There is a quote by Chris Rock that he said during one of his stand ups, “in this world, only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is loved only under the condition that he provide something” Spoke less but meant a lot.
Agreed man !! A man has some respect when he achieves something nahi to kutta bhi nahi poochta ! Ancient time me bhi the man who was the best hunter would get a lady. Since the ancient time, ladies have been a reward for the effort put up by men!! The more you put the better lady you get !
Sometimes girls understand what hardwork really is and try to appreciate men's effort, everytime men can't be compared with success, some girls become breadwinners to give equality to men. Yes! Your point is true upto 90% extent but there is always a but, 10% are still trying to be that extraordinary girl 🔥....give your 💯%, if not able to succeed then it's okay!
@@Englishacademy. unfortunately, the bread winner ladies barely respect their house husbands/partner. Infact what respect does a house husband have in the family, in-laws, society. None. All cheers to the ladies who are putting their effort to make a living for themselves.
@@gurpreetkhera8266 😅 we can't change the perspectives, but certainly make efforts for the change. (Respect is needed for homemaking women as well and everyone knows how much they get haina?)
Absolutely true. And not only that, men have to continually be achieving something till the end of his life. Even a dip in his achievements for a brief period is not accepted easily.
Thank you sir, after 10 years of a stable job experience, At 36, I cleared GATE exam and joining one of the top NIT's in India to pursue my M.Tech...I have just started my second innings
@SRIKANTH cant tell you what your comment meant to me, I am 29 (going to be 30 soon) and fed up with my job , but was thinking I am very late for higher education.
Exactly like Neeraj Chopra is always an handsome and hunk man even before the Olympic but won't get any recognition but suddenly he became our National crush after his achievement .
"You see 80% of my audience is male obviously because 80% of youtube audience is male". Both Jordan Peterson and Chetan Bhagat have said it. It's great to have you on board sir 🎩 keep saying bitter truths and best wisdom 🌻 Indian youth needs ideals to follow now!
that's true....the man who try's for the competitive exams for 4 to 5 years of crucial time of his life and tried his level best and unfortunately if he doesn't get selected , he is treated as a big looser. Even this friends and gf start doubting him.
The “no hypocrisy” approach in your videos is highly commendable. You clearly outlined that it is not an ideal world, but it is what it is. Either you work to make it a better place for yourself and your loved ones, or you sit there and crib about it. Choice is yours - as you said in your video “Kaise Jeena Hai”.
the best part of chetan bhagat in this channel is that he brings the content that is reality ....love your content coz what is reality you speak... and pls continue this
Women also get attracted to looks of men...but if he doesn't have money so...how will he provide for the family that's why money matters most for choosing a husband!!!! ✌🏿
Been sharing this with my younger cousin. I will be 30 next year. Girls only respect you and admire you for your competence and your ability to provide , they love opportunistically. I had to learn this the hard way as my parents did not have any money, I worked my ass off to be successful.
I 103% agree with u Sir. I had poor female attention in school and college despite the fact I considered as a funny guy. But gradually that attention grew with respect to my income 😎
Vry true Chetan. I being a working woman fully agree with you. Women being pretty opens the gate for many things, which men have to struggle really hard to open.
I am totally agree with you sir. I got rejected even though being good,kind hearted. These all things are just good to say but in reality looks, height,job etc everything thing matters. No one said you directly these things to you,but reject you. Tnks sir ❤️
Don't blindly follow everything he says. Use your own head, your judgement. Take the good stuff (he has put out some good videos I agree), but don't believe stereotypical advice such as this one.
THIS IS CALLED SIMPLE MENTORING A CASUAL FRIENDLY TALK IS WHAT ALL NEEDED (not like other so called motivators trying to be the most intelligent creature,too loud,showing off there communication skills or doing babagiri) BEST OF ALL CHANNELS
Dear sir, I am currently in this kind of situation in my life. I lost my father few years back, my uncle due to covid. I have no one from whom i can seek support and motivation. I am tired repeated failures, disappointing people, insults and all kind of negative things. I have a job, but i am paid way less than my peers, my value i feel may be least for others. I have changed multiple jobs as well. Never as a child i had imagined i would have to listen so much negative things from others and follow their orders. I feel there is lack of confidence, lack of motivation, fear, anxiety, self doubt, nervousness, immaturity which has developed within me over the years. I find it difficult to face people. Find it difficult to take criticism and orders. Sometimes i feel if i had my father with me right now, it would have been much better. I am 28 right now and not clear what the future holds for me. There are family problems as well. Everyday i try be motivated and positive but every now and then something pulls me back. Hope you read this and have something to say. Always keeping hope, tomorrow is better than today.🙂
A man should have only abundance of money to be a man of respect and a man of value. Other achievement doesn't matter. Money influence not only the beholder of money but family, society, relatives, friends, enemies and unnecessary people.
