If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho. It's real slavery. Jobless person is more free than u. Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki. In that state you will be free. But to reach that level is very tough
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone.... It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day.... I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Cheetan sir iam from Pakistan and iam 💯 agree with your point when i was in Pakistan see all these things and now iam in Germany.. Now everyone want to talk me and gives respect❤
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy. But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.! Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships. And I love chetan bhgat...
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore . STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE. keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ??? After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her . Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households. If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all .. Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta . Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still. Me apni side se he example de rha hu. Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye. Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain. Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
Agreed with Chetan Sir. I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that. 3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message. Living well is the best revenge. 😉
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on UA-cam for guidance. You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance) A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬 A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣 & for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
Just started watching your channel and I would request youtube to pls recommend his videos to more people, because it is very hard to find a channel with such real content with proper guidance, love and respect ❤ Chetan Sir.
Totally agree sir...... U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother.... It means a lot for us........ Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I agree with you totally sir.... Life have come to such a stage that I feel I never gave myself time only on behalf of keeping others happy.... The words you spoke in video has been so touched n felt tears in my eyes...... Thank you so much for being Wat you are.. Love you sir
Sir , I am a girl and I think today girls also need to build their aukaat, if they get resources, and things are changing, if we don't then the society will fit us into that stereotypical image of conventional women . I agree with you 🙂.
What women desire from men - which is mostly related to their status, is very very different from what men desire from women. It's a very simple psycological difference. So girl building their aukaat is more of for themselves than for the man, where as it is moral duty of the man to do so. Ig that's my observation!
@@tejasverma622 I respect your opinion. But I have a question that why is it not a moral duty for girls to build their aukaat or image and why what a man or a woman desire of each other is so important. Because in our journey from birth to death , we are our own catch , in all the trials and tribulations that we face , it's totally ours . And tbh at the end it's just us. People just cross our paths , giving us memories. So let's do sth for ourselves rather than thinking about attention or desire or anything else. Let me know what do you think.
Agree...but a boy will be judged on the basis of his financial status and girl will be judged on the basis of her looks by society....No body cares if boy is down to earth and has good sense of humor....this is untold truth of society
@@chahakpugalia4931 yes..everything you say is absolutely right...but the thing is we are not talking about ideal thing that what should girl do what is justice and what are ideal things ....here we are talking about present situation. The bitter truth of this society at this present time is that making career for boy is moral duty and for girl is just for increasing their personal luxury.
I came to comment same thing, these days people don't value girls even if they are great at housework. my cousin is perfect housewive, she takes care of kids, elderly in laws, they don't need cooks, nurses, tuition teacher, someone to drop or pick kids, pay bills, pay taxes etc because she does all these, she sleeps at 11 because her husband will come home late and she gives him hot rotis and then wake up again at 5:30 to take care of in laws. She is very pretty, socially active and maintains good relation with entire extended in laws etc. She can cook for 50 people alone etc. But her mother in law still taunts her for not being a working woman.In smaller towns and certain type of business families, non working woman are accepted, but for urban woman it is same pressure as men.
Bilkul sir. thanks a lot sir for this . Sach me aisa lag rha ki aap bde bhai ki tarah mere se hi kah rhe ho Abhi se Chutiyapa nahi . Bs hard work 3 videos dekh li or abhi studies kar rha
Hello Sir, I totally agree with you. Recently a girl rejected me for silly reasons. I work in a company. That’s it I just work. But after seeing this video I feel that I need to step up and make it as a passion and climb as much as possible. I never disrespected any girl in my life it was the first time I shared with her my feelings but it was rejected. I became demotivated. But now the journey kick starts again with a boost. One fine day I will sure come over here and respond on my comment . Thank you once again to divert my feelings, view and thoughts.
