Can you please stop using that word 'expat'? Many Filipinos feel as if it has a racist undertone to it. Since westerners doesn't have the courtesy to call Filipinos who move to the western countries, expats. But instead calls them immigrants. Then it's only right to call yourselves immigrants as well. It seems as if you westerners are sugarcoating your status, instead of using your proper title. And I've learned that from a British man who questioned another westerner, why he was using 'expat' as his status title.
Ah yes, thank you for putting me, a brown man raised by immigrants, in his place. Next, you'll tell me about how my great uncles deserved internment in Oregon.
Does it really matter? ive been here for 7 years and not once has any filipino said you are an immigrant. I’ve got Filipino friends who have introduced me as an American expat
What a stupid thing to say. My dear, dear boy you are confused about the words meaning. The word “expat” is a colloquialism and is simply used by people who are culturally western to communicate with each other. I hope that clears it up for you.
I was in and out of the Philippines for 15 years and I'm currently living in Mexico.. I run from other foreigners.. especially my countrymen.. American Gringos.. most of them only want to bitch and complain
For all the expats who.came and will come to the Philippines, be open minded. Accept that you are not in your bubble and comfort zone. You are in a different culture. Plain and simple.
Might as well tell the truth… some vloggers describe Philippines as if it’s a Disneyland experience. Going to a developing country isn’t w/o some challenges. Thanks.
It's not the third world man. Philippines is definitely a developing and prosperous country now. Third world would be most of Africa or a place like Cambodia.
@@CliffordMichael-o9xlol !!!!! Why your country very clean do you think we don’t know some places in America more rubbish than here in the Philippines
In my 7 yrs here, i had one expat friend who i would talk to. I started catching him in lie after lie. His stories of his life always changed and everytime his wife and mine got together, his wife would ask all kinds of financial information like how much do i get a month? How many bank accounts do we have? How much money do i give to my wife a month? Etc etc fortunately, my wife knows not to ever mention our finances.
I have spent all my life between Japan and the USA. I have met quite a few foreigners in Japan who are married to Filipinas. As imperfect as Japan is, I have never met ONE who would relocate to the Philippines.
I’m a single Canadian living in the Japan countryside. I don’t have permanent residence here, so I’m unsure if I can get it in order to retire here. So, I’m considering retiring either in Canada or SEA.
i know some japanese who lives here in philipiines. But its true there are not that many. The biggest challenge for them is the language. they can even barely speak english. It is lonely to live if you cant speak to many people in daily life.
It's kind of complex. Spent 8 years in Korea and many times in Japan. Filipinas are very adaptable to different countries. My wife and I live couple years in Kuwait and almost 10 years in Abu Dhabi. She liked it there, it was very expensive. We're happy back in Cebu. Many don't like to be around family that constantly bugs them for money. It's not simple.
@@sunlightsonate Its more than that. The standard of living is below the USA. Well below. It's the peace, the orderliness, the lack of need for an auto.The resilience and honesty. Its the only place I know like that. You cannot put a price on those things
The earth does not care about that. I see the weeds will grow around the trash and such. Nature seems unconcerned. The issue is the respect for other people. Why create an eyesore for other people, when there are handy trash cans most everywhere? I have even seen used diapers in the parking lot. In has-been corrupt USA. Come on, I am pro-life, I like to see that people still multiply and give life to precious babies. But nobody wants to clean up your nasty baby's diaper after you. Clean up your own mess. Not like there are no trash cans around. Bring plastic bags or find a trash can.
Roosters can be trained to only crow at dawn & during daylight. Dogs can be trained to not bark unless someone comes inside the property. I just said something incomprehensible to many Filipino.
@@poorman2457 easy, if they crow without cause in sleeping hours they get chased around with a stick & given a smack. 1-3x & they knock it off. The dogs are smarter usually get it first go if you start with them as puppies.
@@pausegame2319 I like to let them crow at dawn, it's very unnatural to suppress that. But when they're crowing in response to every other rooster for miles around at 3 am nup.
I was so surprised at the hostility of certain expats when I lived in Cebu, insulting, fighting about the most insignificant things. Saw you with Paul and enjoyed what you had to say. Look forward to meeting you and Paul on my visit to Dumaghete in January.
Well the Philippines is definitely rough around the edges. I lived in Tennessee for 61 years of my soon to be 65 years. The U.S.A.🇺🇸 was my birthplace and I still love it with all her problems. Now the Philippines 🇵🇭 is my home with all of her problems. The U.S. had a 100 year head start on the Philippines and it definitely shows. Like you I love the people more than anything. We live in Davao City in a very quiet part of it. Great video and you tell the truth in which is a rarity here. I have become accustomed to most of the problems or differences here. I still love it. Nice to hear the perspective of a younger man. Thanks
well you asked so I'll give you some feedback from my experience with expats, etc. I don't really see myself as a loner, but for some reason, as I got older (and divorced) I became one, not much different there, when I moved to the Ph. Now, I never went to Duma since I figured it was a bit too much gossip and drama, etc, around the ex-pat community there. We have a lot of that stuff in my home country, and that was more something for me to leave behind rather than to find. It's a saying in my home country that ppl don't know many of their neighbors no more, but they know lots 'bout them, lots and lots. And most of it usually isn't true, since it's just gossip, add social media to that and it could easily turn into a feeling of not just being alone in your neighborhood, suburb or your part of town, but even surveilled. That stuff was for me, very good to leave behind, no reason to go looking for that in another country. Well, here I live in a fairly big city, not many foreigners, but you see some every once in a while. Most are not interested in contact, and I respect that of course, but if someone is open and friendly, I always try to reciprocate. Usually that means you have to answer a no. of questions, which I find a bit weird though. If I meet someone, I don't need to know where they're from and why they're here, as I see it, it's their personal information and if they wanna share it with me, they should do that when they want to themselves. There are other things you can say to "break the barrier", whatever happened to, - how do you do ? Now, after the first "interrogation", answering where I'm from and listening to them telling me they "knew a guy" that also came from that place (who cares 😆), then the one-sided talking usually begins. I met this guy the other day, we've bounced into each other a couple of times before, this time I bought a coffee in one place, he was already done and about to leave, but he wanted to stay and talk, and that's fine, I'm not busy, hell, I'm retired. 30 minutes later I waved him goodbye, since I didn't want to interrupt him, he was still talking and looked surprised I was leaving What's the delio with some old US guys, why do they talk so much ? As for the Ph., no, I don't have problems with the slow pace, it actually fits me pretty good. In my home country you'd call the ppl that'd always be in a fast pace, "heart attacks", basically always busy bein' busy. I don't care 'bout them, good there're not many of 'em here. So sometimes I have to wait for a cashier in the supermarket or some order in a restaurant, who cares, it's not robbery in terms of the prices as in my home country, so the waiting not "a biggie" for me. As for the vloggers, I'd say many of 'em sold this vision that you could go here as an "oldie" and get a "youngie", and not just that, but also a "prettie", as long as you had some reasonable income from the West coming in long term. Well, I'm sure it's the case for some, I guess some of the vloggers included, not for me though. It seems that filipinas rather go for the "cozy looking" old guys, with bellies, etc, than me. Well, 'xept for the ones I'm not attracted to that is, and the longer I stay the more I notice some of the older ones here tend to be not totally unlike the older ones in my home country, wearing the pants that is. And as for the young and pretty ones, well, it seems their feelings for ol' western guys may not be much more than skin deep, but what's new anyhow 😅 I'm thinking about goin' elsewhere, Thailand, Cambodia, etc, etc, but I've been here for a while now, and I guess it's the old man talking, I have my condo (relax, I only rent it), I have "my" stores and places where I eat, I even have "my" gym. Ppl are friendly, I get by, why change. Sometimes I think about going home, and I think about all the good times I had there and how I miss it, but then I wake up and realize, that was a long time ago, and it was all long gone when I left, all I'm gonna find there now is coldness and high prices. I guess things ain't so bad here, hell, last time I did my extension, they hardly even asked if I'd found a gf yet 😂
When noise started bothering me, im reminded im getting old, coz I use to have an old neighbor who goes out to complain when im cutting my grass at past 8am.
Couldn't lawn mower manufacturers use mufflers that cost more than a mere 10 cents? There really is no good reason that a lawn mower couldn't cut its noise output by at least half? Here in has-been corrupt USA, the rule of thumb seems to be, to do your mowing during daylight and not too late into the night.
I have six months experience in the Philippines, so when you tell me you have to wait one hour for you order to arrive in a restaurant, I am picturing the waiter taking your order, giving it to the manager or cook, the cook or someone else then heading out the back door to buy the food you just ordered and giving it to the cook to prepare.
Filipina here. Good info for foreigners who aren‘t use to the life in my country. Living in Germany for awhile now and going back from time to time I did the same comparison. The good thing about foreigners living in the Philippines and comparing it to other countries is that it can be a way to push the government for some improvements for the infrastructure so that Philippines be a better place for retirement for Filipinos and foreigners alike.
Calling Philippines my home for 40 plus years, i do not need two hands to count down the foreigners living here, I'm interacting, or better said i feel good to interact and can say they are my Friends. I have 3 beautiful exceptional wonderful daughters, amazing properties, which keep me / us busy and we have gatherings with our Pilipino friends once in a while. This are always great times you want to remember. Even my Kids are not less picky, when it comes to interact with Foreigners living here. Most Tourists we are meeting here and then are a total different category of people if you will, we have met wonderful and interesting visitors from all over the world, but you can't compare them with most of the foreigners living or better tying to live here in the Philippines.
After spending a few months in the Dumaguete area, I did notice a disproportionate amount of expat smokers and heavy drinkers. However, where I'm staying in close by Valencia, we have a great group of healthy, educated and interesting expats. I do hate driving in Dumaguete. Trying to get a straight answer or answers to more than one issue is next to impossible. But the people are very friendly and the young children are a joy.
