Figure Out What You Want (& What To Do About It Right Now)

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  • @Luxuberrys
    @Luxuberrys Рік тому +596

    Amazing. Thank you for sharing! The only thing for the other viewers: always keep your goals/manifestation positive. E.G instead of “debt free” put “All my bills are always paid off in full” That way “debt” don’t stay in your subconscious mind.

    • @thethriftyfawn
      @thethriftyfawn Рік тому +18

      Oh, NIIIIIIICE! 😊

    • @solange3172
      @solange3172 Рік тому +23

      you actually don't need to do that! people use negation all the time and say "I never get sick" things like that and still manifest perfectly bc your subconscious isn't stupid it knows what you mean anyway

    • @kristendrayton
      @kristendrayton Рік тому

      Yes!

    • @ilakaizen4926
      @ilakaizen4926 Рік тому

      ​@@solange3172i agree, everytime i say 'i am productive' it doesn't change my doings as fast n effective than i say 'dont be lazy move now'..

  • @WorldAccordingToBriggs
    @WorldAccordingToBriggs Рік тому +354

    I started watching this channel around 5 or 6 years ago. I think the video was about vlogging work flow. At the time I had less than 1000 subs. I got a lot of good advice from this channel even though I'm really not the normal demographic for this channel. Flash forward to today, I have 1 million subs on this channel, 50k on my second channel, and 30k on 3rd. I have 6 employees and haven't had a straight job in 4 years. Thanks for the help along the way.

    • @oyinkansolaadekoya4927
      @oyinkansolaadekoya4927 Рік тому +20

      wow, that’s amazing and inspiring, I hope to find success like you did 🎉

    • @holamissmusica
      @holamissmusica Рік тому +7

      Amazing. Congratulations to you!

    • @AmyTV
      @AmyTV  Рік тому +27

      Wow! 🙏🏻 Congratulations!

    • @shawnjohnson2833
      @shawnjohnson2833 Рік тому +5

      I love your channel @worldaccordingtoBriggs

    • @Simmeryyy
      @Simmeryyy Рік тому +14

      Give your girl a shout out and cameo on your channel! Give back in the best ways ☺️

  • @s2304030
    @s2304030 Рік тому +177

    I’m currently unemployed and looking for a job, I feel anxious all the time. Yesterday I discovered your channel, I grabbed the journal and started brainstorming. Gotta say this is helpful for my anxiety, not only push me to be more eager about finding a new job, but also help me figure out every step which it’s used to be a mess inside my head. I feel like I can do so much more. Thanks for making these awesome videos!

    • @fashionscentts
      @fashionscentts Рік тому +11

      ❤ I'm in that boat with you. Also brainstorming today.

    • @JT14-rz7fx
      @JT14-rz7fx Рік тому +2

      I'm wishing you so much luck I hope you find or found a job that you enjoy!

  • @user82194
    @user82194 Рік тому +13

    This is the first UA-cam I have ever seen on this platform where a content creator made a video on realistic, actual steps on how to set and achieve goals. Everyone else either talks and doesn’t SHOW what or how to do it. Thank you so much for this video.

  • @cloveskiwis
    @cloveskiwis Рік тому +67

    Yes, "have, be do" are great and all that but what has helped improve my life tremendously is asking myself how I want to FEEL and go from there. This puts everything else in perspective, because it takes the impulsivity out of it - e.g., wanting things just for the sake of having them now turns into wanting things with the aim of improving life quality and therefore making me feel good

  • @liana2136
    @liana2136 Рік тому +198

    Thank you for this. I can't help but wonder... why is life such a complicated struggle? My grandma lived without need for so much strategizing. All of her friends, same. Simple but rewarding lives with their own homes and enough income to be comfortable. It's so hard now, with households needing multiple jobs and side hustles. Why?? Who decided it should be this way?? And why is corruption so rampant? The wrong people have had too much power over us.

