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  • @milla4898
    @milla4898 7 місяців тому +15061

    Felt like a breakup therapy session for the lesbians haha

    • @EclecticCleric
      @EclecticCleric 7 місяців тому +914

      A lot of insecurity

    • @Seeyeay
      @Seeyeay 7 місяців тому +1060

      one is much more mature than the other

    • @sirrparker47
      @sirrparker47 7 місяців тому +672

      @@SeeyeayNah, I feel like the one on the left kept it real af and the one on the right kept tip toeing around the questions

    • @Ibt1sam
      @Ibt1sam 7 місяців тому +649

      the one with short hair seemed very full on and quite insecure, the other was very patient and collected and seemed very secure in herself

    • @dave85104
      @dave85104 7 місяців тому +520

      @@sirrparker47 felt like the opposite cuz the right one felt more mature to me but didnt want to offend the left. the left one was the type to force a relationship or connection (whether it was the kiss or pda) when clearly the other person wasn't feeling the vibe. gotta respect people's boundaries

  • @lydiakordonowy7724
    @lydiakordonowy7724 7 місяців тому +8300

    No one’s gonna mention how amazing Deja is for saying that she doesn’t appreciate being sexualized, even in micro comments like the ass thing? Cause that made me so happy

    • @joanne0
      @joanne0 7 місяців тому +121

      i know what you’re trying to say but it just comes off a bit weird

    • @theekatspajamas
      @theekatspajamas 7 місяців тому +589

      ​@@joanne0I need you to explain to me how it's weird that she's setting boundaries around being sexualized

    • @aaryan6088
      @aaryan6088 7 місяців тому +400

      @@theekatspajamas i mean the question was what's your favourite PHYSICAL attribute, so the answer made sense. If the question was 'what's your favourite attribute' I'd see why she felt uncomfortable, but consenting to this truth or drink game while knowing about the questions asked and being offended is weird.

    • @Victor-gr4mz
      @Victor-gr4mz 7 місяців тому

      LMAO you're hanging in some pseudo intellectual communities to think humans are above being sexualized. It's natural. Are you in some higher plane of existence?

    • @Galaxylion_omega
      @Galaxylion_omega 7 місяців тому +384

      @@aaryan6088yea but she still allowed to feel uncomfortable about the answer being her ass instead something like her smile.

  • @Orangeandlemonscents
    @Orangeandlemonscents 7 місяців тому +4584

    Respectfully, Vee seems a bit emotionally insecure. She didn’t give Ari a chance to give her answers. She wouldn’t allow Ari to give her answers how she feels and when she gave Vee what she was asking for she gets a “that’s it?”. Sometimes opposites don’t attract🤍

    • @1LauraMeow
      @1LauraMeow 7 місяців тому +46

      Yeah, if it's extremely opposite or too similar, it's not gonna work. Just like puzzle pieces, the same puzzle pieces from the same picture won't work together, the same shaped puzzle pieces from different pictures won't work

    • @aereid6
      @aereid6 7 місяців тому +43

      It seems like a classic anxious avoidant dance.

    • @dark3rthanshadows
      @dark3rthanshadows 7 місяців тому +6

      YES! everything and the worst part is letting someone double text without being clear about wanting something or not! WTF that's messed up. If you're not into a girl that u hang out just say it. don't let her double text and vice versa.

    • @theprousteffect9717
      @theprousteffect9717 3 місяці тому +8

      Vee seems insecure, but to be fair, Ari genuinely didn't seem into Vee and Vee could tell.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@theprousteffect9717Vee blamed her for it instead of just accepting it.

  • @nakiaajae
    @nakiaajae 7 місяців тому +3162

    Ari needs her own spin off so we can hear wtf she was trying to say

    • @sofiab2920
      @sofiab2920 7 місяців тому +16

      Fr lmao

    • @kennethmahlaba9200
      @kennethmahlaba9200 7 місяців тому +4

      😂

    • @sexicoolgurl1
      @sexicoolgurl1 7 місяців тому +1

      😭😭😭😭😭

    • @agreatmannamedlieu
      @agreatmannamedlieu 7 місяців тому +49

      Nothing. That's the point. Her sentences have no direction nor destination. She makes nuance where there is none. It's either yes. Or no. Sometimes. But there is no leader in this dynamic, so it should be expected 🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @no-xx1hl
      @no-xx1hl 7 місяців тому +121

      @@agreatmannamedlieu someone take vee's phone away lmao

  • @OriginallyToowie
    @OriginallyToowie 7 місяців тому +5436

    Ari is soooo patient. She deserves better

    • @yasmineali8043
      @yasmineali8043 7 місяців тому +425

      and she certainly knew that 😂 vee had no shot w that attitude

    • @chaeryeong991
      @chaeryeong991 7 місяців тому +410

      ari keeps beating around the bush. i understand vees frustration. ari needs to be straight forward

    • @user-iv4jb4mv5w
      @user-iv4jb4mv5w 7 місяців тому +471

      vee seems very insecure and keeps misunderstanding ari because of that. dynamics like that are so frustrating

    • @g.o.a.t8208
      @g.o.a.t8208 7 місяців тому +66

      @@chaeryeong991Some feelings or opinions aren’t black and white though.

    • @victoriaaguilar94
      @victoriaaguilar94 7 місяців тому +135

      I feel like Ari could never finish a sentence.

  • @jonaswolterstorff3460
    @jonaswolterstorff3460 7 місяців тому +6397

    Cut doing it again. Listening to the community. It’s like the fourth time where a comment was picked up. Delightful community engagement.

  • @milla4898
    @milla4898 7 місяців тому +7452

    THE FOLLOW UPS WE’VE NEEDED!!!

    • @angelmushahf
      @angelmushahf 7 місяців тому +11

      Yes but I still want to see more couples

    • @diamondeveridge9775
      @diamondeveridge9775 7 місяців тому +1

      The way I started yelling “YESSSSSSSSSSS”😂😂😂

    • @BelaDesouza_
      @BelaDesouza_ 7 місяців тому

      YES FINALLY!!!

