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КОМЕНТАРІ • 798

  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  2 роки тому +1222

    but what should extroverts know before dating an introvert???

    • @user-wr2uy9pj4m
      @user-wr2uy9pj4m 2 роки тому +32

      Great question!

    • @woobntoobr
      @woobntoobr 2 роки тому +193

      we rarely want to go outside. ever.

    • @trinaq
      @trinaq 2 роки тому +203

      That we need immense time alone to recharge before socialising.

    • @ItsukiKoizumi
      @ItsukiKoizumi 2 роки тому +128

      That they will basically be talking to a rock

    • @guabii
      @guabii 2 роки тому +146

      dont force us to go outside or "encourage" us to speak

  • @HeliNoir
    @HeliNoir 2 роки тому +2608

    I love how Frank changes his voice for the other characters but doesn't bother changing the girl's

    • @Sahdirah
      @Sahdirah 2 роки тому +118

      I legit appreciate that. ❤️

    • @AP-pk9gw
      @AP-pk9gw 2 роки тому +19

      how are you sure who's the girl?

    • @ejaykniep
      @ejaykniep 2 роки тому +31

      @@AP-pk9gw It's clear. The girl is the one with the long blonde hair.

    • @josiahtaylor7967
      @josiahtaylor7967 2 роки тому +35

      @@AP-pk9gw She was referred to as 'my girlfriend'

    • @jackdawkins1241
      @jackdawkins1241 2 роки тому +23

      @@AP-pk9gw ooops, somebody's gonna get cancelled, they just assumed someone else's sexual preference. 🙄🙄🙄

  • @mefloquine
    @mefloquine 2 роки тому +1943

    Us, extroverts, will really do the most to help introverts avoid akward social situations. We can take the cringe for you

    • @CemeteryGates007
      @CemeteryGates007 2 роки тому +96

      YES. my husband is the extrovert and he takes the sting of me having to be around people, or coming outside of the house(when he shucks me out of my shell).

    • @mefloquine
      @mefloquine 2 роки тому +16

      @@CemeteryGates007 haha, good for you ❤️

    • @holybasilisk2248
      @holybasilisk2248 2 роки тому +67

      This world needs more warriors as brave as u👏👏👏

    • @helenwood8482
      @helenwood8482 2 роки тому +70

      In my experience, too many want to "bring us out of our shells". This is as dangerous to introverts as it is to whelks.

    • @mefloquine
      @mefloquine 2 роки тому +5

      @@holybasilisk2248 thank you 🥰 it is a team work 💪🏻

  • @ozuray4307
    @ozuray4307 2 роки тому +1262

    In my case I can be capable of tolerating all these things but I need about three days of de-peoplizing before I can function in society again 😂

  • @MCGamerD
    @MCGamerD 2 роки тому +1178

    Yes, my extrovert husband has a lot of friends. He comes home talking all loud on the phone and stays on it for almost an hour. Sometimes when I open the front door I hear his voice talking at someone down the street.(He likes talking to the neighbors.) He also goes to the markets almost every day. Sometimes several places to look for a good deal. We have a lot of food in our home.

    • @euridicejoan9341
      @euridicejoan9341 2 роки тому +52

      That's my dad, word for word, even mumbling-yelling outside the house something to the neighbours. To us introverts in house it's either obnoxious or comical depending on the day. He goes house to house multiple times a day as part of his job too. He's ENTJ. I've gotta say that extroversion is enough to paint him as warm & approachable at first versus me INTP with no reedeming qualities lol E***s no specified type just have it all naturally laid out & smooth in life man...

    • @badcreations9527
      @badcreations9527 2 роки тому +34

      At least you don’t have to go out as often for food!

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +10

      Omg, I think we're married to the same person! 🤣

    • @tinkershell1856
      @tinkershell1856 2 роки тому +3

      100% my dad 😂

    • @charlotteholmes3056
      @charlotteholmes3056 2 роки тому +9

      Seems like you are describing my husband. INTP married with ESFJ.

  • @ACMeade
    @ACMeade 2 роки тому +371

    Honestly I loved number 3 so much, I probably wouldn’t even mind having an extroverted boyfriend if he jumped in to solve all my problems like that

    • @queenofthecapes
      @queenofthecapes 2 роки тому +16

      Now we know why she's still with him after that magician incident. ;)

    • @zeynbxalilzad4373
      @zeynbxalilzad4373 2 роки тому +10

      That's the biggest "plus" in relationships with an extrovert, especially for dreamers like me

    • @reneeturner7137
      @reneeturner7137 Рік тому +2

      I call my extrovert husband my ‘fixer’. If there’s a problem, he calls people until he sorts it out. It’s like a superpower.

