Fuck man this video just made me cry my eyes out. I'm 27 and I felt like I have never lived my life but just existed in it. The loneliness is real at the moment. Hope anyone who watched this knows you're not alone.
Thank you. I was just about to comment this. I have struggled with improving myself recently. The one with Theo Von where he talks about missing out (in the beginning of the video) hit me especially hard. Matter of fact I found out I really relate to Theo on a lot of levels - confidence in being yourself (which is especially interesting in someone who does stand up comedy), being vulnerable with others, etc. This video stoked the fire in my heart which strives for a better life.
@@franciscoferraz6788 I think thats the best part of theo, despite his ridiculous comedy, hes a really genuine guy who talks about things people dont speak about, he helps people but doesnt act like hes some high and mighty advice giver, hes just human in a world of non human personas and online masks
I crave corecore due to the lack of authenticity in todays society. These bring me happiness in the sense of unity when I see a lot of people have viewed these videos. We are never alone.
Thank you so much for the love on my comment. I made an attempt at my own corecore video! Would be honored to make it to 50 views! ua-cam.com/video/s-WbtV40DMg/v-deo.htmlsi=_lYP-qqF5mOqwfk5
@@---00001The lesson is to not love again. Thinking if love with a rational train of thought, Why would you ever want to place yourself in such a position to be so vulnerable, Be so suseptable to pain, Agony, Depression. Why would anyone ever want that? Why does love boil down to our apparent "Human condition"?
@@ssyncrony9078the vulnerability is not because of love, but because of you. Love is one of the many aspects a human being generally wants to experience, but not necessarily the main or one of the most important. Love doesn't hurt necessarily, that's upon who loves
@ssyncrony9078 Intamacy, kindness and love, all things diametrically opposed to our biological state of being, I wish I could be freed from my human flesh and consciousness
My boyfriend sent me this. I'm scared. I feel like I can't give him what he needs to be happy. All I want is for him to be happy again, I want to see him genuinely smiling, laughing like he used to. I wish I could transfer all his pain to myself.
Anyone feeling alone, anyone feeling like it’s over, it’s not worth it, there’s nothing left, there is. Be patient and look for it, don’t give up, someone cares about you, and you might not know them yet. You have a purpose you might not have found it yet. Keep going, keep going, keep going.
I felt this way for several months this year. Same routine, same people without any real attachment to them. I won't go further, and I'll tell you the brass tax. Commit to something or someone. Give your entire life to it. When you will find it you won't ever be alone anymore. You will be the best friend of yourself, everyone else will feel like an extra to be grateful for.
@@thecombatwombat69 I thought the same thing in the past. That's a myopic view. Committing to someone doesn't mean to sacrifice your life. Commit, don't sacrifice.
I'm going to be 20 years old man in less than 2 month. All I really feel right now is... how lonely I am. I don't know what I am at this point... I don't feel connection to any living soul at this planet... All conversations I have with any girl just... don't work... Good chat in the evening... and then nothing in the morning. And to add insult to the injury... I always wanted to have my own family.
I understand how you feel man. Just hang in there. Idk if you believe or not, but God cares bro. Whenever you feel like you can go on, just pray it out. Jesus has gotten me through some tough times. It'll all work out! ❤️
Watching this made me cry after holding everything in. Ladies check on your men. Brothers, love each other. If you are reading this…you matter and I love you. Keep moving. Run, walk, crawl, just keep moving forward.
I made the tough decision to let go of someone who didn't want to be with me. And this helped me cry. After being so sad, and feeling like I was the only one who could feel this empty, I realized all walks of human life have felt this emptiness.
This is a struggle I've been dealing with for a long time. I'm scared to tell anyone. I feel alone every waking moment, even when I'm happy amongst many friends. The love I have for people is held deep inside, and I can't seem to show the people I love that feeling, that I truly care about them. I'm left without their love and affection. Even their presence is something I can't grasp sometimes. I just have that feeling of loneliness, and sometimes it's addicting. It's sad. But I'm working on it. I hope to get out of this shell someday. I'm becoming very social and, starting my first year of college, I am making so many friends. Until then, I still have moments of pain and suffering I keep hidden. My walk home by myself tonight really destroyed me. Tonight, I spend my last hours alone. However, things are looking brighter. It's nice to know there are others feeling the same way. Atleast we can be alone together.
@@thatshogunpanda893 Its easy to romanticize sadness in any fashion. I would say do not do that. Be true to those around you. Tell your friends and those around you how you feel from time to time. If it doesn't make those bonds stronger, it still is nothing to be ashamed of. Life goes on. No one should be ashamed of how much affection we show the people we love. I spent every moment with the person I was with exactly how I wanted to. But I created a dependency on them, because of how lonely I was. It became toxic, so whether they wanted to break it up or not, it was for the best. I had to be happy with myself. That is the challenge for me now. The only things I would want anyone to take away from this is to be true to yourself. Be kind to those around you. Be forgiving even when it is not incentivized to do so. Life truly is enjoying the small things. One foot in front of the other. Everyday is a new day. We are not our mistakes. Make the most of your time.
I've been in the exact same place. Not sure if anything sucks more than trying to love the arms that don't want to hold you. I realized that after the 4-year relationship towards the end.
since I began my self-improvement journey every aspect of my life got better. I look better, my addictions are way less strong, have 200x times more discipline, people respect me more, I can stand in the around 10 C shower for 15 minutes without a flinch. When I was a "bad" person, I was happy. Now I'm a decent person. Now I'm just suffering. Now I want to 🏢⬇️ myself Thank you if you thought this worth 15 seconds of your life. Im grateful.
Damn, this hit, Especially when you're trying so hard to build something. You just feel like you are moving through time, not really feeling or appreciating anything. There is no time to stop and feel, and then that loneliness sets in... I wonder why this was recommended...
I think the reason I like these videos so much is because it makes me feel less alone. It’s good to know their are other people who share these feeling with me. For these 30 min even tho we saw the videos at different times we’re together
Hey brother, I love you lad. I’m a random stranger, but I’m going through the same shit. No one cares about us but we can care about each other. You’re a champ. Keep your head up and lock in.
Im 33 and tearing up over this video. I felt I was happy, but something in me broke and I just cried. I dont understand. I've got a great career, a wife and a kid, with one on the way.