I'm an American living in the US but have watched quite a few expat videos. I do observe some of them seem to have odd personalities. Other things I observe are they seem to come from small town rural America and are Trump supporters. I moved out of the city and now in rural America and I personally know 4 small town back country guys that are interested in Filipinas. Guy #1 is autistic and has racist/bigot views and he's still trying to find a Filipina to marry. Guy #2 another small town bigot married a Filipina. Guy #3 finally got one and brought her back to the states. She's older so he doesn't feel threatened. Guy #4 says he married her through the internet and trying to get her back over here. So I see some similarities in the guys I know and the expats in these videos. Look at the dude kidnapped in Zamboanga, look at his videos and his overall behavior. Look at the decision he made in the first place. Obviously not right in the head.
The entire country loves trump. Even new jersey was percent away from trump winning that state. America loves trump and so does the Phillipines. The only democrats left are the ones who like to use their pronouns.
I observed similar expats, bigots and maga. I am a Republican, but never would support maga. We're outnumbered here, lol. They used to shout "english only" or go back to your $hithole country. Now they are the immigrant who has no interest in learning Tagalog. I regret to say that America is who trump is. And no the election was not stolen, its who we are.
Cultivating friendships with others, especially while living overseas, can be a rewarding experience. However, it's essential to establish boundaries in those relationships to protect yourself from being taken advantage of.
What timing of this video I literally returned from 2 weeks in Cebu (IT Park) 48 hours ago to spend time with my fiancé. You make some very valid points which are fresh in my head... EXPATS: I ran into a few while I was there. One guy was very grounded & humble, recently retired from 40 years of work in the US. He kept encouraging me "pull the trigger and retire as soon as you can....its worth it....don't believe the folks that tell you to work until 65." You could see his happiness, it was infectious. Then I ran into a younger digital nomad guy (mid-30s I guess) who was very socially awkward, it was his first time in the Philippines. Right from the start he got into US politics and the upcoming election - I did my best to avoid the conversation but he kept circling back to it. I finally said "I chose not to vote because I don't like either choice" (this was a lie but he finally got the message I'm done with the conversation). I think why you get these kinds of people in the Philippines is because the barrier to enter and stay long term is set very low, it does not take a lot to get in there and stay there. Contrast that to Malaysia, once your tourist visa runs out, you have to go....no exceptions. And if you want to retire there, 6-figure bank deposits are needed as well as mandatory real estate purchase.....so it draws in only the more financially stable and successful types. EFFICIENCIES: Or more accurately, the lack thereof. I've been to Cebu several times in the last couple years, and one thing I have noticed is the traffic is getting worse. A short trip in a Grab takes longer now. My ride from the airport to IT Park took nearly an hour. I was just shaking my head as we sat in traffic going nowhere fast and we were hungry (it was near dinner time). Earlier this year I was in Kuala Lumpur and while its a big city with a lot of people, you can move around because of a good transportation infrastructure (trains, buses, in addition to Grab). NOISE: You are right, it is everywhere in the Philippines. Even from my condo on the 22nd floor in IT Park, loud exhaust from scooters, construction, and car horns (boy do they love to honk their horns) could be heard with the windows shut.....but that's the trade off for city living. I'm sure you can find quiet in the provinces but you probably need to be pretty far removed from any concentration of people in order to find it. The music in the stores, malls, and restaurants are loud too, sometimes far too loud. I did splurge for a nice dinner at Dean & Deluca in IT Park one night, its a New York style dining experience. Excellent food (for a price) and music playing at a very quiet level, a real contrast from what you normally experience in the Philippines.
@@OneJuanWon thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience :) I’m glad you enjoyed your time in IT Park. I’m a fan of the area myself.
New sub here. 41 yo guy here, and I've decided I'm not taking a chance at marriage here in the West, so I'm planning my visit or move to the PH to find a wife and have kids, that's my plan. I get what you're saying about toxic expats, but the world is full of toxic people, and we need to learn how to navigate around them. One of my favorite books on this topic is by Robert Greene: The 48 Laws of Power". that sums up people in a nut shell. I also learned how to say "No" to people, which has made me a more productive and smart person. People always invite me out, and I say No more often than not, because when you say Yes to something, you are saying No to something else. I have my own routine, I live a healthy life style, work out eat healthy, hike, self-employed, just started a you tube channel, etc... Man, i really don't have time to entertain others. But if i see you on the street, dang right I'm coming over with a smile and handshake. I'm all about spreading the positivity brother. cheers!
@@primalpassionprepare to bring a ton of time, women here are no different than in any western country, especially when you wife them up; they are more approachable, depending on where you go here, but that's about it.
@@bembelknecht I take it you are not having much luck with the ladies? At least they are loyal in the PH. I can't risk getting married to a western woman with the high divorce rate here. I'm willing to take my chances in the PH. Cheers!
@@primalpassion far from it, happily married with children; but the ladies in general are not much different here from what I see, that's not to say there aren't gems. But you need a lot of time to find the right one and still be prepared for some "cultural differences"-shenanigans.Especially when it comes to the loyalty part, consider twice; just because the Philippines doesn't offer divorce doesn't mean you're on the safe side. And best of luck to you, of course, it's still worth the effort
I've been in the Philippines (Davao) for over one year. I have yet to talk to a single expat, and I strive to keep it that way. Waiting: I try to adapt, but some things should not be tolerated. E.g., seeing a doctor. I waited in the seating area outside the doctor's office and listened to an animated conversation for well over an hour. This was a private "friends" conversation, not in any way related to a doc visit. I ask the receptionist about it and that goes nowhere so I ask when I could get "a real appointment". I am told "tomorrow morning at 9AM. I show up the next morning at 8:45 and sit in a totally empty waiting area. After waiting an hour (with no one around), I search and finally find someone to ask about the wait. I'm told that the Doctors don't come in until 11:00 AM! This was not an isolated case and made worse because there is basically NO parking anywhere here so I'm wasting time and $ on Taxi cabs. Booming economy? I don't see it. Not in Davao. Yes, there is a middle class here that have cars, however the vast majority ride in those open-air jeepneys (sp?) and or tricycles powered by a motorcycle or pedal power. Travel to the Province(s) and they have almost nothing and live like they're camping (and are totally happy to do so). Infrastructure: The 1st (and best) big purchase I made here was a battery power bank large enough to power lights, fans, fridge etc. I also bring it with me to the province every time we visit my wife's family. Trash: Thankfully, here in Davao, trash is managed. In my neighborhood, trash is picked up in front of homes 2 times a week (for free). This is not the case in the province and the locals are forced to burn trash (e.g., on the beach).
We went to some empty restaurant with around 15 aussies while in Manila. Ordered some beers while we decide what to eat, they go back and talk amoung 6 staff. Laughing and discussing things. They took 10 mins to bring the beers to the table, sadly no one admits it but there is a lazy culture in the Philippines and they don't understand service, in thailand you will have a menu on your table within 10 seconds of sitting down. If you order a beer they bring it within 20 seconds, hence why one country is growing rapidly and the others one is not
It should be address to the Chamber of Commerce in its district to remind all the establishments to improve services. That’s my experience too. It’s the management fault and the employees follows.
It is amazing to go into the grocery store and find about 10 employees leaning against the shelving chatting and sometimes they don't even want to get out of the way so you can get through the Isle. It's almost like guaranteed employment with no effort necessary.
I moved to the US from the Philippines as a teen. I'm one of those workers or student who is rarely absent or late. The lack of respect of time bothered me a lot during my recent vacation. But I quickly learned to just accept it being that I'm a laid back person anyway. The brownouts didn't bother me that much as well. I sometimes wonder about the mental health of the locals who keeps getting annoyed by the blackouts
@setharkon1662--- I have the opposite view. I think the locals are too accommodating and forgiving. This timid mindset is the reason the infrastructure is near the bottom of the list for Asia. Maybe a little less forgiveness and meekness is just what that country needs to push it forward to encourage foreign investment, but maybe it will take something more like a keg of dynamite under it's collective azz.
Ive always said that you can tell if a foreigner has been in Phils a long time or not, simply by observing how much he is complaining. The more he complains ...... the longer he has been there. Most people when they first arrive , they see all the annoyances as a novelty.After many years it will drive you insane.
@@MiddlesexBD And sometimes if one complains for decades, noting changes, but I keep trying. At least I leave earth knowing I tried. And I have actually gotten some important things done by suggesting and letting others take the credit.
I lived in Duma for more than 4 years and I can assure you that the "problems" you speak of is characteristic of Dumaguete. There are many many better places in The Philippines. It amazes me why foreigners go there. The ONLY reason I went there is I "believed" all the YT videos.
@@Ghekko-kw3zz its not just the foreigners either. Let me put it this way there are many more places in the country that are friendlier and more respectful.
@@EasternDreamer615 sorry , but, I dont recommend cos it was "recommendations" that caused me to go there.But the best way I can put it is ........ go to places that DONT speak Visayan dialect (Cebuano)
You've touched on this, but I know some will choose to not be around me, & that is fine as I know I will also steer clear of certain people. Through just walking about & chatting I have a number of encounters with expats that were unpleasant. Not all for the same reasons either.
This is too bad. I'm from the US, and I do see this here too. it's hit or miss, some people are awesome and friendly and others are just rude. I can get along with anybody, and excited to have good conversations with some Filipinos when I visit.
@@primalpassion You made a great point there. Meeting other foreigners feels the same as back home. I am 40, but hoenstly have avoided just going to a bar or club for at least a decade. I think with other foreigners I would politely say hello to others when I first got there, & in a few cases I actually had people thanking me for being so nice & outgoing lol. Other foreigners especially when I was in Angeles (I can't speak for Manila or Cebu since I didnt stay there), but in big cities other foreigners did honestly tend to have a click vibe. At times other foreigners would just seem so angry. I think in a city like Angeles it can get so overwhelming being begged for money & have nonstop people trying to sell you stuff & hassle you, along with every single taxi or trike driver trying to rip you off even when you know what the real price range should be. So when they get a calm friendly hello its not always welcome. This is a long reply, but I will try making this story very short. Met an 85 year old black man on his first day, as we talked a young black man walked past. The old man shouted hey my brotha trying to get his attention. Young guy came up with threats, crazy remarks & it got bad. It didnt get physical but I didnt want to leave the old guy for his safety. I finally was able to get help & he ran off. That & a couple others taught me this. If its very natural & you get a good vibe its fine to say hello, but make yourself hesitate just to watch people for a little bit, you never know what type of mental state people are in. I stopped saying hello to every foreigner I saw automatically. Filipino people were mostly great. Only a couple of mean-eye looks for no reason, but no threats or anything. Just for context I don't go to the bars or crazy places, this is just daily activities walking down the street or in the mall. Also had a Filipino father make me uncomfortable, although he was extremely polite he was trying to seriously push me to meet his family which were very awkwardly standing like 30 feet away in the mall it was very weird, but I am decent at handling myself in sticky situations so it was ok I was nice, but ended the encounter lol.
