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Society ka structure hi aisa hai ki jin gharo me ladies ko job karne ka allow hota hai. To wo paisa kamane ke liye job krne bahar jati hai ab us chakkar me sasural me ek se ek problem aa sakti hai.
I was in the middle east in the lates 80s and we had married men living away from the wives for years on end, they could not bring the families back then, it was not easy. I observed relationships were formed i.e. local wife (gf). I would not judge them, not everyone is strong. I would never recommend this kind of a situation, no money is worth it.
I wish i was 18 year younger .. Have done all mistakes no support .... still feel as if it was my past pending karmas. I wish you start a university of life beyond syllabus and that every one from 13 to 20.has to attend.
Nice topic sir ji, shravan kumar n khud sewa ki thi apne parents ki, apne kandho p baithaya tha unhe, aajkl k shravan kumar apni biwi se sewa karwaana chahte h apne parents ki
Yes sravan Kumar was bachelor as well. That's why he could be so dedicated to his parents. Some people don't understand this. They want to have a married life and also want to have greatness of sravan kumar
@@Equitylearnersthe point is even if he was married, He took it upon himself to do seva for his parents. He didn’t dump his wife on their parents to do seva
My In laws are from the village .. I am in Govt job . Since the time of birth of my child they have been forcing me and my husband to build them a house in the city so that they can bring their daughters children to live with them as schools are not good in villages . They want to create a khichri which I detest . My SIL doesn’t have in laws and hardly any relations with her husbands relatives. SIL husband interferes in our affairs a lot. My husband is posted in some remote hill location .
I can sense u already r so much frustrated by ur in-laws... B them at village or in city near u.... 1. City life which ever it may b it is expensive..... In village ppl get whole month veggies for free or say half a rate than city.... In city only veggies will cost them 700 per month.... City life is overall expensive.... Doctors visit, education be it school,tution.... N overall lifestyle to maintain.... Who will take care of all this expenses???? Even u buy them a house??? Ask ur saas n saasur they can come at ur place but not ur sil... U can't afford... Straight away u can say...
Sir mai abhi padhai kr rha hu mere dad kw business bhi hai bjt mai abhi bahar ghr se dur rhke padhai kr rha hu lekin mujhko aage dad ks business hi dekhna hai toh kya sir mai abhi ghr chla jau hmehsa ke liye ya apni padhai poori kru..
Mere family me bhi ek h jisne Government teacher girl se marriage ki after marriage boy bhi government teacher ho gaya Ab Wife Rajasthan me posted h and husband 600KM door UP me posted h, last 5 years se dono apne apne maa baap ke sath rahte h aur shayad till the age of 60 alag hi rahenge
Its an era of dating apps. So, concept of long distance marriage exists just to show society that we are happily married but internally they get engage with outside partners due to easy access of Tinder, POF etc etc. through mobile phone. I feel Amit sir you are not much aware about these apps. I can say hardly 1% couple due to spiritual reasons may not be using dating apps but rest every one every where and even office (concept of office spouse also there) find their like minded partners very easily. These days even normal marriage is struggling due to dating apps and you are discussing about long distance marriage and its solution through your pizza cost workshop 😅.
I know three families both rheir husband works in Dubai and only one could come home a month a year. And the other would come after 3 years One of my relative where the wife goes to work as a teacher and comes home when the school holidays start. I would call that a marriage
Sir I will give you one true case study Husband posted in Small rural hilly town in Uttarakhand in Govt sector , Husband and wife from plain area of Uttarakhand. Wife recently delivered child and came to live with husband after recovery . Now wife is full of loneliness because can’t seem to adjust to culture of hills , relatives not there , no friends Evenings can get really boring in hills with long uphill distances to walk even for small amenities Wife adjusted for some. Time but now they keep fighting over petty issues 🙏
Sir your videos are really good. 1. If possible, could you please make a video on loneliness and social isolation. 2. Also, could you please enable English subtitles in all of your videos.
One thing I would like to say is that long distance marriage is an ancient thing and not a new age problem according to me. In earlier times it was quite a common thing that after marriage the man used to keep his newly married wife in his home and leave for work to long distant places. The newly married wife used to wait and wait in hope of her husband alone with the new in laws. In certain cases loyal husbands used to remember their wives but in many cases the wives existence was completely forgotten by the husbands. In many year times after marriage the wife was not brought to her in laws house and was kept in her parents house. Many years used to be spent without each other just in hope and memories......
