GIRL CHAT: Should You Stop Treating Your Man Like One of Your Girlfriends?

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  • Опубліковано 30 сер 2019
  • Real fam, do you think there should be a difference between how you treat your man and your girls?
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  • @jakerose6949
    @jakerose6949 4 роки тому +2179

    I died when Adrienne said, “Lemme find out you a second dad to these kids.” 😂😂😂

  • @rachaelbrown4471
    @rachaelbrown4471 4 роки тому +842

    tam: “I feel like i talk too much”
    loni: “speak yo truth”
    😂😂😂

  • @HappilyNappy000
    @HappilyNappy000 4 роки тому +2053

    No one gossips more than a married couple. My husbands my best friend. We talk about EVERYTHING!!! And its fun to get the male perspective on things. We have great conversations and I love that

    • @4knewt505
      @4knewt505 4 роки тому +54

      That's so sweet. I used to have that and I have friends who have that. Btw, really like your profile name

    • @ceairamgivens1052
      @ceairamgivens1052 4 роки тому +73

      Right?? I’d be so sad if I couldn’t gossip with my husband! Whenever I get the tea he’s the first one I wanna spill to 😂Sometimes he’ll text me from work like “Baby when I get home I got some CHISME!!!!” (Chisme is gossip in Spanish lol)

    • @bye230
      @bye230 4 роки тому +4

      HappilyNappy000 agreed

    • @bremarie3442
      @bremarie3442 4 роки тому +19

      I get it. But there's a separation of gossip. My husband and I gossip not all the time but we spills the tea. But there's some womanly gossips I dont tell him or if I do I keep it brief because he not gonna listen or have anything to add to the convo/gossip like my girlfriend. But it also depends on the type of husband you have. My husband wants to stay in the loop with whats going on with me how I feel and stuff. And if Im not sharing asap he gets a lil mad. But as a woman we do need to keep certain things t o ourselves, so remember that.

    • @allysonevans7783
      @allysonevans7783 4 роки тому +14

      OMG my fiance is SOOO gossipy!! I love it! He can't wait to get home to tell ms what's happening at his job! Lol ( I used to work there too!)

  • @EleashaD
    @EleashaD 4 роки тому +2135

    I'm so tired how people keep putting these "rules" or what to do or what not do on relationships, at the end of the day, every relationship is different smh🙄🙄🙄🙄

    • @bananaaix
      @bananaaix 4 роки тому +25

      eleasha dorvil this 💯

    • @Grace-mr8bc
      @Grace-mr8bc 4 роки тому +7

      Preach.

    • @natashamitchell8863
      @natashamitchell8863 4 роки тому +24

      True, but some of these rules make good sense & can help someone along their journey of discovering what will & what will not work for them.

    • @sophiejohnson8416
      @sophiejohnson8416 4 роки тому +3

      eleasha dorvil they aren’t “rules” they’re suggesting IM smh

    • @elenavernet8376
      @elenavernet8376 4 роки тому

      eleasha dorvil exactly

  • @bethanyraegant9056
    @bethanyraegant9056 4 роки тому +297

    Adrienne “let me find out you a second dad to these kids” 😂😂😂 I love the fact that they finish each other’s sentences!

  • @JoshuaOtusanya
    @JoshuaOtusanya 4 роки тому +1499

    These women are so damn beautiful!! Just like whoever is reading this comment :)

  • @mgmtgirlyeah7493
    @mgmtgirlyeah7493 4 роки тому +1644

    Jeannie is the only one who really got what Iyanla meant. She wasn't talking about gossipy men or men who talk about fashion (which btw doesn't make a man effeminate). She meant that men and women can have different viewpoints and you're not going to get your point across if you only focus on how a woman would interpret the situation.

  • @temitopedavid5508
    @temitopedavid5508 4 роки тому +558

    ”I'm not gonna go broke tryna prove I'm not broke to you!✊🏾😭🤩” Loniiiiiiiii!!! Periotttttttttt😘😘

    • @Malikx99
      @Malikx99 4 роки тому

      Blue Watermelon 212 lol

  • @dezeraejames7934
    @dezeraejames7934 4 роки тому +746

    Loni not Tamera's rent-a-friend, she's Tamera's rent-a-husband.