You guys cant give up I remember being in this position. Not knowing what I want. I still dont know what makes me truly happy. but being around others will give you purpose whatever you do if you are trying to get out of this rut, is spend time with people not just your family. Your friends, people you dont know, get a new job do something change the scenery and you will find something in the scenery that makes you feel better, dont keep watching core core videos, learn a new skill... investigate anything you find interesting. in just one year I made so many changes that made me a happier, nicer, better person and you can too. If anyone ever needs to talk just reply and I can give you contact info, you can do this
Thank you for the advice, I got out of an emotionally abusive 2 year relationship months ago and found out last night she rebounded after trying to get me back for months and after she texted me last week about it being hard to move on and then she blocked me to get my attention, funny thing is she dropped me like a bag of rocks when I finally contacted her to clarify what she meant like I didn’t mean a thing just to get my attention so I could know she moved on with someone else. They’re more details but of course it’d be an article. Pettiness to make me feel hurt for leaving her toxicity and not wanting to come back I guess? I appreciate the words things oddly have been getting way better since then honestly. I’ve met someone new myself. Taking things slow..so these type of videos help thoughts reflect sometimes yk
This comment really really struck me. Thank you and I wish you the best of luck , your comment helped me so much in the mental state I was in in this very moment
Im so glad my comment touched you its a huge journey that I went through and its also a silent one that nobody but my mom knows about, its good to know so many other people felt the same way, you will get through this, this is just one small hiccup in the long road of fruitful life. Check in with me some time if things are getting better worse or whatever @@Caaiirro
I’m still working on this myself but I’ve come to realize that the problem is that we’re always trying everything to make ourselves happy and sometimes it never feels enough but making other people happy and just being an overall decent person around other people has a much greater effect on our happiness.
i dont really like trevor noah or jimmy fallon but this is one of the times i can heavily agree with them, men come together no matter what when emotions are a play.
i forgot how to cry because the only thing i ever do is suppress my feelings. i still cry when i watch sad movies or read heartwarming stories but i can never cry for myself; because i don't think i deserve to cry. i need help, but i don't know how to express how i feel either. i'm a lost man
Best thing you can probably do is to try and succeed in everything you do. Study, work out, earn money through a job and keep progressing man. Talk to your family (if you have any) or perhaps talk to the people at the gym (workers etc), clean your room and try to always be nice and caring to everyone, even the annoying uncaring ones (try to be careful with narcissists however). That's how I'm getting through it anyways. Therapy won't do you much, except ruin your serotonin and dopamine levels through pills and whatnot. Try to keep your head up, and stay as far away from social media platforms such as Instagram, Facebook, Reddit, Quora, Tinder, Badoo, and any negative/sad videos on youtube or tiktok if you use that for whatever reason. Stop caring about what others think about you, and try to look your best and eat well and healthy. Over time, slowly, it will work for you best regards - Victor
Therapy wont change a thing, you gotta face it yourself, the best you can do is to take action, nothing is going to change if u keep doing nothing to change it
@@remoza4412 nah man therapy is the shit, it allows you to build a relationship with someone who, if they're the right fit, is there to LISTEN to you and not judge and, ultimately, help you figure out how to improve
I’m a stranger, but all I can say, everyone deserves to cry. You may not be a good person entirely but crying is something you don’t deserve but you need. Expressing yourself takes time, and getting that first step and giving yourself time is the best anyone can do. I wish the best for you man.
I’ve been struggling with my mental health since elementary school and I just don’t know how to get better. No matter who I meet or the changes I make, I just can’t find happiness. I just feel so fucking empty. I don’t understand anything I’m feeling or why I’m feeling it. I have no reason to feel this way since I live a perfect life. My family loves me, I have so many friends who care about me, im healthy. But at the same time I hate myself everything about me, especially how fucking selfish I am. Sometime I think that I maybe just shouldn’t be happy at all. There are people who are struggling immensely and they’re happy, but I’m so fucking selfish for have everything and still wanting more. Maybe I don’t deserve anything. I know I don’t deserve all the great things that God has given me, but he still has given them to me, he gave me the strength to keep going. It may be bad rn but I’m here for a reason. He wants me to keep going, they want me to keep going. so I will.
Have you ever felt bad for a complete stranger, a little sympathy for the person crying on the bus, the tired and worn out people you pass every day? Remember that others have the capacity for this as well. Your empathy is mirrored all around you, but we are all mostly silent about this fact. You may feel that nobody knows, nobody cares… yet you have the ability to feel for others. Take it on faith that others can feel the same for you. You will be missed when you are gone. As will we all.
I’m trying to be better. I’m not as sad as often as what I used to be but I am a tad more introverted. I’m more insecure, nervous about certain things. I don’t feel like myself. I went through like a transitional period of being ME, to being a depressed shell of a man, I was suicidal, so depressed I thought about just killing myself in school, and then I got better. It got worse a little while after that but the thing is, once I adapt, I don’t want to change again. I found comfort in the misery. That is something no one should have to feel. It’s okay to feel this way, but now I realized it isn’t okay to feel them every second of every day.
This was the best video i've seen in 2023, i lost my dad this year and lots of thing have changed for me and he was my hero and while we didnt speak often intimately i miss him and some friends and family i've lost connection with are showing their true colors... it's heartbreaking when you try to express your emotions and have them discarded to the side like dust in the wind. thank you for the peace of mind by making this video.
I cried last night for the first time in years, over fighting with family, I forgot how precious family actually is, of course my family isnt the best and we have arguments but you just have to look past that and enjoy the good parts.
I feel this so much. I went through a really hard time where I just made myself sick anxiety through the roof felt depressed just drained tired and miserable like my life was pointless and I offered nothing to anybody and the world would be better without me. My tears would just flow out whenever and I couldn’t help it there was nothing I could do. I’m so sorry for anyone who is going through a rough time right now and honestly it will be okay. I know it’s rough and you hear everyone say this but truly there will be many good moments but you can’t just have good moments. Being miserable can also lead to some of the greatest moments in your life. A deeper connection with someone or just an experience that can make you see everything differently. It will be okay. I love you and I hope things get better and you genuinely read that.
19, moved out at 18, work full time in a town hours away from any one I know, school was a nightmare, never had a girlfriend, never had true close friends, never shared experiences with people I love, never partied, I mean never been on a plane ffs. Struggled through therapy for years over social anxiety and still struggle. I give so much effort in trying to stay positive, trying to be a better person, trying to meet people with similar values and hobbies, But when I never share enjoyment with anyone it all seems useless. I just hope one day things will turn around. I need to get this off my chest. Feels like I've been ignored all my life, overlooked, an object. This world just wasn't built for me. But I keep pushing because if I stop now, then all I've worked for would be useless and a waste. I guess what I'm talking to myself here about...is to see the good in life, how lucky we are to be here be concious of our presence in time and space and what a phenomenon it is. Keeping fighting my brothers in this unfair world, as will I.
Love you Men. Every one you see out there is fighting their own battle. Let's pick each other up. As Men, imagine if we were known for how we cared for one another in our culture. Let's fight for it. Starts with our immediate friend group
I had to breakup with her. She wasn't treating me right and pinned a lot of stress on me and i know she isnt doing the best now but i couldnt be with that version of herself when it made a worse version of myself. Its hard to pull away from the people you love when you care for them especially when all those memories come flooding in from everything you did together. Its the little things or spark at the start that hurts the most. The fact that it was all real too is what breaks me the most. 💔
Everything changes, whether we like it or not, and we just have to keep it in. Maybe I don’t have a person to talk too, but it’s nice to know I have myself. Thanks for the video though, it’s nice to see people with you who feel like this. Everyone is the comment section deserves a hug though, and a nice hot cup of coco.
i cared too much for most of my friends, be their cheerleader go getter man. But then like, when all of em made it.. i lost the person who push the same way i did to my friends. all i said was "well, at least they made it." boom. its been 6+ years of white noise till this day.
Crazy in all these hopecore videos I never saw the guy from Dry Creek Wrangler school. He definitely has some amazing hopecore advice. Peace be with you boys.
Thank you to the chick in middle school who hanged out with me at my lowest and gave me unconditional love, i still think about her kindness a lot and i miss her causing my heart to beat faster, of course i didn't understand at the time she liked me but i still can't understand why me? what made me special i wonder...