  • @user-jj4rf5hc1p
    @user-jj4rf5hc1p 2 роки тому +776

    Title : *10 things introverts needs to know before dating an Extrovert*
    1. Last minute plans
    2. Small Talk Shield at party
    3. A huge network of friends
    4. A huge Assortment of clothing
    5. Cultural Experience
    6. Volunteering to get on stage
    7. …and volunteering you too
    8. Not understanding Why you won’t use the phone
    9. Leaving the house
    10. Unlocking your creatively
    11. 2:11 Laughter

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 2 роки тому +8

      My worst nightmare pretty much.

    • @memyselfandi7634
      @memyselfandi7634 2 роки тому +19

      @@kyurei4478 I mean, the 2 is pretty convenient but they're likely the ones who forced you to go to that party in the first place 💀

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 2 роки тому +3

      @@memyselfandi7634 Not sure about that. I would much prefer not needing to put my shield on by not going to the party in the first place.

    • @the_infinity_channel
      @the_infinity_channel 2 роки тому

      Like hell big NO hahahah

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +1

      @@dokusei7722 Me, either. After 25 years of marriage to an extrovert, the threat of spontaneous plans still makes me break out into a cold sweat.

  • @cynthiachichester3419
    @cynthiachichester3419 2 роки тому +549

    Suggestion: I want to see the 16 personalities trying to handle panic, as in “the baby is coming” scenario. 😂

    • @dabsmomos
      @dabsmomos 2 роки тому +7

      Great idea. I am interested too!

    • @jannley3036
      @jannley3036 2 роки тому +14

      YES! F.J. in labor!
      Bring it!

    • @Chigger
      @Chigger 2 роки тому +15

      ENFP: "Get in the car, that's the mission, we need to get to the obstetrician!"

    • @Anne-cs7mu
      @Anne-cs7mu 2 роки тому +3

      I can imagine the chaos🤣🤣

    • @thegreatgoddess9149
      @thegreatgoddess9149 2 роки тому +2

      Yess

  • @Lilacleaf49065
    @Lilacleaf49065 2 роки тому +126

    Seriously, you missed the part where THEY NEVER STOP TALKING. From the minute they open their eyes to the minute they fall asleep.

    • @helenwood8482
      @helenwood8482 2 роки тому +18

      Yes and they never say anything real. It's all just mental clutter being thrown at those around them.

    • @Lilacleaf49065
      @Lilacleaf49065 2 роки тому +7

      @@helenwood8482 I mean, that's kind of unfair. It's like saying introverts can't be silly 😜 I think you've just had a bad extrovert experience!

    • @lisa_gay
      @lisa_gay 2 роки тому +8

      Yeah, but we truly do not care if you listen or not. Some people breathe air in and out. Words are my air. I'm just as happy listening to the cat or talking to my plants.

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +9

      @@lisa_gay Aha! I always thought so! My ESFP husband talks 24/7, even when he's alone in the room or in the garage.

    • @emilielaudie7697
      @emilielaudie7697 2 роки тому +2

      I feel this. Before I married my husband I was a pretty solid extravert myself. Marrying someone way more extraverted than oneself changes one...

  • @mjprozac
    @mjprozac 2 роки тому +565

    The absolute worst thing about dating/being married to an extrovert, apart from them wanting to go out and socialize is that they engage in small talk with EVERYONE and you’re stuck there either seeming rude for not engaging or engaging in a bunch of small talk you never wanted to enter.
    I’d say that for an introvert with strong Fe, the extrovert partner acts as more of a magnet and less of a shield to small talk.

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +36

      Oh, god, oh, god, oh god did you hit the nail on the head. Mine never stops talking. The first year we dated, 27 years ago, he was 4 hours late to pick me up for my birthday because he was TALKING to someone. I still married him, but he never did that again. He'll still be a little late sometimes, but if he goes beyond the bounds, at least now we have cell phones and I can call him. However, he can't see anyone without striking up a conversation. Literally.

    • @mjprozac
      @mjprozac 2 роки тому +14

      @@edennis8578 I think my husband is an ESTJ. He's not one to lose track of time but he does chat up everyone. We just got back from a trip to Disney and it was the people around us on the transportation, lines, etc. I go out in public basically assuming that I'm in an invisible anonymous bubble and he pops it every time ;)

    • @carissahill3414
      @carissahill3414 2 роки тому +10

      @@edennis8578 4 HOURS late!?!?! WOW that is late! I would love to hear that story because 4 hours is a bit much. You have PATIENCE!!!real life is always stranger than fiction.

    • @galaxylucia1898
      @galaxylucia1898 2 роки тому +4

      😬Yikes. That sounds awful. But hopefully they know you well enough to at least provide you an “out” right?

