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In today's era of fake feminism, billi marna becomes more essential. Otherwise whole family suffers if someone marries a papa ki pari & angel Priya nautanki. 😂
Lucky that I am from mahrashtra. Got married 35 years back, when the trend of going half half on wedding expenses had just started. Today it's a regular affair atleast in urban areas. Kharcha half, mehman, mejban sab equal.
The previous generation women didn't have anything to show for so they try to create a nuisance about themselves by making the life of the young married women harder by one way or the other. You'd think that since they suffered a lot in their marriages, they'd have some empathy but that's not the case. Instead they do the same nonsense and try to justify it by saying that since they had to suffer, we too have to suffer. If only they let go of the bitterness, the younger generation is ready to get along with them because we actually need some strong, nonjudgmental maternal figures in our life and we also understand how hard their lives were. That kind of support system is very necessary but sadly, only some lucky girls get this.
Lack of empathy for working women, more in mils who haven't worked outside their homes. But educated women , I being one have decided not to expect much from dils as far as house work and custom following is concerned.
@@swatiparekhjithis! I told my mother not to interfere in SIL's life too much. Brother and SIL live separate but nearby so this helps and actually them living separately is a good thing for me too because I can visit my parents anytime without feeling like I'm interfering too much into SIL's household and making her subject to more chores. This keeps the bitterness away from all side. Overall everyone is happy with his kind of arrangement.
You are absolutely right and now they get access of mobiles also so they get a lots of time and lots of same minded people to gossip with...so much propegenda are creating by this kind of MILs and in some cases SILs also
Basically his idea is to break things into fragments. Looking at in depth, only 5-10% of india resinates to this idea. A country where bonding has become most important thing in society, this guy is cleverly cashing in the changes we are going through. One basic thing he doesn’t understand and will never because he Has to restrict himself to a framework. Mark my words when india goes to war with china or pakistan : people like him will have no value in society. And i bet he doesn’t have the mental ability to understand what i am talking about.
Maja aa gaya!! Sirji- I am so glad your authentic practical video on why in-laws should live separately from the new couple got a nomination. Congratulations 🎉. You are giving such practical advice on how to avoid kalesh. So true that people have toxicity in their own lives and then cannot allow new couple to be happy. Why do in laws and parents think that they have a right to interfere in household of newly weds. Also newly weds these days are much older ( not teenagers getting married anymore) and have access to all the information online. So newly weds have their own dreams and how to solve their situations based on what they want. Thank you for such authentic, practical, honest educational and informational insight. Syllabus change karo 👏👏
Sir ne video bana bhi dia to aap soche wo kya sikhayenge....art of living....and wo aapko khudko lana padega zindagi me....werna sun kar kuch ni hone wala... Never do work at cost of health...never ever even if ur package is 1 cr These crores wont be able to repair ur broken health Thats it This is the art... Now we have 2 apply this ... Which we never do😊😂😢
@@robinieoragar 1 cr ka package milega to 25 lakh k do employees work from home secretly rakh lo phir bhi 50 lakh bachega😂. Are bhai 20 hazar mai kaam karva rahe hai 15 ghante 😂vo mar rahe hai sucide kar k zyadatar.
@@wolfgang4429 she just assumed I am a dumb donkey who have money and gold She wanted to tell all the relatives that the gold and money I have is hers and I have borrowed from her for marriage I didn't play along with her terms she sabotaged the marriage arrangements She won for the day and lost her brother forever
sadi ko 6 + years ho gaye thik se intimate hone ko ni mila because kahi saas sasur away na sunn le , bacche ko sulane ke baad kum ate hai thoda pass bt ab to wo bhi ni milta bamecause saas sasur sath Rehne lage hsi, jabki unka ghar hai same city me , it is hampering our married life , maa baap le ate hi husband aise anjan ban jata hai ki jaise ye baccha jo aya hai wo to guruji ke dan diye huye mango khane se aya hai , intimacy kya Sirf baccha lene ke liye hota hai , apne mental health ke liye bhi to hota hai , pati ka samajh ata hai ki maa baap hai , jao hume intimate hota hai aj bol ni sakte bt haad hai maa baap ki ki wo bhi to the na is age me , wo kyu ni samajhte ki raat ko akele chhor de is couple ko thoda life ye bhi enjoy kare , sab matlabi hai , aur ek to ye 3 bhk flat , ek room ki away dusre room me clear ati hai , to husband bhi sharma sharmi me kuch ni karte , pata ni kyu ki shadi , aise logo ko apne beto ki shadi hi ni karwani chahiye
Rather than ranting here, why dont have a healthy discussion with your husband and tell your concern? Going back, what was the actual reason you married this person OR your parents chose this man and you said yes? Is it because he was a good deal then and now you realise the deal is not that good? I suggest you to introspect and discuss with your husband. Whats happening might be a outcome, roots might be somewhere else
Stop assuming that women consider marriage as a deal and marry seeing the guy's money..The problem is men don't have any idea about such issues that may crop up after marriage and they don't utter a word in front of parents...so such situations can be avoided only if the the husbands parents realise such things themselves and give the couple their due space..everything cannot be ensured at the time of marriage..may be at the time of marriage the in laws were in that different house in the same city..kya pata tha yahan aake pareshan karenge..healthy discussion won't be fruitful if the husband doesn't have guts to tell parents to leave his house and stay in their own house which no son is ready to do..so it's not about discussion but guts to take that action.@@VikasSinghMinimalist
I'm laughing a loud after listening to this. 😂 This is so true in my case, literally i was wondering why changes started to happen suddenly after my marriage. But it is conditioning of everyone about marriage is the problem. This is very eye opener for today's society.
