Just started listening. I did this and pulled in a 6 figure man who adores me. I did not chase, in fact I pushed back and did me. We are on the road to hopefully marriage. Make YOU a priority. Men need to be the provider.
When a man invest in you he will never leave because he wants to get his moneys worth BUT if you invest in him he will go and invest in another one ~~ my paternal grandfather
I was the most difficult challenge for my husband, it seems like it only made him more obsessed! Now we’re married and he’s gonna be chasing foreva lol…. The women in my family ask why i dont treat him how he treats me but hes always telling me he falls more in love everyday lol! Ladies they dont want it easy, keep him chasing!
You’re unfortunately 100% right about this. I’ve never seen one woman who was a 50/50 Barb the Builder who was ever loved, appreciated, or treated properly. Not one. Not me, mom, sis, maternal grandma, aunts, friends, NONE of them. I had one grandma who was treated right, and she did not work except to cook. And my paternal grandad was such a good man. But my father didn’t follow in his father’s footsteps and was a dusty, abusive, loser.
I agree. Almost all the women in my family who have worked and paid bills got financially abused, cheated on or disrespected. Until this day, I haven't found a man who truly is grateful for his wife's financial contribution and he loves he more afterward than he did before. It's programmed in them, they can't appreciate that type of help from a woman. Yet the keep denying it saying we're gold diggers.
“We just went out.. we weren’t worried about no bumble. Just look good baby, look like you cost money… look like a challenge, the bravest one with the most money gone walk up to you” 😂😂😂😂 Shera you keep me laughing! But facts
Be afraid of broke men and men that don’t have their life together. I read a story about a man in the UK that struggled to find a job, and so he killed is wife who was a nurse and both his kids
@@gloriamaiga2786 I learned more from you in these two sentences than this whole video...tbh! Never let a "pretty" face be the reason GOOD real men die! The lady that made this content called my behavior "broke and dumb".
So happy I discovered this channel. I have met a man whom I went on a dinner date with. Wants to do anything for me. Told him it’s my birthday he offered me perfume, told him it was not good enough! He said ok anything you want. Send me the list. He is so happy to be in my presence! Never felt so powerful! Although I work and do well for myself I want a Provider and Protector. Been on previous dates and guys were dusties. This guy can’t do enough for me! 😘I look good and work out and stay in shape. My Electrician told me my standards are to high and I will end up alone. Begged me to sleep with him and go halves on a meal he wanted to take me for. No sir your dustie self ain’t for me! He still keeps trying. He asked me via text if I am lonely told him my bank account is lonely. Asked me to dinner again I refused unless it’s a restaurant of my choice!👍🏽💯
Your info makes me so angry only because I was raised so WRONG. I’m 26 now trying to re-teach myself how to be a real woman!!! Thank you for your wisdom
Only way to make a man chase u is run .. and whenever u do contact them let it be about money !! Then run again .. and when he think u letting him back in ask for money.. keep that Cycle goin and a man will chase u for life
I told my bf to pay me when he was apologizing and he said he was taken back when I said this and then he said he agrees he should!!? I was like okayyy, that’s right 200 baby.
Not true. They’ll be in a relationship or marriage with you for security, attention, affection, a maid, and someone to help build them. So make sure that he’s treating you.
SN but I LOVE how you're different every day, preppy today, classic tomorrow, gypsy-esc next week, relaxed loungy yesterday ... I hope to emulate this in my own life
I laughed this whole live. Especially about hanging at the eye clinic. But looking forward to 2023. Made space on my roster for some new news. Thanks for all of your videos. You have changed my life
I love you Shera. Ladies listen to her. I love older men who provide. However I’m talking to someone my age,he lives overseas and he pays my rent and utilities monthly. It’s 7 months
Yeah. They ain't gotta love me but they damn sure ain't gotta hate me with envy though at most times, just one glance. Too many Black & Hispanic men envy women just bcuz of our looks alone and they'll try to either kill or destroy us if they get close enough. it's really sad and scary out here. 🥴
This lady soooo funny and everything she say is true asfff🤣💯 I been sprinkling for years and finally came across someone who UNDERSTANDS 😩💯 woman always judge me because i don’t work and my man take care of me. Always calling me lazy. When they take care of a man and think they spoil them because they’re giving them the little money they made off the block (selling that stuff!) baby he just investing so you can take care of him when he go to jail! 💥
No wealthy man has ever made a comment about me having a daughter. In fact, they were very interested in our relationship. They didn’t mind or make comments like the dusties did lol so Shera is right.