    • @nlm6183
      @nlm6183 2 роки тому +3

      @@mjprozac I think mine is an ESTJ also, and let me tell you, he can't stop talking to people. Everywhere. We can't go anywhere in town without seeing someone hes previously chatted up, either. And then there is me. This is an actual conversation from 3 days ago:
      Me: [Daughter] is going to trim my hair tonight for me.
      Him: why don't you just go have it done?
      Me: Because hairdressers won't just cut your hair and be done with it, they TALK to you.

  • @anndunamis5338
    @anndunamis5338 2 роки тому +140

    A warning to all introverts who want to date/ marry an extrovert. Be prepared to meet all 40+ of their “close” family members and friends!
    I am married to my esfp husband for over 11 years and I still haven’t met all of his family members and friends yet. Wow. Oddly, I actually enjoy their company most of the time. But of course, I’m prone to numerous disappearing acts through out the years.

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +13

      I, too, married an ESFP and all of his family are extroverts, too. I'm a fish out of water with them. God help them, though, when they start throwing around opinions on topics that are important to me. I'm an introvert, but if someone says something unbelievably stupid, they're going to get an earful. And extroverts or not, I scare them. ~ INTJ

    • @shizukae9045
      @shizukae9045 Рік тому

      LOL I ended up in divorce 😂 I could not handle over 60 his relatives that I see them a few times a month…

    • @meimarsella
      @meimarsella Рік тому

      Lol INTJ who's going to marry an ENFJ right here

    • @ValentinaxEdits
      @ValentinaxEdits 7 місяців тому

      as an ISFP and her boyfriend is an ESTP
      I remember it was thanksgiving and I was at my step dad’s house and it was quiet yet so comforting
      My boyfriend called me and his background was so loud that my introverted ass was like: “too… many.. people… can’t handle this” …I immediately got exhausted by the noise 😂

  • @katielarsen2630
    @katielarsen2630 2 роки тому +82

    My husband just does his extrovert stuff with his friends and I stay home, it's a perfect marriage 😅

  • @rubiesofgold7698
    @rubiesofgold7698 2 роки тому +49

    The scene where he gets his gf food, car fixed and a powder puff dress is the absolute best.

  • @yanoizikawa770
    @yanoizikawa770 2 роки тому +137

    As an introvert (INFP) I wouldn't mind having a relationship with an extrovert. In fact I think that I'd love it just because I hate being bored and need someone to keep fueling my unending imagination.

    • @igot7problemsbutyougotnojams
      @igot7problemsbutyougotnojams 2 роки тому +21

      I’m an INFP dating an ENTJ and this is exactly how I feel, I think cases like this is where opposites attract. Before I met my current partner the ppl I was with were all introverts; very indecisive like myself and a lot of them would hardly ever commit to doing things and I believe it’s out of comfort of doing what you’re used to. The person I’m dating now is the exact opposite of that, he already has a plan and if he doesn’t he’ll make one. He knows exactly what he wants and if he’s put in a situation where he has to learn something new he’ll do it even if that means relearning everything to understand it because it’ll help him progress further. He’s like if I want you in my life you’ll know and I definitely feel that unlike with people I’ve previously dated. From the start he asked me how I see us in the future and told me where he’d like us to be, it was something so simple but you hardly see that anymore.

    • @igot7problemsbutyougotnojams
      @igot7problemsbutyougotnojams 2 роки тому +13

      Another great thing about him is that he wants to talk if something is wrong and fix it immediately. Yesterday he apologized to me because he realized he has been a bit distant from constantly trying to solve various problems that’s been appearing in his life. I’ve noticed that ENTJ’s like to solve problems when it happens and it’s not just theirs, it’s everyone’s. It’s to the point where they put the weight of their loved ones on their shoulders alone and won’t let anyone in for the sake of staying strong. It was making me very anxious because in response he was quiet very and exhausted. I could see that he was having a hard time but when I tried to help I was in the dark so I couldn’t do anything to help him. I’m glad that when we finally did talk he instantly realized the issue. It was only really a week of less communication and time together but he immediately adjusted his actions to make things better while still trying handle his business now with me by his side to do it. We agreed that he would vent to me and I would lend a shoulder (which ik was hard for him). I’ve never really gotten an apology like that from anyone in my life in general so it’s a trait that I love and appreciate, I hope that things only get better from here.

