55k for inner circle family members?? Seriously bro that's too high. I'm sure 90 percentage of your inner circle family members are not your well-wishers ...
The problem is that even if the bride or the groom realises this and wants to avoid overspending, they'll have to convince their partner, their own parents and the in-laws too which will in most of the cases end up being an impossible mission. Unfortunately Indians care more about what the society and relatives will think about them instead of financial planning.
@@HT79 100% true. The parents cannot be convinced to have a simple wedding. They want to call each and every relative even if they have not talked for years in the pretext of telling 'Its out only Son/Daughter'. There will also be many other ceremonies like haldi, mehendi which will be for nearby relatives. Once these relatives start coming, they have to again show off by having the best and spending a lot. There is no problem in having lavish wedding if you can afford or if parents have lot of money for it. There issue comes only when people take loan or borrow money from others
The problem is that even though the current generation understands the bad effects of overspending during marriage, their parents are forcing them to make the marriage ceremony grand to maintain their family's fame.
And people getting married don't have the balls to stand up to their decision. Instead they let their lives controlled by their parents. Bunch of immature clowns
I got married in 2021 and we had invited only 100 guests. Around 80 turned up and we ended up saving a lot. All that money which our parents saved was gifted to us and me and my husband utilize it towards down payment of our flat in Bangalore.
Saale mere family me hi 50-60 log sirf mere dada ke bhai ke families aur hm sab boht close hai saath me rehte hai, fir mama , bua , mausi in sab ki family aati hai , aur hmare gand me itna guda hai ki 200-300 log ko khila sake ye rule dusre desh me Christan marriage me chal skta hai baat rhi paise ki toh hotel marriage me hi jyada paisa lgta hai
whenever I tell my mother that I want a simple temple wedding, all she says is that we will have to accommodate the groom's wishes too, follow society's norms, etc etc.
OMG!!! So many thoughts… 1)I know of parents who pressured kids to get married just to show off, ending in divorce a year later.. ppl i personally knew 2) my marriage 10 years back costed half of our combined income.. less than 6L, only cos my parents had to invite a lot of people… i guess in south also spending has picked up.. 3) 36 is still not comprehendable… why are they not paying taxes?? Only 6% file tax and only 2% actually pay.. 4) all these married people will have 2 kids and they will also be made to get married in 10 times the cost.. 5) its like get married spend all your parents money so that you can feel like princess for a day, which nobody cares about 😂, and parents are happy to live with dal chawal whole life or Kanji in south also spending
What about eating in others marriage for 20-30 years with whole family. Your parents are just throwing a large party for near ones. So chill. And don't count gold as spending
Ditto here. Got married 10 years ago. Despite doing it as frugally as possible, it costed around 10-12L combined(bride and groom). But it was still lesser than one spent by our peers. Someone I know spent 25L for her wedding in 2014. This figure is just at the bride's family. On an avg my peers(My spouse and I are 40 now) spent a minimum of 20-25 lakhs. Don't be overly concerned about impressing everyone. Finish the entire affair in one day. Keep it simple and straight. The wedding in the morning, a reception in the evening. If you are feeling generous, have a small engagement party prior to the wedding. That's all. Use the rest of the money(that is if you had a higher budget in mind) to travel and have fun with your partner post marriage, instead of impressing every tom, dick and harry with needless ceremonies and spending a bomb in doing so.
@@bibhuprasadparida7287they weren't eating for free . Gifts or money were given . So break the cycle . People should invite dear ones who genuinely brings them peace or who matters . Should host a party which they can afford without taking loan .
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In Pakistan, there have been various restrictions on weddings like serve a single-dish, or just dessert (no main course) and drinks. But these restrictions don't last very long.
@@rohitnayak9952not all people have the same requirements plus it's not like they will not have friends, family or relatives. We humans need someone that someone could be anyone . Marriage should be optional not obligation or compulsory . We should acknowledge that not all are marriage material . Many people's life will be saved from getting destroyed .
I guess that 5% folks earnings more than 35L is a flawed figure. It has to be more, definitely more. Most folks avoid taxes and most business save it by fudging numbers.
@@HT79 even the population of this country is 140+ Cr. still 5% means just 7 to 8 Cr. people and let assume there is 4 people in each family then we have just 2 crore family that has family income >= 35 LPA which is very less number .
Bro😂 are u out of your mind. The % is still less. What u mean to say 35 lpa is so easy that any tom Dick harry can earn? Useless jerks receive such high salary 4 nothing. Corporate craps and thier bullshit Better to make 20 Lpa in my space as self rather than working with jerks for extra 10 lpa
And the Indian trend also has its effect on Nepal 😢 Weddings used to be just wedding back then, but now all the engagement, haldi, mehendi, prewedding post wedding and all..
