I love the “older” couple doing this. They’re really resetting the standards that come with getting into a relationship and it seems to work really well for them.
You mean the couple that started dating at 17, are in their 30s, he's fucked 20 people but never her because he wants a "deeper connection" because somehow 15 years is not enough to know someone. Nothing they said adds up at all lol
I think it takes much more courage being younger. At least for the men. Because from the ages of early and late 20's is when most men will have their highest amount of testosterone produced per day in their lifetime.
@@Haymakermma I don’t think there’s a problem with it, considering one of the couples was religious. I just liked seeing couples I could relate to because I’ve waited and it didn’t for religious reasons :))
I love this video and the boy saying "if there's any hesitation from her I'm done". I love that respectful manners. I had one person in my life that have done that for me when I was a virgin and I'm really thankful for that. It is simple but it's a big and meaningful gesture.
Its special when someone is like that... When I was 16, I met a guy from the other side of the country who was just passing through, and we connected the second we laid eyes on eachother.. He was 20 at the time, very attractive, and obviously had been with other girls before, and I had only had sex with 1 other person. But he was so respectful, didnt pressure me, didnt want anything from me but my love and my time. And I felt that then and even to this day, 14 years later, I know he's the one that got away. 🤷♀️ We had sex once (my idea), and it was one of the most intimate sexual experiences Ive ever had, because I knew he was a protector and deeply cared about me. 🖤
I found myself smiling throughout this video. How these people talk to each other, how much they respect each other, and how patient they're being with each other, makes me really happy. It gives me so much hope for the future, hoping one day I could find someone who'll give me the love I need and deserve. We all deserve that kind of love.
I haven’t watched the video yet, but as someone who was raised Catholic I immediately started laughing. I am assuming at least one of the couples are saving themselves for religious reasons and only Catholics can start off a conversation like this with, “shall we have a shot, my love?”
This gives me a lot of hope lol. So often, "waiting" couples are portrayed as being socially awkward and ugly. Everyone here seems "normal" and is attractive! Hoping to find a partner who's riding this wave.
@@brucopera I think they meant conventionally unattractive. This was the norm painted in much of the earlier literature and film. Then they started repainting the narrative with attractive people playing the waiting game---only one I can think of right now is Jane The Virgin.
So many relationships are based on how good the sex is and it takes a while for people to figure out they don't even actually like or really know their partners. I think waiting a while to build a connection will make the sex better and the realtionship improve overall. I personally wouldn't want to wait until marriage but waiting a few months or even a year isn't a bad thing. Sex shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship.
Nope, sex is great and should be celebrated, it is a way of truly getting to know your partner at a deeper level. It is incredibly important in a relationship.
@@BGWee Not necessarily. Some asexuals never have sex, but that doesn’t make their relationships any less intimate or emotionally deep, and some people just don’t always consider sex to be a priority. For some people it’s important, and others it isn’t - and both are ok.
How refreshing to see couples who have mutually agreed to wait, without it 'all' being about religion. I know quite a few young men, who are in their 20's and have decided to wait. So, I don't think it's quite as uncommon as many think. I wish these three couples great joy and long, happy lives together.
I love that it wasn’t about religious stuff. Was more about boundaries and respect. Also, I love the older couple. They feel like very safe people and fun!
@@PROVOCATEURSK why do you think monks make beer? Drinking isn't a sin lol, in fact in the middle ages people mostly drank alcohol because there was no real way to know wether water was clean or not
this made me feel so normal!! like i’ve never seen waiting couples interact prior to doing it. it’s typically people getting discussing their experience or why waiting was worth it. it’s rare to see the before and i love it so much. good vibes
This is the most wholesome episode about couples I think. My boyfriend and I waited for about 3 years (so until I was 18), because I wanted to be sure that if anything happened (protection didnt work or anything) that we're at least adults on paper. He waited until I was totally comfortable and we agreed on me taking the initiative when I'm ready.
“Everything is going the way it should from the expectations that i would want from someone who is the one” I think that was very beautifully said. Honestly we have so much expectations in relationships and from our idea of “the one”, it must feel good for it to go how you want/need
I really don't care about the reasons why, wait for sex if you feel you need to. For those reading the comments and getting discouraged about wanting to wait, don't be. Sex is just one part of a relationship and can be learned over time anyway, just make sure you are comfortable and ready above all else.
It’s refreshing to see people that are really bringing it back to the importance of that emotional relationship and trust being the most important part of a relationship. I hope to find someone that shares that same view as me and is willing to wait as long as I need to feel comfortable and ready.
