Introverts vs Extroverts Around Their Crush
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- Опубліковано 5 вер 2024
- How introverts vs extroverts act around their crush
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Hidey ✋
Hi
Early ✨
yo
ello
Hello im early
Extroverts: Intense talking.
Introverts: intense stalking.
I said what I said.
All facts!
Ambiverts: Intense balking.
@@Chigger lol, nicely played 😎
@@bluelotusnefertoum2144 🤜🤛
LOL, but it's not the bad kind of stalking, it's the only thing we can do most of the time. Admire from afar...
"she will only say the things I have imagined her saying" lmao this so true-
@Beluga Boi same dude lmao
@Beluga Boi same! 😅🤣
The key is to progressively delve deeper into different branches of conversation, prepairing a reply for every one of the possible replies. When I did that prepairing the dialogue with my crush I had prepaired a conversation tree suitable for an MSDOS text quest game.
Ikr 🤣
Hello fellow gacha fan
Those imagined conversations always go so well. Not so much in real life, though.
true
INFP ig
sometimes they don't go well..
Am I the only one?
@@f_izzmo No, you're not the only one. 🤐
@@f_izzmo The imagined ones are always way worse for me.
Other introverts: she’s not following the script!!!!!!!
INXJ: I planned for that
Contingency plans😎
😂❤️
That’s exactly accurate
That's why I don't plan stuff, at least not really detailed, it backfires in many cases, but in some it works
i was just gonna comment i don't think my INTJ bf was awkward at all, and then i saw this lol
Imagine Heidi's face when she finds out the introvert wasn't talking to her.
plot twist, heidi has a crush on the introvert
Lol
I was thinking both some goofy version of "hi" AND that it sounded like "Heidi" too! 😂 Funny thing is, I would've understood it as a perfectly acceptable greeting! And, of course, it being FJ,🤪💕 I would've been all like, "well, hidy yourself, you talk glass of water, you!" 😁
Hhahahah
@@pranjallpahuja and heidi is the introvertest introvert so he has no idea.
"I've gotta take a few hours out of my day and replay in my head, every awkward thing I just said to her, over, and over, and over."
Dude. You are the soul of every introvert that has ever existed. Stay cool and attractive!
Yeah 💚💚
YUP! He hit it on the mark! Awesome job Frank James!
Ikr
And that is exactly why I'm not sleeping enough. My head wants to do that right when I go to bed 😂
Ha!! This is 110% correct!!
Funny thing: as introverts we know how to act as extroverts, so while the person thinks "oh gosh, this person is so cool" actualy we are dying inside thinking about the first stupid thing we said after saying hello.
Review of being an introvert: 7/10
Am I *unintentionally* stalking or is it something special about my eyes that they find you really easily I felt like I'm kinda entering your privacy this time loll ( cuz in YT we didn't expect someone who knows would read our comment )
@ROG you won't get it bruh!
So. True. 😩
I was an insecure extrovert back then, but this psychological trick (pretend to be confident) helped me a lot, so it's good to act like this.
(Now I'm an annoying extrovert you don't want to meet, lol.)
So pretend to be confident and you'll be (more) confident. :)
@ROG she is my friend! We knew each other here on Frank's channel (two weeks ago I think? Maybe?) and since then we are talking like BFFs almost every single day, we turned Frank's comment sections into our chat moment hahaha
I recommend it, it's really good ^^
But if it was a crazy person, I would appreciate it for sure ^=^
Being an ambivert with a crush is having the energy of the extrovert with all of the problems of the introvert
That's just called being a normal person
ME IN A NUTSHELL🤩😭😭😭
Same
So true... 🙂
Being an ambivert also means crushing on the bubbliness of an extrovert and the softness of an introvert.
I relate with the Introvert •-• I'll probably never meet my crush again..but I always thinking about our marriage.
Ngl I'm enjoying the fake scenarios in my head way more than any interaction lately
That is cute... and sad
@@fosskytheanswerer nah its just sad 😂😂😂
@@leenbasha :d
(Maybe from your point of view )
@@fosskytheanswerer hahaha OK
My fake scenarios are often worst case scenarios... -_-
This is PAINFULLY accurate. It's almost scary 😂.