Your analysis is perfect. Now why indian economy is struggling for growth because young generation contribution is less. They are spending so much for wedding by taking loans and again divorce they also spend different amount more than wedding. Then due to stress and tension they fall in dieses. Then life will spoil. If children is there means another problem. So how india will grow.
It depends upon everyone propective i know spending too much in wedding is a bad decision but there are only some occasion in life which will not happen again and we do not only feed guest we enjoy too and we also make memories which can't be bought
Majority of these over the top spending is from North India pushing the average up. Average middle class weddings in the south wouldn't be this much. I used to work with a few Punjabis and Delhi people and when they first told me that an average middle class family wedding would be upwards of 30 lakhs, i was so shocked and this was 10 years ago.
@ShubhamKumar-nw1uz you can do the research and find out yourself. It's not a secret that people from the north splurge more on weddings than in the south. There's no right or wrong, it's just what it is.
@@ravenblog7 Don't give up, me and husband got interfaith court married (eloped) and had a small hindu ceremony out of respect for his parents, his parents paid for the religious ceremony and gold and everything (not exceeding 6 lakhs, 2023). Today my parents like him better than me I think 😅 and both parents purchased a flat for us with the money that would have been spend on an unnecessary grand wedding
Got married in less than 10 lakhs but that included my gold jewellery preparation too. We couldn't do it in less than that even if we tried our best to reduce the costs but it rounded off to around 10 lakhs anyhow.
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Not possible at all due to cost. Per plate cost, catering in my place 500rs (nveg). There will be minimum 500-600guests. So 3lacs just food. Imagine the rest. I say if we can maintain under 10lacs it's econmical
@@Pawpixelshow? Why are you using per plate system of caterers. Hire cooks and make them cook food and avoid buffet systems. Serve the food through caterers. That way the cost will be very less.
There are some occasions in life where money shouldn't matter if you can afford it.. marriages doesn't happen twice for 99% couples in india...another case is of hospital bills...it is not wasted...there will be no entertainment left in life if we just follow investment principles
Yes, wedding markup is a thing now. The same venue which cost for eg 1 lakh for wedding, is getting charged 75k for a non wedding event or even less in an off season.
I think only families earning more than 30 lakhs per annum should spend 30-50 lakhs in wedding . Spending big amount on weddings is not bad . One should have a good personal finance calculation and should know how much money is suitable for them to spend . If you dont spend money on wedding then there is no need to spend money on anything like cars , big houses ,foreign tour . Also saving money only make sense upto certain age . I know people who have more than 100 acres lands and their children working in Netherlands ,uk ,germany and usa and still they live with no living standards .they live like poor people with no interests or desires . Do you still say 50 lakhs rupees is waste for them ? Spending 30 lakhs is waste for only those people who earn very less like 5-10 lakhs per year with less properties or assets with them .
People are stupid. If ambani spends thousands of crores in their children wedding, it doesn't even affect their financial stability. These thousands crores are a very less amount comparing to Ambani's average net worth. But normal people risking their entire financial life and stability for events like wedding by taking huge amount of loans
6:46 why do north indian brides never wear sarees for their wedding? Its always lehengas... they are beautiful but the elegance of a saree is unmatched.
Spending more than ₹30 Lakh on Wedding….Ummmm personally i dont think it is good decision, instead people should only spend limited amount and deposit rest of the amount in FD or Mutual Fund…🤑💰🤑… But moreover i personally felt it is high time indian law system introduced prenip or some law that protects men…🙇♂️ Plus because of status “lage padey hai”
Prenup is required, wives should also work, there should not be any dowry, Some part of Money saved from wedding can be used for honeymoon and other travels for better bonding between husband and wife so that less chance of divorce or alimony..
Whats the problem… lot of industries thrive due to weddings and more over its a one time thing. I would want to make it memorable and within my financial capabilities. So i think ppl should stop antagonising the grand affair. Chill guys, who u marry is ur wish and same way how u marry shall also be ur wish
First of all people divorce when they can,t live together.For divorce there will be different reasons.They are lots of couples who is love and supportive each other,so they married after marriage if one of them cheat his/her husband or wife, That is problem of that person Not about marriage Marriage happened from long time ago People marriage each other for get life partner,to get legitimate kids with social and legal acceptence, After marriage if husband or wife turned to cheater, Wife a gold digger who ask alimony without thinking about husband ,s salary that is her ;his problem not problem with marriage .divorce happened in other countries too, But still in india divorce is less. And all women also not asked for alimony,there may be women who suffer after divorce,they may be women/men suffer because of toxic marriage, So why we think about future regarding social media. And i thik people should date people for long time then get married,live in together
To be fair Marriage in India isn't just between 2 people but between 2 families. Thats why we have to spend a lot to keep everyone happy. We aren't like the US like how they are detached from family and Friends. They usually have small wedding because they can. They are too casual with their relationships we aren't. Everything is a show for Status. In India if you need respect you need to show to people that you have money. Else no one ever cares about you.