I can respect this. I’ve been in relationships where the physical passion was there. And it did distract from becoming closer on a deeper level. Or where I’d confuse my lust with someone for actual feelings towards them. As I’m older now and have been single by choice for a couple of years now, I can definitely see myself going this route should I meet someone that I’m interested in enough to consider bringing them into my life.
As an asexual person it's really nice to see this type of close commitment and bond. Living in this hypersexualized world where I am treated like alien because I am attractive 30 years old virgin that doesn't want to have sex probably ever, this is such a breath of fresh air, because people do it so quickly before getting to know each other. I can't even hold hands with men, let alone other touching, because it just feels unpleasant to me.
@@forexbatman998 I didn't try to sound clever, I am just sharing my experience hoping some people will share theirs as well, so your comment doesn't make sense my guy.
The sexual tension takes me back to my school days… that type of love like there’s something new an exciting like it is having sex with the person you love for the first time.
my partner and i waited about 7 months before we had sex, and it was amazing. it’s only gotten better since then, and we knew each other so well by the time we did it, it was just so intimate and beautiful
I strongly believe sex is way better when you grow an emotional attachment and alot easier to notice when that attachment is gone if you wait. Also the red couple just makes me happy from how happy they are together. :)
The couple on red have great communication. The fact that she said “I love that, thank you for respecting me” shows the type of communication they have. Props to them
Really refreshing concept! I have been celibate for a decade & it is nice to see other people having their own reasons for it. Wish all these couples all the luck in the world!
i really enjoy watching this video at the specific point i’m at in my life right now. i’m not sexually abstinent but this is the first relationship i’ve been in where neither of us uses drugs or alcohol and that alone has allowed us to connect on a very intimate and honest level that i’ve never had before.
This is so underrated. People think it's lame to wait but sex can really blurr the lines. Especially if there's intense sexual chemistry. People can mistake it for love
These comments aren’t what I was expecting. I think these couples are all sweet. Of course this isn’t for everyone, but I don’t understand the judgement. No one is making you do this too.
@@PROVOCATEURSK why are you replying to everyone’s comments talking about cults and eternal torture ….? I’m a Christian and 100% believe in heaven and hell, yet I don’t believe having sex will send you to hell just for that. The reason my husband and I waited til marriage was because it was a good a healthy decision for us and we know God and know that he called us to wait because it’s good for us. My husband had sex earlier in his life before we met and we know he’s not going to hell. We didn’t wait because the “cult” told us to, and we will never regret waiting
@@PROVOCATEURSK the problem is that you don't understand what you're talking about. It's not just a mindless rule book, there are valid and true reasons behind every commandment. Sex before marriage brings on a lot of problems that are unnecessary and better to avoid.
@@Nait3And how any times have you been “ran through”? 6 is not a lot by today’s standards so either you haven’t been able to achieve this amount or you’re a hypocrite.
I would like to see a video of (ex)-couples who waited to have sex until marriage, and then discovered they were sexually incompatible and how they got around solving that and whether it was worth the wait!
@@Lilian040210 Yes agree that you can talk about it; however in my opinion, talking only get you so far .. and it really seems the couples in the video have talked about it .. But I do feel it certainly does not guarantee sexual compatibility. From personal experience, I didn't know I liked certain things, until I've tried & did them with my past & current partners. And I think that's the flipside that this video isn't really showing off enough. That there *is* a risk that they are sexual incompatible, despite all the love, talking & flirting.
@@marcadenexus If you genuinely love someone in every other way amazing sex will come in time. Even if the sex drives and kinks are completely different, people who love each other will compromise for each other. There are of course some things that can be talked about beforehand, but as long as there aren’t any physical incapabilities that can easily be discussed without having sex, true lovers would always work it out.
@@MissingYouser The first person you should *genuinely and truly* love, is yourself. You can love another person a lot. But it doesn't automatically change preferences and kinks. And you should not want to compromise in a relationship on the important points; as you'll never be fully satisfied.
@@marcadenexus The preferences and kinks don’t have to change completely, that’s the beauty of compromise. A husband and wife always eat the same dinner. The husband loves steak. The wife hates steak. If the husband really loves his wife, he will pass on steak some nights because he knows she hates it. On the flip side, the wife, if she really loves her husband, will insist on having steak some nights because she knows that her husband loves it. Also, people are never going to be fully satisfied with their partner. Instead of people looking for a mate that is 100% perfect for them which doesn’t exist, they should be looking for someone they love enough to make compromises for. Kinks, frequency, and preferences are all things that can be communicated before having sex. I don’t see people trying to adopt babies just to see if their mate will be a great parent before getting married. It’s simple to just talk about it.