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 4 роки тому +14

      That made me uncomfortable

    • @dezeraejames7934
      @dezeraejames7934 4 роки тому +5

      @@Nokss87 What made you uncomfortable?

    • @naturallycurlynicole4419
      @naturallycurlynicole4419 4 роки тому +5

      @@dezeraejames7934 the fact that you said rent-a- husband. Duh lol

    • @dinh5532
      @dinh5532 4 роки тому +9

      Same but I felt like Loni likes being the dude.

    • @rochelleborden4825
      @rochelleborden4825 4 роки тому

      Yesss and I love it 😂💕

  • @vanessawalker5366
    @vanessawalker5366 4 роки тому +349

    You can tell Loni is a true friend. Like super dependable and trustworthy. Thats a blessing to have friends like that, bc they definitely not making then like anymore

  • @Vajeakwa
    @Vajeakwa 4 роки тому +365

    I swear I’m Tamara “Can u come over?” “Can I cook for u?”.
    I gotta stop treating my girlfriends like boyfriends😭😂

    • @haveagoodday629
      @haveagoodday629 4 роки тому +41

      What?!!!! How do I find friends like you? Girl, I would kill for someone to call me with "can I cook for you?" I get calls and texts now from my boyfriend asking me to come over.... But when I go, I'm the one doing the cooking. I'm tired! Sometimes I want to be treated like the boyfriend! 😂😂😂

    • @amyrodriguez7621
      @amyrodriguez7621 4 роки тому +7

      Lmao this is so me. But my girls love when I cook.

    • @Vajeakwa
      @Vajeakwa 4 роки тому +4

      Have a Good Day it’s bitter sweet lol. My friends and even my sister are like “girl 🙄 I’m not ur man” lol

    • @blacknsmallbuys
      @blacknsmallbuys 4 роки тому +3

      I end up being that for my friends. I parent their kids and eat well whenever we hangout

    • @dashakae2822
      @dashakae2822 4 роки тому +1

      Meeee❗😂

  • @cerisereid
    @cerisereid 4 роки тому +245

    Lonnie and Tams friendship is the Cutest! 😂😊

  • @melindamilian3624
    @melindamilian3624 4 роки тому +402

    I love Tamera and Loni's friendship! 🤗

  • @jae9581
    @jae9581 4 роки тому +101

    My man is super manly lmao but he be like “ Girllllllllll let me tell you this tea” he does it to entertain me😂

    • @dare2be520
      @dare2be520 4 роки тому +9

      i like that, fr

    • @jae9581
      @jae9581 4 роки тому +14

      Dare 2be me too makes my whole day and he does it all while we shopping for his tools at Home Depot 😂

    • @yanisamontour2546
      @yanisamontour2546 4 роки тому +5

      @@jae9581 😂😂😂 i can picture it

  • @wynsdaywhite6463
    @wynsdaywhite6463 4 роки тому +831

    Heads Up...ALL MEN GOSSIP

    • @strawberriesncandii
      @strawberriesncandii 4 роки тому +34

      Dree Dream That’s so true. They talk mad mess.

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk 4 роки тому +59

      Dree Dream Right they just do it differently so it sounds manly. Lol. Like "guess what dude at the job did today?"

    • @shonnie1203
      @shonnie1203 4 роки тому +41

      All people. Humans are social creatures. Gossiping is a social thing.

    • @thatruth8900
      @thatruth8900 4 роки тому +5

      Not true

    • @dreamyanon5151
      @dreamyanon5151 4 роки тому

      The Truth please don't let it be true 😭

  • @diaviw9136
    @diaviw9136 4 роки тому +120

    when loni said “speak your truth” I DIED

  • @lexicarrillo9544
    @lexicarrillo9544 4 роки тому +152

    “Let me find out you a second dad to these kids” 😂😂😂😂

  • @desireeaniya72
    @desireeaniya72 4 роки тому +137

    Adrienne this outfit is EVERYTHING! so classy and sheek ☁️✨

  • @JahealJ
    @JahealJ 4 роки тому +291

    I want me and my partner to talk about anything we want. How bout That?

    • @danix6452
      @danix6452 4 роки тому +6

      Jaymar Johnson yessss

    • @ricardomoseley
      @ricardomoseley 3 роки тому

      I’m not telling y’all a second time

  • @reneeramoleta6262
    @reneeramoleta6262 4 роки тому +115

    I agree with Jeannie, once you hang around your crush & absorb that they’re normal, you’ll get over them

  • @nicoledavis6344
    @nicoledavis6344 4 роки тому +98

    Tamera is so pretty love the red and her curls!