    • @BelaDesouza_
      @BelaDesouza_ 7 місяців тому

      @@x9x9690most likely an AI

    • @marie-piergirard6214
      @marie-piergirard6214 7 місяців тому +1

      Can someone give me the link to the first video ?

  • @ultraviolettas
    @ultraviolettas 7 місяців тому +7433

    WE HAVE WAITED OUR ENTIRE LIVES FOR THIS 😭😭😭

    • @nikeak
      @nikeak 7 місяців тому +7

      YES WE DID!

    • @x9x9690
      @x9x9690 7 місяців тому +17

      Whoever writing the captions on this jawn, put the n-word at 8:23 with the hard 'er' when it's suppose to be with an 'a'. Kinda weird. 🤨🤔
      Update : They fixed it to "N*gga" now. Thanks Cut for actually taking action.

    • @ultraviolettas
      @ultraviolettas 7 місяців тому +5

      @@x9x9690 wtf 🤨

    • @haleymendez3771
      @haleymendez3771 7 місяців тому

      i knowww

    • @carljohnson1106
      @carljohnson1106 7 місяців тому +1

      I'm with on that one Sis🙆🏿‍♂️🙆🏿‍♂️

  • @sofiaflores8229
    @sofiaflores8229 7 місяців тому +2218

    Why she getting mad bout not wanting her put her arms around her? People need to start respecting each others boundaries

    • @lorena.e
      @lorena.e 7 місяців тому +62

      I agree with you, but also she did mention that the other girl never said that beforehand. But still, gotta pay attention to body language cause if they aren’t feeling you you can usually tell

    • @piecebypiece2028
      @piecebypiece2028 7 місяців тому +114

      ​@@lorena.eif vee was a man, everyone would say that he should have asked before touching ari. Her being a women doesn't change that.

    • @goodmiusic3584
      @goodmiusic3584 7 місяців тому +88

      @@lorena.e if you listen ari said that she told her physical touch isn't really her thing ("isn't at the top rank of her love languages") before hand, so with that in mind plus the body language, Vee should have taken the hint or at least asked her if that was okay, especially on the very first date.

    • @thetopazwolf9550
      @thetopazwolf9550 7 місяців тому +19

      @@lorena.ePhysical boundaries should be assumed tho, she should have asked if she was cool with that.

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 2 місяці тому +1

      Exactly. They went on 1 or 2 dates, don't be pushy.

  • @jijijijibaby
    @jijijijibaby 7 місяців тому +1066

    7:21 Ari said she was fine with holding hands but then Vee put her arm around her-two different things. having your arm around someone is much more noticeable than holding hands in terms of PDA. props to Ari for just saying “i’m not gonna argue with you” bc Vee really was not prepared to listen, judging from the way she just interpreted the handholding conversation however she liked.

    • @agreatmannamedlieu
      @agreatmannamedlieu 7 місяців тому +3

      Noticeable? Are you in middle school? What does it matter who notices if you're with them and find them attractive? What bearing does that have in the relationship?

    • @jijijijibaby
      @jijijijibaby 7 місяців тому +40

      @@agreatmannamedlieu i hope you know that not everyone has the same opinion as you. you might not care about what others think, but some people are mindful of how they are perceived in public.
      this has everything to do with relationships because it’s about respecting boundaries. ari set her boundary by giving permission to hold hands, and vee decided for herself that ari would be okay with an arm around her. it may not seem like there’s not much of a difference between the two actions, but it could mean a whole lot to somebody else.

    • @kaywee4200
      @kaywee4200 6 місяців тому +8

      I agree completely. Hand holding isn't as suffocating.

    • @TheCRYSTALLURE
      @TheCRYSTALLURE 2 місяці тому

      @@agreatmannamedlieuso what it sounds like is YOU like PDA….whilst Ari stated PDA is very LOW on her list. Make it make sense. What works for you doesn’t always work for others. And that includes opinions.

  • @carolraydan9849
    @carolraydan9849 7 місяців тому +2944

    the lesbian couple fr, the masculine representing one, seems to have a shit ton of insecurities they just projected onto her...that was actually embarrassing

    • @joshuam4880
      @joshuam4880 7 місяців тому +177

      I think some of that is true, but also I think a lot of her points are pretty reasonable. Like being able to hold hands in public, the girl on the right getting really uncomfortable when she put her arm around her. I don't blame her for feeling insecure when girl on the right isn't reciprocating signs of love, or when she brings up money. The relationship won't work because the girl on the left can't meet the expectations of the girl on the right.

    • @angapleee
      @angapleee 7 місяців тому +245

      i’m sorry but the feminine one does NOT like her

    • @MHDbeauty
      @MHDbeauty 7 місяців тому +99

      But on the first (real) date? That's also a no from me, on the holding hands and having your arm around me!@@joshuam4880

    • @saphira122mimi
      @saphira122mimi 7 місяців тому +161

      @@joshuam4880 honestly i think she was just being too pushy with stuff. They had just meet at that time. I think is completely normal to not want to hold hands and putting other person arm around you. Even if i'd like the person, i would think that it was too much too fast and feel unconfortable.
      I agree that the money thing may come off judgemental to Vee, and i can see how that can hurt someone, but on the other hand - the way you spend your money can be a big issue in a relationship down the line if you dont agree in financially choices.
      Overall i dont think it was going to work

    • @camilla757
      @camilla757 7 місяців тому +57

      @joshuam4880 They hadn't even kissed. It's not common to put your arm around someone you haven't even kissed. That's more of a relationship thing. I think Ari was giving her a chance but ultimately did not feel an attraction. That's part of dating.

  • @whatever1want974
    @whatever1want974 7 місяців тому +6132

    Anyone else feeling second hand embarrassment watching the lesbians 😬. That was painful to watch

    • @MsMizz1
      @MsMizz1 7 місяців тому +264

      So hard. I was cringing so hard I started to clench 😩 and had to pause.