@@PROVOCATEURSK sounds like you’re trying to hate on religion while simultaneously centering religion in your mind. I was referring to the fact that couples can wait for reasons that are NOT religious, and simply because they want a deeper connection. but lmao, go ahead and go off on your lil tangent if you want.
all these couples are so cute and thoughtful. what a lovely reminder than sexual intimacy is not innately intertwined with romance like when they asked 'do u think theyre the one' .. dude.. i feel like not as many people in one year relationships that are fucking would say that theyre with 'the one'
right, you can love someone without having sex and you can have sex with someone without loving them. as long both are happily consenting everything is fine.
Right ?? I’ve been dating my partner for almost 5 years and I’m too scared to even think about the one lol. I was really impressed by how open these couples were. I hope they stay together
This video is a redemption for Cut after the last few. Absolutely great video. Truly so so thoughtful. Each couple was completely their own vibe. I'm truly inspired by this video.
Props to these couples. I feel like finding someone whos a Virgin or waiting til they meet the right person or marriage. Honestly, now days thats beyond rare like winning 50 mill jackpot kind of rare...
it's nice to see happy and healthy relationship dynamics on this channel for a change. every time it's people that clearly have so many issues going on. and also glad the ppl waiting arent all doing so cuz of religion but cuz they want to take time getting to know each other.
I love that a lot of these couples have settled upon waiting out of a desire for a different type of intimacy instead of for religion. They're so wholesome.
@@dimaggi0 Exactly! I literally figured out I was gay after sleeping with a man for 8 years, so I highly doubt someone can get married, only have sex from then onwards, and be happy their whole life's 😂
I had a conversation with someone about this once, imo it sounds like a roulette, but their pov was that a couple can explore together within a relationship. I suppose the hope will be that it will work no matter what with your faith in the emotional connection.
Seeing this video while I'm in a place in the world where most couples are waiting to get married or get married traditionally seems weird for some reason 🤣
I also live in a country like that lol … I just be praying to God that He has a husband for me and I trust that He does 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and If He doesn’t Thats ok too
I’m also waiting till marriage and it’s almost impossible finding guys that are okay with waiting for me. So many have had experience, and sex is important to them in a relationship prior to marriage or being super serious
I'm in the same boat girl 😩 I'm still of the belief that there are people out there but have also had to accept that I'll probably just have to be on my own for a while and wait for my age group to grow up and mature a little bit to be in the right mentality (ie not as pussy hungry anymore 🤦🏾♀️)
So nice to see such a range of couples, all so mature in their outlook. I waited with my boyfriend for 10 months before we were intimate. That first year of deeply getting to know each other and our values was amazing. I can't recommend it enough. We are now ten years down the line, married and I'm 9 months pregnant. Safe to say waiting works 🤣
Not for everyone. It's important to make the point that some people do it because they are shamed into doing it and that can cause a lot of trauma. Just like people who choose to be sexually active can cause trauma.
I gotta say I absolutely love this channel, and I rarely say that because I rarely watch youtube. But you guys are like the only channel I watch. The video concepts are so entertaining and I love how you don't show judgement towards any of the topics you cover. You just let people be people and it's amazing.
I have a friend who's been with a guy for years now and she tells me he also wants to wait for her because he truly doesn't want their relationship to be watered down to just sex. It depends on everyone, but I think it's lovely there's people out there genuinely wanting to create stronger connections that go beyond sexual desires.
This is a really random comment but I love how the cut manages to get the lighting really good for all skin tones? Everyone looks so beautiful always. I wonder how intentional this is? Or is it that the people are really comfy no matter the category and that makes people's natural beauty shine?
"We've gone swimming together" and "You've seen me without a shirt once", the two christians are really the most innocent people I've ever seen
What a virgin
There was nothing said about religion. Why does that have to play apart in them being "innocent?" This "innocence" is a little cringe.
the guy said that it was different for him before he was Christian and she is wearing a cross necklace. they are both obviously very Christian.
@@TheMrCC21 actually he did speak about being a Christian
Innocent because they are brainwashed.
i love the couple with the red shirts. theyre so respectful of each other and they seem very happy together :)
@@uncrustable9923 🤔
@@uncrustable9923 because there are not the only black couple bruh
youre so pretty
their energy is amazzzzzing
Yeahh and the one that showers together. So healthy and knowing of each other
I love the “older” couple doing this. They’re really resetting the standards that come with getting into a relationship and it seems to work really well for them.
Yeah good for them, and they are so open and fun about it.