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path. Thank You Sir😊🙏
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
Totally totally agree with you sir, I'm gonna put all your words in my mind from right now and gonna work for my future, my career and continuosly improving myself coz aukaat toh ab banani hai!!! Thank you so much Sir!!❤️
Sir huge respect fr u seriously. Sir my eyes are full of tears and God promise sir when my eyes are just fill with tears ' u said 'ro le' , that is line which literally touches my heart ❤. Every word of yours is absolutely right and i m seeing this practically in my life from almost 2 years. This time i have also locked myself in room due to this reason Aukaat' and just feel that i didn't even exist. Thanks a lot sir.🥰💗💗💗
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
Very great advise sir in simple words i respect you i couldnt find these costly advise in sandeep maheshwari and many other motivational channel but in your single videos i have feel everthing in my life💓💓i respect you sir💓💓💓
I agree with you sir बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
Being a girl I know this is so fucking true men are always judged by what they do how much they earn but girls do not have this same things completely agreed to each and every pt what u said by the way this video was sent to me by my brother 😜
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
I agree with you sir❤️ I had seen in my family they don't value me because of my poor performance in exams yes sir it's very hurts me, one day I will surely made my aukaat sir🥰 your bitter truth video are very relatable & eye opening for me🎉🥰 Thank you sir for such a valuable content 😊😊😊
Right on point! Sir! Moreover, here the 'auqaat' which signifies a kind of financial integrity is absolutely right, bcz we live in a society/world were the more money means the more social stature. You can't do anything about it, you just have to accept it. But more important is not how others jugde or perceive you, when u don't have auqaat, bcz, it is mere reflection of your own self.
Once I was arguing with my mom for branded shoes .That day my mom said to me "First deserve then desire". That line changed my life ☺😚
🥰
Right 👍
Wow
I m a girl and my mom says the same 🤣😂
Its nothing but kanjoosi at all 😂
The real freedom comes only when you are financially free 🙏
financially free and Real freedom are not relatable Bro. i wish you understand one day thankyou. No negative thoughts that i know what you want to say
If your income comes via a job then your are not free. You are a nokar and slave of your boss. Tum apni aajadi bechkar paise kma rhe ho.
It's real slavery.
Jobless person is more free than u.
Bharmchari bno. It's bliss. Na tume ladki chahiye na luxury. Na kisi ki gulami krne ki jrurat na kisi k nkhre uthane ki.
In that state you will be free.
But to reach that level is very tough
very true..
financially free keya hota hai C @@@dakar
@@cryptonews5253 kya kehrah 🤣, financial freedom is first aur konsa freedom hoota h
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally, a man is only loved under a condition that he PROVIDES something "
- Chris Rock.
Feminazis will disagree
Exactly God will destroy this anti men world soon
🥶true
Then have multiple wives to get more love multiple children multiple dog
That will multiply the love you get
@@shaizilwarsi7852 Dogs suck
Ek ladki ne bola tha 2016 me "teri aukat hai kya mere baare me sochne ki " I'm thankful to her. Bass wahi aukat banane me laga hua hu. I've just completed my MBBS, but its just a beginning. Aur bohot kuchh karna baaki h. I'm not gonna stop till I make my "Aukat" that she was talking about.🙂
Cool....however don't forget it keeps changing from girl to girl.... Cos they always look for betterment.... It never stops....so don't fight to impress them.....be happy with what you do and achieve... otherwise it's an endless game.... 🥴
Good bro 🙂🙂
Go bro ♥️
Keep it up bro
Tumhara maqsad aur manzil us ladki ko lajawab karne ki nahi rehni chahiye balki esa faaru ban na he ke kisi ka mohtaj na bane aur garibo ki aram se madad karne wala banjaye... Bas fir ladki speechless apne aap hojaigi agar usko aapke baare me pata chalega toh
"Women don't care about you , they only care about what you can do for them!"
Only your mother will love you unconditionally !
Always remember this!
Ohh really your mom ur sister and your female friends don't care about you. I am shocked
@@sdevi4759 here the word women is used for wife/girlfriend and not for mother or sister .
True bro very true
Humans* Not only Womens but guys too buddy.
@@Indian2.5 men love idealistically whereas women love opportunistically.
1. Career
2. Health
3. Relationship
Three major pillars of life,
focus and never forgot.
Bro health ki spelling sahi kr lo
Maine apne long distance relationship k f ko bola ki health pe dhyan de...he said...dfa ho....jisko mai acha lgunga vo aise hie apna legi....but still he is not understanding the true meaning of relationship n love.....baat krne ka tarika....respect hie nhi h
@@shilpykumari6419 👌💃
@@divinesoul1313 may be he lost the gem. & sure he will regret later full of fake world if someone is caring abt him.. that's fortunate thing ..
