Opinionated Groom And Mother Of The Bride Have A Power Struggle! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta

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  • An opinionated groom joins his soon-to-be wife and her mum to Bridals By Lori. However, he has no idea what Lori & Monte have in store for him!
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  • @thebeakeddoctor
    @thebeakeddoctor 3 роки тому +3640

    "It's not my style"
    Didn't realize he was the one wearing the dress.

    • @vanessaabazie3049
      @vanessaabazie3049 3 роки тому +30

      Yeah me.neither😹😹

    • @meliq13
      @meliq13 3 роки тому +20

      😂🤣😂🤣

    • @dorislacaze8347
      @dorislacaze8347 3 роки тому +21

      Exactly what I was thinking!

    • @aligrotts6400
      @aligrotts6400 3 роки тому +51

      I hope Mom has a spare room for when daughter comes back home.

    • @AFRMTY
      @AFRMTY 3 роки тому +30

      Run!!! The groom is toxic

  • @melanieflaye4914
    @melanieflaye4914 3 роки тому +3310

    “What have I gotten myself into”..........a domineering, misogynistic and emotionally gaslighting relationship!

    • @GwenRN
      @GwenRN 3 роки тому +70

      And lawyer bills greater than the cost of the wedding.

    • @marymcquaid7291
      @marymcquaid7291 3 роки тому +31

      Is there still time for her to get out of this?

    • @joemama-hf6wp
      @joemama-hf6wp 3 роки тому +2

      how is he misogynistic...

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 3 роки тому +28

      Yes Melanie. You have hit the nail on the head with that comment. I seriously pity the poor bride for being in such a relationship.

    • @HelloKitty60621
      @HelloKitty60621 3 роки тому +32

      @@joemama-hf6wp he's telling her what to do when it's HER dress, he's headset on telling her what to do and bossing around his fiancé and telling her what to do with her body and making her dress day about him.

  • @gaylegordon2038
    @gaylegordon2038 2 роки тому +633

    "What have I gotten myself into, bringing him here?! " is a prophetic proclamation. She's going to ask herself that question time and time again.

    • @Quantum36911
      @Quantum36911 Рік тому +15

      This comment should have ALL the likes! So perfectly said!

    • @nancyterrywhittemore2015
      @nancyterrywhittemore2015 Рік тому +17

      She's gonna be asking; Why did I marry him?

    • @sierra4766
      @sierra4766 Рік тому +6

      It's sad that I thought well good luck with marriage number 2. Poor girl.

    • @zionsgirl6456
      @zionsgirl6456 Рік тому +1

      I do declare 🤯

    • @veronicacrabtreehill6608
      @veronicacrabtreehill6608 Рік тому +3

      I depends on how long it lasts. He seems to be a bully but trying to be 'nice' about it.

  • @szyl8595
    @szyl8595 2 роки тому +115

    This girl is entering an abusive marriage. I feel so bad for her. I can already see him isolating her from her friends and family so that he can control her better.

  • @PorgWitch
    @PorgWitch 4 роки тому +4465

    "That's not really my style" oh I'm sorry, are YOU wearing this dress?!?!

    • @uccello297
      @uccello297 4 роки тому +67

      I was waiting for this comment

    • @kristic4472
      @kristic4472 4 роки тому +62

      EXACTLY what I was thinking. If I were Mom, I think I would've turned around and left, and either waited on the couch, or gotten a snack. Maybe (MAYBE) that would've smacked baby girls conscience. This jerk reminds me of my sons last gf, all about HIm

    • @bridgettebazin641
      @bridgettebazin641 4 роки тому +12

      My exact thought!

    • @jaimesissel7973
      @jaimesissel7973 4 роки тому +15

      Literally my exact thought!!

    • @naturalforme
      @naturalforme 4 роки тому +8

      Exactly! I caught that too.

  • @brookelynn30355
    @brookelynn30355 4 роки тому +4802

    If he was the prize at the end of a race I'd run backwards 😷🙅‍♀️

    • @claindastuart6790
      @claindastuart6790 4 роки тому +33

      Haha!

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 4 роки тому +42

      Run backwards 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @MissCDM1979
      @MissCDM1979 4 роки тому +16

      I agree...