Love this bro, keep them coming! I'm now changing everything about myself, especially my outlook and I am thriving. It's mostly all thanks to most of the men in this video!
I've been in a bit of a hole for the past few weeks, and i've started missing my happy self. I haven't really been able to get out of my hole and I just keep pulling myself back down. When I'm happy I miss the feeling of being miserable. But I miss the smile that never left my face and the genuine connection I felt with my friends and the beauty I saw in everything, even a concrete wall. This video has made me happier and more hopeful than anything I've watched in at least a month. I feel like no one will care, but I'll try to be happy again, and hopefully I don't forget about this comment when I wake up. Good luck to anyone else in a dark hole right now, and I hope you can pull yourself out soon :)
Everything I ever did and loved before. Somehow, nowadays, I couldn't do it all again. As I have given myself a constant manifestation of sadness that I cannot comprehend of how, why, or when has it started that I couldn't do a single productive damn thing again. Putting a facade on myself that I am happy but the truth is, I'm not.
I’m thankful to be where I am in my life now, from what it used to be. For anyone going through extreme loneliness, feeling like you have no one, you’re not alone in this feeling. Find comfort in the fact that this is normal sometimes and feel at ease knowing you can always get out of it like some others did.
This video is a beautiful thing my god I think this is one of the first times in a long time I’ve shed a tear especially the part with Jordan Peterson talking about the hole someone leaves behind when someone kills themselves. I’ve been suicidal and depressed for a long long long time and I just wanted a reason to go on, a reason to live, and a reason to keep going and that right there gave that reason to live thank you for posting this video means a lot 🥲
watching stuff like this makes me feel a little hopeless but it also makes me feel so connected with people. it's incredible how many people are going through the same stuff. it makes me feel like everything might be okay in the end.
I remember my girlfriend, I was just so boastful I ruined everything I had with her. I feel like shit everyday when I realize, what I did to Kim. She still has my heart and it's like everytime I hear her named, it's like a shot in my heart that takes the wind out of me. It's painful for me, I wish I could have her back everyday.
Don’t be afraid of being pathetic. Did you tell her how much you fucked up? Cry in front of her. We’re not in the business of saving face. We’re not the strong, stoic type.
Just say to yourself that you know how to contact her and how to talk to her, so you can ask for forgiveness. I dont know how to contact a girl i've destroyed mentally, the remorses are eating me alive everytime i think about it since i cant contact her i dont know where i can find her.
The worst part is wanting to talk about it, but knowing that talking about it just doesn't do anything. We all can go through hell and..nothing. Sometimes it makes us great but the truth is most of us will fall. The heroes journey isn't for everyone.. certainly wasn't for me.
watching these videos reminds me that my time is valuable and i have control over who i spend it with, i don’t have time for fake friends anymore, i don’t care anymore, i’m fine with the 2/3 real friends i have, thats all i need.
She taught me about love. She taught me what its like to have someone love me and what it's like to love myself. I leave for USMC bootcamp in a few short months. I am afraid. What if this wonderful girl turned woman finds someone else while I am gone? What if she finds a man who can treat her better? A man who doesn't struggle with substance abuse and isn't strapped for cash? What if she moves on and I am stuck? I am afraid.
It is okay to be afraid, brother. It's scary that we are not promised anything in life but death. But to understand this fact, may help you find peace in the uncertainty. I hope goodness comes your way even if it's not the way you think so.
I too left for bootcamp (USMC) whilst in a relationship, we ended up splitting shortly after bootcamp due to long distance its not an easy life brother I could imagine you are in training now and I hope for you to see this when you get out and realize that a love so fragile 3 months can end it is never worth having. Semper fi brother.
II am drunk and this compilation hurts but it let's me think about the people in my surrounding and me... And it shows you as a person are not alone... stay strong
Something I learned is when a women cries its because her day was bad, when a man cries its because his life was falling apart. I was because he held it together for years before ever showing it.
We need more healthy men in world. We gained so much awareness about mental health but not much people seems to help men to get better. So they watch these videos to feel at least something. I'm not shitting on this video, i think this video was so well made, BUT don't romanticize your sadness or the fact that you're feeling alone. Because when you romanticize it, you'll never really want to get out of this shithole. After the very intense years of my depression, i realized that happiness is not something you reach, it's a choice. You choose to be curious, you choose to be happy, you choose to keep going, you choose to be kind, you choose to help someone else to get out of this... Don't think you're alone in this or no one really cares. People care. I care. You just didn't come across with those people yet. Don't believe that bullshit that says the only one who will help you get through this is you. We are built to be together, to help each other. You'll be surprised the amount of people who really cares after you start to look around you. I know you don't think that you feel nothing, the only thing is numbness, but you felt something while watching this video, even if it's negative, you felt something. Stick with it, start with it. Try to realize the incorrect stereotypes that you put on your personality, your brain. Those are not true and you know that theyre not true deep down. So why are you still watching sad content that will only make you more sad and alone? Do something. Reply to this comment i dont know but do something. You can get out of this
Agreed friend. Agreed. It's all a choice. I know so many guys out there are hurting. But no one is truly alone. Search for the right people. Make new friends. Life is full of beauty, but also pain. Take the bad with the good and let your mistakes and experiences change you for the better! God bless
Perfectly said. Don't get addicted to the comforting sense of self pity that rumination or media like this inadvertently promotes inside you. Don't let your sadness fester into a sense of entitlement and bitterness toward the world around you either. This, especially, is a death sentence for men. The moment you decide that you are hopeless and a victim, you will be doomed to victimhood in perpetuity. Steel yourself, look inside, find the strength to accept what you need to accept or change the things you *can* change. I cannot agree more with your sentiment honestly. Catharsis might be useful, but preoccupation with misery certainly is not. I will say though that these videos are a stark and useful highlight of the common suffering of man, and a reminder to see strangers as individuals.
I don’t know, i personally feel happy watching these. Maybe sorrowful, but it’s poignant, and I guess hopeful. It’s hopeful because it speaks of the condition, it airs it out. It gives us the words to describe the feelings we can’t explain. I don’t see it as a pit of self pity, but a starting point to the race you must run through life. A place where we can realize we need help. If we can admit our condition with others here, maybe it’ll be easier to do it out in the real world.
There is something so wonderful about this, I can just feel... I can feel this, and while it feels sad it also feels amazing. There is something so wonderful about feeling.
my mom died when i was 12 in 2015 now im 20, sometimes before going to sleep i remember the good old times i got with her when she was there with me :c ... y'all should respect and listen and do what ur mom ask you to do something cus not having a mom anymore its very hard to live without this maternal love..
@@cybershinigami9907 man, i thought nobody would talk to me while posting that but you just proved me wrong plus you feel the same pain as me brother stay strong out there keep fighting back life, much love !
