives off only supported his observation that women are inherently selfish in relationships.
@@lamargordon6017 your post made no mention of a clarification and you didnt simply state what happened in the clip. We have to be honest with ourselves and others to reach an understanding and new level of growth.
You made an assumption and stated your opinion albeit uninformed because you did not have the benefit of her entire response.
She also didn't CORRECT the audience member or anyone else for that matter. She defined the difference between the term audience member used and the term that actually applies. She further went on to clarify that her co panel member minimized and simplified the answer to the audience members question by answering in a one dimensional way without full understanding when I think she believed her co panel member intellectually knows better. Now I definitely heard a twang of attitude that I think is attributed to her disbelief in her co panel members answer, but still unnecessary and perhaps is the reason why you perceived correction innstead of clarification.(just a guess, I could be wrong)
I respect your opinion and your right to believe as you choose even if I dont agree. What I am more concerned with is ensuring we both are operating from facts so that this exchange can create better understanding on both sides and we can express thoughts void of familiar responses that serve no one and stifles further communication and understanding.
why women so argumentative
@@nquisitivt "distinction between intuition and deductive reasoning" nice way to redirect and deflect.
You should know if your man is UNHAPPY!
PERIODT
Yes if you love him and observe him we all know when our partner is unhappy regardless
The question was clearly grieving that women WON'T ADDRESS male unhappiness like they will male cheating. They IGNORE whatever their _intuition_ , feelings, etc. tell them, unless they are facing loss of whatever they _want for themselves_ out of the relationship.
Betta STOP that. And betta STOP PLAYING DUMB and DODGING when a man brings it up, if you want the future to go better.
Yes but what do the women who actually detect it do about it?? He’s definitely right most of them simply don’t care unless their needs are met first/selfish.
The uncomfortable truth Demands Accountability.
This is actually shockingly true. I feel like men are expected to always upkeep their side of things, no matter what they're going through personally, and as long as she's happy your unhappiness never gets addressed. But the minute your unhappiness becomes her issue, it's a problem that's always on you; yet it never works the other way around. Whenever a woman's unhappy it's always the guys fault, even partially, but for men it almost always gets overlooked or at worst mocked.
🙄Imma need y’all to stop standardizing toxic relationship dynamics. For real because BOTH sides are expected to upkeep their side of things. Nobody is responsible for your happiness. So what are you actually talking about? When we have issues in the relationship that entail the actions or words from our partners or the world, within a healthy relationship, you talk to each other to resolve the issues. That’s how normal healthy relationships work. If one partner is always getting their needs met while the other is being ignored…that’s toxicity and it needs to be addressed to satisfaction OR end it*.
@@rainbeauxunicorn5237 I feel generally, men are EXPECTED to be responsible for their woman’s happiness. Whether that’s right or wrong varies based on person I agree, but GENERALLY a man is expected to be responsible for her emotions. “Happy wife happy life”. And that is not typically reciprocated. And whenever the topic is addressed it gets flipped to be the guys fault.
So it’s not a toxic relationship dynamic as much as it is legitimately expected out of a man by the majority of women.
@@greatestever4568You aren’t lying. And this is coming from a woman. 😅 I’ve been guilty of this. This is how I know I’m not ready for a relationship is because I want to mostly benefit from the relationship & give the bare minimum on my end. I’m too lazy lol I’m very self aware which a lot of people both males and females aren’t.
@greatestever4568 I agree 💯
@@greatestever4568 I'd say it is a toxic relationship dynamic. I agree with you both and I don't actually think you two disagree but it could just be the way I'm interpreting the conversation.
The fact that it's expected is actually ridiculous and I'd say men need to put their foot down on this one en masse. Happy wife happy life is a garbage old school mentality that needs to be left alone.
Both spouses need to be happy and though you should participate and be involved in your spouses life, you are not and will never be the source of his or her happiness. Trying to be causes frustration and resentment.
She proved his point. It got hot. She immediately reflected. Truth hurts
*Deflected
@@maziochendu5258 I'm at work . Not going to debate auto correct with you.
