#JustSaySomething
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- Опубліковано 12 лют 2020
- Lottie Tomlinson - social media influencer and Sue Ryder supporter - opens about her experience of grief after the deaths of her mum and sister.
She says: "I think one of the hardest parts for me is people not bringing it up. That's even harder, because you've lost that person and they're kind of fading away because people are not talking about them".
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the whole tomlinson family has been through so much. praying for them.
They are so strong
Yeah I know how it feels it’s horrible 🥺
Yeah 100%
yes. i feel so bad for them. they are so strong.
@@cocoring4978 I'm very sorry. Our condolences.
She’s so strong. The whole Tomlinson family is.
I'm confused, didn't she die?
Jess Jess Row Row No. It’s Félicité Tomlinson (aka Fizzy) who died in march 2019✨
@@ainhoa28 ohhh ok. That makes sense
They truly are, always together to support each other. We all are💙
How did her mum and sis pass away?
It's really hard to talk about such personal losses like this. I'm glad she was able to talk about it. Johannah and Felicite will forever be remembered.
Yes
forever
her and louis are always there for everyone and i live for that
STREAM WALLS BY LOUIS TOMLINSON yep me too! they’re the oldest they know that’s their job and they’re doing it great 😊
And they 5 brothers/sisters
especially louis. the lyric “the day that they took you, i wish it was me instead” really broke me. i think well i know obviously he wishes she didn’t go he wishes he died so his family would still have their mum.
@@jujuslivin True....that song, that words break my heart 😢😢😢😢😢
I worry that Louis doesn't free his emotions as much, I imagine him to feel like has to be tough because he's a man and he's the oldest.
@Really Emma I think that too, but as Lottie said,she learnt that all her siblings dealt with it differently and I know from interviews that Louis doesn't like to talk about his grief that much. Maybe it's his way of coping. As for letting it out, I think he does that through music and writing.
@@archishasrivastava689 honestly don't really like his voice but I know we got mad b/c BBC kept bringing Jo up in a recent interview on Breakfast
@@archishasrivastava689 Yeah his singing voice
@@Emma-dv2yh dont wanna attack but may I ask why?
@@shanearellano6827 lmao it just doesn't appeal to me... I honestly think his voice is really weak and he can't sing but that's my opinion. Don't attack me for it. Everyone is different. There's gonna be people with way more hatred for Louis and there's gonna be people that love Louis more than others like I don't get why ppl don't get it like it's just my opinion aha
She is such a strong woman, I’m literally sobbing right now
me too :(
she is so strong. all the Tomlinson’s are. they deserve so much more.
omggg hahahaha hiiiii
elizabeth you round here
Omg hii liz!
@@stellakreischer hey stella
the Tomlinson family is one of the strongest family I know.
She has been a great older sister along with Louis, and has been there as support in every way for her younger siblings, she is doing a great job, as Jay would have wanted, and I am so proud of you and Louis, just as I know that Jay would be, they deserve the best in this life, really. In this hard and difficult stage is when we can see the great work that his mother did with them ❤️🥺
Louis and Lottie had to step up and take care of the enitre family whilst dealing with grief. They have to be strong for the younger ones, and it must be really hard, since both deaths were kind of unexpected and tragic. You can see how it affected every single sibling. The Tomlinson family is incredibly strong and brave ♥
Absolutely 😢
I'm 13 and lost my mum 7 months ago the day after my birthday
I’m so sorry for your loss🤍
@@libbywood4299 x
Amber Fage omg! i’m so sorry for your loss xx i hope you’re doing okay x
Oh god im sorry luv ur so young thats terrible, im 15 and my dad may not be here much longer 😔 stay strong
I’m so sorry for your loss❤️ stay strong, everyday will get a little bit better
Poor thing. I couldn’t imagine losing a parent and a sibling. When my dad died I was sooo thankful I had sisters to help me through! Stay strong Tomlinson family ❤️
same❤️
Same in my case
So sorry for your loss xxx Your dad is watching over you and is very proud of you ❤️
Sumeia El Raes thank you for your kind words! ❤️❤️🥰
1 band, 1dream, one direction thank you love ❤️
Lottie and all her siblings are so brave, I’d never be able to do what they can.
