Teen boy physically and verbally abuses his girlfriend | What Would You Do? | WWYD
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- Опубліковано 24 вер 2018
- At a cafe, a teenage boy physically and verbally abuses his girlfriend. Is it just adolescent drama, or is it a serious situation? Who will step in? Watch what happens.
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What would you do when you think no one is watching? What Would You Do? (WWYD?) explores the varying answers with the help of hidden cameras capturing individuals who have been placed within seemingly everyday situation that quickly go ary. The individuals on this hidden camera show are forced to make tough calls when directly faced with situations of racism, violence, hate crimes, and other hot button cultural issues. Catch John Quinones reporting on these individuals as they make split-second decisions to intervene or mind their own business. WWYD? airs Friday nights at 9|8c on ABC.
What Would You Do? (WWYD) is a hidden camera show, hosted by ABC News correspondent John Quinones, in which unknowing bystanders are placed in uncomfortable, and often compromising real world scenarios in public. WWYD’s hidden cameras focus on the average person’s responses and reactions to these issues of social responsibility. Topics such as gay couples being affectionate in public, date rape, racism and racial profiling, interracial couples, abusive parents, drunk driving, and harassment of the homeless are touched upon in this series. What will you do? Would you choose to intervene in these situations? Watch and join the discussion. - Розваги
It’s not a WWYD episode if there isnt:
- “I was shaking”
- “This hit close to home”
- some old lady ready to throw hands
- “We shot one last time”
- “I’m John Quiñones-“
- “I’m calling the police”
Facts tho-
😂😂 that's true
SOME OLD LADY READY TO THROW HANDS AHAHA
“i mean, i was on the verge of tears! i couldn’t believe anybody could say those things.”
"Where's your manager?:
The fact the first guy gave her money to get home instead of offering her a ride :’) pure soul i love him
I was thinking the same thing. Even with the best intentions, a strange man offering you a ride home because of your situation can still be a bit creepy.
I get that because she would probably think she’s getting kidnapped if her gave her a ride home
you're ignorant to think there were any ill intentions from that good man grow up
@@zwebackshyper9307 trust no one
Thinking the same. He understood enough to know that money for a ride home was better than offering a ride home. He had empathy.
The guy who told the first guy not to do anything is a joke. How is letting abuse happen in front of you better than stopping it?! His justification was trash.
Indeed, just a weak man.
Sometimes I think people dont realize that sometimes you cant interfere because it can make jt wkrse on thw victim....the person abused can sometimes not want to go because they are afraid to get it when they get home. One concerned person cant always change things by standing up. Because most of the time thw woman wont leave.
@@socer451 all it take for evil to succeed is for good men to do nothing.
@@christopherjackson2172 I agree. That nerd just didn't want to get beat down. That's a coward of a man right there.
@@christopherjackson2172 yes!! Just a coward
“There is a problem but if we talk about it, we’ll make it worse” “I could see she wasn’t in danger yet” and this is why women get stuck in horrible situations.
He is logic.
I think he was afraid of getting physically hurt.
@@SamA-xu9gy no he's fucking not ! what he said was absolute trash wtf.
@@VeganGoat96 I agree. I think he was afraid that talking would create a bigger beating for her down the road. He was thinking logically but too logically if that makes any sense
I actually get his point. Sometimes people intervening will do nothing but make the situation worse for the victim at home.
The first guy in the blue who was like "I've identified the problem let's not talk about it" like what the heck are you saying man!!!!!
He identified the problem when he looked in the mirror.Hes the epitome of a pussy.
Damn right
Sheeps sleep while you stare he probably abuses his partner
@@User-NmIDsio24 wtf is this comment
YOUR NaME oMG XD
"ThErE iS a PrObLeM. i'Ve NoTiCeD iT. i'Ve IdEnTiFiEd It." And "ShE wAsN't In DaNgEr, YeT". This is how people get hurt. This is how people don't get justice. It doesn't matter about what hasn't happened, it's about what WILL happen.
Waffle Cakes yep people are idiots
I was abused by my ex boyfriend for 3 years in the same way and it would get physical sometimes. When we were in public and something like this happened and people would step in, it would be so much worse for me, because he would get more upset and i would have to go through it like double. Double the anger from his side, double the effort from my side. When dealing with abusers, its either the victim decides its over with them, or you offer the victim security until it's recovered, or else it's unlikely for it to be helped. Because yeah you stepped in. Yeah, they didn't leave together. But they will be the next day and the day after that. And it will be worse. I don't know what is the right way to deal with this situation. I just know that when I was her, what these people did, would terrify me.