    • @lisagd22
      @lisagd22 2 роки тому +5

      @@igot7problemsbutyougotnojams He sounds like a keeper! 💙

    • @yanoizikawa770
      @yanoizikawa770 2 роки тому +9

      I wouldn't mind being in a relationship with an ENFP because honestly they don't take life too seriously and it makes me feel relaxed to be around them. Also they have almost the same wild imagination an INFP would so it would be so much fun. But being in a relationship with an introvert doesn't sound too bad either. It sounds comfortable and calm and if I were to choose an introvert I would choose an ISFJ because they're literally the nicest people alive. And INFJs too.

    • @annaewing5770
      @annaewing5770 2 роки тому +5

      Yeah I'm an INFP and my last relationship was with an INTJ and one of the reasons it didn't work was I had to be the extrovert in the relationship and it was exhausting. I need a partner who can be my social shield so I can actually socialize without feeling on the verge of a panic attack the whole time, I cannot BE that shield for someone else.

  • @charitysbizarre4365
    @charitysbizarre4365 2 роки тому +130

    I've been with an extrovert (ESTP/ESFP - I haven't been able to pin down exactly which) for over 6 years now. He doesn't really understand the concept of I need 48 hours notice before social interaction so I can work up to it. So you nailed that FJ!

    • @grazynawolska8160
      @grazynawolska8160 2 роки тому +4

      Make it a rule... he doesn't need to understand it on a personal level... just on a level that it's a rule for you to function properly

  • @queenseabee8113
    @queenseabee8113 2 роки тому +97

    This is perfect. My husband is the one to talks to neighbors, calls customer service, has a network of friends to help us (me) without talking to anyone....I do have to endure the occasional bbq party, but knows that I love books!

  • @angiem577
    @angiem577 2 роки тому +262

    I legit laughed out loud several times XD Frank, you're so good at this.

  • @AugustAdvice
    @AugustAdvice 2 роки тому +47

    As an introvert, I love dating extroverts because it adds a lot of fun and excitement into your life but its draining as heck at the same time. Hated whenever he would surprise me by bringing me into rooms full of his friends with zero warning.

  • @nicoleheymannweltgestalter
    @nicoleheymannweltgestalter 2 роки тому +110

    next version: things an extrovert gets to enjoy while dating an introvert and vice versa. We introverts aren't only a hassle to work around I would hope ;) Enjoyed the video tho, loved the NFT guy and the social network scene :)

  • @ceilinh6004
    @ceilinh6004 2 роки тому +19

    I need to learn that disappearing trick.

  • @fortune_roses
    @fortune_roses 2 роки тому +44

    *INTJ* who once let an extreme extrovert live with me for a month ●__● at times, it brought me out of my shell but overall it was sensory overload... extroverts are great, in *reasonable doses*

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +5

      Oh damn, sounds really tough, hope you recovered from that-ISTJ here

    • @gravetiger9333
      @gravetiger9333 2 роки тому +1

      I felt that for the first few months then the roommate figured out that I need alone time after work and will come out if I want to socialize - INTJ who lives with an ENFP

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +4

      INTJ married to an ESFP. For the first 8 years, he worked a job where he was on the road all week and home on the weekend. It was just about perfect. He's had a desk job since 2004 so he's home every day. I still have trouble with the sensory overload (the constant talking is the worst since it never ends).

    • @grazynawolska8160
      @grazynawolska8160 2 роки тому +1

      Ugh, I lived with ENTJ who constantly brought people home like stray cats. It was so stressful it felt like being at a permanent never-ending party.

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +1

      @@grazynawolska8160 Permanent party? Oh no. How...how did you manage to survive that? I am impressed you did

  • @BiRainbow29
    @BiRainbow29 2 роки тому +33

    I love this relationship dynamic. My favorite part was the extrovert trying to help the introvert by calling a bunch of people. Keep up the great comedy, FJ! I'm loving the content!

  • @retrox2776
    @retrox2776 2 роки тому +52

    now I just need to know the 10 things introverts should know before being born 😊

    • @FrankJames
      @FrankJames  2 роки тому +17

      lol i like that

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +10

      1.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      2.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      3.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      4.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      5.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      6.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      7.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      8.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      9.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      10.life is catered to extroverts and you will be constantly asked to "come out of your shell"
      sorry for the notification spam but I replied twice before it was done by mistake

    • @retrox2776
      @retrox2776 2 роки тому +1

      @@edi0157 I didn't even notice lol

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +2

      @@retrox2776 ah that is cool then, could have just sneaked it past if I didnt apologise for it lol

    • @naritruwireve1381
      @naritruwireve1381 2 роки тому +5

      @@edi0157 and things you should expect to hear:
      1. Why are you so quiet?
      2. Wow, you actually talk?!
      3. You're pretty quiet
      4. Is something bugging you? You're awfully quiet
      5. You should try going out more
      6. You should try talking more
      7. Are you always this quiet?
      8. You must be shy
      9. You're so quiet
      10. Why are you so quiet?

