No they need to do this some women don’t have moms or family to help guide them . This is a good thing not a bad thing and this happens in every race btw!
Right? I’m supposed to believe I’m more selfish than these people blowing up families and cheating and lying and doing this all in front of their children? Spare me 🤦♀️
Exactly. Saying "there was no cheating she was just always there to take him back every time we broke up".... girl because she was always there just like you were. This man going back and forth between you and a chick from backpage and you keep having his babies, at least the other girl decided not to bring a child into this mess. 🤦🏾♀️
Don't just blame the women. ALL parties involved, except the kids, like the dysfunction. No one is leaving. The only person benefitting is him. He's living the soft life "drizzle, drizzle". Both these women take care of him.
@@shanellem6310I’m not just blaming the woman. I’m speaking on women like her, but that doesn’t mean that I’m taking the accountability from the men. That’s clear as day, I’ve decentered them because I already know how it goes so why say the obvious? That’s clear the man is trash lol.
@Sunny-tc3ul And what exactly is the other woman winning..? I hope she doesn’t end up having his kids too, because…he’s going to do her the same exact way.
Yea. That’s why they said baby momma culture. She has no dignity, no self-worth ,no self-esteem, no value for herself, or morals. She has no boundaries whatsoever. Just sad.
They do because why tf would these women have baby’s with ain’t SHT men. They do it on purpose and play victim. I’m starting to realize the bs as well as
To men that don’t even have wives at that! That’s the crazy part! These men aren’t even making any legal decisions with any of these women- these women are dubbing themselves as “mains” and “wives” to men THEY ARENT MARRIED TO.
@LoveK1 Being a longtime girlfriend doesn’t make a woman any better either. When the live in idiot becomes pregnant FINALLY- he will play her and her kids by him too. Like who the hell would want to be with a dude that keeps having babies with some other idiot- while yall are “together”..? Come on now
Believe it or not, some men wives (or in this case girlfriends) give them permission to have sex with other women. I have seen and heard a woman do it in person. Side chick shows up with a new baby, and my friend wife looks him dead in the face and said " your need to stop being so kind to these bitches. " I am there looking at them like "WTF is this situation." They are still married and the side chick has to play her position.
I really, really, really wish women would stop bringing children into these toxic situations. Like, it's one thing if you don't respect yourself, but why put your kids through that? And three of them at that.
Women don’t care. They only care about themselves and their feelings. They don’t care what the children go through but play this game like they do. “I do for my kid” bs
Neither of them actually WANT the man. Both women are in competition with each other. They're playing a game that has no winners, but deep down inside, they know that. A lot of women hate other women, and this situation proves that.
As someone who hates both men AND women, this is why I keep my distance from BOTH of them! I'm an asexual loner and an introvert at its finest! 🌈 This was some nasty, sick, vile, repulsive mess! All I imagine is bodily fluids being swapped back and forth! 🤮🤮🤮🤮 I agree with Destiny WHOLEHEARTEDLY! This sounds like bragging! Like, "ooh, look at me, I had ALL my kids by ONE man! I only have ONE baby daddy, NOT multiple." That's what I got from this!
As someone who despises both men AND women, this is why I keep my distance from BOTH of them! I'm an asexual loner and an introvert at its finest! 🌈 This was some nasty, sick, vile mess! All I imagine is bodily fluids being swapped back and forth! 🤮🤮🤮🤮 I agree with Destiny WHOLEHEARTEDLY! This sounds like bragging! Like, "ooh, look at me, I had ALL my kids by ONE man! I only have ONE baby daddy, NOT multiple." That's what I got from this!
I think it was for proof that he'll keep coming back and she'll always let him. It was more for the other girl to get mad/jealous. I used to know idiots like this. Went on for years because.... Stupidity 😅😅😅
Delulu culture has been in full effect for decades, its a sad case too see, bcuz some women really think having a nixxa baby will change them..wen thats the best repellent to keep him away.
It's the respectful thing to do but unfortunately ppl like these 2 get off on stuff like that..Playing in the girlfriend face and calling it coparenting turns them on..
Why is she taking down on the girlfriend when she’s the bigger fool for brining 3 innocent children into this mess?? And let’s not mention that she keeps going to jail!!
exactly ! because when the girlfriend finally finds some self worth she can leave with no baggage . meanwhile , the BM got three kids by a bum and she’s stuck with him for life
Wait, girlfriend sits outside in the car for 45 minutes while he inside “playing with his kids” I feel sorry for the kids, the adults in they lives is all crazy 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
@attitudeproblem6462 exactly! That's precisely what it is. Men have a problem with happy, care free women. Until that is addressed, they need to stop asking women anything
sometimes i feel like my life is sad, i litetally spend my sunday prepping for the week ahead and i feel like my life is boring, after watching this, I think i'm happy being bored
Inner Peace only seems boring because you’re seeing other people’s chaos which feels exciting watching by the sidelines. You are doing well and as long as you’re doing no harm to self and others long may it continue.