You mean the couple that started dating at 17, are in their 30s, he's fucked 20 people but never her because he wants a "deeper connection" because somehow 15 years is not enough to know someone. Nothing they said adds up at all lol
I think it takes much more courage being younger. At least for the men. Because from the ages of early and late 20's is when most men will have their highest amount of testosterone produced per day in their lifetime.
hopefully they all weren't deceiving their partners and were actually waiting
@@mr.someone5679 men need to practice sexual discipline
The chemistry between the couple in red is ✨palpable✨
Meanwhile me with colours turned off on my phone
I had to search that word in the dictionary
👁👄👁
I can see them getting married
Awww thank you! We appreciate that!🥰
@@nyalovebychi are u guys still together by chance? 🤞🏽
I love that this episode wasn’t about religiosity, but just about couples doing what’s right for them.
Would there be a problem with religion?
And sometimes someone’s religion is part of what’s right for them :)
@@Haymakermma I don’t think there’s a problem with it, considering one of the couples was religious. I just liked seeing couples I could relate to because I’ve waited and it didn’t for religious reasons :))
Religion is important to some people much like how some people won't date others who don't agree with them politically.
@@Haymakermma wouldn't be a problem, but it's nice to see that there can be many other reasons why couples wait with sex, not only religion
The lady that had the sex dream with Harley Quinn and the Joker is finna take buddy for a wild ride.
This 🤣
The detail of his beard being tinted green got me 😂
☠️😂
yup I think they'll have a loving sexually positive relationship for a long time once they're ready to explore that part of their relationship.
she wants to mount him, bro gonna be drained (I envy him)
I love this video and the boy saying "if there's any hesitation from her I'm done". I love that respectful manners. I had one person in my life that have done that for me when I was a virgin and I'm really thankful for that. It is simple but it's a big and meaningful gesture.
I mean.. many was respectful, but one was "alright, I felt the hesitation, so now I don't want it either" and I'm thankful he did that.
man, he was the sweetest in this video for sure. i'd love a man like him (as a virgin)
I wish more girls would do that
Its special when someone is like that... When I was 16, I met a guy from the other side of the country who was just passing through, and we connected the second we laid eyes on eachother.. He was 20 at the time, very attractive, and obviously had been with other girls before, and I had only had sex with 1 other person. But he was so respectful, didnt pressure me, didnt want anything from me but my love and my time. And I felt that then and even to this day, 14 years later, I know he's the one that got away. 🤷♀️ We had sex once (my idea), and it was one of the most intimate sexual experiences Ive ever had, because I knew he was a protector and deeply cared about me. 🖤
Yeah but it's the bare minimum. It should be.
I found myself smiling throughout this video. How these people talk to each other, how much they respect each other, and how patient they're being with each other, makes me really happy. It gives me so much hope for the future, hoping one day I could find someone who'll give me the love I need and deserve. We all deserve that kind of love.
me toooo! i was cheesing the entire time. its so sweet. and i feel even lonelier than ever lmaooo
@@boubafett same :/
@@uncrustable9923 look we're lonely, but we're together, so we're not lonely anymore. the saddest paradox
so true :)
I haven’t watched the video yet, but as someone who was raised Catholic I immediately started laughing. I am assuming at least one of the couples are saving themselves for religious reasons and only Catholics can start off a conversation like this with, “shall we have a shot, my love?”
"I also want to mount you." NO CHILL, I LOVE IT HAHAHAHA
She became my hero after that, honestly
That got me too 😂
I like the honesty 😂😂😂😂
Bruh forreal. I fuckin loved her 🤣
She was single a long time ago on cut CANT believe she found the one and she was talking about pegging then haha
“I think I’ll last longer”
“I think so” *nods ferociously* 😂😂😂😂
HE ALREADY KNEWW 😭😭
Lmfaooooo
No hesitation whatsoever 🤣🤣🤣
Too cute! Can you bring the couples back when they finally do so they can share their experiences?
that would be so lovely!
Omg yess
Yes they can tell us all about missionary, doggy & whatever else they tried 👍🏻 excellent suggestion o.p.
That'll be nice
@@liampower5602 they aren’t forced to do that. They will share what and if they are comfortable
This gives me a lot of hope lol. So often, "waiting" couples are portrayed as being socially awkward and ugly. Everyone here seems "normal" and is attractive! Hoping to find a partner who's riding this wave.
Ugly ? 💀 who ever said that
@@brucopera I think they meant conventionally unattractive. This was the norm painted in much of the earlier literature and film. Then they started repainting the narrative with attractive people playing the waiting game---only one I can think of right now is Jane The Virgin.
First couple ain't attractive...
Not like these guys are that attractive tbh... The young brown couple are ok
The Christian couple look social awkward and not ‘attractive’ not ugly tho
"he's obsessed with me. Whatever, you're obsessed with me too." That part was really cute.