    • @bklynkat23
      @bklynkat23 7 місяців тому +325

      And I was rooting for Vee hardcore in the original video. So this was a little sad to see

    • @yasmineali8043
      @yasmineali8043 7 місяців тому +847

      Vee was so aggressive 💀 bro turned every answer from Ari into a negative thing

    • @cookiesnow6726
      @cookiesnow6726 7 місяців тому +314

      I’m glad other people felt the same way! I was like miss thing just let the lady speak and stop taking it so personally! Vee was aggressive.

    • @nonsuch3302
      @nonsuch3302 7 місяців тому +172

      i knew from Aris body language from the episode it wasnt gonna work out

  • @kickesuki9140
    @kickesuki9140 7 місяців тому +431

    Bucket hat girl seems like the type of person that either you do everything her way or it turns into a problem/discussion

  • @therealartie5747
    @therealartie5747 7 місяців тому +2675

    I love how the Button has grown to be some sort of reality show that has got everyone invested lol…More people need to subscribe and support this channel

    • @jasperro5839
      @jasperro5839 7 місяців тому +12

      I mean 11 mil...

    • @GohanSSJZ
      @GohanSSJZ 7 місяців тому +24

      They got 12 million subs, why are you talking like they are some small struggling channel that may or may not succeed based on subscriptions?

    • @BelaDesouza_
      @BelaDesouza_ 7 місяців тому +1

      I AGREE!! Me and my parents all sit together and watch this when I come back home from college😭

    • @Playsch00l
      @Playsch00l 7 місяців тому +4

      @@BelaDesouza_ you and your parents watch the sexfest that is Cut? 😂 wild asf lmao

  • @ala7829
    @ala7829 7 місяців тому +2249

    I like how deja told rico it didnt make her feel good when he sexualised her, more women need to say that

    • @YuhasLol
      @YuhasLol 7 місяців тому +66

      It was literally the question prompt.

    • @jacobchris356
      @jacobchris356 7 місяців тому +56

      I can understand her being mad if the question was. What's your favorite attribute? but it literally said physical no reason to feel sexualized especially when he's being a gentleman and he didn't try to do anything on the first date. She enjoyed the comment at first too, seems like she read too much into it later on

    • @shaina8947
      @shaina8947 7 місяців тому +114

      @@YuhasLol no; the question was about physical attribute, he could have said her smile/face/etc. especially since he said she was beautiful when they first met

    • @Galaxylion_omega
      @Galaxylion_omega 7 місяців тому +1

      @@jacobchris356no she allowed to feel uncomfortable that the first physical attribute was her ass and not her face. She didn’t seem like she liked it, she seemed like she was smiling out of uncomfortably and I think deja Christain.

    • @lolololololollol4793
      @lolololololollol4793 7 місяців тому +40

      @@jacobchris356thats not being a gentlemen lol

  • @bklynkat23
    @bklynkat23 7 місяців тому +1375

    I've been dying for follow-ups but never in a million years would have thought to use Truth or Drink as the way to do it. Genius!!!!

  • @deshonelynch2299
    @deshonelynch2299 7 місяців тому +618

    Vee's energy felt so weird. I dont understand how you can get upset at someone for having boundaries. Whether they explicitly say it or not, you gotta read that body language and be fine with the fact that they dont want to be touched. Just because someone says yes to hand holding does not mean they are ok with other physical interaction.
    It's not that hard folks.

    • @doodooman2957
      @doodooman2957 7 місяців тому +12

      seemed more upset at the disrespect and being passive aggressive about it she straight up belittled her financial status and indirectly said she is uglier vee was just a lot more direct

  • @ryansims8804
    @ryansims8804 7 місяців тому +230

    i know ari couldn’t WAIT to get away from the lady.

  • @tygarspace1754
    @tygarspace1754 7 місяців тому +1313

    I feel like the girl with the hat in the lesbian couple was just so insecure and disappointed. I didn't like the way she talked to the other girl, not letting her talk and just assuming things, including her being more "straight"

    • @Flowbeast
      @Flowbeast 7 місяців тому +144

      Insecure and kinda controlling imo I ain't gon lie. Like the type of person to force a love language on someone or to deform what the other person say to only understand what she want to understand and use words to her advantage

    • @Dontrolling
      @Dontrolling 7 місяців тому +104

      What she said literally made no sense too, how can someone being uncomfortable with physical touch be “straight vibes”. I’m straight and still don’t understand what that even meant. What does not liking PDA have to do with sexual orientation? I understand the other woman because if I’m just getting to know you I don’t want to be touched. Bucket hat is insecure and it was revealed in every reaction and question she had about herself. Even with a straight answer she couldn’t accept the response. I think the other woman gave great feedback and was very nice about all of it. Kinda just makes it understandable why it didn’t work.

    • @_Sabrina999
      @_Sabrina999 7 місяців тому +57

      Yeah the one in the flower shirt was sooo uncomfortable with hat lady! Didn’t want any physical contact on the first date and hat lady gets mad? I’d run from her.
      Edit: I spelled it flour shirt oops

    • @tygarspace1754
      @tygarspace1754 7 місяців тому +7

      @@Flowbeast yes! I think she wanted to be worshipped and get her ego up instead of really being vulnerable and honest with each other

    • @tygarspace1754
      @tygarspace1754 7 місяців тому +22

      @@Dontrolling yes! She was just pushing her opinion that the other lady wasn't that into her but I agree that you don't have to throw yourself at each other on the FIRST date...

  • @NinaMans
    @NinaMans 7 місяців тому +780

    dude, the girl in the hat was so pushy! she complained about every little thing the other girl did or said. if someone acts like that in the beginning of a relationship, specially in front of others, i immediately jump to the conclusion that they're gonna get really mean in a long term relationship/behind closed doors

    • @jennaknight8863
      @jennaknight8863 7 місяців тому +17

      It's pretty sad...