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 4 роки тому +885

    Adrianne is such a scorpio haha they hate talking about their feelings 😂

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 4 роки тому +62

      Or themselves in depth lol

    • @evanaayuzawa6981
      @evanaayuzawa6981 4 роки тому +9

      Omg I wanted to write that hahahahaha 😂

    • @Shawnta.realestate
      @Shawnta.realestate 4 роки тому +51

      Omg not true. We’re deeply emotional and love to talk about emotions.... or maybe I’m broken

    • @aliciapursue8351
      @aliciapursue8351 4 роки тому +4

      We can't help it!

    • @kellydamaris7299
      @kellydamaris7299 4 роки тому +5

      @@Shawnta.realestate your moon sign may not be scorpio. Download horos app and find out what it is! & let us know! Lol

  • @brookelauren3668
    @brookelauren3668 4 роки тому +39

    when tam said “it’s too late now boo i’m married”😂😂😂

  • @eduardatonga7056
    @eduardatonga7056 4 роки тому +38

    Who complains about someone sending you “Come over I’ll cook for you” 😂😂😂 Let me take your place, I’ll take one for the team.

  • @Benji7586
    @Benji7586 4 роки тому +33

    Thank you Adrienne for clarifying that not all men are one-worded all the time. 🤦🏻‍♂️ I'm very expressive haha

  • @Celine1Love
    @Celine1Love 4 роки тому +102

    We need to stop saying guys don't want to talk about their feelings. It helps EVERYONE!! this is just furthering the stigma making even harder for men to open up. Gotta stop saying and agreeing with things like this ladies...

    • @MyGuy18
      @MyGuy18 4 роки тому +5

      👌 we just like to talk about them in a different way.

    • @briandafrancies9811
      @briandafrancies9811 4 роки тому

      In a different way how?

  • @darldinaebot3814
    @darldinaebot3814 4 роки тому +186

    I like Adrienne's view. I don't like talking about my feelings either. I need someone to be vulnerable because I can't to that well. Only close people get to know those details.

    • @someonespecial581
      @someonespecial581 4 роки тому +6

      I'm the same way. I tell people my shame story is not for everyone.

  • @seirra89
    @seirra89 4 роки тому +51

    Balling on a budget:
    Buy a tub of raw shea butter and add some natural oils to it like coconut oil, peppermint, olive oil, etc. you can use it all over your body and your hair as a moisturizer and since it's all natural you dont have to worry about all the bad stuff that some of the shelf products have.

  • @jaykay5086
    @jaykay5086 4 роки тому +59

    The thing about loni being the kids dad is hilarious

  • @stephaniedesign888
    @stephaniedesign888 4 роки тому +54

    My husband will talk your ear off. I'm the one that's thinking in my head. PLEASE QUIET!!

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 роки тому +6

      Right! Everyone is different and that’s why I hate stereotypes

    • @MyGuy18
      @MyGuy18 4 роки тому +1

      Lmao love it!

  • @jackiemarro1744
    @jackiemarro1744 4 роки тому +129

    They need a guest host to breakup all of the stereotypes that they constantly spew.

    • @DaniielaVergara
      @DaniielaVergara 4 роки тому +29

      THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we need a show with younger women who ( hopefully) are more opened minding, don't believe in stereotypes about women-men. So annoying

    • @ravenjmain
      @ravenjmain 4 роки тому +5

      Pure facts! Iyanla probably rolling her eyes like “no that’s not what I meant” 😂

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 роки тому +11

      Daniela G lol yeah I rolled my eyes when they were like I want a manly man... who drinks beer and watch football. Lol stereotypes must die.

    • @missdaniellejohnlove1955
      @missdaniellejohnlove1955 4 роки тому +17

      It's not necessarily stereotyping. Men and women are very different, we have diff brains, diff hormones, diff roles. People treat us differently. Of course we all don't fit into the typical woman or man role but most of us do in some way.