@@aatifshah8476 I think..love vo h ...jo apki kamiya bta k apko improve kre...buttering to koi b kr leta h.
No school is teaching this as straight forward as this I wish someone was telling us 15 years back
Absolutely correct Sir ,
Career+ Health+ Relationship = AUKAAT
Content is valuable and what chetan sir said is obviously correct. 'Men only valued whn they achieve something in their life'.
Applicable to girl as well
@@swapanarakshe3865 yes girls should also focus on their growth
@@swapanarakshe3865 Nice 🙃
@@swapanarakshe3865 I am a simp I value you bcz you are a girl. Now show me any a girl who can say the same for me 😀 .....
@@stevebellingham2319 not just any girl...only beautiful girl with a good character!!!
"Jisdin aukaat hogi ladkiya apne aap tere pass aayegi"🔥
true words
@rahul.........aur maze ki baat ye hai ki.......aukaat banne k baad ladkiyan zyada bhav deti hai 🤗
I don't think so ..looks matter more for us!!
@@gurleensekhon319 u r right.......lekin insaan ko shakal se zyada akal se smart hona chahiye
@The Quiver if we have multiple girls as friends.......then people will not ignore us, they will not insult us
sir i agree your point,now i am going to build my aukaat...kyuki meri bahott bejjati hui hai sir ,lekin me puri jann laga dunga apni aukaat banane me thank yousir, this video is very helpful for me
6:40 true , If you dont have 'Aukat' duniya ko ghanta parak nahi padta if you are even there or not . So build the aukat first !
I am a girl , I mean married girl ...i am only house wife in my family ,i also can relate with this video .. all the female in my sasural are CA , ENGINEER , INSPECTOR , but I m house wife my in-laws and relatives judge me ..,then i start my business and I promise I will earn itni saara money jo wo sab puri life job karke na kamaa paaye ..I will earn money not because I am materialistic or laalchi ..but for my respect ...I will make my aukaat..
All the best
It's important for anyone, regardless of gender, to be financially independent before getting married. Financial stability can certainly contribute to a sense of self-respect and identity. It allows individuals to have greater control over their lives and decisions.
Agree..sir....when i was topper in school and college then everyone loves me and make me priority...but after failing in several compitive exams and still being unemployed in mid twenties... perspective of everyone's towards me and my opinion changed alot...no one bother to even listen my views my choice and alll even i am humble kind to everyone....
It is all about your worth by money ,how much u contribute in your family finance..
💯
Money gives freedom to women but it doesn't attract opposite gender like men do... Women's beauty, character and etiquette matters too..... Keep it as well in your mind....
Keep in mind,,wat Shivam yadav said ,,, ok ,🙂
Sad but it's the ugly reality this world operates on. I've had the same experience, it's made me less judgmental and more level headed (specially of the company I keep). But I think that parents should be level headed and not judge their kids too much on Aukaat. But again, we have to accept the society we live in.
Bhai which aspirant ?
I always waste my time by using games,whatsapp,facebook etc... These things spoils my whole day....
I realise this but after some time i again repeat this shit and it takes my day by day.... But here i promise that from today at that time (3.07 a.m) i will totally cut all the destruction and my whole focus will be towards my career..... Thank u ♥️ for the video.... life is really harsh if we don't use our time properly......
Cheetan sir iam from Pakistan and iam 💯 agree with your point when i was in Pakistan see all these things and now iam in Germany.. Now everyone want to talk me and gives respect❤
Unfair, Bitter but Absolutely True. Hope more people talk about this openly.
I used to make fun of this guy to look cool and Trendy.
But seriously I felt guilt why did I do that. He is such an intelligent and blunt personality I ever come cross. He talks really. Hats off man and thank you
Every word is precious for a young man whos is lost and confused with life and love.
Ekdam correct bola sir Aapne . Bitter but truth 😓
Without Aukat koi Kisi ladke ko koi Pyar nhi krta , respect nhi deta 🙏
A message to all woman : raise your standard. Otherwise A Man will get somebody else. Don't expect loyalty without building value. Old good days are over👍👍👍
100% right 👍
Kya bkwass Hai ye sab kuch ladke hi kare 🤪 bhai kya gyan de rhaa hai tu
100000000% true
@@knightwing2024 you will not understand. And that's OK. It's not for everybody👍👍👍
@@rajibdeka2207 tu ladki Hai issliye Esa bol rahi Hai pta Hai mujhe bkwass bawandar chup ekdum
Aukaat should be built not for love, but to be able to live a life of your choice, it's almost so hard to find a good partner regardless of how rich you are.