I request you to no repeat the earlier VRS webinar in case you wish to take a new webinar. Plus the GeMs idea is not working as the contractor again incurs under the table greasing costs. I would request you to touch more upon how the experience of job can be used to do professional consultancy after leaving the job. Also, discuss the framework to be established (saving/buffer etc.)in preparation of VRS /resignation in non pensionable service
Uncleji my husband and I are both serving in the army and no matter how many letter we write , seniors officers we meet we don’t get postings together, after three yes of marriage this is the first time we are together and will be posted speeately again for another 6yrs with no respite from the govt . What do we do , we can’t leave our jobs. And we have two small kids
VRS... pls sir make a video on this topic... M a female n working in Govt. Sector.. want to quit job..n try to earn some other ways.. bt m clueless..how to initiate in this direction
Kya ye humari baat kari jaa rahi.... Naukri karno walo ka jivan bhot jhand hai ....ghar ka sara comfort chhod kar dusri jagah buri tarike se rehna...bekar khana khana...do ghar chalana...
I can understand you sister .. mere husband aur mein Govt job mein hain alag alag posted hain . Bahut problem hai In laws ke apne agenda chalte rehte hain .. I still think of leaving job so many times . But I know Govt job na nigali jati hai na ugali
I really believe mariners should retire earlier. They earn a LOT. and it’s tax free money. So just put an aim ki itna paisa collect hone ke baad I will stop my work. That way your employment satisfaction is there as well as family enjoyment. I don’t think mariners should work beyond 45. At max. Otherwise then you would have missed your entire youth as well as your child’s childhood. My friends father is a gas ship captain. 6 months home 6 months on ship. Unko 4 bacche unke aas paas aise mehmaano ki tarah ghoomte hai it’s so awkward to see. Though he gets the girls lots of expensive gifts. Or takes them holiday whenever they halt. But they see him as just that. An ATM. It’s actually awkward to see their interaction with their father😅
My own friend is a divorcee but she got married to a non married guy. There are a lot of factors that come into play. Like the age of girl. Prior years of marriage. Kids if any. Koi ek factor nahi hai😅
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Why long distance marriage fail reason
(1) loyalty problem
(2)job
(3) emotion stability issue
(4) lack of time spend with wife
Loyalty is not a problem in this case, honestly. Dishonest people would cheat anyway.
Society ka structure hi aisa hai ki jin gharo me ladies ko job karne ka allow hota hai. To wo paisa kamane ke liye job krne bahar jati hai ab us chakkar me sasural me ek se ek problem aa sakti hai.
Point 4
kindly make a video on urban girl marrying village boy..what problems she will face and solution
Please chat or meet or call or a combination of all with boy don't rely on videos
@@aks7r right.
Don't marry below your standard..!! That's it.
WhT😂😂
Mt kr lyf hell ho jygi ladki ki
I was in the middle east in the lates 80s and we had married men living away from the wives for years on end, they could not bring the families back then, it was not easy. I observed relationships were formed i.e. local wife (gf). I would not judge them, not everyone is strong. I would never recommend this kind of a situation, no money is worth it.
@izoldics those relationships were mostly hidden. from different countries.
You indeed are most sorted clarity giver in your target segment. Respect
I wish i was 18 year younger ..
Have done all mistakes no support .... still feel as if it was my past pending karmas.
I wish you start a university of life beyond syllabus and that every one from 13 to 20.has to attend.
I am 18 Years Younger So I Hope You Won't make me regret😅😅
Guruji charanesparsh! 🙏🏻
Bahut kuch sikh keh apsey aab practical hone laga hoon!
Nice topic sir ji, shravan kumar n khud sewa ki thi apne parents ki, apne kandho p baithaya tha unhe, aajkl k shravan kumar apni biwi se sewa karwaana chahte h apne parents ki
Yes sravan Kumar was bachelor as well. That's why he could be so dedicated to his parents. Some people don't understand this. They want to have a married life and also want to have greatness of sravan kumar
@@nothanks0009 Propaganda running here.... Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.
Biwi ke nakhre bhi to hazar hain unko lagta hai ped lga ho paisa ka
Haa plss dont marry
@@Equitylearnersthe point is even if he was married, He took it upon himself to do seva for his parents.
He didn’t dump his wife on their parents to do seva
All this is absolutely true,i have seen it infront of my eyes many families breaking 😮sad reality
My In laws are from the village .. I am in Govt job . Since the time of birth of my child they have been forcing me and my husband to build them a house in the city so that they can bring their daughters children to live with them as schools are not good in villages . They want to create a khichri which I detest . My SIL doesn’t have in laws and hardly any relations with her husbands relatives. SIL husband interferes in our affairs a lot.
My husband is posted in some remote hill location .
I can sense u already r so much frustrated by ur in-laws... B them at village or in city near u....
1. City life which ever it may b it is expensive..... In village ppl get whole month veggies for free or say half a rate than city.... In city only veggies will cost them 700 per month....
City life is overall expensive.... Doctors visit, education be it school,tution.... N overall lifestyle to maintain.... Who will take care of all this expenses???? Even u buy them a house???
Ask ur saas n saasur they can come at ur place but not ur sil... U can't afford... Straight away u can say...