@@linkinemerson8620 Thanks for sharing. We are close in age, I'm 41, and I quit drinking 9 years ago, and never looked back. I don't like being around anybody who is drinking or doing drugs, even weed. Just not my thing, and I don't want any conflicts with a drunk people. I'd rather build a small homestead in the Province with a beautiful Filipina, and raise some smart kids who can play in nature and get dirty. I don't want to be poor, I will find a way to provide a good life for my family. I live in East Tennessee, so it's pretty safe here for now, a lot of humble people here. Much different than the big cities, where yes, you can get stabbed for looking at a person the wrong way. so you just have to use your head, be street smart. Stay well brother!
Your video just came up on my feed and I decided to take a look. I am a retired Teacher and Park Ranger from the USA. My Filipina wife and I have lived here for over 5 years. We live out in the country west of Tagaytay, neer Alfonso, Cavite. I'm an old guy, I just turned 82. We don't live in a gated community, but we have 5 dogs. I have traveled around the Phiippines and find it a beautiful and interesting place. Traffic is horrible and not just in the big cities. I have a Pickup but I no longer drive. I let my wife do the driving. That way, I can look at all the animals, pets, cute girls, etc walking along the roads. I have a really nice house and yard where I often do my videos. I try to do videos of the area and interesting places around here. I don't have many expats living in the area, but do get some really nice ones coming to visit with us. I subscribed to your channel and look forward to seeing more.
Strong points!! This is very useful for expats and locals. Frankly if you're human I feel that the points mentioned here are all valid and should be considered at least for proper expectations-setting no matter the culture or country. Massive appreciation for being honest Mr Eastern Dreamer! ⚡🔥🌊
I think you are very insightful. You are pointing out the differences in the cultures without saying one is better than the other, just expect differences in the lifestyles. An example of the differences between the cultures is the level of personal responsibility. In the United States, if you are walking along a sidewalk and trip on an uneven surface or fall through an open manhole, expect a lawsuit being filed. In other places, the accepted attitude is that you should have been more careful as you were walking. I think that pretty much sums it up.
I’ve never really hung around a foreigner in the Philippines or Japan. There were occasions that I met some and spent an hour talking but I have never really been with them longer than a couple hours and if I calculated all the time I spent with a foreigner in either country combined it probably wouldn’t be more than 12 hours in the whole of 10 plus years
I've watched a lot of expat videos, recently I've seen a few from Iloilo and Bocolad. They are decent sized cities but seem a bit calmer, better traffic, somewhat walkable areas, really nice. Have you visited places like that?
@@EasternDreamer615 Gio visited recently and the MegaWorld builders had built an "expat bubble" in both cities that is largely walkable and many amenities, very nice looking, he said it was a lot like Cebu IT Business Park I think, except not as crowded, he also said the Bocolad build was newer, might be nicer...California Expat who lives in Cebiu and Davao marveled at IloIlo's calm and quietness and low traffic on nice roads.
I would say Iloilo City is not as crowded as Cebu City. More laid-back type of city. We enjoy our walks along the Esplanade, which is along the Iloilo River. Condominiums are getting a bit pricey, though. You're better off renting an apartment or even a house in a gated subdivision.
Expect noise every time you are out and about in the Philippines anytime of the day especially in big cities. However, if you want some peace and quiet, it is guaranteed when you book in a 5 star hotel, stay in your room , order a room service and be in your computer all day. Don’t leave your room.
@primalpassion I would say it is more peaceful in the province, even though I live in the city. I guess it depends on what type of a traditional province lady you're looking for. If you want someone who's working, chances are you'll find them in the city. I am in Iloilo City, and there are a lot of nearby towns, or you can go check out Roxas City. Nice little place near the water and very laid back living. You might find the women there are more conservative.
@@Busy_as_a_Bea Thanks for the feed back! I know it's hard for Filipinos to survive over there, and it's a privilege to get a good job. I'd like to find a conservative woman who wears a dress, and wants to stay at home and be a house wife, raise the kids. She can work, but I only want her to work if she's doing something she enjoys. I'd rather our family be together as we grow, I don't want somebody else baby sitting or raising my children. Stay well Busy Bea!
@primalpassion You're welcome! That sounds like a good plan. I am pretty sure you'll find a good and the right woman. Just take your time and get to know the family as well. They will tell a lot about the person. Cheers!
Ok, I hear this noise issue brought up constantly. I live in metro Cebu in a subdivision that is peaceful and quiet so it can be found. I can hear a pin drop here at night. Now some exceptions, on occasion someone has a party but it's rare. A little dog barking, couple roosters at 4am but my neighbors don't live close enough to me for it to be an issue. It's 9:10pm now and totally quiet, not a sound.
We had a unique (well maybe common in the Philippines). Ordered a grab and waited about fifteen minutes for a car that was only 6 or so blocks away. I finally asked if he was on his way , to which I got a picture of his . Apparently he accepted the ride while he was eating (or accepted then decided to eat) and just figured we should wait till he is finished. Needless to say I cancelled the ride and walked 4 blocks to a nearby mall and got a ride at the waiting line of taxis.
I feel that you may have the left the US but you still carry it with you wherever you go. Unless you completely embrace the idiosyncrasies, uniqueness, aberration of the culture where you live, you will always find disappointments here and there every time.
Did you say your from nashville me to. Was at vikings here I'm manila for a first date and the music was painfully loud and I have hearing problems from service in the marines could not hold a conversation was terrible love it hear but noise and crowding and traffic are really bad here
I'm pretty guarded myself don't just make friends with anyone and let them into your circle without vetting and knowing them for a while. Not everyone is your friend and you can't just take people off face value either.
That hit all my gripe points! lol I think the key take away here is learn to accept or avoid. It’s their country and it’s not our place to make them adjust to us. We are just guests. You can go and live in BRG and pretend you’re in the states, but why? I remember learning German at age 30 and wondering why their grammar was so stupid. I mean why would you out a f$&king verb on the end of a sentence???? Once I learned to accept and not question it life became so much easier.
No place is perfect. Living for decades in Germany, and Sweden prepared me for living in the PH. The people are so kind and helpful that's it's worth the trade offs. I would like the PH to be more efficient, and the stores professional, but I can tolerate living here since it's unlikely to ever change. It's difficult seeing hurt dogs or starving children. I've bought food numerous times for the kids. I grew up poor so I can relate, and empathize. I'm in my 40's so I need to be careful with my savings.
Being a pedestrian here is playing "Frogger," one of the 1st video games and can be downright scary. As to noise...I find that Central and South America is more noisy myself. Granted, my apartment here is 5km out of town, no local roosters, no barking dogs and no emergency vehicle sirens. Compared to the upscale middle class neighborhood I lived in back in Utah, 2+ full blocks off the major arterial street to my neighborhood, and a cul-de-sac no less, this is more quiet. Of course to live here, I pay a price, which is having my own transportation. I agree...in town, traffic can suck, but I'm beginning to figure out alternate routes with less traffic to get around, not that at some points you can't avoid getting on the main roads, but it's the same as I've always done wherever I've lived. It:s most definitely not pedestrian friendly, and yeah, it's more crowded shopping here than I'm used to. Of course infrastructure sucks, it's a developing nation, however...the US infrastructure has not been properly maintained for decades and likely never will be properly funded so we are going to simply continue to degrade as time marches on. The Society of Civil Engineers gives the US infrastructure a D minus for an overall grade. Obviously it's worse here, so I'm not sure what to think about this issue. Like we both have said previously...it's simply tradeoffs for living here. And we have very different perspectives, needs, goals, aspirations etc so we view things differently. So anyways, I'm glad you are doing these videos, it's giving people a better idea of what might be in store for them and a perspective that differs from other UA-camrs.
The serenity prayer is necessary, God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
I was in sarigao the surf island and it's way out there Went to reaggae bar and sat between Pete the pervert and Hans the homicidal maniac Place freaked me out But I also played golf went surfing and played badminton all in one day
There are a few good boys there, Mike & Janet, of Mike's Philippine retirement, Chad Foster, Texas Filipino, Ex-pensive Expat... But I'd recommend avoiding expats like the plague. You're different but there's a reason why most of them had to run from the USA
This is interesting to me, but it does make sense that guys are running from their past. I've heard others say this same thing about avoiding expats, so there must be something to it.
They are all bad people. Listen to their stories and it's obvious. A lot of them have kids that will not speak to them or rarely talk with them. It takes a lot for a child to cutoff a parent. Usually the younger travelers are decent people but the boomers are all dysfunctional.
“It takes a troubled man to sing a troubled song”- Paolo Nutini. Bro I’m from the UK…here in the Philippines. I feel what you’re saying but when in Rome, do as the romans do. So-called annoying things are in the eye of the beholder. If something is annoying you but not someone else, then logically it shows the thing itself is not the problem….its what your mind is telling you about the ‘annoying’ thing..that’s the problem. I’m no saint and yes I’m conditioned the way you are (although probably not as extreme as the Americans) and do sometimes succumb to my western conditioning, but I see these as great opportunities for spiritual growth and leaning acceptance. There is a noise curfew around 10 pm i think so rarely would you hear karaoke at 1am…if ever. Yesterday there was a brown out from 10am to 10pm…I was lucky, the installation of my new solar system was completed…just in time 😊 Any thanks for the video but to the viewers watching, it’s only going to drive you crazy if you are unable to at least try to accept these life situations.