Evelyn Unicorn I am sorry
The first guy was right, maybe not all abuse situations, but at least for mine if someone notices let alone speaks up about it I'll get it 10× worse when we're back in private.
@@evelynunicorn665 I'm sorry. I didn't think of it that way. I'm glad you had the strength to leave. You are a very brave person. I hope you have a wonderful rest of your life!
I love how the mother at the end got down below her so she wasn't threatening in anyway because she was already dealing with that. That shows amazingly empathetic instincts. Her Mama Bear came right out. What a hero, I bet she's a great Mama!
This scenario should be tried also with black actors, and also with brown actors, as well as same sex couples actors. I wonder if the different types of couples will all get same amount of people helping offering advice and to help the victim. And even a male who is the vicitm of abuse, how many people will come to give him advice and help? Just curious to see if the victims are from different races and genders, how many people would offer to help them?
@@Taylor086 they have done and it was pretty much the same response
Very dumb if it was real and the dude is getting more aggressive
I’ve had people do that to me at times of need and never understood why now I see thank u
@@stefanybenton John Taffer and his experts and his crew and Gordon Ramsey and the police officers is involved in this.
"If we talk about it, we may just make things worse!"
Please never be that person.
If you don’t get involved you are unkind
It can be incredibly dangerous to get involved directly though because these situations often involve really high emotions. And in a real situation, confronting the abuser may just make him more defensive and therefore make things worse for the girl or even yourself. So, I would say that in this situation, it would just be best to call 911, give a detailed description of what’s happening, and let the cops take it from there. That’s much better than putting yourself in danger.
No that's a legitimate problem for abuse victims. If their abuser is confronted, the abuse may worsen
Being honest, what the actor (boyfriend) was saying wasn't even all that bad. You shouldn't be on your phone at a date, you should be talking to your partner and learning more about them. I could understand why he wanted to check the phone. This was no abuse.
@@Maus____stb Yes it was. Especially the way he was demanding that she get off her phone, grabbing her by the arm, and demanding he see who she’s texting.
"Excuse me?"
"Yeah?"
"Are you kidding?"
"She's not listening to me"
" i dOn'T cArE "
Your profile picture 🥺💖✨
hey beautiful
You guys should just scissor already.
gimmiedashasha lmao wait what
Are you cat valentine I love cat Valentine so much
That one girl that was a mom with the purple scarf. Her confidence gave me actual chills!
Natalie Rand She’s so nice plus has a husband and a kid though. That must be very hard especially with school possibly and she has the confidence to help this girl!? This lady deserves woman of the century award ❤️❤️ AMEN
Even the guy was speechless 😂
Facts
Yeahhh i know righttt
@@swagqueen9823 The girl with short hair is 16 baby, not the one with the scarf.
My mom was abusive to my dad and it hurt my feelings knowing he was hurting. I could never treat my own husband that way
I'm sorry to hear that it's crazy you suppose to be in love with the person not abuse the mess outta them. SMH
Awww ikr I could never treat my boyfriend that way because he's so sweet and such a good man and pretty name and you're so gorgeous
@@annalyselockney thank you!!!! And yes uhhhg my husband is hella sweet couldn’t imagine ever being mean to him or anyone
Serious question...why would you name yourself "I'm worthless"? Are you alright?
@@MenteMaestra91 because it’s my favorite song and yes I do feel worthless sometimes but I am doing the best I can at the moment thank you for asking tho 😊
I had a really toxic abusive ex when I was 18-19 and he’d often throw public tantrums and even publicly keyed my car on multiple occasions and other property damage. Two people intervened and one called the cops on his neighbor but many just flat out ignored it. I was grateful for those two strangers.
so glad you got out of that ❤️
I hope you are well today
I am so glad strangers help you get out your ex boyfriend
"I didn't feel like she was in danger YET"
"She wasn't at the door YET"
"She's not dead YET, she's not bleeding YET" YET YET YET
That's how it starts people.