  • @vickysaitou4170
    @vickysaitou4170 2 роки тому +39

    I can relate to this. I used to date an extrovert. Emotionally and mentally draining

    • @silasbrown3884
      @silasbrown3884 2 роки тому

      I will never date extroverts again. There is a huge gap between us .It makes relationships really hard

  • @judyi.7015
    @judyi.7015 2 роки тому +12

    I absolutely hate it when extroverts tell me I need to behave a certain way if I want to succeed in my business. I can't and won't be pushy or spew exaggerated info on people. The other day I actually was complimented for not being pushy! Be true to who you are.

  • @iceesky
    @iceesky 2 роки тому +15

    I have an extrovert friend and this is honestly the dynamic lol

  • @blush106
    @blush106 2 роки тому +6

    Half of these make me want to date an extrovert and the other half make me want to run

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +2

      definitely on the side of run for me, the social shield ability and the helpful friends are cool but it isnt worth it

  • @callisastapp7160
    @callisastapp7160 2 роки тому +14

    "You don't get THIS quality from a STORE"
    *waves an apple he PROBABLY bought from a store* 😂

  • @suburbohemian
    @suburbohemian 2 роки тому +2

    "oh look, there I am" hysterical

  • @josiahtaylor7967
    @josiahtaylor7967 2 роки тому +23

    I used to identify as an introvert quite confidently but I think I'm actually either an ambivert or a shy extrovert now that I think about it. The introvert in this video is relatable but I feel energised by the idea of hanging out with the extrovert lol. He seems like fun.

    • @cassettetape7643
      @cassettetape7643 2 роки тому +4

      The right extrovert can bring out the best in us without being draining. I haven't done enough research to know what type of extrovert my husband is, but I'm an INFP (a neural divergent one at that), & last night he told me that I'M crazy & how much he loves my crazy. He's the best person I've ever known💕

  • @baharhajikhani8422
    @baharhajikhani8422 2 роки тому +7

    Wow I am amazed by such great chemistry between Frank and himself 😍😍😍😍😂😂😂😂

  • @marialikia.127
    @marialikia.127 2 роки тому +9

    Thank you for representing the introvert girl, I feel heard

  • @Princess.Jazmin
    @Princess.Jazmin 2 роки тому +2

    0:03 “guess what honey boo boo” great way to start the video 🤣

  • @Ukitsu2
    @Ukitsu2 2 роки тому +44

    Actually, Ritalin can produce THAT EXACT effect depending on the personality and the context. You tend to talk a LOT MORE. In my case I participate more in a conversation or in University class if I find the topic interesting. I would never volunteer during a magic act, though.
    (INTJ)

    • @ellamery1102
      @ellamery1102 2 роки тому +1

      Hi fellow intj. I just have a question. Since you mentioned ritalin I was wondering if you have adhd cuz I have it and I take ritalin for it so....

    • @Ukitsu2
      @Ukitsu2 2 роки тому +4

      @@ellamery1102 Yes, I take it because of my ADHD. I didn't mention it because I believe today is used only for ADHD and maybe narcolepsy? Depends on the country.
      INTJ + ADHD = Most of the time there's a war in my brain

  • @ginniegill1026
    @ginniegill1026 2 роки тому +7

    This is actually wholesome

  • @theothetorch8016
    @theothetorch8016 2 роки тому +35

    The Extrovert is basically babysitting the Introvert.

  • @lisa_gay
    @lisa_gay 2 роки тому +11

    Extrovert Boyfriend is the perfect man!! Didn't think one existed, yet here he is. I would stay and do the Cupid Shuffle AND the Wobble with him. The only mistake he made was telling me about the concert before we left the house. The best EB would make me close my eyes, take me to the venue and then go, "TA DA!" so as to maximize my surprise and my joy.

  • @mochiieekim
    @mochiieekim 2 роки тому +13

    I do love having extroverts in my life but there is one thing you gotta understand.....you don't get to interfere with my alone time.

  • @peaceheartdivided59
    @peaceheartdivided59 2 роки тому +20

    1:27 This is why I easly confuse myself with either is someone is an extrovert or someone who clearly forgot to consume their Ritalin before leaving the house. 😅
    This is EXTREMELY reliable, Frank!

  • @anonymous-et5hb
    @anonymous-et5hb 2 роки тому +24

    i am an infj in college i was always weirded out i barely speak to anyone...at first i didnt know about personality test...so i feel i was weied because i was introverted and extrovertted at same time....i barely good make any small talk ..but after i discovered you i fount out my personality .i gave test and feel mosre accepted of my self thankyou james.......i feel i am also weidly normal..love from india

  • @missylou725
    @missylou725 2 роки тому +2

    "more pesticides, but less haggling"

  • @umartinko
    @umartinko 2 роки тому +6

    "Oh look, there I am! Have fun guys :P" marvelous :D

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne 2 роки тому +19

    The powder puff dress in the back of the closet. Yeah, "why do you have...?" would be my question too. 😂 This introvert actually likes the Farmer's market. Haha.