@ I’m in Mindanao. I’ve never been to Negros where you are but, I used to rent a house in Cebu back in 2015 and it seems pretty much the same everywhere in the Philippines. :)
Very well said, i find i have to do a 3 month rotation US to Philippines to keep my sanity. I go to Dumaguete and Siquior a few times a year and try to travel by boat as much as possible, no slow or overloaded smoke belching trucks, but due to timing sometimes have to take the Ceres bus from Cebu. I just can't tolerate the highway between Catbalogan and Tacloban, the road will shake a vehicle apart, my neck has gone partially numb riding a motorbike. I chose to sit alone at a popular snack and beer restaurant close to the Valencia plaza, judging by their clothes and lack of hygiene the best way to describe them would be "alcohol soaked", for the record I had 3 beers there. Noise! this happened about 10 years ago, about 8 mixed couples went early on Valentines Day to a small restaurant where we were enjoying light conversation, we were the only patrons there, all of a sudden an electric guitarist and singer blasts out the ubiquitous "here I am with open arms" I know the guy is trying to make a living and needs the money but take a clue from the looks on customer's faces. If I did not have a small paid off house in Northern Samar I would recommend Siquior, I would hope it would not turn into another Alona Beach, I remember over 20 years ago sitting at a plastic table sipping beer and watching the world go by at Rona's corner in relative quiet with no high rise buildings around.
Very interesting experiences, just moved here 4 months ago, and the wait and non-digital nature of life definitely are key challenges (and traffic 🚦). Moved from China and it's certainly night and day. But still a wonderful country and people 🌄😊🇵🇭
This might sound a bit odd, but what would you think about the feasibility of me wearing my Bose 'noise canceling' headphones everywhere I go, If I lived in the Philippines?
Speaking of crowds, I thought Negros Oriental - especially Bacong, Dauin, Valencia, etc. or many of the smaller towns surrounding Dumaguete - would be relatively quiet and non-crowded compared to the bigger cities, no???! Regarding noise, who is singing karaoke at 1:00~2:00am for example? I would think everyone except the retired grandparents have to either go to school or work the next morning, don’t they? They don’t care about sleep?? I’m Canadian living in the countryside of Japan on my own property which is very peaceful - ALL I HEAR ARE BIRDS SINGING AND THE WIND BLOWING! No roosters, no dogs barking, no loud music, no karaoke, no motorcycles with mufflers cut off... nothing. It’s so peaceful. Are there not small towns in the province that are quiet?? This is really making me think twice about relocating to the Philippines. Thanks for sharing the TRUTH!
Of course everyone has the option to where he or she like to live. If you don't like go away, if you like stay. No big deal, every country has it's different culture.
Controversial indeed... Your content is depressing as it reflects from your facial and physical appearance... Come on buddy! You are in a happy place, cheer up! You're to young and you are already in this mental state.. I hope you read my comment before deleting... Take my advice seriously.. BE HAPPY😁
@danilolabrador2595-- Maybe he is just being real. I prefer that to the fake ones that dominate the airwaves and media. Sometimes people need to hear some truths to balance out the propaganda.
Filipino people are not having as many children as they used to. The population may decrease somewhat over time going forward. This would solve a lot of problems
I totally get what you are saying. I dont think i could live there, long term. Maybe a good place to visit, other than that, forget it. As i get older, i dont care for big crowds anyone...
I like Chad as well, but I try to limit it to mentioning a couple guys as if I start mentioning the good guys I know here, it may go on too long. I have plans to see Chad later this week actually :)
In the province the culture of sitting on the edge of the main road, or groups standing on the edge of the road. It seems they prefer to be on the road to being on their property. This is dangerous and is the cause of many deaths.
I've recently retired in puerto galera on mindoro. I enjoy the diving,drinking and 1000php (ST) decadence. I've overcome the poor food problem by cooking my own. Rubbish is picked up twice a week but, yes-illegal dumping does persist. The Philippines is 10-15% cheaper than say,Thailand and the women much more accommodating-eg. I could never afford a beautiful and sexy 19yr old in thai.
I haven't considered the Philippines at all, can an American buy land to build a home there, without marrying a filippino? It could be a good place to build a off grid home.
Some foreigner complain of being slow ,people are very slow. Hehe...don't complain just get lost, and go where the place is fast, people are running so fast hehe...
@@randyhutchinson-fp4ic Its impossible to "accept" when you grew up in a society that simply does things in a sensible, efficient and respectable way. I think you meant to say that we must put up with it, rather than "accept" it.
Thailand beats The Philippines in every way. The one advantage in The Philippines is the ease of finding a long term relationship. If you can handle the third world conditions, you might enjoy there
Okay if you are not happy in my country nobody is forcing you to be in here I know the way in your country in europe in some western country it is so annoying sometimes you need to run or move quickly So i think you are free to go back😅😅😅
Speaking for myself, I’ve noticed Americans complaining no matter where they go…lol…it’s part of our culture. Filipino’s & Mexican’s are very agreeable & rarely, if ever, complain… until they immigrate to America & then, they start complaining like the rest of us..😁
You stay in the Davao City Sir. People there are more discipline when it come to transportation and the garbage management. The 3rd safest place in Asia.
Let's see, before you give them your money, ask how long it will be. If it's past 15 minutes of the quoted time ask for your money back. Tell them you need your money back. You have n appointment. That what I do
🙂 from what i can tell everybody is afraid to 'disparage' and talk ish about any country they are visiting, and tell you what I really think but its gotta be in person, dont know whos watching LOL
I always lived in a quiet place in the US so the noise is a major issue for me. I know I called the police on a bunch of rowdy college kids but once the cops arrived it was dead silence soon after. I guess one can't call the police on a noise complaint in the Philippines? And I just don't understand the need for all those roosters??? Why do they have to have them? If I kept chickens I would never keep a rooster. And I thought roosters only crowed early in the morning but after watching a few YT videos from the Philippines I realize they crow all the time! They need to introduce reading in the Philippines and encourage people to read. All the noise will stop. Yes, the noise is no joke!! Every YTer from the Philippines has some noise going on in the background where they live. And there is a real danger of buying property in the Philippines. It may seem quiet when you buy it and move in but all you need is one karaoke neighbor with roosters and it is over for yoi!! There should be a warning for any foreigner looking to buy or rent a place....to find out what the noise level is going to be like! Although it is not a sure fix. Maybe get a month to month so you can move out quick.
Can you please stop using that word 'expat'? Many Filipinos feel as if it has a racist undertone to it. Since westerners doesn't have the courtesy to call Filipinos who move to the western countries, expats. But instead calls them immigrants. Then it's only right to call yourselves immigrants as well. It seems as if you westerners are sugarcoating your status, instead of using your proper title.
And I've learned that from a British man who questioned another westerner, why he was using 'expat' as his status title.
Ah yes, thank you for putting me, a brown man raised by immigrants, in his place. Next, you'll tell me about how my great uncles deserved internment in Oregon.
Does it really matter? ive been here for 7 years and not once has any filipino said you are an immigrant. I’ve got Filipino friends who have introduced me as an American expat
What a stupid thing to say. My dear, dear boy you are confused about the words meaning. The word “expat” is a colloquialism and is simply used by people who are culturally western to communicate with each other. I hope that clears it up for you.
Expat is not offensive.
Filipinos/Filipinas call them foreigners.
When I visit a foreign country, the last people I trust or hang out with are other foreigners.
The Filipinos are great :)
Anyone with experience traveling overseas says the same thing.
I was in and out of the Philippines for 15 years and I'm currently living in Mexico.. I run from other foreigners.. especially my countrymen.. American Gringos.. most of them only want to bitch and complain
After living here 12 years I can tell you not all Filipinos are great
@@CliffordMichael-o9xpeople are people, no matter where you go
For all the expats who.came and will come to the Philippines, be open minded. Accept that you are not in your bubble and comfort zone. You are in a different culture. Plain and simple.
I agree :)
Might as well tell the truth… some vloggers describe Philippines as if it’s a Disneyland experience. Going to a developing country isn’t w/o some challenges. Thanks.
I'm glad you enjoyed it!
It's not the third world man. Philippines is definitely a developing and prosperous country now.
Third world would be most of Africa or a place like Cambodia.
Lol still in denial i see@@poorman2457
@@poorman2457It's third world country till people don't dump their rubbish in their countryside
@@CliffordMichael-o9xlol !!!!! Why your country very clean do you think we don’t know some places in America more rubbish than here in the Philippines
In my 7 yrs here, i had one expat friend who i would talk to. I started catching him in lie after lie. His stories of his life always changed and everytime his wife and mine got together, his wife would ask all kinds of financial information like how much do i get a month? How many bank accounts do we have? How much money do i give to my wife a month? Etc etc fortunately, my wife knows not to ever mention our finances.
I have spent all my life between Japan and the USA. I have met quite a few foreigners in Japan who are married to Filipinas. As imperfect as Japan is, I have never met ONE who would relocate to the Philippines.
I’m a single Canadian living in the Japan countryside. I don’t have permanent residence here, so I’m unsure if I can get it in order to retire here. So, I’m considering retiring either in Canada or SEA.
i know some japanese who lives here in philipiines. But its true there are not that many. The biggest challenge for them is the language. they can even barely speak english. It is lonely to live if you cant speak to many people in daily life.
It's kind of complex. Spent 8 years in Korea and many times in Japan. Filipinas are very adaptable to different countries. My wife and I live couple years in Kuwait and almost 10 years in Abu Dhabi. She liked it there, it was very expensive. We're happy back in Cebu. Many don't like to be around family that constantly bugs them for money. It's not simple.
obviously, Japan has a higher standard of living. Can't question that.
@@sunlightsonate Its more than that. The standard of living is below the USA. Well below. It's the peace, the orderliness, the lack of need for an auto.The resilience and honesty. Its the only place I know like that. You cannot put a price on those things
I do not like the trash. They have a responsibility to keep the earth clean. No excuses.
Sorry about that. Here in San Diego you see trash from homeless all over while you’re driving.
