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  • @HEATHERMAEE55
    @HEATHERMAEE55 Рік тому +7

    That stare tho lol

  • @trippdawg3337
    @trippdawg3337 Рік тому +5

    Daily chess is important for the mind

  • @healthymindcounselingwelln5411
    @healthymindcounselingwelln5411 Рік тому +43

    Good morning warriors. Share with your friends. Jesse should have more subscribers. It's ironic how these other coaches that are keeping you trauma bonded to the narcissist have triple plus subs. Jesse is giving you strategy to heal. ❤

    • @Dop3D33pQuotes
      @Dop3D33pQuotes Рік тому +5

      Real talk

    • @Luckybetta
      @Luckybetta Рік тому +1

      I completely agree! 💯 💪. They make money off of keeping people stuck! F*** the narcissist! You know better, you do better! The best "revenge" is you living your best life without them and they CAN'T even find you to Hoover you back into their bullshit!

    • @bree17k22
      @bree17k22 Рік тому +2

      Before Coach, I was on those other channels. They brought upset & confusion. Some were frightening. I stayed trauma bonded during no contact so I broke no contact. Now with Jessie leading the way, all makes sense. We are being educated properly & wisely with the understanding & support we need to safely navigate as we gain the know-how to stay on course. Ty J & Team! Superstars!

    • @jacquelinefroehle3583
      @jacquelinefroehle3583 Рік тому +1

      There's a spiritual teaching that says before we are born in a body....we have Spiritual lessons to learn, maybe from past lives or from the fact that God's divine love must give us complete freedom to want to be as God created us (to be love) or we have the option to be the opposite, which is like Satan and narcissistic. So a Script is written for our lesson plan to show us how our free will can be used for good or evil. And the Narcissist were just part of our lessons....and how to know for certain we don't want evil in our lives. With that....we are better off for what the Narcissist taught us about evil. When we refuse evil and turn to God....Go's is over joyed that we are coming from. We are the prodigal Son....we are walking each other home
      😊😊😊😊😊

    • @KarenMazzola-q5r
      @KarenMazzola-q5r Рік тому

      👍 he’s the narcologist.. MD. Wait, did I spell that right 😊❤

  • @belindaking1362
    @belindaking1362 Рік тому +7

    Walk by faith not by sight. I know i did not do anything to anybody. It was all created by his sorry ego. He has know intelligence if he listened to others. Own your mind.

  • @vodacoma1747
    @vodacoma1747 Рік тому +9

    🌻 Healing is my addiction 🌻

  • @dougr6269
    @dougr6269 Рік тому +5

    Proverbs 4:16: For they cannot sleep unless they do evil, they are robbed of sleep unless they make someone stumble because they eat the bread of wickedness, they drink the wine of violence. But the path of righteousness is like the light of dawn that shines brighter and brighter until the full day.

  • @SeeCSeesCC
    @SeeCSeesCC Рік тому +17

    ❤ I swear I will never undervalue myself again and while I’m doing the interview with others to see where they stand so I always do what’s best for myself and my balance to move forward in my journey I will enjoy my life

  • @balancedplans3007
    @balancedplans3007 Рік тому +2

    Another rock tumbler ? Wow 😮

  • @prunelle9051
    @prunelle9051 Рік тому +6

    Hehehehe ! '' On slap a narc day'' LOL.
    Narcs Backhand Fest.

  • @kimberlyvicars9847
    @kimberlyvicars9847 Рік тому +6

    With trust and guidance I will understand someday. I have no idea what is happening in someone else's space. What exactly am I suppose to be doing? This is what happens when you are toyed with and lose respect for the direction and path I was sent on. Nobody got time for indecisive directions.