You really don’t see wealthy men wifing women with children. That’s extremely rare beyond rare. They can have a beautiful childless women . Why take on your situation??
@@JadeHeartLove lol they shouldn’t have to afford other men’s children. Kids are expensive and if that responsibility belongs to another it’s asinine for you to expect another man to be able to afford them. It’s not his problem.
Online dating is ideal for me because I dont want kids and I dont want to deal with a man who has little kids or wants kids. And honestly, guys I've met in person are more likely to be sexually aggressive and try to assault me. Honestly, I'm over men but as always, this advice is great because for me, the challenge is mainly in my mentality since I've always had the looks.
@@chayo4537 Nope. The most successful woman is a woman like Shera who can play the game right at the mental level and have the added bonus of looking good. Or be like Cleopatra. Supposedly she wasnt a great beauty but she knew how to strategize and play men. Most if it is mental, looks will only inspire heightened sexual desire and I hate that.
I was raised by a hyper independent woman and her husband “stuck in marriage “ She wanted a lot expecting money from a guy who doesn’t earn enough. She also did all the house work and took control of everything made him miserable so he is not leaving ever. Mean hyper independent woman I don’t want to be
How,did you just watch all her videos?? I am too soft and have too much empathy.i hate myself.i wish I was Shera...I have been played so badly it hurts
@yoko create an alter ego who isn't soft, isn't empathetic and doesn't get played, and channel her whenever you're dealing with men. Give her a name, picture how she caries herself, how she speaks, how she plays men, then embody her at all times. ❤
👍🙏😘🙏 THIS IS EPIC SHERA...YOU ARE THE BEST, and YOUR SO FUNNY TOO 😀😂😁...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH...I EMBRACE YOUR INTELLIGENCE...HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023...SHERASEVEN IS NUMERO UNO☝IN THE GAME!!! 🙏😘🙏
Hello Shera!! Happy holidays. Could you do a video “We are not the HELP”. I just watched a famous influencer say that she was working Uber to help her husband out. And that didn’t sit right with me. I know that we have our own lives and each relationship is different. I just no longer agree with the “help-meet” narrative. Why can’t our men provide for us completely w/o our input? Why did they push the “helpmeet” mess? All of this cause of “P” envy? I know the answer but most still don’t. A man asking for help isn’t ready for a family and may not even choose you to have a family with. Us women always making exceptions. ❤
Girrrrl.... the day I hop in a car to help a man will be to help him get to the dealership so he can pay for the car he is buying me. lol A husband is not a child, I won't be doing that sort of thing for a grown man. If that was a famous influencer where is the money going from social media?
@@SheRaSeven1 The influencer was speaking on their early years in marriage, before the takeoff. Retired her husband a few years ago due to the money earned on social media.
Are there any single moms,who just feels hopeless? I only have 1 son and I'm 33 ,iv been single for 4 years but a big part of me feels like I should just forget about it,deal with life as it is and raise my son until he is 18 and then worry about dating. Yet,I don't want to waste my 30s,I already spent my 20s on a painful marriage
Single moms have options Don’t give up If you do it right you attract men who help you because you already are in a position of need Target divorcée men who don’t want any more kids
@@yogigoyi go online and expand your options Men of various races exist Date to just build confidence then when your confidence is higher start applying shera teachings Her teaching work with extreme confidence and weaponized vulnerability
I agree with Grace! Same age as you sis, but my daughter is 13. Don’t believe the manosphere talk that claim single moms are worthless. I definitely have options out here, and a guy who likes me literally texted me yesterday saying he knows I’m a single mom and is willing to help me out if needed. Always look your absolute best and be feminine! Dassit! You got this 😘
This is a mental job that goes on forever. I’m going to need some time off… I’m 2 weeks in and this is a lot… any tips on when to be yourself…? most likely have to do it by ourselfs 😂😢😅
Great topic!! But it's not that black and white sometimes..if you suspect cheating you can leave him, or give ultimatum for him to stop or stop sex like she said BUT he will wonder and things will not continue to just flow as normal..you can either let him know he's cheating and give him the green light WHILE saying we won't be having sex tho OR you can just keep mouth closed, keep having sex and be secretly mad..there are options
At the 1:19:00 the part about "guys want to take me out, at work" reason for not working, If the man responds with those are excuses "you just don't want to work" What to say then?