I am North Indian who live in south India and I have seen that.. in the couples from north India every man wants to go back to hometown but no wife want to go back.. because of the reasons you are telling. Ur right girls are leaving cities/country just because of this.
100% true I have seen these girls/women never want to go home town or village it goes same with our community once married they started making planning tk move away so that they can leave freedom
Looks like common phenomenon in North Indian weddings.. in Maharashtra we follow muhurt and no such barat nautanki is followed. Some people follow barat after wedding while going home.
@@adityakamra5679 you proved the point by not knowing difference between Madras and Maharashtra.. obviously you must be busy in some nonsense nautanki 😂😏
Excellent message, Amit Sanga,ji, You really know a lot and give us the underlying principle, Billi marna was a big thing,and even girls were taught to keep their mother in law on her toes, But genuine ness and honesty wins in the end,🎉🎉
Rightly pointed out by sir But on the contrary I knew a very decent couple who got their son married and gave them the space, didn’t interfere much, did not force for karwa chauth or other small festivals etc but to my shock the bahu found a way to blame in laws saying that they are ignoring us, humko toh puchte he nahi hai, kuch dena lena nahi kiya , Hume family se cut kar dia 😮 I was stunned to see this behavior and I understood that there are all types of women who brain wash their men, they will find any small thing and turn it against parents It’s not necessary that parents or in laws are always bad. Most people in general are too selfish there days This is the new trend sir and you must also make a video on how new couple will just cut out families no matter how nice parents are
So sad to hear this. Was the girl housewife or working? Working women usually get relief from non interference of MIL... But again, everyone's personality is different.
@@nothanks0009 Rightly said that lady wasn’t working I realized that it all depends on the women and what environment or culture she has seen growing up Some women want too much show off and gifts and importance Some simply want to live peacefully
Very nice sir, old traditions of dulha doing tanta at the time of varmala is not going. Even in a love marriage, which my daughter had, my son in law observed all these traditions and made us feel sad as girls parents for many years.
Thanks for the video, this problem was common in my generation of "millennials". Looks like it still exists in newer generation. It's silly and an "attempt" at power-play, but does not really help anyone. Everyone should remember that it's always been about "Survival of the Adaptable", not the fittest.
Sir aapke videos bahaut achche hote hain. Par reach bahaut kam hai. Agar aap google ke thru advertising karwaein to reach kafi badh jaega. Ismein aapka aur public sabka fayda hai.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sir mai apko 2 different case or batati hun Case1 ek ladka ek company mai director hai or family mai father ko parkinson hai wo unka dhyan rakhtai hai or gurgaou mai family ke sath rehtai hai fir ladki bhi unhone acche padi likhi dekhi jo same work profile mai the or ladki ko bhi koi problem nahi thi joint family se lekin bad mai pata nahi kiya hua ki sasa ki expections bhaut thi bahu se fir ladka ladki ne ek full time servant bhi rakh liya taki unke father ki dekh bhal ho sake because ladka or ladki ko time nahi milta tha ek dusre ke liye fir bhi sas or nand ko akal nahi thi or wo kalesh shuru ho gaye. Expectations ke chaltai. Lekin wo sab sath mai to rehtai hai but gahr mai sab alag alag jinko ma bap ko acche bacche miltai hai wo un baccho ke sath aisa kyu kertai hai.
I'm just new to your channel and this all are actually so relatable issues actually I'm also one of victims of this thanks for sharing our society actually needs this types of topics and talk conversation in real life Atleast we can share this all to so called in laws 😅😂
Dr Amitji, Thnks fr being so knd n considerate 2wards one n all, wit all ur ❤ly Videos n d true sharing which enlightens one's lives without having much 2 live fr but d knd ways 2 b shared wit true luv n care without hurting one's feelings is all wat i cionsider ur true gr8ness of life, ever giving wit a true understanding n knowledge without any demands n pressure makes it all fr our ❤ly genex to enable them live a heart full of contentment n pleasure without bearing any pain or having 2 undergo any struggles, which they will hv 2 walk their path full of successes is all wat i hv 2 say 2 u. Thanks a ton. ❤😊 n best wishes 2 you. I remain,
Visiting bahu ke liye bhi kuchh content बनाइए सिर जी। I am scared of vositing my passive aggressive saas when visiting ससुराल 😢😢 give some tips how to avoid taunts
Sir pls Pareena 68 affordable per video banao. 5 months ho gaye. Abhi tak kuch construction start nhi hua. Na hi inka EC aaya hai. Pls make good video. Howa this builder have. And will it deliver in timeframe.
Very good. One should be broad seeing to the modern trends. But one thing I would like to know is what will happen in case of single parent? Where will the mother go once the son gets married?😊
the same could be asked about girl's widowed mother. the answer is simple. Stay nearby like in the same building or society. But no matter what, the newly married should be allowed to maintain a separate household of their own.