The "Hidey" point reminded me of when someone said "Have a good night" and I started to say "You too" but then decided to switch to "Goodnight" and what came out was "You night" 💀😂.
Hopefully they didn't mishear that as 'you might' which sounds vaguely threatening.
@@makaniwebb9358 im ded 😂
I've actually learned to laugh after saying something like that, and it actually works to remove the awkwardness.
Going to say "water",my mind put "fire" = what comes out "frawer"
*Awkward silence*
I once said "Thanks" after someone told me "see you next week!" 😂
"That sounds like torture."
"It is."
So if two introverts can cross the first barrier of being too shy and anxiety, they can open a detective office. Two persons stallking other person like this to help another one for money? This sounds as a goal to me
Omg yes! FJ video idea! Extroverts and introverts as detectives! Or as a detective agency TEAM! 😂
Lol this comment should get an award 👻😆😝
@@designkolamart8828 thanks
@@tinaperez7393 my plot: this couple of introverts are hired by a young rich lady to find if her husband is cheating on her. They go in a mixture of True Detective, Mind Hunter, and Lie to Me, and they find out even that this guy stole a bicycle when he had 8 years old, read all of his micro facial expressions, and at the end, they see the man with another lady! So both of them scream ''OH I KNEW IT! YES OMG, WE ARE AMAZING BABY!!!''
woman: So now we need to get back and notice her and get our money
man: yeah, let's do it!
woman: ok, so you will talk with her and I will pick the evidence
man: yeah... I was thinking about you talking with her, yk...
woman: ...yeah... and I was hoping that you would talk
** awkward pause**
woman: it's just that I don't wanna hurt her feelings telling her the truth, you know like I would break if I found it was you doing this to me
man: me too, baby, me too.
woman: uhhh... let's just go back and tell her we couldn't find anything and give her money back. And then we go home
man: do you wanna pizza or Mexican tonight?
*plays soft music for ending
@@lost9050 😂
I love how the extrovert doesn't want to mess up the opportunity by not talking to them, and the introvert is worried he might mess it up by saying anything at all 😆 so clever lol
Let’s be honest, Sally isn’t the right girl for him if she wants him to go to a crowded bar 😐
She seems to be into him though
This is exactly what I thought too!
@Margrete most definitely
Yea, especially if he has nothing to prove.
“All i do is imagine coneversations with her”- if that ain’t true : )
I still replay all the awkward things I've said to my crush, over and over in my head. We've been together 10 years, married for 2, and have 2 kids... 😅
Oh no! But I'm glad you married your crush!! I wonder if they have any awkward things they said that they go over in their head too
You're one of the lucky ones lol
@@Kimbonessness He has plenty, seeing as we're both introverted. 😂 We discuss each other's awkwardness from time to time, and geek out over it. Lol
@@emp9413 indeed! It was quite a long road, but totally worth it. Lol I hope for all my fellow introverts to find their forever crush and discover how to connect with them! It's so great once it happens! 💜
@@ti9erlilly tbh I think I'll pass :) I like having a brain 🧠
To all the introverts out here who heavily relate to this, here's a tip: Just ask the questions, let them do the talking, and you can make it look like you actually know what you are doing ;) Most people LOVE to talk about themselves so if you can steer the conversation in a direction your more comfortable with through questions, you'd be amazed at how good of a façade you can put on.
Yeah but it doesn't work after saying Hidey for Hi ! XD
Are you an enfj?
I hate talking about myself so hopefully an introvert doesn't have a crush on me.
Well.....unless they are also introverted and respond to those questions with either no answer or one word answers.
I have had my fair share of conversations where I try to keep it going with questions and the other person is not having it
Tbh putting a facade is never good, even if it "works". You're just setting yourself up for a trainwreck later. Just be yourself, if it works it works. Some people actually prefer introverts like that, target them instead.
Being an introvert must be so hard. I can't even imagine that. Dear introverts, I admire you.
