the power of being Indifferent is the real Killa ~WTF..... fine line between Love & Hate

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  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +11

    Been seeing them walk away one by one😂 thought there was something wrong with me but now I realize it was them

  • @jacquelinefroehle3583
    @jacquelinefroehle3583 Рік тому +7

    Not our job to save people....surrender that idea over to God and now wash our hands of it....and go do something good for you 😊

  • @meganfox5219
    @meganfox5219 Рік тому +22

    All I can say tonight is I love you coach… I appreciate how you don’t shame us but always tell us to dust ourselves off, straighten our uniform and get back in the ranks. That’s love ❤️leading and living by example. I’ve got a hell of a story just need to share it. Some days are brighter than others but I’m still in the ranks putting one foot in front of the other. Thanks coach and girls at the office. ✨🦋✨

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +8

    Fuck the trauma...... grow!!!!

  • @jacquelinefroehle3583
    @jacquelinefroehle3583 Рік тому +3

    God will use the good and the bad in this world for his purposes.

  • @BR9900-w5l
    @BR9900-w5l Рік тому +14

    You're amazing coach! You've helped me sort all the shit out in my head this deranged narc caused. Respect from Australia 🇦🇺 🙌

    • @bryanoconnor6897
      @bryanoconnor6897 Рік тому

      Just be careful, you should feel better about yourself knowing people are attempting to bring you down.

  • @vivianrahman5970
    @vivianrahman5970 Рік тому +7

    Gota Love it... we ain't crickets... Priceless....😂😂

    • @notme4565
      @notme4565 Рік тому +1

      Yes priceless, silly crickets 🤣

  • @southernbellerising
    @southernbellerising Рік тому +8

    Good morning Coach, Office Girls & Tribe ☕️☀️ Thanks for this great walk, Coach 💖 Awesome message✨ Big truths & heartfelt encouragement. No sense in shoulda, coulda, woulda, self convicting…narcs use every tactic to stumble us…instead we can choose to learn lessons & realign with peace & our own kind 🙏🏻❤️🕊🦋 Have a beautiful day, Warriors…one step at a time, little by little is how we learn, grow & build our kingdoms 🏰 🌼🌺🌸🦋✨

  • @humblyrise
    @humblyrise Рік тому +3

    Ben Stiller’s character in the movie Dodgeball, ( “I read it!…. In a book!” ) 😅

  • @ShippyPap
    @ShippyPap Рік тому +5

    Most def! Putting on your silent observer hat with your invisible IDGAF logo and seeing the SWEETIES for what they are (sour candy that will give you a soul ache) is a refined skill.
    Self-control: don’t take their bait (candy), do NOT get into that van, chile!!!
    💜✌🏻

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +4

    Didn't even know I was on purpose
    Practising not reacting to the narssastic🦋🦄🦋

  • @theshineprjct
    @theshineprjct Рік тому +4

    Amen! 🎉

  • @rhondamiller3750
    @rhondamiller3750 Рік тому +2

    Just today I was contemplating NOT needing you anymore. Thanks for confirming that step in healing. Watch for my story to go public...it is in the messy stage of showing a tick turd his best option. He's having a tantrum as I type. 🎉

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +4

    Mmmmm indifference my favorite word!

  • @bc3863
    @bc3863 Рік тому +4

    You are the best on this topic❤️ this channel has helped me alot. God bless 🙏🏻

  • @cogermaureen1957
    @cogermaureen1957 5 місяців тому +2

    I told my using baby sister to her face that I HATE HER, well she decide to get an order of protection against me with a lot of lies. She did me a favor for LIFE.

  • @vodacoma1747
    @vodacoma1747 Рік тому +2

    🌻for the BESTEST coach

  • @Jesica-kk8dd
    @Jesica-kk8dd Місяць тому

    Im so proud of all of you warriors!! Remember- Faith the size of a mustard seed. Jesse and girls in the office yall are doing Elohims work. ❤🎉 Namaste

  • @reneehuckaby1740
    @reneehuckaby1740 Рік тому +2

    4:26 in.. I call it “pick your struggle”.. I’m gud right here.. lolol

  • @jamesvaughan3871
    @jamesvaughan3871 Рік тому +3

    I remember Astro World. Haha

  • @antroneb1
    @antroneb1 Рік тому +6

    Jess, I ❤ you, you’ve been there for me a lot. There’s this woman, I marked as a Narc, I blocked the love bomb, by falling asleep 💤 on her, woke her up took her home , so I sent her a few Narc videos, she said are you ok, I thought you where a really nice guy, lmao, so I sent her more stuff about how she was portrayed I was talking about myself. I sent like 3 or 4 text but. I know she’s a narc, I’m proud of myself because I love fun bags, I will never see them😂. But she text me this from me telling her I’m a narc, run I’m no good. Lmao

  • @sangar463
    @sangar463 Рік тому +3

    I been abused all life by narcissist parent and wife trying to get revenge I feel confident after one year of no contact I’m thinking to go be aggressive and hurt them but I think indefrence would be real revenge bcz arguing with them means giving them supply

    • @bree17k22
      @bree17k22 Рік тому +1

      NO CONTACT. No supply. I’m so sorry for what you’ve been through. Nobody deserves the breath you’d take to say or do anything to retaliate. Stay safe & in your own happy place. Nobody can take our peace & our sanity from us when we don’t allow it.