Facts have been articulated very well. I appreciate your way of letting us, the audience decide what is wrong and what is right without imposing your own opinion and this really shows how great you are at conveying things. A great communication is not when one person speaks and the other person listens, its when one person tries to think beyond what has been spoken. Amazing. I hope more people subscribe to your channel.
Sir, you not only just guiding us, but you are also talking about the untold story of our souls in a simple and easy way in front of this cruel world. Keep guiding us like that.
Exactly sir,if u have no achievement u r zero in society,in my case I achieved everything in a very early age in 40 everything n with a very attractive n handsome physics ,my life is very beautiful with name fame ,money ,girls women everything mast or jhakaas life ,but a very hard work behind this from a very early age 18 n still at the age of 52 I m running behind my goals if u r successful in n earning a lot ladkiya or society to pichhe bhagti hai this is the truth of life if u r nothing u r zero koi Nahi puchhta ,ye Dil ,pyaar, likes comments sab dhare rah jaate hai 👍👍👍👍
Touché Mr.Bhagat. I honestly believe our evolution still makes who we are. Men still are considered hunters and women still are considered caregivers. And, there isn’t a shade of doubt or point of debate here. Men and women complement each other’s skills. It’s the camaraderie that helps us survive.
I was also thinking about this and you posted video about this. No one give shit about man without achievement. Harsh reality about society😑. *Respect given to the MAN is directly proportional to the how much money/property he have.*
That's the rule my friend we men cannot change it no matter how much we cry and bitch about it. There's only one thing we can do, that is work and achieve success and then finally get respect from family, friends and peers and lead a better lifestyle. Also that is the only thing that will help you in attracting a good mate in your life.
Be it social media or real life, everywhere man has to create his own value, this also makes us strong but also weakens us emotionally. But the truth is also that we have also created the society.... your channel tells the bitter truth of life ...100% agree sir
Telling the truth to the new generation and making them to have clear view of the society. You are a GEM sir who knows how society works and what is appreciated and what's not, a sign of pure intelligent, smart person ❤️
It takes guts to say this out. Kudos to you sir. Please continue making all the content you are making EVEN IF IT GETS REPEATED SOMETIMES. This content motivates me and clears my thoughts about what are the priorities right now in life.
So true! So true! And on top of that, today, for a guy to be eligible for marriage he needs to be social, have good personality, be smart etc. Having money only doesn't do the job these days.
This is the reality. The Society says follow feminism. So feminism means men and women should be treated equally. If a man can lose his job, so does a woman. If a man can become depressed, so does a woman. The same Society says, Men only have value when they achieve something. Men should have a lot of money, should have achieved great things in life. Should be successful in their career. It never says that a man and woman should become united together to actually manage the problems and situations of their life. What a Hypocrite Society that is. LOL
Menism ... In response to feminism.... Classic patriarchy gave men control...in society (some kind of social Taliban) but handled incorrectly.... 2021 🎂 begin an initiative how men are underprivileged in some respects.....
Hi Chetan, You always say that most of your subscribers are young boys. I am an exception probably. I am a 35 year old woman. But I want to thank you for creating this amazing you tube channel. I am learning so much from you. I am sure you are helping many people my age as well. I especially love the deep talks and the long videos. I can also relate to the experiences you shared about the time when you were in the US as I have been living in the US for past many years.Thank you so much!!
Millions of Young man are born in very unfavorable circumstances and struggle to fight for their survival by working in menial jobs to feed their family.As a society it is the duty of us to ensure a fair reward for their work and opportunities to grow to make a mark in life.Success is always a relative term,there is no meaning of wealth if you live amidst a ocean of poverty .
Chetan sir you are absolutely right. I'm 24, still working towards my goals and working on my health but when it comes to gaining respect and developing a relationship with a women, I still lack that companionship that I want. But there's a saying that "WOMEN AGE LIKE MILK, AND MEN AGE LIKE FINE WINE". So maybe not immediately, but eventually I will get there and will earn my respect and what belongs to me. keep up the good work chetan sir.
Very true - Men get value only when they achieve something and women get it only when they are good caregivers to the family.. Men being caregivers and women being achievers is not that important..