Tell them there are good hostels and if SIL is really serious then send them to a good boarding school. 😂
sir, I’m subscribing your channel because I find you most relevant and practical person.
Sir outstanding. Clear ideas.
Thank you for the advice Guruji ! Shravan Kumar comment was the greatest one !🔥 We are grateful for your Guidance 🙏
Propaganda caught......😂😂Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.....
Propaganda caught......😂😂Sharvan Kumar was married and his wife was 'Manthara' . Manthara was the chief dasi of Queen Kaikeyi.....
@@Equitylearners Ohh 😯 Thanks for the Comment ! 🙌🔥
U r doing a great work for society..
Thank u so much sir🙏
You are the best, Guruji❤
Good advice sir
Exellent video. I knew that what will be your 2nd dialog after Sharvan kumar.Too real words.SHARVAN KUMAR WAS NOT MARRIED ❤
Sir your every word is golden advice. God bless you sir. We need your teachings. Your are master. Respect
Sir mai abhi padhai kr rha hu mere dad kw business bhi hai bjt mai abhi bahar ghr se dur rhke padhai kr rha hu lekin mujhko aage dad ks business hi dekhna hai toh kya sir mai abhi ghr chla jau hmehsa ke liye ya apni padhai poori kru..
Guruji
You have a killer mischievous smile, when you are sarcastic.😂😂😂
Time stamp?
Thank you 🙏🏽
Thankyou so much...
Mere family me bhi ek h jisne Government teacher girl se marriage ki after marriage boy bhi government teacher ho gaya
Ab Wife Rajasthan me posted h and husband 600KM door UP me posted h, last 5 years se dono apne apne maa baap ke sath rahte h aur shayad till the age of 60 alag hi rahenge
Its an era of dating apps. So, concept of long distance marriage exists just to show society that we are happily married but internally they get engage with outside partners due to easy access of Tinder, POF etc etc. through mobile phone.
I feel Amit sir you are not much aware about these apps. I can say hardly 1% couple due to spiritual reasons may not be using dating apps but rest every one every where and even office (concept of office spouse also there) find their like minded partners very easily. These days even normal marriage is struggling due to dating apps and you are discussing about long distance marriage and its solution through your pizza cost workshop 😅.
You are 100% right sir
Guruji weekdays me job pe or weekend pe ghar aane par bhi yehi lagu hota hai??
Well said sir, salute
Are the videos - case study 6 and 7 removed from the playlist???
बोहोत सही बात करी आपने...😊🙏
I agree with you
I know three families both rheir husband works in Dubai and only one could come home a month a year. And the other would come after 3 years One of my relative where the wife goes to work as a teacher and comes home when the school holidays start. I would call that a marriage
Brilliant video
Thanks Sir 🙏
Bhot dino baad itni bdiya video daali h guru ji
You are right Sir
Sir
I will give you one true case study
Husband posted in Small rural hilly town in Uttarakhand in Govt sector ,
Husband and wife from plain area of Uttarakhand.
Wife recently delivered child and came to live with husband after recovery .
Now wife is full of loneliness because can’t seem to adjust to culture of hills , relatives not there , no friends
Evenings can get really boring in hills with long uphill distances to walk even for small amenities
Wife adjusted for some. Time but now they keep fighting over petty issues 🙏
Khaa posting h uttarakhand me?
एकदम सही कहा गुरुजी
On this topic i leave my job HR professionals and now leaving with my family .nice topic you cover thanks
Very deep video
Sahi kaha
thanks
Sir your videos are really good.
1. If possible, could you please make a video on loneliness and social isolation. 2. Also, could you please enable English subtitles in all of your videos.
What about the armed forces people who sacrifice their life for the nation?
Their family, children all suffers
They can take their family when in peace posting
Yeah they suffer its part of that job it requires scarifice
Sir, Jo log dusre city me job kare ke liye jate hai vo?
This video is a great resource for beginners.
One thing I would like to say is that long distance marriage is an ancient thing and not a new age problem according to me. In earlier times it was quite a common thing that after marriage the man used to keep his newly married wife in his home and leave for work to long distant places. The newly married wife used to wait and wait in hope of her husband alone with the new in laws. In certain cases loyal husbands used to remember their wives but in many cases the wives existence was completely forgotten by the husbands. In many year times after marriage the wife was not brought to her in laws house and was kept in her parents house. Many years used to be spent without each other just in hope and memories......
We r not living in ancient prehistoric times.Those r outdated concepts no longer relevant
Right sir
Guru ji please make video on second marriage quality.