Hands up to your comment.!
Success can make your life easier and respectful but it can't guarantee you for good life partner and relationships.
And I love chetan bhgat...
You are absolutely right bro 👍
But you will always have more options to choose from
Hence higher chance of getting someone better
@@adarshpareek8864
You said true that money gives you power to change the relationship if not working.
Thanks it helped me a lot.
Yes , you are right. Same thing I am also experiencing in my life. But I don't want to earn money just to be loved by some girl.
Focus on carrier and health ... relationship musibat hai..single rho khush rho.. .after success relationship thik hai.. lekin pehle nhi..Agree?
Agree brother
But when you start working on your goals , everyone starts coming back to you but things and attention you craved before , dont excites you anymore .
STOP POSTING ON YOUR INSTA PROFILE AND START BUILDING AN IMPRESSIVE LINKEDIN PROFILE.
keep it up chetan sir you always motivate us✌🤞✌
As a berozgaar engineer, I am living this today and what you said is 100% true.. But I haven't given up just yet, I'll rise and shine..
U will rise
Kyu engineering krli 😂😂😂😂😁😁😁😂😝😁😂🌝
@@Sumit_XDF seems like some immature asking the question
Hey, u got this okay
@@Sumit_XDF look just becoz the nation cant provide jobs doesnt mean ull blame engineering.....
Those who have the ability to hear the bitter truth, no obstacle can stop them.....THANKS SIR...👍🏻👍🏻
"Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally".
"Chris Rock"
I agree ... Life mein jeena hai to awkaat bna ke jeena h ....this line touched my soul.... And i will come back on this comment box when i will have my own awkaat...
Thank you sir.I am 20 yrs old.I can relate this story with myself.Just 1-2 year before when I was preparing for medical entrance exam no one was supporting except my parents.All gave example of failure at that time.But this year I qualified the exam with a very good rank.After that all are supporting to me. I am a regular student of life in your channel.
Like a true elder brother he is guiding the younger generation. These are truly pearls of wisdom relevant not only in present times but for future also.
The word aukaat is very very important in man's life 💯
Chetan ji, namaskar, satsriakal, adaab. I am 45 years old sikh guy working in IT , simple views towards life, contended with what I had, soft spoken, mediocre ambitions and trying to be good with everyone around. But over the years all around in close family made some good money in business in india and jobs outside india. I feel strongly the differential treatment by family and medium or low respect behaviors from them although I am the eldest kid. I have been working on my health for past 3 years, did marathon etc., now focused on my career growth. For all the viewers, my learning is be fully independent financially, focus strongly on career, be ambitious (Bina kisiko kuchle). Be good to others, but speak up and don't be submissive. Take care, stay strong. Believe in yourself.
I totally love this bitter truth video series as it actually gives us a reality check rather than keeping us in a pseudo bubble of fantasies so that we can take the appropriate actions in the time that we have at our disposal ✌. Do continue with this series Sir 🙌
6:48 Golden lines...🔥💫
Thank You very much for making this video!!
Lines
Kaash m tumse pyar kr paati matlab y paise se pyar h insan s nhi sir big hats for u 🙏..
If without aukaat boys don't get "love."..❣️
..then girls don't get "freedom".🕊️
Exactly
Haaa freedom is important for girls nowadays
@Whatsapp Backup I think by freedom she meant self -dependence
@Whatsapp Backup but what if their husband leave them , torture them and don't take their responsibility and kids responsibility and Girls don't want to be a burden for their father , Then ???
After marriage , family members dont want to take girl's responsibility ,if her husband doesnt support her .
Girls need to be prepared for any possibilty
If her husband supports her , then she can also contribute her earnings .
Freedom and independent is different....I think independent is better word that is you don't depend on another person for your happiness
I agree with you sir. I'm a girl & always put career as my top priority. Many barriers are there, but I still only focused on my dream, and your bitter truth videos are very effective for me. Thank you sir. Lots of love and respect❤🙏
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Same here
It was for men TBH, girls can still get away by marrying into rich households.