I WFH with my Fiance and sometimes life is actually boring but my sister said a good thing, 'its not boredom its peace'. I think things like trauma and social media de-regulate us that we take it as boring as we need some type of stimulus and im trying to train my mind to get back regulated with peace and softness as i have anxiety sometimes.
The fact that some people make this mistake multiple times and don't learn from the first is insane. Get your tubes tied/Condoms/bc and also.....stop messing with your BD!!
The gf was in the car when the baby was being made, so what's wrong with the gf being in the car when ya'll taking the baby home? Heck, at this point there is no reason to have her waiting in the car while he visits with the kids. Have her come in too, ya'll all family at this point. 🤣🤣🤣
Disrespecting yourself to this degree is nothing short of simply insane. She was good enough for him to volunteer her womb to but wasn’t good enough for a ring.. And what’s worse is how delusional she is about not being the side chick. She’s the side mother at this point.
If you were to label her as a terrible mother, you'd likely face accusations of attacking Black women. Sadly, the primary defenders of such behavior often happen to be Black women, as unfortunate as it is, coming from another Black woman.
@@MaryJaneJones. Also as a black woman I don't agree. I've seen just as many videos and real life occurrences from white and Latino women. What you ARE right about is that stories like this about black women are definitely commented on and pushed the most. The only real difference I've seen is when I comment stuff like this on videos about a black woman I get tons of people agreeing with me (as y'all should). But when I make the same comments on videos of other races of women I get a flurry of comments defending them and what they might've been through to think this way.
People act like being a single mother is the worst thing in the world when in reality being in an abusive relationship with a toxic partner is the true and bigger nightmare.
It's indeed a concerning trend. When 65% of black children grow up in single-parent households, it undoubtedly has profound implications for their upbringing and development.
Acknowledging the prevalence of single-parent households, especially with 65% of births in 2020 resulting in such, is crucial. Normalizing the idea that single-parent households aren't inherently problematic may inadvertently overlook the challenges children face in these environments. 65% that's majority of the community. @@kemartini
@@MaryJaneJones. and being in an abusive household raised by both parents (oftentimes the father is abusive, an addict or straight up violent towards mother and children) has no negative effect on their upbringing? 😂 bffr
What's crazy is she's trying to diss sister wife like she just not as stupid and delusional! Also how is he taking care of his kids if he is moving between her and sister wife! Also, the car probably belongs to sister wife which is why she came to pick you up in the hospital!
These preferences really thought they were better than black women for being chosen. Thought they were sitting on thrones, and then cry and throw tantrums when they get the same black man 😭
@SkySky999 Girl yes,I'm so glad black men are in "season" for these non black women. They eat them up and then look surprised when they turn out to be just like what black women have been saying they are.
If the devil and Cia and the Chinese communist party combined torture I will never tell this to a soul. Embarrassing. Ma'am keep this to yourself you are not a victim you are an enabler 😮
No but for real I would rather slide down them old school metal playground, in the middle of IGNORANT humid Texas 100° summer, with my freshly waxed cooter pop just nekkid before I EVEEEEEEEERRR naaaaaaahhhhhh...folks is weird 🫠🫠🫠
1. Shame has left the building smh. 2. This is nothing more than water doing what water does...seeking its own level. 3. The reason these people don't become a real polygamy couple is because they hate order and structure. They would do better living together and working together under 1 roof, but they lack the maturity smh.
@Sunny-tc3ul Dealing with a man with kids in any meaningful way, she's already stuck with them. Women just don't like to do things the right way because they don't want to be under structure or rules. She's already in a polygamy situation, she just gets none of the benefits
This is the type of story where you just roll your eyes and move on. There’s absolutely nothing you can say to all parties in this story that they don’t already know or are willing to hear to change their behavior. 🤷🏾♀️
The fact that the girlfriend was sitting outside for 45 mins while the two of them were ducking is crazy !!!! The way these men move when they cheat…is actually terrifying.
Notice how it’s BW going off about this. Let the preferences deal with this BS!! Clearly these two preferences don’t see an issue with how they are being treated.