Either talk about not feeling sexually safe around some of them or talk about a new handsome one that started. Either way push him into sexual competition mode. If he really just doesn't care for your safety or losing you to another man get another one on tlyour roster, he doesn't care about you enough.
Shera I need advice I had a man and my bpd sabotaged the connection he was going to marry me then kept trying to reconcile I kept saying no so he haven’t ring to his ex… do u think he was trying to settle with what was comfortable bc I made him think I didn’t want him? How do I stop caring that he did that now that he’s back in my life…especially with bpd
Anytime I start to get emotional I start listening to Shera
Me too
Yes me too...I love her calmness 💞
OMG, yes!
FACTS!!
Same here. Her works keep me aloof n balanced
Just started listening. I did this and pulled in a 6 figure man who adores me. I did not chase, in fact I pushed back and did me. We are on the road to hopefully marriage. Make YOU a priority. Men need to be the provider.
So happy for you!
Hopefully, more women will do that in 2023.
More power to you sis ❤
Beautiful 🩷
But when I push them away they go away 😅
That sounds amazing! How's it going so far?
When a man invest in you he will never leave because he wants to get his moneys worth BUT if you invest in him he will go and invest in another one ~~ my paternal grandfather
He never said that shit 🧢
Go away! It’s also proven psychological facts 🤡
He is right!
Facts.
@@younghafizzle yes he did
I was the most difficult challenge for my husband, it seems like it only made him more obsessed! Now we’re married and he’s gonna be chasing foreva lol…. The women in my family ask why i dont treat him how he treats me but hes always telling me he falls more in love everyday lol! Ladies they dont want it easy, keep him chasing!
Tips ?❤
Share tips please
Get someone who from the very beginning likes you more than you like them
@@kirskirs2219 heavy on the waaaay more
Yes! + You're so beautiful
You’re unfortunately 100% right about this. I’ve never seen one woman who was a 50/50 Barb the Builder who was ever loved, appreciated, or treated properly. Not one. Not me, mom, sis, maternal grandma, aunts, friends, NONE of them. I had one grandma who was treated right, and she did not work except to cook. And my paternal grandad was such a good man. But my father didn’t follow in his father’s footsteps and was a dusty, abusive, loser.
None!! They do not care!!
I agree. Almost all the women in my family who have worked and paid bills got financially abused, cheated on or disrespected. Until this day, I haven't found a man who truly is grateful for his wife's financial contribution and he loves he more afterward than he did before. It's programmed in them, they can't appreciate that type of help from a woman. Yet the keep denying it saying we're gold diggers.
It's an unconscious process. Men are not programmed to need help from women it makes them feel like Simps or as If you're saying they are incompetent
You always speak the truth.
I’m glad that women are waking up!
Shera you really moved the culture forward.
Singlehandedly lol.
The world world even uses her terms🤣
@@JMarie0921 lol Yes.
A beautiful glimmer of hope ❤
She darn sure did ❤
@@JMarie0921 lmaooooooooooo yessss
“We just went out.. we weren’t worried about no bumble. Just look good baby, look like you cost money… look like a challenge, the bravest one with the most money gone walk up to you” 😂😂😂😂 Shera you keep me laughing! But facts
Look like you cost money 😂😂
Facts! Back to old school ways! 😂😂
If you want man to fall in love with you lead with their money 😊you got to care about yourself more than them .
If he has trust issues, give him some issues to deal with 😭😭😭😂😂😂😂😂😂
😭😭😭 so wild
Be afraid of broke men and men that don’t have their life together. I read a story about a man in the UK that struggled to find a job, and so he killed is wife who was a nurse and both his kids
Ooh dear. A broke man is a very wounded and dangerous man. Terrible
Yes, definitely! They’re more likely to harm women who leave them because they need the woman to survive.
