You're not unproductive, you've just set an impossible standard.

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  • @icarusdjr
    @icarusdjr Місяць тому +20

    "So maybe it's not that you've been cheated out of an unlimited supply of time; Maybe it's almost incomprehensibly miraculous to have been granted any time at all."
    Easily one of the most powerful quotes I've ever heard.

  • @WiWillemijn
    @WiWillemijn 3 години тому

    Your videos are genuinely the only videos that I can easily watch completely without any distractions

  • @rahulpujari14507
    @rahulpujari14507 2 місяці тому +29

    Thank you so much for providing such a content for free, I really appreciate your work, effort and time you put into these videos.

  • @greciacarbajalruiz1788
    @greciacarbajalruiz1788 2 місяці тому +10

    Real content from a real human. Loved it!

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video🤍 🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍 🤍ᴍᴇ🤍 🤍ᴀ🤍 🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍 🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍 🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @VladimirKostek
    @VladimirKostek 11 днів тому +1

    I love the context you put of protecting the trust with your audience. It's something that I've been doing by not taking sponsorships purposefully, but something about the way you put it reaffirmed my decision for me. Thanks for this very valuable video!

  • @WiWillemijn
    @WiWillemijn 3 години тому

    Wow haha, when you talked about the 30 minute enjoyment activity I was literally thinking about puzzling and painting by numbers :D

  • @anjumamute
    @anjumamute 3 дні тому

    I absolutely loved your videos! I watched a few and wanted to share that you have a Brazilian fan learning from you, especially during this phase of my life as I’m starting my own UA-cam channels. 😊
    By the way, I was thrilled when I saw the screenshot of Allods Online. I’m a huge fan of Allods too, it’s such an awesome game! Sadly, I haven’t played it in years since I emigrated.

  • @PhillipoSombreroAmarillo
    @PhillipoSombreroAmarillo 7 днів тому

    Incredible video, I am full with great insights and relief. I have putting so much pressure on myself. Now I feel so relieved! Thank you!

  • @chickensuspicious3662
    @chickensuspicious3662 10 днів тому +1

    You're a sweetheart, your personality really shines through the video and I aspire to have the same energy for what I want to do. Keep it up!

  • @ThorstenSO
    @ThorstenSO 3 дні тому

    💯% ... and the life weeks time sheet is great. I love to do some project thing with no time limits for some days.

  • @TheBondy2010
    @TheBondy2010 9 днів тому +1

    IMO this has been your absolute best video yet!!

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  8 днів тому

      i really appreciate that!!! i loved making this video

  • @ginez9698
    @ginez9698 2 місяці тому +2

    Apples algo picked up that I just got 4000 weeks. Creepy how next day I find the gem you are through it. Thank you so much for existing

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  2 місяці тому +1

      ahh yay! if you read it lmk how you like it!

  • @gokulnath8710
    @gokulnath8710 2 дні тому

    Mind blowing book..bless you for the great summary of the ideas..definitely changed something for me..

  • @blayneelizabeth2098
    @blayneelizabeth2098 10 днів тому +1

    Hey Daya, thank you so much for helping us organize our crazy brains thanks for reading books so we don’t have to lol I have 18,000 on UA-cam but I’ve had 18,000 for a long time because of shorts. I just started my long form videos about three or four months ago, and I started buckling down. This is my goal. I know that I meant to be on UA-cam. I know that I meant to be a public speaker and people are meant to hear my story thank you so much for continuing the work that you do and for lighting a spark under our asses.

  • @SwapnilDeshpande
    @SwapnilDeshpande 9 днів тому

    "Time is only valuable and well-spent if it is productive" is SUCH a huge burden to live by. It's really impossible. Really loved this video. I'll also check out the book. Great content!

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  9 днів тому +1

      i know! that was such a big one for me to dismantle too

  • @fifidefreitas1045
    @fifidefreitas1045 5 днів тому

    Yiou are absolutely awesome for the value you provide!

  • @Jazznicole
    @Jazznicole 2 місяці тому +1

    This was life changing.

  • @mosescosme8629
    @mosescosme8629 Місяць тому +2

    I needed to hear all of this. Thank you, Deya.