    • @lolololololollol4793
      @lolololololollol4793 7 місяців тому +29

      youre right! this is why you cant ignore red flags in the beginning of the relationship cause itll only get worse

    • @Ellael98
      @Ellael98 7 місяців тому +19

      That was the perfect example of an insecure, anxious attacher and a more stable or a lil avoidant person, maybe… you could see she was a lil turned off by the other girl always double checking if she was attractive etc… if there’s no confidence and you don’t like yourself enough, the other person is always pouring into a glass with a hole.

    • @kamilatopolska6836
      @kamilatopolska6836 7 місяців тому

      Yeah..... She is toxic af

    • @scottrogue946
      @scottrogue946 7 місяців тому +8

      Yes! I always pay attention to how my dates treat others around them especially people who can’t do anything for them. You notice a lot 😮

  • @sid808s
    @sid808s 7 місяців тому +894

    Curtis saying “do you know how humiliating it is to not be the thumbnail” LMAOOOO as if he’s not one of the most iconic cut guests

    • @BillyByeah
      @BillyByeah 7 місяців тому +56

      This dude is so entitled. Why would you want screen time if everyone's gonna hate you ?

    • @lstokes1231
      @lstokes1231 7 місяців тому +9

      Me and my boyfriend both bust out laughing at this 😂😂😂😂

    • @gneesocks
      @gneesocks 7 місяців тому +34

      the way that he wasn't the thumbnail for this video... i laughed

    • @jadesanni9157
      @jadesanni9157 4 місяці тому +1

      @@BillyByeahwe love curtis over here

  • @courtney7264
    @courtney7264 7 місяців тому +710

    this video feels like putting the last puzzle piece in a puzzle and we thank you

  • @karaisverycool9423
    @karaisverycool9423 7 місяців тому +1045

    girl in the hat seems toxic as hell

    • @koolerman4443
      @koolerman4443 7 місяців тому +75

      Agreed, she needs to not get mad at her date cuz she expects her partners to not be broke?😂. Sitting there saying 'But you don't even know me!' 🤦‍♂. No way should she feel pressured to lower her standards, esp with finances.
      Don't be so bitter, and get your money 👆 👆 How you want to date someone and not have your life together 😂😂 I'm glad she didn't back down cuz that bucket head chic was working my nerves.

  • @juanmacias5922
    @juanmacias5922 7 місяців тому +1058

    Bruh, like I knew Curtis was serious about the ranch lube story, but hearing it again just confirms it's validity. LMFAO xD

    • @bklynkat23
      @bklynkat23 7 місяців тому +43

      I know right!!! I'm like oh my God not the ranch story again 🤣

    • @unclecondog9807
      @unclecondog9807 7 місяців тому +59

      That is actually disgusting

    • @MsDudette21
      @MsDudette21 7 місяців тому +29

      thats crazy cuz u rly dont want food in your uretha

    • @sandirr9955
      @sandirr9955 7 місяців тому +13

      @@MsDudette21 using ranch as lube and doing it raw is crazy dude...

  • @rebeccasykes3862
    @rebeccasykes3862 7 місяців тому +187

    I'm sorry but if Vee was a man complaining about a girl not wanting to be physical after ONE DATE, all hell would break loose

    • @Raddiebaddie
      @Raddiebaddie 7 місяців тому +38

      I mean have you read these comments they’re very much not in favor of her

    • @jadesanni9157
      @jadesanni9157 4 місяці тому +6

      @@Raddiebaddieyeah, idk what they’re talking about

  • @natpurser9251
    @natpurser9251 7 місяців тому +197

    the lesbian in the hat saying the other woman had “straight vibes” because she didn’t seem to reciprocate romantically is very 🚩 🚩🚩

    • @dudeorduuude5211
      @dudeorduuude5211 2 місяці тому +2

      Ya. She made it the other woman's fault that she was too aggressive, didn't want to kiss her or be touched, or that she was broke. Hat lady, that is your fault, and that lady doesn't like your methods, you are too aggressive and insecure!

  • @BH-2023
    @BH-2023 7 місяців тому +234

    Low-key, bucket hat girl be mad toxic and insecure

  • @wariocheats9701
    @wariocheats9701 7 місяців тому +1936

    Deja is the finest person to come on this channel. I remember her from the button.

    • @roland1655
      @roland1655 7 місяців тому +29

      Nah Anita is the finest one

    • @wariocheats9701
      @wariocheats9701 7 місяців тому +48

      @@roland1655 idk who that is. But she has to be special. Because deja has the prettiest face ever

    • @roland1655
      @roland1655 7 місяців тому

      @@wariocheats9701 she’s on the button and on cuts video from yesterday

    • @wariocheats9701
      @wariocheats9701 7 місяців тому +52

      @@roland1655 ok just saw her. She’s gorgeous. My heart melts for Deja tho. But aye can’t go wrong. 2 beautiful women

    • @keys2467
      @keys2467 7 місяців тому +1

      Nah

  • @mbongenimabaso9795
    @mbongenimabaso9795 7 місяців тому +126

    i don't know why i was expecting people to be in love

  • @kallmefunny7291
    @kallmefunny7291 7 місяців тому +286

    If they’re doing this.. Then they need to bring back that guy that pushed the button on Coach twice.. Cannot remember his name but he said it was too good to be true and didn’t like being called toxic.

    • @bklynkat23
      @bklynkat23 7 місяців тому +11

      Yes!!!!! Omg.... I can't remember his name either but definitely needs to come back

    • @MsMizz1
      @MsMizz1 7 місяців тому +2

      That would be good match !!

    • @thatssojojo6668
      @thatssojojo6668 7 місяців тому +12

      ⁠his name was “Saint”.

