I cannot believe this channel has been active for 4 months and I am just now seeing it. Oh well, I am here now. I have been a watcher of Dr. Taraban on PsychHacks even longer that DSO. His videos are always concise and entertaining at the same time as being informative. Thank you for kicking off this page with him as your guest. Now I need to catch up.
I like how Doctor Orion keeps on trying to understand people and relationships. I might not agree with him in some things, but he is adorable. Once I asked a woman, who cheated her husband on with someone who worked in her house, why? One night stand with such a guy? She answered: "I really enjoyed, how much he was turned on by me. I felt like a woman again". It is very important guys to understand that you must keep on giving that feeling to your woman. If you stop, good luck with that, you will be cheated on, no matter how much value you can show.
Thanks for watching! Esther Perel famously said that female sexuality is "narcissistic" in nature. "Make me feel like an attractive, sexy person...". Men, on the other hand, tend to be more preoccupied with what their partner feels. "Was it good for you?!" Not always, of course. But if a woman feels that she is the sexiest thing in the room... it's going to have a profound effect on her sexuality. Not so much for the average guy.
@@RealHelpForMen No, not in this case. That woman was neglected, and this was the point when she realised it. After this affair, she divorced. Never met that guy again, but married again. Female sexuality is rather submissive, than narcissistic, I think. They want to feel charming, to see their man high. But there are narcissists aswell, sure.
Hi ! HFM this channel has a potential to grow Keep it up 👍 . Help men how to be a real man never teach them to hate woman. Hope women also not to hate men. We need each other to make our planet a better place to live. Thanks for inviting Dr. O and I really like this kind of talk 👍 GodSpeed 🙏
The bigger pool, it is like the bride who has to choose between 5 dresses and the other who has an entire warehouse of wedding dresses to pick , the second one is never satisfied enough ( maybe there is a perfect dress in this warehouse) they can't choose.
@@RealHelpForMen you essentially painted women as this psychotic amalgamation of instability. from 41:30 to 44:11. and your response for the guy each time was essentially "sucks that you didn't know this, but deal with it!" Its as if Men are this casual dressed dog owner, meanwhile women are the dog and there running at every car that drives by, taking pisses and shits randomly, barking at kids and other dogs, biting the owner sometimes randomly, trying to bite strangers as well just a picture of a dysregulated creature. women are not as chaotic as your painting them out to be. but even your example of the divorced dad back in the dating market trying to date a woman thats a high powered CEO... why the fuck would a man do that, all the things men are typically looking for in a relationship that woman will have an extremely hard time providing.
I see a lot of men recoiling from this interview, stating that it makes them even more anxious. I don't get that, why does it seem so scary? For me, it's the opposite. It makes sense of so much that used to be bewildering. There's nothing in this interview that should fill someone with dread. The message is, Have Hope! There are absolutely things you can do to have a better time dating and meeting women! I can only imagine that the anxious men simply want to remain passive partners and let life happen to them. But life will hand you nothing. You're men! Stand up, and start reaching for the things you want. Don't retreat into your comforts.
Herophilus & Erasistratus were accused of dissection & vivisection of humans - considering they served Ptolemy in Alexandria - If they said to the god-king: "We can find the secret of immortality!" I'm pretty sure he'd say: "take 1000 criminals, do the research!" So, some people are willing to cut things apart and find how things work.
Got a few questions for you: What does charm mean to you? Why did that comment generate such a reaction in you? Are you offended for most men? Are you standing up for yourself? If you are that charming, what is the impact of his description on you? If he is mistaken on the charm rate the average man has, why does it matter to you?
@@nikeisagreekgoddess4135 how about just become a better version of yourself? Some people are more interesting to talk to then others when it comes to men. People are nice to me, men, women etc.
The lack of self-awareness here! All this talk about desirable men but you’re talking about what men think women desire. Edit: right after I comment, you talk about the cat/milk analogy so you do understand that you don’t understand!
Thanks for watching! Go take a break, get some food, come back when you have more energy to withstand genuine conversation. Sorry, that was shitty... but so was your needless comment.
I cannot believe this channel has been active for 4 months and I am just now seeing it. Oh well, I am here now. I have been a watcher of Dr. Taraban on PsychHacks even longer that DSO. His videos are always concise and entertaining at the same time as being informative. Thank you for kicking off this page with him as your guest. Now I need to catch up.
Thank you for watching, my man!
Amazing wisdom about talking about value from 45:34- 51:49. Gems that can fill up a diamond mine.
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Orion Taraban is a genius....just raised a million notches....
Thanks for watching!
I like how Doctor Orion keeps on trying to understand people and relationships. I might not agree with him in some things, but he is adorable.
Once I asked a woman, who cheated her husband on with someone who worked in her house, why? One night stand with such a guy? She answered: "I really enjoyed, how much he was turned on by me. I felt like a woman again".