    • @sashafierce4824
      @sashafierce4824 4 роки тому +8

      Thats jeanie because she really different for them

  • @marliemarlie1922
    @marliemarlie1922 4 роки тому +268

    I love the relationship between Loni and Tam,I wanna have a friend 🤪😁😊

    • @walkingonthewordofgod5094
      @walkingonthewordofgod5094 4 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂

    • @marliemarlie1922
      @marliemarlie1922 4 роки тому

      @@walkingonthewordofgod5094 what 😁😂

    • @marliemarlie1922
      @marliemarlie1922 4 роки тому

      @Amber L 😁😁😁ok we're friends 🤗

    • @4knewt505
      @4knewt505 4 роки тому +3

      Y'all silly! Here's my truth...I dont have traditional social media so when someone comments on UA-cam, I tell my kids, yeah my friend said this or that. BUT I DON'T KNOW THESE PEOPLE!! Ugh pitiful!

    • @haveagoodday629
      @haveagoodday629 4 роки тому +2

      @@4knewt505 😆😆😆

  • @naomssi1300
    @naomssi1300 4 роки тому +489

    Loni, men dont need to like football and drink beer to be "manly"

    • @desbhanj8474
      @desbhanj8474 4 роки тому +34

      Please let her know!

    • @CarmenxSullivan
      @CarmenxSullivan 4 роки тому +87

      She didn't really say that, she was meaning that's what she likes..

    • @AlexisDimes
      @AlexisDimes 4 роки тому +21

      There is a scientific connection to the activities men and women choose based on the things they think their gender sees as normal for the or cool. Like more men will learn to barbecue then women will based on societies views as it being a manly thing (I’m saying this as a girl that barbecues but knows it’s more of a man thing), a ton of meat eating is seen as manly, a women keeping themselves looking cute for themselves is seen as normal, and anything else normal for your society, gender, or race is always going to be encouraged it’s hard to see because it starts very young. Beer is definitely portrayed as a manly type of drink even though many women also drink it. The same way meat is ate by many women as well but there is a reason men are less likely to give up both.

    • @Zzucia
      @Zzucia 4 роки тому +10

      @@AlexisDimes thank you. Why does this have to be explained lmao

    • @samanthamarie7232
      @samanthamarie7232 4 роки тому +2

      It's just an extra plus when they are

  • @empath3133
    @empath3133 4 роки тому +266

    Jeannie never noticed she said "my wife" 😆

    • @deephillips6964
      @deephillips6964 4 роки тому +7

      True...I even had to go back n check what's date was on the vid 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @marieesedebe7590
      @marieesedebe7590 4 роки тому +2

      Leo AF bruh I was laughing for a good minute

    • @natashadwyer8336
      @natashadwyer8336 4 роки тому +2

      Is she married? I think this is such a great varied panel.

    • @JenJHayden
      @JenJHayden 4 роки тому +5

      @@natashadwyer8336 sounds like you have a lot of catching up to do. enjoy!

    • @natashadwyer8336
      @natashadwyer8336 4 роки тому +2

      Jen J lol I do! She has a wife? I know she went through a divorce. She speaks highly of her ex husband ...

  • @G254611
    @G254611 4 роки тому +58

    Is it me? But honestly - I did not watch - 'The Real' - when Jeannie was married - because I was not aware of the Programme - here in the UK. Only stumbled on 'The Real' a few months ago. Since then I have been catching up on all the past Shows here on UA-cam
    What I have found though - s there was a sadness in Jeannie's eyes in all the Shows I watched - when she was married.
    Now (since her divorce) - there seems to be a light in her eyes; a glow in her skin; she seems and looks happier and alive - I love this new Jeannie

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 роки тому +4

      God's Child that cause I think they really were separated and living different lives. Their hearts weren’t in it. I do not think Freddy or Jeannie are bad people at all but just out grew eachother.

    • @G254611
      @G254611 4 роки тому +1

      @@smilealwaysnatasha3423 - Well said and well observed

    • @skeleton5459
      @skeleton5459 4 роки тому +2

      i never watched this show before until i heard about jeannie's marriage story and it peaked my interest cos she was so open about her story. i really like how open she is about it and she doesn't try to hide the issues they had and you can see her struggles.