When he said "she wasn't out of the door YET" 😂🤣🤣
Period💖👑
Yeah I hate that guy he’s stupid
@@scarycherry3392 *hi this is what would you do*
Got to hate that joker who didn’t do anything, but then talks tough later... thinks he’s so smart... but took no action to help.
I like how that one woman doesn't even acknowledge his existence
@Famished Nintendog Same! Aside from that he and the girl are pretty decent actors
Famished Nintendog which one girl??
😂
“You deserve better than a ******* like him”
Him: 😧
She even called him a dick too lmaoooo
I love how the guy in the yellow said my sisters been through that so I don’t put up with that 🥹🥹
As a survivor of not only violent domestic abuse and rape, this made me extremely emotionally and it really made me believe that their are truly good people out there.
I hope you’re doing well. Nobody deserves that.
Girlfriend: *pulls out phone*
Boyfriend: "So you have chosen death"
Funny but wrong place to comment bro😂😂😂😂
Maverick Quinto LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL
You still use this dead meme format? Unfunny tbh
@@idontgetjokes8101 unfunny bc of your name i assume?
Only a sith deals in such absolutes.
He seemed like such a good boyfriend for like 16 seconds and then BOOM Satan crawls inside of him
👍🏻👍🏻😂
we all gon ignore the fact that she walked away with the money in the the first part
Kyky baby Yh i noticed that is she not gonna give it back 😂😂
that’s what happens irl when u don’t really know someone
Looking like General Grievous
The yellow shirt guy is a legend:
-he protecc
-he attac
but mostly
-he plays minecraft
Some of us couldn't be involved in these scenes because we wouldn't have words, but his jaw would absolutely fly across the room.
Every episode:
“This issue hits close to home.”
"For this person, This situation is personal"
Me why
It hits close to home because no one has a perfect life - we’ve ALL gone through something traumatic, or will in the future
Me ok boomer
@Me liberals don't shame women for dressing non-conservatively
"Shes an actor and he was an actor" *as she walks away with the yellow shirt guys money*
😂😂😂😂😂
As soon as I saw her get up, I searched for comments about the guy’s money
LMAO 😂
Summer H. I thought i was the only one who notice thats lol
they give it back
Respect yourself enough to get out of any abusive relationship. It is your basic human right to be treated with respect. No one has the right to treat you with disrespect. No one! ❤
THESE SHOWS ARE STUPID WHEN LIBERAL DEMOCRATS LET CITIES BURN! MN-GOV. TIM WALZ, DEMOCRAT, LET 180 BUSINESSES GET LOOTED AND BURNED INCLUDING A POLICE STATION AND ANOTHER 1500 DAMAGED IN MAY 2020!
I totally agree!! If you feel unsafe in a relationship, you should leave and find someone who will make you feel safe and happy and awesome name and I like your pic
It’s so beautiful seeing women stand up for each other
"I didn't feel she was in danger yet." Omg, man. She was in danger the second he grabbed her. Situations like that can take a bad turn so fast.
Not really. He wasn't going to be able to do much, with all those people there. You watch too much TV
Fender Tremolo- I would’ve smacked his ass. Lmao
Etigress amen
@@fendertremolo9793 lol i guess you're one of those ppl...that cant see past the present moment ppfff...if i was there,that actor would've been in hospital with a broken nose or/and jaw.good thing i wasnt,coz i would've felt bad after them reveal the scene.these actors sure take a lot of risks doing this,coz there are some ppl(like me)who act first and ask questions later lmao
Fender Tremolo Man some places you wouldn’t be able to get away with that
‘’ if anyone talked to my daughter like that I will kill them’’ DANGGG
Actually no
kick them in the balls
Kick them where the sun don’t shine
Killing is wrong
My dad tho
And he probably wouldn't get caught
The actress who played the girlfriend was phenomenal. She was so believable.
That first guy in the yellow shirt literally made me freaking cry, what an amazing dude!!
Man: gives grace money
John: you’re on wwyd
Grace: backs away with money
Mila Rae I wheezed
LMFAO
Lmfaoooo
Ace's Playlist
Grace: I don’t get paid enough
I was about o comment that but i dont to be called that i copied you but i was like lamo
5:50 ”did you just say you have the right to abuse your girlfriend?”