~ ENFJ
Why would u admire us ?? For what? :/
You are very nice, but admiring us so much that we stalking people is disturbing xD
~ INFJ
@@blackbat121 it must be hard for you in the world. Being in school, work etc. must be really exhausting mainly for introverts who are really shy and are insecure.
I admire you that you handle it so well :)
Extroverts stalk people, too. My bestie's expert. xd
@@sarax7819
Och okay x"DD
As an introvert I can say this is so accurate.....he deserves more recognition for his videos
Could relate to every introvert scene
Extroverts are *crushing* the conversion when it comes to their lover.
Introvert: "I've got a crush, all I do is rehearse Imaginary conversation with her so hopefully one day if I ever actually talk to her, she will only say the things that I have imagined her saying."
That's accurate but the problem is I'd never meet my crush in real life, He doesn't exist 🤣🤣 Only in my Imagination 😬
Same...they live in a fictional world...
You mean 2D anime characters that sets the bar up way too high that is just fictional at this point?
Same.
@@sarahl5213 pfft same as me, plus I won't get heart break cause they are fictional 🤣🤣
LOL! This is so accurate. Imaginary conversations, stalking, mental replays... I feel so called out 😂 This is one of those times when I envy extroverts.
'One of those times'
I'm enfj, I never create conversations in my head, I go with the flow. Sometimes it's better to think what to say, many times I said smth that I regretted and got embarrassed😅 Had no option but turned it into a joke quickly. It means that everything got to be balanced.
I was thinking... and what about if an extrovert and a introvert had a crush on eachother?
I think in that scenario the E initiates basically every part of the relationship and does about 80% of the talking until, at some point, the two either part ways, friend-zone it, or get married. At least, that’s what my imaginary flow chart says.
@@kaydee1721 seems truthful
@@kaydee1721 you seem like an ITJ or could be an INTJ too.
@@laya1077_ is that your MBTI type? I’m curious what makes you think that I am an INTJ / IxTJ?
@@kaydee1721 I'm sorry I meant INFJ or INTJ, I honestly don't know tbh. You seem like the person who knows what they do. It was a guess
I'm an ambivert. With friends & people I just met, I'm an extrovert. With someone I'm into, I might still be, but my feelings are guarded & I'm definitely more self conscious. Later replaying the conversation trying to decipher all of the nuances.
There's only one time I made the first move. That relationship lasted 15 months. We're still friends. It works better that way. But I'm proud that I actually took the initiative.
😊
I made the first move once. We are now married. Also feeling more like an ambivert. Can't relate to the stereotypical introvert or extrovert.
Wow, this is so relatable!
@@hannemari4643 Glad it worked out for you. I was married. Have been divorced for a year. On my own for two. Quite happy.
Frank has said that most of us will be somewhere in the middle. Which makes sense. The spectrum is wide & varied.
@@cheesecakeandthediabetes It's nice to find that there's others who can understand. I still, on occasion, think about something I could have said or done differently in jr high. Even though I'm many years past that, lol.
Ed Sheeran proposing "Hey dude" as title instead of "Hey Jude" was the best line in the movie 'Yesterday' 😁
just fyi, he he
That point in the film I was quite offended! LOL
I did not know this was a movie reference so I was internally screaming at that moment. Might be shallow but I would have rejected the bowling date based on that already, haha.
This story completes the whole meaning hahaha thanks gurl
Been married for 14 years. My husband just told me, during an argument, how mysterious I still am to him. 💃INFJ😅
I’m an Ambivert. ANFJ!
I still TO THIS DAY don't understand why FJ shows us a lemon at the end of all his videos, like "Thank you for watching! Here have a lemon!"
@@turquoisetranquility I've watched most of his videos tbh. Maybe I missed it? Could you tell me what video it was exactly?
why did i not realize how weird that is until just now...
I think he is trying to make a lemonade from the lemon 😊
My boyfriend and I are both introverts, we had crushes on each other since 2015. We stalked each other for 3 years before actually talking in 2017, we started dating in 2018
3 years after 2015 would be 2018 not 2017
@@Triisttan they could have been stalking each other before they got a crush for each other
@@Jack1994hoo that wouldn't make any sense lol. they stalked each other for a year and then developed feelings.. after a whole year of stalking each other. ?