Agreed
Come clean it
Ridiculous, trash 🗑 everywhere, Smoking poles, 3 inches from them and can't put in container
The earth does not care about that. I see the weeds will grow around the trash and such. Nature seems unconcerned. The issue is the respect for other people. Why create an eyesore for other people, when there are handy trash cans most everywhere?
I have even seen used diapers in the parking lot. In has-been corrupt USA. Come on, I am pro-life, I like to see that people still multiply and give life to precious babies. But nobody wants to clean up your nasty baby's diaper after you. Clean up your own mess. Not like there are no trash cans around. Bring plastic bags or find a trash can.
Roosters can be trained to only crow at dawn & during daylight. Dogs can be trained to not bark unless someone comes inside the property. I just said something incomprehensible to many Filipino.
How do you train a rooster 😂
Anytime they get spooked or territorial they will scream.as well.
@@poorman2457lol.
I think we know more about training roosters. A matter of perspective, the sun always rise regardless if a rooster crows or not.
@@poorman2457 easy, if they crow without cause in sleeping hours they get chased around with a stick & given a smack. 1-3x & they knock it off. The dogs are smarter usually get it first go if you start with them as puppies.
@@pausegame2319 I like to let them crow at dawn, it's very unnatural to suppress that. But when they're crowing in response to every other rooster for miles around at 3 am nup.
I was so surprised at the hostility of certain expats when I lived in Cebu, insulting, fighting about the most insignificant things. Saw you with Paul and enjoyed what you had to say. Look forward to meeting you and Paul on my visit to Dumaghete in January.
That's a very common problem with some expats in the Philippines. I'm sorry you experienced that in Cebu. Look forward to meeting you in January!
There are a lot of weird expats here in Bangkok too. They seem unable to build friendships.
Agreed
Well the Philippines is definitely rough around the edges. I lived in Tennessee for 61 years of my soon to be 65 years. The U.S.A.🇺🇸 was my birthplace and I still love it with all her problems. Now the Philippines 🇵🇭 is my home with all of her problems. The U.S. had a 100 year head start on the Philippines and it definitely shows. Like you I love the people more than anything. We live in Davao City in a very quiet part of it. Great video and you tell the truth in which is a rarity here. I have become accustomed to most of the problems or differences here. I still love it. Nice to hear the perspective of a younger man. Thanks
Thank you for the comment and your perspective! I grew up in Nashville.
@@EasternDreamer615 I was raised and lived in Memphis.
Nice to see some other Tennesseans here! I’m a bit south from Knoxville.
well you asked so I'll give you some feedback from my experience with expats, etc. I don't really see myself as a loner, but for some reason, as I got older (and divorced) I became one, not much different there, when I moved to the Ph. Now, I never went to Duma since I figured it was a bit too much gossip and drama, etc, around the ex-pat community there. We have a lot of that stuff in my home country, and that was more something for me to leave behind rather than to find.
It's a saying in my home country that ppl don't know many of their neighbors no more, but they know lots 'bout them, lots and lots. And most of it usually isn't true, since it's just gossip, add social media to that and it could easily turn into a feeling of not just being alone in your neighborhood, suburb or your part of town, but even surveilled.
That stuff was for me, very good to leave behind, no reason to go looking for that in another country. Well, here I live in a fairly big city, not many foreigners, but you see some every once in a while. Most are not interested in contact, and I respect that of course, but if someone is open and friendly, I always try to reciprocate. Usually that means you have to answer a no. of questions, which I find a bit weird though.
If I meet someone, I don't need to know where they're from and why they're here, as I see it, it's their personal information and if they wanna share it with me, they should do that when they want to themselves. There are other things you can say to "break the barrier", whatever happened to, - how do you do ?
Now, after the first "interrogation", answering where I'm from and listening to them telling me they "knew a guy" that also came from that place (who cares 😆), then the one-sided talking usually begins. I met this guy the other day, we've bounced into each other a couple of times before, this time I bought a coffee in one place, he was already done and about to leave, but he wanted to stay and talk, and that's fine, I'm not busy, hell, I'm retired.
30 minutes later I waved him goodbye, since I didn't want to interrupt him, he was still talking and looked surprised I was leaving What's the delio with some old US guys, why do they talk so much ?
As for the Ph., no, I don't have problems with the slow pace, it actually fits me pretty good. In my home country you'd call the ppl that'd always be in a fast pace, "heart attacks", basically always busy bein' busy. I don't care 'bout them, good there're not many of 'em here.
So sometimes I have to wait for a cashier in the supermarket or some order in a restaurant, who cares, it's not robbery in terms of the prices as in my home country, so the waiting not "a biggie" for me.
As for the vloggers, I'd say many of 'em sold this vision that you could go here as an "oldie" and get a "youngie", and not just that, but also a "prettie", as long as you had some reasonable income from the West coming in long term.
Well, I'm sure it's the case for some, I guess some of the vloggers included, not for me though. It seems that filipinas rather go for the "cozy looking" old guys, with bellies, etc, than me. Well, 'xept for the ones I'm not attracted to that is, and the longer I stay the more I notice some of the older ones here tend to be not totally unlike the older ones in my home country, wearing the pants that is. And as for the young and pretty ones, well, it seems their feelings for ol' western guys may not be much more than skin deep, but what's new anyhow 😅
I'm thinking about goin' elsewhere, Thailand, Cambodia, etc, etc, but I've been here for a while now, and I guess it's the old man talking, I have my condo (relax, I only rent it), I have "my" stores and places where I eat, I even have "my" gym. Ppl are friendly, I get by, why change.
Sometimes I think about going home, and I think about all the good times I had there and how I miss it, but then I wake up and realize, that was a long time ago, and it was all long gone when I left, all I'm gonna find there now is coldness and high prices.
I guess things ain't so bad here, hell, last time I did my extension, they hardly even asked if I'd found a gf yet 😂
I feel like I just read a whole article with your comment. 😅 It's too long but on point.
When noise started bothering me, im reminded im getting old, coz I use to have an old neighbor who goes out to complain when im cutting my grass at past 8am.
Hehehe
Couldn't lawn mower manufacturers use mufflers that cost more than a mere 10 cents? There really is no good reason that a lawn mower couldn't cut its noise output by at least half?
Here in has-been corrupt USA, the rule of thumb seems to be, to do your mowing during daylight and not too late into the night.
I have six months experience in the Philippines, so when you tell me you have to wait one hour for you order to arrive in a restaurant, I am picturing the waiter taking your order, giving it to the manager or cook, the cook or someone else then heading out the back door to buy the food you just ordered and giving it to the cook to prepare.
Haha yeah, maybe that’s what happens!
that also happens ive seen it.
Yes same in Thailand, they will ask you to wait while they go to the shop quickly at many small businesses. They minimize stock.
I waited 45 minutes 1 day at Greenwich, around 2 pm, for 1 small plate of some type of lasagne. Way to long.
Filipina here. Good info for foreigners who aren‘t use to the life in my country. Living in Germany for awhile now and going back from time to time I did the same comparison.
The good thing about foreigners living in the Philippines and comparing it to other countries is that it can be a way to push the government for some improvements for the infrastructure so that Philippines be a better place for retirement for Filipinos and foreigners alike.
Calling Philippines my home for 40 plus years, i do not need two hands to count down the foreigners living here, I'm interacting, or better said i feel good to interact and can say they are my Friends. I have 3 beautiful exceptional wonderful daughters, amazing properties, which keep me / us busy and we have gatherings with our Pilipino friends once in a while. This are always great times you want to remember. Even my Kids are not less picky, when it comes to interact with Foreigners living here.
Most Tourists we are meeting here and then are a total different category of people if you will, we have met wonderful and interesting visitors from all over the world, but you can't compare them with most of the foreigners living or better tying to live here in the Philippines.
That is an interesting perspective!
After spending a few months in the Dumaguete area, I did notice a disproportionate amount of expat smokers and heavy drinkers. However, where I'm staying in close by Valencia, we have a great group of healthy, educated and interesting expats. I do hate driving in Dumaguete. Trying to get a straight answer or answers to more than one issue is next to impossible. But the people are very friendly and the young children are a joy.
Valencia is wonderful :)
too crowded. 120M people crammed into an area 3/4 the size of California. 🤦♂️🤦
I'm an American living in the US but have watched quite a few expat videos. I do observe some of them seem to have odd personalities. Other things I observe are they seem to come from small town rural America and are Trump supporters. I moved out of the city and now in rural America and I personally know 4 small town back country guys that are interested in Filipinas. Guy #1 is autistic and has racist/bigot views and he's still trying to find a Filipina to marry. Guy #2 another small town bigot married a Filipina. Guy #3 finally got one and brought her back to the states. She's older so he doesn't feel threatened. Guy #4 says he married her through the internet and trying to get her back over here. So I see some similarities in the guys I know and the expats in these videos. Look at the dude kidnapped in Zamboanga, look at his videos and his overall behavior. Look at the decision he made in the first place. Obviously not right in the head.
The underclass and uneducated, yes.
The entire country loves trump. Even new jersey was percent away from trump winning that state. America loves trump and so does the Phillipines. The only democrats left are the ones who like to use their pronouns.
Trump won. You lose. Accept it. Learn to love trump or leave America 😊
I observed similar expats, bigots and maga. I am a Republican, but never would support maga. We're outnumbered here, lol. They used to shout "english only" or go back to your $hithole country. Now they are the immigrant who has no interest in learning Tagalog. I regret to say that America is who trump is. And no the election was not stolen, its who we are.
What’s the channel of the Zambua dude ?
Cultivating friendships with others, especially while living overseas, can be a rewarding experience. However, it's essential to establish boundaries in those relationships to protect yourself from being taken advantage of.
I agree :)
What timing of this video I literally returned from 2 weeks in Cebu (IT Park) 48 hours ago to spend time with my fiancé. You make some very valid points which are fresh in my head...