@@Itiswhatitis638 OMG 😂I scrolled for 5 minutes for comments like this. I was smiling and LAUGHING I noticed the Girlfriend is a Non-Blk Woman, and the Baby Momma is a Light Skinned Preference. The Sister Wives are the Preferences and the Exotic Preferences. 😂🤭 Thank Goodness for that because I see DSBW engaging in STRUGGLE POLY enough times, sadly still embarrassing us online. But, I’ll take the WIN that this viral TikTok is not a DSBW. 💯🤷🏾♀️
OMG 😂I scrolled for 5 minutes for comments like this. I was smiling and LAUGHING I noticed the Girlfriend is different color, and the Baby Momma is a Light Skinned Preference. The Sister Wives are the Preferences and the Exotic Preferences. 😂🤭 Thank Goodness for that because I see DSBW engaging in STRUGGLE POLY enough times, sadly still embarrassing us online. But, I’ll take the WIN that this viral TikTok is not a DSBW. 💯🤷🏾♀️
Also, NOTICE that the Whyte Preference ACTIVELY CHOSE to NOT keep her baby. But it’s ONLY the BW who kept hers and had 3 babies 👶🏽😩😩 THE Whyte PREFERENCE WHO SEES HERSELF AS MORE WORTHY EXERCISES HER BOUNDARIES AND REFUSED TO BE IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP. Notice, the Preference has the MOST AUDACITY in Confidence, NO BABIES & NO POLY. You can’t make this up. I love this for the preference, she put her foot down on boundaries and Non-Chalant, De-Centers their feelings. I’m disappointed that the Preference Sister Wife bailed him out and paid his bond. 😂😂😂She should’ve showed her Karen side to both of them. 🤣
Girrrl, yess!. And I bet any amount of money , this ninja 🥷🏾 is an #ALPHAPOOKIE and ain't got (No Job) !!!. It must be nice to be a freeloader, and have two women fight over a dusty. Imagine that 🤮😭🥱🤣
She is better than me. I could never accept such a situation. This man is a dusty who is having his cake and eating it two. He has 2 women who are taking care of him. All he has to do is try to co-parent with both of them & blow their backs out. When he argues with one, he can move to the other girls' house and vice versa. Why doesn't this boy have his own house? I feel for the kids in this situation. The whole situation is toxic AF. This is what they mean when they say women would rather have a lil bit of man than no man. These girls aren't concerned about STD's or nothing. Nope. It could not be me.
I just can't imagine the amount of energy that it takes to sustain this toxic situationship that these 3 people have going on. I would rather focus on myself instead of doing all of this extra work just to be with someone. The entire situation just sounds so exhausting and mentally draining to me.
How embarrassing to literally pick this man's stuff up from the other woman's house AND BRING IT TO YOURS!? 😭 No part of her felt deeply humiliated? Cause she's retelling it like a victory
“When I was in prison he met her on backpage.” “I picked him up from her house 3 times.” “She was always lurking.” “We had an argument there ended up in DV, he went to jail, and she bailed him out.” 😑
Can't NOBODY tell me that this story doesn't mirror Chrisean Rock, Jaiden and Blueface! Chiiile, this Chrisean and Blueface 2.0. at this point! No thanks! 🙅 Y'all can have it!
When Sis said the FBI could not have waterboarded that info out of her 😂😂😂 I really felt that!! Cuz ain’t no wayyyyyyyyy!!! I would not even whisper this bullshit into an empty room. TF 😮
There is a lady on UA-cam that has 8 kids by a married man with a girlfriend . She lives in poverty and the man isn’t in the picture really . She also thinks like this young lady but she 39.
I was listening to this and thinking, "ya'll might as well be a thruple, save on moving costs and childcare" only for her to admit that did come up and the other girl wouldn't agree to it. 🤣🤣🤣
Do these women with these baby daddies realize that their lives are very stressful and are not ideal? They sound like their lives are so exciting, when they should actually be embarrassed. If I want excitement, I book a trip.
And if he's spending all the time he's telling her he's spending with his kids spending time and having sex with the babymama then I suspect these children are not getting any actual time.
Omg this sounds like an absolute living nightmare. I'm exhausted just listening to this story. I have too much going on in my life to just chase down some lying cheating male. Thank you to the 4b movement and the ladies participating in it!
How you ended up with three kids by a man who lives with a girlfriend…. Because you wanted, you knew what u were getting into after child one… but you and the girlfriend know exactly what u doing…. Not sorry for you, but sorry for the children… when a woman does not loves herself this is what happens
Quiet as it’s kept both of these women are foolish. He is clearly triangulating between both of them and they are both so dense and want to win (because apparently he is the prize) that they can’t see he is is the one winning. He gets to have his cake, cupcakes and ice cream. Fighting over a man is very bottom of the barrel.
I don’t feel bad for anyone in the situation except for the children being born into this hot mess. Sis literally chose to come on the internet tell people she chose to have 3 children with a man that never claimed her as a girlfriend and continues to play you and his girlfriend like ping pong balls. Make it make sense!🤦🏾♀️
This is messy, quite literally. All these babies are being born into this unfortunate circumstance and guess who's going to pay for these bad decisions... The kids! All this fluid swapping between the three of them and goodness knows how many others, shows a lack of self-respect and fear for STDs.
The gag is they are not the only two in the situation… men are greedy and rarely satisfied. When he gets ready he’s got another place to go when the girlfriend starts fussing and the babies cry too much. Smh…
Women, stop posting all your business online. Buy a diary!
That part!!!!
Yesss! 💯
Other people's mess is juicy entertainment.🫣🍿🍿🍿🍿
No they need to do this some women don’t have moms or family to help guide them . This is a good thing not a bad thing and this happens in every race btw!
I appreciate these kind of post because it’s like a warning.
What a mess. And people are saying that child free women are selfish 🤦🏻♀️
Right lol 😂
😂
Right? I’m supposed to believe I’m more selfish than these people blowing up families and cheating and lying and doing this all in front of their children? Spare me 🤦♀️
I have 2 children, and no, y’all are Not selfish😒
@@juliet4521 I just think about the poor kids that will need to go through all this
She basically called the gf stupid, but she’s doing the same thing.