Exactly but I am from neigbhouring country.yes we also considered marriage between two families.in our country they are traditional wedding according their religion. So many people celebrate imple wedding.some get lavish wedding who are famous.people have to marriage as their status, So why indians celebrate simple wedding with other pre celebrations too. I see dhuruv rathee,s wedding all happened but it simple
It was the rich/elite who started the concept of Big Fat Weddings and the middle/lower income grup followed them. Now only the rich/elite can change the situation by setting examples of doing small weddings.
Earlier days there was a justification that weddings festivals etc drive economy for unorganized sector. Now with the kind of population and stressed family relationships, it is absolutely futile to spend too much.
Loss to the families involved in marriage. But a lot of money circulates into the economy . Lot traders agriculturits decorators catering services get paid. Not as bad as we think for the society as a whole
1) a huge transaction happens in cash, that is not taxed. 2) majority of middle and lower incomes host weddings on their own lands or community halls. Even today, a decent catering costs around 4lakh for 500 people. 3) True Indian culture is of “shagun” i.e half of the cost is recovered via guests. Its only the upper income people truly corrupting the wedding culture. Because of them other suffers, like your example of renting a tent
As much as i have seen the bride and groom and their families do not spend on themselves but rather they spend all the money on their so called relatives whom they have not even seen once ...it's becoming more like pleasing everyone rather than enjoying ur special day .....and the dowry system is just worse people take big amount of loans for them and suffer through their lives
Its simple if u are poor opt for court marriage 😊. Don't take loan. And if u can afford u should go for it on minimum cost. because every hindu ritual have their own importance . Help in country economy. And employment for people also. Ese to yaar sab dhanda band ho jayega kafi local worker ki roji roti chin jayegi. Indian wedding are famous in world because of the fun and glamour ab use ek din ka rangarang karyakaram banado paper pe sign karke😂
@adityadas6638 marriage achi chal gayi to🤔. Yahan to shadi ki hi baat kar rahe h ap life kafi esi chije h jinpe hum spend karte h or jaroori nhi h ki us chij me safal hi ho to kya pesa dubara wapas lene jate h kya? Or saaf bola h agar apke pass h to ye sab kare nhi to koi jarurat nhi bhai🤞🙌
Am an introvert genz have years fo get married but u already know my plan: few guest, small location, close friends and relatives ( well wkshers ) no photoshoots and other cringe, just fun and games
bhaiii sun meri shaadi meri marzi mera paisaaa ptaaa nhi sbkooo aaajkl kyuu gyaaaan denaaa h haar cheezz maiii bhaii haar cheez har activity indians ki tumko west se compare krni h like whyyy its a subjective choice my money whatever i do and why u guys never tell anything +ve ? okh then let me tell youuu 1. the money which spend in wedding seasons are somehow goes back to the economy only .2 many small vendors are dependent on weddings and mainly the expensive things like jewellery are bought during this time only which is a great investment. 3 wedding season provides a great healthy environment in a society unlike the depressed societies of west ! and more examples … the point is just that there are some -ve aspects tooo but why always being -ve for the indian culture onlyy yes sometimes people go out of their limits but at the end its individual choice ! ⁉️⁉️❗️❗️‼️
Yes you are right bro , not everyone spend 30 lakh in their wedding only those can afford it and if someone is doing for showoff then it's their personal life
Okay, but how to do weddings in budget like 10 lakhs? Just the clothes are like 5 lakhs+ pant shirts for every men and sarees and lehenga for every woman, if we even consider 100 people. And the food, pandit, workers, flowers, hall, cards etc are like basics which can’t be ignored by anyone 🤷🏻.
I agree that big weddings have an impact on our economy, but u can't justify the impact it is having on on the society especially the lower n middle income grup.
@@devanshsaraf4142Then only one function can be economical, no Haldi, Sangeet etc. And not everyone is blessed with good family. Those who are, can call everyone for wedding
Actually it has become norm in our society to spend money on marriages because we attend costly maariages . Suppose your father works in a office and is in a descent position in govt or private sector. Now the children of all your father's colleagues are getting married and most of them are spending above 20-30-50 lakhs . So now it creates fomo for your father as well as you to spend like them to avoid troll of colleagues . Infact we also call people kanjoos, makhi choos (miser) if some spends very less even though he is earning very well . And we make fun of them and see them like gross . Because i have various experiences of attending from 5 lakh to 70 lakh worth weddings and 5 lakh and 70 lakh are spent by colleagues of my father for their children . And those below 10 lakh wedding were always mocked as kanjoos dehati marriage by others . Also there is one more problem that if you have to invite the person who invited you in his daughter's or son's wedding even though you don't feel like having a proper connection and that increases the reception party food cost per plate . I think we should only invite our close friends ,neighbours ,relatives with whom we talk regularly and spend time with them occassionally . There is no need to invite those with whom we talk or meet once a year or even neighbours who are just neighbours .