    • @abisagbobolarinwa9891
      @abisagbobolarinwa9891 4 роки тому +1

      God's child welcome

    • @NS-mp7uu
      @NS-mp7uu 3 роки тому +1

      Ik this is late but I feel like watching the show now Jeannie looks sadder than I have ever seen her. I’m actually worried about her

  • @CassieJCarter
    @CassieJCarter 4 роки тому +28

    I knew this was old when Jeannie said something about her husband

  • @roenaskates5485
    @roenaskates5485 4 роки тому +45

    A "Smart Man" is going to take time to listen to his Woman!😏

    • @MyGuy18
      @MyGuy18 4 роки тому +2

      True. And a smart woman will make sure to keep it timely. No slight.☺

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 роки тому +65

    Now seeing that her & Jeszy are together... I’m sure he was interested as well! They both work for non-profit organizations that they care about as well as speak on issues that mainstream media doesn’t really talk about ( as much ) and I’m pretty sure due to that they brought the best in each other !

    • @Denise-ob8dk
      @Denise-ob8dk 4 роки тому +3

      Myronn Coleman I love your comment. I noticed that about them. I love re watching all of these clips and commenting. Sometimes I don't remember I commented and have the same thoughts as years before it's funny.

  • @juliannamazing
    @juliannamazing 4 роки тому +17

    when adrienne said “I FEEL LIKE THEY BREATH STINK” LMFAOOO

  • @IceSprinkles
    @IceSprinkles 4 роки тому +29

    Adrienne: i dONT spend money on clothes. I ONLY shop at forever 21.
    *is wearing CoCo Chanel earrings*

    • @ladybluemoon1
      @ladybluemoon1 4 роки тому +9

      She said clothes she did say she issues pricey accessories or signature pieces reading is fundamental or rather listening

    • @dnicaw
      @dnicaw 4 роки тому +3

      But earrings are jewellery/accessories 🤔

    • @mgeijho
      @mgeijho 3 роки тому +6

      1.she said clothes.
      2.Israel(who likes expensive things) bought her the earings.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 роки тому +276

    It should be both ways... Men should also be considerate and realize rhat your woman is not always gonna want to talk about things you talk about with your guys ... I think their should be balance... if there are things that you guys both like to talk about rather than stereotypical “ girl-related “ or “ guy-related” things then that’s a good common ground ! As well as your communication style... guys and girls have different thinking patterns so what a person says may come across a different way to the person listening !

    • @Hbomb3709
      @Hbomb3709 4 роки тому +5

      Welcome back! I havent seen ur name on comments in awhile. Guess u had a summer break 2

    • @sabb5829
      @sabb5829 4 роки тому

      Myronn Coleman totally agree

    • @827honey1
      @827honey1 4 роки тому

      Absolutely agree.

    • @sunflowerg2872
      @sunflowerg2872 4 роки тому +4

      Men don't usually talk about things with women that they talk about with their friends.

    • @keirybreedy8791
      @keirybreedy8791 4 роки тому

      I was thinking the same thing. What does she mean I am confused.

  • @mskathylaurielle
    @mskathylaurielle 4 роки тому +22

    When Adrienne said "They look like their breath stink." I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @JHdtx
      @JHdtx 3 роки тому +1

      Lol I thought I was the only one who found that funny 😂 🤣 😆

  • @stephs8277
    @stephs8277 4 роки тому +116

    Can we not generalize genders... in my family my dad loves to gossip meanwhile my mom hates it. Everyone is different!

    • @blesseddiscovered6196
      @blesseddiscovered6196 4 роки тому +2

      Mine too

    • @Grace-mr8bc
      @Grace-mr8bc 4 роки тому

      @BANGTANFM Say it louder. Preach.

    • @missdaniellejohnlove1955
      @missdaniellejohnlove1955 4 роки тому +5

      @mixed men and women are different. That is fact but it is also a fact that we are all different. We have diff upbringing, are influenced by diff things have diff values but men and women are diff biologically, hormonally, our brains are different which affects how we think and feel. Women have periods. Of course men have feelings and should be encouraged to talk. The thing is we all have feminine end masculine energy. We should not deny differences but at the same time we all don't fit into one box.