i’ve followed the tomlinson family for years now. i remember when i first found out about Félicité, the one person i thought of was Lottie. knowing that she would have to take on that big sister/mom role all on her own without fiz & because of louis’ crazy schedule. i was so worried for her, but she has become such a strong and beautiful woman. i am so proud to be one of her many supporters.
Same xxx
Not be rude but how did felicite die ❤️
Eliza Craig
I believe it was a heart failure due to an overdose.
same
@@elizacraig9583 she died of a heart attack caused by accidental drug overdose
She’s incredibly strong and inspiring. Jay and Félicité will never be forgotten
I wish the Tomlinson family just the best... Lottie you’re so inspiring and strong. Respect for all of them.🙏❤️ all my love goes to them!
Hey I've seen u on Twitter with the same profile picture and the same name
Fizzys death hit so emotionally hard it’s so unreal like how is she not here with us? I don’t understand she was literally the sweetest girl she would give the shirt off her back, I never met her before but I will never get over her passing
I can’t handle seeing Lottie crying. I just want to hug her... she deserves the world as Louis and all their sisters 😭❤️❤️❤️
the tomlinsons are the strongest people ive ever heard of. their stories just helped me personally so so much through hard times and i am incredibly sorry for how much they had to go through at such a young age
Jay is the proudest mom in the whole freaking world!!! Lottie isnt just the sister of the famous Singer louis tomlinson...she is much more she is an great 2nd mom for her sisters she is an wonderful Influencer she is such a good sister she is everything she is just gorgeaus and we all live her thats just it 🥺
I can’t imagine how hard it is. We should be more grateful for what we have. Bless the Tomlinson family
The Tomlinson’s lost so much they didn’t deserve it praying for them
the entire tomlinson family is so so strong, i can't imagine losing a mom and a sister that early in life
Two of us came on in the background the whole Tomlinson family is so strong
The entire tomlinson family are the strongest people in the world
“it is okay to not be okay. you can have have bad days, you can have bad weeks, you can have bad months. but nothings permanent and it will pass. and you will have good times, and you will have good times as well.” i’m really glad Lottie did this, it helped me so much to hear this and is something i needed to be reminded of. my pain will pass, and so will yours because nothing is permanent 🤍
Tomlinsons r so braveee
She is so strong. The tomlinsons deserved better that they get now
the strongest family ever
Just listening to her talk about her mom and her sister and the emotion she had in her voice just made me cry so much. I wanna say I “relate” in a way because I lost my grandpa almost 3 years ago and it’s still been hard on me and hearing what she said just made sense. I do some of what she does too like I have pictures of him in my room and I see them everyday for the comfort so I understand. The Tomlinson family is so strong it’s unbelievable💚💚
I am sorry for your loss xx
Poor babies they deserved so much better
the Tomlinsons are so strong...
the tomlinsons are so incredibly strong 🥺
Lottie will never have any idea how much she helped me with my grief.
Their whole family has been through so much. Ernie and Doris are so small I can't even IMAGINE how they must feel. They were all so young when they their mum. I hope they finally get a good time together and I wish that they stay healthy
This makes me so sad, I cant imagine my life without my mom, im already without my dad....
Moms are precious and should be cared for and told how much we love them everyday. I am glad I never was too shy to tell my mom I loved her. You never know when they will be taken from you and it's always too soon.
