Caregiver 101: Tips for New Caregivers (age regression)
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- sorry about the weird coloring!! i got a new camera and im still figuring it out xx
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what is age regression?:
• what is age regression...
www.healthline...
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Empty Mind by Lofi_hour
I'm an age regresser but live alone. Your video helped me so I can try be my own care giver and teach others how to help me. Thank you
Same
My boyfriends have regression periods, and I don't know how to help or support them and it's breaking my heart that I can't provide them what they need. The boyfriend I live with is going through a particularly long regression spell and tbh I was panicking until I found this channel! Thank you for sharing this information.
I neither am a caregiver nor wanna be one, but I couldn´t resist watching this video! Your vids always make me so happy!!🖤🖤🖤
I’m an age regressor that actually enjoys having an authority figure and discipline (non sexual). it does help little me a lot and it’s healing for me. For other littles it’s not and that’s valid. Every little is unique and can have needs that are unique to them and it’s important to remember that
Me too ddlg is genuinely healing to my daddy issues lol
Sometimes my caregiver will talk to me about adult things like taxes or getting a job and it just completely throws off my headspace and I rage out. Some people just don't get it 👀.
aw!! I'm really sorry :( the point of regressing is NOT talking about adult stuff!! just throwing away any life stressors and being present.. so sorry about your caregiver, you deserve better! super insensitive of them urgh
SAME. When I'm having my little time I don't wanna hear about anything about adult stuff.
I love that you say to think of yourself less as a parent or authority figure, I do NOT need or want that and it is NOT healing.
I want to send this to my boyfriend but I don’t really think he finds this important or if he would use any of these. I’m honestly just going to try to learn how to take care of myself, even though it’s hard
If your boyfriend loves u, i think he would find this important! Send him and see how he will react
If he loves you he would do it just to make you happy, bc you happy makes him happy
you deserve a cg! every little deserves a caregiver, talk to your bf about it, give it another shot, age regression is really important and it's important to you so it should be important to your partner as well, I wish you good luck!
Ty for this
Ur Winnie the Pooh mobile is so so cute >v
I can't wait to meet the ABgirl that's right for me and adopt her. baby night sounds like a wonderful idea.
congrats on the new camera !!! the quality looks so good ♡´･ᴗ･`♡
My prayers are with you. And I hope that you get to feel better someday soon as someone who deals With a weak immune system and fibromayalgia And rheumatoid arthritis life aint easy, but it's only gonna be what you make of it, so don't give in. Don't give up and Don't give in just keep pushing forward within your beautiful life. Cause aint nobody gonna do it for you, sweet child.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ And remember to be kind for kindness as a key to a good life.
I wanna show this to my caregiver:)
Personally, as somebody, who uses to be a L and now just wants to be the best caregiver in the whole wide world. As a caregiver, you have to be very patient and understanding. Because sometimes it's not straightforward But rather far from it. Because each caregiver and Little Are there all separate beans end? No 2 are totally alike and just because you're a little is not necessarily mean that every caregiver is going to be the right fit for you. Or just because you're a caregiver does not mean that every little is going to work out. Because most of the time, it's trial-and-error, and each person has to be willing to be patient with the other one. Because its a whole new thing that each of you have to come to understand and learn.
Some littles do not need everything. That goes along with being little and others do, and some caregivers are willing to do things that others are not. so there is no real way to get rid of the awkwardness at the start! However, anything worthwhile takes time and anything that, can happen will happen. Because awkwardness exists within all realities where we choose to see it or not. So take time to be incredible as a little and as a caregiver. And remember that even though sometimes this is a big messy thing, you will always have Free will To choose Weather to work it out or Choose to go Separate Ways We're choose to work it out. Is between
Those individuals So be mindful of that and stay Happy, healthy and hole.
In your beautiful lives. So, to all the littles and caregivers. My heart goes out to each and every one of you and know that your lives are precious, beautiful ones. Well, upon the face of this earth😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi I am an adult baby girl and I'm married and my husband is my daddy and I love your videos
Thank you, Lia!
Thank you for this I am a little but recently I had my partner/ cg regress around me and wanted to make sure I was doing the best I could for being in a LDR
I just got a caregiver and I'm so happy ...