People who got married in 2020 are very lucky. They saved a lot due to restrictions on guests.
Be smart and not emotional fool
True
Agree
This statement may be factually correct but it's not the right way to look at things. Others can also save a lot by inviting lesser guests.
But they were not able to spread their happiness with other
last year i got married. did simple court marriage and small lunch party to only inner circle family members. total cost less than 55k 😂
man, please tell your weeding plan in detail and who planned it... Plz
@ planned by me and wife. only the blood relation members invited. ofcourse Fufa ne muh fula liya tha but no fucks were given
55k for inner circle family members?? Seriously bro that's too high. I'm sure 90 percentage of your inner circle family members are not your well-wishers ...
@ 55k in total. 50k is court marriage expense and 5k for lunch brother😂
Are bhai bhai bhai
The problem is that even if the bride or the groom realises this and wants to avoid overspending, they'll have to convince their partner, their own parents and the in-laws too which will in most of the cases end up being an impossible mission. Unfortunately Indians care more about what the society and relatives will think about them instead of financial planning.
Yes, main problem is "log kya kahenge", that same people will not be found nowhere when you will be in dire need.
Borrow money from those people itself 😅
@@HT79 100% true. The parents cannot be convinced to have a simple wedding. They want to call each and every relative even if they have not talked for years in the pretext of telling 'Its out only Son/Daughter'. There will also be many other ceremonies like haldi, mehendi which will be for nearby relatives. Once these relatives start coming, they have to again show off by having the best and spending a lot. There is no problem in having lavish wedding if you can afford or if parents have lot of money for it. There issue comes only when people take loan or borrow money from others
Very true, I tried to convince my family quite strongly, but was only able to bring it down to one reception and no other rituals. Lets see.
We live in a society...isn't it ??
The problem is that even though the current generation understands the bad effects of overspending during marriage, their parents are forcing them to make the marriage ceremony grand to maintain their family's fame.
That's really true 😢
No
Lots of girls want a grand, extravagant wedding to post on instagram.
And people getting married don't have the balls to stand up to their decision. Instead they let their lives controlled by their parents. Bunch of immature clowns
Gp outside and get a life. You all sir inside your parents house and think of yourself as sigma@@anirprasadd
I got married in 2021 and we had invited only 100 guests. Around 80 turned up and we ended up saving a lot. All that money which our parents saved was gifted to us and me and my husband utilize it towards down payment of our flat in Bangalore.
Smart move, smart family!
Superb move!
I really applaud your practicality, especially when most would-be brides want an extravagant wedding
Great decision by your parents 👍
Bring back 25 Guests rule….
@@sagarbm4283 it was in 2020 for a brief moment
Bhai tere wedding mein 25 ko bulana, dusro ki wedding kyu kharab kar raha hai.
show off functions
Ye wahi log hai jo zindagi bhar doosron ke gharon ki shadiyon me 3-4 plate uthaate hai, aur jab inki baari aayi to rules chahiye
Saale mere family me hi 50-60 log sirf mere dada ke bhai ke families aur hm sab boht close hai saath me rehte hai, fir mama , bua , mausi in sab ki family aati hai , aur hmare gand me itna guda hai ki 200-300 log ko khila sake ye rule dusre desh me Christan marriage me chal skta hai baat rhi paise ki toh hotel marriage me hi jyada paisa lgta hai
Spending money on relatives is not worth it in the name of marriage. Hope it changes some day.
Nobody forced you. You don't have to spend money on a grand wedding , you can simply spend less. Only cover the basic things
95% of marriage happens in India under 10lakh, what he talking about average 36 lakh is for upper middle class people.. not for average middle class
And I think the Ambani’s wedding has skewed the average by a lot 😝
Average is 12.5 lacs@@aryankulkarni8610
Ghanta nahi hoti 10 lakh me shadi😂
That comment makes sense
@@randompie5558hota hai bro 5-6 lakh mei bhot achchi shaadi ho jati hai
whenever I tell my mother that I want a simple temple wedding, all she says is that we will have to accommodate the groom's wishes too, follow society's norms, etc etc.
OMG!!! So many thoughts…
1)I know of parents who pressured kids to get married just to show off, ending in divorce a year later.. ppl i personally knew
2) my marriage 10 years back costed half of our combined income.. less than 6L, only cos my parents had to invite a lot of people… i guess in south also spending has picked up..