@Ann Envy is an ugly thing.
@@gloriamaiga2786 I learned more from you in these two sentences than this whole video...tbh! Never let a "pretty" face be the reason GOOD real men die! The lady that made this content called my behavior "broke and dumb".
@Ann this sounds serious. We in America are so privileged. If we only knew what a real struggle was !
I don’t date anyone who wont finance me. Point blank period
👋👋👋👋👋🖤
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
what a bunch of leeches
So happy I discovered this channel. I have met a man whom I went on a dinner date with. Wants to do anything for me. Told him it’s my birthday he offered me perfume, told him it was not good enough! He said ok anything you want. Send me the list. He is so happy to be in my presence! Never felt so powerful! Although I work and do well for myself I want a Provider and Protector. Been on previous dates and guys were dusties. This guy can’t do enough for me! 😘I look good and work out and stay in shape. My Electrician told me my standards are to high and I will end up alone. Begged me to sleep with him and go halves on a meal he wanted to take me for. No sir your dustie self ain’t for me! He still keeps trying. He asked me via text if I am lonely told him my bank account is lonely. Asked me to dinner again I refused unless it’s a restaurant of my choice!👍🏽💯
Keep them standards high and you will get what you want. thats right! Make them work for it.
My bank account is lonely lmaooo 👏🏼
Yesss! Like Shera said..Keep them Standards high! ✨✨
Electrician said your standards are too high 😂
Not electrician
Braids or wigs? SheRa: whichever gets the money 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Wigs .. more attractive
@@qbrown264 that’s subjective.
@@qbrown264weave the mens here dont like the fake hair
@@qbrown264 Nah. Braids are way more embracing of natural hair lol. Do wigs occasionally as natural hair or protective styles work wonders
Your info makes me so angry only because I was raised so WRONG. I’m 26 now trying to re-teach myself how to be a real woman!!! Thank you for your wisdom
we're in the same boat
You’re still young don’t be angry just let it go.I found her at 28 and now I’m older but she has saved me alot of wasted years.
same girl just turned 26 my family taught me wrong
Same girl same
Me too
Met a new sugardaddy and my old one wants me Back. I have 3 now 😊 so happy having my money and new appartement
I want this so bad ❤
HOW DO U FIND THEM
how do you have the energy hahah.Give us tips
I like how Shera is elegant like a lawyer or judge👏
Only way to make a man chase u is run .. and whenever u do contact them let it be about money !! Then run again .. and when he think u letting him back in ask for money.. keep that Cycle goin and a man will chase u for life
Chase you when you ask for money?
That’s toxic asf
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns if u ugly u wouldn’t kno how the game go .. so this might not be for u , only pretty and badd bitches understand this 😉
@@julioment2910 but it works. Men are toxic as wel but yall still think yall are good.... lol .
@@mstwelvedeadlycyns Males always ask for sex and girls still chase those males. It’s same but opposite direction.
Men fall in love when you ask for money right away? WHERE THEY AT
I told my bf to pay me when he was apologizing and he said he was taken back when I said this and then he said he agrees he should!!? I was like okayyy, that’s right 200 baby.
Just discovered this channel recently and I'm obsessed 😍
Sprinkle Sprinkle! How are You!
@@SheRaSeven1 I'm good babe , how are you?
I’m obsessed as well hahaha. Her laughs some statements kills me the most
He is not your purpose ,you are your purpose😂
Not true. They’ll be in a relationship or marriage with you for security, attention, affection, a maid, and someone to help build them. So make sure that he’s treating you.
SN but I LOVE how you're different every day, preppy today, classic tomorrow, gypsy-esc next week, relaxed loungy yesterday ... I hope to emulate this in my own life
Same
Can’t wait to see you on tv looking fabulous receiving praise for pushing this dialogue forward someday
Her answer about the narcissist cheating is Fantastic. He used his free will to do what he wanted.