    • @t.lockheart8565
      @t.lockheart8565 7 місяців тому +1

      Yes I think about that episode every time I see a button video

  • @leniisoriano
    @leniisoriano 7 місяців тому +111

    Vee was very aggressive. Ari is so patient i would’ve left 😂

  • @claff4573
    @claff4573 7 місяців тому +549

    She deserves someone who cares more about her than her body. She seems sweet

    • @Ivyana2015
      @Ivyana2015 7 місяців тому +70

      I think giving compliments is his love language. I feel that he had pure intentions

    • @user-kq7rf6uq4m
      @user-kq7rf6uq4m 7 місяців тому +46

      He was literally asked her most attractive feature and 99.99% of the time that's referring to someone's physical features.
      If it was what TRAIT he found most attractive that would be something completely different.

    • @YuhasLol
      @YuhasLol 7 місяців тому +57

      It's wild how y'all make an entire assumption based on 1 prompt. It's more like HE deserves someone better that will reply back to messages and not post on social media while leaving him on read (which is disrespectful AF)

    • @KL-nw9mi
      @KL-nw9mi 7 місяців тому +1

      Fax

    • @essenceofsoul27
      @essenceofsoul27 7 місяців тому

      Technically, they asked for his favorite attribute, not feature, so it didn't have to be something physical. She was disappointed because that's what his mind immediately went to even after speaking with her a few times and getting to know her. @@user-kq7rf6uq4m

  • @leeloodallas959
    @leeloodallas959 7 місяців тому +122

    Bucket Hat Lesbian was sooooo insecure and desperate. Like girl calm the f*** down lol. She didn’t even let the other girl talk and would create a conflict out of everything. No wonder it didn’t work.

  • @tejufreeman2473
    @tejufreeman2473 7 місяців тому +1637

    I can see what she was saying about Ari’s answers to questions. She beats around the bush A LOTTTT or gives long winded answers for yes-or-no questions which can get frustrating when coversing with someone, so I don’t blame her for the way she expressed her frustrations. On the other hand I don’t blame Ari for wanting someone more stable financial wise. It’s completely ok to have a financial standard.

    • @robert7567
      @robert7567 7 місяців тому +360

      I like the way she responds. For me, it’s her process. Otherwise, it feels Ari is being pressured to answer the way someone else wants her to. Perhaps her partner should be more patient and understanding. Seems selfish imo

    • @nala6846
      @nala6846 7 місяців тому +238

      I get that about Ari answering questions BUT I feel like maybe she just got tired from always having to validate the girl in the hat's emotions all the time. She seemed mad insecure and needy ngl 🤷‍♀Either way clearly they weren't a good match.

    • @artemuliashkevych7892
      @artemuliashkevych7892 7 місяців тому +22

      She would be an excellent choice for president

    • @tofuwiener
      @tofuwiener 7 місяців тому +41

      @@artemuliashkevych7892 she does kind of talk like a government official lol

    • @Francisca-wq4ei
      @Francisca-wq4ei 7 місяців тому +120

      It's literally not beating around the bush, she barely gets to finish a sentence ☠️

  • @Phoca_Vitulina
    @Phoca_Vitulina 7 місяців тому +122

    So glad for the update! Also Ari super reminded me of myself, being calm and careful not to offend the other person and giving the answers I could give without lying, but also being kind. Vee was being really immature and taking every comment Ari said, and twisting it to fit her narrative. I hope Ari finds that other mature person in her life

  • @MHDbeauty
    @MHDbeauty 7 місяців тому +782

    I feel like someone might let Cody have fun again with this one!

    • @Thehealthycreative_
      @Thehealthycreative_ 7 місяців тому +31

      I’ll be damned if anybody lets Mr. Cody Ko have fun again…

    • @dxzwq6365
      @dxzwq6365 7 місяців тому

      LMAO

    • @eglop5841
      @eglop5841 7 місяців тому

      Not too much fun

    • @kaywee4200
      @kaywee4200 6 місяців тому +2

      Surprised he didnt

  • @Roni2013
    @Roni2013 7 місяців тому +88

    Oh noooooooo, my heart dropped when she said I'm not gone argue with you 💔💔💔

    • @tonitone666
      @tonitone666 7 місяців тому +12

      Me too but i know why she said that, she wasn’t being listened to

  • @goodmangammering
    @goodmangammering 7 місяців тому +156

    You can’t just put the clip of him saying that he was outta line and used hidden valet ranch like that. I spit my water at the screen 😂 WHO DOES THAT?

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 7 місяців тому +9

      Watch video they posted just before that 🤣

    • @lichi1244eva
      @lichi1244eva 7 місяців тому

      OHMIGOODNESS 😳 hell nawwww

    • @vxbee7424
      @vxbee7424 7 місяців тому

      HE HAD TO BE JOKING BC AINT NO WAY

  • @Jennifer-gk5pk
    @Jennifer-gk5pk 7 місяців тому +33

    Ari and Deja, please stick to your boundaries and don't let anyone try to negotiate them no matter how much gaslighting they do

  • @noura1343
    @noura1343 7 місяців тому +65

    the girl with ari is so insecure she’s making things harder for them both, and ari is indifferent, tough couple

  • @dogaaki9311
    @dogaaki9311 7 місяців тому +54

    that person with the bucket hat is pushing poor ari way too far. seems like ari is a people pleaser but some day the knife's gonna hit the bone.

  • @bb-ss2ip
    @bb-ss2ip 7 місяців тому +18

    the stud had some grievances to air lol

  • @gammafrost
    @gammafrost 7 місяців тому +119

    I’m so happy Daysia came back 😂😂😂😂. She was super chill and obviously fine as hell. I’m kinda disappointed they didn’t really vibe after that after the second date.

  • @lucwijngaard8413
    @lucwijngaard8413 7 місяців тому +53

    Daizha might have been the best combination of looks and personality to ever be on the button and I was so hyped for Rico when he matched with her, hoped they had 20 grandkids by now

    • @ImRicoSuaveJr
      @ImRicoSuaveJr 7 місяців тому +23

      😂😂😂 we’ll be good friends of supporting each other on chasing our dreams as she’s an artist and I’m a photographer. Hoping the best for her as she’s really talented making music!