    • @gray_mara
      @gray_mara Рік тому +83

      The past was not perfect. Corruption was far more rampant in my grandparents' day. Back then, there were few unions and men worked 80 hour weeks at hard, dangerous jobs and barely made enough to live on. Women worked hard at home all day long.
      They strategized like you wouldn't believe. They counted every penny and worried about paying bills. They worried about having enough food for the children. They worried about the children dying from snakebite because there was no way to get to town for medical care. They worried about the drifters who passed through the stations looking for work or something to steal.
      When my father joined the Army in WW2, they gave him a duffel bag for his possessions. He didn't have anything to put in it, so he just folded it flat. He had never slept in a bed in his life. He had never even heard music or seen a telephone.
      Life was hard in the past. It wasn't as easy and simple as it seems from a distance. And there have always been people who were more privileged, as there are today. The average person today is far more privileged than 99% of humanity through history, especially women.
      We are so lucky today that so many of us can make choices about what we want in life, and go after those goals. Living a simple, happy life is an amazing goal. What would it take for you? What would it look like in practice? What sacrifices would it entail and are you willing to make them? I wish you every happiness and success.

    • @thurst3224
      @thurst3224 Рік тому +29

      Liana....I agree with the comment below. They had much smaller houses, a lot less stuff to put in those houses to manage, smaller closets, 1 family car, etc. Almost nothing was disposable, eating out was rare, kids wore hand me downs as a normal way of life, and young children worked in whatever way was appropriate to help the family. Their stress was just different than ours. My grandparents didn't have air conditioning, worked 2 jobs (yes both had a side hustle), and raised 3 kids in a 2 bedroom house. You can be rich by making more or wanting less. I choose to want less...makes me happier and less stressed. The "Joneses" are always in debt....

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 Рік тому +8

      You can have that if you cut stuff out. Keep your living expenses low. Move into a smaller place. Lower your heating bills. Don’t buy anything your grandma wouldn’t have bought. Save your money. You won’t need a side hustle. You’ll have plenty of money saved in no time.
      And if you feel unmotivated to live this way, you could just decide to live in a way that’s better for the planet and you’ll most likely accomplish the same thing.

    • @tnijoo5109
      @tnijoo5109 Рік тому +14

      Another tip: don’t buy new cars!!! Huge waste of money. Buy used cars and take care of them like your grandparents would have. And don’t finance them. Save money. Buy them outright.

    • @fashionscentts
      @fashionscentts Рік тому +7

      1. As others have said, people lived simpler: within their means, less materialistic, and without social media telling us what we should want/need/do.
      2. There is nothing new under the sun...political corruption has always been around in some way or another.
      3. More openly believed in God. His way is so much better than ours.

  • @julie61805
    @julie61805 Рік тому +89

    I have been striving to keep my Sundays focused on three things - my faith, my family and my future, and making sure the media I consume on those days is also aligned with those intentions. Love that I am able to enjoy your videos the day they come out and having them positively contribute to my focus for the day. 🎉

    • @katrinabrown3561
      @katrinabrown3561 Рік тому +1

      Heeey I do that too!

    • @fashionscentts
      @fashionscentts Рік тому

      ❤ Same, same! There is this verse I've been using: Luke 21:34 “And take heed to yourselves, lest at any time your hearts be overcharged with surfeiting, and drunkenness, and cares of this life, and so that day come upon you unawares.” The cares of this life can take our focus off God so quickly. It doesn't mean be negligent with our responsibilities, but we can give too much thought to them rather than entrusting our care to God.

  • @DrOcampo
    @DrOcampo Рік тому +9

    I also do NOT have $100 million in my bank. But now I’ve got a 100 million ideas on how to plan ahead. I feel as though we are always so short-sighted, that we lose track of our long-term approach to goals. Thanks again ❤🎉

  • @whitneywalker2085
    @whitneywalker2085 Рік тому +37

    I love this because there is action to everything. One of my big setbacks is I am good at making lists but not executing them. I love that this is slow and steady means to big changes.

  • @triciac6531
    @triciac6531 10 місяців тому

    Love this, it’s helped me start a business ❤🎉

  • @g.williams9922
    @g.williams9922 24 дні тому

    I absolutely LOVED this video! I’m definitely going to watch it again when my hands are free to do this exercise alongside you!