Yes!
Idk....
That was really weird 😂 girl get off your pedestal.
@@vogelvogeltje no
Red shirt couple have such a palpable energy between them, I love it!
Hi u love energetic guy?
So many relationships are based on how good the sex is and it takes a while for people to figure out they don't even actually like or really know their partners. I think waiting a while to build a connection will make the sex better and the realtionship improve overall. I personally wouldn't want to wait until marriage but waiting a few months or even a year isn't a bad thing. Sex shouldn't be the most important thing in a relationship.
Nope, sex is great and should be celebrated, it is a way of truly getting to know your partner at a deeper level. It is incredibly important in a relationship.
@@BGWee sex is natural but so is it to only have one partner in your lifetime. If you have sex with the wrong person it can be catastrophic
@@BGWee Not necessarily. Some asexuals never have sex, but that doesn’t make their relationships any less intimate or emotionally deep, and some people just don’t always consider sex to be a priority. For some people it’s important, and others it isn’t - and both are ok.
@@BGWee is sex already not celebrated enough? To each their own.
What's worse than that is becoming best friends with someone just to finally have sex and it be awful and there be no chemistry at all.
It's so freaking adorable how each of these couples looks so happy, comfortable, safe, and irresistibly in love ❤️
Looks can be deceiving
They are drinking alcohol. They also think that animals are abowe humans cause they don´t have to follow god´s rules.
This was cute. I liked the spectrum of couples you got for this
Eternal torture for not following rules is cute for you? They are forced to wait.
@@PROVOCATEURSK respecting religion isn’t hard
@@PROVOCATEURSK literally only one of the couples are doing this because of religion lol
How refreshing to see couples who have mutually agreed to wait, without it 'all' being about religion. I know quite a few young men, who are in their 20's and have decided to wait. So, I don't think it's quite as uncommon as many think. I wish these three couples great joy and long, happy lives together.
Agreed? They were forced by promise of eternal torture.
I love that it wasn’t about religious stuff. Was more about boundaries and respect. Also, I love the older couple. They feel like very safe people and fun!
stan the couple with the red outfits. they are so good together.
All of these couples are so sweet. The couple in red, in particular, has such an amazing connection and such fantastic communication. I love it!
I loved all the couples for different reasons, but for the first time I loved all of them :)
Are you ok with people being extorted with eternal torture?
@@PROVOCATEURSK bro what
I really liked the couple who has been friends since middle school. Their love seems so sweet and the boyfriend seems so respectful!
His smile at 1:34 while she's describing how much she's enjoying the relationship is so cute omg lol
I like this. They seem connected and all the couples are gorgeous
Gorgeous? LOLLLL
@@DA-js7xz ahh a troll...
Drinking and talking about sex and than not having any...thats dedication.
They chose 1 sin but not the other, religious logyk.
@@PROVOCATEURSK drinking is not a sin, have you read the Bible? Jesus turned water into wine.
Right. With the man I’m seeing at the moment, everything he does turns me on. These guys have so much self control
@@PROVOCATEURSK why do you think monks make beer? Drinking isn't a sin lol, in fact in the middle ages people mostly drank alcohol because there was no real way to know wether water was clean or not
Drink is not a sin but drink too much is sin
this made me feel so normal!! like i’ve never seen waiting couples interact prior to doing it. it’s typically people getting discussing their experience or why waiting was worth it. it’s rare to see the before and i love it so much. good vibes
This is the most wholesome episode about couples I think. My boyfriend and I waited for about 3 years (so until I was 18), because I wanted to be sure that if anything happened (protection didnt work or anything) that we're at least adults on paper. He waited until I was totally comfortable and we agreed on me taking the initiative when I'm ready.
Today on: People Oversharing on the Internet
@@ninjamckinnleyVODS Oversharing? You know that this video is basically about this topic?
That's quite a bit different than being in a relationship that started as adults already
how old was he?
Was he already an adult...???
“Everything is going the way it should from the expectations that i would want from someone who is the one”
I think that was very beautifully said. Honestly we have so much expectations in relationships and from our idea of “the one”, it must feel good for it to go how you want/need
It sad he didn't know she already got bent over though. Lmfao
“If there’s any hesitation about it we’re done.” I love that 🙌
No hesitation, how r u? U from?
“If there’s any hesitation around it, we’re done” - YES!! Thank you man. Why is it so hard for so many guys to understand that.