    • @primeservers356
      @primeservers356 6 місяців тому +2

      @@ImRicoSuaveJr Respectable man, keep that mindset about women and don't worry too much about finding love cause love finds you. Happy Holidays!

  • @maddyr5551
    @maddyr5551 7 місяців тому +22

    Ari has her standards/boundaries, Vee might not quite meet them and unfortunately instead of being okay and moving on she’s fighting her at every chance 💀

  • @ImRicoSuaveJr
    @ImRicoSuaveJr 7 місяців тому +167

    Thank y’all for having Daizha & I! 🙏🏾 It’s a blessing to be in these kinds of videos.

    • @shithappens420right
      @shithappens420right 7 місяців тому +17

      Can I ask what did you learn from this? And how did you take the sexualized comment that she expressed?

    • @ImRicoSuaveJr
      @ImRicoSuaveJr 7 місяців тому +80

      @@shithappens420rightI took what she said as like I’m getting to know her still. As she didn’t like the comment I made about it, I’ll know for next time if I do see her again or something, not to say it. Cause now I know how it will make her feel. It was my third time seeing her & I didn’t get to know her as much. Now I know 😁😂 She’s a blessing

    • @easytosing
      @easytosing 7 місяців тому

      @@ImRicoSuaveJr could we have her Instagram ? She’s so pretty

    • @rockssocks201
      @rockssocks201 7 місяців тому +5

      You are sooo handsome

    • @autumnmichaela1655
      @autumnmichaela1655 7 місяців тому +5

      Are you still shooting your shot or do you think it’s only meant to be a friendship?

  • @madhatterx3
    @madhatterx3 7 місяців тому +41

    Ari ran for hills for good reason 😂 good for her. Her ex was mad insecure. Like how are u going to blame ari for not wanting to sexually advance immediate upon encounter and not wanting to be with a financially unstable person.

  • @Chocol8tte
    @Chocol8tte 7 місяців тому +254

    I think it's possible and plausible for BOTH individuals in the lesbian couple to be justified in how they're feeling. Vee (hat) was overly excited to be with her from the jump but Ari really should've pushed that button. She wasn't feeling her but the pressures of everyone else cheering them on got to her. I think Vee got frustrated by the mixed signals and of course something as sensitive as finances would make anyone feel insecure. Long story short Ari should've kept it real from the jump and they wouldn't be here and Vee should learn to take hints

    • @piecebypiece2028
      @piecebypiece2028 7 місяців тому +45

      Naw Ari is fine. Vee needs to work through her insecurities.

    • @goodmiusic3584
      @goodmiusic3584 7 місяців тому +44

      Maybe Ari wanted to give it a shot and see how Vee actually was as a person before fully saying no. And when she saw how "needy" (for lack of a better word) Vee was she got the ick or really got disinterested in exploring more. Cause if someone is constantly overanalyzing everything you say and taking it the most negative way, and interrupting you, feeling entitled to touch you or display pda on the first date (when you told physical touch isn't really your thing), it can quickly make you lose any kind of interest. i don't you should blame her giving it a chance

    • @hersoulMusic
      @hersoulMusic 7 місяців тому +5

      I think that vee telling her to give straightforward answers was coo. It's something the other girl could likely benefit from, but also vee gotta see that she was turning everything negative by reading into it. It showed us that she may read into things cause she actually believes the lies about herself

    • @8beautylover8
      @8beautylover8 7 місяців тому +4

      nah she gives she'd become emotionally abusive with all her insecurities. she needs to seriously work on herself before dating with intention again.

    • @randomuser3441
      @randomuser3441 7 місяців тому +6

      Nah not rlly. Ari was feeling her at first. But Vee’s actions on the first date and in this episode turned her off completely. It’s clear as day Vee has some issues. Ari isn’t at fault at all.

  • @Para__Noia
    @Para__Noia 7 місяців тому +20

    Vee, I would say that I feel most of the things that you speak out.
    But I also feel that you are pressuring her with the way you talk and think about things. Not what you do/say but the way you do so. She seems to be unsure what time of behaviour and speech you expect or would like to see/hear.

    • @MsMizz1
      @MsMizz1 7 місяців тому +2

      This is what kind truth looks like ❤

  • @SHINeeismydrugXP
    @SHINeeismydrugXP 7 місяців тому +147

    I can tell the lesbian with the glasses feels inferior to the other one and desperately wants acceptance. She's just doing it so wrong and being so selfish, respect the woman that you are dating, her boundaries, she's trying to be respectful to you, please you and you still get upset cause she's not doing it how you would want. I assure you you are not doing it the way she wants but at least she's being respectful.