  • @tokkasjoberg
    @tokkasjoberg Рік тому +29

    This video is 15mins long and I genuinely didn’t notice the time like I was way too focused to actually care and I usually do care about video timing! THAT is how much I love and enjoy your videos ♥️♥️♥️

  • @suzisaintjames
    @suzisaintjames Рік тому +13

    If bagels are a vice... Don't cut them out. Start out with ... One bagel every other day. Then once a week, then as a treat. But feeling deprived is bad, bad, bad. 💖🌞🌵😷

    • @gray_mara
      @gray_mara Рік тому +7

      I had to cut out coffee from the start of the year because money was tight. However, I still have 1 coffee a week (with donuts, because coffee and donuts at the food court is cheaper than coffee in a cafe).
      It's such a treat now. I look forward to it every week. I take my notebook and work on my stories and that half hour is sacred.
      I had to cut out eating out and junk food, too, but that means I have delicious homemade food, with cakes and cookies and slices for sweets. I feel more organised and I've never enjoyed eating so much!

  • @jadasugar22
    @jadasugar22 Рік тому +6

    Girly, this is perfect. I love how you broke everything down making the “unrealistic” feel so much easier to accomplish!

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 Рік тому +1

    This is a fun and helpful exercise, thank you. It struck me how different all of our goals will be too so its interesting hearing others goals. I'm already ok at Italian since I studied a languages degree and I'd never even thought of it as a goal people would aim for so that cheered me up and made me feel better about myself. My goals are to get a well paid part time job I enjoy that supports me, with accommodations for my health. To start my own small business, and to buy a house with a garden. I'd also love to find a loving relationship and adopt some rescue animals, probably one or two dogs, one or two cats, some chickens and maybe a goat.

  • @ValentinaGulpe
    @ValentinaGulpe Рік тому +1

    What a fantastic channel to stumble upon! From one creator to another GREAT WORK!

  • @SinianLiu
    @SinianLiu Рік тому

    Your voice is so inspiring. Love you!

  • @CrisTryingToBeProductive
    @CrisTryingToBeProductive Рік тому +8

    I find this new style so fun to watch and I'm getting your message clearer than ever. Thanks Amy.

  • @thethriftyfawn
    @thethriftyfawn Рік тому +5

    EPIIIIIIIC. And Amy, DUDE- I am CERTAIN you'll be at 500k next month! 😄

  • @LanaKalmann
    @LanaKalmann Рік тому +7

    I love how you shared in the beginning about thinking what you don't want. A lot of times, sadly, people are not clear with their goals and what they want. So taking what you don't want, really helps to see what you actually want! Great job! Love your content❤

  • @bonnybeyer1918
    @bonnybeyer1918 Рік тому

    Love this! Cracked up at “vibey” furniture 😆

  • @Harmanaujla_
    @Harmanaujla_ Рік тому

    Thank you Amy sending lots of love ❤️

  • @shazzia4
    @shazzia4 Рік тому +2

    Im so glad I found your channel today. I really like your advice, speaking style and editing. Subscribed ❤

  • @yourbrandstrategist9735
    @yourbrandstrategist9735 Рік тому +1

    Amy, I can totally help with the 5 min Italian conversation. I’m actually planning to do the right opposite, 5 min English conversation for Italians and I whish it could happen for me, in Japanese. Not a language teacher, but still… which might be even better! 🤷🏻‍♀

  • @destinywilson3162
    @destinywilson3162 Рік тому +5

    Your helping lives I just discovered your channel not to long ago keep going !!❤👍

  • @ariela_
    @ariela_ Рік тому +4

    Omg you’ve been doing UA-cam for 12 years?! That’s amazing

    • @AmyTV
      @AmyTV  Рік тому +3

      Actually 15 🥰 I’ve had a few channels.

  • @amandatorresrealtor
    @amandatorresrealtor Рік тому +9

    Hey Amy!! I'm loving these videos you're putting out lately!! You're hard work is much appreciated!!!!

  • @lukewilliams4782
    @lukewilliams4782 Рік тому

    Great video, thank you for sharing!

