Why Relationships Go From Love to Hate - Sadhguru
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
- Sadhguru looks at one insidious thing that people do, which messes up their relationships.
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8 minutes ago had a massive argument with my daughter and was so disturbed. Decided to look at some video to take my mind off the emotional impact and i get to see this video.....
I hope it works out for you both. I had so many fights with my mom when I was a teenager. Terrible terrible fights. Some were physical. I regret them all. Hopefully your daughter grows up and realises you only have one mother.
@Jenny OkieGirl happy to know that you are happy about the fact that you have only sons, want to share my feelings here , I am happy that we have a 13 ye are old girl, I am learning🙂🙏
Two things are there.
First, youngsters, some times, don't listen to elders. Elders means not only age but experience.
Because children don't listen, DON'T fail to FORE-WARN the children of the consequences of their actions, words and thoughts. (Omissions as well as Commissions. Omission is failing to do something that must be done. Commission is something that should not be done has been done). Tell children that they have to solve THEIR own problems without much of our support, if they DON'T listen to elders and if they get into trouble due to their Omissions and Commissions.
Tell them also if they do as per our ideas, we will fully help in case of trouble, if any.
Chidren know LESS dangers of their actions than you, due to their age, education and experience.
If we don't warn them, they should not say in future, 'I was young at that time. You should have taught me what is right and what is wrong. You failed in your responsibilities'. (There are cases where children asked this to parents).
Second, get grand-parents or wisdom-father as in some religions who gives emotional and other support to children than boolgical parents, as children can't discuss all delicate matters with parents.
DON'T force children too. Don't argue either. Have a DISCUSSION (without emotions and some sort of detachment). The children too have rights NOWADAYS. We may be accused of harassing children and we may to answer law enforcing agencies and MAY need to go to jail, if you are destined so.
Pray to God to give you good children, during/ before/ after marriage. If you are pious, lead a good life and be in the good books of God, God may grant that wish. We can escape all consequent problems.
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@Ascended Master
Such arrogance to speak as if your thoughts were the absolute ultimate truth. At least have the humility to state that you speak from strong opinion, limited education and personal experience which is always somewhat narrow and limited no matter how enlightened you think you are. (My opinion is admittedly just another educated opinion. But still just another limited opinion in the universe of trillions of opinions.)
What did you find out after it? Pls share details how it helped you. To let people understand the meaning of it in reality. 🙂🙏🏼
The more I listen to this man the more my life has changed all I can do is say thank you from my soul
"Don't make your emotion work". Wow, such a profound and sensible statement. This man is unbelievable.
It's easier said than done. Everything in modern life is connected. Emotions and rationality, if you live in a temple and be able to be by yourself without the cultural forces pulling at you it is easier. We don't take our time to be this person, so we fail in love. We only can succeed once we settled in life....
I couldn't understand this statement please help me
this man is a part of depopulation agenda..
Thank you for reminding me. I often become so critical of the ones that I truly care for that I forget what love is truly about. .. total acceptance🙏🏼
Two way street
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If you want to live closely with people, it should be a relationship of nurture not opinionated. Thank you Sadhguru
Nice..
Wat about narcissistic people? I recently blocked my ex even tho I genuinely loved him. But he has deep child hood wounds & is completely driven by his ego- he cannot love or feel with compassion. I feel sorry for him but I cannot see a future with such a cold man.
Allie Maxwell I don’t have any advice for you. But I’m so sorry you’re going through that 💕
@@annamara3982 that is good advice by itself. Each person's length of journey is different and the couple needs to be on similar wavelengths or else the best decision is to part ways to allow that person to continue their journey which might not have even begun yet and there is a sad possibility that it might never start due to many factors within that person that blocks that journey. A major part might being that the chakras are closed and the person is unwilling to open them, even subconsciously due to several factors bases on that person's unwillingness to part ways with the past. There is much work to be done if that person ever seeks guidance but only he must be willing to seek it. If it is love that he seeks, he will be unable to find it until that work is finished which might take a short or long time, depending on dedication and willingness. Surprisingly and ironically enough, I believe those are the people that when they break free, become the essence of what could become a mentor, guru, etc. Only they do not know this and might not know this in this lifetime until a small part of them decides something is not right and needs to change. But like I said, only they have to go through life and ultimately make that decision. I am not a guru but I am awake and enlightened and working slowly on studying and opening up my chakras but I am afraid of further enlightenment with my own guidance so I am traveling through life hoping I will meet a yogi guru in the United States. I will gladly travel to go see him and ask for spiritual guidance so if u know of one, let me know. Sadhguru is the best one I have found so far, beyond expectations. Just listening to his talks and mantras brings tears to my eyes. Being enlightened makes u very sensitive to emotions and that is the reason I am trudging that path very slowly. Enough about me, I must go do yoga now 😆 before my day runs out
Yea, that line crossed my heart too.