  • @ovanertega
    @ovanertega 7 місяців тому +81

    Can’t wait for Cody to see this one

  • @ImRicoSuaveJr
    @ImRicoSuaveJr 7 місяців тому +14

    I also like to say this. This part is just something that’s been on my mind lately while I’m liking & going through all the comments. I’m going to start there…in the last video as y’all could see I was liking all the comments where it was a few positive comments of myself, a good amount of Daizha & I, and mostly a lot of hate comments about myself. There was comments about where people were saying “I bet Rico is fucking” blah blah blah, that I was liking but didn’t need to comment about, but liking could give an answer as well, so it’s 50/50 on how people take it when I do that when I’m trying to realize everything. It makes them assume. Personally me, I’m not finna respond to that on the internet, the whole world don’t need to know. But now y’all know. I rather keep those things to myself & the other person privacy. I personally thought it was funny how they would just say that cause I wasn’t on “The Button” for lust or just to fuck. I was there for love but you only see one side of things when things are being edited. So I’m being called a fuckboy, a hoe, and all these other names when those names don’t got anything to do with me. I had people come up to me while I was at the gym, getting food or wherever I was at asking me if I fucked & etc., its weird to be asking first off, but I found that uncomfortable for myself cause I don’t be telling people who I fuck & shit, you know? But I told them straight up that I only got her flowers, we out to eat, talked about our lives then afterwards we left & both went home. Nothing more. Of course people were messaging me on my social medias as I gave them the same answer. People saying that I’m weird or I’m wrong for even liking the comments when I was literally liking everybody’s comments what was being said. I responded to the hate & the love comments as much as I could but to something about fucking, I didn’t. No need for a response for that, but like I said, a “like” could give a response.
    Another thing, I appreciate the people defending me & the people against me. I’m reading all the comments as I like what everybody is saying as I’m taking notes on how everybody could react to things. Some don’t give a fuck & say it’s an only a question while some do care. I’m seeing how everybody thinks, man or woman commenting their opinions. My comment is that, I thought it would be funny to say. it wasn’t right to say. I see all these famous UA-camrs saying it & etc., & I don’t see the woman saying anything about it but just laughing and going along with it. But everybody reacts differently to that so I understand that. Some will find it funny while some won’t. It’s right to speak up about it like how Daizha did when I made that comment. She expressed that, I learned that about her and we moved on from that. But to the famous UA-camrs, nothing happens to them and I thought to myself in that moment “Let me say it” and be like them when I should’ve been myself and commented on something different, you know? I deeply truly appreciate Daizha for letting me know how she felt after I made that comment as I took it as me getting to know her still & understanding that it wasn’t okay to say. Her & I are still friends supporting each other in our business that we’re doing. As y’all could see in the comments. But ending it off, now I’m labeled this or that just because of a comment I made. I’m going about this very professionally as I’m not perfect with what I say or with what I do as I’m still young and learning along the way like everybody else. I appreciate everybody, much love to all y’all. I’m still reading through the love & hate comments. 😂❤️ Things like this happens & we learn. I feel like I’m back defending myself again like how I was on the first video explaining to people about myself on how I’m not like that. But who knows if they care what I say after seeing a video of me for a couple minutes.

  • @banyasbeansofficial6484
    @banyasbeansofficial6484 7 місяців тому +80

    The majority of the relationships in the video were clear cut cases of one person accepting the date but not feeling super strong feelings towards the other person. this was so obvious with the lesbian couple. The girl who didn’t like touching her ex partner was 100% obviously on the fence, and was not 100% committed. I’ve been on both sides of this, and I saw it right away. Also I feel like the straight couples chemistery was slightly off. I think the dude was slightly more into her physically rather than emotionally (which is not by any means a bad thing), and the the girl didn’t really like that.

    • @purpledefaultpfp6233
      @purpledefaultpfp6233 7 місяців тому +4

      nah, honestly I don't think it's that. The questions they gave the dude were regarding physical appearance. This dude seemed to show interest in her and made an effort to connect with her and didn't even pursue any physical intimacy. He even said it him self "I wouldn't fuck a random" this guy isn't purely in it for the physicality of a girl. but then again thats just my perspective

  • @sanssmash9183
    @sanssmash9183 7 місяців тому +10

    10:50 this whole “yes or no” thing is reminding me a bit too much of my dad. He would always ask questions and when I explained dmg answer - or I guess tried to because he would always cut me off; he would just get passive aggressive and say “I’m asking for a simple answer, is that too much for you?” Yes, when you talk over me and sound stressed out it is. And as someone who always explains things, and sometimes uses an explanation as an answer; it felt like I couldn’t say anything.

  • @justsomeguyonyoutube8443
    @justsomeguyonyoutube8443 7 місяців тому +44

    Oh Cody is gonna LOVE reacting to this one!

  • @jordanbalinton0907
    @jordanbalinton0907 7 місяців тому +97

    yall need to bring back Durange pitt and his family i loved the videos with them.
    “sorry if i spelled his name wrong😅”

    • @nala6846
      @nala6846 7 місяців тому +14

      fr!!! he was one of the OGs

    • @K.YouTube2
      @K.YouTube2 7 місяців тому +3

      Durranged. And yes!

    • @bklynkat23
      @bklynkat23 7 місяців тому +3

      Real Talk!!! Throwback right there. True OGs

    • @davidx.1504
      @davidx.1504 3 місяці тому

      Goddamn, haven't heard that name in years.
      Kinda wish cut would bring some OGs back

  • @57goku
    @57goku 7 місяців тому +8

    Vee doesn’t have the patience to listen to what Ari is saying let alone allow a relationship to develop. She’s saying Ari is confusing bc she doesn’t want to understand her.

  • @jan_barba
    @jan_barba 7 місяців тому +20

    Cody ko finna go crazy w this one

  • @alviereyes2386
    @alviereyes2386 7 місяців тому +11

    Bucket hat girl and the other chick probably ended things on a bad note because that was INSANE there was some absolute tension fr

  • @RacingPepe
    @RacingPepe 7 місяців тому +16

    Curtis and Ari were my favorite people in this video. Ari, you deserve so much better. You are beautiful and very articulate, intelligant woman. The way Vee took all your words and made them to be something offensive or rude was very frustrating to watch.

  • @terrencejones6337
    @terrencejones6337 7 місяців тому +33

    Finally I’ve been wondering how it goes after the button lol

  • @siobhanr8192
    @siobhanr8192 7 місяців тому +9

    bucket hat needs therapy fr her entire energy and how shes treating the other person and responding is soooooo weird

  • @rainbowsunshine69
    @rainbowsunshine69 7 місяців тому +76

    Finally the follow ups we needed !!!! ❤❤❤ thank you!!!!!

  • @MizzBrownEyez1988
    @MizzBrownEyez1988 7 місяців тому +21

    The ending was not expected at all! Not Hidden Valley Ranch replacing the lube. Me and dude had the exact same reaction. 😩😳

  • @irene7338
    @irene7338 7 місяців тому +25

    The woman on the left gave me kinda bad vibes... Not sure how to explain it

  • @ol1603
    @ol1603 7 місяців тому +20

    man I really love how cut actually reads the comments and gives the people what they want

  • @xivonochabalala
    @xivonochabalala 7 місяців тому +80

    one thing about CUT, they'll always listen to our requests!