It is very important guys to understand that you must keep on giving that feeling to your woman. If you stop, good luck with that, you will be cheated on, no matter how much value you can show.
Thanks for watching! Esther Perel famously said that female sexuality is "narcissistic" in nature. "Make me feel like an attractive, sexy person...". Men, on the other hand, tend to be more preoccupied with what their partner feels. "Was it good for you?!" Not always, of course. But if a woman feels that she is the sexiest thing in the room... it's going to have a profound effect on her sexuality. Not so much for the average guy.
@@RealHelpForMen No, not in this case. That woman was neglected, and this was the point when she realised it. After this affair, she divorced. Never met that guy again, but married again.
Female sexuality is rather submissive, than narcissistic, I think. They want to feel charming, to see their man high. But there are narcissists aswell, sure.
Hi ! HFM this channel has a potential to grow
Keep it up 👍 . Help men how to be a real man never teach them to hate woman. Hope women also not to hate men. We need each other to make our planet a better place to live.
Thanks for inviting Dr. O and I really like this kind of talk 👍
GodSpeed 🙏
Thank you for watching!
@@RealHelpForMen yw👍
When you understand a women ways you can't help it
@@H1GHD3FF hi ! We need more courses or talks or eye opening on Understanding men and women or about human nature 😊.
Great info brought to the table.
Thank you so much for watching!
The bigger pool, it is like the bride who has to choose between 5 dresses and the other who has an entire warehouse of wedding dresses to pick , the second one is never satisfied enough ( maybe there is a perfect dress in this warehouse) they can't choose.
46:37-48:08 Thank you...! People that judge are often so stupid themselves.
👏 👏 👏 Finally!
Thank you for watching!
Much of this is depressing AF and scary. I thought I was secure but I’m back to being extremely ANXIOUS. Ugh!!!
What is it that made you feel anxious?
@@RealHelpForMen you essentially painted women as this psychotic amalgamation of instability. from 41:30 to 44:11.
and your response for the guy each time was essentially "sucks that you didn't know this, but deal with it!"
Its as if Men are this casual dressed dog owner, meanwhile women are the dog and there running at every car that drives by, taking pisses and shits randomly, barking at kids and other dogs, biting the owner sometimes randomly, trying to bite strangers as well just a picture of a dysregulated creature.
women are not as chaotic as your painting them out to be.
but even your example of the divorced dad back in the dating market trying to date a woman thats a high powered CEO... why the fuck would a man do that, all the things men are typically looking for in a relationship that woman will have an extremely hard time providing.
It’s alive
I see a lot of men recoiling from this interview, stating that it makes them even more anxious. I don't get that, why does it seem so scary? For me, it's the opposite. It makes sense of so much that used to be bewildering. There's nothing in this interview that should fill someone with dread. The message is, Have Hope! There are absolutely things you can do to have a better time dating and meeting women! I can only imagine that the anxious men simply want to remain passive partners and let life happen to them. But life will hand you nothing. You're men! Stand up, and start reaching for the things you want. Don't retreat into your comforts.
Amen, brother. Thanks for watching!
Just don’t get married
Herophilus & Erasistratus were accused of dissection & vivisection of humans - considering they served Ptolemy in Alexandria - If they said to the god-king: "We can find the secret of immortality!"
I'm pretty sure he'd say: "take 1000 criminals, do the research!"
So, some people are willing to cut things apart and find how things work.
Can you show us the research on X about sexual promiscuity ?
@@hckpodcast why do you care about the research?
Sure! Here ya go: x.com/datepsych/status/1732575354554868115
R. O. I.....return on investment
Most men aren’t that charming? Speak for yourself bro. I think Orion misses the point on a few things.
Got a few questions for you:
What does charm mean to you?
Why did that comment generate such a reaction in you?
Are you offended for most men?
Are you standing up for yourself?
If you are that charming, what is the impact of his description on you?
If he is mistaken on the charm rate the average man has, why does it matter to you?
@@nikeisagreekgoddess4135 how about just become a better version of yourself? Some people are more interesting to talk to then others when it comes to men. People are nice to me, men, women etc.
Most men aren't tho, and he's talking about it from a women's perspective. I think a better word he could have used is charismatic.
@@jukijunk go do sales for awhile, it will help you develop it. I also think he’s talking about himself mostly.
@@D2222 That answer confuses me even more. I don't see a trace between it and your initial comment.
The lack of self-awareness here! All this talk about desirable men but you’re talking about what men think women desire.
Edit: right after I comment, you talk about the cat/milk analogy so you do understand that you don’t understand!
I'm 8 minutes in and not a damned thing has been said yet.
Thanks for watching! Go take a break, get some food, come back when you have more energy to withstand genuine conversation. Sorry, that was shitty... but so was your needless comment.
Meet me in a seedy alley.
Orion can be nefarious with me.