The oldest couple of the three was my favorite. Their chemistry is incredible and I love the banter they share ❤
I really don't care about the reasons why, wait for sex if you feel you need to. For those reading the comments and getting discouraged about wanting to wait, don't be. Sex is just one part of a relationship and can be learned over time anyway, just make sure you are comfortable and ready above all else.
That's what i thought waiting is nonsensical
Also when someone is extorting you with eternal torture, leave the cult.
It’s refreshing to see people that are really bringing it back to the importance of that emotional relationship and trust being the most important part of a relationship. I hope to find someone that shares that same view as me and is willing to wait as long as I need to feel comfortable and ready.
I can respect this. I’ve been in relationships where the physical passion was there. And it did distract from becoming closer on a deeper level. Or where I’d confuse my lust with someone for actual feelings towards them. As I’m older now and have been single by choice for a couple of years now, I can definitely see myself going this route should I meet someone that I’m interested in enough to consider bringing them into my life.
I think it's nice that they are waiting, whether for marriage or not. What's the rush anyway? And to each their own
Said the virgin
@@leonking4843 Leon, you are indeed a king
@@leonking4843 says u
@@leonking4843 said the true virgin queen
@@leonking4843 says the incel
As an asexual person it's really nice to see this type of close commitment and bond. Living in this hypersexualized world where I am treated like alien because I am attractive 30 years old virgin that doesn't want to have sex probably ever, this is such a breath of fresh air, because people do it so quickly before getting to know each other. I can't even hold hands with men, let alone other touching, because it just feels unpleasant to me.
Wow…
common L
@@forexbatman998 I didn't try to sound clever, I am just sharing my experience hoping some people will share theirs as well, so your comment doesn't make sense my guy.
Honestly as being asexual this feels so nice to see it’s okay to wait cause sometimes it’s not huge to all of us to want to have sex
@@Emma-ov8iy We do not care
The sexual tension takes me back to my school days… that type of love like there’s something new an exciting like it is having sex with the person you love for the first time.
Dam jezzabell
I absolutely LOVE the couple in the red. Such classy, wholesome, beautiful people with such beautiful souls.
All three of these couples have MAD chemistry with each other. I wish them all the best!
That third couple in the red was sooooo cute. They gonna make it. Mad chemistry. Good for them.
i love how they can talk about it without being all nervous and shy and making it feel like a taboo topic so wholesome
I love how they were all such adorable couples!
I LOVE how comfortable and respecful they are💜
I am virgin are you virgin to?
my partner and i waited about 7 months before we had sex, and it was amazing. it’s only gotten better since then, and we knew each other so well by the time we did it, it was just so intimate and beautiful
Hii
The tension between the couple in red was my fav part lol.
I strongly believe sex is way better when you grow an emotional attachment and alot easier to notice when that attachment is gone if you wait. Also the red couple just makes me happy from how happy they are together. :)
The couple on red have great communication. The fact that she said “I love that, thank you for respecting me” shows the type of communication they have. Props to them
THE RESPECT BETWEEN ALL THESE COUPLES IS AMAZING. ITS ALL GOOD VIBES!
Really refreshing concept! I have been celibate for a decade & it is nice to see other people having their own reasons for it. Wish all these couples all the luck in the world!
i really enjoy watching this video at the specific point i’m at in my life right now. i’m not sexually abstinent but this is the first relationship i’ve been in where neither of us uses drugs or alcohol and that alone has allowed us to connect on a very intimate and honest level that i’ve never had before.
The couple dressed in dark red, are my vibe! The woman is beautiful, and I could listen to that man's voice all day.
Hey u from?
This is so underrated. People think it's lame to wait but sex can really blurr the lines. Especially if there's intense sexual chemistry. People can mistake it for love
The energy of the couple in burgundy!!!
People are so comfortable with each other in every couple. Wow, these are examples of dream relationships for me
These comments aren’t what I was expecting. I think these couples are all sweet. Of course this isn’t for everyone, but I don’t understand the judgement. No one is making you do this too.
But the cult is forcing them to do. No sex or eternal torture. If they could they would make us wait. It´s their whole MO.
@@PROVOCATEURSK why are you replying to everyone’s comments talking about cults and eternal torture ….? I’m a Christian and 100% believe in heaven and hell, yet I don’t believe having sex will send you to hell just for that. The reason my husband and I waited til marriage was because it was a good a healthy decision for us and we know God and know that he called us to wait because it’s good for us. My husband had sex earlier in his life before we met and we know he’s not going to hell. We didn’t wait because the “cult” told us to, and we will never regret waiting
@@PROVOCATEURSK the problem is that you don't understand what you're talking about. It's not just a mindless rule book, there are valid and true reasons behind every commandment. Sex before marriage brings on a lot of problems that are unnecessary and better to avoid.