EXPATS: I ran into a few while I was there. One guy was very grounded & humble, recently retired from 40 years of work in the US. He kept encouraging me "pull the trigger and retire as soon as you can....its worth it....don't believe the folks that tell you to work until 65." You could see his happiness, it was infectious. Then I ran into a younger digital nomad guy (mid-30s I guess) who was very socially awkward, it was his first time in the Philippines. Right from the start he got into US politics and the upcoming election - I did my best to avoid the conversation but he kept circling back to it. I finally said "I chose not to vote because I don't like either choice" (this was a lie but he finally got the message I'm done with the conversation). I think why you get these kinds of people in the Philippines is because the barrier to enter and stay long term is set very low, it does not take a lot to get in there and stay there. Contrast that to Malaysia, once your tourist visa runs out, you have to go....no exceptions. And if you want to retire there, 6-figure bank deposits are needed as well as mandatory real estate purchase.....so it draws in only the more financially stable and successful types.
EFFICIENCIES: Or more accurately, the lack thereof. I've been to Cebu several times in the last couple years, and one thing I have noticed is the traffic is getting worse. A short trip in a Grab takes longer now. My ride from the airport to IT Park took nearly an hour. I was just shaking my head as we sat in traffic going nowhere fast and we were hungry (it was near dinner time). Earlier this year I was in Kuala Lumpur and while its a big city with a lot of people, you can move around because of a good transportation infrastructure (trains, buses, in addition to Grab).
NOISE: You are right, it is everywhere in the Philippines. Even from my condo on the 22nd floor in IT Park, loud exhaust from scooters, construction, and car horns (boy do they love to honk their horns) could be heard with the windows shut.....but that's the trade off for city living. I'm sure you can find quiet in the provinces but you probably need to be pretty far removed from any concentration of people in order to find it. The music in the stores, malls, and restaurants are loud too, sometimes far too loud. I did splurge for a nice dinner at Dean & Deluca in IT Park one night, its a New York style dining experience. Excellent food (for a price) and music playing at a very quiet level, a real contrast from what you normally experience in the Philippines.
@@OneJuanWon thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience :) I’m glad you enjoyed your time in IT Park. I’m a fan of the area myself.
New sub here. 41 yo guy here, and I've decided I'm not taking a chance at marriage here in the West, so I'm planning my visit or move to the PH to find a wife and have kids, that's my plan. I get what you're saying about toxic expats, but the world is full of toxic people, and we need to learn how to navigate around them. One of my favorite books on this topic is by Robert Greene: The 48 Laws of Power". that sums up people in a nut shell. I also learned how to say "No" to people, which has made me a more productive and smart person. People always invite me out, and I say No more often than not, because when you say Yes to something, you are saying No to something else. I have my own routine, I live a healthy life style, work out eat healthy, hike, self-employed, just started a you tube channel, etc... Man, i really don't have time to entertain others. But if i see you on the street, dang right I'm coming over with a smile and handshake. I'm all about spreading the positivity brother. cheers!
That is a great book and a great way to live, you have a good system!
@@EasternDreamer615 Keep putting out content, and build up you channel man!
@@primalpassionprepare to bring a ton of time, women here are no different than in any western country, especially when you wife them up; they are more approachable, depending on where you go here, but that's about it.
@@bembelknecht I take it you are not having much luck with the ladies? At least they are loyal in the PH. I can't risk getting married to a western woman with the high divorce rate here. I'm willing to take my chances in the PH. Cheers!
@@primalpassion far from it, happily married with children; but the ladies in general are not much different here from what I see, that's not to say there aren't gems. But you need a lot of time to find the right one and still be prepared for some "cultural differences"-shenanigans.Especially when it comes to the loyalty part, consider twice; just because the Philippines doesn't offer divorce doesn't mean you're on the safe side.
And best of luck to you, of course, it's still worth the effort
I've been in the Philippines (Davao) for over one year. I have yet to talk to a single expat, and I strive to keep it that way. Waiting: I try to adapt, but some things should not be tolerated. E.g., seeing a doctor. I waited in the seating area outside the doctor's office and listened to an animated conversation for well over an hour. This was a private "friends" conversation, not in any way related to a doc visit. I ask the receptionist about it and that goes nowhere so I ask when I could get "a real appointment". I am told "tomorrow morning at 9AM. I show up the next morning at 8:45 and sit in a totally empty waiting area. After waiting an hour (with no one around), I search and finally find someone to ask about the wait. I'm told that the Doctors don't come in until 11:00 AM! This was not an isolated case and made worse because there is basically NO parking anywhere here so I'm wasting time and $ on Taxi cabs. Booming economy? I don't see it. Not in Davao. Yes, there is a middle class here that have cars, however the vast majority ride in those open-air jeepneys (sp?) and or tricycles powered by a motorcycle or pedal power. Travel to the Province(s) and they have almost nothing and live like they're camping (and are totally happy to do so). Infrastructure: The 1st (and best) big purchase I made here was a battery power bank large enough to power lights, fans, fridge etc. I also bring it with me to the province every time we visit my wife's family. Trash: Thankfully, here in Davao, trash is managed. In my neighborhood, trash is picked up in front of homes 2 times a week (for free). This is not the case in the province and the locals are forced to burn trash (e.g., on the beach).
I don’t blame you!
I think this is subjective but for me Thailand is better than PH in almost every way and many things are cheaper and higher quality.
I totally agree.
We went to some empty restaurant with around 15 aussies while in Manila. Ordered some beers while we decide what to eat, they go back and talk amoung 6 staff. Laughing and discussing things. They took 10 mins to bring the beers to the table, sadly no one admits it but there is a lazy culture in the Philippines and they don't understand service, in thailand you will have a menu on your table within 10 seconds of sitting down. If you order a beer they bring it within 20 seconds, hence why one country is growing rapidly and the others one is not
It should be address to the Chamber of Commerce in its district to remind all the establishments to improve services. That’s my experience too. It’s the management fault and the employees follows.
Im an introvert now that i live in us. The people behave differently here it drains me. I think its easier to socialize there as ppl are more open
Absolutely agree, Filipinos are easy to chat with, probably the most approachable people on earth
It is amazing to go into the grocery store and find about 10 employees leaning against the shelving chatting and sometimes they don't even want to get out of the way so you can get through the Isle. It's almost like guaranteed employment with no effort necessary.
I moved to the US from the Philippines as a teen. I'm one of those workers or student who is rarely absent or late. The lack of respect of time bothered me a lot during my recent vacation. But I quickly learned to just accept it being that I'm a laid back person anyway. The brownouts didn't bother me that much as well. I sometimes wonder about the mental health of the locals who keeps getting annoyed by the blackouts
I've learned to accept it, I much prefer it to being rushed hahaha :)
@setharkon1662--- I have the opposite view. I think the locals are too accommodating and forgiving. This timid mindset is the reason the infrastructure is near the bottom of the list for Asia. Maybe a little less forgiveness and meekness is just what that country needs to push it forward to encourage foreign investment, but maybe it will take something more like a keg of dynamite under it's collective azz.
Ive always said that you can tell if a foreigner has been in Phils a long time or not, simply by observing how much he is complaining. The more he complains ...... the longer he has been there. Most people when they first arrive , they see all the annoyances as a novelty.After many years it will drive you insane.
@@JohnSmith-ti2kpI agree. If nobody complains, then nothing changes. It’s permissive behavior.
@@MiddlesexBD And sometimes if one complains for decades, noting changes, but I keep trying. At least I leave earth knowing I tried. And I have actually gotten some important things done by suggesting and letting others take the credit.
I lived in Duma for more than 4 years and I can assure you that the "problems" you speak of is characteristic of Dumaguete. There are many many better places in The Philippines. It amazes me why foreigners go there. The ONLY reason I went there is I "believed" all the YT videos.
Where do you recommend?
Yep it's kind of ridiculous considering it started with old guys enjoying being around lots of college kids. Creepy.
@@EasternDreamer615 Uptown Cagayan de oro
@@Ghekko-kw3zz its not just the foreigners either. Let me put it this way there are many more places in the country that are friendlier and more respectful.
@@EasternDreamer615 sorry , but, I dont recommend cos it was "recommendations" that caused me to go there.But the best way I can put it is ........ go to places that DONT speak Visayan dialect (Cebuano)
You've touched on this, but I know some will choose to not be around me, & that is fine as I know I will also steer clear of certain people.
Through just walking about & chatting I have a number of encounters with expats that were unpleasant. Not all for the same reasons either.
This is too bad. I'm from the US, and I do see this here too. it's hit or miss, some people are awesome and friendly and others are just rude. I can get along with anybody, and excited to have good conversations with some Filipinos when I visit.
@@primalpassion You made a great point there. Meeting other foreigners feels the same as back home. I am 40, but hoenstly have avoided just going to a bar or club for at least a decade. I think with other foreigners I would politely say hello to others when I first got there, & in a few cases I actually had people thanking me for being so nice & outgoing lol. Other foreigners especially when I was in Angeles (I can't speak for Manila or Cebu since I didnt stay there), but in big cities other foreigners did honestly tend to have a click vibe. At times other foreigners would just seem so angry. I think in a city like Angeles it can get so overwhelming being begged for money & have nonstop people trying to sell you stuff & hassle you, along with every single taxi or trike driver trying to rip you off even when you know what the real price range should be. So when they get a calm friendly hello its not always welcome.
This is a long reply, but I will try making this story very short. Met an 85 year old black man on his first day, as we talked a young black man walked past. The old man shouted hey my brotha trying to get his attention. Young guy came up with threats, crazy remarks & it got bad. It didnt get physical but I didnt want to leave the old guy for his safety. I finally was able to get help & he ran off. That & a couple others taught me this. If its very natural & you get a good vibe its fine to say hello, but make yourself hesitate just to watch people for a little bit, you never know what type of mental state people are in. I stopped saying hello to every foreigner I saw automatically. Filipino people were mostly great. Only a couple of mean-eye looks for no reason, but no threats or anything. Just for context I don't go to the bars or crazy places, this is just daily activities walking down the street or in the mall. Also had a Filipino father make me uncomfortable, although he was extremely polite he was trying to seriously push me to meet his family which were very awkwardly standing like 30 feet away in the mall it was very weird, but I am decent at handling myself in sticky situations so it was ok I was nice, but ended the encounter lol.