Agree. In visa a versa situation husband become insecure (caregiver to chhodo bas bevda na bne to b bhot)and family create such a position can't even tell you
@@mgvansam764 that's what society is so much conditioned from many years that people are not able to accept. But if male is caretaker of the house still he won't be able to do as much as female.
Yes beauty brings value for girls. But in my opinion, that should not be a reason for women to be laidback wet their career, because beauty fades with time, the value you generate in terms money or a powerful position, doesn't. It's very painful to see women in their 30s and 40s realise how they wasted their precious time in their youth capitalising on something that has now gone away...
Yep true . You should have your own money. But It is just a plus for a woman ,more like a freedom kind of thing . It will not gonna make a woman sexier. I m not saying that attracting a man should be your end purpose. But in case you want a man then a beautiful body with less body count matters more.
Woman realise at 30s or 40 .... but on that age men realise he should commit suicide if they don't achieve something significant yet to attract the attention of society or create a value because they don't have any default value like woman *Man only have a value when he achieve something* 👍👍
So true, a good career will never fade away with time. But unlike guys, it is true that a girl"'s beauty gives her immense value especially till her 30s. She can get married easily, have a good family. The same doesn't happen with a pretty boy.
@@TvikrPritam Career is infact more important You boys are born with value, my friend is 35 and is jobless but his parents take care of his finances etc he's happily living his life and a girl if she isn't successful then she has to marry which is a worst thing that could happen to a girl
100% True. Wisdom, worth its weight in gold is being shared here, do follow it. Thanks for saying it, like it is. I hope you keep saying 100% truth, not what is socially & politically correct
I recently understood this a few months back, by seeing two cousins of mine, who are both 28 year olds and one is a male, another one is a female. They both where fairly good students throughout their academics. After completing, graduation both of them started preparing for various Government job exams like Bank PO, SSC CGL etc. Now, We all know how tough it is to clear this exams in recent days as the competition is skyrocketing. Now both have crossed 28 and they are not eligible to give this exams anymore. After fair amount of hardwork by both of them, they were still not able to clear the exams. Now, guess what will happen to them. Here is what the whole thing changes . The Girls is getting married to an Income Tax Officer this year, thus she will continue to have great life, all kinds of comfort at her disposal. But the Guy, He is in depression, He just not able to understand what should he do now. He is a simple graduate so he can't apply for IT jobs as well.No one treats him properly.His future is in complete darkness currently. What I am trying to say that Girls have a second chance of survival if they fail in achieving anything. But for Men, there is no second chance. It's do or die.
How is your cousin brother now? Feeling bad for him 😔. I saw your comment 1 month ago and took a screenshot because it is telling the harsh reality of life.
@@And_I_am_ironman He is currently working in ICICI Cards and trying his best, but still the salary is pretty low and he is not sure how will he grow from here. Thank You for your concern about him 😄.... Don't worry he is very resilient since childhood he will definitely try to manage something.
no, they don't. if you are not good-looking, try to date some good-looking guy of the same or above status as yours, you will know the truth. The same applies to the man who is not successful enough.
Yes she will get respect if she is successful in any field but when comes to date someone who is superior to her in status, and looks better better than her won't going to consider it (exception always exists)
@@gulshanvishwakarma3512 well there's a reason for that, at the end of the day human beings are wired to make better choices. That's why men leave their current partner for a more hot women and women does the same to a man for money.
Thanks Sir. Finally my search is over. I realized that in this fake world where everyone tries to be nice, there's one person who is telling bitter truth about life and society's unspoken rules. Very rare case its happening.
You are my inspiration ,my ideal . Whatever you say goes directly through heart because u are real u don't waste time in giving useless content. Your lessons are true and full of experience. Thankyou so much for this initiative.!
There are numerous girls in my circle who settled in Germany,us, Australia in just a few months due to marriage.. And the same guy took 15 years of hard work to achieve that level.. Note: Being a high class person you still feel and connect to middle class situation is a big thing 👍
Loved your attitude. Its like this. whether you choose to believe or not. Youngsters who consumes feel good motivational content. Are under illusion. Videos such as this one help them face the reality. Its daring task. Its not easy to play devils Advocate. glad you decided to bite the bullet. would like such great content in future.
Hey Chetan! Thankyou for this channel, amazing content and i have become a fan. Wanted to share a view about how your views can be equally applied to a woman irrespective of her being young and attractive, as you said she gets lot of attention for what she is , and repeatedly this thing is said that women get attention and are supposedly loved for just what they are naturally, but nobody has ever said that women get respect from everybody if she is just young and attractive, nobody will get inspired from her or look up to her for her mere beauty. Needless to say with time that beauty will also fade away. So women who want to be truly successful will have to go through the same struggles and rough patches of the life and prove themselves like MEN.