Exactly. It’s has nothing to do with us
Shera is one of my favorite people to watch, she is hilarious lol
Oh wow! I just found your channel. I don't believe in coincidence. You're so truthful and transparent. Thank you 😊
Sprinkle Sprinkle! Thanks!
All I needed was a southern woman like Sheras to keep me in check. Reminding me of my superpowers.
that's righttttt Southern women read people with the filth and keep it cute
I laughed this whole live. Especially about hanging at the eye clinic. But looking forward to 2023. Made space on my roster for some new news. Thanks for all of your videos. You have changed my life
I love you Shera. Ladies listen to her. I love older men who provide. However I’m talking to someone my age,he lives overseas and he pays my rent and utilities monthly. It’s 7 months
Do you have to connect over video with him?
Hi! What dating site did you use?
Sprinkle Sprinkle!!
@@Leisuregirl2000 ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@rainacherienne1010 I’m sorry for the late reply and yes we speak via WhatsApp
2:00 7:00 they’re lucky to be with me mindset yasssss qween 💕💕💕💕 10:40 12:10 14:10 ❤❤❤❤❤ 23:10 27:50 29:10 31:20 34:00 😭 take nothing personal 🎉 42:50 competition 43:40
44:35 ❤ 55:03
Yeah. They ain't gotta love me but they damn sure ain't gotta hate me with envy though at most times, just one glance. Too many Black & Hispanic men envy women just bcuz of our looks alone and they'll try to either kill or destroy us if they get close enough. it's really sad and scary out here. 🥴
Yes they are so jealous that they Want to destroy your life and confidence
This lady soooo funny and everything she say is true asfff🤣💯 I been sprinkling for years and finally came across someone who UNDERSTANDS 😩💯 woman always judge me because i don’t work and my man take care of me. Always calling me lazy. When they take care of a man and think they spoil them because they’re giving them the little money they made off the block (selling that stuff!) baby he just investing so you can take care of him when he go to jail! 💥
Y’all rich people an men started to turn their heads when they see me I’m so happy thank you Shera for making me level up
“Only broke men care if you have kids” 🙀💯💯💯
No wealthy man has ever made a comment about me having a daughter. In fact, they were very interested in our relationship. They didn’t mind or make comments like the dusties did lol so Shera is right.
@@Queen-ConsciousYa makes sense. Only the ones who can’t afford it would have a problem with it.
You really don’t see wealthy men wifing women with children. That’s extremely rare beyond rare. They can have a beautiful childless women . Why take on your situation??
@@JadeHeartLove lol they shouldn’t have to afford other men’s children. Kids are expensive and if that responsibility belongs to another it’s asinine for you to expect another man to be able to afford them. It’s not his problem.
@@amazinggrace313 your message sounds familiar; have a just pearly day😂😂😂😂
Sprinkle Sprinkle,! It's 5AM on January 1st 2023 and I'm watching you! ❤️😁
I’m so embarrassed I let this happen to me … like the shame
Don't be...even Shera had to learn from unpleasant experiences. 🎉
You needed that embarrassment trust me. Now you know how it feels and you will not want to feel that way anymore
I love that.. He did it for himself, he did what he wanted, it had nothing to do with you. This! Thank you Shera I love u
💯
Shera, you're doing God's work. God bless you.
I’m diagnosing you too!! 😂😂😂😂😂
I dated a narc who did this to me when I was much younger
I’m just taking notes and laughing. Nothing else lol this should be a show. I’d watch it
Online dating is ideal for me because I dont want kids and I dont want to deal with a man who has little kids or wants kids. And honestly, guys I've met in person are more likely to be sexually aggressive and try to assault me. Honestly, I'm over men but as always, this advice is great because for me, the challenge is mainly in my mentality since I've always had the looks.
Guess it ain't all its cracked up to be. And beauty isnt enough. It's just.. empty.
@@chayo4537 Nope. The most successful woman is a woman like Shera who can play the game right at the mental level and have the added bonus of looking good. Or be like Cleopatra. Supposedly she wasnt a great beauty but she knew how to strategize and play men. Most if it is mental, looks will only inspire heightened sexual desire and I hate that.