@@linkinemerson8620 Thanks for sharing. We are close in age, I'm 41, and I quit drinking 9 years ago, and never looked back. I don't like being around anybody who is drinking or doing drugs, even weed. Just not my thing, and I don't want any conflicts with a drunk people. I'd rather build a small homestead in the Province with a beautiful Filipina, and raise some smart kids who can play in nature and get dirty. I don't want to be poor, I will find a way to provide a good life for my family. I live in East Tennessee, so it's pretty safe here for now, a lot of humble people here. Much different than the big cities, where yes, you can get stabbed for looking at a person the wrong way. so you just have to use your head, be street smart. Stay well brother!
Your video just came up on my feed and I decided to take a look. I am a retired Teacher and Park Ranger from the USA. My Filipina wife and I have lived here for over 5 years. We live out in the country west of Tagaytay, neer Alfonso, Cavite. I'm an old guy, I just turned 82. We don't live in a gated community, but we have 5 dogs. I have traveled around the Phiippines and find it a beautiful and interesting place. Traffic is horrible and not just in the big cities. I have a Pickup but I no longer drive. I let my wife do the driving. That way, I can look at all the animals, pets, cute girls, etc walking along the roads. I have a really nice house and yard where I often do my videos. I try to do videos of the area and interesting places around here. I don't have many expats living in the area, but do get some really nice ones coming to visit with us. I subscribed to your channel and look forward to seeing more.
Thanks for the comment and subscribing Barry! :)
Just like what the famous Winston Churchill once said, “If you don’t like the heat in the kitchen, get out”.
Strong points!! This is very useful for expats and locals. Frankly if you're human I feel that the points mentioned here are all valid and should be considered at least for proper expectations-setting no matter the culture or country. Massive appreciation for being honest Mr Eastern Dreamer!
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Thank you so much Noah :)
I think you are very insightful. You are pointing out the differences in the cultures without saying one is better than the other, just expect differences in the lifestyles. An example of the differences between the cultures is the level of personal responsibility. In the United States, if you are walking along a sidewalk and trip on an uneven surface or fall through an open manhole, expect a lawsuit being filed. In other places, the accepted attitude is that you should have been more careful as you were walking. I think that pretty much sums it up.
That is a good point!
There is lack of patience BUT with the Philippines it is just terrible service in general, but you still paying full price 😅
I ask when ordering how long till it comes I tell waiter if it not on time I will leave and not pay ,I video this so they can't back out
I’ve never really hung around a foreigner in the Philippines or Japan. There were occasions that I met some and spent an hour talking but I have never really been with them longer than a couple hours and if I calculated all the time I spent with a foreigner in either country combined it probably wouldn’t be more than 12 hours in the whole of 10 plus years
I don’t blame you there Paul
I've watched a lot of expat videos, recently I've seen a few from Iloilo and Bocolad. They are decent sized cities but seem a bit calmer, better traffic, somewhat walkable areas, really nice. Have you visited places like that?
Both are high on my list to visit :)
@@EasternDreamer615 Gio visited recently and the MegaWorld builders had built an "expat bubble" in both cities that is largely walkable and many amenities, very nice looking, he said it was a lot like Cebu IT Business Park I think, except not as crowded, he also said the Bocolad build was newer, might be nicer...California Expat who lives in Cebiu and Davao marveled at IloIlo's calm and quietness and low traffic on nice roads.
I would say Iloilo City is not as crowded as Cebu City. More laid-back type of city. We enjoy our walks along the Esplanade, which is along the Iloilo River. Condominiums are getting a bit pricey, though. You're better off renting an apartment or even a house in a gated subdivision.
Expect noise every time you are out and about in the Philippines anytime of the day especially in big cities. However, if you want some peace and quiet, it is guaranteed when you book in a 5 star hotel, stay in your room , order a room service and be in your computer all day. Don’t leave your room.
That's a good point!
It is true that most of the people in South East Asia have similar life styles. The Philippine quirks are shared by many.
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You're right on the money. You have to be guarded with those relationships. You sound like me; my inner circle can be counted on less than 2 hands :-)
best way to be!
Hey there, I think you should really try out Iloilo city. Lots of places to hang out and restaurants but less crowded.
I will definitely check it out!
Thank u bro . We need to change these indeed
I love your country, Filipinos have been incredibly good to me. Far better to me than many of my fellow Americans. Thank you for your kind words.
Slow pace lol I am a Filipina, but it still annoys me, especially when nobody says anything about what's going on or set the proper expectation.
Hi Busy Bea. Is it more peaceful in the Province than the busy cities? Where would you recommend to visit or live to find a traditional Filipina?
@primalpassion I would say it is more peaceful in the province, even though I live in the city. I guess it depends on what type of a traditional province lady you're looking for. If you want someone who's working, chances are you'll find them in the city. I am in Iloilo City, and there are a lot of nearby towns, or you can go check out Roxas City. Nice little place near the water and very laid back living. You might find the women there are more conservative.
@@Busy_as_a_Bea Thanks for the feed back! I know it's hard for Filipinos to survive over there, and it's a privilege to get a good job. I'd like to find a conservative woman who wears a dress, and wants to stay at home and be a house wife, raise the kids. She can work, but I only want her to work if she's doing something she enjoys. I'd rather our family be together as we grow, I don't want somebody else baby sitting or raising my children. Stay well Busy Bea!
@primalpassion You're welcome! That sounds like a good plan. I am pretty sure you'll find a good and the right woman. Just take your time and get to know the family as well. They will tell a lot about the person. Cheers!
I agree with everything you said and you're a true introvert like me.
God created the Philippines to teach patience.
I love this country :)
Ok, I hear this noise issue brought up constantly. I live in metro Cebu in a subdivision that is peaceful and quiet so it can be found. I can hear a pin drop here at night. Now some exceptions, on occasion someone has a party but it's rare. A little dog barking, couple roosters at 4am but my neighbors don't live close enough to me for it to be an issue. It's 9:10pm now and totally quiet, not a sound.
It’s great to hear you’ve found a peaceful place in Cebu!
@gregchase780 That's good. There are quiet residential areas, even in the cities.
bacterial infections are everywhere.
We had a unique (well maybe common in the Philippines). Ordered a grab and waited about fifteen minutes for a car that was only 6 or so blocks away. I finally asked if he was on his way , to which I got a picture of his .
Apparently he accepted the ride while he was eating (or accepted then decided to eat) and just figured we should wait till he is finished.
Needless to say I cancelled the ride and walked 4 blocks to a nearby mall and got a ride at the waiting line of taxis.
I feel that you may have the left the US but you still carry it with you wherever you go. Unless you completely embrace the idiosyncrasies, uniqueness, aberration of the culture where you live, you will always find disappointments here and there every time.
Thanks for watching!
Did you say your from nashville me to. Was at vikings here I'm manila for a first date and the music was painfully loud and I have hearing problems from service in the marines could not hold a conversation was terrible love it hear but noise and crowding and traffic are really bad here
I'm pretty guarded myself don't just make friends with anyone and let them into your circle without vetting and knowing them for a while. Not everyone is your friend and you can't just take people off face value either.
These are great points!
That hit all my gripe points! lol
I think the key take away here is learn to accept or avoid. It’s their country and it’s not our place to make them adjust to us. We are just guests.
You can go and live in BRG and pretend you’re in the states, but why?
I remember learning German at age 30 and wondering why their grammar was so stupid. I mean why would you out a f$&king verb on the end of a sentence????
Once I learned to accept and not question it life became so much easier.
That’s a great perspective!
No place is perfect. Living for decades in Germany, and Sweden prepared me for living in the PH. The people are so kind and helpful that's it's worth the trade offs. I would like the PH to be more efficient, and the stores professional, but I can tolerate living here since it's unlikely to ever change. It's difficult seeing hurt dogs or starving children. I've bought food numerous times for the kids. I grew up poor so I can relate, and empathize. I'm in my 40's so I need to be careful with my savings.
I love the people here :)
We had a brown out Here in California for 30 minutes The other Day I was shocked Coz it’s only Happened once in Every 3months …. ✌️💪👋
Oh wow, thank you for sharing :)
Waiting forever in Dr'.s offices while theyre in hospital checking patients or just only first come first serve its crazy.
Awesome Video Thanks for sharing your experience ✌️🙏💪👌
Glad you enjoyed it!
Being a pedestrian here is playing "Frogger," one of the 1st video games and can be downright scary.
As to noise...I find that Central and South America is more noisy myself. Granted, my apartment here is 5km out of town, no local roosters, no barking dogs and no emergency vehicle sirens. Compared to the upscale middle class neighborhood I lived in back in Utah, 2+ full blocks off the major arterial street to my neighborhood, and a cul-de-sac no less, this is more quiet. Of course to live here, I pay a price, which is having my own transportation.
I agree...in town, traffic can suck, but I'm beginning to figure out alternate routes with less traffic to get around, not that at some points you can't avoid getting on the main roads, but it's the same as I've always done wherever I've lived. It:s most definitely not pedestrian friendly, and yeah, it's more crowded shopping here than I'm used to. Of course infrastructure sucks, it's a developing nation, however...the US infrastructure has not been properly maintained for decades and likely never will be properly funded so we are going to simply continue to degrade as time marches on. The Society of Civil Engineers gives the US infrastructure a D minus for an overall grade. Obviously it's worse here, so I'm not sure what to think about this issue.
Like we both have said previously...it's simply tradeoffs for living here. And we have very different perspectives, needs, goals, aspirations etc so we view things differently.
So anyways, I'm glad you are doing these videos, it's giving people a better idea of what might be in store for them and a perspective that differs from other UA-camrs.
The serenity prayer is necessary, God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.
Agreed
Philippines is a very extrovert country. As a Filipino introvert im already long 💀
Hehehe so true, people here are very extrovert
I was in sarigao the surf island and it's way out there
Went to reaggae bar and sat between Pete the pervert and Hans the homicidal maniac
Place freaked me out
But I also played golf went surfing and played badminton all in one day
How was the surfing?