@@cybershinigami9907 you too stay strong.. may our moms stay in our hearts forever, you know what they says? "When does a man die? When he is hit by a bullet? No! When he suffers a disease? No! When he ate a soup made out of a poisonous mushroom? No! A man dies when he is forgotten!" - Eiichiro Oda, One Piece, Volume 16: Carrying On His Will... anyway brother we stay strong... corecore :, )
One day i looked at my youtube and relised it was all depression vidios while i was looking for the answers. But looking at my youtube then i sore my problem just constant reminders and sad music. I made a new account and made it more positive, i ignored how i felt and refused to exept it. And eventually i started to forget that feeling and move on out that pit. Ignoring your feelings ist the answer but u cant allways give into them
The one thing I could tell you right now is that to read that Bible every day. Pray every single night. Look out for small things to be so so so grateful for. Then in a physical way, start eating healthier and start working out. whether its running or lifting. I know it sucks at first and its so easy to stop or to quit but after a while it gives you a sense of purpose and your body starts to crave it. Your spirit flourishes, your mind is in the right place and your physical health is much better. but hey man I know it's easy to just read this and kind of think maybe he's right then turn around and not do anything about it. I really hope and pray you find the strength and discipline to do these things because it really helped me and I'd love for it to help you as well.
@@bobby0199 You're preaching to the choir man lol. I dont watch these types of videos anymore, just got this one recommended and felt the need to share my comment.
you know, it's so awful that I feel apathetic most of the time, it's really hard for me to feel sadness and I just want to release my feelings somehow, but for some reason I can't cry, so I watch this to reassure myself, cope or even make me sad at the very least
Whenever I watch corecore videos I feel connected with all these men, despite being a woman; I've always related better with men, but I think I've picked up their habits, good and bad. I wish I could sit down, and rest their heads on my lap, because that's what I'd like, and I see no reason they wouldn't mind being held as a girlfriend, best friend or a normal friend.
Why is life draining my soul. When I move and distract myself, I feel good. When I stop and think about myself and my life. I get sad. Unless I keep moving...I just. Realize that my brain doesn't really like me anymore. Why...why is that? I don't even know if I expect an answer.
man tbh really relate with 19:35 i tried sharing my feeling with one of my friends from school on the way back home but then the next day my friends friend approached me and asked me if i was okay to which i replied yes. on the walk home i asked the friend about it but he said he hadn’t told anyone. the next day I asked the friends friend who had told her to which she replied that it was my fired that had told her all about it. since then i have heist been keeping my feelings bottled up
I just want to let you know to everyone who is alone feeling hopeless there is no point to just even go exist etc your wrong I want to let you know I’m proud of you I love you and your trying as long as you are trying everyday and keeping the effort going that’s all I want at least from me I want you to just try even if it’s just a little just try have a good day have a good life and keep pushing I love you and I’m proud of you
I wanna leave something for anyone reading. BE HUMAN and don’t be afraid of being human. Hold on to that feeling and think about it deeply. We are all human and being sad is beautiful because it’s part of the spectrum of human emotion that makes us what we are… HUMAN. Stay human folks and appreciate all emotions. It’s all part of the bigger picture friends. Cheers!
Let’s not mistake being around people or being connected to people as the cure to your problems. I have the issue of being around a lot of people that don’t understand me or don’t want to understand. I’d much rather be completely isolated than spend another minute with someone who can’t stop talking about trivial things
i never got to say goodbye to my grandma, while she was slowly fading away i was too busy with a girl who put me in more pain in a year than i had been through in 20 years. She was dying and I never truly realised that she was slowly dying. I just wish I could go back to the point before she stopped speaking and tell her how much i looked up to her. It's one thing I'll always regret and it was all my fault. She died on new years day and that night i saw her in my window, maybe as her goodbye. It probably was me going crazy because i was sleep deprived that week, but I want to believe it was really her, if that's the last thing i do.
I too dealt with something similar. I had to gaze into my grandma's eyes as she was dying. What's a man supposed to say? Words failed me. All I could say is that I love her and I'll keep going on for her. I miss her everyday
Be kind to each other, but more importantly, be kind to yourself. You deserve it. Don't worry what others think, it's your own opinion of yourself that matters. ❤
Thank you all sooooo much for 100k+ views!! This is insane. Yall are the best!
dont say ty we need this , ty mate
@tsukyojaimangermesvoisins7216 thank you for your support!
@@tsukyojaimangermesvoisins7216to np
What music is playing at 12:45 @cybershinigami9907
@Vict0rRezn0v balls in your jaws by Frank Sinatra
The one where the cop offers the guy in the car a hug gets me every time, regardless of whether it's in a corecore video or not
I need a hug too..
@@lapidariofrancisandrew5320 ❤
@@lapidariofrancisandrew5320❤
anyone know the original or context to that clip?
timestmap?
That "Do you need a hug", hit me like a fucking bullet
Yep
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it hit me like a train
I'd give yah hug my man@@dylan55690
@@klypto6820it hit me like a bullet train
Fuck man this video just made me cry my eyes out. I'm 27 and I felt like I have never lived my life but just existed in it. The loneliness is real at the moment. Hope anyone who watched this knows you're not alone.
We are not alone.
It ok man I feel the same way but there someone I can look to why I'm sad and his name is jesus christ
Bro, are you okay?
Brother, we all feel it. You are not alone. Take care.
You are not alone brother. I am here for you. We all are.
Honestly watching this doesn't make me sad. At all. It's the way you look at it. It gives me a fire to be better, find better, connect, love, live.
Thank you. I was just about to comment this. I have struggled with improving myself recently. The one with Theo Von where he talks about missing out (in the beginning of the video) hit me especially hard.
Matter of fact I found out I really relate to Theo on a lot of levels - confidence in being yourself (which is especially interesting in someone who does stand up comedy), being vulnerable with others, etc.
This video stoked the fire in my heart which strives for a better life.
@@franciscoferraz6788 I think thats the best part of theo, despite his ridiculous comedy, hes a really genuine guy who talks about things people dont speak about, he helps people but doesnt act like hes some high and mighty advice giver, hes just human in a world of non human personas and online masks
100% makes me feel less alone
I find comfortable im this
Me too , reminds me of how painful life can be.
I crave corecore due to the lack of authenticity in todays society. These bring me happiness in the sense of unity when I see a lot of people have viewed these videos. We are never alone.
Thank you so much for the love on my comment. I made an attempt at my own corecore video! Would be honored to make it to 50 views!
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I ruined it all. She was kind and happy and I’m the reason she changed. I just wish I could have one more moment of her laughing or smiling
Be grateful for the lesson you gained. You are now more mature. Next time you won't commit the same mistake. Good luck
@@---00001The lesson is to not love again. Thinking if love with a rational train of thought, Why would you ever want to place yourself in such a position to be so vulnerable, Be so suseptable to pain, Agony, Depression. Why would anyone ever want that? Why does love boil down to our apparent "Human condition"?
@@ssyncrony9078the vulnerability is not because of love, but because of you. Love is one of the many aspects a human being generally wants to experience, but not necessarily the main or one of the most important. Love doesn't hurt necessarily, that's upon who loves
@ssyncrony9078 Intamacy, kindness and love, all things diametrically opposed to our biological state of being, I wish I could be freed from my human flesh and consciousness
@@Godfailedyoustophumpinghisleg I love this. May you be set free friend.
My boyfriend sent me this. I'm scared. I feel like I can't give him what he needs to be happy. All I want is for him to be happy again, I want to see him genuinely smiling, laughing like he used to. I wish I could transfer all his pain to myself.
Just talk to him. Be reassuring and show him you care. Things will work out!
I wish a girl was this considerate of my feelings in my life, unfortunately, thats not the case.
@@DreamBerry87 I hope you find someone who genuinely wants the best for you and makes you the happiest you've ever been ❤️
@@Masshirona_Yuki thank you, I wish you and your bf a strong relationship
bless you for being so considerate.
