Its just natural. Women wanna be men so bad, we cant share women, u can share men. The best man a girl can get doesnt wanna commit to her and she rather have that than a loser husband and its cool
She thinks the sh*t is funny which is weird AF. That’s why I think for a lot of side chicks it’s really about competing with the wife. They want to outdo her and take her man. In which case, the side chick is subconsciously trying to prove her worth - to *HERSELF.* Being a side piece definitely IS about having low self-esteem. 😢
The truth doesn't always hurt when you want to do better. That young lady had the courage to come up and plead for help and she got an honest answer from the sister she probably never had. She's loving it.
@@briana.g.7412: I wasn’t getting that she wants to do better. It was giving she was looking for affirmation and justification for being the side piece.
It's crazy she rather be a side chick to a man that doesn't love her but thinks she is too good for all dudes she is friendzoned. You can't tell me women are choosing toxic because they never had a healthy one and they were raised around a healthy relationship. Single mother raise future single mothers Can't make this shit up lmao lol.
She “was trying not to take it there” because at this point at our grown ages, your logic shouldn’t be so misplaced that you felt you needed to bring this to the public for jurisdiction you already knew was wrong, & a panel of advisors for wisdom you’ve already refused because it’s “complicated…” As far as I’m concerned, she wanted public opinion… she got it.
She walking away was the' icing on the cake ' #Spot on💯 A cheating man does not love either his wife or the side chic as with genuine love comes honor/respect; but the wife brings more stability so he won't want to leave her for the side chic. Such men are not only selfish but are usually the ones so keen on faithful partners (as they can't take what they dish out)
It probably still didn't register to her. The audacity for her to boldly ask that ratchet question to the panel shows she is in arrested development of self worth understanding.
@@emeraldkaysgarden YES! Even my husband said that the AUDACITY she had at that microphone was at another level!! I guarantee she feels as though being a side chick is cute and laughs on the phone with her other rachet ass friends how he is with his wife but really want to be with her..
@emeraldkaysgarden and emotional intelligence. She's more than likely been traumatized at some point in her life. And hasn't been able to connect the dots yet.
It is sad that Grown women is willing to accept being a side chick. And the part when she says you're not ALLOWED to come to this man Kingdom ,PREACH!!! It's okay to be some dumb, but not plum dumb
@meicealways5842 I don’t understand why your comment isn’t #1, because as I was listening to her speak, I thought the same thing. She’s very passionate about her response to the side chic, because she’s married and is well within her right to read the side chic to filth. She was bold enough to step up to the mic. Be bold enough to listen. Hopefully she took some wisdom back to her seat with her.
The sad part is that this is the mentality of a lot of the young female generation, where they accept being labeled a side chick as if it's some badge of honor. They brag and boast about being with someone else's man. You know how I know this is true? Because this woman actually had the gall to get up in front of an audience, and a panel to ask a question about being a side chick and expecting to be taken seriously. As if it's normal being a side chick.
This resonates with me and I am passionate about healthy, happy, and honest relationships/marriages. My husband cheated on me and I divorced him because I couldn’t forgive him. The side chick thought it was funny, it was a game to her, and she appeared so unbothered with being a side chick to a married man. He had free will to be with her after I kicked him out of MY house. My ex husband cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. She still being a side chick. So sad!
Damn!!!! I felt that like loving someone so much that you put yourself down is terrible if a person can’t accept your shine at its brightest y’all don’t need to be around eachother!!!!
Some folks only want the married person because of the FAVOR that’s on them from the Lord because of the wife! Remove that wife and soon realize that it was her… the wife, that the side chick is in love with….. there will be some men that are much more appealing because of the blessing/FAVOR in his life (The WIFE) Without a blessed wife, watch and see him transform…. 😳😂 also I’m not sure if side chick’s know this or not, but they bring a curse with them to the marriage that they are trying to steal, therefore their deeds will never grow, prosper or be honorable. It’s a cost that side chicks do pay for operating in this way.
Her expression speaks volumes. You can tell she wasn't feeling what was being told to her because side pieces have entitlement issues. Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is the truth!!! This lady was giving her tough love!!! Sadly, I don't feel she will listen especially when she is already believing she is in love... I pray that this young sister wakes up and starts to place value within herself.🙏🏽❤️
@Horace3 Hopefully he gone... she made a public appearance and told the business... somebody saw or will see this~ No self respect ~ No self worth ~No common dam sense!