@@omegasupremebmf it is possible
@@maziochendu5258You acting like the woman in the clip, SMH
@@maziochendu5258 It is more than possible that you picked the least important part to focus on.
Buddy had a point and got shut down with the wordplay move lol gotta be careful with that trap lol
LOOKED like he got shut down. What really happened is that homegirl led a troop of women in a chorus of 🎶 " _Here is why men should avoid AAAALL of us, AAAAALL of us_ !!" 🎶
The question the Man asks is "why can't women tell when their Man is unhappy AND actually use that information to make the Man happy ( or try to make him happy ) / taken care of"
The response from the bro in the panel is right 💯
The woman in the panel was just .. well.. idk.. escaping accountability ..
As usual..
It's amazing
Too much expectation of mind -reading out there
Man asked a legit question and got told he was wrong for asking the question and women still dont understand why men say its better to not say anything at all
It's funny how the true question was only answered by a man on the panel, yet dissected by the women on the panel in attempts to question its validity as a question itself. #Answer the question😂
Check the faces of the women in the audience when dude is making his point, then along comes miss no accountability to excluse the fact that dude that asked the question was onto something she was only quick at dismissing his question as minimal because he has a point. Women will side step any logical argument because they hate to be wrong, nothing a woman does is ever wrong to her as long as her ego is at stake.
She said women can "absolutely tell" when their men are unhappy. But look at how her intuition (that she just went so hard for), this SAME intuition that they will engage at even the SLIGHTEST suspicion of cheating, did not help her to know that this man was clearly asking why women won't give *equal attention and fire* to DEAL with _men's unhappiness_ . Seems like she knew......and didn't care.
That response is SO common, and _SO telling_ . It has a lot to do with why so many men won't even TALK to women anymore.
She was dismissive of the very thought, let alone entertained the thought for any analysis.
The Question itself spoke soooo much volume it Muted the female heavy audience, but yet ALL the Women chose 2turn their listening ears off when the Male response was True, they denied it Bullshit
A few women feeling guilty about what he was saying...
And also a majority of the time intuition is always looked over due to the emotions. Women are very very smart and they don't need intuition to tell if someone is cheating. But what good is it if you decide to stay
Facts!
Women go for attractive guys and be accusing the dude of having ho*a before the relationship even starts. That's not being smart. That's just being insecure.
I think he hit the nail on the head when he said "selfish" man or woman, you know when your partner is unhappy and choosing to do nothing about it is definitely selfish
Logic made a brief appearance & irrational feelings made a hasty retreat. Everyone has intuition. Men act accordingly, women act recordingly.
"Intuition" is just picking up on nonverbal queues, it's not some superpower. Women tend to be better at picking up nonverbal queues than men (this is well documented).
For this particular situation, the question becomes which nonverbal queues is she going to respond to? That's completely up to the individual and what's important to them, not a blanket like "she only cares when she suspects cheating". Miss me with all of that
Women claim to be intuitive, yet when men point out how often women get into relationships with shitty men, women's excuse is always "I was tricked!", "some people are really good at pretending", "some men will put on act and then show their colors when it's too late!"
If women were so intuitive, then they would able to spot the bad guys right away. Being able to notice these things is *precisely* what intuition is useful for. So either women are not as intuitive as they claim to be, or they are but just choose not to use it when it matters most
And i totally agree because I myself have ignored things until I was made unhappy. I'm not saying to be address everything but don't discount or dismiss anything. Just tuck it in your file and see what becomes of your observation. That will let you know if it's intuitiveness or something else. Observation is everything
your version of what intuition is not accurate. What you defined is deductive reasoning and often times this is the trigger that women are employing to confirm or disprove a cheating man. Intuition in this instance is the internal confirmation.
Lets not confuse intuition with choice. JUST SPEAKING ON WOMEN RIGHT NOW:Many women get the feeling he is no good loud and clear, but then CHOOSE to ignore their intuition AND the observable signs. This is the truth for some. For many others the lower vibrational batches of men are deceptive seeking only to please self. Intuition is very much like a weapon or tool in a video game. You may not always have access to it until you reach a certain level and its going to take you exhausting several lives learning how to use it effectively. Its in that infancy stage of intuition or realization that its intuition AND that it is a power that can be harnessed is when the low vibrational guy is able to deceive. Some women never learn to control it thinking that it is random at best.