Why everyone asking 'why are they waiting for marriage' ? Atleast now we know that they are not in this relationship just for sex.
right?
It’s better to be in a relationship for sex than get married for sex.
Nobody asked!
@@sohrab6494 what r u 10?
what happens if you don't want to get married ever ?
so in love with the couple in red, their answers speak of so much respect and adoration they have for one another
the coupe in red are WHEW the chemistry and flow of their conversation were so comfortable and at ease, it was amazing to see
2:30 She doesn't want to wait until marriage.😂 She has that one-year date set in her mind. 🤣
Man, he didn't even know she already got clapped too. Thats a red flag tbh
@@i.03983 seems like she wants to change.
@@thatdude3977 She got ran through 6 times in college 😂 but wants to wait now
@@Nait3And how any times have you been “ran through”? 6 is not a lot by today’s standards so either you haven’t been able to achieve this amount or you’re a hypocrite.
I would like to see a video of (ex)-couples who waited to have sex until marriage, and then discovered they were sexually incompatible and how they got around solving that and whether it was worth the wait!
You don't have to have sex to find out each others' preferences, you can (and should) talk about them way before
@@Lilian040210 Yes agree that you can talk about it; however in my opinion, talking only get you so far .. and it really seems the couples in the video have talked about it .. But I do feel it certainly does not guarantee sexual compatibility. From personal experience, I didn't know I liked certain things, until I've tried & did them with my past & current partners. And I think that's the flipside that this video isn't really showing off enough. That there *is* a risk that they are sexual incompatible, despite all the love, talking & flirting.
@@marcadenexus If you genuinely love someone in every other way amazing sex will come in time. Even if the sex drives and kinks are completely different, people who love each other will compromise for each other. There are of course some things that can be talked about beforehand, but as long as there aren’t any physical incapabilities that can easily be discussed without having sex, true lovers would always work it out.
@@MissingYouser The first person you should *genuinely and truly* love, is yourself. You can love another person a lot. But it doesn't automatically change preferences and kinks. And you should not want to compromise in a relationship on the important points; as you'll never be fully satisfied.
@@marcadenexus The preferences and kinks don’t have to change completely, that’s the beauty of compromise. A husband and wife always eat the same dinner. The husband loves steak. The wife hates steak. If the husband really loves his wife, he will pass on steak some nights because he knows she hates it. On the flip side, the wife, if she really loves her husband, will insist on having steak some nights because she knows that her husband loves it.
Also, people are never going to be fully satisfied with their partner. Instead of people looking for a mate that is 100% perfect for them which doesn’t exist, they should be looking for someone they love enough to make compromises for. Kinks, frequency, and preferences are all things that can be communicated before having sex. I don’t see people trying to adopt babies just to see if their mate will be a great parent before getting married. It’s simple to just talk about it.
as an asexual person, this video was just beautiful.
They are promissed eternal torture if they do it, what is beautiful in that?
@@PROVOCATEURSK sounds like you’re trying to hate on religion while simultaneously centering religion in your mind. I was referring to the fact that couples can wait for reasons that are NOT religious, and simply because they want a deeper connection. but lmao, go ahead and go off on your lil tangent if you want.
@@PROVOCATEURSK no they are not I’m Christian God forgives every sin. NO.MATTER.THE.SIN.
love all the couples here, their chemistry, the way they see each other, all very pure and in love ❤️
Ew
8:13 his reaction 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹🥰
all these couples are so cute and thoughtful. what a lovely reminder than sexual intimacy is not innately intertwined with romance
like when they asked 'do u think theyre the one' .. dude.. i feel like not as many people in one year relationships that are fucking would say that theyre with 'the one'
right, you can love someone without having sex and you can have sex with someone without loving them.
as long both are happily consenting everything is fine.
Right ?? I’ve been dating my partner for almost 5 years and I’m too scared to even think about the one lol. I was really impressed by how open these couples were. I hope they stay together
@@schokoloko2092 Does that include incestual couples?
Gotta say they were the best couples cut could find to make a video about this subject.
This video is a redemption for Cut after the last few. Absolutely great video. Truly so so thoughtful. Each couple was completely their own vibe. I'm truly inspired by this video.
Props to these couples. I feel like finding someone whos a Virgin or waiting til they meet the right person or marriage. Honestly, now days thats beyond rare like winning 50 mill jackpot kind of rare...
The couple in the red-- they both are so gorgeous
The couple with the red chirts took my heart 💘 they're very respectful and nice
this is so so cute, they're all like genuinely in love, i presume, it's just so refreshing to see
i LOVE how respectful everyone is
I’m glad CUT made this episode, there’s nothing wrong with waiting till your ready.