Girl...my life story. Too much compassion and empathy. A blessing and a curse. I always wished I cared more about money. Now I'm too exhausted 🤣
@@feliznavidad6958 you people are delusional a lot of you aren’t master seducers 😂 be realistic please 🙄
@@feliznavidad6958 Yup Cleopatra is my inspiration, she knew how it went!
I would totally get a what would Shera do bracelet
17:07 my personal replay button. Love this one, thank you Shera ❤
* Place my order/submit payment* 👨💻 is the foreplay 💅
and you've outed yourself as a disgusting leech 🎊
Shera said “Looking like a toothpick and a grape” 😂 OMG 😆 I’m done Chille 😂😂 U made my day!!
You are wise Shera Just the first few sentences introducing the topic are simple yet crucial points Key word: “responsibility”
Shera ended 2022 with a BANG!
I was raised by a hyper independent woman and her husband “stuck in marriage “ She wanted a lot expecting money from a guy who doesn’t earn enough. She also did all the house work and took control of everything made him miserable so he is not leaving ever. Mean hyper independent woman I don’t want to be
I give up on looking for love. There's no love to be gained out there 💔. I have to settle for no love because love doesn't love me
your yourself and get money
I read your reply, now I see you clearly. Please stop popping up on my phone ma'am, good day.
There is Love, get a Pet!
Thank you, I've got one. I think I got the better choice.
Ma'am, you golddiggers need love too don't you.
Shera, I start believing all you say is true.
42 wasted my youth with the wrong one
I AM HOLLERING! I screamed this entire video! 🤣🤣
Studied shera so hard I done metamorphisized into like photosynthesis or some sheit.....😅
How,did you just watch all her videos?? I am too soft and have too much empathy.i hate myself.i wish I was Shera...I have been played so badly it hurts
@yoko create an alter ego who isn't soft, isn't empathetic and doesn't get played, and channel her whenever you're dealing with men. Give her a name, picture how she caries herself, how she speaks, how she plays men, then embody her at all times. ❤
@@sophieb777 love this,thank you
@@yogigoyi Being played should be your motivation to do better!
AYO! THE AUNT ETHEL VOICE IS CRAZY! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
wow you’re so right though. thank you so much i’m taking notes sis
💀💀 @ do I look like Popeye's! 😂😂😂. How I hollered !
😂😂😂 right!
👍🙏😘🙏 THIS IS EPIC SHERA...YOU ARE THE BEST, and YOUR SO FUNNY TOO 😀😂😁...I LOVE YOU SO MUCH...I EMBRACE YOUR INTELLIGENCE...HAPPY NEW YEAR 2023...SHERASEVEN IS NUMERO UNO☝IN THE GAME!!! 🙏😘🙏
Hello Shera!! Happy holidays. Could you do a video “We are not the HELP”. I just watched a famous influencer say that she was working Uber to help her husband out. And that didn’t sit right with me. I know that we have our own lives and each relationship is different. I just no longer agree with the “help-meet” narrative. Why can’t our men provide for us completely w/o our input? Why did they push the “helpmeet” mess? All of this cause of “P” envy? I know the answer but most still don’t. A man asking for help isn’t ready for a family and may not even choose you to have a family with. Us women always making exceptions. ❤
Interesting post.
Girrrrl.... the day I hop in a car to help a man will be to help him get to the dealership so he can pay for the car he is buying me. lol A husband is not a child, I won't be doing that sort of thing for a grown man. If that was a famous influencer where is the money going from social media?
@@SheRaSeven1 The influencer was speaking on their early years in marriage, before the takeoff. Retired her husband a few years ago due to the money earned on social media.
@@rierie2180 "retired her husband"? Eww.
@@sophieb777 yep definitely did.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿🎉🎉🎉🎉 ON YOUR!!! 🥰🥰❤️🥰🥰TEN!!!🤗🤗🤗🤗 YEAR!!!!🤗🤗🤗🤗
ANNIVERSARY!!!!!...🎉🎉🎉🤗🤗🤗❤️
That is why we are here shera. We need help. I have 9 older sisters that couldn't and didn't teach me the game of getting money.
Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨✨
Time to level uppppp!!!
Thank you for this topic.
Are there any single moms,who just feels hopeless?