The women who have harnessed the power are the ones unwilling to waste time responding to men with: "Immediately, no." are the same women being admonished for being too picky and at the same time being told its their own fault for getting got by a no good man.
I agree with the brotha! I'm surprised how the women dismissed this smh
It's called the accountability monster they're afraid of
Yeah the observation.... Then the intuition... Or however you wanna play it. They know they just don't care. Emotional invalidation at its finest... And every woman that clapped when she said her take is toxic and narcissistic. Just like her.
Most people play games. They know their partner is unhappy but don’t feel compelled to do anything about it until they receive a negative outcome. Then they start bargaining and offering to do whatever it takes to make it work.
She talking about him minimizing while herself minimizes and even avoids the question......😂 damn she's good
I wonder if she would have said "your right sometimes where caught up in our well-being. Sometimes our partners say their fine but as women we do sense theirs more to it. Open communication with out judgement and allowing them to speak and answer. We don't have all the answers so where quick to point the finger.
This is because most women have never been taught and have never really cared about being a true friend to a man. Many of our interactions have historically been transactional in nature as men have been seen as a resource. The first thing most women want to know about a man is “what does he do?” The thing that men ask is “what does she look like?” Men’s feelings are rarely if ever taken into account, almost like we’re not human! Just like I’ve heard on this show, most women are irritated and turned off by an emotional or sensitive man. In short, I don’t know what’s going on with you and I really don’t want to know. Now, let’s go eat. 😅
A person can be taught but never learn the gems. Learning should come from experience. Many women just don't care but expect men to care. It's a forever Neverending cycle.
Lol you don't think women have been taught how to be a true friend to men? It's not the other way around? That's very interesting.
@@jas1565 I can’t disagree with the other way around, but I did say that mostly men and women’s relationships have been based on transactions. Are there anomalies? Of course, but for the most I think even you can agree that this has been the case. For the most part, we’ve just developed a system of being able to co-exist with one another.
@@sbrownmsw as a woman with several male friends who hears/sees the way other men react when I even mention I have male friends or how they talk about women in general, I think it's men who make those relationships transactional.
@@jas1565 as a man.. I can tell you that you are an excepion and majority of women are not like you...
The woman at the end said a whole lot of nothing that made the crowd react. That was completely dismissive and pretty disappointing because she is usually on point.
The question should’ve been… Why do some Women IGNORE their man being unhappy!
He's right!
If she don’t know that her man is unhappy then that’s not her man nd she don’t even like him like that period . If you locked in with someone you notice everything about your partner when they hungry, when they bothered stressed that just comes with the territory of being in a relationship even in friendships so idk what he was even getting at?
Why can't y'all tell a man ain't before you have kids with him
They know, they admit they know... but don't care... which is SO much worse 😅 they think he cheating and get mad. They KNOW he unhappy but do nothing to fix it... 😢😢😢
We women really need to learn to listen to our men and not dismiss them as she did.
“You talking about a feeling and a whole subconscious process versus an observation.” Well what’s the difference? Honestly. You can tell when a man is unhappy. So you just don’t care?
It's funny how when accountability needs to take place most women minimize shit. Dude is speaking facts and the chick completely minimized that shit. Then all the woman agreed with that shit. She literally proved his point. FOH!
Facts...my man asked a very valid question and did you hear the room full of women gasp after it was asked? These women WONDER why men aren't interested in them these days
She just proved his point by disregarding what he said. There was no reasoning behind her opposition.
0:10 Let that brother cook
If they can tell that makes it worse and solidifies what he was saying. They only care if you’re unhappy when you stop doing things for them outside of that they could care less.
If a husband tells his wife that he's unhappy about something she's doing, will she:
A. Tell him he's wrong for being unhappy about anything she's doing, because everything she's doing is justified
B. Tell him she has more reason to be unhappy about him than he has about her, and he's been ignoring her unhappiness
C. Talk to him about how she can change what she's doing so that he's more happy?
Husbands know it will be _both_ A and B. It won't be C.