BAHHAH savage
Ikr. That part was so awesome
gimmiedashasha BAHAHAHAH
Wait, how is this savage?
gimmiedashasha I made that joke and my friends went mental
せんせいまりあむ omg am so sorry I can’t breathe her face Ahahahahah
I honestly needed these people when I was with my toxic ex. It makes me sad that there’s so many people out there who have experienced harassment and i love it when people stand up for what is right.
What I like the most about this show is that it basically teaches you how to handle such situations, there are times in which you want to help but you don't know how
I’m sorry the first guy in the blue shirt pissed me off. “I did what I could do to de-escalate.” Sir, you did nothing but tell other people not to get involved
Yes!!!!
There's more of him than we realize in this world.
+Desiree Simmons You're right. However, he had a point. As fucked up as it is, women don't leave these relationships. Well, they rarely do. In all likelihood, the girl is just going to wind up alone with this guy again at some point & when that happens, he will punish her severely for (in his mind) creating a scene. That's the hard truth.
@@JoshuaFrick3 True, but sometimes they just cannot leave the relationship. It's of course more rare but sometimes the women just physically can't leave because they are being beaten, or blackmailed.
I at first was on the opposing side of his actions however he did make a valid point but I personally think he was wrong for discouraging the other man to not come to the lady's aid.Joshua Frick and Potato Goes Meow also do make valid points too.Personally I think you have to do everything you should do to make the right choice quickly and carefully however in a public situation like this one with this particular couple I believe that you should get involved in some way as choosing to or not to get involved have their own risks & factors which you must consider.
*"If we talk about it, we make it worse."*
I honestly can't believe people like that exist.
There are People who Abuse their partner even more if someone interferes, you can't change the fact. Period
Yeah the thing is. It isnt even that wrong. You can make it worse or better,but depended how much ya help her. And this guy didnt realised. Like, when he would have the complete controll of her and some people ask if she needs help but she refuse bc oft her bf and no one gets in his way he could easly make it worser than the situation befor. But when everyone gets involved and protecc her and the Boy isnt strong enough, it comes new two ways how it could end.
Way one: she get rid of him
Way two: nothin changed. She is goin back after all and he get controll after all.
OR: he stalks her (more ways more thinks to decide)
So ANSWER? And where is sucess?
Try to handle. Get involved and stop it. Call her parents or ask if she can is best. And try to bring her to reallity softly.
Dude thats there problem ... they r couple for a reason .. imagine if you help the girl and the girl back stab you ... they r couple and you r outsider always remember that ...
Roebert Nicolas This logic is flawed on a number of levels.
Roebert Nicolas your logic is terrible
As someone who has seen people turn a blind eye to me getting abused, I am bawling like a baby! Praise these folks!!!!
I’m sorry you’ve been through that. People really need to care more about one another. Even though we’re all strangers, we’re all human beings.
The gentleman in the yellow shirt is so kind hearted. He seems like a total introvert but knew he had to do something. He's a good man.
Nick: “She’s MY GIRLFRIEND!!”
All the ladies: “Not anymore, she ain’t 😉”
Austin that’s not being an alpha male. That’s being abusive. Nothing justifies that. He’s being toxic and using his “so called power” to try and intimidate her. That’s fucked up, just like your brain apparently
Pro Gaming Tips yo that’s cool n all but I don’t really remember asking?
That’s my crushes name lol
“ excuse me . Are you kidding ? “ that phrase is so scary it probably make his heart beat so fast
IT SCARED **ME**
That phrase ain’t scary
whenever my mom says that ik im fucked thats one of the scariest things a parent can say to u
You know you're in trouble when someone says that to you.
Is that stranger things in ur pfp?
I wonder if the gentleman in the yellow shirt's quiet approach would have been as effective in a real situation. Do you think an actual abusive boyfriend would have turned around and engaged at 1:30? The way he spoke to the young lady was amazing.
Those two women at the end were EVERYTHING
The first guy acted literally perfectly- even giving her money instead of offering her a ride home.
He almost got Chris Hansened instead of ma boi Quiñones
@@cacha_cholas LMFAO
😂
The2inchWarrior ☠️☠️☠️☠️
Did she give his money back tho
The fact that the first guy gave her money instead of offering to drive her home, shows how he is one of the best people you could hope to intervene.
Yeah I like that too...Like he new that it wasn't right for a stranger to drive her home and it would probably make her uncomfortable
When the revelation I think he thought it was a setup and it was how to catch a predator or something.