  • @marksilla8276
    @marksilla8276 7 місяців тому +82

    seeing the nature of the questions i get the sense that some couples might have made it and im definitely curious to see who made it.

  • @Six3SixTay
    @Six3SixTay 7 місяців тому +90

    THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I ASKED FOR!!! Let’s get ittttt!!!!👀🍿

  • @hannah-wj7cg
    @hannah-wj7cg 7 місяців тому +55

    the girl with the glasses is so insecure

  • @probablywhy
    @probablywhy 7 місяців тому +32

    5 minutes in and i already want more episodes!!!

  • @gav1natorhd
    @gav1natorhd 7 місяців тому +45

    Cody gonna love this

  • @ccarla7
    @ccarla7 7 місяців тому +18

    I get Vee’s frustration with not getting straight answers, but i feel like the vibes Ari is giving are loud …she doesn’t hate Ari but she fosho wouldn’t date her bc of how she reacts to things she thinks are no big deal.

  • @SojuGurlie
    @SojuGurlie 7 місяців тому +33

    The first time they all met it was nice but this rlly shows that once u get to rlly know someone sometimes it just doesn’t work out like that 🤡

  • @LealValker
    @LealValker 7 місяців тому +14

    Vee is an anxious attachment person I feel, she has a lot of bad vibes, clearly shes traumatized and is mad literally about every detail

  • @marrychrismas5993
    @marrychrismas5993 7 місяців тому +68

    1. What is the ratio of lasting relationships after The Button?
    2. Has there been a couple that started a family/marriage after The Button?

    • @natasharules6737
      @natasharules6737 7 місяців тому +10

      I feel like button is too recent for number 2

  • @Angel_nlmb420
    @Angel_nlmb420 7 місяців тому +39

    YOOOOOO FINALLY CUT IS PUTTING OUT QUALITY CONTENT

  • @michaelpoublon9707
    @michaelpoublon9707 7 місяців тому +4

    11:15 "OO! There was a spark!" Love this guy

  • @Yes-dy3nx
    @Yes-dy3nx 6 місяців тому +2

    not the producer saying “well maybe let her talk and say”
    YES QUEEN
    go off abt it

  • @tamiaedrington5762
    @tamiaedrington5762 7 місяців тому +41

    I dated a girl kinda like the girl in the hat and all I can say is Vee made the right call, RUN 😂 that behavior only gets worse and makes it harder to get away from them later. She seems like an emotional bully

  • @callunya
    @callunya 7 місяців тому +71

    This is exactly what we needed thank you! ❤

  • @eliza299
    @eliza299 7 місяців тому +5

    This was such an insightful and real video!! Props to everyone who opened up there, it's not easy

  • @ravenclawCP
    @ravenclawCP 7 місяців тому +8

    Yes, Cut!! I love these follow-ups, please keep them coming.

  • @zoiebates7074
    @zoiebates7074 7 місяців тому +7

    I've been waiting for The Button follow ups for soooooo long. So happy you guys did this!

  • @lesliejames3949
    @lesliejames3949 7 місяців тому +6

    Yall saying the girl in the hat was aggressive... look at the way the other girl couldnt even look her in the eye everytime she answered a question. she did not like her like that but she was def trying to make it work. girl in the hat was just frustrated by her not giving a direct answer!!

  • @neuroisis85
    @neuroisis85 7 місяців тому +26

    Yes...yes yes yes. Bring more of them. Bad dates or good. Y'all gotta keep us up about about those dates!

  • @lisagriffin8221
    @lisagriffin8221 7 місяців тому +7

    Cut listens to their audience and I love that for us 🥹

  • @mrfoxx6632
    @mrfoxx6632 7 місяців тому +24

    Deja is perfect! 😍 I would keep her smiling ear to ear just to see that beautiful smile!

  • @brodycoopermarlie123
    @brodycoopermarlie123 7 місяців тому +14

    1. I love Curtis and Jared 😭😭😭 my fuckin favorites.
    2. I love how Deja is a baddie and she’s very smart. I love how she peeped game and rejected the kiss.
    3. The lesbian couple? I have too much to say. All I gotta say is insecurities, indirect answers, and projection. That sums it up.

  • @faithmaru1295
    @faithmaru1295 7 місяців тому +11

    The awkward laughs throughout this video!!🥲🥲

  • @thekidd7
    @thekidd7 7 місяців тому +3

    'You made me feel like I'm a broke ass nigga!' 🤣🤣🤣
    My G, we all been there, keep pushin!

  • @emcheesy
    @emcheesy 7 місяців тому +6

    vee damn near harassing ari lol i would be so uncomfortable.

  • @janasoraya
    @janasoraya 7 місяців тому +7

    I love Cut they go with what people wana see and its always so positive amd fun

  • @terri02
    @terri02 7 місяців тому +15

    AMAZING idea need more of these!!!

  • @chrisroseman2684
    @chrisroseman2684 7 місяців тому +4

    PLEASE keep doing these!

  • @desmondforever08
    @desmondforever08 7 місяців тому +4

    on a side note: CURTIS IS SO FUNNYY I CANTTTT every time i see him i know the video was gonna be great

  • @13KateKa187
    @13KateKa187 7 місяців тому +3

    BROOOO PLEASE MORE OF THIS 🙏🏻

  • @sunny5ma
    @sunny5ma 7 місяців тому +3

    This was actually so cool to see. The aftermath of it all and especially like seeing where they are now... It's a really great idea, I'd like to see more of these!! So much fun, this video!! ❤

  • @Poniacvictim
    @Poniacvictim 7 місяців тому +1

    Cut, plz make more of these!! We need to know!!

  • @hmansz5985
    @hmansz5985 7 місяців тому +2

    this was the most entertaining cut video ive ever seen. it was so interesting to see the dynamics of these couples... so many positives and negatives to point out. nice video.