    • @Hikarahime
      @Hikarahime 4 роки тому +17

      You mean run in the opposite direction because it’s still possible to run backwards and run toward the end simultaneously 🙃

    • @lunachick1313
      @lunachick1313 4 роки тому +15

      You are brilliant! I laughed so hard when I read this, thanks for that!😂

  • @adlihloetz7162
    @adlihloetz7162 2 роки тому +200

    That straight "Yeah, I hate it too" and "I wanna hear what he thinks" before giving her own opinion, plus the fact the mom says that she's easily swayed by the fiance just really says she doesn't have a good level of self esteem and she's gonna be a victim of an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship.

  • @LuzuraHater
    @LuzuraHater 2 роки тому +357

    “Theres a saying that ive heard that rules are made to be broken”
    “The only thing thats going to get broken today are your legs if you stay up here”
    I LOVE MONTE SO MUCH 😭🙏

  • @ellenmorgan9857
    @ellenmorgan9857 3 роки тому +4183

    “I’m gonna win”. This bride is headed for a miserable marriage.

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler 3 роки тому +112

      That is so obvious, it's so sad to watch.

    • @deepblueinthedark9856
      @deepblueinthedark9856 3 роки тому +120

      The word "win" should not be part of the conversation.

    • @ajemroberts3903
      @ajemroberts3903 3 роки тому +84

      😱 I hope she wakes up and runs before the wedding 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️... could you imagine children in this equation?!?

    • @dianecheverria3752
      @dianecheverria3752 3 роки тому +21

      Listen just say no someone better will come along

    • @LolaClo
      @LolaClo 3 роки тому +40

      That was scary! It reeks of control!!!!!

  • @songsayswhat
    @songsayswhat 3 роки тому +5962

    "We decide everything together" means "I tell her what to do and she does it."

    • @dazem8
      @dazem8 3 роки тому +204

      right. women like this need a backbone. you don't cave to whatever a man says just to keep him around.

    • @aprilsilvers381
      @aprilsilvers381 3 роки тому +18

      Yes

    • @brandygipson1675
      @brandygipson1675 3 роки тому +77

      Thats exactly what that means. My heart goes out to her

    • @shellymedley6795
      @shellymedley6795 3 роки тому +112

      Can’t stand him...classic controlling jerk

    • @dinosaurchickennuggets5138
      @dinosaurchickennuggets5138 3 роки тому +127

      Exactly. Partnership doesn’t mean always making every decision together. It can mean being ok with your partner to make their own decisions because you respect and trust them

  • @BillyAlabama
    @BillyAlabama Рік тому +29

    I feel so sorry for the bride. She has a life of hell ahead of her.

  • @brynnpreston1118
    @brynnpreston1118 2 роки тому +53

    I see the toxic future for this marriage before it even starts. She's blinded by it because she thinks she's in love with him. He SCREAMS narcissist. Both my mother and I fell into very similar situations to this girl. I didn't marry my narcissist, but she married hers. I really hope she gets out of it soon if the wedding even went through

  • @sofiabeasley1503
    @sofiabeasley1503 4 роки тому +3752

    “I’m 6’4” ok buddy..you’re radiating little man energy

    • @bethhamel2
      @bethhamel2 4 роки тому +90

      Bet he has a HUGE truck too! wink wink. lol

    • @beverlyantoniou8236
      @beverlyantoniou8236 4 роки тому +20

      Overweight

    • @HaleyEden
      @HaleyEden 4 роки тому +10

      @@bethhamel2 more like a Smart Car haha

    • @Emma-cz6dh
      @Emma-cz6dh 4 роки тому +10

      No one can chuck him out of someone else’s building 🤦‍♀️

    • @ju-juswardrobe4065
      @ju-juswardrobe4065 4 роки тому +11

      and a shrimp

  • @erinhaley6560
    @erinhaley6560 4 роки тому +3618

    That groom was practically every toxic stereotype in one "I'm 6'4"" meat sack. When he threw his size out as a reason to get his way I wanted to scream. I guess being a tall man means no one can ever say no to you? So gross. And dangerous. He gets all the 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @suzip6728
      @suzip6728 3 роки тому +108

      My husband's the same height and has never thrown his height out as a reason to get his own way. It's a douche move!

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 3 роки тому +81

      Yeah, to me - and I had a violent, controlling ex - he was every red flag going. I didn't listen to my own mum and regretted it - I was lucky we were only engaged and not married. I broke up with him when he threatened to kill my parents.