Absolutely true. My parents situation is same, DILs parents stays with her as her 3 brothers left them and shifted abroad way back… even when my parents visited their response was very cold even suggested ki ek room flat kiraye par le lo😐😐. Now 2 of her brothers visit India with family stay with them and we 2 sis and one bro hv no connection at all. Talk only tho our brother and never addressed this topic because we know ki uske pass jawab nahi hai. By the way we live in same city NCR. Mummy papa ko hum 2 bahne 1 bhai sambhal rahe hai … she not even asked one how and where they are and my mother supported her to complete her education, during pregnancy and child birth but all gone in drain….. vajah sirf ye ki my parents are very seedhe sade and never asked why her parents staying to long and left their space in their sons house…… ab iss experience se mai kya sabak lu
Ye sabak hai ki aapne ladki kameeni chuni hai. Aapke bhai ke bhagya mai ye hi likha hua hai. Jab tak aapke bhai stand nahi lenge tab tak kuch ho mahi sakta
Sir me 2024 ko maan gaya aap aaj life me freedom aur liberty ki baat kar rahe rahe aur acharya prashant latest video me shadi ki baat kar rahe hai !!!! Yeh saal kamal ka hai !!
Ek dum sahi sir ....😅aaj kal barat aati rahe log kha kar chale jate hai ....fir sirf dulha Dulhan and ghar wale rah jate hai late toh.....meri shaadi mai toh 9 baje tak khana start nahi huaa bahut log bin khana khaye chale gaye😢
Sir ji bahut sare points hein. In laws bhi smary bahu ko poori freedom but household bahu k jimme . And modern style advanced mantelity show. But rituals poore. Bahu ki care poori farmaish bhi poori. But saare festivals, birthday anniversary sb karne padenge ji first nahi jub tuk patents zinda he . Aur to aur vrat k udyapan har udyapan par 25, 000. Minimum kuonki 16 ladies ko khana, clothes, shriangar aur saas and beti ka alag .kharcha khud karte hein uske baad pay karo ji ye demand nahi he ye aapki duty he .mana karo to ji hum gussa he aapse. Damad kahta he me kar deta hun saas ki taraf se parents ko nahi batana Batao ause in laws bhi hein , bahu ka dhyan poora rakhte hein but rituals terrible. Mayke nahi jaana yahin enjoy karo foregn trip bhi even and restaurant week end and swiggy zomato sub . Bus parents k month end for 1hour. Saal me 2 din k liye max. Mutlub bahu ko inlwas k hisab se chalna he fully. Aur bataun Rajsthan me toaaj bhi educated families me bhi bahu ko ghunghat nikalna hi he and neeche patre par choki par bethna he barabar me nahi sasur k samne nahi aana , kabhi emergency ho to back me aa k beth jaao bus. Neighbors se no talking at all. Otherwise jhagda. Ye reality he . Doctor bhi he na to bhi ghar me and society me lahanga , odni compulsory job ne saari only. And relatives me ghunghat aaj bhi me to roj dekhti hun . Kaam chahe apne apne sub karte hein, maid bhi . But family traditions, culture follow. Log to munh par crticise aap avoid karo but they try to compell. Sangwan ji aapke haryana ka to pata nahi Rajasyhan me aaj bhi bada rituals ka ,society ka pressure on middle class. Rich peole ki baat nahi unka to sub maaf. Baaki mere jase to beti k inlwas se distance only message occasionally. Becuse of heavy rituals, nominal kar deti hun naaraz hote hein hote rahe kya karun . No conversations.
If boy's parents don't go to their newly married son's house, that space is permanently occupied by girl's parents on the pretext of taking care of their pregnant daughter and then new born and then dropping and picking up kids from school etc. Due to this son's parents become just guests to his house and he himself becomes Ghar jamai in his own house. Hence, in order not to let in laws settle in house, it becomes imperative for parents to visit their son frequently. Today's girls are very smart. They keep away in laws by taking frequent panga with them and thus indirectly stops their visit. Later, she brings her parents to stay with them... coz she too earns money and may be she is the joint owner of the flat.
This needs to break. 1 year no one comes. Then every one is welcome. If wife is being helped what is problem to husband. If they stay nearby then no one needs to stay in anyone house
DIL mom n her family side can take better care during vunerable time of post partum.. inlaws jst come to judge n thopofy the jabardasti ke rituals. I agree k 1st year none of the family members should distrb..n majority of girls family avoid visiting unless she herself calls them to stay with her..bt boys side family think it as their birthright to jst distrb the couple jst for checking what they do..how they live n then they make mudda out of everything. Bahu subh 9 baje uthi he ye sbko dikhta he.. ye nahi dikhta k rat ko 3 baje to uska kam khatam hua he. All I want to say is lets nt judge post partum phase..womans body and a new baby needs extreme care n love which I believe cant be provided by narcissistic inlaws.