Even parents doesn't respect if their son is unemployed and wasting time.
That's y some unemployed yuth committed sucid
That's me
True
Dear friend you talking of parents, I am saying even the dogs don't respect you.
100%
There is a quote by Chris Rock that he said during one of his stand ups, “in this world, only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is loved only under the condition that he provide something”
Spoke less but meant a lot.
Godfather
Amazing quote.
C.a.m.!
I don't think women are loved unconditionally. May be before marriage but than she has to please all in laws 😂
Right 👌
Agreed man !! A man has some respect when he achieves something nahi to kutta bhi nahi poochta ! Ancient time me bhi the man who was the best hunter would get a lady. Since the ancient time, ladies have been a reward for the effort put up by men!! The more you put the better lady you get !
Fantastic sir SITA SWAYANWAR
True sir
Sometimes girls understand what hardwork really is and try to appreciate men's effort, everytime men can't be compared with success, some girls become breadwinners to give equality to men. Yes! Your point is true upto 90% extent but there is always a but, 10% are still trying to be that extraordinary girl 🔥....give your 💯%, if not able to succeed then it's okay!
@@Englishacademy. unfortunately, the bread winner ladies barely respect their house husbands/partner. Infact what respect does a house husband have in the family, in-laws, society. None. All cheers to the ladies who are putting their effort to make a living for themselves.
@@gurpreetkhera8266 😅 we can't change the perspectives, but certainly make efforts for the change. (Respect is needed for homemaking women as well and everyone knows how much they get haina?)
He's not a motivational speaker , he's becoming a life coach ✨
"Aj ka alas kal ka dukh hai"-Man I have written your words in front of my almirah. This has already changed my life.Thank you.
Absolutely true. And not only that, men have to continually be achieving something till the end of his life. Even a dip in his achievements for a brief period is not accepted easily.
True! Completely agree!
Thank you sir, after 10 years of a stable job experience, At 36, I cleared GATE exam and joining one of the top NIT's in India to pursue my M.Tech...I have just started my second innings
Congratulations sir. Before that you were working? Family has no problem now for loss of income for 2 years?
@@rprasadt816 yes..no problem..I already planned for it
@@srikanthkotakonda4583 Congratulations sir , you belong which branch ?
@@jaysimha5424 ECE branch
@SRIKANTH cant tell you what your comment meant to me, I am 29 (going to be 30 soon) and fed up with my job , but was thinking I am very late for higher education.
Salute to all indian men aged between 18 to 30 who are fighting hard for adding value in their life...!!
“in this world, only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is loved only under the condition that he provide something”
Exactly like Neeraj Chopra is always an handsome and hunk man even before the Olympic but won't get any recognition but suddenly he became our National crush after his achievement .
Yeah neeraj chopra didn't got a gf before Olympics! 😂😂😂
I wish we had somebody to tell us all this back in our school days!
many people told us that but we took it as they are throwing 'lecture' on us
Absolutely true. A man's struggle cannot be just brushed off as "nothing".
Thank you sir 🥰
Man - Money.
Women - Beauty .
Value Decider . Bitter But True .
One Likes It Or Not. Jitna Paisa Utna High Class Rishta. 👍
so true!!
Right
If women has money then?
@@sanjanagrover7436 doesn't matter.
still she should be beautiful 😄
@@sonamdeshpande7281 beauty is god gifted ! u don't have 100% control over ur looks and it fades away wid time too!
"You see 80% of my audience is male obviously because 80% of youtube audience is male". Both Jordan Peterson and Chetan Bhagat have said it.
It's great to have you on board sir 🎩 keep saying bitter truths and best wisdom 🌻 Indian youth needs ideals to follow now!
No 80% audience of the sucess oriented channel are men
that's true....the man who try's for the competitive exams for 4 to 5 years of crucial time of his life and tried his level best and unfortunately if he doesn't get selected , he is treated as a big looser. Even this friends and gf start doubting him.
True bro...you Explained my Feelings....I wasted 4 years trying to clear UPSC and now I am lost Nd Broken
@@suman3316 don't feel broken bro....there can be other options too
@@suman3316 but u are girl to ultimately u will get married with sm1 with ease.
@@proudindian9140 I am not a girl bro...I am an Unemployed Boy... struggling to get job....I know you got confused by my name..
@@suman3316 oh sorry bro...well i graduated in 2019 and since then preparing for UPSC...what's ur age bro currently !