In relationships, the problem is not that there are 2 beings. There are actually 2 beings, 2 egos and 2 pain bodies. So 6 people in a relationship. This is where it is deeply flawed and dysfunctional.
Well defined. I've never thought of a relationship in this manner. You are
absolutely correct! Something to ponder.
Never thought of it that way :-) all the more important that we keep a balance. Starting by ourselves...
Truth well defined
I think Once you start thinking it of as 2 loves, 2 successes 2 happiness... then everything will be alright 😇😊
checkout sadhguru on ego!!! you will find out theres no mr ego apart from you
The biggest heartbreak we suffer is from the betrayal from family members. Don't dishonour your own soul and spirit because of others dishonorable actions.
May this message from Sadhguru reach and heal all hearts and relationships. "LOVE means you are willing to nurture another life without forming opinions" ~ Sadhguru
That’s probably why many people are struggling with relationships nowadays. We are all so opinionated. Thanks to social media that is conditioning us to be that way
Wise words 😊
Insightful
Social media is influencing in a huge way unknowingly. True well said.
"Keep breaking your heart over and over until it opens up"
What is love? It is seeing the other happy, it's dependency, it's responsibility, it's nurturing, it's understanding, it's being pragmatic and it's being prudence-a balance between emotion and wisdom, a solution, not a problem and obviously a feelings for the other. Where love is only emotion, it has the elements to fall like a pack of cards.
“Love means you’re willing to nurture another life without forming opinions”
There is no such thing as love, mate.😆😂💤😴💤
Before this I was crying like a child,but now I realise ,it was all me and my emotions who was creating all the drama.... "never allow your emotions to work"❤️❤️🙏🎉
Yes all you do is bring heartache when the person you trusted with your heart does not care for it the way you think they should. I want to adjust from these emotions they bring no good at times just a dependency on someone who might not even know where to start to care for you.
It warms my heart to see all the comments from people who were going through something and got the notification for this video. Its just great. We are 1 and blessings to all 🙏
Love means nurturing another life without forming an opinion
opinion is just assuming as we never know all the facts
It means to accept you as you are.
I'm feeling like little child who is listening on her grandfather. It feels like it, that you are the elder and I'm the younger who is learning about the life and how it should be liven. Thank you Sadhguru, wish you were my grandfather.
same here ! what a sweet way of putting it ☺️ much blesses and love to you
My grandfather was like this, he would listen and understand anything. I miss him
Me too
He is that too all of us.
Sadghuru is my spiritual father, he doesn't know this but he has been nurturing me in such a way & I have grown so well and am now emerging like the lotus meeting the sunlight for the first time
Woke up this morning troubled about stuff in my relationship I had vivid dreams about it too and then saw this notification and I really needed this teaching.. thank you sadhguru
I m in a very bad state of mind bcoz of my relationship.saw ur video nd feeling so good.badly needed one such teaching. Thanks alot
How are you now?
@@hetalaiya5031How are you now?
The problem arises when from your side there is nurture and from the other side, when you expect reciprocal nurture, there is an intense effort to FIX YOU !
Deepak Bellur what does that means???🙂
@mmmxxz one way they Fix You is to reject all suggestions to see such videos.
True
@Deepak Bellur, it seems to me that either you nurture without forming opinions or you create expectations (which means you demand the other person to act in accordance with your wishes).
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The problem is that YOU are still expecting things on the other person tô do not try to fix you. YOU are still expecting, having opinion and judgement.
Are you experiencing the relationship that reflects who you really are and what you really want or the relationship that reflects the wounds of your childhood? Are you with the person who helps you become a better person or someone who makes you question your worth? Are you really happy or are you just afraid of the sadness of being alone? We've all done it; went into a relationship for the wrong reasons. And often we get stuck in that relationship for any number of complicated reasons, It's hard to know what to do. So we will stay when we feel happy and we will stay when we're depressed when we're too weak to leave.