Needed a good cry to remind me how far I’ve been and how much farther I’ve got to go , thanks for this . Stay strong brothers it gets better
You've got this homie, I believe in you! ❤
@@V8.777 thank you for the positive energy , reciprocating it back to you man 🙏🏻
@@timmorrell9828 thank you friend. Never give up man, we're capable of greatness ❤
@@V8.777 we certainly are homie, god bless
Been a while since this comment hope your doing good right now man
Anyone feeling alone, anyone feeling like it’s over, it’s not worth it, there’s nothing left, there is. Be patient and look for it, don’t give up, someone cares about you, and you might not know them yet. You have a purpose you might not have found it yet. Keep going, keep going, keep going.
Wakeup no one cares about you. The only one that can care about you is yourself.
tired of being patient
Those 3 "keep going"s had alot more of an impact then i or maybe even you thought it would
I'm trying. I really am.
she cared, now i either have a chance to get her back or lose her forever. man i feel lost as
Not only am I really alone now, but I feel really alone. No matter where I go or who I'm with I feel alone and I'm scared I will get used to it.
I felt this way for several months this year. Same routine, same people without any real attachment to them. I won't go further, and I'll tell you the brass tax. Commit to something or someone. Give your entire life to it. When you will find it you won't ever be alone anymore. You will be the best friend of yourself, everyone else will feel like an extra to be grateful for.
And the only companion you have is your own consciousness. We’re on the same boat man, take it easy on yourself.
@@---00001You need to commit to something, not someone because that something might not leave or hurt you, I found that out the hard way,
@@thecombatwombat69 I thought the same thing in the past. That's a myopic view. Committing to someone doesn't mean to sacrifice your life. Commit, don't sacrifice.
@@---00001 Shi when you said commit I took it straight to sacrifice thanks for letting me know
I'm going to be 20 years old man in less than 2 month. All I really feel right now is... how lonely I am. I don't know what I am at this point... I don't feel connection to any living soul at this planet... All conversations I have with any girl just... don't work... Good chat in the evening... and then nothing in the morning. And to add insult to the injury... I always wanted to have my own family.
I understand how you feel man. Just hang in there. Idk if you believe or not, but God cares bro. Whenever you feel like you can go on, just pray it out. Jesus has gotten me through some tough times. It'll all work out! ❤️
"Now I have to remember you for longer than I've known you". That broke me. Thank you for making this.
Watching this made me cry after holding everything in. Ladies check on your men. Brothers, love each other. If you are reading this…you matter and I love you. Keep moving. Run, walk, crawl, just keep moving forward.
@@user-vw7lr7ib1eyea but who’s gonna check on men? Other men
Well said. Cheers❤
I made the tough decision to let go of someone who didn't want to be with me. And this helped me cry. After being so sad, and feeling like I was the only one who could feel this empty, I realized all walks of human life have felt this emptiness.
This is a struggle I've been dealing with for a long time. I'm scared to tell anyone. I feel alone every waking moment, even when I'm happy amongst many friends. The love I have for people is held deep inside, and I can't seem to show the people I love that feeling, that I truly care about them. I'm left without their love and affection. Even their presence is something I can't grasp sometimes. I just have that feeling of loneliness, and sometimes it's addicting. It's sad.
But I'm working on it. I hope to get out of this shell someday. I'm becoming very social and, starting my first year of college, I am making so many friends. Until then, I still have moments of pain and suffering I keep hidden. My walk home by myself tonight really destroyed me. Tonight, I spend my last hours alone. However, things are looking brighter.
It's nice to know there are others feeling the same way. Atleast we can be alone together.
@@thatshogunpanda893 Its easy to romanticize sadness in any fashion. I would say do not do that. Be true to those around you. Tell your friends and those around you how you feel from time to time. If it doesn't make those bonds stronger, it still is nothing to be ashamed of. Life goes on.
No one should be ashamed of how much affection we show the people we love. I spent every moment with the person I was with exactly how I wanted to. But I created a dependency on them, because of how lonely I was. It became toxic, so whether they wanted to break it up or not, it was for the best. I had to be happy with myself. That is the challenge for me now.
The only things I would want anyone to take away from this is to be true to yourself. Be kind to those around you. Be forgiving even when it is not incentivized to do so. Life truly is enjoying the small things. One foot in front of the other. Everyday is a new day. We are not our mistakes. Make the most of your time.
I've been in the exact same place. Not sure if anything sucks more than trying to love the arms that don't want to hold you. I realized that after the 4-year relationship towards the end.
Whenever I get lost in my self improvement journey I watch this, the fuel you get out of these is crazy. Quite addictive.
Same... kinda reminds me the purpose... the reason why i am picking my ass up. Videos like these are important
since I began my self-improvement journey every aspect of my life got better. I look better, my addictions are way less strong, have 200x times more discipline, people respect me more, I can stand in the around 10 C shower for 15 minutes without a flinch.
When I was a "bad" person, I was happy. Now I'm a decent person. Now I'm just suffering. Now I want to 🏢⬇️ myself
Thank you if you thought this worth 15 seconds of your life. Im grateful.
Damn, this hit, Especially when you're trying so hard to build something. You just feel like you are moving through time, not really feeling or appreciating anything. There is no time to stop and feel, and then that loneliness sets in...
I wonder why this was recommended...
I think the reason I like these videos so much is because it makes me feel less alone. It’s good to know their are other people who share these feeling with me. For these 30 min even tho we saw the videos at different times we’re together
Hey brother, I love you lad. I’m a random stranger, but I’m going through the same shit. No one cares about us but we can care about each other. You’re a champ. Keep your head up and lock in.
Im 33 and tearing up over this video. I felt I was happy, but something in me broke and I just cried. I dont understand. I've got a great career, a wife and a kid, with one on the way.
For some reason seeing a grown man cry makes me more emotional than seeing a child or a woman cry
You guys cant give up I remember being in this position. Not knowing what I want. I still dont know what makes me truly happy. but being around others will give you purpose whatever you do if you are trying to get out of this rut, is spend time with people not just your family. Your friends, people you dont know, get a new job do something change the scenery and you will find something in the scenery that makes you feel better, dont keep watching core core videos, learn a new skill... investigate anything you find interesting. in just one year I made so many changes that made me a happier, nicer, better person and you can too. If anyone ever needs to talk just reply and I can give you contact info, you can do this
Thank you for the advice, I got out of an emotionally abusive 2 year relationship months ago and found out last night she rebounded after trying to get me back for months and after she texted me last week about it being hard to move on and then she blocked me to get my attention, funny thing is she dropped me like a bag of rocks when I finally contacted her to clarify what she meant like I didn’t mean a thing just to get my attention so I could know she moved on with someone else. They’re more details but of course it’d be an article. Pettiness to make me feel hurt for leaving her toxicity and not wanting to come back I guess? I appreciate the words things oddly have been getting way better since then honestly. I’ve met someone new myself. Taking things slow..so these type of videos help thoughts reflect sometimes yk
This comment really really struck me. Thank you and I wish you the best of luck , your comment helped me so much in the mental state I was in in this very moment
yeah I get it, free your mindset hope your doing better buddy, let me know@@IAmKentori
Im so glad my comment touched you its a huge journey that I went through and its also a silent one that nobody but my mom knows about, its good to know so many other people felt the same way, you will get through this, this is just one small hiccup in the long road of fruitful life. Check in with me some time if things are getting better worse or whatever @@Caaiirro
I’m still working on this myself but I’ve come to realize that the problem is that we’re always trying everything to make ourselves happy and sometimes it never feels enough but making other people happy and just being an overall decent person around other people has a much greater effect on our happiness.
a true piece of metamodern art
women think we just go around for they're body, man i just need a hug.