  • @merlionkingdom
    @merlionkingdom Рік тому +2

    Wake up guys! Amy posted a banger! ✨😊

  • @19Tomma93
    @19Tomma93 Рік тому +6

    Hi Amy, I love this idea! Saved the video to review it every six months to define my road map. ✨ This is so valuable for people like me that tend to get stuck mid-year on the yearly goals setted at the beginning of the year. This strategy applied after a 6 month review will surelly sprint me up! Thank you so much to you and Tim Ferris for this brilliant ideas! 💛

  • @mandilyn1384
    @mandilyn1384 Рік тому +4

    Hi, new sub :) This breakdown is so helpful for anyone who wants more in life but hasn’t yet figured out how to achieve it

  • @emiliagetsproductive
    @emiliagetsproductive Рік тому

    This is a good starting point and I benefited from writing down my goals without limiting myself by what I think is possible, but I also think that Tim simplified this strategy a bit too much by confining the actionable steps to just 5 minutes. If you feel lost and confused, it might work, but let's not fool ourselves, 5 minutes a day isn't enough to bring us closer to any significant goal.

  • @janegardner604
    @janegardner604 Рік тому +2

    Perfect subject for me today!
    Thank you! ❤😊🙏

  • @ShawnyTheGremlin.
    @ShawnyTheGremlin. Рік тому +2

    Literally the blueprint! Thank you ! 💋

  • @lisacupcake5777
    @lisacupcake5777 Рік тому +2

    See you with 500k subscribers in 6 months

  • @MadeleineTayloranne
    @MadeleineTayloranne 11 місяців тому

    You’re very much on track for the 500k subscribers in 6mo :))

  • @mufeedatk
    @mufeedatk Рік тому +1

    I subscribed because of ur goal 😊
    Its an incredible idea, thank u so much ❤

  • @thethriftyfawn
    @thethriftyfawn Рік тому +7

    If you're addicted to sesame seed bagels, here's a HACK... wash and slice some sweet potatoes into "fries" or wedges, put them in a bowl, add one tablespoon of olive oil, some sea salt, and sprinkle on some sesame seeds (add pepper too if you want!). Toss them in the bowl, then place on a cookie sheet, and bake them in the oven at 425F for 20 minutes, turning them at the 10 minute markpoint.
    No joke- they're these crisp sweet potato fries with toasted sesame, and they're sweet and salty, but SOFT on the inside and TASTE LIKE SESAME SEED BAGELS!!!
    Enjoy!!! 😃

    • @gray_mara
      @gray_mara Рік тому +1

      That sounds delicious!

    • @thethriftyfawn
      @thethriftyfawn Рік тому +1

      @@gray_mara It is!!! I figured it out by accident when making a batch of oven roasted sweet potato fries- I saw the sesame seeds in the spice pantry when reaching for the salt and pepper, and thought to myself... WHY NOT!!! Lol 😊

  • @giuliapetrella6367
    @giuliapetrella6367 Рік тому +1

    Wow! This is EXACTLY what I needed right now, thanks a million, Amy! 💖

  • @nkenglydia6874
    @nkenglydia6874 Рік тому

    Greatly helping video

  • @carolmendes2011
    @carolmendes2011 Рік тому

    Love it! ❤

  • @tumblingrosesstudio
    @tumblingrosesstudio Рік тому

    THANK YOU- I love this channel and Heidi Prieb'es video on FollowThru- they combine for a POWERFUL dose of GET AFTER IT! I've created a 3 day rolling task spreadsheet. Every day I need to 'do the thing' and add the "Next Day" that falls into the 72 hour window. *TADA* and I'm doing it!

  • @Kelesitse.m
    @Kelesitse.m Рік тому

    New subscriber here 💃🏽💃🏽. I honestly hit subscribe because of your personality. And i didn’t regret hitting play because you are amazing.

  • @ash_taylor
    @ash_taylor Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video. I'm happy to be one more subscriber towards your 500k goal.

  • @geletbread
    @geletbread Рік тому +2

    This was one of your best videos! So helpful!!! 😊

  • @Enneawha-cha-ma-callit
    @Enneawha-cha-ma-callit Рік тому

    This is surprisingly helpful. Thank you so much!

  • @antoya225
    @antoya225 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this!

  • @LoveVegie
    @LoveVegie Рік тому +1

    Just want to say thank you so much , your videos , explanations and wisdom is awesome! You are spreading a lot of great light and helping so many. I really love these ideas and writing these habits and goals, breaking them down into smaller sections is so helpful. Keep shining beautiful!!! Have a blessed day xxxx

  • @ItsMe_Yasel
    @ItsMe_Yasel Рік тому +1

    I can't remember what I was searching for 😂 but I found you and now I'm subscribed 🎉🎉. Since I'm new here wheres the binder from?? I love it.