Well I'm considering to be a caregiver but i have lots of concerns like, what if i will be the only side that is giving but not getting anything in return. You might find me selfish or rude but the fact is, i had to tackle so many things on my own in my life and sometimes i also wanted to be taken care of and which is something i barely felt. I wanna be caregiver but i also want to be little and someone who take care of me. I'm so in between
Try to find a switch caregiver!
im both a little and a caregiver so i know what u mean. if ur still looking for something like that i’d love to talk (but im a girl btw)
@@idk-jw9el hello, how old are you?
if i can’t have a caregiver then ill become one
I’ve tried age regression, it sorta worked, but i enjoy being a caregiver as well :]
I want a cg or sm like that but i cant connect or trust people online enough and nobody in my real life could really do it for me, but i find it really helpful to find ways to be my own caregiver ^^
I have a cg who i call mama and she the best maybe you can be my sibling! ^^
where did u get ur pink cardigan and bunny? >•
youve got a new subscriber thanks for the help
Im planning on finally getting one or at least trying one
Im gonna send this to my bf I really want him to be more of a caregiver
Hello, Thankyou for this video! I don't think I am ever gonna be a caregiver but it is very interesting
thanks ill show this to my cgs
im trying to be a caregiver for a friend she is in her teen years but she gets into this alot the caregivers she gets is ones that are fake and want her for her body so i am trying to be one for her so she doesnt have to be one
thank you
Where can I buy that bunny?🥺
Im pretty sure it's a jelly cat!!
I’m non verbal it drives me nuts I wish I could say what I like or want. ❤ my little time is at night
Hey, can you make a Video, on how to say to somebody, that your a little/age regressor and how to ask them, if the wanna be your caregiver?
Personally, as somebody who used to be a L and as now A cg! And somebody Who's helped raised a lot of other people!
The conversation is never easy because I'm one hand it puts the little in a very. Open and vulnerable spot.
Because Of the broad spectrum that.
This community in compensates So for each person, it's a little different. And being vulnerable can be a scary thing. Sometimes, because it's our most vulnerable, part of ourselves! End the best way I would suggest to go about it Is to Find somebody who is already a Caregiver Because a lot of people outside this community are not kind to people who are. Not that way, and as your first time, it's better to start with somebody who already is A Caregiver within the community because that way you're not taking it outside the community. That's just my food for thought 😊
So take care and have a great rest of your day in your neck of the woods. Wherever that may be and remember to be kind to yourself. Because you're self well, thank you, and so will those around you for you will always be a precious beautiful being upon this Earth.😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
The best way that you can approach somebody.
And ask them Is first number one. Make sure that the person you are asking if someone you can totally trust. Who isn't going to damage?
You In any way, second of all, you need to be honest. And true with what you're intentions are because the truth is littles. Can be a bundle of joy and a beautiful surprise and sometime That isn't the case because.
You weren't honest From the start as a Caregiver or a little and honesty is the most important part about.
Approaching leaves things. Because you have to know that that person is going to treat you. The way you would like to be treated end. No, that they have your best interest at heart. And they're willing to help you feel At home Within your own self.
Someone who is going to help you grow. And you know it's what you're true needs are. That's the mark of a good caregiver! Because sometimes little can't control their own environment and go somewhere else four The time being At hand. But are also adults at the same time. Just not all there for the moment. And that's ok, because there was somebody who's going to keep them safe. And warm and let them know no matter what their world is gonna be. All right, even if it may be too hard to handle. Right now you will get better.
Because That bond is a really precious one, and it's often not pertaining to adult things within the relationship.
So I hope this helps you just my thoughts as a caregiver.
Because the truth is, there is no easy way to go about asking someone to fulfill that role. Because you are asking them to give up their time.
And sometimes that's hard for some people. Take care state, beautiful you❤
Oh my gosh thank u
Can a friend be a caregiver for a little like me?
i really wish there were more resources for caregivers because being one can get really intense and messed up really fast, people seem to really like talking about the cute side of it and because it's a thing people do for theit trauma they don't want to talk at length about it going wrong, it actually really helps me to look into the bdsm things, a lot of them don't do sexual things at all and i still have a lot to learn about how blurry that line seems to get. don't get me wrong i understand that age regression is very different compared to just intensely pretending. but there are more similarities than differences to me and it's important to learn from both i think. most importantly the bdsm/kink community has a long history of talking about what to do when things go wrong and consent. my dynamic ended really badly and i'm only really interested in figuring out what went wrong, the dynamic started innocently with some small things and just understanding she regresses, i don't know when things go tout of hand but this video deffinitely helped me understand better that she wasn't really thinking about if the things we were trying would be safe long term and she was too insecure to really discuss hard things and that lead to me being too afraid to really tell her how i felt, not just because of my own cowardice but because she pressured me to too wether intentional or not. with an age regressor you can't use your safeword to end the scene, you have to be really careful things don't end up always being your fault and you need to make sure things stay what you want them to be and you don't slippery slope into doing more than you wanted, especially if your little has other mental ilnesses and getting therapy isn't accessible for a lot of people. being a caregiver can be extremely rewarding but things like this can also be dangerous unless you're making sure you know what you're doing, and it should be taken care of from both sides
hey Lia! Great video