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 3 роки тому +29

      TroubleMcTrouble, good for you for leaving your ex when he threatened to kill your parents.

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 3 роки тому +32

      @@Joy6168 - Yeah it was a no brainer at that time. I realised there was NOTHING I could do to please him and my parents were my whole world, my late mum especially was my best friend as well as my mum. I couldn't imagine basically being responsible for something terrible happening to them if I stayed with him. So I broke up with him.....it was bad for a while. He wouldn't take no for an answer and my parents didn't know what he'd been doing as I always explained things away (and he was careful to only bruise or cut me where it would be hidden by clothes, and of course there were other ways to hurt me....so many.) So to see women like this it breaks my heart......

    • @Joy6168
      @Joy6168 3 роки тому +26

      @TroubleMcTrouble-I bet this brought up a lot of traumatic flashbacks for you, watching this episode. Unfortunately, I know what you mean when you had said that he made sure to hide the abuse he was inflicting on you in a multitude of ways, as well as that you deflected and played down just how the abuse was out of denial that it was really that bad, until it started, again. I don't know you, however, as a stranger who's been in similar situations, I'm very proud of you for making the difficult yet necessary decision to leave. Let's just pray that this woman and several like her realize the abuse they're suffering and leave.

  • @emmef7970
    @emmef7970 2 роки тому +49

    Wishing this poor girl the best. Red flags waving! Mom clearly sees them. I hope she's ready for 50 years of being under this bully's thumb.

  • @helenalderson6608
    @helenalderson6608 2 роки тому +69

    Mom knows exactly what to say to put the daughter off. " You look pregnant" was prefect

  • @sabrinasfantasticallibrary2343
    @sabrinasfantasticallibrary2343 4 роки тому +3151

    "Not my style"
    Dude you are not wearing the damn dress, let her pick what makes her feel beautiful

    • @brittanytormaschy3063
      @brittanytormaschy3063 4 роки тому +10

      Well said

    • @terrypilkey1931
      @terrypilkey1931 4 роки тому +29

      I've seen a couple times where grooms came in and Lori literally made them put on the dresses because they kept saying that's not my style.

    • @Toppdash
      @Toppdash 4 роки тому +8

      Ikr like if he loves those other dresses that damn much why dont he just wear it himself?💀

    • @morgan.hasara
      @morgan.hasara 4 роки тому +7

      THAT IS WHAT I SAID TOO! I literally screamed that at my phone when he said that😂😂😂😂

    • @korigarbison2259
      @korigarbison2259 4 роки тому +4

      This is exactly why grooms shouldn't be load in wedding dress stores !! Should be a rule that you have to follow!!

  • @sassytbc7923
    @sassytbc7923 4 роки тому +3299

    This girl needs to run for the hills. The groom is totally disrespectful to the brides mother.. rolling eyes etc. I bet he totally separates them after the wedding if it takes place

    • @beamills9205
      @beamills9205 4 роки тому +87

      no respect for women.............

    • @maivageez
      @maivageez 4 роки тому +21

      agreed

    • @lucybirch9360
      @lucybirch9360 4 роки тому +23

      5:03 you can make out bruises on her arms. Please look!!!

    • @LNico1203
      @LNico1203 4 роки тому +48

      My dad ressembles much like him. Exactly like him. He separsted my mom from her mom (took her to another country) and right when my mom wanted to leave and escape my mom had me and my brother so she felt stuck. I witnessrd every single argument and well its not fun. Shes like my mom. My moms a lot stronger noe but its reslly hard to stand up againdt an abusve person. I really hope she will go through the comments bc omg she needs to leave. It never ends. Once abuse, manupilation, and control starts it never ends..

    • @kianakosack7800
      @kianakosack7800 4 роки тому +32

      Lucy Birch there’s literally not one bruise on her. Do NOT accuse someone of that unless you KNOW.

  • @Bellaaaaaaaxxo
    @Bellaaaaaaaxxo 2 роки тому +40

    Monty threatening to break his legs had me 😂

  • @bethsandoval5169
    @bethsandoval5169 2 роки тому +10

    Lori should really have a sign that says “No Grooms allowed in my shop”

  • @reem5703
    @reem5703 4 роки тому +4715

    “My ex husband didn’t see me in my dress and it didn’t help my marriage survive” hate to break it to you but I don’t think that’s the reason the marriage didn’t work out

    • @trishobrien4692
      @trishobrien4692 4 роки тому +236

      Seriously? It had nothing to do with "seeing the wedding dress before the wedding." It had EVERYTHING to do with the guy being a bully, a misogynist, a jerk & an asshole!