Absolutely not true. She don't want to be first. It's okay NOT to be first. 2nd is a good place & has less responsibility than 1st place. As long as he's making time for her & her needs are met... They're understanding belongs to them. And that's okay
Please sister, Don’t point at her like that. Y’all are in a position to help people choose themselves over the hell they’ve tolerated for God knows how long.. This is the pits! Help a sista out of it❣️
I had a friend that said she never considered herself to be a side chic. But that man treated her better then any man before him. I told her that's why he is a husband.
Oh I love when this woman speaks.. I just love her. I felt that passion and it too true, I pray for any one in that position. It’s not nice and it’s hurtful to see. ❤ I
@@cjohnson_I know what you're saying and in many cases like these people are broken and don't want to do the work and sacrifice to find their own happiness!
Women outnumber men, right? So if every man on the planet marries one woman, then what's the solution for all the women who would be left unmarried. And I'm not condoning adultery, fornication, or homosexuality. I just want to hear the answers.
As a MAN, this brought tear’s to my eye’s to hear this QUEEN preach LOGIC to another Woman who doesn’t KNOW her WORTH! Protect this QUEEN at ALL TIME. 🙏🏽
I agree that women have to take accountability for their actions and know their SELF WORTH. However, men also have to be held accountable in their actions on the CHOICE they make to cheat and entertain outside of their wife.
Never understood why a woman would be okay with being an option. A toy. She’s not getting over by charging a meal, trip, clothes etc. He is just buying his time. On to the next.
Wow 😮! The conversation seems so personal between these 2 ladies. The passion in both of their eyes and the adamancy just speaks volumes from both parties
All of you who say she didn't get it, look at her face while she's speaking and LISTENING- She got it, she already had it when she came to the mike. Ya'll so full of it, support people when they want to do the right thing. Ya'll are nasty
She said she hated to take it there, but she took it there and she was 100% correct. I rather be single than SECOND ❤sorry, especially to a married man. He had no say so baby girl 💯💯💯🫣🫣🫣
So what. What do you think a side chick is. A real side chick know her place and not thinking twice on what you talking about. A real side chick ain't worried about being second, going into his crib, or spending the holiday with him. A real side chick know what it is, still movin the way she move and knows that when they can have that time together they will. A real side chick won't let her feelings get in the way of his household. A real side chick not worried about being second because a real side chick knew what it was from the get go. A real side chick just dgarats ass about his wife or household he can do that. A real side chick don't have ill feelings toward his wife, matter of fact she hope the marriage stay together. She still gone have him
Not only that, they triggered by a "side chick" but what is marriage really when 2 whole men and 2 whole women can get "married"?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Me and my man are spiritually married and definitely don't need a piece of paper to validate our love for ea other!!!!
And the walk off sealed it but she still didn’t get it
Riiiight 🤦🏾♀️
Didn't receive it at all
She thinks that sh*t is cute. 😢
Delusional af!!
Its just natural. Women wanna be men so bad, we cant share women, u can share men. The best man a girl can get doesnt wanna commit to her and she rather have that than a loser husband and its cool
She thinks the sh*t is funny which is weird AF.
That’s why I think for a lot of side chicks it’s really about competing with the wife. They want to outdo her and take her man.
In which case, the side chick is subconsciously trying to prove her worth - to *HERSELF.* Being a side piece definitely IS about having low self-esteem. 😢
I don't think that she thought that it was funny but she had to laugh before she cried
The truth doesn't always hurt when you want to do better. That young lady had the courage to come up and plead for help and she got an honest answer from the sister she probably never had. She's loving it.
@@briana.g.7412: I wasn’t getting that she wants to do better. It was giving she was looking for affirmation and justification for being the side piece.
@@misterlove216: I don’t think she received it. I hope I’m wrong.
@@hereforit2347 people be pleading for help when they don't know it. Its some Freudian type ish.
She thinks she is better than the wife because he is cheating on her
It's crazy she rather be a side chick to a man that doesn't love her but thinks she is too good for all dudes she is friendzoned. You can't tell me women are choosing toxic because they never had a healthy one and they were raised around a healthy relationship. Single mother raise future single mothers
Can't make this shit up lmao lol.