@@Mahikasharma72837looks like a simple yet very complex situation because no-one's family wants to be side lined. I agree bride's mother can better take care of her during pregnancy and post pregnancy phase. So, here all these valuable points need to be discussed before marriage else post marriage blame game would start endlessly without any fruitful output with time wastage and mental blockage
When girls parents come they don't force their opinions on damaad. Damad still lives peacefully. Buy when boys parents come they start treating the girl like a bonded labour. That is the difference. Even from your comment you can see yourself. In order to prevent the girls parents from settling the boys parents have to come. Just see at the thought preocess
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Asli ghar vaise maika hota h....property me hissa...or mauj ki life...Maa baap ka sarr pe hath ❤...lucky are those girls jinka husband and SAS sasur bhi ache mil gye ho. Or ek baat shadi k baad dono hie ladka ladki ko kuch saal algg ghar leke rehna chyie...taaki bond strong bn ske..!
Hello sir. You are right. My Husband was late very late n in laws. In fact we missed the mahurat of shaddi. It was really disappointed. I still remember. N we girl side suffered a lot in front of guest
Sir aisa bhi ho raha h ,ki beti ki sasural me kaun kya khayega ,kab khayega ,kitna khayega ,ye sab bhi bahu ki maa decide kar rahi h ,beti ki sasural walo per control karo ,aur nahi Mane to false cases karke Paisa lo ,interference by ladki ki mother and. Behan ,har jagah ye sab nahi h ,per kuch logo ke sath ye bhi ho raha h ,and it's true ,
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Guruji, How to ask her about past relationships before marriage ?? Should a boy be fine with past relationships??😮😮
@@MayankSharma-l9oyes you should ask!!
@@MayankSharma-l9o he won't make video on this issue
In today's era of fake feminism, billi marna becomes more essential. Otherwise whole family suffers if someone marries a papa ki pari & angel Priya nautanki. 😂
Is it ok to ask the girl to get hymenoplasty before marriage if she tells that she is not virgin
But when i want a virgin
After reading thumbnail, i hate my dirty mind😂
But, message is so practical and clear😊
😂
Porn or double meaning jobs Kam dekh .
And you should really hate your mind and thinking .
Same 😂😂
🙂🙂
bhai bhai main samaj gyaa p ss y
Lucky that I am from mahrashtra. Got married 35 years back, when the trend of going half half on wedding expenses had just started. Today it's a regular affair atleast in urban areas. Kharcha half, mehman, mejban sab equal.
Yes true, I am also Maharashtrian, No dowry, no show off..Best culture
@@Prit2004very true... I lived in pune for 5 years, and simplicity in marriage was the one thing i really liked a lot in maharashtra.
I wish har ghar mein aap jaisa 1 member ho. Bhagwan aapko lambi umar de 🙏
Marriages in our Indian families are very stressful...in fact we make it complicated
Excellent take on this issue.
I was lucky 25 years back to have a mother in law as you have described.
The previous generation women didn't have anything to show for so they try to create a nuisance about themselves by making the life of the young married women harder by one way or the other. You'd think that since they suffered a lot in their marriages, they'd have some empathy but that's not the case. Instead they do the same nonsense and try to justify it by saying that since they had to suffer, we too have to suffer. If only they let go of the bitterness, the younger generation is ready to get along with them because we actually need some strong, nonjudgmental maternal figures in our life and we also understand how hard their lives were. That kind of support system is very necessary but sadly, only some lucky girls get this.
Lack of empathy for working women, more in mils who haven't worked outside their homes. But educated women , I being one have decided not to expect much from dils as far as house work and custom following is concerned.
@@swatiparekhjithis! I told my mother not to interfere in SIL's life too much. Brother and SIL live separate but nearby so this helps and actually them living separately is a good thing for me too because I can visit my parents anytime without feeling like I'm interfering too much into SIL's household and making her subject to more chores. This keeps the bitterness away from all side. Overall everyone is happy with his kind of arrangement.
@@swatiparekhji Well said indeed, Ma'am
@@nothanks0009 Good point
That is why marriage will die gradually. No one wants to compromise.
Biggest problem in India is older woman is free, no job so lots of time for useless things.
In the west, woman are busy until 65 years of age.
You are absolutely right and now they get access of mobiles also so they get a lots of time and lots of same minded people to gossip with...so much propegenda are creating by this kind of MILs and in some cases SILs also
You are right on that
Basically his idea is to break things into fragments. Looking at in depth, only 5-10% of india resinates to this idea. A country where bonding has become most important thing in society, this guy is cleverly cashing in the changes we are going through.
One basic thing he doesn’t understand and will never because he Has to restrict himself to a framework.
Mark my words when india goes to war with china or pakistan : people like him will have no value in society.
And i bet he doesn’t have the mental ability to understand what i am talking about.
tho tera gher pados wali ne संभाला h kya uncal mummy kys kr rahi thi uslass
True bro
Maja aa gaya!!
Sirji- I am so glad your authentic practical video on why in-laws should live separately from the new couple got a nomination. Congratulations 🎉.
You are giving such practical advice on how to avoid kalesh.
So true that people have toxicity in their own lives and then cannot allow new couple to be happy.
Why do in laws and parents think that they have a right to interfere in household of newly weds. Also newly weds these days are much older ( not teenagers getting married anymore) and have access to all the information online.
So newly weds have their own dreams and how to solve their situations based on what they want.
Thank you for such authentic, practical, honest educational and informational insight.