  • @humblyrise
    @humblyrise Рік тому +8

    Coach 😂 the ‘digging a hole for them’ point you brought up is freaking hilarious. That brought tears 😂 of laughter to my face literally…..
    Warriors: You want to see a demon get uncomfortable and watch them change the subject real fast.?. Be sly about the way you handle them and they will fear you. (No we don’t care for the fear, but in their head, fear equals respect. Yes it is sick, and you are seeing it clearer every moment.) ❤️‍🔥 Pray for Knowledge, Wisdom, and Understanding along with the Strength to walk in The Holy Spirit.🔥

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +7

    Beeingh in a relationshit
    With A Narccastic
    Prepared me for family
    I don't choose to talk to
    It's heart breaking
    But the males in my family 3rd generation are so unwell &
    I don't care kids or brothers ??
    Omg 2 ppl I never had much to do with
    Thru
    Circumstances
    This channel my 5m toughened me up
    To points I cantveven describe
    🌷♥️🌷

  • @dimondsjewls4236
    @dimondsjewls4236 Рік тому +5

    HAPPY SUNDAY ALL!!

  • @vivianrahman5970
    @vivianrahman5970 Рік тому +5

    Pick b and choose your battles....include the 2bd amendment..

  • @humblyrise
    @humblyrise Рік тому +3

    🎶🎵 RING MY BELLLLL, RING MY BELL 🔔 🎵🎶😅

  • @Gmelonhead
    @Gmelonhead Рік тому +8

    Ouch and thank you for the reminder. Those dang hiccups piled up. Smooth operator now, but dang it, got too cocky and thought I had figured out. God watched out for me. Back in my own lane now.

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +4

    I'm trying but I can't stop observing them 😂

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +4

    Yes yes yes!!!!!

  • @deborahscarlette9524
    @deborahscarlette9524 Рік тому +1

    A thousand years is equal to a day with the Lord.

  • @bonniecraig1316
    @bonniecraig1316 Рік тому +10

    Hi Jesse,, girls in the office and tribe. I just wanted to say that after studying and learning about these things for 3.5 years now. I can sit here in peace and pick everyone of them out. Especially my family members. Before I knew about this I'd be running around, worrying, trying to help everyone, being used, being abused, disrespected, confused, hurt, sad, emotionally drained,, my life was a mess.. Today, after learning everything I can about narcissism, I can sit here alone, totally at peace, my mind is cleared, and the relief from it all is truly amazing. I see things so differently now, my eyes are wide opened. Things are clear, things make sense now. All the blame I was carrying around is gone. Now I can put the blame where it belongs. Something so simple as sitting alone listening to the birds sing makes me smile. The smallest things can make me happy and I appreciate it wall. You know the saying, little things mean a lot, well once your woke up this saying is so true. I watch these narcs in action now. No they can't a and won't get to me again,, hell no. But I watch all of them and everyone of them are a total mess. Their lives are messed up, they have no luck, nothing is going right for them, its a nightmare what I'm seeking. They are totally destroying everything in their lives. Not a day goes by there's something going on, the fights, the arguments, thee hate for people whom don't cater to them. They have no friends, they were angry all the time, nothing makes them happy. They are so miserable but see now I know why?, ITT all makes sense to me, I see karma with them everyday, they don't understand that you can't go around hurting everyone in your path and expect to be rewarded, it doesn't work that way, but they seem to think.otherwise. theey don't understand that they are doing this to themselves. They can't ever have enough, they are never thankful for what they have . its never enough, you can't please any. Of them. I see this. Plain as day, but what can I do, nothing, do you think you can talk some sense into them, hell no, that's why you can't fix narcissists. So I take care of me now. I'm happy with my little things, I feel truly blessed. I'd never want to exchange my life for theirs no matter how' much they have.. I'm happy, they're not. In don't wish a anything bad on them. And its hard to watch but its not in my hands, its in. Todd's hands now. I just had to get oout of the way and thank god for helping me do that. God bless you all.❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @notme4565
      @notme4565 Рік тому +3

      Thank you Bonnie, so many things you covered that I relate to
      Things are so clear now !!!
      things now makes sense !!!
      I totally agree 😊

    • @bree17k22
      @bree17k22 Рік тому +3

      So grateful you are in a safe, peaceful, happy place now. What you shared resonates. We knew what was happening and we tried endlessly to make it better. But it was not for us to do. It’s a gift to have the freedom of our lives back. Enjoy yours. ⛅️

  • @rhonejacobs953
    @rhonejacobs953 Рік тому +9

    Chico why do you keep on telling my story? Thanks you reminding me that I'm on the right path. I believe in myself more than ever before. And thank you for the referrals to the Sean Ryan Clips, and The Royal We.