    • @superstylemeblog
      @superstylemeblog 2 роки тому +4

      I love the farmer’s market, too, but I haven’t been in a while because I’m afraid I’ll run into too many people I know 😂😂😂

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 роки тому +2

      @@superstylemeblog Yeah, that's def a consideration. 🤣 I try to go early and get away before seen 🙌

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 роки тому

      @wildflower 😂

    • @superstylemeblog
      @superstylemeblog 2 роки тому +1

      @@StephanieJeanne That’s a good plan!

  • @monikasuszek3434
    @monikasuszek3434 2 роки тому +17

    How about intuitive & sensor relationship?

  • @emeseorosz9803
    @emeseorosz9803 Рік тому +1

    You had me at "What's wrong, Milady?" 🥺
    Btw despite being an introvert, it was always me who handled things (I have that "mom friend" energy).

  • @julietteferrars3097
    @julietteferrars3097 2 роки тому +2

    “I can’t surprise you if I tell you in advance”
    Exactly. 😂

  • @tinahoffman1458
    @tinahoffman1458 2 роки тому +24

    Ha I'm making my way back into dating, and kinda hoping to meet more extroverted people. I'm an introvert, and most of my friends are introverts so it would be nice to have some balance.

    • @puffyc6373
      @puffyc6373 2 роки тому +2

      Good luck

    • @tinahoffman1458
      @tinahoffman1458 2 роки тому +2

      @@puffyc6373 thanks! It feels a lot different from 6 years ago!

    • @zemiyac.2949
      @zemiyac.2949 2 роки тому +3

      We extros can be a handful sometimes, but it's always fun xp Also at home. So good luck with your extro-pet as soon as you get one lel

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +3

      @@zemiyac.2949 more like the introvert is the extrovert s pet lol

  • @galaxylucia1898
    @galaxylucia1898 2 роки тому +5

    Y’know, I always assumed that an introvert would be the best partner for me as an INFP, but maybe a chill extrovert could work as well. Whatever happens, I love Frank James’ videos. 😂The accuracy is 🎯🎯🎯

    • @dominicstarr3065
      @dominicstarr3065 2 роки тому

      Do it!!! Also an INFP, and finding an AWESOME, Chill-AF Extrovert was the BEST thing that Ever happened to me!!!

  • @raindropsonroses3919
    @raindropsonroses3919 2 роки тому +10

    Very accurate depiction of my relationship with my ex. The nail on the coffin was when we went to to a magic show and he volunteered for us to go onstage for hypnosis .

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 роки тому +1

      No. Just no. Nope. Hu-uh. My worst nightmare.

  • @emperorlelouch5696
    @emperorlelouch5696 2 роки тому +2

    Lmaoo this is great. Gotta admit extroverts are pretty good at bringing people together and getting people to move.

  • @joanae8189
    @joanae8189 2 роки тому +2

    ....last one....😂😂😂🤣

  • @short-circuit2339
    @short-circuit2339 2 роки тому +56

    Seeing a facsimile of the relationship with my husband is funny but remorseful. It made me realize, I can be quite the killjoy. I'm going to give him a huge hug and thank him for all the changes he made in my life. If it wasn't for him I'd probably still be living under a rock.😁

  • @arv7074
    @arv7074 2 роки тому +4

    I need an extrovert boyfriend in my life 😭
    -INFP

  • @spiritualempress6691
    @spiritualempress6691 2 роки тому +2

    Uhhh dating an introvert is hilarious “just call and cancel the subscription”... it got to the point that he’d just hand me the phone 😂

  • @theunicornsin1144
    @theunicornsin1144 2 роки тому +1

    1:34 the magician part KILLED me💀💀💀💀 the audience thought that was part of the show

  • @jansimpson4364
    @jansimpson4364 2 роки тому +1

    Oh yes! Especially anything to avoid talking on the phone!

  • @crystalkincaid3274
    @crystalkincaid3274 2 роки тому +4

    I do all of these things with much excitement.. but then I need 3-5 business days alone afterwards because I have to work on my personal projects and reading that I put off to be social.
    I used to think I was just a sometimes extroverted-introvert until I figured out I'm an ENTP. It explains it much better.