3) 36 is still not comprehendable… why are they not paying taxes?? Only 6% file tax and only 2% actually pay..
4) all these married people will have 2 kids and they will also be made to get married in 10 times the cost..
5) its like get married spend all your parents money so that you can feel like princess for a day, which nobody cares about 😂, and parents are happy to live with dal chawal whole life or Kanji in south also spending
What about eating in others marriage for 20-30 years with whole family. Your parents are just throwing a large party for near ones. So chill. And don't count gold as spending
Ditto here. Got married 10 years ago. Despite doing it as frugally as possible, it costed around 10-12L combined(bride and groom). But it was still lesser than one spent by our peers. Someone I know spent 25L for her wedding in 2014. This figure is just at the bride's family. On an avg my peers(My spouse and I are 40 now) spent a minimum of 20-25 lakhs. Don't be overly concerned about impressing everyone. Finish the entire affair in one day. Keep it simple and straight. The wedding in the morning, a reception in the evening. If you are feeling generous, have a small engagement party prior to the wedding. That's all.
Use the rest of the money(that is if you had a higher budget in mind) to travel and have fun with your partner post marriage, instead of impressing every tom, dick and harry with needless ceremonies and spending a bomb in doing so.
@@bibhuprasadparida7287they weren't eating for free . Gifts or money were given . So break the cycle . People should invite dear ones who genuinely brings them peace or who matters . Should host a party which they can afford without taking loan .
Expectation: Long marriages, short weddings
Current Reality: Long weddings, short marriages
On point
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In Pakistan, there have been various restrictions on weddings like serve a single-dish, or just dessert (no main course) and drinks. But these restrictions don't last very long.
Because of 498a, a wedding shouldn't cost more than 498k. 🤨
smart indian men shall avoid marrying in india all together..else be prepared to run around court for life and lose their house.
I was forced into it. Now I'm in debt.
Unfortunately, Your own fault...
Dont get married. No Alimony. No Kids. No Expenses. Save money. Move to a abroad country. Travel & have fun. Retire at an old age home.
Sounds easy. But not many people can do that man.
You need emotional support once u cross 45
@@rohitnayak9952not all people have the same requirements plus it's not like they will not have friends, family or relatives. We humans need someone that someone could be anyone . Marriage should be optional not obligation or compulsory . We should acknowledge that not all are marriage material . Many people's life will be saved from getting destroyed .
Yes, no dowry either
If there is no Marriage, there is no dowry. So don't play the victim card, Bhoomika
I guess that 5% folks earnings more than 35L is a flawed figure.
It has to be more, definitely more.
Most folks avoid taxes and most business save it by fudging numbers.
It's not that the number of people earning is low, instead the population of our country is too damn high. So that denominator brings it down to 5%
You haven't been to many places in India and seen the reality.
@@HT79 even the population of this country is 140+ Cr. still 5% means just 7 to 8 Cr. people and let assume there is 4 people in each family then we have just 2 crore family that has family income >= 35 LPA which is very less number .
Bro😂 are u out of your mind. The % is still less. What u mean to say 35 lpa is so easy that any tom Dick harry can earn?
Useless jerks receive such high salary 4 nothing. Corporate craps and thier bullshit
Better to make 20 Lpa in my space as self rather than working with jerks for extra 10 lpa
Less than 1 to 2% earn 35L
And the Indian trend also has its effect on Nepal 😢 Weddings used to be just wedding back then, but now all the engagement, haldi, mehendi, prewedding post wedding and all..
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Your analysis is perfect. Now why indian economy is struggling for growth because young generation contribution is less. They are spending so much for wedding by taking loans and again divorce they also spend different amount more than wedding. Then due to stress and tension they fall in dieses. Then life will spoil. If children is there means another problem. So how india will grow.
True fr
It depends upon everyone propective i know spending too much in wedding is a bad decision but there are only some occasion in life which will not happen again and we do not only feed guest we enjoy too and we also make memories which can't be bought
I wish this video was in hindi.. so I could make my parents watch this.
Tell them..
Explain it
Forget it, they will still say beta have some more food for the guests
Majority of these over the top spending is from North India pushing the average up. Average middle class weddings in the south wouldn't be this much. I used to work with a few Punjabis and Delhi people and when they first told me that an average middle class family wedding would be upwards of 30 lakhs, i was so shocked and this was 10 years ago.
South is no less stupid
You are so wrong,lol
@ShubhamKumar-nw1uz you can do the research and find out yourself. It's not a secret that people from the north splurge more on weddings than in the south.
There's no right or wrong, it's just what it is.
@@ShubhamKumar-nw1uz nah dude this guy is speaking facts.
I believe most of it is just dowry and jewellery so the money is not actually leaving the family.