    • @bryanoconnor6897
      @bryanoconnor6897 Рік тому +1

      I wouldn’t react act at all, just practice better decision making. Once your peace of mind is disturbed leave them.

  • @SoulFaeWorld
    @SoulFaeWorld Рік тому +1

    Wow refreshing perspective thank you for these 🙏🏻 still get thoughts of confusion and feelings of being baffled after walking away from someone like that.

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +3

    Met his own kind one ran away overseas
    One died
    Not sure wht he has who he has
    Don't give a shi* as long as it's not me 🦋🦄🦋

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, this healing hurts, but with hope and future🙏🥰indifference as they no longer exist😢😫

  • @CarlyFaith15
    @CarlyFaith15 Рік тому +3

    I'll never know how that macaroni boy became a lion. But, thanks for looking us straight in the eyes. You're tough kindness is a style of coaching that I've never come across. I've always been pealing the onion because, the outer layers don't mean anything. It's for the heart, the core, the peace that I have searched. I found it. Doesn't mean my heart doesn't bleed sometimes. But, I've been humbled and I feel like it was a gift from God. If He didn't love me, he wouldn't have bothered. I don't want to be the top of anything. I just want to be in control of myself. Thanks for the badass walk on the beach, coach. Thanks for looking us in the eyes because, those are daggeresses. Cut you to the bone. I dare say that narcissistes don't get past that stare. 🙆

  • @chosenheir3055
    @chosenheir3055 Рік тому +6

    Markofthebeast is here through the test/vascines and you can't to digy currency without the mark. If anyone haven't already given their life to Yahuah the time is now. Believe that you are a sinner. Believe in your heart that yahusha messiah died on the cross and rose on the third day. Believe in the father the son and the holy spirit. Pick up your cross and sin no more and repent. If you have already done those things then continue to grow and stay in your word and pr@y. Armor up spiritually.

  • @vivianrahman5970
    @vivianrahman5970 Рік тому +2

    My hometown Houston Texas.... ASTRO World. Best memories 1971.....

  • @DanielLovesYou111
    @DanielLovesYou111 Рік тому +2

    They Hate me So Much They Love me ♥️🙌💗🤣😂🤣 Amen 🙏 I Love MySelf Unconditionally 💗 Thanks Coach Much Love & Respect 🫡♥️🙏🙏🙌😇

    • @Jesica-kk8dd
      @Jesica-kk8dd Місяць тому

      Yes we must love Elohim and ourselves first and foremost

  • @bryanoconnor6897
    @bryanoconnor6897 Рік тому +2

    4:40 lol pump & dump is what people do out here.

  • @Scorpio200
    @Scorpio200 Рік тому +1

    Wow wow amen 100% right onnn love this . ❤

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +4

    Loved this content abt the Not giving a dam
    Makes sense to me across the board 🦄🦋🦄🦋

  • @HugeAndHugeCoinChannal09999
    @HugeAndHugeCoinChannal09999 Рік тому +2

    Thank you

  • @Mar12785
    @Mar12785 Рік тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @kevinowens6010
    @kevinowens6010 Рік тому +2

    When Narcs come sniffing around I spank them and they don't know it till I have disappeared. I don't do it out anger. I do it for the Lion is back and now wants to eat my ass alive this time around. Wounding me was not fun enough last time around for these Clowns. . I am just armed well this time around. Besides you helped me arm up to serve a little. Especially when they lean Into it and beg for it. Yeah I enjoyed it. At least I am Honest about it. If Two more turds from my past ever get froggy and jump up wanting some I am sure I will serve something up pleasing.
    Thanks Chico.

  • @markfitzpatrick1010
    @markfitzpatrick1010 4 місяці тому +2

    crashing waves

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +3

    No leg rubbing
    But one weekend I was staying over &
    Talk abt CONTROL
    The first time he did this I thought
    Hw sweet
    He washed my outfits hung them up
    WTF
    ?? Scary shit
    Learned to bring excess clothes
    He cldnt wash them all
    One day he did & tht confirmed it for me
    CONTROL ♥️🌷♥️

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +2

    Indifferent easy to spell say
    Not thtveasy to do
    Took me a while & I do see normal caring men
    Not sure if I'm ready
    Good to hang out with
    I socialised a bit & some really ok men out there
    🦄🦋🦄

  • @Mfranzful
    @Mfranzful Рік тому +2

    we used to drive to astro world from louisiana for the day
    great fun!