It was great
Always have good surf somewhere on island@@EasternDreamer615
There are a few good boys there, Mike & Janet, of Mike's Philippine retirement, Chad Foster, Texas Filipino, Ex-pensive Expat... But I'd recommend avoiding expats like the plague. You're different but there's a reason why most of them had to run from the USA
I agree, all of these folks you mentioned are great!
This is interesting to me, but it does make sense that guys are running from their past. I've heard others say this same thing about avoiding expats, so there must be something to it.
They are all bad people. Listen to their stories and it's obvious. A lot of them have kids that will not speak to them or rarely talk with them. It takes a lot for a child to cutoff a parent. Usually the younger travelers are decent people but the boomers are all dysfunctional.
Crowds - yeah, I often feel claustrophobic. Also, why don’t they build more toilets in shopping malls where the crowds hang out.
“It takes a troubled man to sing a troubled song”- Paolo Nutini.
Bro I’m from the UK…here in the Philippines. I feel what you’re saying but when in Rome, do as the romans do. So-called annoying things are in the eye of the beholder. If something is annoying you but not someone else, then logically it shows the thing itself is not the problem….its what your mind is telling you about the ‘annoying’ thing..that’s the problem. I’m no saint and yes I’m conditioned the way you are (although probably not as extreme as the Americans) and do sometimes succumb to my western conditioning, but I see these as great opportunities for spiritual growth and leaning acceptance.
There is a noise curfew around 10 pm i think so rarely would you hear karaoke at 1am…if ever.
Yesterday there was a brown out from 10am to 10pm…I was lucky, the installation of my new solar system was completed…just in time 😊
Any thanks for the video but to the viewers watching, it’s only going to drive you crazy if you are unable to at least try to accept these life situations.
Thanks for watching! Where are you in the Philippines?
@ I’m in Mindanao. I’ve never been to Negros where you are but, I used to rent a house in Cebu back in 2015 and it seems pretty much the same everywhere in the Philippines. :)
Very well said, i find i have to do a 3 month rotation US to Philippines to keep my sanity. I go to Dumaguete and Siquior a few times a year and try to travel by boat as much as possible, no slow or overloaded smoke belching trucks, but due to timing sometimes have to take the Ceres bus from Cebu. I just can't tolerate the highway between Catbalogan and Tacloban, the road will shake a vehicle apart, my neck has gone partially numb riding a motorbike. I chose to sit alone at a popular snack and beer restaurant close to the Valencia plaza, judging by their clothes and lack of hygiene the best way to describe them would be "alcohol soaked", for the record I had 3 beers there. Noise! this happened about 10 years ago, about 8 mixed couples went early on Valentines Day to a small restaurant where we were enjoying light conversation, we were the only patrons there, all of a sudden an electric guitarist and singer blasts out the ubiquitous "here I am with open arms" I know the guy is trying to make a living and needs the money but take a clue from the looks on customer's faces. If I did not have a small paid off house in Northern Samar I would recommend Siquior, I would hope it would not turn into another Alona Beach, I remember over 20 years ago sitting at a plastic table sipping beer and watching the world go by at Rona's corner in relative quiet with no high rise buildings around.
Very interesting experiences, just moved here 4 months ago, and the wait and non-digital nature of life definitely are key challenges (and traffic 🚦). Moved from China and it's certainly night and day. But still a wonderful country and people 🌄😊🇵🇭
I love the Philippines! 😄
This might sound a bit odd, but what would you think about the feasibility of me wearing my Bose 'noise canceling' headphones everywhere I go, If I lived in the Philippines?
Great video. I lived there and I'll be going back.
That’s awesome!
This was good, some interesting things to consider here !
I appreciate that!
Speaking of crowds, I thought Negros Oriental - especially Bacong, Dauin, Valencia, etc. or many of the smaller towns surrounding Dumaguete - would be relatively quiet and non-crowded compared to the bigger cities, no???! Regarding noise, who is singing karaoke at 1:00~2:00am for example? I would think everyone except the retired grandparents have to either go to school or work the next morning, don’t they? They don’t care about sleep?? I’m Canadian living in the countryside of Japan on my own property which is very peaceful - ALL I HEAR ARE BIRDS SINGING AND THE WIND BLOWING! No roosters, no dogs barking, no loud music, no karaoke, no motorcycles with mufflers cut off... nothing. It’s so peaceful. Are there not small towns in the province that are quiet?? This is really making me think twice about relocating to the Philippines. Thanks for sharing the TRUTH!
you are right, but hey what can you do.
Of course everyone has the option to where he or she like to live. If you don't like go away, if you like stay. No big deal, every country has it's different culture.
I love the the Philippines :)
Controversial indeed... Your content is depressing as it reflects from your facial and physical appearance... Come on buddy! You are in a happy place, cheer up! You're to young and you are already in this mental state.. I hope you read my comment before deleting... Take my advice seriously.. BE HAPPY😁
@danilolabrador2595-- Maybe he is just being real. I prefer that to the fake ones that dominate the airwaves and media. Sometimes people need to hear some truths to balance out the propaganda.
Filipino people are not having as many children as they used to. The population may decrease somewhat over time going forward. This would solve a lot of problems
I totally get what you are saying. I dont think i could live there, long term. Maybe a good place to visit, other than that, forget it. As i get older, i dont care for big crowds anyone...
Thank you for enjoying :)
I hope America will be great again. Local here from Philippines.
Me too
It will be better than the passed 4 years
I hope so
@@Finallyready-t8b Half the population votes for people that want it to fail so it can be "built back better" in their utopian socialist model.
America never has been great.
Interesting that you didn’t mention Chad in the ‘doing good things’ group.
I like Chad as well, but I try to limit it to mentioning a couple guys as if I start mentioning the good guys I know here, it may go on too long. I have plans to see Chad later this week actually :)
@@EasternDreamer615 Glad to hear it. I like Chad a lot and his info is helpful and entertaining.
Trash everywhere, most just toss trash everywhere. Swim on a public beach and it is in the water.
To avoid brown-outs, I stay in the major cities like Cebu.
Cebu is fantastic :)
You best have good knees, lining up and waiting is the favorite sport in the Philippines.
In the province the culture of sitting on the edge of the main road, or groups standing on the edge of the road. It seems they prefer to be on the road to being on their property. This is dangerous and is the cause of many deaths.
I find everything to like about living here. I'm orginally from Southern Calfornia...
Congrats :)
I've recently retired in puerto galera on mindoro.
I enjoy the diving,drinking and 1000php (ST) decadence.
I've overcome the poor food problem by cooking my own.
Rubbish is picked up twice a week but, yes-illegal dumping does persist.
The Philippines is 10-15% cheaper than say,Thailand and the women much more accommodating-eg. I could never afford a beautiful and sexy 19yr old in thai.
I’m glad you’re enjoying Puerto Galera!
I’m glad you’re enjoying Puerto Galera!
The way they treat animals says a lot
I haven't considered the Philippines at all, can an American buy land to build a home there, without marrying a filippino? It could be a good place to build a off grid home.
Nope
Some foreigner complain of being slow ,people are very slow. Hehe...don't complain just get lost, and go where the place is fast, people are running so fast hehe...
I love the Philippines :)
People Do Not Use Their " Inside Voice" 🙄 Oh sorry.. What inside voice? 🤷🏾♂️
I have encountered many of these problems. My solution is to laugh and say ONLY IN THE PHILIPPINES!!
You are correct, but I promise you that "solution" only works for a short period until it drives you mad eventually.
You can only say that so many times before you will lose your temper eventually.
@@poorman2457 EXACTLY.
@@jimw7916Easier to accept the frustration than try and change it.
@@randyhutchinson-fp4ic Its impossible to "accept" when you grew up in a society that simply does things in a sensible, efficient and respectable way. I think you meant to say that we must put up with it, rather than "accept" it.
Thailand beats The Philippines in every way. The one advantage in The Philippines is the ease of finding a long term relationship. If you can handle the third world conditions, you might enjoy there
Okay if you are not happy in my country nobody is forcing you to be in here
I know the way in your country in europe in some western country it is so annoying sometimes you need to run or move quickly
So i think you are free to go back😅😅😅
Speaking for myself, I’ve noticed Americans complaining no matter where they go…lol…it’s part of our culture. Filipino’s & Mexican’s are very agreeable & rarely, if ever, complain… until they immigrate to America & then, they start complaining like the rest of us..😁
Theaters are unbelievable, people talking loud to each other and on cell phones, I won't go anymore.
Its just life there
True :)
You stay in the Davao City Sir. People there are more discipline when it come to transportation and the garbage management. The 3rd safest place in Asia.
I’ve heard many wonderful things about Davao City :)
Hey have you tried Iloilo? That’s a nice city without having to go all the way to Manila 😅
Not yet! But I'd love to :)
20:31 noisier than Vietnam bro?
Im amused of people’s complaints.
You don't want to ever get involved with their politics but I wish law enforcement would do a better job.
Change the title of this to " Whine whine whine, I will waste your time".
Let's see, before you give them your money, ask how long it will be. If it's past 15 minutes of the quoted time ask for your money back. Tell them you need your money back. You have n appointment. That what I do
Thanks for sharing!
🙂 from what i can tell everybody is afraid to 'disparage' and talk ish about any country they are visiting, and tell you what I really think but its gotta be in person, dont know whos watching LOL
I always lived in a quiet place in the US so the noise is a major issue for me. I know I called the police on a bunch of rowdy college kids but once the cops arrived it was dead silence soon after. I guess one can't call the police on a noise complaint in the Philippines?
And I just don't understand the need for all those roosters??? Why do they have to have them? If I kept chickens I would never keep a rooster. And I thought roosters only crowed early in the morning but after watching a few YT videos from the Philippines I realize they crow all the time! They need to introduce reading in the Philippines and encourage people to read. All the noise will stop.
Yes, the noise is no joke!! Every YTer from the Philippines has some noise going on in the background where they live.
And there is a real danger of buying property in the Philippines. It may seem quiet when you buy it and move in but all you need is one karaoke neighbor with roosters and it is over for yoi!! There should be a warning for any foreigner looking to buy or rent a place....to find out what the noise level is going to be like! Although it is not a sure fix. Maybe get a month to month so you can move out quick.