  • @karenvarner6743
    @karenvarner6743 Рік тому +4

    Jesse is so grateful for all 🖖

  • @aaaalltheway9805
    @aaaalltheway9805 Рік тому +6

    I hope you have a wonderful day yourself Jesse xx thank you

  • @pamelabarone5868
    @pamelabarone5868 Рік тому +1

    Ive been alone healing for 2 years one without seeing him. Thank God

  • @pamelabarone5868
    @pamelabarone5868 Рік тому +1

    They told me its easier to ask for for forgiveness than permission so they dont care at all what they do behind your back and care nothing for you at all its reckless behavior. Instead of coming out and being honest about their intentions because if they told you who they really are you would not want anything to do with them.

  • @FollowingJesus320
    @FollowingJesus320 Рік тому +6

    Now days they have what is called self destruct text and my therapist said that they can also take an email back the same. Talk about enabling the narcissist with technology.

    • @Acceptancetoday
      @Acceptancetoday Рік тому +3

      I have wondered about that….texts to me disappearing….is that what you mean? I so appreciate all new knowledge

  • @notme4565
    @notme4565 Рік тому +7

    Good morning Jesse
    We caught a glimpse of truth and woke up
    Yes, none of this is taken for granted, lessons learned 😊
    Thank you Jesse and the girls in the office.
    I couldn’t be where I’m at without you 😊
    I am seriously grateful

  • @karenmazzola8758
    @karenmazzola8758 Рік тому +4

  • @southernbellerising
    @southernbellerising Рік тому +13

    Good morning Coach, Office Team, & Tribe ☕️☀️ Loved this walk 💖 Rich with golden nuggets ✨ Listening & grateful 🙏🏻 It all resonates … it’s true….this level of detail is what makes this channel so unique. So grateful for Coach & the Office Team! ❤️ Have a good day, Warriors! 🌼🌺🌸🕊🦋

  • @johnchinelli9959
    @johnchinelli9959 Рік тому +3

    Good Morning Coach. 🌄

  • @LilTrunksFr
    @LilTrunksFr Рік тому +6

    Warriors get in a Million views! Thank you for inspiring us to live your life and stop being the narcissist doormat♥️....Right pushed us to the edge and we're done.

  • @detheshorton-tb6ct
    @detheshorton-tb6ct Рік тому +4

    Thank Jessie for something I learned alot of some I never new about of narc and the girl with the video tell them happy mother's day and keep it up for me from libra

  • @videoslibrary
    @videoslibrary Рік тому +6

    We are Champions. Coach Jessie; thank you for Another “bad_ass” walk on the beach 🏝. We Salute ⭐️ You.I have replaced: “Good morning” w/“Good Day”. “Morning” is what someone does, when a loved one passes away.

  • @karenvarner6743
    @karenvarner6743 Рік тому +3

    Agreed

  • @Edens-Rose
    @Edens-Rose Рік тому +2

    Hi Jessie , yes you got this right , “ that sneaky sly grin when they think they have provoked and got away with it , and won against you ,
    I noticed it the other day , when I had this experience,
    It was like my eyes where like a camera lens on full focus ,
    Energy tells a lot aswell ,
    I’m sure everytime I hear those fog horns that go off around you God is giving you confirmation!
    Til next time ,
    🤍💛👑💎

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +4

    Big red flag 2 actually jumped out of tht man I met liked
    Yes
    Reverse Narcology
    Works wonders
    Doesn't stop feelings tht need to be had
    But does wonders for safety 🌷♥️🌷

  • @karenvarner6743
    @karenvarner6743 Рік тому +3

    Thank you 🖖

  • @JH-td4mn
    @JH-td4mn Рік тому +6

    Your message was most welcome today Coach. Awesome advice as always! Love and light Warriors💪🏻❤️🕯️

  • @natashabean8958
    @natashabean8958 Рік тому +2

    This is my favorite ever. Y'all (you and the girls) bring it to the table every time.
    Thank You, Jesus. I will not let Satan sit down with me at my table ever again.
    I'm fixing my picker.