The “no hypocrisy” approach in your videos is highly commendable. You clearly outlined that it is not an ideal world, but it is what it is. Either you work to make it a better place for yourself and your loved ones, or you sit there and crib about it. Choice is yours - as you said in your video “Kaise Jeena Hai”.
the best part of chetan bhagat in this channel is that he brings the content that is reality ....love your content coz what is reality you speak... and pls continue this
I love that whatever he says is brutally honest. That's what is needed and not just sugarcoating things just to make us feel good.
Man's value in society: Resources, Status, Wealth
Woman's value in society: Beauty, Youth, Fertility
This comment needs to be pinned !!
@@smritiprasad5708 nah.. Its How evolution has designed us.
That's how humans have evolved since 1000s of years. Thats life!
Women also get attracted to looks of men...but if he doesn't have money so...how will he provide for the family that's why money matters most for choosing a husband!!!! ✌🏿
Right!!
Been sharing this with my younger cousin. I will be 30 next year. Girls only respect you and admire you for your competence and your ability to provide , they love opportunistically. I had to learn this the hard way as my parents did not have any money, I worked my ass off to be successful.
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally.
A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something."
I 103% agree with u Sir. I had poor female attention in school and college despite the fact I considered as a funny guy. But gradually that attention grew with respect to my income 😎
A jobless/ ugly man was never been accepted by a Working/beautiful lady but Reverse is totally different🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫
Vry true Chetan. I being a working woman fully agree with you. Women being pretty opens the gate for many things, which men have to struggle really hard to open.
I am totally agree with you sir. I got rejected even though being good,kind hearted. These all things are just good to say but in reality looks, height,job etc everything thing matters. No one said you directly these things to you,but reject you. Tnks sir ❤️
Very true.if men don't achieve something they can't get value at their home also
The best thing about CB sir is that he talks on point. He gives a proper reality check to the viewers without any filtration of society standards. ❤❤❤
Men have to earn their value.
This line will drive me forever.
Thanks sir 🙏
Sir you are not just a youtuber, for me you are my guardian how you guide us is speechless.. ❤️❤️❤️
He is not a youtuber
Super super duper true
Who told u that he's a youtuber
He is beyond than that.
Don't blindly follow everything he says. Use your own head, your judgement. Take the good stuff (he has put out some good videos I agree), but don't believe stereotypical advice such as this one.
@@psrr2131 to tu hi bata de sir ne kya galat kha iss video me .
Gyani maharaj
THIS IS CALLED SIMPLE MENTORING
A CASUAL FRIENDLY TALK IS WHAT ALL NEEDED (not like other so called motivators trying to be the most intelligent creature,too loud,showing off there communication skills or doing babagiri)
BEST OF ALL CHANNELS
Men have to earn their value - a million words this line speaks 👍🏼
On this Channel, sir just present the Truths of life, No fairy tales stories. Everything you said is absolutely true.
As a 40 year old, this was priceless man!!
Thanks a lot Sir. It takes real courage to say these things publicly. Lots of Respect Sir. We will surely make our place here. ❤️🙏
It feels like my big brother teaching me about life, when I need him the most. Thank you very much sir. God bless you.
#Aranya Layek
Dear sir,
I am currently in this kind of situation in my life.
I lost my father few years back, my uncle due to covid. I have no one from whom i can seek support and motivation.
I am tired repeated failures, disappointing people, insults and all kind of negative things.
I have a job, but i am paid way less than my peers, my value i feel may be least for others. I have changed multiple jobs as well. Never as a child i had imagined i would have to listen so much negative things from others and follow their orders.
I feel there is lack of confidence, lack of motivation, fear, anxiety, self doubt, nervousness, immaturity which has developed within me over the years.
I find it difficult to face people. Find it difficult to take criticism and orders.
Sometimes i feel if i had my father with me right now, it would have been much better.
I am 28 right now and not clear what the future holds for me. There are family problems as well.
Everyday i try be motivated and positive but every now and then something pulls me back.
Hope you read this and have something to say.
Always keeping hope, tomorrow is better than today.🙂
Stay strong..... Grow motivation but don't seek motivation.
A man should have only abundance of money to be a man of respect and a man of value. Other achievement doesn't matter. Money influence not only the beholder of money but family, society, relatives, friends, enemies and unnecessary people.
Facts have been articulated very well. I appreciate your way of letting us, the audience decide what is wrong and what is right without imposing your own opinion and this really shows how great you are at conveying things. A great communication is not when one person speaks and the other person listens, its when one person tries to think beyond what has been spoken. Amazing. I hope more people subscribe to your channel.