  • @jillharrison3924
    @jillharrison3924 2 роки тому +2

    “What’s wrong m’lady?” Omg my ESTP BF coulda def said that lol! Now as a husband def not!;) My ENFJ self forever helps. Joke’s on whom??🤔😅

  • @josefagomezschmeisser8356
    @josefagomezschmeisser8356 Рік тому +1

    I always tell to my introvert friends that if they need something I’ll help them and get it or call a friend than has the thing that they need

  • @ela7green
    @ela7green 2 роки тому +4

    Aww the extrovert boyfriend was so nice though! Love him

  • @KarolinaLewczukk
    @KarolinaLewczukk 2 роки тому +1

    Me having a bad day: 😐
    BUT Frank posted a new video: 🥳🍾
    yaaay

  • @classymuffin4589
    @classymuffin4589 2 роки тому +2

    I experience quite a few of these things but I'd say the biggest difference is that I hate plans. Having to worry about plans in the future massively stresses me out so I MUCH prefer last minute plans in the spur of the moment.

  • @gemdedude
    @gemdedude 2 роки тому +3

    I actually love the group energy and enjoy crowds as long as I don't have to interact with the people. Small groups are way worse than huge crowds. So yay concert, nay home party. :D

  • @connorfries8297
    @connorfries8297 2 роки тому +3

    When she said look to your right I thought she meant she would need them to carry her in the fridge

  • @AK-jt7kh
    @AK-jt7kh 2 роки тому +1

    That guy with the powder puff dress is a true hero. Not only did he solve all the problems stat, but she didn’t even have to leave the house or talk to anyone.

  • @wendyg.2664
    @wendyg.2664 2 роки тому +2

    That wig was perfect for the magician character! 👍🏻
    This video was so clever! I loved every second of it!

  • @wendyg.2664
    @wendyg.2664 2 роки тому +8

    And I'm still trying to figure out , as an introvert (and INFJ), why am I am so afraid of making phone calls??

    • @zq9817
      @zq9817 2 роки тому +2

      Because
      Phone calls are scary
      Like
      U have to actually talk to someone
      And they can hear your voice and it's just so weird and no matter how much you plan for it it can go literally in any direction depending on what the call was for and they are ultimately just stress inducing

    • @flyingdart9819
      @flyingdart9819 2 роки тому +1

      Well as an extroverted INFJ (or I believe I am) something that works is telling yourself something that's true. For example tell yourself that you won't die from this phone call which is true (probably). Or that you can easily lie to them. Hope this helps. My apologies in advance if you only wrote to express yourself rather than ask for advice.

    • @zq9817
      @zq9817 2 роки тому

      @@flyingdart9819 Thank you for the advise :)

    • @nataliegivan8726
      @nataliegivan8726 2 роки тому +2

      On phone calls, you can’t see the other person’s facial expressions and body language so it’s harder to sense how they’re reacting. For me, awkward silences in a conversation are worse on phone calls than in person.

  • @lilyl5492
    @lilyl5492 2 роки тому +1

    it's nice to see how different types be heros without even trying!
    in this one and the dealing with bullies video : )

  • @LynTheWitch
    @LynTheWitch 2 роки тому

    My gosh that boyfriend handling the emergency situation from the phone is really getting it!!

  • @themaggattack
    @themaggattack 2 роки тому +1

    0:43 Now THAT'S using extroversion for the powers of good!

  • @chatyxd6078
    @chatyxd6078 2 роки тому +6

    I just had an idea for a poll, ask people whether they're extroverted or introverted and if they'd rather date an introvert or extrovert. So the four options would be introvert-introvert, introvert-extrovert, and so on... This just seemed like a neat idea to me

    • @chatyxd6078
      @chatyxd6078 2 роки тому

      @wildflower I suggested 4 since you can only have 5 answers on a poll

    • @edi0157
      @edi0157 2 роки тому +1

      @@chatyxd6078 actually wouldnt it be 3 as both introvert-extrovert options would be materially the same so not needed? Unless we do something like your type is on the right and you should only vote from those two options so we can see if there is a difference between what extroverts prefer vs what introverts prefer

    • @chatyxd6078
      @chatyxd6078 2 роки тому

      @@edi0157 the latter is what I had in mind, do extroverts and introverts have different preferences

  • @Kumihox94
    @Kumihox94 2 роки тому +2

    I gonna use the last one 100%, best idea ever! Ty for sharing it :D

  • @AceKite00
    @AceKite00 2 роки тому +4

    Last weekend i went out with a group of friends (Who also invited a few others i didnt know) to watch the Sonic 2 movie. First we walked around,the area, talked, and finally went in the theater to see it. After it was over, i was really hoping to just go home after, despite having such a good time. Everyone gathered outside and started talking about where we should go eat when it was already like 8:30 at night. As we all stood there figuring it out, they said we'll meet up at a ramen place over a mile away. I agreed, but soon as we separated, i went to my car and simply drove home. A few text me to see if i was ok and why it was taking so long, and naturally i gave them some BS excuse. I just ran outta mental energy. We're all still laughing about it.