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @Annacstt
    @Annacstt 2 місяці тому

    Hey Deya, this is a masterclass! I have been incredibly touched by your soft/cozy entepreneur videos, and this one is really a clear step for achieving it, and avoiding burnout. I have had my share of burnouts since I work for myself, and for the last year I have been trying to learn a new way to work and ultimately, exist. You help a lot without even knowing, so thank you for everything you do. 🖤

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @kevinho8582
    @kevinho8582 2 місяці тому +2

    @11:21 agreed, i think it can really affect your ability to have genuine relationships since you can start to see any interactions as prospecting oppurtunities

  • @carolmendes2011
    @carolmendes2011 2 місяці тому

    I love your perspective 🙌🏽 one of my favorite UA-camrs of all time ! Thank you ❤

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  2 місяці тому

      🥹 thank you for watching, carol!!!

  • @EibhlinArt
    @EibhlinArt 11 днів тому

    Thank you for sharing this! I realllllly needed it! 🤩

  • @ambersucces9867
    @ambersucces9867 2 місяці тому +2

    This was so good Deya! I even took notes lol

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  2 місяці тому +1

      happy to hear that, amber! :)

  • @AvigailMenashe
    @AvigailMenashe Місяць тому

    Thank you i have been looking for someone to talk about this problem and this video is the best i have seen on this topic, i am very grateful.

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  29 днів тому

      so happy you liked it!!! this is one of my favorites too

  • @mason.fridley
    @mason.fridley 2 місяці тому

    I haven't watched the whole video yet and can already tell you how impactful this is!! Thank you for sharing

  • @witekzak
    @witekzak 15 днів тому +1

    Love the "cozy entrepreneur" thing!

  • @deshnamehta5803
    @deshnamehta5803 28 днів тому

    Easily my favourite video of yours! Good job Deya 😊❤

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  27 днів тому +1

      awww i'm so so happy to hear that. i loooved this book & making this video as well. was a great way to summarize + refresh my knowledge!

  • @artekal3d
    @artekal3d 2 місяці тому +2

    Not sure who said it-maybe Mark Manson or maybe I did-but it’s counterintuitive: accepting you can’t do everything at once and letting go of control makes you more productive. Trying to juggle it all is mentally draining and often leads to doing even less.
    And the thing is, no matter how much you hear it from others, you truly understand the meaning of it on your own with experiences.
    Btw my atelic activity is singing, or rapping randomly, and sometimes even recording it (which is actually something I can do without caring about money forever, and i've been doing it for more than a decade!)
    Btw, idk if you need suggestion about sponsorship or not, but I used to watch a channel called Electroboom and the way he started sponsorship was to giveaway products related to the niche (it is an electronic channel, he used to giveaway oscilloscope) through that sponsorship. Slowly he even started giving away to schools that couldn't afford it. It never felt weird to me a bit. Just a thought.

  • @IstanbulChriss
    @IstanbulChriss 2 дні тому

    Your video style is great !

  • @RefayatHaque
    @RefayatHaque 2 місяці тому

    Thanks so much Deya, this video made me feel so much better as I navigate a difficult part of my life...

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @Sarah_Stacks
    @Sarah_Stacks 2 місяці тому +2

    I looooooooooooooved this book so much. Totally rethought everything about my work life. I read it once a year!

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  2 місяці тому

      same!!! i loved it so much, i re-read it often just to be reminded of it again

  • @saaleha_lvv
    @saaleha_lvv 2 місяці тому

    Honestly, I'm really grateful that i found your channel

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @JamieDunbar
    @JamieDunbar 11 днів тому +1

    Surfing is my atelic hobby. I suck at it. I don't really care that much about getting better at it. And if I go out for an hour and don't catch a wave, that's fine because I just enjoy being in the ocean.

  • @rayraman3243
    @rayraman3243 25 днів тому

    First time on your channel, and I have to say, your advice is spot on. Thanks for creating and sharing this video! If you haven’t already, I think you’d really enjoy the book Singletasking.

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @courtneymiller2768
    @courtneymiller2768 2 дні тому

    I love your content! I listen in the car and the constant popping noises are too much 😅

  • @happyhoundsdogtraining
    @happyhoundsdogtraining 2 місяці тому

    SO helpful, thank you!!

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @katherinejzhang
    @katherinejzhang 2 місяці тому

    thank you, I really needed to hear all this!

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  2 місяці тому

      yay! happy it was helpful, katherine! :)

  • @papiertje2261
    @papiertje2261 6 днів тому +1

    Girl you're like super nerdy and I kinda like it.

  • @chelseamurray1678
    @chelseamurray1678 2 місяці тому

    Wonderful advice 👏

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @angiec8784
    @angiec8784 2 місяці тому

    Thanks for this video! Super helpful!