If girls focus on their looks, they can get way more than a guy could ever dream of
That is the main problem because you see yourself as girl so please assume yourself as Atma and aatma never discriminates between Boys and girls.
@@MegaGreatape yeah but if they want their own achievements then the thing is different.
Video is specifically for boys , but sir this one is highly highly relatable for all ..
Hats off to you sir , aapke jaisa authentic real content kahi aur nahi milta .
Plz make more such videos on how to ace in career and stop being someone's
Yes, this video is specifically for boys but still.
Me apni side se he example de rha hu.
Meri bua ki shadi huyi wo graduated hain bua but still London ke NRI ladke ne unke sath shadi karli and unko wahin le gye.
Second example, meri bhaiya ki shadi jis ladki se huyi wo bhi padhi likhi hain (graduate) bus itna padha likha sundar and susheel hona enough tha bhabhi ke lie. And aj bhaiya unke sath 1.5 crore ke flat me reh rahe hain.
Now esa ek example mujhe nahi mila jahan ladke ke sath esa hua ho. Shadi he ladke ki uski aukat poochke decide hoti hai par ladki ki nahi... :)
I have no language to thank you dada..you are doing a great job. I could see my shortcomings gradually and will do my 100% to overcome it. Thanks again.
Agreed with Chetan Sir.
I still remember my class 12th days, when the results of JEE Mains were announced. Every relative of mine was eager to know my result. But I didn't do well in that exam. And next everyone knows what they do after that.
3 years passed, Now I am in my final semester of Engg. placed in a Product Based Company ( will join as a Full-time employee this June) and none of them even send a message.
Living well is the best revenge. 😉
Can you give some key points of your journey..... I am a fe cs student
@@ruturajkadam5164 Hi Ruturaj, learn the concepts of Data Structures and Algorithms. Solve problems on Leetcode and Geeks for Geeks. There are many channels on UA-cam for guidance.
You can checkout take U forward of Raj Vikramaditya.
@@anshulsinha3629 Tech Dose by surya pratap kahar is best for DSA
@@sachin08425 Okay.
Sabhash 😎😎😎
औकात it's not only word it's define life 🔥🔥🔥
Thank you so much for sharing this very important message in such a powerful manner 🙏
yes... mujhe meri aukat se zada chahiye and thanxx to u sir for guiding us
The moment u said that I'm like your younger brother I felt connected. Thank you sir for showing the reality and for encouragement to do better in life.
You just defined everything in direct way with simple words.
Thanks alot sir.
Totally agree! Bando ki aukat unke wallet se hi banti hai.. kadva sach!
Indian youth ladko ko aap jese guider ki zarur he taki aapko sun ke ladki pe time waste karne ki bajaye careers pe time de, you’re great sir
Solid video 💪🏻
If the videos were ranked, it would be ranked as No.1.
You are great sir, my life is changed due to you. Thank you so much ❤
Sir, U have rightly touched the nerve of all youth masses by sharing this bitter truth... thank you a lot for guiding us. ❤️😊
This is like an Older brother that I never knew I needed . Thanks Chetan 😊
Very true sir, Sacchai yahi hai !! big fan of your true advices 🙏🙏
Only women, child and dogs are loved unconditionally "A man is only loved under a condition that he provides something""
True🔥
A girl loved only for Her sex(beauty,sex appearance)
A child Loved because he/she is easy to control (emotionally, physically).he/she basic need is food or who feel them comfortable 👬
A Dog or any pet is just a slave,if you provide food of any living thing that will attract you it can be ant or lion, because their basic need is one & only thing is food,for living
If you provide someone something then you are something for them besides that you are Nothing.....I REPEAT YOU ARE NOTHING
@@freedom4813 yes for Boys getting a job & feeding family is easy! 🤣
& for girls getting proposals from boys is difficult! Even a fat girl gets 100 proposals from guys!
Chetan Sir U Are Right , Practical Man . Your Advises Will Definitely Bring Change. No One Ever Guided About Life In This Way . Sab log bas fake motivation dete rehte hai but your videos hit inside deep core especially to middle , lower middle , poor class youth's . 😐 🙏
Huge respect sir..
Accidentally I found this video ..
Thanks to God and you too ❤️
Just started watching your channel and I would request youtube to pls recommend his videos to more people, because it is very hard to find a channel with such real content with proper guidance, love and respect ❤ Chetan Sir.