Syllabus change karo 👏👏
Couples ko privacy milni jaruri hai
25 year old IIT IIM Committed suicide due to work pressure, Bhot work pressure hai sir, plz make video on how to deal with this
He is good at breaking society, except the peaceful community. Lol
Sir ne video bana bhi dia to aap soche wo kya sikhayenge....art of living....and wo aapko khudko lana padega zindagi me....werna sun kar kuch ni hone wala...
Never do work at cost of health...never ever even if ur package is 1 cr
These crores wont be able to repair ur broken health
Thats it
This is the art...
Now we have 2 apply this ...
Which we never do😊😂😢
@@robinieor Same brother I truly believe this not to compromise health , even I rejected some offers due to inhuman work conditions!!!!✌️
Do Sudarshan kriya. You can learn it in art of living happiness program. It can reduce stress significantly and help you increase your energy levels
@@robinieoragar 1 cr ka package milega to 25 lakh k do employees work from home secretly rakh lo phir bhi 50 lakh bachega😂. Are bhai 20 hazar mai kaam karva rahe hai 15 ghante 😂vo mar rahe hai sucide kar k zyadatar.
Todays billi are genuiely smart
I have seen stray cats confronting stray dogs 😂
My sister in law made a mess in our marriage
With in 3 months she is out of my husband's life though we stay in the same city
We are happy now
Are baap re. What was the reason? According to you what is the reason for this in society what should do for the solution in this type of matter?
@@wolfgang4429 she just assumed I am a dumb donkey who have money and gold
She wanted to tell all the relatives that the gold and money I have is hers and I have borrowed from her for marriage
I didn't play along with her terms she sabotaged the marriage arrangements
She won for the day and lost her brother forever
Meri Wife b sun Rahi thi yeh sab. Itna sach b nahi bolna tha Guruji 😢😢 I hope she becomes your fan one day 😅❤
Ekdum practical baatein hai aur bitter truth😂❤❤❤great Guru 👍
sadi ko 6 + years ho gaye thik se intimate hone ko ni mila because kahi saas sasur away na sunn le , bacche ko sulane ke baad kum ate hai thoda pass bt ab to wo bhi ni milta bamecause saas sasur sath Rehne lage hsi, jabki unka ghar hai same city me , it is hampering our married life , maa baap le ate hi husband aise anjan ban jata hai ki jaise ye baccha jo aya hai wo to guruji ke dan diye huye mango khane se aya hai , intimacy kya Sirf baccha lene ke liye hota hai , apne mental health ke liye bhi to hota hai , pati ka samajh ata hai ki maa baap hai , jao hume intimate hota hai aj bol ni sakte bt haad hai maa baap ki ki wo bhi to the na is age me , wo kyu ni samajhte ki raat ko akele chhor de is couple ko thoda life ye bhi enjoy kare , sab matlabi hai , aur ek to ye 3 bhk flat , ek room ki away dusre room me clear ati hai , to husband bhi sharma sharmi me kuch ni karte , pata ni kyu ki shadi , aise logo ko apne beto ki shadi hi ni karwani chahiye
Get intimate with your hubby and be loud as fu*k. Agar sharam hogi to elderly couple will leave.
Nice idea @@divineray7822
Work pressure daal de and bache ki responsibility
Rather than ranting here, why dont have a healthy discussion with your husband and tell your concern? Going back, what was the actual reason you married this person OR your parents chose this man and you said yes? Is it because he was a good deal then and now you realise the deal is not that good? I suggest you to introspect and discuss with your husband. Whats happening might be a outcome, roots might be somewhere else
Stop assuming that women consider marriage as a deal and marry seeing the guy's money..The problem is men don't have any idea about such issues that may crop up after marriage and they don't utter a word in front of parents...so such situations can be avoided only if the the husbands parents realise such things themselves and give the couple their due space..everything cannot be ensured at the time of marriage..may be at the time of marriage the in laws were in that different house in the same city..kya pata tha yahan aake pareshan karenge..healthy discussion won't be fruitful if the husband doesn't have guts to tell parents to leave his house and stay in their own house which no son is ready to do..so it's not about discussion but guts to take that action.@@VikasSinghMinimalist
I'm laughing a loud after listening to this. 😂
This is so true in my case, literally i was wondering why changes started to happen suddenly after my marriage.
But it is conditioning of everyone about marriage is the problem.
This is very eye opener for today's society.
Aapka Gyan colleges mein padhana chahiye... Moment of Truth sirji.
Learning : Avoid first Holi, Diwali, New Year etc.
I am North Indian who live in south India and I have seen that.. in the couples from north India every man wants to go back to hometown but no wife want to go back.. because of the reasons you are telling. Ur right girls are leaving cities/country just because of this.
100% true I have seen these girls/women never want to go home town or village it goes same with our community once married they started making planning tk move away so that they can leave freedom
Well said, get rid of old sadistic mentalities
Tables have turned for sure. Actually, ना लड़की ना लडका, बिना वजह नखरे करने का जमाना गया ❤❤ "Sargi" by dear mother in law for karwachauth.
Sirji aap great ho.....bahut gajab content hota hai aapka....bahut seekhne ko milta hai.
Kya baat hai guruji ekdum nishaney par laga hai teer itna unique topic koi matlab koi soch bhi nahi sakta😊
Looks like common phenomenon in North Indian weddings.. in Maharashtra we follow muhurt and no such barat nautanki is followed. Some people follow barat after wedding while going home.