That’s what I’m getting too.
Until he replaces her with another side chick 😮
THIS!!!
THIS! No woman can out-do the Wife 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🥴
She embodies the same reaction my spirit had when she got up and walked off I stood up with her! C’mon somebody! C’mon !!!!
I ran a little bit!! Cause baby she said that!!
Her reaction at the end spoke volumes. She doesn't give AF bout what Kitty is telling her.
She ate and left no crumbs 👌🏾
The side chick is the crumbs
@@Lovelove77788 😂😂
She “was trying not to take it there” because at this point at our grown ages, your logic shouldn’t be so misplaced that you felt you needed to bring this to the public for jurisdiction you already knew was wrong, & a panel of advisors for wisdom you’ve already refused because it’s “complicated…”
As far as I’m concerned, she wanted public opinion…
she got it.
ITS THE WALK AWAY WHEN SHE KNEW SHE WAS DONE ✅
Kitty is a real one. The mindset in this woman.. Rare breed of a woman. Such a queen.
💯 they have no respect for themselves, trust and believe
😔 she ain't said nothing but a word!!!!! It was a whole word!!! Clock it and catch it!!!!!
She walking away was the' icing on the cake ' #Spot on💯
A cheating man does not love either his wife or the side chic as with genuine love comes honor/respect; but the wife brings more stability so he won't want to leave her for the side chic.
Such men are not only selfish but are usually the ones so keen on faithful partners (as they can't take what they dish out)
Whew Chile.....i bet she wished she would have never walked up to the microphone!
It probably still didn't register to her. The audacity for her to boldly ask that ratchet question to the panel shows she is in arrested development of self worth understanding.
@@emeraldkaysgarden YES! Even my husband said that the AUDACITY she had at that microphone was at another level!! I guarantee she feels as though being a side chick is cute and laughs on the phone with her other rachet ass friends how he is with his wife but really want to be with her..
@@emeraldkaysgarden 🎯 you said it all.
@emeraldkaysgarden and emotional intelligence. She's more than likely been traumatized at some point in her life. And hasn't been able to connect the dots yet.
She didn't gaf
It is sad that Grown women is willing to accept being a side chick. And the part when she says you're not ALLOWED to come to this man Kingdom ,PREACH!!! It's okay to be some dumb, but not plum dumb
Some choices come with a heavy price. Some learn their value and some don't. Therefore side chicks will continue to exist
And that lady has a husband which is why she’s 100 times more passionate than a woman that would speak about this that was not married
Exactly. It hits different as well as triggers.
In that you have “well said”
😂😂😂
There should always be respect no matter what ❤
@meicealways5842 I don’t understand why your comment isn’t #1, because as I was listening to her speak, I thought the same thing. She’s very passionate about her response to the side chic, because she’s married and is well within her right to read the side chic to filth. She was bold enough to step up to the mic. Be bold enough to listen. Hopefully she took some wisdom back to her seat with her.
I love her she is true to the game of healing. @Ace, @Tripp can yall please upload more than 60 second clips ??
The sad part is that this is the mentality of a lot of the young female generation, where they accept being labeled a side chick as if it's some badge of honor. They brag and boast about being with someone else's man. You know how I know this is true? Because this woman actually had the gall to get up in front of an audience, and a panel to ask a question about being a side chick and expecting to be taken seriously. As if it's normal being a side chick.
This resonates with me and I am passionate about healthy, happy, and honest relationships/marriages. My husband cheated on me and I divorced him because I couldn’t forgive him. The side chick thought it was funny, it was a game to her, and she appeared so unbothered with being a side chick to a married man. He had free will to be with her after I kicked him out of MY house. My ex husband cheated on her and got the girl pregnant. She still being a side chick. So sad!
I love her. She is the only woman I have ever heard hold a women accountable. And all bxch's be hating her for it.
I've never seen anyone hate on this woman. You sit on a throne of lies.
You must live under a rock.
Sadly, throughout history many women would rather be a king's concubine than the shoemaker's wife. 🤷♀
Applicable for the men too. Know your self worth Kings 👑 This ain’t no 50/50.. It’s 100/100 💯
Her face after that inadvertent roast, 🤷🏾
Clueless as A.F!