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @Hedayausama
    @Hedayausama 7 днів тому

    What is the application you use for editing your videos i like it ? ❤

  • @wittyk8581
    @wittyk8581 2 місяці тому

    Thank you!

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @shreyyop
    @shreyyop 2 місяці тому

    Grest video ma'am ❤

  • @geraldmarco
    @geraldmarco 9 днів тому

    Wow! the JOMO really resonates me hard

  • @techkideg
    @techkideg 2 місяці тому +5

    My favorite part of the book is when it dawns on you that you might not be the next elon musk.
    Realizing this was my first step to actually making an impact. The reduced pressure of “this has to be great” makes me more productive given my perfectionist tendencies, and by realizing this, I shifted my focus on other goals to moving forward.
    Deya I’m a fan of your work, 1 out of every 10 books you summarize I have read, I just think that reading the book is the biggest factor to enacting change and maybe less on the content side, it only takes one good thing that really stick to make a book worth it. With watching your videos, I consider thought time on the book is crucial for it to start sculpting your belief. I’d rather see you try and convince me to read the book, I think that would be truly helpful.

    • @inferno7289
      @inferno7289 2 місяці тому

      nobody should want to be the next Elon Musk specifically anyway, one was more than enough for the planet

  • @rainbowparrotart
    @rainbowparrotart 11 днів тому

    Thanks for silencing the annoying voice in my head telling me that I should be building an audience on multiple platforms!

  • @soumyadipdutta6716
    @soumyadipdutta6716 2 місяці тому

    Oh dear! I am actually in that hamster wheel for past 1 week :0
    Now I can see all the time wasted on productivity apps than actually working!

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  2 місяці тому +1

      good realization to have! :)

  • @backlaceanarchy
    @backlaceanarchy 2 місяці тому

    This video popped up as I finished my time blocked calendar 😂

  • @kevdmi
    @kevdmi 10 днів тому

    Watching this thinking, "I should read that book," and then finding out I read 2.5 yrs ago. Maybe, I should focus on applying it, instead of just reading it.

  • @justinjordan8016
    @justinjordan8016 2 місяці тому +1

    Teleporting cat

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @kevinho.fineart
    @kevinho.fineart 2 місяці тому

    @16:22 I dunno about millions but if you know something i don't please share 😂

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @Walid492
    @Walid492 2 місяці тому

    My system of interest is Fb.

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @house_of_cruz
    @house_of_cruz 2 місяці тому +1

    But there are so many shinies 😅

  • @matteo.g2213
    @matteo.g2213 2 місяці тому

    😍

  • @abhaysharan
    @abhaysharan 2 місяці тому +1

    Me thinking you read ‘for’ 4 thousand weeks 😅😅😅😅

    • @MyNameisDeya-d9s
      @MyNameisDeya-d9s 23 дні тому

      Thanks for your time! As hyped as I am about getting more good content out! Don't forget to like the video 🤍🤍ꜱᴇɴᴅ🤍🤍ᴍᴇ🤍🤍ᴀ🤍🤍ᴅɪʀᴇᴄᴛ🤍🤍ᴛᴇxᴛ🤍🤍➕𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟼𝟹𝟶𝟺𝟾𝟹𝟸 🔝

  • @PhilippChumak
    @PhilippChumak 6 днів тому

    For me the most atelic thing. Ido is working in Figma building components. When I see how easily it gets to build a UI for user flow it makes me successfully happy.

  • @chaddie93
    @chaddie93 6 днів тому

    Cracker vid 👌🏼

  • @Coherentm
    @Coherentm 5 днів тому

    I anti-matter

  • @Walid492
    @Walid492 2 місяці тому

    The atelic activity that I enjoy doing is in fact reading my holly book (Quran).

  • @loredelabarca
    @loredelabarca 8 днів тому

    Just discovered your channel. LOVED and specifically LOVED this video. “*You don’t have to justify your existence *“ ❤️‍🩹 that healed me as I’ve always struggled with that ‘saving the world’ idea which is a huge amount of pressure that makes no sense at the end 🤣
    Anyways, thanks for the video! Will keep on watching cause your content is authentically useful and also beautiful as I resonate with your vibes 🌈💖

    • @MyNameIsDeya
      @MyNameIsDeya  8 днів тому +1

      so so happy to hear it resonated! i loved this book & i got so much from it. :) thank you for watching!