Jesus cried, he comforted those who were hurt and wept with those who wept. (John 11)
That's such a good quote, really shows the human condition.
i dont really like trevor noah or jimmy fallon but this is one of the times i can heavily agree with them, men come together no matter what when emotions are a play.
Me neither. I think they're both unfunny and crappy people in general. However, I at least agree with Trevor in that clip.
i have a hard time even bringing myself to watch anymore without being so incredibly overwhelmed with the emotions that follow
i forgot how to cry because the only thing i ever do is suppress my feelings. i still cry when i watch sad movies or read heartwarming stories but i can never cry for myself; because i don't think i deserve to cry. i need help, but i don't know how to express how i feel either.
i'm a lost man
Therapy
Best thing you can probably do is to try and succeed in everything you do. Study, work out, earn money through a job and keep progressing man. Talk to your family (if you have any) or perhaps talk to the people at the gym (workers etc), clean your room and try to always be nice and caring to everyone, even the annoying uncaring ones (try to be careful with narcissists however). That's how I'm getting through it anyways. Therapy won't do you much, except ruin your serotonin and dopamine levels through pills and whatnot. Try to keep your head up, and stay as far away from social media platforms such as Instagram, Facebook, Reddit, Quora, Tinder, Badoo, and any negative/sad videos on youtube or tiktok if you use that for whatever reason. Stop caring about what others think about you, and try to look your best and eat well and healthy. Over time, slowly, it will work for you best regards - Victor
Therapy wont change a thing, you gotta face it yourself, the best you can do is to take action, nothing is going to change if u keep doing nothing to change it
@@remoza4412 nah man therapy is the shit, it allows you to build a relationship with someone who, if they're the right fit, is there to LISTEN to you and not judge and, ultimately, help you figure out how to improve
I’m a stranger, but all I can say, everyone deserves to cry. You may not be a good person entirely but crying is something you don’t deserve but you need. Expressing yourself takes time, and getting that first step and giving yourself time is the best anyone can do. I wish the best for you man.
I’ve been struggling with my mental health since elementary school and I just don’t know how to get better. No matter who I meet or the changes I make, I just can’t find happiness. I just feel so fucking empty. I don’t understand anything I’m feeling or why I’m feeling it. I have no reason to feel this way since I live a perfect life. My family loves me, I have so many friends who care about me, im healthy. But at the same time I hate myself everything about me, especially how fucking selfish I am. Sometime I think that I maybe just shouldn’t be happy at all. There are people who are struggling immensely and they’re happy, but I’m so fucking selfish for have everything and still wanting more. Maybe I don’t deserve anything. I know I don’t deserve all the great things that God has given me, but he still has given them to me, he gave me the strength to keep going. It may be bad rn but I’m here for a reason. He wants me to keep going, they want me to keep going. so I will.
I love and I feel your videos .
nerd XD
I just cried for 28 minutes thanks
WE LETTING IT ALL OUT WITH THIS ONE 🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
Have you ever felt bad for a complete stranger, a little sympathy for the person crying on the bus, the tired and worn out people you pass every day? Remember that others have the capacity for this as well. Your empathy is mirrored all around you, but we are all mostly silent about this fact. You may feel that nobody knows, nobody cares… yet you have the ability to feel for others. Take it on faith that others can feel the same for you. You will be missed when you are gone. As will we all.
Man I just wanna do something badass
Literally some final push towards something honorable is all i want at this point
no joke you guys should fight wildfires
Go do it man
Go hike mt everest or sum idk
Doing something honourable won’t change your heart you have to change your heart first and only God can change your heart
I’m trying to be better. I’m not as sad as often as what I used to be but I am a tad more introverted. I’m more insecure, nervous about certain things. I don’t feel like myself. I went through like a transitional period of being ME, to being a depressed shell of a man, I was suicidal, so depressed I thought about just killing myself in school, and then I got better. It got worse a little while after that but the thing is, once I adapt, I don’t want to change again. I found comfort in the misery. That is something no one should have to feel. It’s okay to feel this way, but now I realized it isn’t okay to feel them every second of every day.
"Now I have to remember you for longer than I've known you"
Fuck man
This was the best video i've seen in 2023, i lost my dad this year and lots of thing have changed for me and he was my hero and while we didnt speak often intimately i miss him and some friends and family i've lost connection with are showing their true colors... it's heartbreaking when you try to express your emotions and have them discarded to the side like dust in the wind. thank you for the peace of mind by making this video.
I cried last night for the first time in years, over fighting with family, I forgot how precious family actually is, of course my family isnt the best and we have arguments but you just have to look past that and enjoy the good parts.
Always remember one day they won't be here. Instantly makes me forget any arguments and love the.
I feel this so much. I went through a really hard time where I just made myself sick anxiety through the roof felt depressed just drained tired and miserable like my life was pointless and I offered nothing to anybody and the world would be better without me. My tears would just flow out whenever and I couldn’t help it there was nothing I could do. I’m so sorry for anyone who is going through a rough time right now and honestly it will be okay. I know it’s rough and you hear everyone say this but truly there will be many good moments but you can’t just have good moments. Being miserable can also lead to some of the greatest moments in your life. A deeper connection with someone or just an experience that can make you see everything differently. It will be okay. I love you and I hope things get better and you genuinely read that.
Why do I feel sad? I have no reason to I have everything
19, moved out at 18, work full time in a town hours away from any one I know, school was a nightmare, never had a girlfriend, never had true close friends, never shared experiences with people I love, never partied, I mean never been on a plane ffs. Struggled through therapy for years over social anxiety and still struggle. I give so much effort in trying to stay positive, trying to be a better person, trying to meet people with similar values and hobbies, But when I never share enjoyment with anyone it all seems useless. I just hope one day things will turn around. I need to get this off my chest. Feels like I've been ignored all my life, overlooked, an object. This world just wasn't built for me. But I keep pushing because if I stop now, then all I've worked for would be useless and a waste. I guess what I'm talking to myself here about...is to see the good in life, how lucky we are to be here be concious of our presence in time and space and what a phenomenon it is. Keeping fighting my brothers in this unfair world, as will I.
hope it will get better for you man.
Love you Men. Every one you see out there is fighting their own battle. Let's pick each other up. As Men, imagine if we were known for how we cared for one another in our culture. Let's fight for it. Starts with our immediate friend group
I had to breakup with her. She wasn't treating me right and pinned a lot of stress on me and i know she isnt doing the best now but i couldnt be with that version of herself when it made a worse version of myself. Its hard to pull away from the people you love when you care for them especially when all those memories come flooding in from everything you did together. Its the little things or spark at the start that hurts the most. The fact that it was all real too is what breaks me the most. 💔
Everything changes, whether we like it or not, and we just have to keep it in. Maybe I don’t have a person to talk too, but it’s nice to know I have myself. Thanks for the video though, it’s nice to see people with you who feel like this. Everyone is the comment section deserves a hug though, and a nice hot cup of coco.
i cared too much for most of my friends, be their cheerleader go getter man. But then like, when all of em made it.. i lost the person who push the same way i did to my friends. all i said was "well, at least they made it." boom. its been 6+ years of white noise till this day.