  • @serenitytrevino1561
    @serenitytrevino1561 Рік тому +2

    Dang, Amy. You wrote my list for me! 🤣 Love this video. It’s inspiring. 💚

  • @Carolina-ej1sn
    @Carolina-ej1sn Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much, Amy. Just getting started for October🌱
    And I don't have that "entrepreneur friend"so I'd like to ask for initial advice in this comment anyone who could help with creating a business from scratch.
    Very grateful in advance🙏

  • @BB-yr4md
    @BB-yr4md Рік тому

    This is 🎉and 😎 and 🏆😊 Thank you!! This is one vid I'll keep coming back to 🤗🙌

  • @sarahzaza7251
    @sarahzaza7251 Рік тому

    I don't know your chanel yet, but I'm subscribing for letting have that 1 million youtube subscrivers 😊

  • @katietomlinson3136
    @katietomlinson3136 Рік тому

    Thank you! I needed this video. I’ve gotten stuck in the realistic dreams and the expectations of the people around me.

  • @loveros5930
    @loveros5930 Рік тому

    I love love love it!!!!!

  • @stewiegriffin1938
    @stewiegriffin1938 Рік тому

    This video is incredible it was destined to be in my recommended. Checked out so many other videos of other ppl and it just didnt excite me

  • @raisedbywolves92
    @raisedbywolves92 Рік тому

    You are so captivating and helpful! More people need to find your channel! ⭐

  • @chuchu5923
    @chuchu5923 Рік тому +3

    Your goals look realistic. I imagine unrealistic goals like “become a magician”, “fly into space” or something like that lol. But I get the idea, thanks

  • @jenniferteacher449
    @jenniferteacher449 Рік тому

    Loved this

  • @DosesOfUniqueness
    @DosesOfUniqueness Рік тому +3

    Great videos-/ can some share the link to the gold notebook?

  • @jz5005
    @jz5005 Рік тому

    I’m going to do this in the revere order:
    - Be
    - Do
    - Have

  • @lajourdanne
    @lajourdanne Рік тому +1

    Another friggin amazing video, Amy!

  • @kristinellis7654
    @kristinellis7654 Рік тому

    What is the brand of your gold planner cover? LOVE it!

  • @outinarizona
    @outinarizona Рік тому +1

    I have this book; picked it up at a thrift store for a couple of bucks. I read about half-way and got bored and it's on my shelf gathering dust. Didn't fire me up, but then I'm already working on my goals my own way. Again, it's a method he created for himself to solve his working long overtime hours in the IT boom of Silicon Valley and he was tired of killing himself that way. The questions he asks have been around for a long time.

  • @emmaponymous
    @emmaponymous Рік тому +8

    I'm loving these guided exercise/work videos! ❤ -- and if you succeed negotiating cc aprs, please make a video abt it 😅

  • @N5555b
    @N5555b Рік тому

    Wonderful method! Thanks for sharing🙂

  • @ellabella7071
    @ellabella7071 Рік тому

    I absolutely love how you've created this video ❤

  • @vittoriavanessa700
    @vittoriavanessa700 Рік тому +1

    Grazie 💓

  • @michellehoang576
    @michellehoang576 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing a good tip for an action plan. I feel like I am always stuck with a list, but no action step taken.

  • @AwwesomeVal
    @AwwesomeVal Рік тому

    I actually knew 5 things I wanted to do before the others. I really struggled with who I want to be and what I want to have after listing health insurance.

  • @ievalaukyte-gaule5659
    @ievalaukyte-gaule5659 Рік тому

    Your advices inspire to take action!immediately!
    Also - ravishing lipstick! What is the name/number of it?

  • @rocioiribe5841
    @rocioiribe5841 Рік тому

    there's a very similar list that Muchelleb talks about and it's doing the Antivision and i think that's a great compliment to this.

  • @whitemageFFXI
    @whitemageFFXI Рік тому +2

    I'll have to figure out how to make this work for me. No way do I have the mental bandwidth to work on 5 - 15 different projects every day. If I gave myself a whole week to get one step of one project done, I could probably start making some progress, then maybe start getting motivated to add more steps or more projects over time.