I think we should need to think about this ,that was nice pick and 6:34 that was a cherry 🍒 on a cake with sound also 🤩
Attending a wedding , scrolling through YT and gets recommended this
Hardest part is to find a partner who is going to be fine with court marriage and saving the money for our future home/investments instead.
Even harder is making your parents and in laws agree to it. I will gladly have a court marriage but my parents will never agree😢.
@@ravenblog7 Don't give up, me and husband got interfaith court married (eloped) and had a small hindu ceremony out of respect for his parents, his parents paid for the religious ceremony and gold and everything (not exceeding 6 lakhs, 2023). Today my parents like him better than me I think 😅 and both parents purchased a flat for us with the money that would have been spend on an unnecessary grand wedding
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Okay, so first thing I wanna know is where did you get that kurta from???!!!
Can’t tell you the brand….ad hojayega 😂😂
what's 2nd thing since Prateek answered it?
@@sankuM 2nd thing to ask was, " Which diamond did he gifted to his wife, Natural or Artificial??"😂😂
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Got married in less than 10 lakhs but that included my gold jewellery preparation too. We couldn't do it in less than that even if we tried our best to reduce the costs but it rounded off to around 10 lakhs anyhow.
If Indiana stop spending on lavish weddings, dowry and gold, Indians will be more financially secure
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Doing marriages within 2 lakh or 3 rupees is Good 👍
Not possible at all due to cost. Per plate cost, catering in my place 500rs (nveg). There will be minimum 500-600guests. So 3lacs just food. Imagine the rest. I say if we can maintain under 10lacs it's econmical
reduce the number of guest
@@PawpixelsWith 500+ guests I married within 4 lakhs last month. Im from kerala.
@@Pawpixels well then why are you inviting 500-600 guests? That’s the point.
@@Pawpixelshow? Why are you using per plate system of caterers. Hire cooks and make them cook food and avoid buffet systems. Serve the food through caterers. That way the cost will be very less.
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There are some occasions in life where money shouldn't matter if you can afford it.. marriages doesn't happen twice for 99% couples in india...another case is of hospital bills...it is not wasted...there will be no entertainment left in life if we just follow investment principles
Nibba advice
What entertainment and what about financial security for future
Thank God. I don't have a social media account so no influencer can influence me 😅
But yt is there😂
@yesiexist8866 agree but I have mind also 😅
Marriage and buying a home happen once in a lifetime, bro.😊
Unless you divorce and remarry😂
divorce is there. plan finance well and you can buy second home as well
Home should be best as per ability marriage should be as low as possible best court marriages
What if marriage is not successful? Whole money will go into waste. There is no point in spending so much of hard earned money on wedding ceremoney
Average is 35L now? I thought 30 was a high bar earlier and 20 was avg. Fuck my life.
Sincere request: kindly shoot a Hindi version of this video. We need to share this to our parents
Most of people take loan outside their capacity ❤
@@ganeshsutar4214 because it's much easier to get loans now if you have salary
Why there is no ad?
Because this channel belongs to a billionaire
Hey,
Could you attach out the documents that you refer to?
It would help us also in our studies n more.
Thank You!
Just get a register marriage and invest the money saved in stocks, bonds or land
Stocks can go down but land is an asset
Yes, wedding markup is a thing now. The same venue which cost for eg 1 lakh for wedding, is getting charged 75k for a non wedding event or even less in an off season.
Nice content. Really insightful for new ones🙌🙌
4:16 pent up demand, also did you guys factor in the 1000cr Ambani wedding which might have skewed the results
U didn't mention how expensive ending the marrage can be
It can sometimes cost life too :)
Obviously for the man only
great content guys🔥🔥
I think only families earning more than 30 lakhs per annum should spend 30-50 lakhs in wedding . Spending big amount on weddings is not bad . One should have a good personal finance calculation and should know how much money is suitable for them to spend .
If you dont spend money on wedding then there is no need to spend money on anything like cars , big houses ,foreign tour .
Also saving money only make sense upto certain age .
I know people who have more than 100 acres lands and their children working in Netherlands ,uk ,germany and usa and still they live with no living standards .they live like poor people with no interests or desires . Do you still say 50 lakhs rupees is waste for them ?
Spending 30 lakhs is waste for only those people who earn very less like 5-10 lakhs per year with less properties or assets with them .
I believe that anyone should spend a maximum of their families 3-6 months income to a marriage, not more than that
3:54
The answer is simple,
The average went up because of Anant Ambani grant marriage
Rightly spoken
Best content for the boys and girls who're day-dreaming
It is a better practice to cite the source of data points in the video!
Somebody: Why do people spend too much money on weddings?
Me: Because most of us have brains in our PP to do lavish spending at weddings.