    • @andreacoleman4684
      @andreacoleman4684 3 роки тому

      True

  • @sungjemishsungjemish8212
    @sungjemishsungjemish8212 4 роки тому +24

    "You look rich people"🤣 I would Really love to see Jennie's mom

    • @mangosteenlah6239
      @mangosteenlah6239 4 роки тому +2

      Sungjemish Sungjemish you can. Go to jeannie’s youtube channel “hello hunnay with jeannie mai” she makes content with her mom and it’s funny asf😂

    • @sungjemishsungjemish8212
      @sungjemishsungjemish8212 4 роки тому

      It aint Ms thank you dear 💓

    • @mangosteenlah6239
      @mangosteenlah6239 4 роки тому

      Sungjemish Sungjemish no problem! And her mom is just as funny and animated as jeannie makes her seem. Enjoy ❤️

  • @lynette-sowingseedsoflove2424
    @lynette-sowingseedsoflove2424 4 роки тому +16

    I just love Lonnie's and Tamera's relationship..can't get enough of it

  • @summerlyric506
    @summerlyric506 3 роки тому +4

    "Can I cook for you?" Tam is so sweet!! Omg Her and Loni seem to have a great true friendship.

  • @larakaraman5375
    @larakaraman5375 4 роки тому +19

    Adrienne :I just don't like talking about my feelings.
    Me:Same here❤❤❤

  • @laurenj432
    @laurenj432 4 роки тому +46

    I just treat humans the same in general. I try not to talk excessively about myself in most situations

    • @estelvillz3637
      @estelvillz3637 4 роки тому +1

      yeah I learn that if you do like even simple things like telling people what you like or don't like can come flying back in your face. That's how fucked up people are.

    • @ddh19454
      @ddh19454 4 роки тому +2

      What I hate is when I realize I'm talking about myself too much
      And I kinda step back so that the other person can talk
      And they dont
      Or I even ask like how about you
      Can u relate
      But they don't want to talk about thierself
      And I just feel self centered
      Or if I stop talking.. the conversation ends
      I get bored of people like that... at the end of the day I still dont know anything about them

  • @DM-lr5xz
    @DM-lr5xz 3 роки тому +3

    "if you come to me and you wanna talk about my feelings, that makes me uncomfortable" I so feel you Adrienne!

  • @superbluerock8327
    @superbluerock8327 4 роки тому +5

    "Absorb yourself around that person, just to see that they're normal" -Jeannie Mai
    Best. Quote. Ever.
    Literally, I figured that out on my own about a month ago, when I couldn't get over my crush. After deleting him from my life. So, I gave in and "absorbed" his atmosphere into my life. Eventually, realized he's just another guy. Not my type. Nothing special.
    Trying to avoid your crush or whatever, blocking him/her is just going to mess with your mind. Heart. Sleep probably. The way you think.

  • @jademendez8334
    @jademendez8334 4 роки тому +16

    Adrienne is giving me Selena Quintanilla era vibes , I love it !

  • @JustAutoChannel
    @JustAutoChannel 4 роки тому +2

    I love this show. I spend about 20 minutes every on this channel. You ladies make sense because you talk about real life issues that people deal with everyday. Relationship should comes with mutual respect.
    Thank you ladies for keeping it real.

  • @LV2308gmail
    @LV2308gmail 4 роки тому +21

    Tam is so beautiful and curls are popping ❤️❤️🥰

  • @NSiFe
    @NSiFe 4 роки тому +22

    Lol "I wore it three of for times" LOOOL that's sooo many times!

  • @trish8321
    @trish8321 4 роки тому +5

    "Speak your truth" 😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂 I love Loni

  • @kaliestewart1009
    @kaliestewart1009 4 роки тому +28

    Tam looks stunning here 😍😍😍 but she always does ❤️

  • @BiSounds
    @BiSounds 4 роки тому +2

    Hey ladies, I plan on watching all the 14 minutes videos and giving them a thumbs up. You really heard us out and increased the length of your videos. Thank you very much!

  • @ashantitheara
    @ashantitheara 3 роки тому +3

    Loni seems like the shy funny friend. Super private but the biggest heart and smile all the time. And keeps it 1000

  • @nanyabooboo4
    @nanyabooboo4 4 роки тому +1

    I really appreciate how real these guys are.

  • @idoluleputlang1517
    @idoluleputlang1517 3 роки тому +5

    I love how deep and insightful Jeanie is!❤

  • @lmgutier
    @lmgutier 4 роки тому +6

    Loni!!! “DON’T treat your gf like your bf.” SAY IT LOUDER!!!

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 4 роки тому +7

    I am like Tamera about taking care of my stuff, it always looks new yet i have had it for years. I have people always commending my smartness.