Crazy in all these hopecore videos I never saw the guy from Dry Creek Wrangler school. He definitely has some amazing hopecore advice. Peace be with you boys.
Thank you to the chick in middle school who hanged out with me at my lowest and gave me unconditional love, i still think about her kindness a lot and i miss her causing my heart to beat faster, of course i didn't understand at the time she liked me but i still can't understand why me? what made me special i wonder...
You’re loved,❤️
Love this bro, keep them coming! I'm now changing everything about myself, especially my outlook and I am thriving. It's mostly all thanks to most of the men in this video!
Wow, this is beautiful, feelings man... It doesn't matter what they are, pain, love, or sadness... This is what makes life so beautiful.
I love all you guys out there. just know you're not alone. we'll get through this one way or another
Thank you!
I've been in a bit of a hole for the past few weeks, and i've started missing my happy self. I haven't really been able to get out of my hole and I just keep pulling myself back down. When I'm happy I miss the feeling of being miserable. But I miss the smile that never left my face and the genuine connection I felt with my friends and the beauty I saw in everything, even a concrete wall.
This video has made me happier and more hopeful than anything I've watched in at least a month. I feel like no one will care, but I'll try to be happy again, and hopefully I don't forget about this comment when I wake up. Good luck to anyone else in a dark hole right now, and I hope you can pull yourself out soon :)
Everything I ever did and loved before. Somehow, nowadays, I couldn't do it all again. As I have given myself a constant manifestation of sadness that I cannot comprehend of how, why, or when has it started that I couldn't do a single productive damn thing again. Putting a facade on myself that I am happy but the truth is, I'm not.
I’m thankful to be where I am in my life now, from what it used to be. For anyone going through extreme loneliness, feeling like you have no one, you’re not alone in this feeling. Find comfort in the fact that this is normal sometimes and feel at ease knowing you can always get out of it like some others did.
Thank you, just got out of a toxic relationship. It means alot
The hopecore at the end sealed everything up for me
Ive been struggling I just wanna say thank you and I’m so grateful I stumbled upon this video .
Man, you got me cryin two minutes in. Thanks
This video is a beautiful thing my god I think this is one of the first times in a long time I’ve shed a tear especially the part with Jordan Peterson talking about the hole someone leaves behind when someone kills themselves. I’ve been suicidal and depressed for a long long long time and I just wanted a reason to go on, a reason to live, and a reason to keep going and that right there gave that reason to live thank you for posting this video means a lot 🥲
If only you knew how much potential you really have.
I really do want to help people. Once I get a PC in a year or 2, I'll start editing my own corecores. Thank you for the kind words
watching stuff like this makes me feel a little hopeless but it also makes me feel so connected with people. it's incredible how many people are going through the same stuff. it makes me feel like everything might be okay in the end.
bro, this is the only type of videoes that can make me cry, 5 minutes in and im already crying lmao. i really fucking miss her.
I remember my girlfriend, I was just so boastful I ruined everything I had with her. I feel like shit everyday when I realize, what I did to Kim. She still has my heart and it's like everytime I hear her named, it's like a shot in my heart that takes the wind out of me. It's painful for me, I wish I could have her back everyday.
If you can let her know and apologize. It will give you peace of mind and in your heart
Don’t be afraid of being pathetic. Did you tell her how much you fucked up? Cry in front of her. We’re not in the business of saving face. We’re not the strong, stoic type.
Just say to yourself that you know how to contact her and how to talk to her, so you can ask for forgiveness. I dont know how to contact a girl i've destroyed mentally, the remorses are eating me alive everytime i think about it since i cant contact her i dont know where i can find her.
The worst part is wanting to talk about it, but knowing that talking about it just doesn't do anything. We all can go through hell and..nothing. Sometimes it makes us great but the truth is most of us will fall. The heroes journey isn't for everyone.. certainly wasn't for me.
I really feel the same way. A lot of us just get dealt a shit hand in life
this is why I cant believe in god, I mean why would you create me only for me to be nothing.
@@mrDeathtrooper fr. W comment
watching these videos reminds me that my time is valuable and i have control over who i spend it with, i don’t have time for fake friends anymore, i don’t care anymore, i’m fine with the 2/3 real friends i have, thats all i need.
Thank you so much for making this. Keep on fighting the madness. Be excellent to each other.
We all gotta keep fighting the good fight out here! Thanks for the inspiration!
She taught me about love. She taught me what its like to have someone love me and what it's like to love myself. I leave for USMC bootcamp in a few short months. I am afraid. What if this wonderful girl turned woman finds someone else while I am gone? What if she finds a man who can treat her better? A man who doesn't struggle with substance abuse and isn't strapped for cash? What if she moves on and I am stuck? I am afraid.
It is okay to be afraid, brother. It's scary that we are not promised anything in life but death. But to understand this fact, may help you find peace in the uncertainty. I hope goodness comes your way even if it's not the way you think so.
Talk to her about your fears man, let her know and don't keep her in the dark.
Its a canon event brother, eat the L & be a beast
I too left for bootcamp (USMC) whilst in a relationship, we ended up splitting shortly after bootcamp due to long distance its not an easy life brother I could imagine you are in training now and I hope for you to see this when you get out and realize that a love so fragile 3 months can end it is never worth having. Semper fi brother.
Bro if she's that important, if she's that special. Don't go to boot camp, just stay with her man.
II am drunk and this compilation hurts but it let's me think about the people in my surrounding and me...
And it shows you as a person are not alone...
stay strong
You matter brother
Something I learned is when a women cries its because her day was bad, when a man cries its because his life was falling apart. I was because he held it together for years before ever showing it.
That line from “the boy the mole the fox and the horse” always gets me 😢. “Kind”
Such a simple response, yet it has so much weight behind it.
We need more healthy men in world. We gained so much awareness about mental health but not much people seems to help men to get better. So they watch these videos to feel at least something. I'm not shitting on this video, i think this video was so well made, BUT don't romanticize your sadness or the fact that you're feeling alone. Because when you romanticize it, you'll never really want to get out of this shithole. After the very intense years of my depression, i realized that happiness is not something you reach, it's a choice. You choose to be curious, you choose to be happy, you choose to keep going, you choose to be kind, you choose to help someone else to get out of this... Don't think you're alone in this or no one really cares. People care. I care. You just didn't come across with those people yet. Don't believe that bullshit that says the only one who will help you get through this is you. We are built to be together, to help each other. You'll be surprised the amount of people who really cares after you start to look around you. I know you don't think that you feel nothing, the only thing is numbness, but you felt something while watching this video, even if it's negative, you felt something. Stick with it, start with it. Try to realize the incorrect stereotypes that you put on your personality, your brain. Those are not true and you know that theyre not true deep down. So why are you still watching sad content that will only make you more sad and alone? Do something. Reply to this comment i dont know but do something. You can get out of this
Agreed friend. Agreed. It's all a choice. I know so many guys out there are hurting. But no one is truly alone. Search for the right people. Make new friends. Life is full of beauty, but also pain. Take the bad with the good and let your mistakes and experiences change you for the better! God bless
Perfectly said. Don't get addicted to the comforting sense of self pity that rumination or media like this inadvertently promotes inside you. Don't let your sadness fester into a sense of entitlement and bitterness toward the world around you either. This, especially, is a death sentence for men. The moment you decide that you are hopeless and a victim, you will be doomed to victimhood in perpetuity.