THE COUPLE IN RED IS AMAZING , I LOVE THEM
it's nice to see happy and healthy relationship dynamics on this channel for a change. every time it's people that clearly have so many issues going on. and also glad the ppl waiting arent all doing so cuz of religion but cuz they want to take time getting to know each other.
Side note: I really love how respectful and kind all the comments are💪
I love that a lot of these couples have settled upon waiting out of a desire for a different type of intimacy instead of for religion. They're so wholesome.
I love this, they’re so respectful
How r u
Imagine waiting till mariage, getting married and finding out the sex sucks.
gotta try the shoes on before you buy them 🤷🏻♀️
Exaclty
@@dimaggi0 Exactly!
I literally figured out I was gay after sleeping with a man for 8 years, so I highly doubt someone can get married, only have sex from then onwards, and be happy their whole life's 😂
I had a conversation with someone about this once, imo it sounds like a roulette, but their pov was that a couple can explore together within a relationship. I suppose the hope will be that it will work no matter what with your faith in the emotional connection.
You won't know it sucks 😂 nothing to compare it to.
THE COUPLE THE ONE W BRAIDS AND IN BROWN IS SO SWEET OH MY GODDDD
Seeing this video while I'm in a place in the world where most couples are waiting to get married or get married traditionally seems weird for some reason 🤣
India 👀
@@ztarr close
@@ms.cash332 Pakistan
The fact that the girl that has slept with 6 dudes and shes making him wait. Its mind blowing
maybe she was young and dumb like teens are and now wants to turn her life around. Gosh, maybe he's different from a hookup.
i wish i could met someone like this but hookup culture has taken over my country lol
what country are you in ? ? just curious
You still can. Not every single person in your country is into hookup culture.
I also live in a country like that lol … I just be praying to God that He has a husband for me and I trust that He does 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 and If He doesn’t Thats ok too
The “older” couple is amazing wow never thought I’d hear that from them
I fucking loved this. The two older couples are amazing. Genuinely great people. "I just want to mount you"
I’m also waiting till marriage and it’s almost impossible finding guys that are okay with waiting for me. So many have had experience, and sex is important to them in a relationship prior to marriage or being super serious
How old are you?
You don’t have to justify to anyone for waiting, there are a lot of shitty people in this comment section so don’t let them doubt yourself…
@@MrMiniPancakes 25, almost 26
okay
I'm in the same boat girl 😩 I'm still of the belief that there are people out there but have also had to accept that I'll probably just have to be on my own for a while and wait for my age group to grow up and mature a little bit to be in the right mentality (ie not as pussy hungry anymore 🤦🏾♀️)
we need to see the couple in red again after they do the deed! i LOVE THEM
All these couples’ dynamics are so cute in such different ways
The couple in red are ready to do it on the table.
LOVE the energy of the two black couples, like so much chemistry and respect gives me so much joy.
I CANT STOP SMILING THIS IS SO CUTE HELP- 😭❤️
So nice to see such a range of couples, all so mature in their outlook.
I waited with my boyfriend for 10 months before we were intimate. That first year of deeply getting to know each other and our values was amazing. I can't recommend it enough.
We are now ten years down the line, married and I'm 9 months pregnant. Safe to say waiting works 🤣
Not for everyone. It's important to make the point that some people do it because they are shamed into doing it and that can cause a lot of trauma. Just like people who choose to be sexually active can cause trauma.
I gotta say I absolutely love this channel, and I rarely say that because I rarely watch youtube. But you guys are like the only channel I watch. The video concepts are so entertaining and I love how you don't show judgement towards any of the topics you cover. You just let people be people and it's amazing.
I have a friend who's been with a guy for years now and she tells me he also wants to wait for her because he truly doesn't want their relationship to be watered down to just sex. It depends on everyone, but I think it's lovely there's people out there genuinely wanting to create stronger connections that go beyond sexual desires.
I kinda don't understand why connection and sex can't come together, but these couples are cute for respecting each other's wishes.
Hey u from?
He said he didn’t feel anyway but he took a deep pause and gazed 😭
That 6 people before him definitely caught him off guard 🥺
Yeah. EMOTIONAL DAMAGE! 💔...
Why wait for sex with a girl that's got a body count of 6!!??
This is a really random comment but I love how the cut manages to get the lighting really good for all skin tones? Everyone looks so beautiful always. I wonder how intentional this is? Or is it that the people are really comfy no matter the category and that makes people's natural beauty shine?
The couple in red is sth else 😂
Stopppp why is this so genuine … sobbing rn wtf