She’s even worse because she brought 3 children into this mess and keeps going to jail.
Why do women hang their hats on these JAILBIRDS?? All 3 of them are addicted to mess...
Exactly. Saying "there was no cheating she was just always there to take him back every time we broke up".... girl because she was always there just like you were. This man going back and forth between you and a chick from backpage and you keep having his babies, at least the other girl decided not to bring a child into this mess. 🤦🏾♀️
insert spiderman meme
The gf at least has the sense not to bring kids into this dysfunction.
The way that some women love dysfunction is so sickening to me
Exactly, like at this point these types of women just need to admit they thrive on drama! I feel sorry for the children born into this mess.
Don't just blame the women. ALL parties involved, except the kids, like the dysfunction. No one is leaving. The only person benefitting is him. He's living the soft life "drizzle, drizzle". Both these women take care of him.
@@shanellem6310I’m not just blaming the woman. I’m speaking on women like her, but that doesn’t mean that I’m taking the accountability from the men. That’s clear as day, I’ve decentered them because I already know how it goes so why say the obvious? That’s clear the man is trash lol.
@@racheluk87Right! 3 children? I think they’re missing g some chromosomes besides low self esteem. This mindset is layered.
@@shanellem6310yea but if we don’t hold them accountable they think they did nothing wrong. She must have low self esteem.
Why have a third baby if he got a girlfriend???? You know what? Its outta my hands. 🤷🏿♀️ I wish her and kids the best.
She was in competition with the other woman.
@@andylee4299and still lost
@@Sunny-tc3ul Exactly. 45 minutes to "bond" with the kids. Tuh
@Sunny-tc3ul And what exactly is the other woman winning..? I hope she doesn’t end up having his kids too, because…he’s going to do her the same exact way.
They always tell the side that eventually they will be with them. Plus when you’re a desperate woman, you believe anything a man says.🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽Smdh
The low self esteem and poor decision making is gagging me. 🤮
I’m fully convinced some of y’all want to be baby mamas and side chicks 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
They absolutely do.
Yea. That’s why they said baby momma culture. She has no dignity, no self-worth ,no self-esteem, no value for herself, or morals. She has no boundaries whatsoever. Just sad.
They do because why tf would these women have baby’s with ain’t SHT men. They do it on purpose and play victim. I’m starting to realize the bs as well as
To men that don’t even have wives at that!
That’s the crazy part! These men aren’t even making any legal decisions with any of these women- these women are dubbing themselves as “mains” and “wives” to men THEY ARENT MARRIED TO.
@LoveK1 Being a longtime girlfriend doesn’t make a woman any better either. When the live in idiot becomes pregnant FINALLY- he will play her and her kids by him too.
Like who the hell would want to be with a dude that keeps having babies with some other idiot- while yall are “together”..? Come on now
Absolutely no self respect in these two ladies.
Believe it or not, some men wives (or in this case girlfriends) give them permission to have sex with other women.
I have seen and heard a woman do it in person. Side chick shows up with a new baby, and my friend wife looks him dead in the face and said " your need to stop being so kind to these bitches. "
I am there looking at them like "WTF is this situation." They are still married and the side chick has to play her position.
Because those aren't ladies.
I really, really, really wish women would stop bringing children into these toxic situations. Like, it's one thing if you don't respect yourself, but why put your kids through that? And three of them at that.
Women don’t care. They only care about themselves and their feelings. They don’t care what the children go through but play this game like they do. “I do for my kid” bs
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Facts leave kids with their maker don't bring them here
Yes
I take my L’s in silence, not broadcast them on the internet.
Right! But if your a narcissist every comment possitive or negative will feed you supply.
Neither of them actually WANT the man. Both women are in competition with each other. They're playing a game that has no winners, but deep down inside, they know that. A lot of women hate other women, and this situation proves that.
This‼️Exactly what it be about 99% of the time! Women are so sick, it’s sad.
As someone who hates both men AND women, this is why I keep my distance from BOTH of them!
I'm an asexual loner and an introvert at its finest! 🌈
This was some nasty, sick, vile, repulsive mess!
All I imagine is bodily fluids being swapped back and forth! 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I agree with Destiny WHOLEHEARTEDLY! This sounds like bragging! Like, "ooh, look at me, I had ALL my kids by ONE man! I only have ONE baby daddy, NOT multiple."
That's what I got from this!
As someone who despises both men AND women, this is why I keep my distance from BOTH of them!
I'm an asexual loner and an introvert at its finest! 🌈
This was some nasty, sick, vile mess!
All I imagine is bodily fluids being swapped back and forth! 🤮🤮🤮🤮
I agree with Destiny WHOLEHEARTEDLY! This sounds like bragging! Like, "ooh, look at me, I had ALL my kids by ONE man! I only have ONE baby daddy, NOT multiple."
That's what I got from this!
This!!
The guy is the only winner. He doesn't care whatsoever.