So good. My husband's an extrovert and I'm an introvert. We've been married 32 years and I still remember the awkward things I did on our first date...33 years ago. 😅
Together… Ambiverted!
This is truly spot on. Sometimes I envy extroverts and how effortlessly it seems for them to be social. Then I realize how much I hate people/socializing and am perfectly happy being an introvert. INTJ here.
If I needed any more confirmation that I am an introvert, this was it. Not that I wasn't already highly aware of it from junior high onward.
I’m getting second hand embarrassment from this
Today i managed to speak to my crush only cuz my more extroverted friend went to talk to him and practically dragged me with her, otherwise i would still be sulking now on how i missed a chance. That's why i worship her now, she's a life saver
"Hey dude"!! did I hear that correctly ?! 😂
That's why in life I have found myself being attracted to extroverts. Getting over the hump of all of the awkwardness with extreme introverts can be rough. They are amazing once they warm up to you though.🙂
Me too. I totally relate to all the INFJ stuff Frank does. It's pretty clear that's my default nature. But my boyfriends have been extroverts cuz they make life much more fun and social and adventurous and I level up and become more extroverted too when I'm with one. They can make great boyfriends (as long as they're also kind and we share similar values and even though they'll talk to anyone and everyone I still know and feel special to them - that they're loyal and I feel safe and respected and valued and all that other important stuff).
It depends, cz from my experiences it was too exhausting for me so many times. Not that m extremely introvert but still used to feel drained!! I think it varies or depends on understanding or how much gap is there between two person's introverted or extraverted nature.
@@designkolamart8828 True. That's very important. I highly suspect it works for me - that's my preferred combination - because I want to be an extrovert or have that in me somewhere, - I WANT to get out of my shell more than I do on my own. Although I will naturally avoid "people" at all costs, I do enjoy them when I DO mix and I'm energized and happy - my heart is "full" when I do spend time with people I like, love and enjoy. But I definitely feel drained when interacting is work and effort. I'll do it anyway when it's hard but needed, but still. And people I don't enjoy, negative and toxic people, energy vampires, etc? Well, maybe that's another topic entirely as people who aren't good for one are people one needs to try to distance themselves from.
So the drained issue - for those that are drained by social interaction, much less any social interaction - that does need awareness of by both parties as a couple and how to best work / live with that.
Introverts and extroverts can definitely make great couples because they can provide different strengths and balance each other out. But you definitely have to understand and respect - and LIKE - what makes the other tick and what doesn't. Social and emotional intelligence is needed by both people. Gotta know what each other needs and why, etc. And how each other is needs to work for both people in the couple, etc. And can't be TOO different, gotta complement each other, etc.
I'm an introvert but appear to be more like an extrovert around people who are introverted than me. Extroverts usually drain and i use them as acquaintances or friends you see every now and then. I think it's because my WHOLE family are a bunch of extroverts and outside family members are extroverts for the majority so I've just became drained around their constant energy 😅😅🤣🤣😂😂 so i look for introverts (or well balanced extroverts) within close friendships and relationships. I like mental stimulation and talking about various topics and deeper topics that makes me look like a looney 🤣🤣😂😂😅 Not a lot of extroverts that I have been around (even family) haven't liked this type of stimulation except for a select few but yeah :3
@@PGOuma omg. I felt drained just READING about your family! 😂😮 I forgot all about extreme extroverts or too many extroverts! 😮 Yeah. Balance. Quality one on one time. Rooms full of people zipping around like balloons getting the air let out of them is no good! And don't get me started on microscopic attention spans. Much less multiple ones. Omg! 😳😩
Introverts Assemble !!
Introverts unite quietly from your own homes.
@@TheLuca2001 🤣
AMBIVERTS ASSEMBLE!!!
(crickets)
well sh-
Someone get this man a verification seal!!
I know everything about her from stalking her on social media.😂😶
Are you sure about that?