    • @mkdt6732
      @mkdt6732 4 роки тому +28

      Exacly

    • @as19J01
      @as19J01 4 роки тому +105

      That's her point. Not seeing the dress has nothing to do with how the marriage will go

    • @lleexxii
      @lleexxii 4 роки тому +58

      Yeah that's the whole point of what shes saying. Everyone says if he sees you in the dress the relationship will fail, it's just dumb lol. Most marriages fail anyways nowadays

    • @marylynnneill1958
      @marylynnneill1958 3 роки тому +26

      Power struggle much? Horrible way to let him run the show.

  • @strawberryhalas1055
    @strawberryhalas1055 4 роки тому +3116

    “I’m 6’4” literally nobody asked.

    • @kari_p2090
      @kari_p2090 4 роки тому +87

      Strawberry Chaeng ikr, he reminds me of that one girl who is like 5’4 and can’t shut up about how short they are 🙄

    • @69meowy2
      @69meowy2 4 роки тому +34

      Kari_ P 5’4 isn’t really short tho

    • @HattielyEverAfter1995
      @HattielyEverAfter1995 4 роки тому +37

      I’m 4’10 and would stand up to him if the need arose x

    • @eleanorcooke7136
      @eleanorcooke7136 4 роки тому +22

      And literally nobody cares how tall that prick is.

    • @pamscruggs2660
      @pamscruggs2660 4 роки тому +15

      Lori owns the store, she can tell him to leave. However, I realize the drama is there for entertainment

  • @hannahaguilar435
    @hannahaguilar435 2 роки тому +26

    I can't imagine how their marriage is going to be. He sounds narcissistic. "A world of trouble." You said it girl.

  • @jackieholmes5587
    @jackieholmes5587 2 роки тому +16

    This groom is a nightmare. Bless that poor bride’s heart. An omen for her future.

  • @bluecat3103
    @bluecat3103 3 роки тому +3055

    Groom: " I'm 6'4, I'll do what I want, nobody's gonna take me off the floor."
    Me: One good kick in the balls is all it takes.

    • @misskayeleigh4378
      @misskayeleigh4378 3 роки тому +21

      Yepppppp

    • @glassie6733
      @glassie6733 3 роки тому +21

      Haaaa haa...hell yes, couldn't have said it better myself...no one's gonna mess with you blue cat 💙🐾👍🇦🇺

    • @littletrexarms9709
      @littletrexarms9709 3 роки тому +20

      The police can take you off the floor

    • @lynnhf2060
      @lynnhf2060 3 роки тому +14

      Girl, say it again

    • @madibawayne6314
      @madibawayne6314 3 роки тому +19

      True he will be on the floor for a quick minute.🤣

  • @lovestruckly
    @lovestruckly 4 роки тому +5618

    Okay but we can all agree that Monte and Lori mocking him was hilarious right?

    • @jessiealexander3515
      @jessiealexander3515 3 роки тому +105

      I mean, it was so true. “Congratulations to me, I’m so awesome at picking dresses, I’m the best!” I felt like he thought they’d be lost without him.

    • @josaphine9422
      @josaphine9422 3 роки тому +9

      Hell yes ❤️

    • @marysmith861
      @marysmith861 3 роки тому +52

      Absolutely. The groom is a jerk.

    • @sassytbc7923
      @sassytbc7923 3 роки тому +51

      This groom is disgusting... from his attitude of himself and his fiancée clean down too his voice.

    • @jeannieboivin2849
      @jeannieboivin2849 3 роки тому +4

      Yes😂

  • @TJ-gt1zz
    @TJ-gt1zz 2 роки тому +13

    When he said " I'm 6'4 and no one is kicking me off the floor."
    I see a Narcissistic who doesn't want to lose control over his bride to be. I don't see this marriage lasting long. 😵‍💫

  • @celissewillis9399
    @celissewillis9399 Рік тому +10

    "My first husband did not see me in my dress & it did not help my marriage survive..."... WHAT in the heck?? Between that & the obvious codependency of needing husband #2 to have a say so in HER dress, this is such an insecure young woman!

  • @janejojo275
    @janejojo275 4 роки тому +2304

    He is controlling and manipulative. He will watch her every move, and make her life with him horrible. What does she see in a self centred jerk like him??