This dude is precious ! 😂
But taxi is not stranger
@@charlesmasclef1309 this made me laugh so hard
fjf sjdnx
Doesn’t mean they can’t rape you though. They would get caught easily.
as someone whos been in this situation so many times, it warms my heart to see people doing something like this about abuse. most of the time it happens, people watch as you leave but dont do anything so thank god ppl in this world care
The guy asked if he hit her, my friend the question should be "Has he hit you *yet*?" If the answer is no, it may help it sink in that it will happen one day.
No one:
Literally no one:
Guy in blue shirt: JUST LEAVE THE SITUATION ALONE WE'RE GOING TO MAKE IT WORSE
and then he tried to cover it by saying he'd interfere later, yeah right dude
I'm still pissed that no one asked the girl if she wanted the polices help, no one made any calls and literally 1 dude wanted to make sure she went home safe. It blows my mind that no one offered her $ to get a cab except for that one guy what I hope happened is that they cut out a lot of responses that were more extreme, because they obviously vinillad the shit out of this
I agree and disagree because it could make it worse if he physically abuses
@@silverfox6284 yeah
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Guy: gives girl money
“Here, use this to get home”
Producer: Hey this is a show called what would you do. Now...
Girl: slowly backs away with the money the man gave her
Lmfao
That's the same thing I thought
Diarra Hoyte thats true i was wondering if i was the only one who noticed that lol.
How to get rich 101:
Act on WWYD.
person gives you money
slowly back away
leave
Repeat
They normally give the money back! I don't think she took it honestly.
Ali Alex maybe we will never know
There are some very strong women out there, with a heart that will look out for a stranger, that’s fantastic to see.
those people who are telling her how he shouldn't treat her like that, just gives me faith in humanity
**Somone sets the cafe on fire**
The guy: Yes, there is a problem. I’ve identified it but we’re not gonna talk about it.”
He’s just sitting there like.... 🐶this is fine
That guy is Bilbo Douchebaggins
Perfectly crippled analogy
That guy is exactly what is wrong with this world and why so many women are abused while everyone around them sees it and says NOTHING.
That guy is a loser. Yellow shirt guy is a hero.
yEs sIr tHerE iS a pRoblEM i haVe iDeNtiFieD iT iF wE tAlk aBout iT wE maKe iT woRse
The guy is an idiot
He didn’t feel she was in danger? This guy doesn’t know what he’s talking about. The first step should be to get her away from him.
That guy was fricken Stupid
I dont know why i read that changing my voice pitch and speeds
I know right what an idiot
That girl was only 16?!? Wow! She is amazing!
17*
The acting of those two actors is just incredible!
I’m over here wondering did she give the man his money back 😭
Cece Valid oh cece, what’re we gonna do with you, you master of comedy you.
Cece Valid I was literally wondering the exact same thing!!
Yes they give because I know there is a small paper had to be signed to use your face and to prove that they had returned your money and other valuable things
Alan Jacob ahhh okay, thank you xx
The production probably doesn't pay her enough
Ok can we talk about how good the girl's acting was noice!
Edit: Dang can y'all chill out? 😅 Its a positive comment, why bring negativity up? 🤔
fabsome unicorn agreed, I hope the good acting wasn’t from experience though
@@connor1577 either she's that good of an actress, she's been in that situation, or she knows someone who has. I'm hoping it's the first option.
Of all the actors/actress I’ve seen on this,both the girl and boy’s acting was absolutely realistic
I literally came to the comments JUST to see if anyone else noticed
Girls..... Uk
These always make me cry my goodness lol. But seriously, thank God for people who speak up. There’s still people like this bc I’m definitely one!
It's so good to see people actually coming over with such warm attitudes and behaviours whenever they are seeing something wrong going on... it's not about the gender or ethnicity it's all about humanity and whenever anybody deviates from it people like such are always ready to make it traced back. Huge respect +99.
That first dude in the blue really annoyed me. His calculations are wrong. He sound like a little snobby kid in school who would be like,”ooo ooo TEACHER! I KNOW THE ANSWER! CUZ IM SMART!”