The real questions to ask yourself is: Do I feel like I look forward to my life with them or am I just hanging on for dear life? Am I really with the person that I was meant for or am I trying not to disappoint others? How do I know who I am meant for? The person who we are meant for may not be the person we recognize until we've learned to recognize our true self. The person that you are meant for will be the person who challenges you to believe in yourself, who opens your heart wider than you ever thought possible, not with the sole intention to get you to love them more, but so that you will love yourself more. The person who you are meant to be with sees who you were meant to be and supports your growth, your passions and your happiness. You just seem to fit together and compliment each other and even when times are tough, you stick together. To them, you will never be replaceable, they value your heart as much as their own. The person who you are meant for will be the person you've secretly been searching for, hoping that one day you will have the courage to ask for.
That person who does that for you also needs it back for a balanced relationship not a one way street. If you expect it but can not give the same then expect them to leave in order to stay healthy
@@BNJA5M1N3 True
@@BNJA5M1N3 exactly
Sometimes we don't realise that we were looking for that childhood hurt to be repaired. Took me 30years to realise. You hit the nail on the head. The last thing we want to do is hurt anyone when we've been brokenhearted ourselves. Very difficult situation.
Emotional relationship brings dependency, so truely spoken , Sadguru.i feel so relaxed when I listen you.
Man with a lot of sense
When you're single af and watching this video.
A relationship is not just about spouses or partners. It is about every single person in your life. Father, mother, siblings, etc. So Start by understanding this and then use this wisdom in every kind of relationship.
And learning how to be better in all Relationships and emotionally preparing for the next romantic relationship
@@Ahatcho21 absolutely !
@@MissOJAY lol...same😂😂
When you're single you are still in your own company, and you might be in bad company too, if you are judging instead of nurturing yourself.
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I love this. Something I learned in the past couple of years is that emotions are there to accept them, let them ride, and to be patient. They’re too transient to depend on. Keeps my interactions way more calm. I mean…still a mess. But calm on my side, I guess.
We are blessed that we are being able to listen to this man ❤
I am so glad I stumbled on to Sadhguru, he is amazing! So simple yet so profound. I read his book Inner Engineering.
Yes please read and if you can check out Om Swami too.
@@edwardkumarkenway1875 know l
@@ramonatrujillo3307 what mate ?
It's about time and it's written. You can not force someone to be with you. That's it. If you love and they love you back you'll get that. People fall in love at there times only when it feels like.
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This is true, but i have so many questions. Lol
It's hard to enjoy your emotions bliss when your with someone that always keeps your thoughts working
The problem might be that you do not enjoy cerebral pursuits. I can assure the 2 not only can coexist, but are intertwined. It's often the meeting of minds that create the spark we call love.
i see ur point....some people r not emotionally expressive....it can add to romance and connection ...woman often crave it
0:32 I was afraid that the bell will hit sadhguru... But may be bell also loves sadhguru👌
Haha sadhguru himself had suspended it, he has great knowledge in feilds of kinetic n potential energy !! Dnt wory it never hits him lol !!
you must watch others videos where he swings the bell while delivering serious discourses😆😆.he knows where it intersects..
Don't take life seriously,
Drop your seriousness n Be playful every moment
-sadhguru
Its designed to be that way that he can swing it but can never hit him.
@@laxmandeep9409 hmmm... I like last line. But every time I start to take my life less serious. My parents...😢 Start to scold me..😐😄
@anu
See, you are lucky enough your parents are taking care of you.
May be you are not managing things good in their understanding or you lack of skills. Or your doings not giving confidence to them.
You can say this and try for elimination of misunderstandings between you and your parents by asking,” mom dad, I actually feeling not good for what you said this and that can you please explain me why you are saying this and that in this case”
Or “ mom dad I am doing it good this and that but I do understand I am not doing it perfect I lack it here this and that so can we talk briefly on this..”
@@anu7779 may be scolding because they are seeing you lil lazy... It means there is no aliveness or playfulness😀.
Life is needed to go more intense than what it is right now,
The intensity of life lies in it's stillness..
If you're watching this just after breakup.. u can co-relate with every single line...beautifully explained by Sadhguru g
Love is like a flower. When you love someone they are not a possession, instead of picking them you wanna see them grow to their fullest potential. Nurture your love as you would a flower. Support and watch your partner grow. Unconditional love. ❤️
True
Love is like a flower. When you love someone they are not a possession, instead of picking them you wanna see them grow to their fullest potential.