    • @karen-df9wm
      @karen-df9wm 4 роки тому +31

      Oh my I wouldn't be married to a man like that

    • @afree6339
      @afree6339 4 роки тому +51

      Maybe she still sees the carefree high school friend in him and is ignoring the person he’s become.

    • @ameeraraven2698
      @ameeraraven2698 4 роки тому +40

      I wonder if they ever see the comments in the videos they're in.

    • @mlpp3621
      @mlpp3621 4 роки тому +8

      I had 15 yrs of being controlled xxxx

    • @Hikarahime
      @Hikarahime 4 роки тому +4

      Ameera Raven Isn’t this show from awhile ago?

  • @clarasooula4537
    @clarasooula4537 3 роки тому +4292

    Groom: There's a saying that rules are made to be broken
    Monte: The only things that are going to be broken are your legs
    Me: You get him KING

    • @lindalippert7290
      @lindalippert7290 3 роки тому +94

      I'd tell her to run, her life is going to be hell with him telling her what and what not to do or wear.

    • @ignitingember3071
      @ignitingember3071 3 роки тому +41

      Omg yeah, I was like GOOOOO MONTE too LOL

    • @cheyannecatalano2951
      @cheyannecatalano2951 3 роки тому +29

      @@lindalippert7290 fr if I was monte I'd be like okay no cameras and pull the bride aside...

    • @credendovides20
      @credendovides20 3 роки тому +8

      And he does have a point on that, but he just is such a douche...

    • @gabbylopez9091
      @gabbylopez9091 2 роки тому +7

      I second that! Can I join?!

  • @colinhoulder3712
    @colinhoulder3712 Рік тому +14

    What a mess she's got herself into. She is going from one controlling relationship to another.

  • @orvillaheck8994
    @orvillaheck8994 2 роки тому +5

    The Grooms should NOT be at the Wedding Dress appointment! It is a Mother/Daughter time!!! I think he is arrogant & childish! Good luck to their marriage🌹

  • @mihihihi
    @mihihihi 4 роки тому +1608

    "We make our decisions together"="Caveman makes decisions, female shuts up and does what I tell her"

  • @adoriwi
    @adoriwi 4 роки тому +2722

    Someone take “I” out of this mans vocabulary...

    • @navya6813
      @navya6813 4 роки тому +8

      That would surely keep him shut 😂

    • @cherelle4143
      @cherelle4143 4 роки тому +2

      He will be like me don’t like it

    • @beaniepanini
      @beaniepanini 4 роки тому +2

      But then he can't talk at all

    • @itsallmikeysfault5495
      @itsallmikeysfault5495 3 роки тому +1

      @@cherelle4143 😂

    • @pkrall7200
      @pkrall7200 3 роки тому +4

      Every time he opened his mouth, I wanted to go off on him. I wonder if they're still together?

  • @sweettaterfries
    @sweettaterfries Рік тому +5

    My boyfriend and I are going to a wedding next week, I bought a new dress and hadn’t shown it to him yet and asked if I could put it on to show him and get his rating. He said “10/10” without even seeing it yet, I said “babe let me put it on” and he said “it’s a 10/10 off you and a 15/10 on you, I already know that”
    Like damn this man trying to get me to cry. I know he will be happy in whatever I wear when we get married.

  • @Paulofibonelli
    @Paulofibonelli Рік тому +3

    “I really think we should boot him out” 😂

  • @aassttrrr
    @aassttrrr 4 роки тому +3503

    I still can’t get over the fact that she is 24. She looks SO much older.
    And yes, that groom is just a HUGE red flag all over.

    • @graphiquejack
      @graphiquejack 4 роки тому +131

      It's the overplucked eyebrows and blue eyeliner. Eeek

    • @Renee_VSJ
      @Renee_VSJ 4 роки тому +179

      Seriously, I think toxic relationships can be incredibly aging. I hope that girl ran for the hills!

    • @whothefisalys
      @whothefisalys 4 роки тому +74

      Plus she said she had been married before, this show has to be making people lie about their age but I'm sorry no way are they my age, 34 maybe?

    • @sararaftery3729
      @sararaftery3729 4 роки тому +29

      he is such a control freak

    • @puli_dreadhead
      @puli_dreadhead 4 роки тому +36

      Renee St. Aubin toxic relationships are lowkey exhausting. You could be unconsciously stressed and not know why.

