I QUIT my JOB to LIVE with LESS - WHY I'm so FRUGAL - I MOVED to the Countryside

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    WHY I QUIT my JOB - WHY I'm so FRUGAL - Financial Minimalism
    This is HOW and WHY I decided to quit the rat race and take control of my life.
    I hope this video is a blessing to you, wherever you are in life right now.
    Trust in God and try your best.
    Show up every day, no matter HOW.
    Thanks so much for being here!
    It means more than you'll ever know!
    Alessandra
    Hello and welcome to "Her Cup of Simple", a place where I share everything I've learnt since embracing the slow living movement in every aspect of my life.
    My name is Alessandra and I'm a mom to 6 kids.
    I enjoy taking you along with our life here at the Honey and Lavender Cottage, in the countryside!
    Few years ago, I decided to cut off all the extras in our lives; possessions, busy schedules, places to be etc... and tuned in with our inner selves instead.
    I started to focus on living more intentionally, enjoying the littlest of the things, paying attention and honoring my body and soul's needs.
    I also started to eliminate anything toxic and chemical from our body care and foods and I'm a firm believer of the miracle just these simple changes bring to our health, on a physical and mental level.
    Come and join me in living with less stress and anxiety and living a more intentional, slow life!
    Say hi: honeyandlavendercottage@gmail.com
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 64

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Рік тому +2

    Fantastic video I’m so happy I found your channel thank you I can’t wait to learn from you

  • @ashaki555
    @ashaki555 Місяць тому +1

    Recently resigned from a position held for the past three years which though purposeful, company changes which appeared sporadic in nature and not in alignment with personal values and goals. Definitely activates anxiety. Opt for a position familiar with and though less pay and longer hours, the job of not having to drive racking up mileage and opportunity to spend time with my adult children is all needed and looked forward to. As is we eat frugal. In today’s time being g taken advantage by a job because of need to work isn’t necessary. Less is more. No cable. No hanging out spending in years. Giving up the noise. Giving the haste. Slow living. Tiny space and definitely seeking leaving where anxiety would be triggered…..

  • @alldaywisdom95
    @alldaywisdom95 Рік тому +3

    You have made a brave decision but it's worth it.
    What is important is that you are happy and satisfied with what you did.
    Great sharing.

  • @YennyCMorales
    @YennyCMorales Рік тому +7

    Alessandra, this was by far my favorite video, your way of describing the hustle of life was me for many years, until I decide to take charge of my life getting back into what God designed me to be. Once looking at God's plan for me and my way of living was not matching. Just like you, I see so many benefits by living slow, simple and minimal, even turning off all electronics at night time to spend time together has changed my life. Thank you so much for such a beautiful video and words, many blessings 🙏

  • @HerCupOfCOZY
    @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому +6

    I hope I can encourage you today, to take control of your life...to find your happy place...
    What are some ways you save money?

    • @jaketwain114
      @jaketwain114 Рік тому +1

      💖 Hello dear friend! I was thinking of you today. I'm glad to see you are all doing well. I have enjoyed my slower couple of weeks at work, but starting next week, it will be more busy. At least it is not a hum drum job. I do enjoy helping others. Weekends will be more precious. Lol Thank you for the relaxing video!
      Oh!! I was able to download Brad's (BFH) songs a couple of weeks ago! 🎉And I finally figured out how to listen to them on my phone! So awesome!! 🎶🎵 Now I can listen to them while driving and at home. 😌
      Lots of Love and hugs from Oklahoma 💖🤗

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому +1

      Growing my own fruit and veg saves me a lot.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  11 місяців тому +1

      @@theclumsyprepper that's the way to go!! Also, all those wonderful skills you learn through trails and errors!👍👍

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому +1

      @@HerCupOfCOZY definitely. I've taught myself everything from soap making to basic carpentry and it was so much fun, even though it was frustrating at times.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  11 місяців тому +1

      @@theclumsyprepper I would love to learn to make soap!!🤗👍

  • @ATravelerOfWorlds
    @ATravelerOfWorlds Рік тому +5

    Alessandra, I admire you so much! As a mother, as a wife and as a woman, you're such an inspiration to me. I can't put into words how much you lightened my heart when you said you're the gatekeeper of your children's innocence, that you protect them from praganda, news etc. That is such an immense gift you're giving them, I believe! Amongst all else you give and represent for them in childhood. Beautiful video!

    • @Karincl7
      @Karincl7 Рік тому

      That s putting your own believes on a kid instead of letting them free

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому +3

      @@Karincl7 hi!🤗
      Thanks for your feedback...
      In all honesty, I believe that childhood is a sacred time in a person's life and it shouldn't involve complicated issues or the world's problems...
      They are not capable of processing them quite yet🥺🤗
      As a parent, I protect their freedom to be and express themselves the way they feel natural about it.
      Hope that explains what I mean!
      Have a wonderful day!💝

    • @ATravelerOfWorlds
      @ATravelerOfWorlds Рік тому +1

      @@HerCupOfCOZY Beautifully said Alessandra, I 100 % agree with you!