Of course they believe in "women's intuition", even though most women don't actually have it. And of those who do, they're only right about 25% of the time. That's what I've seen.
No matter how emotionally intelligent a woman is or sounds, she is always, always (and I mean every single one of them) too narcissistic to see a man’s pov. Incapable of hearing, understanding and onboarding what he is saying and accepting it to do better. Especially if she’s intelligent. Now she’s especially skilled in cleverly minimizing what he says with her oratory skills.
She tried to under cut that man answer knowing what he Said was true y'all just don't give a fuck.SMH
Usually she's spot on, but not here. Shuttin statements down and not diving deeper, simply because you disagree is the main issue in resolving any type of conflict for any type of relationship
Yep deflecting at it's best. Intuition is exactly what he said. She tried to separate it by feelings. Well ladies we don't go off our feelings like y'all.
I don’t think it’s that women don’t know, when a man is unhappy. I think it’s more about she doesn’t care, when the man is unhappy. That always tells me that, he’s not the one she really wants.
Oh they relate very well it's just that they are to selfish to care about his happiness fellas just ask yourself how often has your lady approached you and wanted to know how you were feeling if more often than not then you might have something if not so much then her selfishness is to strong for her to care about anything other than her
One thing I do is check on my man. How are you? How are you feeling today? Is there anything going on or on your mind you would like to talk about? I love my man and I always want to do what I can to see him happy mentally and physically.
0:31 that woman looks so mad😂😂😂 because he's right!
Because most women don't like accountability.
Show hands who saw the accountability Dodge coming 🙋🏾♂️
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I disagree with the woman at the end. OR is it that they have intuition and they don't care?
She was definitely on that sister code BS just to disagree.
She just said that is minimal situation when ur man is unhappy
they can tell, they just don’t give a shit about it.
Awwww shit notice that first woman shook her head talking about no….😂😂😂 boy I love women but got damn that accountability word be having them avoid it like the plague
Bruh, you could've heard those gasps from the women in that room when the accountability monster showed up from dude's question
Instead of listening what he’s trying to explain she automatically goes to fight mode “that’s minimal Bla Bla” mam you just proved his point!
She could have answered it sooo much better but her Ego was on the way.
The dude asked a valid question, but instead of owning it and providing a solution to help some women be better equipped when her man brings that issue to her. Unfortunately, the young lady did not adequately address the majority of men's concern (in that 15-second clip).
Kittie immediately deflected with a response that did not even really answer or address the question, the whole point is the "intuition" part, whether you feel it is real or not. The answer would have been clearer if Trill or Tripp had answered the question. They should consider adding another female perspective to the show to counter the need to shut down the hard questions Men ask the women.
I could feel she got instantly triggered by a simple question and avoided ALL accountability
There it is - “Those don’t even relate” = NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY. Very, Very Disappointing!!!!
For the longest time women have been fed that propagandist statement "Happy Wife, Happy Life." Most of us go above and beyond for our women but unhappiness can still seep in..But a man's happiness falls underneath..Her job/career, the kids, her mental, her friends, any ancillary shows shes binging, if she's in school her schoolwork, her parents/family, household tasks etc..Can you see why we can to be unhappy?Put that woman first though..🤦🏾♂️
BOOOY!!! They hate when they get called out!!😂😂😂 And hell nah they don’t care about our happiness. I ain’t seen one take him out for a nice night out.
Most Women know when their man is unhappy but some choose to be dismissive of their feelings because they feel like men will “get over it” and then it becomes an unspoken problem you now have in the relationship and when you feel like your feelings are invalidated because of the lack of communication it leads to negativity or toxicity in many forms ! if you KNOW your partner is unhappy or going through something SPEAK!!
She got "TRIGGERED HARD"! 😅 He's right intuition shouldn't be selfish but it mostly is.