The Tomlinsons are the bravest people on the world ❤️ All the love to them
All of the Tomlinsons have gone threw so much😭 they deserve so much
The Tomlinson family is sooo strong....... love them♡♡♡
I love you my fooking avacados
Looking at Lottie she looks so much like J and she is so beautiful and so strong
the tomlinsons are so strong, they lost a lot in such a short period of time I admire them so much
I just wanna give everyone in the family a hug. I remember seeing the siblings in the "this is us" movie and they were all so happy. No one deserves to go through this, I just hope they're doing alright. Rest in peace Johannah and Felicite 💕
The whole Tomlinson fam is so strong, praying for them and may God bless you🥰🥰💔😭😭
the whole tommo family deserve all the happiness the world has been so cruel to them
The Tomlinson family is so strong, I am sure they are so proud of every single one of you ❤️🙏🏼
Lottie, Louis and all their siblings have gone through so much at such young ages. I’m so sorry you all have to go though this. But you are all so strong 🙏🥺
I lost my mom last year at just 44😢. She was the most beautiful and perfect woman ❤. None has and will ever love me like her. Rip to our beautiful moms
I love the Tomlinsons, it breaks my heart knowing they've been through so much yet are still so caring
the Tomlinson family is SO strong and im really proud of everything theyve done
Its fizzy’s birthday today... fly high angel💔 same with their mum🥺
Losing Johannah was just unbelievable.. she was such a strong woman with so many young kids.. I wish the Tommo family can stay strong after such terrible loses. We directioners feel for all of you and I’m constantly amazed of how they have managed to keep moving forward❣️I love you
You are right. The Tomlinson's are the strongest family I've seen. #StayStrongTomlinsons
xx
the Tomlinson family has passed trough so much...i love and support them✊🏻💙
Lost my father 10 years ago when I was 14 and I resonate with this so hard. People hate to talk about it and hate to bring it up but sometimes talking about it helps you grieve, even after years.
Carlie Renae you are so strong ❤️
So strong. Your mum and fizzy are so proud
she and the whole tomlinson family are so strong and amazing
My mother took her last breath after giving birth to me... My dad blames it on me. My step-brother is supporting me through this and I can't be more thankful. I'm turning 13 soon... Stay strong Tomlinson! 💪❤️
Omg I’m so sorry about your mum. Dying because of child-birth must be such a terrible thing. It’s not your fault, make sure you know that!
Lottie is so strong. I cant even imagine what all the Tomlinsons went through. Having to sort of take on that mother and older sister roll at such a young age and feeling that she has to stay strong for her siblings must be incredibly hard. All my love goes to her and the whole Tomlinson family💓
the whole Tomlinson family has gone through so so much and they're all so strong..
She is so strong and brave. I think it’s really selfless to share her experience to help other people
I can't believe this even in 2020. How do they deal with it? I could never be this strong. The whole Tomlinson family are so strong and I'll love and support them no matter what.
I really had tears in my eyes!:( I am so sorry for your pain. We only have to take a look at one your mums picture to know that she was not only beautiful from the outside but also from the inside. your sis also looked a lot like her.
I can't even imagine to go trough the hell you must have went to. Your are so brave and strong! your mum and sis must be proud of you! I am also proud of your brother Louis! He is so damn strong! Always support each other, you two will find a way to be happy.
lottie is so strong for talking about this :( i can’t imagine what her & her whole family went through. this truly breaks my heart.
I´m crying so hard about this! It makes me so sad, because Louis and his family had to go trough so much pain! It´s the worst thing ever to loose a parent… And then, when you feel a little better your sister passed away too! I can´t imagine how much that must hurt! But the Tomlinsons stayed as brave as they can and that´s so strong! And Lottie is so strong for talking about that and helping other people to get over their pain! I miss Jay and Fizzy so much and I hope they are happy, wherever they are! My love goes out to this beautiful family, that always makes me feel better, when I´m down! Stay strong and ceep smiling!
That family is so strong
The tomilson family deserve a lot more credit for how strong they are and how for much they’ve been through
I know it’s 2020 but I it’s still sad they are still missed and I just send my heart to the Tomlinson’s!