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +2

    Best Video
    Thank u coach 🌷♥️

  • @Neidytrozeski
    @Neidytrozeski Рік тому +1

    Amazing…❤❤❤

  • @prunelle9051
    @prunelle9051 Рік тому +2

    😆 Good one.

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +3

    Can't talk abt the trauma bond enough
    I'm not saying all was perfect
    Gas lit from the start lied to asked if I wanted a relationship ( u go ) ur way when ur home I go mine
    Adults
    Omg 5 yrs later
    I USED TO RUN TO HIM
    Somewhere in pillow talk
    Not beingh aware I spoke of loosing parents
    Attention at a youngish age
    This maniac made sure his generosity of spirit was not approachable
    Community thought he was the ants pants a real pillar a giver& when I was with him
    Kind patient all
    Tht nice stuff
    The stuff tht fooled me a community
    I say behond
    NARCCASTIC
    A PREDITOR

  • @detheshorton-tb6ct
    @detheshorton-tb6ct Рік тому +3

    Yes being different that libra but I'm just around nothing but the Nastya narc ever but they trying move around like snakes but they saying that what I'm doing but different

  • @nancysmith9665
    @nancysmith9665 2 місяці тому +2

    I have heard that God uses them to make you stronger. It does work doesn't it

  • @shecaptain3444
    @shecaptain3444 Рік тому +2

  • @angelperkin2861
    @angelperkin2861 Рік тому +1

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +2

    Love the
    I rubbed ur leg last night
    Didn't happen
    Cunning
    Man ??
    Always with quite a few &
    Tried to trap me
    With attention attemtion
    Trauma bonds
    Omg
    Thank go gone for close to 2 yrs
    Sneaky tho
    Pipped in frm over 300 hundred miles away for a coffee at a Cafe I loved
    WTF
    A Narccastic will think if we see them
    Might cave in
    If NOT
    THEY KNOW this is traumatic
    For most
    How did I tke care for a few days
    I stayed with a girlfriend
    I was Rattled 🦋🦄🦋

  • @LindaWilliamson-u5c
    @LindaWilliamson-u5c 10 місяців тому +1

    7 x70 trust me after 40 Years 🙄

  • @kaystephens2672
    @kaystephens2672 Рік тому +1

    Speaking of crickets' mating behavior, watch Planet Earth and the mating rituals of some of the birds in the Amazon rain forest. The bird of paradise is glorious.. And it's a lot more satisfying than wasting your time on an ungrateful fool who has nothing at all to offer but giving you their gifts of Their problems for you to solve. That leg rub, that atta boy pat on the head 😮 ain't worth it in the long run. If you're not satisfied with what you're seeing and feeling, look at the Big picture. I don't care how old you are. And see what you were "rewarded for" when you were just a "we lad." Somebody forgot to remind you that you were an adult now. Who could that have been? Possibly a parent who needed their a hole self a slave for their future mess to clean up after?. We know better now than to keep that game alive. I believe these future wolves consider empaths as needy children. So Check your "Ahhh" switch. Your pity button. But mostly your need to be adored. For yourself and mostly, for others. It'll drain you dry. And you have to learn to cut it off. You were someone who was groomed, trained by an emotional manipulator. An emotional abuser. It was child abuse by a user who objectified you and Only saw You as an object to serve their excuses. Their lies. Their needs. Or someone else's needs who manipulated them. They made us into an easy target. I had a mother like this. And she had a lot of supply. "Friends".The last one said, right after her funeral "You know your mom really loved you". I said, of course, and walked away swiftly. Now, I know why. How would this stranger really know that? And why was it ever even said, at all? Or be even, any of her business. Oh. That's right. She was such a poor victim of her bad children who needed to eat. But she "loved me", really, "honest". I believe I'm able to figure that out on my own. If it were now that I'd heard that, I would ask her, "How can you know." And leave it at that. You see, this is the perfect example of how they get their flying monkey to haunt you even beyond the grave. To make you "feel bad." These psychos are really dumb. And I'll tell you why. Because they really are at a disadvantage. They don't see one thing. You're perspective. Your God given rights and that is Your power over them. Your gift from God no man has the right to Mock or ever question. That's your Boundary. Love is not just a word to be used to shame. That's blasphemy in my eyes and in my heart. And it's true. The proof is in the pudding. You never use love as a weapon.

  • @nancysmith9665
    @nancysmith9665 2 місяці тому +1

    Lol

  • @Violet-jp7cd
    @Violet-jp7cd Рік тому +2

    Yes I need this nod I know what your say🤍x

  • @childofchrist7625
    @childofchrist7625 Рік тому +2