Totally agree sir......
U have told that u treat us like ur younger brother....
It means a lot for us........
Thnkew for this n all the past videos..... ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Agreed
You were calling us little brother
Dost thank you sir for all this love and care like our parents ❤️
I agree with you totally sir.... Life have come to such a stage that I feel I never gave myself time only on behalf of keeping others happy.... The words you spoke in video has been so touched n felt tears in my eyes...... Thank you so much for being Wat you are.. Love you sir
There is a statement..."aukaat me rahna.... now i realize.....there should be aukaat 💯 within us....... thankyou for inspiring ❤️.
Sir , I am a girl and I think today girls also need to build their aukaat, if they get resources, and things are changing, if we don't then the society will fit us into that stereotypical image of conventional women . I agree with you 🙂.
What women desire from men - which is mostly related to their status, is very very different from what men desire from women. It's a very simple psycological difference. So girl building their aukaat is more of for themselves than for the man, where as it is moral duty of the man to do so. Ig that's my observation!
@@tejasverma622 I respect your opinion. But I have a question that why is it not a moral duty for girls to build their aukaat or image and why what a man or a woman desire of each other is so important. Because in our journey from birth to death , we are our own catch , in all the trials and tribulations that we face , it's totally ours . And tbh at the end it's just us. People just cross our paths , giving us memories. So let's do sth for ourselves rather than thinking about attention or desire or anything else. Let me know what do you think.
Agree...but a boy will be judged on the basis of his financial status and girl will be judged on the basis of her looks by society....No body cares if boy is down to earth and has good sense of humor....this is untold truth of society
@@chahakpugalia4931 yes..everything you say is absolutely right...but the thing is we are not talking about ideal thing that what should girl do what is justice and what are ideal things ....here we are talking about present situation. The bitter truth of this society at this present time is that making career for boy is moral duty and for girl is just for increasing their personal luxury.
I came to comment same thing, these days people don't value girls even if they are great at housework. my cousin is perfect housewive, she takes care of kids, elderly in laws, they don't need cooks, nurses, tuition teacher, someone to drop or pick kids, pay bills, pay taxes etc because she does all these, she sleeps at 11 because her husband will come home late and she gives him hot rotis and then wake up again at 5:30 to take care of in laws. She is very pretty, socially active and maintains good relation with entire extended in laws etc. She can cook for 50 people alone etc. But her mother in law still taunts her for not being a working woman.In smaller towns and certain type of business families, non working woman are accepted, but for urban woman it is same pressure as men.
Chetan bhagat is like that teacher who shows your 'Aukat' in every lecture. Hats off to you Sir.
Bilkul sir. thanks a lot sir for this .
Sach me aisa lag rha ki aap bde bhai ki tarah mere se hi kah rhe ho
Abhi se Chutiyapa nahi . Bs hard work
3 videos dekh li or abhi studies kar rha
Hello Sir,
I totally agree with you.
Recently a girl rejected me for silly reasons.
I work in a company. That’s it I just work.
But after seeing this video I feel that I need to step up and make it as a passion and climb as much as possible.
I never disrespected any girl in my life it was the first time I shared with her my feelings but it was rejected.
I became demotivated.
But now the journey kick starts again with a boost.
One fine day I will sure come over here and respond on my comment .
Thank you once again to divert my feelings, view and thoughts.
Exactly after 1 year, I will be back here with way more success in my life. This is the promice I make today to myself... ✨
Yes ,mai bhi aaunga
God bless you Bhai ❤️👬
@Ajey Mishra i will be waiting
Yes i also come💯💪
What happened?
Chetan is the brother who we all want in our lives ❤️
I agree. I have enjoyed this video a lot. Thanks sir
Agree sir
Love you for this kind information
Right sir chahe vo girl's ho ya boys,jinka aukaat nhi hota use koi nhi puchhta ☹️🙂
Aisa nhi h agar girls aukaat nhi bhi bnaati hai
to aapki shaadi ho jayegi aap settle ho jaogi life mein lekin boys agar nhi bna paate to kutta bhi nhi puchta unhe shaadi dur ki baat hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 ha bhai....ladkiyo ke liye face important hai....ladki agar dikhne me sundar h to achha ladka mil jata h bhale hi co only 12th pass ho
I just love and respect you for such kind of 'Bitter Truth' videos. Because these videos prove that my thinking pattern is absolutely right and I am in a right path.