I only have 1 son and I'm 33 ,iv been single for 4 years but a big part of me feels like I should just forget about it,deal with life as it is and raise my son until he is 18 and then worry about dating.
Yet,I don't want to waste my 30s,I already spent my 20s on a painful marriage
Single moms have options
Don’t give up
If you do it right you attract men who help you because you already are in a position of need
Target divorcée men who don’t want any more kids
@@Thekingsdota thank you,all I see is " stay away from single moms"...I didn't even date much in my teens and 20s...need to work on my confidence
@@yogigoyi go online and expand your options
Men of various races exist
Date to just build confidence then when your confidence is higher start applying shera teachings
Her teaching work with extreme confidence and weaponized vulnerability
I agree with Grace! Same age as you sis, but my daughter is 13. Don’t believe the manosphere talk that claim single moms are worthless. I definitely have options out here, and a guy who likes me literally texted me yesterday saying he knows I’m a single mom and is willing to help me out if needed. Always look your absolute best and be feminine! Dassit! You got this 😘
I’m 31 with a toddler. And date affluent men. Look attractive, work out & preserve your best feminine self. ❤🎉
shera birthed all of us lmao
FACTS!!! 😂😂😂 I'm a new woman after her info
She is Mother
Definitely!
you don’t tell no lies! lord
Shera I am so glad I found you , my life will be changing for the better . P.s you sound like Connie , The Hormone Monsteress from Big Mouth ,a legend
You are amazing!!! Your advice is facts!!!!!!
You changed our lives ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Forever!
! Shera thank you.
The baddest ❤
Whatever you say is true ❤
RIP aunt Ethel 🕊
You changed my world 🌎 ♥️ n i am gonna apply your technique for life
You’re amazing! Happy new year 😘
That diagnosis part was hilarious 😂🤣 I couldn’t stop laughing
Thanks!
This is a mental job that goes on forever. I’m going to need some time off… I’m 2 weeks in and this is a lot… any tips on when to be yourself…? most likely have to do it by ourselfs 😂😢😅
U were so funny on this live shera!
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You have to be about YOU
Great topic!! But it's not that black and white sometimes..if you suspect cheating you can leave him, or give ultimatum for him to stop or stop sex like she said BUT he will wonder and things will not continue to just flow as normal..you can either let him know he's cheating and give him the green light WHILE saying we won't be having sex tho OR you can just keep mouth closed, keep having sex and be secretly mad..there are options
Do tell more 😂
Love Shera ❤️
Black and white. Keep it clean 💯
Gurrrlll..you are freeing me....❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
yes go without him. they want to ruin your day
I just started listening fr but she gets me! Sometimes i do be feeling hit but i can tell she knows her stuff so i honestly just take it
Nice video Shera 🔥
you need to make a podcast!!
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She is TOOOOO FUNNY OMG
At the 1:19:00 the part about "guys want to take me out, at work" reason for not working, If the man responds with those are excuses "you just don't want to work" What to say then?
Say am a women that’s normal
Either talk about not feeling sexually safe around some of them or talk about a new handsome one that started. Either way push him into sexual competition mode. If he really just doesn't care for your safety or losing you to another man get another one on tlyour roster, he doesn't care about you enough.
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Leave. Being provided for is your birth right. You don’t have to explain yourself.
Just stay quiet. They are not your provider and you don't need to give an explanation.
Thank you Shera & Happy New Year!
God's blessings and healing to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🙏😇🙏
#sheraSevenforpresident❤️
Aunt Ethel!!! 🙌
What you tell here i can absolutely confirm with my age of 22
Y’all wanna walk around with no makeup looking like the maid. While the girl with makeup on, is looking like she’s paid. Barz 😂
~Shera
All the girls are sad
Shera Shera Shera😂❤
Thank you shera
I wish you could analyse JustPearlyThings as an example of how not to be😂 She is a notorious pickmeysha😒
Shera I need advice I had a man and my bpd sabotaged the connection he was going to marry me then kept trying to reconcile I kept saying no so he haven’t ring to his ex… do u think he was trying to settle with what was comfortable bc I made him think I didn’t want him? How do I stop caring that he did that now that he’s back in my life…especially with bpd