Steel yourself, look inside, find the strength to accept what you need to accept or change the things you *can* change. I cannot agree more with your sentiment honestly. Catharsis might be useful, but preoccupation with misery certainly is not. I will say though that these videos are a stark and useful highlight of the common suffering of man, and a reminder to see strangers as individuals.
I don’t know, i personally feel happy watching these. Maybe sorrowful, but it’s poignant, and I guess hopeful. It’s hopeful because it speaks of the condition, it airs it out. It gives us the words to describe the feelings we can’t explain. I don’t see it as a pit of self pity, but a starting point to the race you must run through life. A place where we can realize we need help. If we can admit our condition with others here, maybe it’ll be easier to do it out in the real world.
“It’s just myself, talking to myself, about myself.”
There is something so wonderful about this, I can just feel... I can feel this, and while it feels sad it also feels amazing. There is something so wonderful about feeling.
my mom died when i was 12 in 2015 now im 20, sometimes before going to sleep i remember the good old times i got with her when she was there with me :c ... y'all should respect and listen and do what ur mom ask you to do something cus not having a mom anymore its very hard to live without this maternal love..
Facts. My mom moved 500 miles away when I was around that same age. It's hard without a mom around
@@cybershinigami9907 man, i thought nobody would talk to me while posting that but you just proved me wrong plus you feel the same pain as me brother stay strong out there keep fighting back life, much love !
@Richard69420 life may knock ya down 1000 times, but you get up 1001 times! Stay strong brother!
@@cybershinigami9907 you too stay strong.. may our moms stay in our hearts forever, you know what they says? "When does a man die? When he is hit by a bullet? No! When he suffers a disease? No! When he ate a soup made out of a poisonous mushroom? No! A man dies when he is forgotten!" - Eiichiro Oda, One Piece, Volume 16: Carrying On His Will... anyway brother we stay strong... corecore :, )
This video is well-made and made me realize a lot of things about men's mental health. Thank you.
i just cried my eyes out to this , thank you
i dont even cry that much at just media in general, but that video with the cop hugging the guy got me man.
One day i looked at my youtube and relised it was all depression vidios while i was looking for the answers. But looking at my youtube then i sore my problem just constant reminders and sad music. I made a new account and made it more positive, i ignored how i felt and refused to exept it. And eventually i started to forget that feeling and move on out that pit. Ignoring your feelings ist the answer but u cant allways give into them
Honorable of you to do that, thanks for going there for us.
I love being alive
Same (I don’t)
Lucky bastard
Watching this stuff helps me process emotions I've bottled up 🍿
This was a rollercoaster of emotions
felt really depressed and honestly realized these videos make me worse. I find that God gives me hope joy and love
God is good!
@@cybershinigami9907 real
The one thing I could tell you right now is that to read that Bible every day. Pray every single night. Look out for small things to be so so so grateful for. Then in a physical way, start eating healthier and start working out. whether its running or lifting. I know it sucks at first and its so easy to stop or to quit but after a while it gives you a sense of purpose and your body starts to crave it. Your spirit flourishes, your mind is in the right place and your physical health is much better. but hey man I know it's easy to just read this and kind of think maybe he's right then turn around and not do anything about it. I really hope and pray you find the strength and discipline to do these things because it really helped me and I'd love for it to help you as well.
@@bobby0199 You're preaching to the choir man lol. I dont watch these types of videos anymore, just got this one recommended and felt the need to share my comment.
you know, it's so awful that I feel apathetic most of the time, it's really hard for me to feel sadness and I just want to release my feelings somehow, but for some reason I can't cry, so I watch this to reassure myself, cope or even make me sad at the very least
"the only thing i won, Was being alone" realest shit ever.
Naw what you did with the last part was incredible
If someone is feeling down or just want to talk to someone, we can talk, i need that too.
How you doing man? I'm from Australia. Where are you from?
I wish I had the words to say what I want to. I wonder...how long can you be sad before it's considered wallowing?
Many things happened this past 6 months, everything is way better now, hope really helps and im from Mexico!
@@kristoffersonludwing1731 I'm glad :)
Whenever I watch corecore videos I feel connected with all these men, despite being a woman; I've always related better with men, but I think I've picked up their habits, good and bad.
I wish I could sit down, and rest their heads on my lap, because that's what I'd like, and I see no reason they wouldn't mind being held as a girlfriend, best friend or a normal friend.
Pretty much exact same situation ngl
I'm here for anyone who needs to talk.
Why is life draining my soul. When I move and distract myself, I feel good. When I stop and think about myself and my life. I get sad. Unless I keep moving...I just. Realize that my brain doesn't really like me anymore. Why...why is that? I don't even know if I expect an answer.
Gotye's lyric "you can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness" has always been on the back of my mind ever since I hear that song
I just wanna hug my dad again. God I miss him.
The “I just need a hug” is so real
It's funny that something that once kept me addicted to sadness now brings my soul joy
man tbh really relate with 19:35
i tried sharing my feeling with one of my friends from school on the way back home but then the next day my friends friend approached me and asked me if i was okay to which i replied yes. on the walk home i asked the friend about it but he said he hadn’t told anyone. the next day I asked the friends friend who had told her to which she replied that it was my fired that had told her all about it. since then i have heist been keeping my feelings bottled up
I just want to let you know to everyone who is alone feeling hopeless there is no point to just even go exist etc your wrong I want to let you know I’m proud of you I love you and your trying as long as you are trying everyday and keeping the effort going that’s all I want at least from me I want you to just try even if it’s just a little just try have a good day have a good life and keep pushing I love you and I’m proud of you
First time I cried in over a year, thank you
I wanna leave something for anyone reading. BE HUMAN and don’t be afraid of being human. Hold on to that feeling and think about it deeply. We are all human and being sad is beautiful because it’s part of the spectrum of human emotion that makes us what we are… HUMAN. Stay human folks and appreciate all emotions. It’s all part of the bigger picture friends. Cheers!
Let’s not mistake being around people or being connected to people as the cure to your problems. I have the issue of being around a lot of people that don’t understand me or don’t want to understand. I’d much rather be completely isolated than spend another minute with someone who can’t stop talking about trivial things
i never got to say goodbye to my grandma, while she was slowly fading away i was too busy with a girl who put me in more pain in a year than i had been through in 20 years. She was dying and I never truly realised that she was slowly dying. I just wish I could go back to the point before she stopped speaking and tell her how much i looked up to her. It's one thing I'll always regret and it was all my fault. She died on new years day and that night i saw her in my window, maybe as her goodbye. It probably was me going crazy because i was sleep deprived that week, but I want to believe it was really her, if that's the last thing i do.
I too dealt with something similar. I had to gaze into my grandma's eyes as she was dying. What's a man supposed to say? Words failed me. All I could say is that I love her and I'll keep going on for her. I miss her everyday
Be kind to each other, but more importantly, be kind to yourself. You deserve it. Don't worry what others think, it's your own opinion of yourself that matters. ❤
I fucking love you, thank you so much, brother.