  • @judyconte6566
    @judyconte6566 Рік тому +3

    I'm working on a to-do list of my own everyday.Just looking at my own list never mind the possibility of a list like this is completely overwhelming, daunting and depressing. Who has time to do all those little things every day even if they only take a few minutes. Life is overwhelming as it is. I say pick out the one most important thing and work with laser focus on that thing and that thing alone. Once you've reached that goal you can move on to the next thing but combining them like this divides your attention so much that you'll never get any of them done unless you're an exceedingly high achiever which most people are not.

    • @csrksr
      @csrksr Рік тому

      Totally agree, 15 times 5 minutes is already 75 minutes. And I doubt it would only take me 5 minutes for each of the tasks. The general idea though is good. I would limit it to less goals, not more than 1 max 2 per section.

  • @suzisaintjames
    @suzisaintjames Рік тому +1

    Pork was the easiest to eliminate as chicken breast is such an easy substitute for pork. 💖🌞🌵😷

  • @xosahara
    @xosahara Рік тому

    I hope you get to 1M (new subbie)

  • @SunniSide1
    @SunniSide1 Рік тому

    Count me towards one of your 500k 🎉. I just found you and this is amazing. New subscriber here 🥳

  • @jz5005
    @jz5005 Рік тому

    As someone who typically spreads himself too think… I’d recommend, to myself at least, to focus this down to two items in each category…

  • @farahbacchus4966
    @farahbacchus4966 Рік тому +1

    Can you please share the link for your beautiful gold discbound notebook

  • @suzisaintjames
    @suzisaintjames Рік тому

    Great video today! 👍. 💖🌞🌵😷

  • @pershae88
    @pershae88 Рік тому

    Amazing. Thank you

  • @sccrespoc
    @sccrespoc Рік тому +5

    It is suc an american thing to prioritize (thing first) on getting things (really shinny things). Only second it comes what you wanna be, and only third what you wat to do. I've been studying budism for a while and what to do and who I am are the priority, and it makes life more satisfactory. Take the "want"away. Also, I really don't know how I ended in this channel.

  • @alexandramack8932
    @alexandramack8932 Рік тому

    Thank you! I needed this video

  • @stephanieh9730
    @stephanieh9730 Рік тому +1

    Where is your notebook from love it

  • @semolinasemolina8327
    @semolinasemolina8327 11 місяців тому

    438k subscribers today!

  • @erintannehill
    @erintannehill Рік тому +2

    Super helpful video! Breaking these down like this actually doesn't seem as overwhelming as I thought it would. Also, totally subscribed to help you get one person closer to your 500k goal! :)

  • @milliondolargirl
    @milliondolargirl Рік тому

    Thanks, Amy

  • @cleaneropinion111
    @cleaneropinion111 Рік тому

    I've planned on 100 millions too! I was like nobody is gonna push that much. 😂😂☝👍

  • @KeliOConnor
    @KeliOConnor Рік тому

    Amazing video! But can I ask-what is that lip color? Because it’s perfect

  • @PearlyRose734
    @PearlyRose734 Рік тому

    Thank you ❤

  • @kahea85
    @kahea85 Рік тому

    Just came across your channel and so far I'm into it. You got a new subscriber 🤗

  • @evabeharkova9926
    @evabeharkova9926 Рік тому +1

    Super

  • @bre-dp5qc
    @bre-dp5qc Рік тому

    Love the video! Where is the iPad case from?

  • @debspringchannel831
    @debspringchannel831 Рік тому

    Thank you .... I love your channel

  • @getstickywithniccie
    @getstickywithniccie Рік тому

    YOUR SOO PRETTYY

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 Рік тому

    Love this ❤

  • @tameramanns5481
    @tameramanns5481 Рік тому +1

    What do we do after we write the 15 things and the next 2 days? I’m going to listen to the video again. Mount I missed something!

  • @laquintaford6092
    @laquintaford6092 Рік тому

    I don’t have any plans. Let it go

  • @hettygreen1488
    @hettygreen1488 Рік тому +1

    wait. what do you do after you accomplish the day after tomorrow? some days will not have action, some actions will not produce outcome?

  • @cgretam1594
    @cgretam1594 Рік тому

    I want to look that pretty while folding laundry