'Hey Dude' 😂👏
FJ plays extroverts soooo well. It's like there's really two different people in this video 😱😱😱🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯
Awe!
The intoverts crush still wants to hang out with him after that. Maybe it's mutual.
I ship it.
Hahahaha so many times I've said, "HiLow!" when I've been unable to choose between Hi and Hello!
How introverted has my stamp of approval 😎👍
“Hey dude” - the best song of The Beatles indeed 🤣🤣🤣👌👌👌
the extrovert having confidence and energy despite being very awkward and "try hard" is something i admire
cuz i have social anxiety despite being extrovert weeee
As a fellow introvert, I can say that this is incredibly accurate. I remember an instance where I was waiting at the bus stop at the college I was attending and the only other person at the bus stop was this young woman that I thought was very attractive. There was a divider that had the schedules on display in the middle of the bus stop and I was on the other side of the divider with my attention focused on where the bus would be. I could not move from where I was standing. It felt like my feet had melded with the concrete. The entire time I am freaking out internally, trying to get myself to talk to her. In the end, I wasn't able to.
Woah I'm an introvert too but I can't seem to find someone whom I like tho. Even if it isn't my crush, I always stay still when a person comes near me coz it feels something and that something I cannot explain but every time i am near a human I feel so awkward I'm like ;-; If I move a inch I will die. Yeah let's go with that even tho I think it didn't make sense
It's so weird how I, an extrovert, absolutely shut down whenever I'm near my crush. Like my brain just melts whenever I see her and I lose all of my social skills if I ever had any of them😂
The part about replaying every awkward thing you said, so sad, and so true.
Ha ha ha, I definitely laughed all through this one. Have a great day Frank! :)
"Hey Dude" had me wheezing like my throat was doing burnouts!
I've done PhD on my crush :
His favourite colour red
His favourite food chocolate cake
His second favourite food cheese pizza
His third favourite food chicken burger
His favourite band bts
His favourite singer Harry style
His favorite movie avengers
His second favourite movie avatar
His third favourite movie the vigil
His favourite movie genre horror action thriller suspense
His favourite series vampire diaries
His second favourite series teen wolf
His third favourite series supernatural.
and meanwhile , he doesn't even know my name
DAYUM 😂
Those are his tastes, though.
What is he _really_ like? Personality traits, values, beliefs, aspirations, favorite clothing style?
@@greatwavefan397 I had a crush. But it wasn't love cuz I didn't know answer to any of the questions you've stated here.
@@nithyanarayanan3179 Excellent conclusion. ;-)
- Your friendly neighborhood INTJ
@@greatwavefan397 Thanks lol, from an INFJ~
Rehearsed conversations is my super power 😅
Yeah, love that song, "Hey Dude" too! 😂 Hilarious! The poor introvert...
My crush and I sit on the same desk in school so we have more opportunities to talk and honestly if we didn't I would be so nervous to just go to her and start a conversation... Good thing is that we're both introverted girls
"I know everything about her through Stalking on Social Media" This seems Lowkey Effective. 😂
that introvert is showing a lot of confidence there.
Andd that's what I like about introverts! Me as an ENTJ love opening up conversations to know more about them (the mysterious vibe really attracts me), and yes I find introverts cute when they feel nervous and stutter uwu that's so cutee! 💖
The "hey dude" got me :')
Haha 😄 the introvert’s thought process was so spot on that I had flashbacks to my past awkward interactions with my former crushes. Now, though, I don’t overthink as much as I did before. I try to run more towards what I want-and it is satisfying to make something happen rather than not trying even if it doesn’t go the way I imagined in my head. I think my brain finally got tired of my overthinking because now when I start to overthink, I either get a headache or I feel hot 🧠🔥 and forget to breathe. I don’t like that feeling, so, now, when I catch myself heating up like that, I shake myself out of it, remember to breathe, and place my cold hands on my hot forehead and neck and stop thinking. Then, I push myself off the mental cliff I created and just dive into the situation. Gotta dive in and get what you want to quench the thirst ya know. 🙂
i love watching these types of videos because i was an introvert for several years, and it is still a weighty part of my personality. so when the introvert talks i’m like: “i feel that.” and when the extrovert talks, i’m like: “i feel that.” 😂
As an introvert, this is 1000% accurate.