Taylor Dagenhart My CalCULaTiOnS ArE InCoRrEct
As someone who went through this stuff when someone stepped in to stop what was happening to me it made the situation escalate very quickly and for sure you don't want to do that. It's always good to try and help someone going through something like this but you also don't want to make the situation escalate either and that's why doctors, nurses and law enforcement officers question the domestic violence victim without their abuser there because they stay by their victim cause it's intimidating and their victim is less likely to talk.
honestly what he was doing was smart. yes, you should get the victim away, but the abuse doesn’t end when you walk out the door. they pull strings to make a soft spot for them whenever they need it. even if the girl did get home safely, it does not end there. i think it was sweet what everyone did, but the real thing that would save her is cutting the boy off entirely. the victim always ends up running back because of the control the men/women have over them.
Like the kid with the glasses on the polar express
Taylor Dagenhart or “OOH OOH TEACHER, YOU FORGOT THE HOMEWORK!!!
The man in the blue shirt at the beginning was pissing me off. She was in danger the second her boyfriend handled her like that. If that happened, i dont even know how I’d be able to stay calm
Seems to me that that man in blue seemed scared of the teenage boy.
Problem with this is if you intervene in situation like this you must be ready for heated up confontration that may lead to a brawl. It is easy to say something if you are a girl but if you are a man and the guy you are confronting is bigger than you then you should be ready for beat down.
Yeah that man in the blue shirt made me mad too
You can say that in words🤣
Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? This scenario would have made my ex EXPLODE on me and made matters so much worse.
I cried from the first guy. What an angel
i went through this same situation in real life and it’s so nice to see someone stand up
“Did you jut say you have the right to abuse your girlfriend?”
She didn’t waste any time, we stan a legend.
Yes! She is a legend!
I loved the way she was quick and direct💕
Ciara Cheeks we stan a defensive queen
we stan a queen slaying tea sis!!!!!
Well she’s using his emotions to manipulate him so yeah abusers love each other
*woman jumping off bridge*
Me: “wait let me come with you”
Person comes up: “hi this is John Quinones with What Would You Do?”
omg imagine lol
Why did I laugh omg
i busted out laughing when i saw this lmaooo
i can't stop laughing oh god 😂
Ah.another comment like mine lol
That would be me I'm Suicidal and live in a Phych ward right now ok it didn't need to get that deep...😐
okay but like can we just talk about how beautiful all of these people are?! i mean obviously not the boyfriend but all of these people did not have to step in and help this poor girl, but they did. this shows that there are still beautiful people in the world
This is exactly how my first boyfriend for 3 years was to me. I wish someone had stood up for me. Being young and Naive makes you vulnerable. I’m happy we are making aware of this. It happens more than you think.
Years later, today If I would see this in public I would definitely say and do something.
Daaanngg! That girl who said, “Did you just say you have the right to abuse your girlfriend?!”
I wish I had balls like that!
Meowline - lol wdym it's nothing something extremely intense to say
Her eyebrow raise thooo
She may have said that at first then she said to the girl that she has the right to everything 😵😵
Meowline - me to
It's not exactly the thing you "wish" you had, you know the "balls" to say you have the right to abuse you girlfriend
Traci should have played the boyfriend.
🤣💀
I'm rolling 😂😂😂😭😭
AHAHAHHSHA
😂😂😂😂😂😂👍👍
😂
I'm always touched to see people's kindness..
Especially these last women... Applause to them!
the boyfriend looks like he’s named colin and his mum picks out his clothes for him
pfft i know someone named colin and looks like his mom picks out his outfits
yo just a reminder this is a show and these actors are people, no matter how shitty the characters are, don’t insult the actors personally (eg. their appearance, etc)
@@islaw2936 yeah i know but the show choose the characters outfits and stuff so i’m not actually talking about the actor himself
@@hanasall2814 nice
His name would be more of a Conner, Mike, or Dylan
“There is a problem, I’ve heard it, I’ve identified it, but...” DUDE SERIOUSLY 😳
A Rolls I know like tf
EPIC BETA MALES!!
Yo exactly I was like wtf
That guy felt like more of an actor than any of the real cast smh XD
He is Einstone..
This still makes me emotional because I had no one help me when I was in the same situation but at least there are still some kind people in the world
these two people are insanely good at acting graces sad voice and the “verbal bf” the way he was shouting was honestly so impressive they seem so young aswell
“ people deserve happiness, and he was taking that away from her” wow beautiful 🥰
@@shannonmalla_08 fax
ShannonOCE it was a customer that said that, not an actor. n they’re not condemning the male actor, they’re just saying those words were very beautiful n inspiring wtfff
@@shannonmalla_08 bruh they never do that
ShannonOCE the customer said that not the actor get ur facts straight
its not like he was a actor or anything...