  • @WeakBambi
    @WeakBambi Рік тому

    The cats magazine part had me rolling, had to hit the like button lmao

  • @Fafa-kl4wx
    @Fafa-kl4wx 2 роки тому

    When the "Ur Type" ad played I thought it was part of the video lol

  • @lindahansen45
    @lindahansen45 Рік тому +2

    My husband is an ekstrovert and I´m an introvert. Dang he has helped me a lot of time in akward situations. Luckily for me, he totally gets me. But then again we´ve been together for 13 years, so he knows my akwardness.

  • @angela_somanythings5670
    @angela_somanythings5670 2 роки тому +2

    For some reason, I being a ENFP, besides being a bit more comfortable talking to neighbors and being slightly more talkative with family members than my INJF husband, we agree on most social behaviors and he is less of a homebody than I am now...

  • @kshama_2023
    @kshama_2023 2 роки тому

    The invisible woman was truly epic!😆

  • @S4Ulp
    @S4Ulp 2 роки тому

    I loved it!! I want more of these...🙃💟

  • @uchwha
    @uchwha 2 роки тому

    Thank you extroverts for existing, y’all literally save my life when I’m in trouble/awkward situations lmao

  • @emiliat.1932
    @emiliat.1932 2 роки тому +2

    I love the wigs 😂

  • @Joonivy
    @Joonivy 2 роки тому +1

    But the no. 2 & 3 is actually very sweet 🥺

  • @elizabethb.9946
    @elizabethb.9946 2 роки тому +4

    This is gold
    I was the Extrovert in basically all of them
    😂

  • @kdcadenza4170
    @kdcadenza4170 2 роки тому +3

    I feel like I've been in both roles simultaneously before. At the same time ~ a confused entp used to be intj

  • @LimegreenSnowstorm
    @LimegreenSnowstorm 2 роки тому +1

    I’m an extrovert married to an introvert and he loves that I make all the phone calls for him ;)

  • @Jay-dz1qy
    @Jay-dz1qy 2 роки тому

    The way she disappeared and the audiences "Oh!" 🤣

  • @j.low-key4834
    @j.low-key4834 2 роки тому +1

    *i like the woman who puffed herself put of the magic show HAHAHAHAHAHAH i would've done the same T_T*

  • @ravenclawfairy3648
    @ravenclawfairy3648 2 роки тому +2

    My boyfriend is the Introvert, I'm the Extrovert. I have the huge network of friends but anything online gives me major anxiety. My boyfriend does all things online and I speak to all the people 💖

  • @TheLadyBlerd
    @TheLadyBlerd 2 роки тому +1

    0:42 ...ngl loved this whole section.
    That look of betting lowkey impressed - relatable.

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 2 роки тому +1

      That's probably one of these cool rare cases where extrovert's boundless energy meet our introvert's expectations.

  • @Zye1984
    @Zye1984 2 роки тому

    That was probably one of your best skits!

  • @bangtansonyeondan8705
    @bangtansonyeondan8705 2 роки тому +1

    That was awesome frank!!

  • @MsTreefox
    @MsTreefox 2 роки тому +1

    Lmmaaooooo!!! I'm the extrovert, hubby is the introvert. He legit got called up on stage during a magic show in Vegas 🤣🤣🤣 but, we got dinner out of it so he was happy.

  • @JasonMoir
    @JasonMoir 2 роки тому +1

    That wig at 0:28....nice. Reminds me I need to buy some Brillo pads.

  • @lindsaygale5279
    @lindsaygale5279 2 роки тому +1

    Where is the love button? We can only like this? Haha this is so true!

  • @bethl3355
    @bethl3355 2 роки тому

    Definitely one of my faves 😂💕

  • @yousfiabdelali
    @yousfiabdelali 2 роки тому +2

    Awesome video! Frank. You are hilarious

  • @veracuskar3017
    @veracuskar3017 2 роки тому +1

    You made me smile, it's interesting sketch...🏖️🐾🏝️
    Have fun Frank❤️

  • @quainthell5809
    @quainthell5809 2 роки тому +1

    That moment when you're at a crowded event and your extrovert lover keeps shouting things out and you're terrified that people will think it was you.

  • @melodyconte
    @melodyconte 2 роки тому +63

    If Frank was my extroverted boyfriend, I'd put up with him lol

  • @helloworld7818
    @helloworld7818 2 роки тому +1

    His content becomes greater by day