The Beatles’ rendition of Hey Dude is also one of my favorites. What a coincidence!
I don't know if I'll ever turn my plans to actions if this situation ever arises because analysing all the possibilities might end me up too overwhelmed.
I had a crush in class for 2 years and I spoke to him once.
It's not something funny: it's something true ✨
I always replay awkward moments in my head. Over and over and over...
hahaaa very accurate, Frank. I just don't know how you are so good at presenting different perspectives.. I loove your channel!
extrovert: extra talking
introvert: EXTRA STALKING
This explains why those cute introvert guys I actually like don’t ask me out even though they appear to want to. I just don’t think I can go Extrovert again…
Signed,
iNFP
At least the introvert can a fresh start because she could forget who they are
"Things are a little hazy cause I kind of blacked out at that point..."
Relatable 🙄
Awww! I will never see shy men the same way. I just want to give them all a big hug!
WHY THIS IS SO REALLL LIKE BROO I keep thinking about what to say to my crush or how to start the conversation for hours and when I talk EVERYTHING disappears from my mind and I start laughing like an IDIOT 😭😭😭💔
Why the frick is this so insanely accurate?!?
ISFP here, and my ENTJ husband literally asked me out on a casual bowling hang before he asked me out on a date. As we bowled he asked me what my 5 year plan was and grilled me on my personal goals (I had none besides getting him to ask me out on an actual date 🤣).
this is beyond adorable!!! (almost) opposites do attract after all 😊
The introvert was so painfully accurate.
As an ENFJ I use to act excited and confident around my crush but, at the end of the day, I always start overthinking about how awkward I may have sounded.
me too.
Painfully, painfully accurate
Sounds like the crush is an extrovert, it'll be okay... At least until they get to know each other better and the introvert realises how many social events he/she would need to attend 😅
It's funny how we can know that FJ is a real introvert because of the way he plays extroverts x introverts -- the former are far more cartoonish than the latter, I can feel his effort to act extroverted. And I LOVE that vibe, cracks me up LOL
2022 goal: master the fine art of blacking out after saying something awkward! 😆
“Stalking her on social media.”😂
That was hilarious! 😂
Thanks Frank, love your videos! ✨🌟
Every once in a while I'll watch one of these skits and they will be so true I almost cry.
Im sure its obvious to a lot of introverts but we always over-analyse things...Sometimes a girl/guy will actually like us, but we end up obsessing on the negative so much that we become oblivious of the hints the person actually gives😂😂...They could be so into us but we end up sabotaging our own chances.😂
I'm totally playing scenarios in my head of me talking to my crush.
As an extrovert, I wish it were that un-awkward XD the only part I related to was always thinking about when I’d see them next rather than watching from the sidelines. Luckily my introverted husband was brave and persistent :3
Watching this video makes me want to go stalk my crush's Instagram profile using my only account which is meant to stalk people
this is legit me , and my crush is also introverted, you can't imagine how awkward it is if we talk that's why most of the time we sit in silence and that is the best thing we could ever do .
This is interesting to watch, because I'm definitely an introvert, but behaviorally I know that's not how to get people to like me. So, with a background in theater and psychology, what ends up happening is I fill all of the silence by blabbing away about nonsense and forget to ask her any questions. Ah, the life on an INTJ with just enough social skills to make everyone (including me) immensely uncomfortable, lol.
The inner monologue of the introvert...sad, but true.
It would be amazing if the extroverted guy's crush was the introverted guy. So actually they were talking to each other the whole time
"I got to get out before I mess up the opportunity to meet her..." 🤣
funny . I can't stop laughing
Very accurate,, introverts ALWAYS do their due diligence.
We rehearse conversations to prepare for the worst case scenario.
Hey dude😭
I'm so glad that other introverts also have to fight off the invasive urge to say "howdy" as a greeting
Yayyyy hello early gangg
Glad i made it today