Someone: Holds up a gun to someone else’s head
THAT guy: y’know he didn’t shoot them *yet-*
I laughed to hard at this
@@freezyjv6262 glad I made you laugh 😌
THAT guy: “if the bullet was between the gun and her brain, my reaction would be different”
@@MsSUPER511 Y’all are HILARIOUS 😭😭
omg HAHAHHSGSGDGDHD
My only issue is when the woman said “you’re too pretty to be treated that way” so if someone is ugly than it’s okay…???
I love how even someone younger than her still has the power to change her mind and to get rid of that man
that first guy who didn’t want anyone to get involved is stupid. 💀
Ashlyn Claxton fr 💀
There is actually some truth to it, in that abusers can take their anger on being confronted out on their victims when out of sight. This is why it can be a delicate process when intervening in domestic abuse cases. Abusers HATE the idea of their victims escaping their power, and they’ll do anything to keep it.
@@ChibiMieko You do have a point. Some victims can get beaten or killed when their abuser feels that they lost their power or being found out about. This is a very sensitive situation. So staying out of it is sometimes the better thing to do.
When you're a weak old jew like that guy, it's probably the best decision just to keep your head down.
Right what tf is he even talking about 😂😂
Guy in blue shirt:' I've identified there is a problem, but lets not talk about it because we'll make it worse!' Ha, great words from a coward!
1827Beethoven how does that make him a coward? He has a very valid point, he may of thought if he gave the man shit she’d get a worse beating at home.
Right! That guy says he was trying to deescalate the problem but if that were really the case he should have spoke to both guys not just the one guy trying to help. He acted like the couple weren't there watching 😂.
@@ItsMeChrisB23 That just an excuse to justify our own fear... seriously, if someone is beaten in front of your, you will not act.... because your afraid of the consequence?
Sometime, we need to take the risk, even if its might get worse...
@@ItsMeChrisB23 Or he didn't intervene, didn't give her the option or security to speak up and she goes home only to be murdered.
Guesly-A. Coulanges if he somehow went home, it would get worse. I agree that you should just wait until they fet to the door then get him or call the police
I love that the first guy in the yellow shirt just ignored the other guy about getting involved and still asked if she was okay.
I’m acutally crying. The last one truly had me tear up.
Person: **sneezes**
Me: Bless you
John: Excuse me what made you say “bless you”
Me: Uhh..
Lol XD
You: ugh I just feel I need to step up when someone ugh has a umm a sneeze. I just felt the need to do that otherwise that person could end up in a terrible situation!
Also you:😭😭 *through tears* It just hit very close to home since I have also *starts fanning yourself* sneezed! Wah wah wah !😭😢
Also you: why did you need to do this, are you out of scenarios?
@@justanaveragenerd8560 *scenarios...root word "scene". Wow, get literate.
@@Ultamami thanks for the spell check
Ok but like the girls acting is perfect like she looked scared when people talked to her about him
Hey gorgeous love your profile pic.
gimmiedashasha IM SCREAMING LMFAOOO
gimmiedashasha LMFAO
gimmiedashasha LMAOOOO WTFF HAHAHAH
@@gimmiedashasha Lol.
The actor who played Nick looked just like a pick-me boy/nice guy. The clothes, the hair, everything just done to perfection.
That little girl a great actress, nails the abuse victim look on her face.
“If we talk about it, it makes it worse” this is why a lot of domestic violence cases end in death, because people are afraid to talk. People need to stop having this mindset.
He meant that confronting the man could make him angrier. If you're doing something, and someone just comes to you, telling you it's wrong, minding YOUR business, and you're already mad, for some people, this could cause them to get angrier or snap/ lash out violently. He didn't want the situation to escalate.
Well a lot of domestic violence cases end in death because people interfere but the interference only lasts while they're in public, and once the couple is alone once again the abusive one can blame the other because they made a scene thanks to her not obeying -especially since he didn't hit her to begin with-.