First thing is Ambani 😂 wedding is now measured to his wedding 😂
People are stupid. If ambani spends thousands of crores in their children wedding, it doesn't even affect their financial stability. These thousands crores are a very less amount comparing to Ambani's average net worth. But normal people risking their entire financial life and stability for events like wedding by taking huge amount of loans
6:46 why do north indian brides never wear sarees for their wedding? Its always lehengas... they are beautiful but the elegance of a saree is unmatched.
Spending more than ₹30 Lakh on Wedding….Ummmm personally i dont think it is good decision, instead people should only spend limited amount and deposit rest of the amount in FD or Mutual Fund…🤑💰🤑…
But moreover i personally felt it is high time indian law system introduced prenip or some law that protects men…🙇♂️
Plus because of status “lage padey hai”
Prenup is required, wives should also work, there should not be any dowry, Some part of Money saved from wedding can be used for honeymoon and other travels for better bonding between husband and wife so that less chance of divorce or alimony..
Whats the problem… lot of industries thrive due to weddings and more over its a one time thing. I would want to make it memorable and within my financial capabilities. So i think ppl should stop antagonising the grand affair. Chill guys, who u marry is ur wish and same way how u marry shall also be ur wish
Wat if u get divorced
First of all people divorce when they can,t live together.For divorce there will be different reasons.They are lots of couples who is love and supportive each other,so they married after marriage if one of them cheat his/her husband or wife,
That is problem of that person
Not about marriage
Marriage happened from long time ago
People marriage each other for get life partner,to get legitimate kids with social and legal acceptence,
After marriage if husband or wife turned to cheater,
Wife a gold digger who ask alimony without thinking about husband ,s salary that is her ;his problem not problem with marriage
.divorce happened in other countries too,
But still in india divorce is less.
And all women also not asked for alimony,there may be women who suffer after divorce,they may be women/men suffer because of toxic marriage,
So why we think about future regarding social media.
And i thik people should date people for long time then get married,live in together
To be fair Marriage in India isn't just between 2 people but between 2 families. Thats why we have to spend a lot to keep everyone happy. We aren't like the US like how they are detached from family and Friends. They usually have small wedding because they can. They are too casual with their relationships we aren't. Everything is a show for Status. In India if you need respect you need to show to people that you have money. Else no one ever cares about you.
If u go broke with wedding then none will care
Exactly but I am from neigbhouring country.yes we also considered marriage between two families.in our country they are traditional wedding according their religion.
So many people celebrate imple wedding.some get lavish wedding who are famous.people have to marriage as their status,
So why indians celebrate simple wedding with other pre celebrations too.
I see dhuruv rathee,s wedding all happened but it simple
What are the sources of the data?
It was the rich/elite who started the concept of Big Fat Weddings and the middle/lower income grup followed them. Now only the rich/elite can change the situation by setting examples of doing small weddings.
💥🤯 amazing
Great content.
Toooo much camera movement, zoom ins and outs, thoda simple rakho yaar.
Marriage matters, not wedding, for former for life stays whilst wedding slips away in a day.
Atul Subhash forgotten already?
If the marriage lasts& everybody is happy its fine. But everything ends up in divorce &stuff the money spent in vain
Earlier days there was a justification that weddings festivals etc drive economy for unorganized sector. Now with the kind of population and stressed family relationships, it is absolutely futile to spend too much.
Great information
Loss to the families involved in marriage. But a lot of money circulates into the economy . Lot traders agriculturits decorators catering services get paid. Not as bad as we think for the society as a whole
Will that same society will be there for you , when there will be financial stress in your life ?
Still its a consumption based economy and not a production based. So not really a driver towards increasing the GDP.
So good video ❤
1) a huge transaction happens in cash, that is not taxed.
2) majority of middle and lower incomes host weddings on their own lands or community halls. Even today, a decent catering costs around 4lakh for 500 people.
3) True Indian culture is of “shagun” i.e half of the cost is recovered via guests.
Its only the upper income people truly corrupting the wedding culture. Because of them other suffers, like your example of renting a tent
Well that average mostly went up due to you know whose' wedding
Maybe they took Median spending
As much as i have seen the bride and groom and their families do not spend on themselves but rather they spend all the money on their so called relatives whom they have not even seen once ...it's becoming more like pleasing everyone rather than enjoying ur special day .....and the dowry system is just worse people take big amount of loans for them and suffer through their lives
Weddings are Comedy Show!😂
Didn't you know ?
Public muraak hai mera desh ka magic😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Its simple if u are poor opt for court marriage 😊.
Don't take loan.
And if u can afford u should go for it on minimum cost. because every hindu ritual have their own importance .
Help in country economy.
And employment for people also.
Ese to yaar sab dhanda band ho jayega kafi local worker ki roji roti chin jayegi.