So basically don't force it upon each other. If you want someone to be someone you want them to be is a big NO: thanks sadhguru x
When you tired of tying to making it work and just want to work on your relationship with God 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Tijuana Leduff that’s when you’re heading for a disaster
God first
Love is unconditional. Love means that you accept another soul for the way it comes. You love that soul for everything that it is with every tear, every odd stitch. Love is not making exceptions, it's accepting. It's wanting. It's needing. If you have opinions, expectations, judgments, toward someone you claim to "love", you do not love that person. You can only love someone when all of their imperfections are what drive you crazy for them. You will know when you have found your soulmate. When a heavily flawed broken weird unique soul crosses your path, but you see that soul and think it could not be any more perfect. That is when you've found them. That is love.
SO POWERFUL!! Thank you Sadhguru!! You are one of GREATEST Blessings in the world!!
U just explain love so well SADHGURU love you
"They should be no opinions they should be nurture"
This video was made for me,and today.
I love you Sadhguru 🙏🏿❤️❤️.
Thanks ❤️
Thanks ❤️
Thanks ❤️
I have seen you on almost every video of Sadhguru....namaskaram 🙏
Les blagues de Sadhguru Blagues des autres. 🙏🙏🙏👍👍🙂
@@nkishoreg3590 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️
@@rajboda1 🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️
Nurture them into a new possibility...I Love it 😊
Love is God & God is Love...
You can't find true God without Devotion and Dedication...
You just make the world to a better place
Sometimes we get so distracted and blame others for our each n every problem and this is the sign that our seed needs a good amount of water...
What is the best thing that we can give back to this world or this universe is right thinking
Budhaa has also said about eight fold path where he mentioned about 'right thinking' and right thinking needs good emotional health and good emotional health needs right thinking...so this is the cycle we have to maintain ...
Thank You so much that you are here to show the right path to people . Our today's world really need inner engineering 😊🙏
I have been very emotional and stumbling on this video has been so refreshing. I needed to hear this. I encourage everyone dealing with some kind of emotional issue right now. Stay strong
"Emotions are not for work.". Thanks a lot sadhguru. Learnt a lot from you
Relationships generally have a code of conduct, what is considered acceptable and what is unacceptable. Most relationships end from acting outside the code of conduct, a disagreement about the code of conduct or a desire to be separate/connected elsewhere.
MIL-K that makes sense
Words of wisdom. Helps a lot in tough times. I wish I had a guide like Sadhguru to give peace to my restless heart.
Beautifully expressed as always! 🙏🏽💚🌟 Love = no opinions, only nurture 💗✨
Amazingly and sweetly clarified the love is not opinionated but nurtured is so profound and has immense clarity
I'm listening Sadhguru ... Namaste Master, IMHO this practice of unconditional love can be quite complicated sometimes, and so we need reminding.
you can't make it work alone, both people should put the effort
Tank you very much much Sadhguru, great speech to give us with kindness for everyone's, is possible Sadhguru to came in Europe for yoga en farmers hopefully, tank you very much gratitude merci beaucoup
you don't make your emotions work, the situation become nasty😥😭i was terribly thinking about my emotions.. thank you sadguru
This message has come just at the right time. Thank you Sadhguru 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Sadhguru has this voice and way of speaking that is total ASMR for me. I gotta listen to the video 2 or 3 times to focus on what he is saying without going into a deep sleep or zone
Sadhguru you have been a great spiritual motivator, your thoughts show to live a perfect life without any ambiguity.
Should put gold into his mouth. Such a valuable sharing. Once entangled in such emotions, it is like a chain reaction. No ending one after the other. Live with Compassion, forgiveness, patience, empathy, acceptance of human nature and events in life.....Otherwise, always struggling with sadness and unhappiness.....Life is so short and make it worth....Love yourself and don't wait for someone to fulfill your love.....Have faith in you always, no matter how hard or easy it is.....
So needed in these times especially when we are living in such close quarters with others daily.
sadhguru fantastic.....dont have opinions ...you can analyse present situation....and nurture them....happy i hv quality of nurturing people...
This video has helped me know the next step. Thanks alot. I have messed alot of things up earlier on because I was too emotional and I wanted the other person to feel the same way.
I understand this oh too well
I am extremely grateful and thankful now for all that I discovered about myself and every aspect of my life from listening to you..
I am extremely grateful and thankful now for all that I discovered about myself and every aspect of my life from listening to you..
He's right, relationships must be nurtured. But what if it's not mutual in a husband and wife relationship.. One always gives gives and gives where another takes all advantages and ignore??? 😞😞😞😞
this was very insightful and brought a tear to my eye and a lot of smiles ,, thank you so so much for your teachings❤❤
Yes when you realise such a fundamental fact that you have been doing wrong all the way, it brings tears beacuse it makes sense.