  • @S4MPFam
    @S4MPFam 4 роки тому +3

    Damn, I can relate to Adrienne, truthfully I was raise differently than my husband. I was taught to suppressed my emotions, I was never allow to expressing them, because it is weakness, shedding a tear is weak, pretty much that saying “be seen and not be heard or something like that” always smile when in front of people that we see day to day. It was really hard. So I had to unlearn a lot, I thought it was normal. I still am uncomfortable with sharing feelings. And I don’t feel things that other people feel.

  • @MajesticMyronn
    @MajesticMyronn 4 роки тому +31

    Ok ! Here’s my thing....just becuase you have money doesn't mean spend it all.. You work for those coins to save and end up being happy when u realize u worked hard so u can spend it on something that is WELL DESERVED!

  • @ericaacosta5850
    @ericaacosta5850 4 роки тому

    Thanks for posting long videos! I don’t have cable bc it’s so expensive so these long videos have been lifesavers.

  • @Wahsoep
    @Wahsoep 4 роки тому +12

    Where can I get a friend like Tam?You want to cook for me,me??Say no more,I'm there & I'll be the best 'Dad' to the kids too

  • @teamlovepanda
    @teamlovepanda 4 роки тому +16

    Tamara's baby daddy Loni 🤣

  • @rhinoavocado1569
    @rhinoavocado1569 4 роки тому +9

    Sometimes the real unnecessarily reinforces sexist stereotypes... Not every woman loves gossiping, not every man drinks beer, not all women talk too much.. Like it gets really frustrating.. These are the same stereotypes that hold women down

    • @Troy_Johnson
      @Troy_Johnson 4 роки тому +1

      They never said all

    • @rhinoavocado1569
      @rhinoavocado1569 4 роки тому +1

      @@Troy_Johnson they don't need to, the stereotype was still reinforced..

  • @kierra305
    @kierra305 4 роки тому +9

    I love Tamara and Loni’s relationship 😂😂🥰❤️

  • @BravoRecs
    @BravoRecs 4 роки тому +34

    My husband is my bff so I can’t relate lol I don’t like talking to women or anyone but my husband and I are sooo introverted

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 4 роки тому

      I wish for that ❤️🦄 women talk too much and are high maintenance. But I enjoy talking to my bf we have simple communication and I just prefer talking to guys.

    • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
      @smilealwaysnatasha3423 4 роки тому +4

      That’s kinda unhealthy especially if God forbid he dies or leave you and then you don’t have a support system to rely on

  • @samanthajo1593
    @samanthajo1593 4 роки тому +1

    Salvation Army’s clothes, shoes, and housewears are always 50% off on Wednesday’s.. my favorite time to shop there!

  • @simacanhelp1144
    @simacanhelp1144 4 роки тому +8

    Lol 😆! Loni is Tamera’s rentafriend. Awesome support system you have there Tamera.

  • @CupCake-pq8fn
    @CupCake-pq8fn 3 роки тому +1

    I've learned so much from these woman. I really look up to them🤍

  • @jocemunozx
    @jocemunozx 4 роки тому +6

    Gosh i love this show and love love love these girls! ❤️

  • @Flamingobear
    @Flamingobear 4 роки тому +2

    This was the best episode ever!

  • @BelindaJoy
    @BelindaJoy 4 роки тому +28

    I think Inyala may be on to something, but I am with Tam. When in a relationship, I want my man to be my best friend. I want to be able to tell him anything and everything. However if you ladies are talking gossiping, it depends on how you gossip. Are you catty? Or are you simply sharing information or opinions? That is more along the line I prefer.
    I would definitely tell an old crush I liked him. I've done it with a UA-camr and because he didn't feel the same about me, it went over his head and he ignored it. I'm with Loni, if I have a crush, I don't have a problem admitting I have a crush.

    • @ddh19454
      @ddh19454 4 роки тому

      I agree what u said about the gossiping
      I didn't understand what they meant when they said gossipy
      Caz I talk a lot
      I give info on stuff and I like to hear someone else's opinion on it
      But if you coming at me telling me about all these people everyday with all this info I dont care about ama get annoyed
      So idk if I would be seen as someone who likes to gossip or not
      But there is definitely different definitions if you would say
      I would like a guy that gossip asin come n tell me about his day and the people he met and just converse rather than say my day was fine
      But if you gonna be feminine it's a different kinda gossip that am not about

  • @EH012
    @EH012 4 роки тому +2

    Okay that drink tip about Happy Hour is ingenious AF. WOW.