Indian wedding are famous in world because of the fun and glamour ab use ek din ka rangarang karyakaram banado paper pe sign karke😂
U don't have much knowledge if ur marriage goes bad which business owner will come in ur aid 😂
@adityadas6638 marriage achi chal gayi to🤔.
Yahan to shadi ki hi baat kar rahe h ap life kafi esi chije h jinpe hum spend karte h or jaroori nhi h ki us chij me safal hi ho to kya pesa dubara wapas lene jate h kya?
Or saaf bola h agar apke pass h to ye sab kare nhi to koi jarurat nhi bhai🤞🙌
@roshnirajput1162 so u want to spend that much on chances 🤣🤣
@roshnirajput1162 on which unnecessary things u spend 20 lakhs 🤣🤣
What if the marriage goes bad?
The wedding cost is always a point of contention in divorce cases
please create this video in hindi, want to show this to our parents
GO MARRY AT SADGURUS PLACE
Am an introvert genz have years fo get married but u already know my plan: few guest, small location, close friends and relatives ( well wkshers ) no photoshoots and other cringe, just fun and games
Great 👌🏻👌🏻
bhaiii sun meri shaadi meri marzi mera paisaaa ptaaa nhi sbkooo aaajkl kyuu gyaaaan denaaa h haar cheezz maiii bhaii haar cheez har activity indians ki tumko west se compare krni h like whyyy its a subjective choice my money whatever i do and why u guys never tell anything +ve ? okh then let me tell youuu 1. the money which spend in wedding seasons are somehow goes back to the economy only .2 many small vendors are dependent on weddings and mainly the expensive things like jewellery are bought during this time only which is a great investment. 3 wedding season provides a great healthy environment in a society unlike the depressed societies of west ! and more examples … the point is just that there are some -ve aspects tooo but why always being -ve for the indian culture onlyy yes sometimes people go out of their limits but at the end its individual choice ! ⁉️⁉️❗️❗️‼️
Yes you are right bro , not everyone spend 30 lakh in their wedding only those can afford it and if someone is doing for showoff then it's their personal life
Very true, and not everything in life should be calculated financially, many things are for emotional satisfaction
India is consumption based economy not production based
Okay, but how to do weddings in budget like 10 lakhs? Just the clothes are like 5 lakhs+ pant shirts for every men and sarees and lehenga for every woman, if we even consider 100 people. And the food, pandit, workers, flowers, hall, cards etc are like basics which can’t be ignored by anyone 🤷🏻.
Why do we go for such expensive clothing for one day event
I agree that big weddings have an impact on our economy, but u can't justify the impact it is having on on the society especially the lower n middle income grup.
i thoguht so until i became a teen and realised indian families only ever meet togehter at weddings
they serve as a crucial stone of preserving our family values and ties...everyone under one roof once in a few decades
@@devanshsaraf4142Then only one function can be economical, no Haldi, Sangeet etc. And not everyone is blessed with good family. Those who are, can call everyone for wedding
Ask those who sold these services and products
The sensational music is unnecessary and distracting, takes away from the credibility of the content
Better not to use Instagram and reels from UA-cam and FB.
i still regret that i spent 25 lakhs approx on my wedding that too in 2015. investing would have been better option
9 saal shadi acche se chal gayi bahut hai yaha aajkal saal do saal me divorce ho rahe hai , isi baat pe khush raho bas.
Prateek, let's talk about taxes
wedding days are Long gone bro, indian youth is not marrying anymore
Actually it has become norm in our society to spend money on marriages because we attend costly maariages .
Suppose your father works in a office and is in a descent position in govt or private sector. Now the children of all your father's colleagues are getting married and most of them are spending above 20-30-50 lakhs . So now it creates fomo for your father as well as you to spend like them to avoid troll of colleagues .
Infact we also call people kanjoos, makhi choos (miser) if some spends very less even though he is earning very well . And we make fun of them and see them like gross . Because i have various experiences of attending from 5 lakh to 70 lakh worth weddings and 5 lakh and 70 lakh are spent by colleagues of my father for their children . And those below 10 lakh wedding were always mocked as kanjoos dehati marriage by others .
Also there is one more problem that if you have to invite the person who invited you in his daughter's or son's wedding even though you don't feel like having a proper connection and that increases the reception party food cost per plate .
I think we should only invite our close friends ,neighbours ,relatives with whom we talk regularly and spend time with them occassionally . There is no need to invite those with whom we talk or meet once a year or even neighbours who are just neighbours .
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That 11L difference and Ambani's wedding should have something to do right?
Nirmala Tai will add 28% GsT tax for this also
You don't need to impress the society, the society doesn't come to rescue you when chips are down ,we don't need to show or impress and for who?
Investing that 36 L would go so crazy
ohh come on this doesnt need this long video,we know why