  • @DanielErik
    @DanielErik Рік тому +3

    This was so inspirational! I am thinking about moving to my country house myself, and live with less. I believe we can live MORE byt having LESS! 🥰

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому +2

      Hi Daniel, thank you so much for sharing your perspective... I do wish you'll have the courage to follow whichever path feels right for you and the season of life you're in...
      Your rewards might be waiting!

    • @DanielErik
      @DanielErik Рік тому

      @@HerCupOfCOZY thank you! 🙏🏻💕

  • @FaithandFun-w6q
    @FaithandFun-w6q Рік тому +1

    Fantastic video friend, thank you for sharing! Keep it up. ✨❤️

  • @jaymeshumblehome
    @jaymeshumblehome Рік тому +2

    I love this video, so many truths. It's absolutely priceless to make the sacrifices to stay home with our children, they grow up so fast and they are the future! There is an art to homemaking and you are very nicely embracing that 💖 God bless you.

  • @ilovedonuts789
    @ilovedonuts789 Рік тому +1

    Oh wow! It is so beautiful there! So nice!

  • @weekends.forever
    @weekends.forever Рік тому +2

    The peace it brings when people realize that happiness is time spent doing things you love and ridding off things that doesn't fuel your heart..It's a beautiful thing ^_^

  • @KristenMelissa
    @KristenMelissa Рік тому +2

    Good morning Alessandra! Your beautiful video has me feeling inspired and reminded of what is really important 💖 You have so much wisdom to share! ✨️ I would love to know more about how you make your own laundry detergent, toothpaste, etc. Thank you for sharing such a meaningful message! ✨️

  • @LifewithRussellandAna
    @LifewithRussellandAna Рік тому +1

    Hi Alessandra, your home is so beautiful! So cozy and warm. Your message is so inspiring and your family is so blessed because of your decision. Home cooked meals are the best indeed. Hope we have Natural Grocers near we live. Love all your footages, very cinematic esp by the beach and the picnic scene. Thank you for sharing your story! Have a good one! 🤗♥️

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому +1

      I find her home cold and sterile, but then I have a different esthetic and a different life to hers. My home is filled with art (most of it made by me), books and animals - I'm sure Alessandra would find it very chaotic and uninviting as there's always a degree of mess going on around.
      Still, she is one lucky woman to have a beautiful family and the life she always dreamed of. Not all people get to have it so fair play to her.
      And yes, home cooked meals are the best.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  11 місяців тому +1

      Hello sweet lady! Thanks so much for being here! This house I showed on thus video was a rental home we had when we first sold our house. It was already furnished....
      My style is minimal but eclectic! I love earthy boho!! And art..... I'm always on the lookout for some real paintings to display here and there in my cozy corners.
      My idea of minimalism is about spending less money in stores and going to work to feed consumerism habits.🤗☺️
      I grew up in a house where we used to rescue animals....so, I would loooove your place!!😘😘
      Sorry my footage was a bit misleading but that's what I had at the time and I'm only grateful for it although it wasn't rejected my style at all....
      I hope to talk to you again soon!!🤗🤗🙏

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому

      @@HerCupOfCOZY we're not so dissimilar after all. 😊 I make my own skincare as well but the only minimalism I do is with my make-up, as I don't really wear any, and jewellery.
      The house in living in is a rental as well but the landlords don't really care what I do with it, decor wise, as long as I'm not knocking down walls or making other structural changes. I'm lucky this way.

  • @emiliasees
    @emiliasees Рік тому +1

    So many great tips in your video. Living intentionally and enjoying the simple things is what life's about 💗🥰

  • @AmySmith-hh5yn
    @AmySmith-hh5yn Рік тому +1

    Great video. Would love to see some baking/cooking videos. I’ll look to see if you have any videos posted already.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому

      Dear Amy!!!!! I'm so humbled by your words!
      As my little channel grows, so does my confidence to come out of my shell and be who I am ☺️😌
      I'm making content all about homemaking now that I can again focus on the channel and praise God on my home!!
      It's hard to decide when I don't get many feedbacks...
      I'm planning on a video on how I shop for groceries with a larger family and 5 simple, healthy meals for week nights!

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому

      Thank you so much for being here and for your patience!!

  • @lavendervlogs
    @lavendervlogs Рік тому +1

    Great video 🥰👍💜💜

  • @kathydobrzynski9248
    @kathydobrzynski9248 Рік тому +1

    I haven't watched t.v. in many years. UA-cam is my go-to. I'll be so happy when the cold weather goes away. I have electric heaters and the amount I have to pay is high :( Like you I only have what I need as far as bills go. Take care

  • @donnarakitzis2719
    @donnarakitzis2719 3 місяці тому +1

    Wise. Food is medicine

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  3 місяці тому +1

      Dear Donna, thank you so much for your precious time and nice comment! I'll dive in to this in my upcoming video...hope you'll enjoy!