Having a baby will never
keep a man. The delulu has to stop
I think it was for proof that he'll keep coming back and she'll always let him. It was more for the other girl to get mad/jealous. I used to know idiots like this. Went on for years because.... Stupidity 😅😅😅
No, it keeps him in rotation back to her🤦🏾♀️😩
Delulu culture has been in full effect for decades, its a sad case too see, bcuz some women really think having a nixxa baby will change them..wen thats the best repellent to keep him away.
Baby daddy or not I'm not sleeping with a man while another woman waits in the garage.🤨🙅🏾♀️
That that pesky self respect your dealing with.😅
Right
It's the respectful thing to do but unfortunately ppl like these 2 get off on stuff like that..Playing in the girlfriend face and calling it coparenting turns them on..
Why is she taking down on the girlfriend when she’s the bigger fool for brining 3 innocent children into this mess??
And let’s not mention that she keeps going to jail!!
exactly ! because when the girlfriend finally finds some self worth she can leave with no baggage . meanwhile , the BM got three kids by a bum and she’s stuck with him for life
Wait, girlfriend sits outside in the car for 45 minutes while he inside “playing with his kids” I feel sorry for the kids, the adults in they lives is all crazy 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Why can't she get a new man? Like who waits on a man for 45 minutes? For what?
And stayed after the oppsie baby was born
She thought she ate with this one. Embarrassing.
THREE children born into established dysfunction but have THEM tell it, being child free by choice is the worst thing to happen to society. ✌🏽🤣
Lol! 😂
This! 💯
And honestly, they’d rather see us all bogged down and chasing our tails like this, than free, happy and knowing who We are.😒😒😒
@attitudeproblem6462 exactly! That's precisely what it is. Men have a problem with happy, care free women. Until that is addressed, they need to stop asking women anything
I feel so sorry for the daughter..... she will learn that this is how women are supposed to be treeated.. QnQ
This is so ignorant.
.....not to mention, yall fighting over a homeless man. But go off.
Omg I thought to myself, he's going back and forth in their houses bc he needs someplace to stay 🤣🤣
"Ciara waiting on him hand and foot"
Bookie, Ciara ain't the only 1.
It's probably Sierra since that's the original spelling of Sierra
@@MsMookalate that's cool but that wasn't really the point, respectfully
Exactly
sometimes i feel like my life is sad, i litetally spend my sunday prepping for the week ahead and i feel like my life is boring, after watching this, I think i'm happy being bored
Same
You're doing great ❤
Inner Peace only seems boring because you’re seeing other people’s chaos which feels exciting watching by the sidelines.
You are doing well and as long as you’re doing no harm to self and others long may it continue.
Lol im happy to keep the drama in my life at a safe distance through a screen from other peoples lives lol
I WFH with my Fiance and sometimes life is actually boring but my sister said a good thing, 'its not boredom its peace'. I think things like trauma and social media de-regulate us that we take it as boring as we need some type of stimulus and im trying to train my mind to get back regulated with peace and softness as i have anxiety sometimes.
Huh. 🤔. Is the pharmacy selling stupid pills over the counter. Because she has no excuse for making that mistake x 3 with the same man. WTH.
The fact that some people make this mistake multiple times and don't learn from the first is insane. Get your tubes tied/Condoms/bc and also.....stop messing with your BD!!
This ain't a mistake this is a decision and she proud of it
Bruhh after that "WHO THE F*** DID I MARRY" series people just over sharing more than ever 😮💨😒😳😧😂😂
You know what, you right tho. I wouldn’t dare .
🎯 trying to get that cringe money. Ugh.
After listening to all these people a psychologist should do a "what the f%$^ is wrong with these people?"
Frfr. Giving their soul for possible fame and fortune 😅
I saw it coming after that series
The gf was in the car when the baby was being made, so what's wrong with the gf being in the car when ya'll taking the baby home? Heck, at this point there is no reason to have her waiting in the car while he visits with the kids. Have her come in too, ya'll all family at this point. 🤣🤣🤣
Helloooo😂😂😩
You and his girlfriend co-parent Jackaroo & the other kids. Babydad is just the uber/lyft driver. 😂 Let's be honest.
Gonna need the Uber xl if this Brady bunch nonsense keeps on 🤣
she said she picks him, he's the passenger!
😂😂😂😂Jackaroo
Facts
😂😂😂😂
Disrespecting yourself to this degree is nothing short of simply insane. She was good enough for him to volunteer her womb to but wasn’t good enough for a ring.. And what’s worse is how delusional she is about not being the side chick. She’s the side mother at this point.
'side mother' 😂😂😂
Side mother 🤣🤣🤣, now that's a new one
Why have a third baby for a man that's not with you? I can wrap my head around one because life happens but 3?!
It does not serve women, on ANY level, to have low self esteem. I say this for me also.