Its not nautanki its out culture if we say shit about your madrasi culture u will be mad
@@raghavsridhar seriously they can only dance, drink and show-off money.. this is what they call culture 😂😂 no wonder why no intellectuals in north
@@adityakamra5679 you proved the point by not knowing difference between Madras and Maharashtra.. obviously you must be busy in some nonsense nautanki 😂😏
@@itsvpk11😂😂😂😂😂
Love how you're deep in touch with the GEN-Z LINGO! XD Artisan bread XDXD
Your thumbnail is more darker than night sir😂😂😂
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That's what I thought
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Please make video on that IIT IIM person who commited suicide. Thank you sir.
Very nice sir ji, beti bachaao-beti padhaao-beti dhakaao (from home and property) par bhi video banaaiye sir ji
Sir ji aapka video dekhe bina mera din nai nikalta…aapke sare videos knowledge or wid ka complete combination hote hai😊
Excellent message, Amit Sanga,ji,
You really know a lot and give us the underlying principle,
Billi marna was a big thing,and even girls were taught to keep their mother in law on her toes,
But genuine ness and honesty wins in the end,🎉🎉
Perfect advice 👍🏻! Superb ! 👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🥳🙏🏻
Excellent topic,discussion n solution. Pls make video for senior citizen 60+ man n women. What to do,how to do etc etc.🙏
Madam volunteer start spending time with people ur age join yoga be as independent as possible the family will respect u
Love❤from Shimla guruji ..you are king of kings
Sir i am lucky because we stayed in diffrent state for job so i never had any big fights 😅
Really lucky ❤
No one is telling this anywhere,u tube brings this up.good job
Rightly pointed out by sir
But on the contrary I knew a very decent couple who got their son married and gave them the space, didn’t interfere much, did not force for karwa chauth or other small festivals etc but to my shock the bahu found a way to blame in laws saying that they are ignoring us, humko toh puchte he nahi hai, kuch dena lena nahi kiya , Hume family se cut kar dia 😮
I was stunned to see this behavior and I understood that there are all types of women who brain wash their men, they will find any small thing and turn it against parents
It’s not necessary that parents or in laws are always bad.
Most people in general are too selfish there days
This is the new trend sir and you must also make a video on how new couple will just cut out families no matter how nice parents are
exceptions are 1% , but 99% saas ka bad , devil , controlling , authoritative
So sad to hear this. Was the girl housewife or working? Working women usually get relief from non interference of MIL... But again, everyone's personality is different.
That is why marriage will die gradually. No one wants to compromise.
@@nothanks0009
Rightly said that lady wasn’t working
I realized that it all depends on the women and what environment or culture she has seen growing up
Some women want too much show off and gifts and importance
Some simply want to live peacefully
Aap bahut pratcal baat karte hein ,Great....🎉🎉🎉🎉
Very nice sir, old traditions of dulha doing tanta at the time of varmala is not going. Even in a love marriage, which my daughter had, my son in law observed all these traditions and made us feel sad as girls parents for many years.
Thanks for the video, this problem was common in my generation of "millennials". Looks like it still exists in newer generation. It's silly and an "attempt" at power-play, but does not really help anyone. Everyone should remember that it's always been about "Survival of the Adaptable", not the fittest.
Very aptly said sir. A great message in the video also. Thanks for sharing.
سچ اور درست فرمایا 🙏
Sargi is the word .......
Sir aapke videos bahaut achche hote hain. Par reach bahaut kam hai. Agar aap google ke thru advertising karwaein to reach kafi badh jaega. Ismein aapka aur public sabka fayda hai.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Best advice by Guruji
Very Good Amitji thank you
hats off sir 👏 this society need more you ❤
Kaun kya khayega aur kya pehneyga ? Who will decide? Its individual thought process ?
Thank fully jo aaj sas sasur hai wo late 90's ke hai jo job kari hai, mobile chala ti hai, they are not like saas of 70's or 80's
Billi turned Sherni, is an interesting lines. 😅 it's true
Loved the sentence,aaj billi sherni hai,billi nahi😂
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Very Very interested video.
Full of entertainment and deep message
Sir mai apko 2 different case or batati hun
Case1 ek ladka ek company mai director hai or family mai father ko parkinson hai wo unka dhyan rakhtai hai or gurgaou mai family ke sath rehtai hai fir ladki bhi unhone acche padi likhi dekhi jo same work profile mai the or ladki ko bhi koi problem nahi thi joint family se lekin bad mai pata nahi kiya hua ki sasa ki expections bhaut thi bahu se fir ladka ladki ne ek full time servant bhi rakh liya taki unke father ki dekh bhal ho sake because ladka or ladki ko time nahi milta tha ek dusre ke liye fir bhi sas or nand ko akal nahi thi or wo kalesh shuru ho gaye. Expectations ke chaltai. Lekin wo sab sath mai to rehtai hai but gahr mai sab alag alag jinko ma bap ko acche bacche miltai hai wo un baccho ke sath aisa kyu kertai hai.