  • @hance2601
    @hance2601 Рік тому +1

    You got a peaceful voice, lovely place and family.🥰 I'm always proud to all mom out there... hands up...🥰🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍😍

  • @GirlandTheMoment
    @GirlandTheMoment Рік тому +1

    I am so glad to hear the contentment and happiness in your voice. Finally you find the spot you always wanted to be! Lovely vlog 🦋

  • @panagiotaskoylida8359
    @panagiotaskoylida8359 Рік тому +1

    It is a big big decision to quit your job today! I think we all must stop and think our priorities and decide the best for us and our family. Send you all my love from Greece!💖💖💖😘

  • @barbabal
    @barbabal Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this inspiring video Alessandra. It reminds me the reasons why i am a stay at home mum…

  • @michigandaffodil7561
    @michigandaffodil7561 Рік тому +1

    Just beautiful. So inspiring. I’ve delved into fermenting. I’ve been inspired by Fermented Homesteads play list “fermented February 2023”. I’m making my second batch of fermented pico De gallo. I’m making kefir. Last years collaboration got be to make sauerkraut and more. You may enjoy that?

  • @nina_kobi_official
    @nina_kobi_official Рік тому +1

    Loved watching this cozy video.

  • @itsmarionfink
    @itsmarionfink Рік тому

    Alessandra, thank you for this inspiring video ✨ it felt like a gentle hug and offered so many valuable ideas on how to approach life in a more meaningful way 🙏 I really enjoyed every second of it 💛✨

  • @sparrowheart193
    @sparrowheart193 Рік тому +1

    This sounds so nice

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому

      Hi there! I'm Italian 🤗 I love your profile name!
      Thanks so much for being here! I hope to see you again!🙏💖

  • @freedomfundmoney
    @freedomfundmoney Рік тому +2

    You Have A Green Thumb! Have You Always Been So Good With Plants?

  • @brendonelton
    @brendonelton Рік тому +3

    How incredibly down to earth you are Alessandra, there aren't many like yourself anymore which is a shame, most women these days want expensive pointless "things" and infinite amounts of money to waste, keep on doing what you are doing, because you are doing it incredibly well! thank you for your kind reply from one of your previous videos also, and Barry, Keep on Rockin dude!

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому

      Unfortunately you are right, a lot of women want someone to pay for their lifestyle. Thankfully not all of us are like that.

  • @wajihakashif637
    @wajihakashif637 Рік тому +1

    Nice sharing 👍🏻🤗 new friend here hope to stay connected ☺️

  • @nadiasdays702
    @nadiasdays702 Рік тому +1

    You are amazing :)

  • @Hana_76
    @Hana_76 Рік тому +1

    احسنت النشر 🙏👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻بالتوفيق

  • @paulahuguley6122
    @paulahuguley6122 11 місяців тому +1

    A good wife is invaluable.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  11 місяців тому

      In all humbleness, thank you!!!🙏🥺

  • @user-fo2ty3bt9m
    @user-fo2ty3bt9m Рік тому +1

    I WANT THIS SO BADLY...💞

  • @Goldkingpro
    @Goldkingpro Рік тому +1

    New Subscriber And You 🧐

  • @huseindana1351
    @huseindana1351 Рік тому +1

    *Promosm*

  • @Karincl7
    @Karincl7 Рік тому +2

    Only possible if you life of your partner

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  Рік тому

      Hi there!🤗 this is why we are "partners". We help each other... we don't do the same things but rely on each other in different ways..
      We both want to work but only to live a life that is within our means without falling into the consuming trap.
      Consumerism brings terrible consequences to people and the planet around that they don't show us.
      I hope that explains. Have a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by🙏💖

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому +1

      That is so true. It's impossible to have that kind of life if you live on your own or are a single parent. Someone has to make the money to pay the bills.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  11 місяців тому +1

      @@theclumsyprepper I work hard from home too!

    • @theclumsyprepper
      @theclumsyprepper 11 місяців тому +1

      @@HerCupOfCOZY I only watched one of your videos and I can see it already. I always thought that being a mum is the best job in the world, and I have an admiration for every woman that chooses that path. It would have been mine too, if I was able to have children. I rescue animals instead.
      I have to say you seem very much as my kind of person and I thank you for your replies. You have gained yourself a new subscriber.

    • @HerCupOfCOZY
      @HerCupOfCOZY  11 місяців тому +1

      @@theclumsyprepper aww....ypu are like mom was!!! Always rescuing cats and dogs... it taught me so much about compassion...
      You are so so kind, sweet lady! My honor to have you here!🙏😘