This is sad. The Tomlinson family has been through bad times. Seeing her crying is breaking me down. R.I.P Johanna and Felicite. We are here for you Lottie
She looks so much like her mum ❤️
lottie and her family are so strong and have supported each other so well. thank you for being such an inspiration, johannah and felicitie will always be remembered
Losing a mother and sister. I have no words for the strength and integrity you have. They are both living on in you and are so so proud. Xxxxxx ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
My dad died in 2018 he got pancreatic cancer... And my uncle was shoot to death in NY BRONX. I living in Germany.... It hurts... God saved me staying clean from Drugs. I was homeless afterwards... Now i keep going. I know it's a long way.... But i will keep trying.
jo and fizzy will never be forgotten 🕊❤️❤️
We miss you fizzy and jay. Lottie you and your family are so strong ❤️
Just recently it came to my mind how much this family has actually gone through and I haven't thought of Louis or Lottie or any of them the same since then. Always cared for them, but it hit me like a train when I realised how young they actually are and all try to do as much as they can to just go on with their lives when there's so much grief, and the entire world is watching them. I'm so terribly sorry for these people. They're such a strong family. I wish them all the best.
the whole tomlinson family is so strong they have been through so much and they all deserve the world ❤️
The Tomlinson family is definitely the strongest of all, they’ve been through so much.
it's very true that when people don't mention it or they don't even say 'i'm sorry' it's even harder. just say something.
In September it is one year since my mother passed away. She had cancer and after 4 years of suffering she finally rested in peace. It cost me so much to see this video because I feel so identified with lottie, I want to be strong for my sister, I do not want her to see me sad and I never cry in front of her and that has led me to have a depression ... I did not know , I had not realized, I am only 18 years old and it costs me so much to write this. I miss her every day, every hour and every second, without her I am nothing. I realize that there were so many things that I wanted to learn from her, so many stories that she had to tell me. I wanted it to be for my wedding day, when I had my first baby, and it hurts me that it is not... If you know of someone who has lost a loved one, never leave them alone, support them, love them at all times. love for everyone💚
Lottie explains it all so well, there are never the right words and people are scared to say anything. It is a very rough tragic heartbreaking loss. The Tomlinson's have been through so much and they are strong in their own ways but I know half of what they feel and it is hard, Praying so hard for them all. Thank you Lottie for talking about it, it has helped me. I lost my twin sister in 2018 and no one really likes to talk about it, even me sometimes because I fall apart every day missing her. A part of me died with her. But also I want to talk about her all the time and I do the same on SM. She has two beautiful children and I talk to them about her, her daughter anyways, her son is struggling which they both are but none of us ever want to forget a single thing about her😢💙.
The whole Tomlinson family is so unbelievably strong!
i can’t imagine the pain the whole tomlinson family has been through, i can’t express how much i want to hug them all and tell them how strong they are.
You can tell the lottie and Lou got their moms heart. Such kind and caring individuals
Everyone in their family is so strong... 😓
this whole family is so strong💕
they’re family is so unbelievably strong, they’ve all been through so so much!!
the whole family is so strong
The memories never fade, they'll stay alive in your heart. Bless you and your lovely family, they are a testament to a wonderful mum.
The Tomlinson family are so strong
I’m so scared that Louis doesn’t share his emotions like her since he’s a man and the oldest he feels like he can’t and has to be strong for everyone.
The Tomlinson family went through so much😢❤
she is so pretty, she is so strong. The whole Tomlinson family is so strong ♥️
The whole Tomlinson family is very strong ❤️🤞
The Tomlinson family is one of the strongest families out there. Sending all my love
She and her hole family is so strong. I am wishing them the pest and rest in peace Angels
im so sorry for the whole tomlinson family 🥺🤚
the tomlinson family have been through so much.
she's so strong 🥺Lottie,your mum and Fizz are so proud of you❤️
i know what is losing someone you love and the tomlinson are so strong. all my support to them
Tomlinson 's family is so strong
All the Tomlinsons are so brave 😭🥺💕