  • @shaunpdaly
    @shaunpdaly Рік тому +1

    You da man Chico !!!!

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +4

    A cross between chicoism and my therapist my students listen

  • @truthlight2816
    @truthlight2816 Рік тому +3

    I had no idea the ladies (I'm younger) in the office did so much. Well thanks. Shout out to sensei and the tribe.

  • @terryleeharrisjr2128
    @terryleeharrisjr2128 Рік тому +3

    Please come get me momma....

  • @JustMe-uw6yd
    @JustMe-uw6yd Рік тому +4

    Love ur picture coach Jesse
    Whts tht swimming
    I'm looking at it with a smallish ph🌷♥️🌷

  • @wolfgang7812
    @wolfgang7812 Рік тому +5

    This is not exactly true! Narcissists love arguments they love circular arguments with logical fallacies; if they can make you look and sound argumentative and aggressive then they have you. If you walk away from the argument they become wounded.

  • @NikaNik-o4c
    @NikaNik-o4c Рік тому +1

    Thanks 4 your help Chico ❤️#NarcSlayer

  • @elanahammer1076
    @elanahammer1076 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Coach for all of your golden nuggets of knowledge. No I am not ready to go move forward with anyone but me and my moral compass. It is not so much that I have grown in using my compass. I believe, others choose to see what they want. In my humble opinion we are all that way.🤔❤🇺🇸

  • @VisitorPrime
    @VisitorPrime Рік тому +4

    100%

  • @natashabean8958
    @natashabean8958 Рік тому +1

    As always, soooo good coach! Amen. And, God bless you and the ladies in the office.

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 Рік тому

    Yes!! After my husband discarded me, he said, " im not easy to handle"
    No shit fool! Easy is the one who opened her legs and house to a married man.
    They deserve each other.
    Thanks Chico for bringing us truth that helps us heal. Ive been alone and healing since May....gonna keep going

  • @covert_warrior
    @covert_warrior Рік тому +3

    I want to wrap you and the girls stones.... wish I had a way to ship it

  • @amyortega9853
    @amyortega9853 Рік тому

    All they want is money they don't care about anything else

  • @masterp5661
    @masterp5661 Рік тому

    Sawshank redemption, A true Man who endured real hell.
    He crawled through a tunnell of sh*t , And came out shinning like a diamond

  • @jesperandersson889
    @jesperandersson889 Рік тому +3

    payne aTTention

  • @anitahedgecock1968
    @anitahedgecock1968 Рік тому +4

    🌹🌿

  • @natashabean8958
    @natashabean8958 Рік тому +1

    12:10 yes! Works everytime! LOL!

  • @onlyonce1707
    @onlyonce1707 Рік тому

    The STARE. Summat like that😄

  • @Healinglove
    @Healinglove Рік тому +6

    Thank you girl's!!🎉❤ We know how hard you're working 💪

  • @jesperandersson889
    @jesperandersson889 Рік тому +2

    voice in the head kindofathing - deprogram everybody...

  • @angelperkin2861
    @angelperkin2861 Рік тому +3

    Good morning can i get a what what🤔🤔🦁🦁

  • @dianafisher1906
    @dianafisher1906 11 місяців тому

    Facts

  • @BMoses-zb9wn
    @BMoses-zb9wn Рік тому +1

    Hey, does the girls in the office have a Amazon list? Cause we appreciate them too for the things they do 👌🏿👍🏿

  • @princebarclay7101
    @princebarclay7101 Рік тому

    Mein Tag war total scheisse aber als ich dich zugehört habe ich musste lachen so ein innerliche Ruhe schön danke schön

  • @soniajoy3727
    @soniajoy3727 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂 it s like lets play pretend 😂😂😂

  • @joshuadean548
    @joshuadean548 Рік тому

    I have BPD and am trying to be a better person it is hard i am figuring it out i read the new testament and it's like a guidebook to be better but I also have challenges by narcissistic people who target me im trying to see that they are lessons to practice what I read and i try to regulate my emotions i use the breathing exercises constantly