Thank You Sir😊🙏
Sach me bhai teri baate dil ko chhu gayi thanks 🙏
Bilkul sach bol rahe ho sir aap, thankyou so much 🙏🏻
I remember 20 years back I used to randomly walk into any company or an office asking for a job, and 90% of the times there wasn't any opening and when there is, I used to get rejected coz of my skill set but everytime I got rejected I knew what I need to work on. This video takes me to my struggling days....Chetan is doing a fantastic job of creating content which is really needed for India's youth coz not all parents are IAS or engineers..
"Aukaat" is everything 👏 Agreed sir.. This video will definitely change may perspectives 👌🙏
Totally totally agree with you sir, I'm gonna put all your words in my mind from right now and gonna work for my future, my career and continuosly improving myself coz aukaat toh ab banani hai!!!
Thank you so much Sir!!❤️
Superb Superb Superb... lots of thanks
Completely agree with you 🙌
Thanks sir for inspiring and guiding through your videos. Not just watching , but also applying them in my life ❤️
Sir huge respect fr u seriously. Sir my eyes are full of tears and God promise sir when my eyes are just fill with tears ' u said 'ro le' , that is line which literally touches my heart ❤. Every word of yours is absolutely right and i m seeing this practically in my life from almost 2 years. This time i have also locked myself in room due to this reason Aukaat' and just feel that i didn't even exist. Thanks a lot sir.🥰💗💗💗
I see many video on UA-cam for motivation but one of then this video is real motivational
Yes sir, i agree with you thanks for guidance and more importantly video upload here❤️🔥
As always sir, straight from heart without being filtered.....your every video guide us in our lives to make it more vibrant sir 🙏🙏🙏
I totally agree sir,When I was working then people used to talk to me upfront.And when I left the job and preparing for exams these people disappeared quickly.People respect the post not person.This is that I have understood.
Very great advise sir in simple words i respect you i couldnt find these costly advise in sandeep maheshwari and many other motivational channel but in your single videos i have feel everthing in my life💓💓i respect you sir💓💓💓
Agreeee sir. Really 💯🔥
I agree with you sir
बिना औकात के दुनिया सिर्फ हमारे टैलेंट को अपने मतलब के लिए इस्तेमाल करती है
औकात होनी जरूरी है ताकि वक्त आने पर हम इस दुनिया को इस्तेमाल कर सके।
The first few minutes of this video I can resonate with vividly... Indeed! Self-valued quotient respect & love.
Thank you sir I am greatly impacted by this video !
Sir ekdum on point boli baat boli aapne🥺🥺🖤
11:07 to 11:19 it's not bitter truth for a man who has self respect and responsible... It's the eye opening line.. 👍🏽
Remember binge reading his books.. And now the same with these amazing vids. Thanks Sir !
Super truth of life ....gr8 video
❤lovely advices. Straight forward
Being a girl I know this is so fucking true men are always judged by what they do how much they earn but girls do not have this same things completely agreed to each and every pt what u said by the way this video was sent to me by my brother 😜
Whenever I listen to you Sir.. I always feel like my big brother is saying something to me.. I don't have a big brother, but I felt like.. Thank you.!!
Agree 1000%💯Thnxx 👍
I agree with you sir❤️ I had seen in my family they don't value me because of my poor performance in exams yes sir it's very hurts me, one day I will surely made my aukaat sir🥰 your bitter truth video are very relatable & eye opening for me🎉🥰
Thank you sir for such a valuable content 😊😊😊
कटू सत्य वचन- चेतन भाई🙏 ज़मीन-आसमान का फर्क पढ़ जाता है भाई जी लोगों के स्वभाव में अब "औकात" ना हो😓
👌👌👌👌 thanks sir for this amazing video
You are the person who always show the truth , that's why we love you 💕
Right on point! Sir!
Moreover, here the 'auqaat' which signifies a kind of financial integrity is absolutely right, bcz we live in a society/world were the more money means the more social stature. You can't do anything about it, you just have to accept it.
But more important is not how others jugde or perceive you, when u don't have auqaat, bcz, it is mere reflection of your own self.