Right there's no purpose for it
She told this story like she is somehow smarter than the other girl 😂
At what point do we start calling these women bad moms? Cause you're seriously getting arrested multiple times with this man
Exactly and it's for dv so I assume the kids are seeing them hitting each other and acting violent
If you were to label her as a terrible mother, you'd likely face accusations of attacking Black women. Sadly, the primary defenders of such behavior often happen to be Black women, as unfortunate as it is, coming from another Black woman.
@@MaryJaneJones. Also as a black woman I don't agree. I've seen just as many videos and real life occurrences from white and Latino women. What you ARE right about is that stories like this about black women are definitely commented on and pushed the most. The only real difference I've seen is when I comment stuff like this on videos about a black woman I get tons of people agreeing with me (as y'all should). But when I make the same comments on videos of other races of women I get a flurry of comments defending them and what they might've been through to think this way.
Not in prison and he moved in with the girlfriend 🤦🏾♀️ Lord Jesus! It sounds like they all enjoy the drama.
Clearly they must love drama. Who endures this kind of situation for that long otherwise?
This could be a plot for a Tubi movie
@@jaethezoeTyler parry can make a fortune out of this 😂
I couldn't watch this whole video. So much stupidity and toxicity. 😒
Me neither I fast forward straight to the stitches.
I agree this girl was so damn dumb I just couldn't
They are UNOFFICIALLY POLYGAMOUS. Those 2 baby mommas don't wanna leave they baby daddy alone.
When she says he’s “battling bigger demons” I immediately thought he was on the low. Usually that’s what that means or he on drugs
Bingoooo
They are fighting over a man that doesn't even possibly like women??? 🥴🥴🥴
Drugs? 🤔
Drugs!
You would not be able to b3at this story out of me, let alone tell the world.
😂
Because you have pride in yourself. I'm the same way. People need to get therapists and stop taking all their dirty laundry to the internet.
People act like being a single mother is the worst thing in the world when in reality being in an abusive relationship with a toxic partner is the true and bigger nightmare.
I agree
It's indeed a concerning trend. When 65% of black children grow up in single-parent households, it undoubtedly has profound implications for their upbringing and development.
Acknowledging the prevalence of single-parent households, especially with 65% of births in 2020 resulting in such, is crucial. Normalizing the idea that single-parent households aren't inherently problematic may inadvertently overlook the challenges children face in these environments. 65% that's majority of the community.
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@@MaryJaneJones. and being in an abusive household raised by both parents (oftentimes the father is abusive, an addict or straight up violent towards mother and children) has no negative effect on their upbringing? 😂 bffr
What's crazy is she's trying to diss sister wife like she just not as stupid and delusional! Also how is he taking care of his kids if he is moving between her and sister wife! Also, the car probably belongs to sister wife which is why she came to pick you up in the hospital!
Sister wife is definitely infertile or something/ ain’t no way she not trying to have his babies too! Ain’t no way LOL
@@AmberColeman-gq1wnshe did get pregnant once by him
@@AmberColeman-gq1wnit’s probably coming soon lmao
Where is sister wife idea comes from? I haven't heard that before
Was there a man shortage or something
Apparently, there is a shortage of self worth.
It is Competition for both ladies. Whoever gets to the final line of struggle love wins the prize of the dusty Man
Just when I thought my life was a mess 🤦♀️. These preferences be going through it!!!
These preferences really thought they were better than black women for being chosen. Thought they were sitting on thrones, and then cry and throw tantrums when they get the same black man 😭
@@deathdragoncat word to the Cyn G.
To all of my black women Thank God for the preferences 🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
@@annjohnson4061 I'm still mad they banned her channel!! All those black men were real upset because she was speaking the truth.
@SkySky999 Girl yes,I'm so glad black men are in "season" for these non black women. They eat them up and then look surprised when they turn out to be just like what black women have been saying they are.
Girl all I have to say is WHYYY. Don't put us in your business. This is to much and the stories just keep getting messier. 🤣😂🤣
If the devil and Cia and the Chinese communist party combined torture I will never tell this to a soul. Embarrassing. Ma'am keep this to yourself you are not a victim you are an enabler 😮
I fast forward because she doesn’t have self respect nor dignity.
This mess is too ghetto for my ears. Why doesn’t neither woman have self respect?
No but for real I would rather slide down them old school metal playground, in the middle of IGNORANT humid Texas 100° summer, with my freshly waxed cooter pop just nekkid before I EVEEEEEEEERRR naaaaaaahhhhhh...folks is weird 🫠🫠🫠
@@pynklady11 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Girl give me your phone, you done for the day 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's officially time to take a social media break, take care everyone, see you sometime in the future, bye y'all.
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😂😂😂😂😂 I’m so done…
😂😂😂😂 I'm joining you
1. Shame has left the building smh.
2. This is nothing more than water doing what water does...seeking its own level.
3. The reason these people don't become a real polygamy couple is because they hate order and structure. They would do better living together and working together under 1 roof, but they lack the maturity smh.
The girlfriend probably doesn’t want to deal with all those kids or get stuck with them.