Exactly...our emotions are our enemy...completely
Sadhguru ♥️ ...I am out of adjective for this man ...how he does this ? 💖
Nothing left to say Sir.
We are our own enemies and our own friends.
He is shiva for sure 🙏🙏
@@ZENSIBLE please tell me how I missed the point
I don't know what is the opinion of those who choose to dislike this video but wow, he covered everything about family life in this statement...from marriage to having kids. Reality at its finest
The decision's others make frustrate my soul so I like to love from a distance what do you think about that?
You can love family and friends or ex at a distance. They don't need to be in your life if they give you pain and stress.
Scenario of relationship, assuming that:
Day 1:When 2 partners wanted to unite through loving words
After few days: One of the partner wanted to take other to Moon, Mars abroad etc.
After few days:
One is waiting for other to initiate in conversation
Again after few days:
Misunderstanding started to happen
Again after few days:
Needs external support to solve their issue
Again after few days:
Both goes to an extent to end the relationship.
Commitment till the end is important.
There's a legal procedure for divorce but not for marriage.
When two hearts if willing can marry each other, how come same 2 hearts can go for hatred or even till separation??
It's because the same attraction from day1 is "not"
carried over till the end.
I mean attractive mindset set intentionally( in the mind )to attract each other.
--Sangeetha Vasudevan
Wish forming opinions was a habit smh love how he explains thing’s so refreshing
A true relationship is nurturing not optionated..Thank u master
Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank always keep up with his words I strongly Advise you to seek help from him
text him on WhatsApp
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Jab Koi Bat Bigar jaye, Jab Koi Muskil Par Jaye, Aap detee Mera sath. o Sadhguru.
I made this exact mistake in every relationship... thank you, I wish I learned this 40 years ago
what about now ?
All the ''singles'' be careful it can happen to your life also...😝😝
''This need not happen to you if you are intelligent, everything in world is need not happen to you.. you must learn from others experiences '' -Sadhguru😎
Nurturing is an expression of compassion...
The moment you carry the past and future ( opinions & expectations ) , you becme a donkey ...
Carrying the burden then there is no way for love and compassion...
When you are so light that nothing matterrs at all... then naturally there will be the flow !!
-sadhguru (Emotions the juice of lyf )
True
@@ashleshajagdale6593 😀🙏
Sadhguru, you just made me realized a lot of things. I am grateful for all your teachings.
I will admit that I have not really loved, according to your definition. I have only partially loved, and been opinionated as well. Works well for me.
Thats still better than my case, where my mom loves me so much but i couldn't love her like she does. I know i love her very much but could reciprocate it.
Well m you shared ur truth, i kinda feel the same way. Now i feel like i need a complete do over
This is a great era where people like you exist, supreme knowledge..
yes so true💗 I will definitely apply this to my parenting, wife skills.
that is a wise comment
Its your choice to make ur emotion work.. Wow thanks sadguru. Hope i can use this value system and get rid of all the negativity.. 🙂
Thank you Sadguru! You're the guiding light for me. Always show the right path. 🙏
Ur videos are so logical and motivated.
In my middle age it was difficult for me to understand what was a relation, I used to expect same thing in return from others whom ever I was loving. I understood that it is not necessarily we get what we are giving to others. Example I talk to some one with respect, in return for no reason the other person disrespects me. I am not demanding that person to give the same in return, and at that situation I feel better and I thank to God that to show me that the other person doesn't have no respect for me. I will limit my self to interfere with that person next time but I still respect that person.. I should not get upset or get disturbed. If I do that I am also same as other person. I dont like to put myself down to lower level to fight or argue with the people. Every one is different. I try to go with everyone in a healthy way but some dont understand me, that is why those relations did not nurtured well due to lack of understanding. But slowly I realized that the real love means no boundaries, no expectations, no conditions. But love means sharing, respecting each other, understanding, cooperation and coordinating with each other. Still learning to understand better and better every day. Life is short make it happy even alone.
This is a good guide for successful relationships
Lol respect with no boundaries...
I think this happens because what people believe to be love isn't love at all. Love is a decision, it takes work, love is when you decide to love someone the same even after the fiery passion subsides. How can someone love when they don't even know what love is, and the effort that goes into it?
Beautiful message on how to love. This is such a meaningful way to be in relationship. Thanks Sadhguru.