  • @desertliving
    @desertliving 4 роки тому +1

    I love how Loni keeps it real

  • @NeemahSpeaks
    @NeemahSpeaks 4 роки тому +4

    Thank you Loni I like my man to be a man😍😍 Man and women minds are wired differently. PERIODT. (How much money they have🙃)😂😂 Loni’s makeup be coming through this year let’s keep it that way.

  • @HBSugar1106
    @HBSugar1106 4 роки тому

    Amen 🙏🏽 Agree Adrienne yes Forever 21, Top Shop, H&M, Rainbow even can give you amazing fashionable looks and you can still have money in your pocketbook. I would rather spend more on my beauty products and shoes cause your shoes and face gets more use lol than my clothes. You can change outfits styles change every two years so you can mix it up. Neutrals are always good too.

  • @ashleyfla
    @ashleyfla 4 роки тому +2

    I love Tamaras hair and outfit!!! Such a beautiful lady.

  • @loveyoutube2177
    @loveyoutube2177 4 роки тому +1

    Love Tamara's hair. Amazingly beautiful

  • @erinjoines7821
    @erinjoines7821 4 роки тому +2

    I like how they turned in two seconds from talking about budget and then their first class plane tickets

  • @monicafabiola785
    @monicafabiola785 4 роки тому +4

    Its your life partner he should be your best friend....periodt!

  • @kyleighwhite1409
    @kyleighwhite1409 4 роки тому +2

    I tell my man everything. Like he is my everything and I can’t keep a secret from him 😂my man is literally everything rolled into one.

  • @malaika3231
    @malaika3231 3 роки тому +2

    Me and my man be gossiping about everything 🤣😂

  • @zenamozie1790
    @zenamozie1790 4 роки тому

    Adrienne´s look is everythingggg

  • @hollaatthekid1796
    @hollaatthekid1796 4 роки тому +2

    Lonnie, A LOT of the more expensive lipsticks are full of LEAD. Wet and wild, LEAD FREE.

  • @sofis4608
    @sofis4608 2 роки тому

    Haha I love Loni, “I’m the gossipy one” that’s me🙋🏻‍♀️. My husband always says “what? For real?” Everytime I tell him something, one word response.

  • @ashleycaparrelli2935
    @ashleycaparrelli2935 4 роки тому +14

    I love Lonnie and Tamara’s friendship

  • @ylf3384
    @ylf3384 4 роки тому +7

    Adrienne has cried many times in the show and yet she’s not emotional?

  • @Mia_Alise
    @Mia_Alise 4 роки тому +3

    I agree with Adrienne. I can never express how I'm feeling or I think it I can never say what Im thinking then I get frustrated. but my boyfriend is

  • @naavajo
    @naavajo 4 роки тому +1

    The ladies are looking so beautiful!

  • @PerfectlyAshley
    @PerfectlyAshley 4 роки тому

    Totally agree with Tamera and Jeannie. 💯

  • @sadiaa2813
    @sadiaa2813 4 роки тому +25

    My bf is not gossipy , he tells me to stop whenever I’m talking about someone or he fells sleep 🤣🤣🤣 so I don’t gossip around him

    • @GubiYoroi
      @GubiYoroi 4 роки тому +2

      sometimes i like to gossip need to stop that most women keep telling me they dont look good at men !

  • @amandaandersen7870
    @amandaandersen7870 2 роки тому

    Between my friends business, I don't tell my husband everything. But I share everything important because he is my best friend. 💙

  • @ShaynaSKZ_685
    @ShaynaSKZ_685 2 місяці тому

    Always gotta go back to The Real. There was nothing like this talk show ❤

  • @bounksarchi4578
    @bounksarchi4578 4 роки тому +6

    Very good topics me like the show ♥️♥️♥️ big up yourself ladies

  • @fauziyazubairu
    @fauziyazubairu 4 роки тому

    this is my best TV show. 😍😍..all the hosts act normal and real....the name 'Real' suits it soo well

  • @aaronjohnson6622
    @aaronjohnson6622 4 роки тому

    Real talk! I like this topic. Treat girls like girls and treat guys like guys