@@crw3673 no she isn't clueless she dgaf....big difference.
SHE WAS HOT WITH FACTS!!! 🔥✅
Preach it sis. These side chicks need to stop the nonsense & these men need to have more respect for their wives.
Damn!!!! I felt that like loving someone so much that you put yourself down is terrible if a person can’t accept your shine at its brightest y’all don’t need to be around eachother!!!!
Good lawd Kitty !! Pass the collection plate . Truth Demands Accountability & they ain't ready!!!
Exactly..! All facts!
Some folks only want the married person because of the FAVOR that’s on them from the Lord because of the wife! Remove that wife and soon realize that it was her… the wife, that the side chick is in love with…..
there will be some men that are much more appealing because of the blessing/FAVOR in his life (The WIFE)
Without a blessed wife, watch and see him transform…. 😳😂 also I’m not sure if side chick’s know this or not, but they bring a curse with them to the marriage that they are trying to steal, therefore their deeds will never grow, prosper or be honorable. It’s a cost that side chicks do pay for operating in this way.
That passion she has is intense. She sees how low that woman really is and it hurts her to even begin to fathom why she would be content there
Even after all that, she still gonna be the side chick waiting forever when she leave the show!! She dgaf 😂😂
Her expression speaks volumes. You can tell she wasn't feeling what was being told to her because side pieces have entitlement issues. Sometimes the hardest thing to accept is the truth!!! This lady was giving her tough love!!! Sadly, I don't feel she will listen especially when she is already believing she is in love... I pray that this young sister wakes up and starts to place value within herself.🙏🏽❤️
She bouta be otw back to him as soon as she leaves there🤦🏾♂️😂
@Horace3 Hopefully he gone... she made a public appearance and told the business... somebody saw or will see this~ No self respect ~ No self worth ~No common dam sense!
The worst thing about side chick's is that they have to answer to God for being involved with breaking the marriage covenant.
😂😂😂😂
Absolutely not true. She don't want to be first. It's okay NOT to be first. 2nd is a good place & has less responsibility than 1st place. As long as he's making time for her & her needs are met... They're understanding belongs to them. And that's okay
Smh
Please sister, Don’t point at her like that. Y’all are in a position to help people choose themselves over the hell they’ve tolerated for God knows how long..
This is the pits! Help a sista out of it❣️
I had a friend that said she never considered herself to be a side chic. But that man treated her better then any man before him. I told her that's why he is a husband.
Oh I love when this woman speaks.. I just love her. I felt that passion and it too true, I pray for any one in that position. It’s not nice and it’s hurtful to see. ❤ I
She LITERALLY ROASTED her azz!!! She gave her ALL the business!! 1:15 ❤❤ Did yall see Stephens face behind her?!! 😂❤
Do she was going in and she hit every damn mark. “To that man’s kingdom, you are a peasant!” 🎤🎤🎤🎤
Everytime they walk up to the mic, I just know, common sense is non-existent.
✨👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽Wife to wife I couldn’t have said it better!
Can every woman actually get a man of their own? The facts is no
It was the sigh in the mirror “I am a side chick” I love her!! Speak 🗣️ about it!!
She doesn't even realize that she's the problem trying to wreck someone else's home and then play victim!
The only ppl that can wreck a home are those in the home...it's not her home to wreck that would be the "husband"
@@cjohnson_I know what you're saying and in many cases like these people are broken and don't want to do the work and sacrifice to find their own happiness!
She knows he's married and that's her choice to stop!
@@cjohnson_exactly
And after the dissertation, the message still didn't land.
Women outnumber men, right? So if every man on the planet marries one woman, then what's the solution for all the women who would be left unmarried. And I'm not condoning adultery, fornication, or homosexuality. I just want to hear the answers.
Women who want to be single by choice, Lesbians/homosexuals, Men in Jail (aren't able to meet and connect etc.)
There are also polygamist relationships. Women who KNOWINGLY accept that lifestyle.
There are a whole lot of women who are fine being single. The numbers of single, childless women are rising.
The number of women who choose to be single and childless has always been a thing and is now on the rise.