Very well said... Emotions doesn't work... But thoughts does... I realised it..
Ok I agree with this. I just came out of a bad relationship where actually I was the opinionated one trying to mould the other and we were miserable. But there were so many things that were right for me in that relationship just some things were not at all. So I wanted to change the other things about this person. The things were, in my opinion, destroying this person so I wanted them to be free of it. They broke up with me. So what to do? Should I have just left when I saw the things I didn't like?
Relationship blossoms best when two people accept each other the way they are unlesss something or other might destroy the person.Whenever, we have quarrel with our loved ones,it is the best to maintain reticence for sometime and keep some distance i.e. not having meals together,not sharing bed and so on.The time when a person wants his or her loved ones the most is at the end of the day when he or she is tired or pensive so that he or she can share his or her experience for lightening his or her mood.When we maintain reticence and show non-chalance towards their conversation, they realise their shortcomings. In short, by maintaing reticence we give time to our loved ones to realise the situation as well as the fact that forming opinion and breeeding ego jeopardizes a relationship.While maintaing reticence act normally ignoring that person.After that,when you would understand that the person is trying to convince you by starting conversation or any other way, accept it wholeheartedly as overstretching reticence also jeopardizes a relationship.Relationship is like a rubber band, stretch it subtly whenever necessary but do not ovrstretch as it may lead to its breakage along with hurting yourself. Also, we must remember that we had made another life our part for the sake of our convenience and not out of compassion or compulsion.
you can only work upon yourself to be more loving, then it is when the things that you dont like about the other person disappear. Because what you dont like about the other person is just what you dont like about yourself mirrored.
Wow those replies are accurate. Thanks for the advice. I can actually really see what I was doing wrong for those 4 years we were together.. To be honest...I feel terrible! Because he was not a bad man, but in the end he felt like he was because of me. I never wanted that. Thanks again.
When you try to change someone. . Is the message you send "you are not good enough"?
@@helenmccabe5156 that's what happened but that was never my intention.
We learn, evolve, and gain wisdom, only through contrast of the dark and the light. When we go into the dark (hopefully as consciously as possible), this is when we gain wisdom and realize that we do not have to go there again, then motivating us to shift back into alignment with who we really are and what truly resonates with our spirit, which is going to be beneficial for you, and all the beings around you. Great video
The more I am nurturing people the more they are abusing it.
Love hurts.
U took it wrong..
Love inwards
My greatest fear. Been hurt so much.
I'm sorry to say they don't love you
It sometimes get hard to understand but definitely understood a lovely lesson from this video🌷🌷
Wooowww! What a clarity of thought. It needs keen observation and contemplation to reach such a stage.
such divine insights and wisdom that can last a lifetime or more, when we put them into our daily life. priceless. all the advice we need really. Thank you, Sadhguru, for illuminating and enlightening the world. Peace & Abundant Blessings.
My emotions are always off, it’s theirs that are always on! If I try to explain to them how to control their emotions they say; how I’m I supposed to do that?! I love my family with all my heart, but I much rather stay to myself!
There is nothing wrong with you it's just that you are hesitant with emotions. You hesitate to express yourself.
It is just the Ego.
Same with me mine is also always off.
What I feel is that a relationship needs time,understanding and communication. We need to put in efforts and give that attention to the person whom we are with. If you guys fight so have that patience to deal with it,have passion towards the person,that is what I believe is love is💖
This is why the United States term(side peice) relationships last so long because those two individuals usually dont judge and have an opinion towards the other so it always feels like love when in fact its usually lust and not love at all. But the person your in a real relationship with (main peice) you tend to fight the most with because the expectations you have for eachother creates opinion and judgment which naturally turns to friction.
Very true
"Emotions Juice of Life" I like this Quote Sadhguruji🙏❤️
He is so breathtakingly precise!!
This is just what I needed.. my partner and I are going thru a rollercoaster ride of emotions due to misunderstanding and later we make up.
How do you make up. Would love to know
Namaskaram sadhguru🙏
But opinions are formed due to lack of fulfillment of basic expectations and one time comes when there is no nurturing of relationship but breaking up..
If you're in a relationship for fulfillment then ironically that's how it is going to be!!
@@vikrambharadwaj760aptly said
The nastiest situations don't occur between enemies, but between loved ones.
Just because you love someone doesn't give them the right to treat you badly.
Right, being angering means we are disrespecting each other instead of loving them
In a nutshell, if you love someone, set them free. True love does not judge and it does not cling.