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Immediately went the defensive route…Didn’t try to understand but instead downplayed what he was trying to say instead of asking him to clarify if she didn’t receive the message correctly. She literally just proved his point
Y’all notice she didn’t really answer the question but refuted it to only making it about herself? Notice what she said, “ that doesn’t even relate to what your talking about”
She just proved his point, instead of giving an explaination she made a statement to disregard and redirect and as you can see by the cheers from the women…they were waiting to be “saved” over takin accountability and responding to the question head on 🤷🏾♂️
You can see the AUDACITY LOOK in her face when he asked that question😂😂
They know. they don’t care. A lot of women think that’s just how it’s supposed to be. It’s generational.
Facts, its funny how quick the room tilted to her expression rather than sitting in what he was saying. And a woman's intuition is geared toward observation from a subconscious space. It's the things she sees but may not notice consciously that trigger her later to being aware that something is off. It just doesn't work when it has to do with a man's happiness. As my man said, it's not until a woman stops receiving the things that a man brings to the relationship that she begins to question what's up and what's wrong.
If a woman can tell that her man's unhappy and does nothing about it,doesn't that prove his point about women being selfish?
"So. You can tell he's unhappy.. you just don't care until he stops trying to make you happy?"
It’s been my experience that women think the relationship is going well as long as their needs are being met. There’s a reason why all my break ups have been a “surprise” to the women. I never stopped treating them well so they were still happy. Meanwhile, my needs weren’t being met, I was unhappy with that, I expressed it to them numerous times, and nothing changed, so I made a choice. I don’t want to get to a point where I’m mistreating anyone so I bounce.
First off she's wrong because an intuition is essentially a gut feeling that you have inside you that tells you that something is wrong so his question is if you can feel that your man is cheating why can't you feel that he's unhappy so she basically tried to use wordplay and make him look slow but he's on point with what he's saying
In my experience she's wrong as hell women most women are exactly what he said they're intuition never works when it comes to choosing a good man and it never works when a man is unhappy and even l the times it kicks in they still have no clue how to fix it without throwing prepared stones, I've met some good women but if we're talking majority nothing he said is false, I've literally broke down every single issue I've had in a relationship and each time and it still didn't work and when I said nothing it definitely did cache until I was gone........
Yall gotta stop defending bs and work on yourselves
She went into defense mode, instead of trying to understand. Intuition is "knowing" without needing to see something or have facts
Women's intuition yet most women are single mother's to unavailable nug nug's guess intuition meter is off and guess who comes in to play step dad Russell Wilson type men
And as far as what "dark & lovely" said, that is NOT a small situation AND most women can't tell when their men are unhappy because they're all wrapped up in what their men are (or aren't) doing for them.
She's usually on point, but she was 'way off this time.
@@rdkirk3834Yeah, she was HELLA defensive on her take
Accountability and women do not go hand and hand she basically dismissed what he said because it didn't fit her narrative and came back and painted a brand new narrative 😂😂
Yeah this is First time I have to disagree with her statement, intuition definitely works both ways if you're intune with ya mate u definitely gonna know if they had a bad day or happy etc
The comment made by both panelists missed the question. The lady disregarded his comment and the guy minimized the role of a women to selfish hold diggers when we know life is more nuanced than that. They should've asked in what sense. An example would be if the dynamic in he home has changed due to a new baby or some other issue where priorities have shifted for a valid reason and adjustments need to be made.
Why are you waiting for a woman to notice that you’re unhappy?? Say sumn. 📣
She just dissed his comment as if he didn’t understand what he was asking and while she might be right on the difference she didn’t help either explain or even try to see what he meant
Most of the time when a man equites or uses an example to show the opposite side of things women minimalist what the man is going though on said example to villainize the man.
Woman don't care about you being happy . Intuition is a sign that she's about to be unhappy cause she ain't doing what she needs to be doing
She moved the goal post . The same should also let you know his needs but since it not you it don’t matter
Wish Tripp was there
She literally made a lot of men unhappy by minimizing this point smh… she’s wrong
Its all about communication and understanding. If your man husband etc.. is unhappy is he willing to communicate the issue or sit around in the unhappiness
9 out of 10 that do cheat are unhappy, so they are the same thing. And her response was proof.