Well said. At the end of the day it's karma Bhoomi. And it's give and take. You serve to get urself served.
"Zindgi ka poora wajoot apko khud kamana padta hai "..these words really hits us hard......
Its not easy to be men...
- men to men
Sir, you not only just guiding us, but you are also talking about the untold story of our souls in a simple and easy way in front of this cruel world. Keep guiding us like that.
Whenever I feel demotivated,I use to listen to you....Huge respect for you Sir ❤️
Exactly sir,if u have no achievement u r zero in society,in my case I achieved everything in a very early age in 40 everything n with a very attractive n handsome physics ,my life is very beautiful with name fame ,money ,girls women everything mast or jhakaas life ,but a very hard work behind this from a very early age 18 n still at the age of 52 I m running behind my goals if u r successful in n earning a lot ladkiya or society to pichhe bhagti hai this is the truth of life if u r nothing u r zero koi Nahi puchhta ,ye Dil ,pyaar, likes comments sab dhare rah jaate hai 👍👍👍👍
Touché Mr.Bhagat. I honestly believe our evolution still makes who we are. Men still are considered hunters and women still are considered caregivers. And, there isn’t a shade of doubt or point of debate here. Men and women complement each other’s skills. It’s the camaraderie that helps us survive.
I was also thinking about this and you posted video about this. No one give shit about man without achievement. Harsh reality about society😑.
*Respect given to the MAN is directly proportional to the how much money/property he have.*
That's the rule my friend we men cannot change it no matter how much we cry and bitch about it. There's only one thing we can do, that is work and achieve success and then finally get respect from family, friends and peers and lead a better lifestyle. Also that is the only thing that will help you in attracting a good mate in your life.
@@the1stmetalhead Yes definitely bro💯
@@the1stmetalhead true Brutus true!!!
@@the1stmetalhead what if I change my gender?
Be it social media or real life, everywhere man has to create his own value, this also makes us strong but also weakens us emotionally. But the truth is also that we have also created the society.... your channel tells the bitter truth of life ...100% agree sir
Telling the truth to the new generation and making them to have clear view of the society. You are a GEM sir who knows how society works and what is appreciated and what's not, a sign of pure intelligent, smart person ❤️
sir, you are brutally honest and I love it. and we NEED it really
I'm 18 yrso sir and I have no words for you only thanks to you for having a great personality a good mentor to us 🎗 🙏🎗
The kind of efforts one puts in achieving makes one a better Person.
True AF 💯
Love you man... you talk like a Guardian..A big brother we all need Chetan ❤️✨
Sir, you are spot on. Men need to prove themselves to gain value and respect in society.
One word: F A C T !! As a guy and being unemployed I could feel your every word. Kaash yeh baat main khud samaj jata ya koi aise batata.
It takes guts to say this out. Kudos to you sir. Please continue making all the content you are making EVEN IF IT GETS REPEATED SOMETIMES.
This content motivates me and clears my thoughts about what are the priorities right now in life.
Absolutely true! Earning money is so important. Even when your friends earn more and you are not, then those men friends also ignore you.
Sir,you are the only youtuber who talks absolute grave truth,thank you sir for always being there beside us when no one is!!
So true! So true!
And on top of that, today, for a guy to be eligible for marriage he needs to be social, have good personality, be smart etc. Having money only doesn't do the job these days.
Sir you tell people what they need to hear and not what they want to hear....keep it up sir ❤️
You don't mince words or try to sugarcoat. That's the best thing about your talks. I appreciate that.
Whenever I read your thumbnails a wicked smile comes on my face stating - yeah that's true that's whats happening in the society.
1000%True....u r the most influential person in my life. 🙏
I used to think motivation is limited but I am proved wrong with every new video of Yours.
Thank you.
great lesson for new generations...I wish I would have known this few years back....
appreciate your work sir...keep guiding us.
No-one wants heart or kindness
Everyone wants money and nothing else
Till now.. This is the best vedio made by you.. Real raw and brutal truth 😊
A man must suffer to remake himself, for he is both the marble and the sculptor. Stay on your grind everyone
Wahh
- Alexis Carrel
That was lit 🔥
Thanks for being so outspoken and straightforward.
Eye opener message. Thank You Chetan.
This is the reality. The Society says follow feminism. So feminism means men and women should be treated equally. If a man can lose his job, so does a woman. If a man can become depressed, so does a woman.