Clock that tea, B catch it 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
As a MAN, this brought tear’s to my eye’s to hear this QUEEN preach LOGIC to another Woman who doesn’t KNOW her WORTH! Protect this QUEEN at ALL TIME. 🙏🏽
🤣She went all the way OFF!!!🤯
Can I have a Alleluia!!!👋🏿👋🏿 This lady is spitting fireee!!🔥🔥
That lady at the end is clearly still in her feelings 😂
I agree that women have to take accountability for their actions and know their SELF WORTH.
However, men also have to be held accountable in their actions on the CHOICE they make to cheat and entertain outside of their wife.
He didn't force her. Just because a man wants to cheat doesn't mean you have to engage
The lil jig she did at the end....she gave that man top soon as she left 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never understood why a woman would be okay with being an option. A toy. She’s not getting over by charging a meal, trip, clothes etc.
He is just buying his time. On to the next.
Speak, Sis, Speak!
Most married men have side chicks....women need to just accept it...💯
Brutal honesty like this is needed.
Let's hope the young lady finds her way.
Chile the fact that this has to even be explained its like some people will never learn smh
#KITTY LET HER KNOW WHAT TIME IT IS 🎯💯🔥🖤
NONE. Period 🎉🎉🎉
Say it with your chest! Spot on!
From her expression she felt the reality but still, look like not conviced and delusional 😢. SAD
Real talk well said 👌🏽
KITTIE NEVER MISSES‼️😩😍😍🙌🏽
She felt that like she has lived that... girl u okay?
Right
Preach - lady Pasion! make it plain!!!
Wow 😮! The conversation seems so personal between these 2 ladies. The passion in both of their eyes and the adamancy just speaks volumes from both parties
Sis went OFFFF!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Let’s go Kitty!!! Love this Queen!❤️
Since the beginning of time some things you just can’t change
Damn she opened up a Can!🤣🤣🤣#verbalwoopass
That Mike drop moment!😅🎉
All of you who say she didn't get it, look at her face while she's speaking and LISTENING- She got it, she already had it when she came to the mike. Ya'll so full of it, support people when they want to do the right thing. Ya'll are nasty
The walkoff sealed the deal Kitte read her
Sis said a mouth full!!!
Real talk 👄 💯 👏
She been there.
Yassssssss huni read them pages correctly
When is this going to be posted on the app?
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
..they all cheering knowing damn well half of them are [willingly] side chicks! 🤦🏾♂️
Stepped on all ten toes. It was necessary. She felt the burn but will she learn?
Now that was a read…. In this Man’s Kingdom your a peasant gooooood googa moooga😂😂😂 my Lawd! Then to walk off standing ovation…
She said she hated to take it there, but she took it there and she was 100% correct.
I rather be single than SECOND ❤sorry, especially to a married man. He had no say so baby girl 💯💯💯🫣🫣🫣
So what. What do you think a side chick is. A real side chick know her place and not thinking twice on what you talking about. A real side chick ain't worried about being second, going into his crib, or spending the holiday with him. A real side chick know what it is, still movin the way she move and knows that when they can have that time together they will. A real side chick won't let her feelings get in the way of his household. A real side chick not worried about being second because a real side chick knew what it was from the get go. A real side chick just dgarats ass about his wife or household he can do that. A real side chick don't have ill feelings toward his wife, matter of fact she hope the marriage stay together. She still gone have him
Not only that, they triggered by a "side chick" but what is marriage really when 2 whole men and 2 whole women can get "married"?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me and my man are spiritually married and definitely don't need a piece of paper to validate our love for ea other!!!!
Tell her sister! Tell her!
Holy shittttttttttt lmaooo she COOKED
She knew he was marry..that's on her
amennnn.
That Part
How can I watch the full video?
What episode is this. Why don’t they tag the episodes. They’re so hard to find!
Preach
She wasn't shook at all
All that was common sense, but it went directly over her head.
She started preaching like mid service sunday sermon
All of the holidays belongs to his wife and family hunti@!!!😩😫🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥃
Funny the backstory with some of the women on the panel were cheaters, and they now are podcast people that have all these women following them
She STILL DIDNT GET IT🤔
Yall know she ain't going nowhere right
Mic 🎤 drop!!! Boom 💥 💥 💥 💥 💥