@Sunny-tc3ul Dealing with a man with kids in any meaningful way, she's already stuck with them. Women just don't like to do things the right way because they don't want to be under structure or rules. She's already in a polygamy situation, she just gets none of the benefits
This is the type of story where you just roll your eyes and move on. There’s absolutely nothing you can say to all parties in this story that they don’t already know or are willing to hear to change their behavior. 🤷🏾♀️
Sierra, been there all the time. She aint never been without that man. You're both been sharing the same man
The fact that the girlfriend was sitting outside for 45 mins while the two of them were ducking is crazy !!!!
The way these men move when they cheat…is actually terrifying.
If it weren't for the internet I wouldn't even know that people like this existed. 🙄
Notice how it’s BW going off about this. Let the preferences deal with this BS!! Clearly these two preferences don’t see an issue with how they are being treated.
I smiled when it wasn’t a bk woman. We’ll take this rare W dark skin women 🤭
@@Itiswhatitis638 OMG 😂I scrolled for 5 minutes for comments like this. I was smiling and LAUGHING I noticed the Girlfriend is a Non-Blk Woman, and the Baby Momma is a Light Skinned Preference. The Sister Wives are the Preferences and the Exotic Preferences. 😂🤭 Thank Goodness for that because I see DSBW engaging in STRUGGLE POLY enough times, sadly still embarrassing us online. But, I’ll take the WIN that this viral TikTok is not a DSBW. 💯🤷🏾♀️
OMG 😂I scrolled for 5 minutes for comments like this. I was smiling and LAUGHING I noticed the Girlfriend is different color, and the Baby Momma is a Light Skinned Preference. The Sister Wives are the Preferences and the Exotic Preferences. 😂🤭 Thank Goodness for that because I see DSBW engaging in STRUGGLE POLY enough times, sadly still embarrassing us online. But, I’ll take the WIN that this viral TikTok is not a DSBW. 💯🤷🏾♀️
Also, NOTICE that the Whyte Preference ACTIVELY CHOSE to NOT keep her baby. But it’s ONLY the BW who kept hers and had 3 babies 👶🏽😩😩 THE Whyte PREFERENCE WHO SEES HERSELF AS MORE WORTHY EXERCISES HER BOUNDARIES AND REFUSED TO BE IN A POLY RELATIONSHIP. Notice, the Preference has the MOST AUDACITY in Confidence, NO BABIES & NO POLY. You can’t make this up. I love this for the preference, she put her foot down on boundaries and Non-Chalant, De-Centers their feelings. I’m disappointed that the Preference Sister Wife bailed him out and paid his bond. 😂😂😂She should’ve showed her Karen side to both of them. 🤣
She looks black to me
My eyes are so far rolled back in my head that I think they're stuck🙄🙄🙄
On top of all that mess in her life, she named the last baby JOCKAROO!! 😢🫣
😂 I said if she call that baby jackoroo one more time
I thought I heard that 🤣🤣
Everything is too wild!!!
Let's just hope it's all for clout
It’s just WAYYYY TOO MUCH to unpack here!! 😭😭😭😭😭
How?
Are you gonna get mad at sister wife?When she came with the baby daddy to come, pick you up.Ain't she to sister wife😂😂
She's more mad about the "sister wife" being in the car than she is about putting her own kids in this toxic situation. She is a mess.
That
This would’ve been SUPREME Jerry Springer material 😂
Why is the girlfriend staying and why is she willing to be a baby moms
If I’m ever in jail as many times as this woman is in a single weekend, I’m heavily reconsidering my life.
Girrrl, yess!. And I bet any amount of money , this ninja 🥷🏾 is an #ALPHAPOOKIE and ain't got (No Job) !!!. It must be nice to be a freeloader, and have two women fight over a dusty. Imagine that 🤮😭🥱🤣
Right! I was like why the fck does she keep talking about going to jail as if she doesn't have kids.
She is better than me. I could never accept such a situation. This man is a dusty who is having his cake and eating it two. He has 2 women who are taking care of him. All he has to do is try to co-parent with both of them & blow their backs out. When he argues with one, he can move to the other girls' house and vice versa. Why doesn't this boy have his own house? I feel for the kids in this situation. The whole situation is toxic AF. This is what they mean when they say women would rather have a lil bit of man than no man. These girls aren't concerned about STD's or nothing. Nope. It could not be me.
I just can't imagine the amount of energy that it takes to sustain this toxic situationship that these 3 people have going on. I would rather focus on myself instead of doing all of this extra work just to be with someone. The entire situation just sounds so exhausting and mentally draining to me.
U got pregnant with sister wife waiting in the car!?!
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Please keep that Pookie off the street. Please those two women can have him. Let’s thank them for keeping him away from all of us!
NO SELF RESPECT!!!!
THESEEEEEE are the females that single mom song is for. Not us females who had one child with our partner who CHOSE to abandon us or mistreat us.
How embarrassing to literally pick this man's stuff up from the other woman's house AND BRING IT TO YOURS!? 😭 No part of her felt deeply humiliated? Cause she's retelling it like a victory
They have 50-50 custody like a baby😂
“When I was in prison he met her on backpage.”