The same Society says, Men only have value when they achieve something. Men should have a lot of money, should have achieved great things in life. Should be successful in their career. It never says that a man and woman should become united together to actually manage the problems and situations of their life. What a Hypocrite Society that is. LOL
cant blame the society accept the reality because you know that complaining can change nothing
Don't complain here like a loser. Accept the reality and work accordingly 👍
@@ShyamSunder-yk8zj yah bro thats what i was telling
Menism ... In response to feminism.... Classic patriarchy gave men control...in society (some kind of social Taliban) but handled incorrectly.... 2021 🎂 begin an initiative how men are underprivileged in some respects.....
100% agree with you and also agree with the advice of the brothers here saying just accept this bitter truth and work accordingly. *Focus on Self*
Hi Chetan, You always say that most of your subscribers are young boys. I am an exception probably. I am a 35 year old woman. But I want to thank you for creating this amazing you tube channel. I am learning so much from you. I am sure you are helping many people my age as well. I especially love the deep talks and the long videos. I can also relate to the experiences you shared about the time when you were in the US as I have been living in the US for past many years.Thank you so much!!
Thanks for sharing
Im grateful to hear this in right time in my life. Thank you sir . Keep guiding us.
Can't thank you enough to start this channel.Breaking myths.🙏
Sir , please make a vedio on "ART OF COMMUNICATION". we are eagerly waiting to listen it in your words 😌😌
Millions of Young man are born in very unfavorable circumstances and struggle to fight for their survival by working in menial jobs to feed their family.As a society it is the duty of us to ensure a fair reward for their work and opportunities to grow to make a mark in life.Success is always a relative term,there is no meaning of wealth if you live amidst a ocean of poverty .
Chetan sir you are absolutely right. I'm 24, still working towards my goals and working on my health but when it comes to gaining respect and developing a relationship with a women, I still lack that companionship that I want. But there's a saying that "WOMEN AGE LIKE MILK, AND MEN AGE LIKE FINE WINE". So maybe not immediately, but eventually I will get there and will earn my respect and what belongs to me. keep up the good work chetan sir.
Very true - Men get value only when they achieve something and women get it only when they are good caregivers to the family.. Men being caregivers and women being achievers is not that important..
Who has set that goal?
Agree. In visa a versa situation husband become insecure (caregiver to chhodo bas bevda na bne to b bhot)and family create such a position can't even tell you
Not at all। Women also get respect when they achieve something in career। But if a man is caretaker of his family the society doesn't approve of him।
@@mgvansam764 that's what society is so much conditioned from many years that people are not able to accept. But if male is caretaker of the house still he won't be able to do as much as female.
@@nehamehta5859 How can you jump to the conclusion that males are not able to do as much as females?
Absolutely💯 true lines🔥
Yes beauty brings value for girls. But in my opinion, that should not be a reason for women to be laidback wet their career, because beauty fades with time, the value you generate in terms money or a powerful position, doesn't.
It's very painful to see women in their 30s and 40s realise how they wasted their precious time in their youth capitalising on something that has now gone away...
Yep true . You should have your own money. But It is just a plus for a woman ,more like a freedom kind of thing . It will not gonna make a woman sexier. I m not saying that attracting a man should be your end purpose. But in case you want a man then a beautiful body with less body count matters more.
Woman realise at 30s or 40 ....
but on that age men realise he should commit suicide if they don't achieve something significant yet to attract the attention of society or create a value because they don't have any default value like woman
*Man only have a value when he achieve something* 👍👍
So true, a good career will never fade away with time. But unlike guys, it is true that a girl"'s beauty gives her immense value especially till her 30s. She can get married easily, have a good family. The same doesn't happen with a pretty boy.
@@TvikrPritam
Career is infact more important
You boys are born with value, my friend is 35 and is jobless but his parents take care of his finances etc he's happily living his life and a girl if she isn't successful then she has to marry which is a worst thing that could happen to a girl
you mean to say that a beautiful woman becomes ugli in there 30's and 40's ?
Well said.Thanks for being straight forward.
100% True.
Wisdom, worth its weight in gold is being shared here, do follow it.
Thanks for saying it, like it is. I hope you keep saying 100% truth, not what is socially & politically correct
I recently understood this a few months back, by seeing two cousins of mine, who are both 28 year olds and one is a male, another one is a female.
They both where fairly good students throughout their academics. After completing, graduation both of them started preparing for various Government job exams like Bank PO, SSC CGL etc.
Now, We all know how tough it is to clear this exams in recent days as the competition is skyrocketing.
Now both have crossed 28 and they are not eligible to give this exams anymore. After fair amount of hardwork by both of them, they were still not able to clear the exams.