  • @naturalforme
    @naturalforme 4 роки тому +3063

    That’s a problem. Lori tells the bride “Tell me what YOU think” and instead of her expressing how she feels in the dress she says “I want to know what Michael thinks.” That is a huge No No for me. If she can’t vocalize her own opinion without the consent of someone else, then there could be an issue down the line. Just my own opinion.

    • @KittieKind
      @KittieKind 4 роки тому +59

      I agree. Me: Did I hear right? She doesn't have an opinion of her own?

    • @louisemariemonterola9905
      @louisemariemonterola9905 4 роки тому +67

      Definitely a red flag, women should have their own voice and not rely on a man THAT MUCH.

    • @brooklynbound0
      @brooklynbound0 4 роки тому +42

      Sounds like a toxic relationship.

    • @alteakaouk5719
      @alteakaouk5719 4 роки тому +19

      There gonna get divorced or something if it keeps going this way

    • @blah7983
      @blah7983 4 роки тому +8

      It sounds like the audio is edited. These shows manipulate this stuff

  • @nisrinarnouk4373
    @nisrinarnouk4373 2 роки тому +4

    Ooooh I was with a guy like this for 4 years. I was scared to go out to the supermarket if I hadn’t told him first. It brought out the absolute worst in me. I’m so glad I got out!

  • @VadiseDeHanyou
    @VadiseDeHanyou 11 місяців тому +4

    "it's not my style"
    ME: I'm sorry, Are YOU Wearing This Dress??!

  • @ismahane821
    @ismahane821 4 роки тому +2180

    He's marrying her because she has no personality ... Aaaand because his ex is married to her brother, I mean c'moooon!

    • @Summerzappa24
      @Summerzappa24 4 роки тому +121

      You’re not wrong she seems like a puppet on strings

    • @MsK_in_CA
      @MsK_in_CA 4 роки тому +85

      I’m curious how the brother feels in all this.

    • @itsjessicabae7024
      @itsjessicabae7024 3 роки тому +34

      It's obvious, compared to his ex, she's definitely NOT his type.The only is thing they have in common they're both desperate for attention. He wants to be put on a pedestal and they're both eager and willing at all cost to make their ex's jealous. Did anyone catch that her friend Tiffany looked alot like his ex in their Highschool pic?

    • @twoxsl857
      @twoxsl857 3 роки тому +18

      Hes definitely gonna cheat

    • @starfire4539
      @starfire4539 3 роки тому +13

      I’m glad I wasn’t the only one seeing it. She’s mindless and easy to control

  • @saraatkinson8023
    @saraatkinson8023 3 роки тому +646

    This guy is a control freak. Red flags everywhere.

    • @uptownqtee40
      @uptownqtee40 3 роки тому +14

      Once they're married, he's going to pull her away from her mom. She's going to go right along with it

    • @PinkiTadinki
      @PinkiTadinki 3 роки тому +6

      She seems to love being so submissive.

    • @lindalippert7290
      @lindalippert7290 3 роки тому +2

      Agree

    • @kiwin7119
      @kiwin7119 3 роки тому +4

      @@PinkiTadinki If you're used to certain behavior, it can be hard to see it as destructive or wrong. It's the idea of a frog in a pot of water that's slowly brought to a boil. This is *especially* true of abuse or put-downs, especially if you see this behavior in you family or social circle.
      Don't blame the victim for the bully's behavior!

    • @PinkiTadinki
      @PinkiTadinki 3 роки тому

      @@kiwin7119 I completely agree. But I'm surprised no one's whipped his ass before.

  • @vCoralSandsv
    @vCoralSandsv Рік тому +3

    If they actually decide everything together, then he would ask her what she thought before opening his trap.

  • @helenhilton2158
    @helenhilton2158 2 місяці тому +2

    The groom is so ARROGANT! The bride is already under his control.

  • @amb3rmous3
    @amb3rmous3 3 роки тому +1912

    Controlling. Possibly abusive. Also possibly only marrying her because his ex in her family and he’s finding a way to stay close. Either way? Bad vibes surrounding this dude entirely.

    • @sophie_levine2851
      @sophie_levine2851 3 роки тому +93

      Yep. I didn't even think about the fact that his ex is in the family. Part of me feels like all of us in the comments might be reading this too far, since this is edited, scripted, produced etc. But this doesn't give him a good look either!