“I picked him up from her house 3 times.”
“She was always lurking.”
“We had an argument there ended up in DV, he went to jail, and she bailed him out.”
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Can't NOBODY tell me that this story doesn't mirror Chrisean Rock, Jaiden and Blueface!
Chiiile, this Chrisean and Blueface 2.0. at this point!
No thanks! 🙅
Y'all can have it!
When Sis said the FBI could not have waterboarded that info out of her 😂😂😂 I really felt that!! Cuz ain’t no wayyyyyyyyy!!! I would not even whisper this bullshit into an empty room. TF 😮
LORD JESUS....I HAVE TO CONSTANTLY THANK YOU DAILY FOR THE LAST 3 YEARS OF BEING SINGLE AND PEACEFUL 💅🏾BECAUSE WHEW CHILE 🤦🏾♀️
So much jail, prison unprotected s ex and dysfunction... my god.
Relationship free, child free, stress free💕😁 God is good👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
And to all of my Black Women, Thank God for the preferences 🤣🤣🫶🏾🫶🏾
There is a lady on UA-cam that has 8 kids by a married man with a girlfriend . She lives in poverty and the man isn’t in the picture really . She also thinks like this young lady but she 39.
😮 Who?
Nika 😆 🤣
@@1Star_TV Thx found her. and...oh boy. 😳
@@paperorpaperindependentshanika she has a YT channel where she broadcasts her stupidity on a daily basis
Wow.
Losing my time here. This lady have problem 😢
I was listening to this and thinking, "ya'll might as well be a thruple, save on moving costs and childcare" only for her to admit that did come up and the other girl wouldn't agree to it. 🤣🤣🤣
lol
Why is she confused? She slept with him while he was living with his girlfriend. What is the issue? All choices.
I went to prison is all I need to know .
Do these women with these baby daddies realize that their lives are very stressful and are not ideal? They sound like their lives are so exciting, when they should actually be embarrassed. If I want excitement, I book a trip.
And if he's spending all the time he's telling her he's spending with his kids spending time and having sex with the babymama then I suspect these children are not getting any actual time.
She said it herself when she said so u not going to come see the other two
Omg this sounds like an absolute living nightmare. I'm exhausted just listening to this story. I have too much going on in my life to just chase down some lying cheating male. Thank you to the 4b movement and the ladies participating in it!
She should have left him alone after the first child.
How you ended up with three kids by a man who lives with a girlfriend…. Because you wanted, you knew what u were getting into after child one… but you and the girlfriend know exactly what u doing…. Not sorry for you, but sorry for the children… when a woman does not loves herself this is what happens
Quiet as it’s kept both of these women are foolish. He is clearly triangulating between both of them and they are both so dense and want to win (because apparently he is the prize) that they can’t see he is is the one winning. He gets to have his cake, cupcakes and ice cream. Fighting over a man is very bottom of the barrel.
These are the people raising the next generation?! 🤦 Childfree by choice is looking better and better as an opinion for me.
I'm gonna assume he is unemployed. He seems to have a lot of loose time on his hands to live a life like this.
She love saying “My babuh daddy” 😬
2 min in mouth drop. 3 min in, mouth still open
4 min in confusion, I can't
Whew child! This is tew tew tew much! 😮😮😮😮😮
Poor kids
The only victims..
It’s so disheartening that they are in the middle of adult foolishness and poor choices.
This sounds like a horror story. Being single is wwaayyy easier than this. 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
I don’t feel bad for anyone in the situation except for the children being born into this hot mess. Sis literally chose to come on the internet tell people she chose to have 3 children with a man that never claimed her as a girlfriend and continues to play you and his girlfriend like ping pong balls. Make it make sense!🤦🏾♀️
I feel sorry for the kids..they didn't ask for stupid parents or adults surrounding them
This is messy, quite literally. All these babies are being born into this unfortunate circumstance and guess who's going to pay for these bad decisions... The kids! All this fluid swapping between the three of them and goodness knows how many others, shows a lack of self-respect and fear for STDs.
Does the gf have a damn job😂😂😂😂 like you’re always in the car 😂😂😂!!!!! Ya need to start booking OBGYN appointments together atp😩😩😩!
This why men think their the prize
I wish women stop coming on here embarrassing themselves
It's almost like some people are specifically made to be trashy and stupid. Because ain't no way, this made sense to anyone. Like it was destined.
Damn. I thought I was an idiot when it came to relationships. This is a whole other level of crazy
“the FBI couldn’t have waterboarded this information out of me” IS ME bc wow
Just raggedy..
Three blind mice now brings three children into the mix furthering the dysfunction
People have no shame
It’s fine if she wants to be with him and his mess but why have babies and bring them into the confusion?! Makes no sense. Horrible mother
She just wanted sister wife to know the baby was conceived on one of them mondays. 3 losers and 3 kids woth no hope.
The gag is they are not the only two in the situation… men are greedy and rarely satisfied. When he gets ready he’s got another place to go when the girlfriend starts fussing and the babies cry too much. Smh…
Not my life not my problem