I'm just new to your channel and this all are actually so relatable issues actually I'm also one of victims of this thanks for sharing our society actually needs this types of topics and talk conversation in real life
Atleast we can share this all to so called in laws 😅😂
thanks sir for addressing women's issue ❤😢🎉😊
Suryavansham : billi maari h kabhi😅😅
Sir, m kuch aur he soch raha tha😅😅
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@@underratedidiot4568Mai b kuch aur hi sochta tha 😂
same bhai!!! m bhi
Same here
Mai bhi 😂
Really liked ur content sir..hope ppl will understand .but some husbands will never
Dr Amitji,
Thnks fr being so knd n considerate 2wards one n all, wit all ur ❤ly Videos n d true sharing which enlightens one's lives without having much 2 live fr but d knd ways 2 b shared wit true luv n care without hurting one's feelings is all wat i cionsider ur true gr8ness of life, ever giving wit a true understanding n knowledge without any demands n pressure makes it all fr our ❤ly genex to enable them live a heart full of contentment n pleasure without bearing any pain or having 2 undergo any struggles, which they will hv 2 walk their path full of successes is all wat i hv 2 say 2 u.
Thanks a ton.
❤😊 n best wishes 2 you.
I remain,
Iits not new things.....it's started from past 10-12 years that bride side starred Buffett before barat coming
Visiting bahu ke liye bhi kuchh content बनाइए सिर जी। I am scared of vositing my passive aggressive saas when visiting ससुराल 😢😢 give some tips how to avoid taunts
Sir pls Pareena 68 affordable per video banao. 5 months ho gaye. Abhi tak kuch construction start nhi hua. Na hi inka EC aaya hai. Pls make good video. Howa this builder have. And will it deliver in timeframe.
Very interesting video.
😂😂😂 सच में सर, मुझे भी पहले त्योहारों पर ऐसा ही लगता था कि हे भगवान कहां शादी हो गई।
Same is the case in Pakistan. This problem is in entire sub continent.
Very nice and unique video and v practical knowledge
Guruji bahut bahut respect sirji❤❤❤❤❤
Sir
There is no attitude in Buddhist marriage. Pl attend it once. So smooth and so simple. No dowry.
Sargi is the word during karwa chauth
Waah Sir Ji Waah
Anand Aa Gaya
Very good. One should be broad seeing to the modern trends. But one thing I would like to know is what will happen in case of single parent? Where will the mother go once the son gets married?😊
I think the son should go after marriage because ghar to maa ka hoga. Agal bagal mein ghar kar lo.
the same could be asked about girl's widowed mother. the answer is simple. Stay nearby like in the same building or society. But no matter what, the newly married should be allowed to maintain a separate household of their own.
Congratulations sir 🎉….hope your video get nominate….sir important videos ..sikhanewali free kardo.
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa 🔥🔥🔥
What a good video 👍🏻
Eye opening video 🔥
I am agree with you
But if newly we'd couple try to control every act
Then what will you do?
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Absolutely true. My parents situation is same, DILs parents stays with her as her 3 brothers left them and shifted abroad way back… even when my parents visited their response was very cold even suggested ki ek room flat kiraye par le lo😐😐. Now 2 of her brothers visit India with family stay with them and we 2 sis and one bro hv no connection at all. Talk only tho our brother and never addressed this topic because we know ki uske pass jawab nahi hai. By the way we live in same city NCR. Mummy papa ko hum 2 bahne 1 bhai sambhal rahe hai … she not even asked one how and where they are and my mother supported her to complete her education, during pregnancy and child birth but all gone in drain….. vajah sirf ye ki my parents are very seedhe sade and never asked why her parents staying to long and left their space in their sons house…… ab iss experience se mai kya sabak lu
Ye sabak hai ki aapne ladki kameeni chuni hai.
Aapke bhai ke bhagya mai ye hi likha hua hai.
Jab tak aapke bhai stand nahi lenge tab tak kuch ho mahi sakta
I couldn't live without parathas but artisan breads are worth the price
Sir me 2024 ko maan gaya aap aaj life me freedom aur liberty ki baat kar rahe rahe aur acharya prashant latest video me shadi ki baat kar rahe hai !!!! Yeh saal kamal ka hai !!