Basically, the problem isn't what happens at the restaurant, but what it says about the whole relationship, and the relationship needs to be fixed way more than the restaurant situation. The man's reaction felt hella fake (who would say "don't talk about it" if someone already spoke anyway) so I'm pretty sure this guy was acting and placed here to piss viewers off, but he wasn't necessarily wrong ; if the boyfriend abuses her, you might just put her in even more danger by confronting the situation without breaking the relationship.
V Vey I definitely see where your coming from. Since I’ve typed this comment I can definitely see where it can make it worse. What I meant was someone needed to take more action. Speaking up and taking to the girl was a good first move but she should be removed from the situation entirely. Definitely understand how it could make it more dangerous though.
Yann cedric Totsingan lol what? He’s a punk ass looking kid, he ain’t killing anybody, especially in a fucking cafe’?? Please read my other comment before you try to be funny :)
JIFFYPOP! I definitely agree with u idk why some people are afraid to take action that they know will end worse if they don’t take action.
My house is on fire, I've identified it, but if we talk about it, it'll make it worse........
Different situations dude...
i choked 😂
I’m drowning but don’t worry I’ve identified it and I won’t do anything because I’ll just make it worse.
User name again, a different scenario
@@treyisthename1132 oh really I didnt notice
My messages to women and young girls as a woman who was abused by a so called man you deserve better and never let any man dictate what you can and can’t do know your worth and know that you deserve more than to be someone’s punching bag
Gosh that first couple was so good at acting that it felt totally real!
cashier: would you like to donate a $1 to starving children
me: No Thanks
"hi this is John Quinones"
this is my worst fear lol
Lmao
tyssa macias z
🤣🤣🤣😭
😂😂😂🤣🤣 i cant stop laughing help meeee🤣🤣🤣
Now I'm gonna be paranoid every time the cashier asks me that 😂😂
All the moms be like AVENGERS ASSEMBLE!
This made me laugh
XD
Yes, they're F*ckin Awesome I Loved that all of them came up to her and ignored the Douche of a Boyfriend talked to her and got his A** out of the Cafe!! Go Mom's, Mom's Assemble!!
Yup, this is my I love my mom.
😂😂😂
All of them were such angels!! 💗💗.. especially the yellow t shirt man in the beginning and the purple scarf lady! 🫶🏻🙌🏻
she's a very good actress.
“Did you say you have THE RIGHT to abuse your girlfriend?” Even I shivered😟get his ass queen😚
IKR
Ya it’s not right to abuse ur girlfriend or boyfriend.
she was a queen
Yes the absolute fury of women scorned was in her eyes. It's why I'm gay. Those looks terrify me from women! Nobody has the right to abuse anyone, gay or straight!
men can be abused too
5:36 the boy be like, "damn lady, I'm just an actor"
#hashtag # that could’ve been so much better if u didn’t say “be like” 😴
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
She is indian
Manpreet Kaur ok?
I love seeing that there are great people willing to get involved.
First guy made me cry honestly. That was so sweet.
That first guy in the blue was trying to be all smart and philosophical. Smh. Just do the right thing man, don’t overthink it.
NiftyFish exactly! Cut the corporate bullsh’t and step up
Generic TM nah ur gay
He was a spineless pansy hiding behind fancy psychology jargon.
Probably does the same to his wife/gf behind closed doors lmao.
Generic TM I get what you’re saying however right is right and wrong is wrong. You see something say something! Period. Sitting back watching it happen is.. in my opinion, equal to the behavior . I would want someone to step up if I didn’t have a voice.
Generic TM but I have dealt with it. I said that’s my opinion. I also said I see your POV. My stance remains the same.
This always restores my faith in humanity ❤️
I am so glad I was not there because I would throw hands so quickly
Poor man in the yellow shirt looked absolutely mortified when John came into the cafe, as though he'd been caught out doing the wrong thing. Thank goodness for men like him; hits too close to home but shows an amazing amount of compassion.
belle enigma15 why did he look scared tho? i didn’t really understand it 😅
@@p00pysc00p cause he was talking to a 17 year old and nowadays people might take that the wrong way especially cause of his age.
@@memo503046 My thoughts too, especially since he had just handed him cash. Looked like he was getting ready to defend himself. What a guy, idk him but I love him.
He looks depressed
@Marksman King some people are genuinely good and are just scared of being seen as bad because of other shitty people. you don't know him _or_ his intention.