I request you to no repeat the earlier VRS webinar in case you wish to take a new webinar. Plus the GeMs idea is not working as the contractor again incurs under the table greasing costs. I would request you to touch more upon how the experience of job can be used to do professional consultancy after leaving the job. Also, discuss the framework to be established (saving/buffer etc.)in preparation of VRS /resignation in non pensionable service
Ye janab apka nahi apna bhala karne ke liye youtube par aye h....... Tabhi to hamesa webinar ke nam par pizza ka paisa mangte rahte h
Very butter words but True
Thank you. I was in dilemma. Ki mujhe in laws ke sath rehna chahiye ya nhi. But u made it clear 😊
The 48 laws of power, ( very famous book) aap apne hissab se ,in your style rewrite lijiye. Bahut Mazza aayega😅
14:58 golden words
If meeting in months for one or last week then
Uncleji my husband and I are both serving in the army and no matter how many letter we write , seniors officers we meet we don’t get postings together, after three yes of marriage this is the first time we are together and will be posted speeately again for another 6yrs with no respite from the govt . What do we do , we can’t leave our jobs. And we have two small kids
Shravan Kumar bang on Sir!
Very true girl should not stay. Back else loyalty issue will come
What happens when there are no kids , but husband wife live in different cities, because wife wants to work
VRS need of hour.
Very true we are like atm machine
👌🏻🙏
What about army people?? Shaadi hi nae karne chahiye????
sarkari naukri means defence ki jon jaha hard areas men family saath nahi rakh sakte
Soldiers kya kare sir?
Relationship
Guru ji aaj to Acharya Prashant jasi baat kar di 😊
🙏👍👍👍
Sir single mother son marriage side effect pr video bnaye
👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌
VRS... pls sir make a video on this topic... M a female n working in Govt. Sector.. want to quit job..n try to earn some other ways.. bt m clueless..how to initiate in this direction
Me too
Not easy to quit Govt. job...... Mungeri Lal ke hasin Sapne.....
Me too....naikari ki wajah se shadi nahi ho pa rahi h. Remote location, but not that much.😢
@@Beauty_Factory Which post you hold and where
@@tnin5634 kaun si job h jo itna pareshan ho chhodne ke liye
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Member banne ke kitna value add hua h aapka kindly share feedback?
Kya ye humari baat kari jaa rahi.... Naukri karno walo ka jivan bhot jhand hai ....ghar ka sara comfort chhod kar dusri jagah buri tarike se rehna...bekar khana khana...do ghar chalana...
Make a video on sending kids to hostel
VRS..
Make Video On Intercaste Marriages in Nortindia
Already made
What about 14 days duty and 14 days at home
I have this problem..female..send me link
What about 2 struggling doctors?
Vrs
Relatiinship
Sir I'm a lady ,,, लिविंग आउटसाइड for government job,,,, feeling stress
I can understand you sister .. mere husband aur mein Govt job mein hain alag alag posted hain . Bahut problem hai
In laws ke apne agenda chalte rehte hain ..
I still think of leaving job so many times . But I know Govt job na nigali jati hai na ugali
Vra
Sir merchant navy wale kya kre..
I'm wife of mariner😅😅 muje bhi yahi sawal puchana tha
I really believe mariners should retire earlier.
They earn a LOT. and it’s tax free money.
So just put an aim ki itna paisa collect hone ke baad I will stop my work. That way your employment satisfaction is there as well as family enjoyment.
I don’t think mariners should work beyond 45. At max.
Otherwise then you would have missed your entire youth as well as your child’s childhood.
My friends father is a gas ship captain. 6 months home 6 months on ship.
Unko 4 bacche unke aas paas aise mehmaano ki tarah ghoomte hai it’s so awkward to see.
Though he gets the girls lots of expensive gifts. Or takes them holiday whenever they halt.
But they see him as just that. An ATM.
It’s actually awkward to see their interaction with their father😅
Rohit is rohit......
Bhai mujhe kyu toda mein toh single hu😂
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My age 28 I am working in police
Kmao do no phir.
Kisi bhi divorcy ko fresh dulha nahi mil raha mere khaandaan mein 9 divorcy ladies ki shaadi divorcy se hee hui hai.
My own friend is a divorcee but she got married to a non married guy.
There are a lot of factors that come into play. Like the age of girl.
Prior years of marriage.
Kids if any.
Koi ek factor nahi hai😅
Women keep affairs when husbands move out 😢
Sir, what if a woman is working away? And now her husband is saying that I married you so you can do seva of my parents .. what should that woman do?
@izoldics husband is not willing to do that
Mt kr
Make video in laws toxic behaviour after love marriage….living with unmarried sil….. parents hating the couple living happily
Aap 15year back chl rhe hain
kisi ko ni milta divorce ke baad ya to 40+ ka hi koi fresh milta hai
Mai Mai Mai Mai Mai....I I I I I
What does it mean ?
@madhurani1441- the problem is the parents not passing away on time if they pass away early then all problems resolved
Aree🤐🤐
Parents should live happily in their own house away from their married children and not create nuisance and chaos in their children's married life.
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