Very practical video
Cooperation se competition ho gaya hai Guru ji
Ek dum sahi sir ....😅aaj kal barat aati rahe log kha kar chale jate hai ....fir sirf dulha Dulhan and ghar wale rah jate hai late toh.....meri shaadi mai toh 9 baje tak khana start nahi huaa bahut log bin khana khaye chale gaye😢
Sir ji bahut sare points hein. In laws bhi smary bahu ko poori freedom but household bahu k jimme . And modern style advanced mantelity show. But rituals poore. Bahu ki care poori farmaish bhi poori. But saare festivals, birthday anniversary sb karne padenge ji first nahi jub tuk patents zinda he . Aur to aur vrat k udyapan har udyapan par 25, 000. Minimum kuonki 16 ladies ko khana, clothes, shriangar aur saas and beti ka alag .kharcha khud karte hein uske baad pay karo ji ye demand nahi he ye aapki duty he .mana karo to ji hum gussa he aapse. Damad kahta he me kar deta hun saas ki taraf se parents ko nahi batana
Batao ause in laws bhi hein , bahu ka dhyan poora rakhte hein but rituals terrible. Mayke nahi jaana yahin enjoy karo foregn trip bhi even and restaurant week end and swiggy zomato sub . Bus parents k month end for 1hour. Saal me 2 din k liye max. Mutlub bahu ko inlwas k hisab se chalna he fully. Aur bataun Rajsthan me toaaj bhi educated families me bhi bahu ko ghunghat nikalna hi he and neeche patre par choki par bethna he barabar me nahi sasur k samne nahi aana , kabhi emergency ho to back me aa k beth jaao bus. Neighbors se no talking at all. Otherwise jhagda. Ye reality he . Doctor bhi he na to bhi ghar me and society me lahanga , odni compulsory job ne saari only. And relatives me ghunghat aaj bhi me to roj dekhti hun . Kaam chahe apne apne sub karte hein, maid bhi . But family traditions, culture follow. Log to munh par crticise aap avoid karo but they try to compell. Sangwan ji aapke haryana ka to pata nahi Rajasyhan me aaj bhi bada rituals ka ,society ka pressure on middle class. Rich peole ki baat nahi unka to sub maaf. Baaki mere jase to beti k inlwas se distance only message occasionally. Becuse of heavy rituals, nominal kar deti hun naaraz hote hein hote rahe kya karun . No conversations.
Please make a video on virginity and marital issues related to it.
Excellent video 🎉🎊
Thank you for the perfect advice.
If boy's parents don't go to their newly married son's house, that space is permanently occupied by girl's parents on the pretext of taking care of their pregnant daughter and then new born and then dropping and picking up kids from school etc. Due to this son's parents become just guests to his house and he himself becomes Ghar jamai in his own house.
Hence, in order not to let in laws settle in house, it becomes imperative for parents to visit their son frequently.
Today's girls are very smart. They keep away in laws by taking frequent panga with them and thus indirectly stops their visit. Later, she brings her parents to stay with them... coz she too earns money and may be she is the joint owner of the flat.
This needs to break. 1 year no one comes. Then every one is welcome. If wife is being helped what is problem to husband. If they stay nearby then no one needs to stay in anyone house
DIL mom n her family side can take better care during vunerable time of post partum.. inlaws jst come to judge n thopofy the jabardasti ke rituals. I agree k 1st year none of the family members should distrb..n majority of girls family avoid visiting unless she herself calls them to stay with her..bt boys side family think it as their birthright to jst distrb the couple jst for checking what they do..how they live n then they make mudda out of everything. Bahu subh 9 baje uthi he ye sbko dikhta he.. ye nahi dikhta k rat ko 3 baje to uska kam khatam hua he. All I want to say is lets nt judge post partum phase..womans body and a new baby needs extreme care n love which I believe cant be provided by narcissistic inlaws.
@@Mahikasharma72837looks like a simple yet very complex situation because no-one's family wants to be side lined.
I agree bride's mother can better take care of her during pregnancy and post pregnancy phase. So, here all these valuable points need to be discussed before marriage else post marriage blame game would start endlessly without any fruitful output with time wastage and mental blockage
When girls parents come they don't force their opinions on damaad. Damad still lives peacefully.
Buy when boys parents come they start treating the girl like a bonded labour.
That is the difference.
Even from your comment you can see yourself.
In order to prevent the girls parents from settling the boys parents have to come.
Just see at the thought preocess
No one wants to compromise. Education ruined the minds. Some rich boys will look girl in East Europe
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Are waah Sango Sir
Congrats hahaha
Billi = Ego 😌
Excellent video
Single parents k liye bhi ek vedio bnaiye, ki woh log kya kre after their kids get married
Anand aa gya ❤
Sir ur videos r gold dust
Iss video se pakka memes niklenge
Sir whats your opinion on UPSC is waste of Time said by Economic Advisor?
इस मुद्दे पर एक और क्लियर वीडियो बनाइए : "लड़की का असली घर कौन मायके या ससुराल"
१) पति के गुजर जाने के बाद औरत की समाज में स्थिति
२)फिर मायके में ननंद या भाई की पत्नी से तकरार
Yes
Asli ghar vaise maika hota h....property me hissa...or mauj ki life...Maa baap ka sarr pe hath ❤...lucky are those girls jinka husband and SAS sasur bhi ache mil gye ho. Or ek baat shadi k baad dono hie ladka ladki ko kuch saal algg ghar leke rehna chyie...taaki bond strong bn ske..!
Good morning sir, well said. Well said
Very interesting topic
Guru ji.....aapne toh billi ko nai jindagi de di.....😂😅
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6:42 .I know a guy in my society.Wife took posting from Gurgaon to Bangalore.Patidev ko bi aana oadd gaya yaha par
Live n Let Live is my comment on ur topic
Hello sir. You are right. My Husband was late very late n in laws. In fact we missed the mahurat of shaddi. It was really disappointed. I still remember. N we girl side suffered a lot in front of guest
Sir aisa bhi ho raha h ,ki beti ki sasural me kaun kya khayega ,kab khayega ,kitna khayega ,ye sab bhi bahu ki maa decide kar rahi h ,beti ki sasural walo per control karo ,aur nahi Mane to false cases karke Paisa lo ,interference by ladki ki mother and. Behan ,har jagah ye sab nahi h ,per kuch logo ke sath ye bhi ho raha h ,and it's true ,