Now, guess what will happen to them. Here is what the whole thing changes .
The Girls is getting married to an Income Tax Officer this year, thus she will continue to have great life, all kinds of comfort at her disposal.
But the Guy, He is in depression, He just not able to understand what should he do now. He is a simple graduate so he can't apply for IT jobs as well.No one treats him properly.His future is in complete darkness currently.
What I am trying to say that Girls have a second chance of survival if they fail in achieving anything. But for Men, there is no second chance. It's do or die.
Actual scenario nowadays.
Beautifully articulated ❤️
How is your cousin brother now?
Feeling bad for him 😔.
I saw your comment 1 month ago and took a screenshot because it is telling the harsh reality of life.
@@And_I_am_ironman He is currently working in ICICI Cards and trying his best, but still the salary is pretty low and he is not sure how will he grow from here.
Thank You for your concern about him 😄.... Don't worry he is very resilient since childhood he will definitely try to manage something.
@@Lifesaga382 Exactly ... That is what happens
Yes ....&..Women(who are not good in looking & who have blackish skin 😄) get value ,when they achieve the best ..
no, they don't. if you are not good-looking, try to date some good-looking guy of the same or above status as yours, you will know the truth. The same applies to the man who is not successful enough.
disagree
Yes she will get respect if she is successful in any field but when comes to date someone who is superior to her in status, and looks better better than her won't going to consider it (exception always exists)
@@gulshanvishwakarma3512 well there's a reason for that, at the end of the day human beings are wired to make better choices. That's why men leave their current partner for a more hot women and women does the same to a man for money.
@@the1stmetalhead does hot woman mean woman having fever ??
You are the reason for I think differently. And changing my life day by day
Thanks Sir. Finally my search is over. I realized that in this fake world where everyone tries to be nice, there's one person who is telling bitter truth about life and society's unspoken rules. Very rare case its happening.
Yes sir you r absolutely right
Man needs to prove themselves first before anything
This is so true
Sir your advices and perspectives will help me become an IFS OFFICER
Wish you all the best .
@@gyana9854❤️ Gyana ❤️
I also want to be an IFS officer 😀
@@Ahumanitarian511 ❤️
@@Ahumanitarian511 my good wishes is with you ❤
That's true, no matter how handsome a young man is or not.
Money makes you more attractive than you actually are.
You are my inspiration ,my ideal . Whatever you say goes directly through heart because u are real u don't waste time in giving useless content. Your lessons are true and full of experience.
Thankyou so much for this initiative.!
In simple terms:
Women just are, but men must become
Women are born with value, men must create their value
Acha🤔
No one born with value ...create ur own value no gender role here
@@jiyaahuja7539 I think he's talking about in terms of finding a mate whether for short term or long term.
@@jiyaahuja7539 yas right
@@sanjanagrover7436 are you Elon's son because he's the only one capable of naming his children like this.
110% truth 🔥🔥
Sir baat to Aapki 100% accurate hai....
And thank you sir ye baat logon ke saamne laane ke liye 🙏
Totally Agreed 🙌🏻
Thank you 😊
There are numerous girls in my circle who settled in Germany,us, Australia in just a few months due to marriage..
And the same guy took 15 years of hard work to achieve that level..
Note: Being a high class person you still feel and connect to middle class situation is a big thing 👍
Loved your attitude. Its like this. whether you choose to believe or not.
Youngsters who consumes feel good motivational content. Are under illusion. Videos such as this one help them face the reality.
Its daring task. Its not easy to play devils Advocate. glad you decided to bite the bullet.
would like such great content in future.
Very well said sir! Completely agree!
W sir!
Nothing but truth.
I am a girl and love his content because he speaks what is pratical and true in indian society not hypothetic 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️🙏🏻
It's a worldwide phenomenon not just in India. I saw a tweet from a guy in UK saying the same thing he says.
I was aware of it. Experienced it recently.
Hey Chetan! Thankyou for this channel, amazing content and i have become a fan.
Wanted to share a view about how your views can be equally applied to a woman irrespective of her being young and attractive, as you said she gets lot of attention for what she is , and repeatedly this thing is said that women get attention and are supposedly loved for just what they are naturally, but nobody has ever said that women get respect from everybody if she is just young and attractive, nobody will get inspired from her or look up to her for her mere beauty. Needless to say with time that beauty will also fade away. So women who want to be truly successful will have to go through the same struggles and rough patches of the life and prove themselves like MEN.
True..
You have said exact thing what every guy is going through.