  • @CattBlakk-t3u
    @CattBlakk-t3u Рік тому +2

    Oh yes I'm hard to deal with, hard to communicate with hard to get along with hard to understand hard to decipher in that I have a very wide vocabulary and I'm not afraid to use it as well as being a very strong Taipei temperament in that I don't take any BS I don't care for from who or for what reasons... It took my ex both of us being Indian by-the-way Apache and Navajo as well as half-german each of us we have boiling blood and the holy Spirit is the one who has really helped me to get through two years of severe severe abuse from him. He tried to kill me. Just know folks that would Jesse is saying is entirely correct and also know that if you don't control your mind Satan will or the world will or your flesh will and our flesh is at enmaty with God.... Our flesh is not saved, born again. My choosing to rely on the holy Spirit when under narcissistic abusive attack b from my ex or from my mother and this has been going on since I can remember at three years old when the first incident was that I could recall and for years I heard I don't understand why you're so hard to communicate with why you're so stubborn why you just think you know everything and you have a sub superiority complex and blah blah blah and the projecting has been insane I finally have realized that I was a neglected kid in some ways because my mother was always at work and when she wasn't working she was having mental breakdowns and cleaning incessantly and just starting in on me for whatever reason which would usually be because I needed food or clothes or something like that you know I was a teenager I was very young anyway folks listen these people will project onto you absolutely everything that they are guilty of so take notes have fun write it all down get every bit of wise counsel you can from Jessie I started listening about maybe six or eight months ago and I have to tell you folks that he has probably been through at least equal... It really sucks to suffer at the hands of others especially those who you are told and raised to believe that they love you but you know the information that's available do us now so easily could have helped me back then in a big way and stead of them pointing a finger at me telling me I was a juvenile delinquent well okay I didn't want to go to school of course cuz people are always giving me s*** for some reasonand I had a friend who is much older than myself who had kids my age she let me stay with her for two to three weeks at a time my mother would start in blame me yet I was the juvenile delinquent for just standing up and saying all I want is for you to hang out with me and give me some attention and stop trying to make me feel guilty for the fact that you were to pay for the needs that we have. I hid it beneath your clothes and food and made absolutely everything and kicked out of the house at the age of 17 which is the first time I was homeless. Then because of my mother back in 2016 I was homeless for 18 months which was extremely traumatizing and I felt something snap and part of my brain I had to teach myself how to cook all over again after that 18 months and I couldn't stand inside I was so used to being outdoors that I felt clostrophobic inside being a hotel or a large house or whatever have you I did not like to

  • @GoddessYvonne3
    @GoddessYvonne3 Рік тому

    Sick n tired of it...Chico University when can we register?💕❤️💕

  • @soniajoy3727
    @soniajoy3727 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂 nope

  • @apubanirjee2139
    @apubanirjee2139 Рік тому +6

    👉 SO , 👈
    👇
    " THE NEAREST TO MY HEART
    IS A
    KING WITHOUT A KINGDOM
    AND A POOR MAN
    WHO DOES NOT KNOW
    HOW TO BEG " .
    🍷
    🍸 🌻 🍸 .
    KHALIL GIBRAN
    ❤ A SPLENDID CONTENT ❤ ,
    🍷 DEAR CHICO 🍷 ,
    BY
    YOU .

    👍 .

  • @surfshack2
    @surfshack2 Рік тому +1

    You can't "confirm or deny". You said it backwards that's why you forgot confirm. 😆

  • @bree17k22
    @bree17k22 Рік тому +3

    Brilliant Coach! How you know what you know boggles the mind! Grateful for you, your wisdom & your TEAM’s dedication & hard work. Warriors, let’s celebrate ourselves, our freedom from what was and our peace now. Our life is for nobody else to “try to” lead for us (they failed). Our life is for us to live.🌤️

  • @balancedplans3007
    @balancedplans3007 Рік тому +3

    Thanks girls! 😊

  • @anitahedgecock1968
    @anitahedgecock1968 Рік тому +1

    🌻🌿