    • @mlight6845
      @mlight6845 3 роки тому +63

      Control freak, rude, self-centered... yikes!

    • @jessicayu4992
      @jessicayu4992 3 роки тому +25

      You point out what I was thinking! Thank you!

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 3 роки тому +62

      Exactly what I was thinking. It's really sad too, the mom said ''Sam is very easily swayed by Michael'' it just further sealed it for me. It's sad that she has such a low self-esteem to the point she allows herself to be his doormat

    • @minalanie
      @minalanie 3 роки тому +6

      I was thinking the same thing.

  • @djjones7039
    @djjones7039 4 роки тому +2223

    Monte: "the only thing that's gonna get broken are your legs if you stay up here!" 😂😂😂🙃 Lorie & Monte are SOO hilarious making fun of the douchebag groom. Hahaha I love them

    • @rbekahlma2519
      @rbekahlma2519 4 роки тому +13

      DJ Jones I love monte😂😂.

    • @johnnabuzby6103
      @johnnabuzby6103 4 роки тому +12

      He's a jerk...the groom-to-be that is. Egotistical and seemingly knows it all. She should run the opposite way! Don't marry him!

  • @cesd3023
    @cesd3023 Рік тому +2

    SOOOOOO many red flags with that groom.

  • @allisonjames2923
    @allisonjames2923 2 роки тому +3

    When a bride can’t even offer her own opinion first but asks for his before giving her own, that’s scary as hell. I hope he’s not abusing her & isn’t abusing his proximity to his ex being part of the same family. 🚩 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 🚨 🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨🚨

  • @baileydavenport2651
    @baileydavenport2651 4 роки тому +2005

    Monte getting sassy
    "Only thing gonna be broken are your legs" 😂

    • @Tina-wm1rp
      @Tina-wm1rp 4 роки тому +26

      Bailey Dav. Haha. That was so unexpected and hilarious.

    • @no032
      @no032 4 роки тому +46

      Nobody puts Monte in a corner

    • @mombecs8934
      @mombecs8934 4 роки тому +15

      I hope Monte holds true to this when that Man beats the shit out of that Bride.

    • @m_estera
      @m_estera 3 роки тому +3

      I can help him with that😂😂

    • @Getitgirlllll4717
      @Getitgirlllll4717 3 роки тому +3

      Yassss Monte Let'em know!!!!!

  • @nicolefernandez8357
    @nicolefernandez8357 3 роки тому +943

    "I'm 6'4 and I'm going to do whatever I want", that's not a funny statement, that us the background noise on a 911 domestic abuse call

    • @CLoud-xq2wc
      @CLoud-xq2wc 3 роки тому +29

      That's what i was thinking

    • @spencerwagner903
      @spencerwagner903 3 роки тому +37

      “No ones going to kick me off the floor” my taser says otherwise sir

    • @alissaconant7995
      @alissaconant7995 3 роки тому +41

      As a 911 operator...all I can say is you are absolutely right

    • @kunya16
      @kunya16 3 роки тому +27

      That was my first thought. If he's used his size to get his way with other people he'll use it with her.

    • @katieharris1626
      @katieharris1626 3 роки тому +11

      Between that and looking like the type to drug someone and laugh, god I hate this guy. Reminds me too much of the trash ive taken out over the years

  • @nicolesseon1480
    @nicolesseon1480 Рік тому +2

    Mom’s pick was the most flattering!

  • @sandrapowell4166
    @sandrapowell4166 Рік тому +2

    I love it when they make the groom leave

  • @ivy3723
    @ivy3723 3 роки тому +716

    My mum would have booted him out of the shop... and my life

    • @michellelillard143
      @michellelillard143 3 роки тому +25

      Any man treats my daughter like this I will be going mama dragon.The ring will be returned and the wedding canceled.

    • @EstherHulst-Artist
      @EstherHulst-Artist 3 роки тому +13

      If not my mom my sister would

    • @HikerChick2
      @HikerChick2 3 роки тому +12

      @@EstherHulst-Artist My Dad definitely would.

    • @claudialuvsu21
      @claudialuvsu21 3 роки тому +7

      My mom would have booted him out the minute she met him...she’s a small 5’2 woman but when it comes to her kids she is ferocious 😂

  • @kyewikeley
    @kyewikeley 3 роки тому +633

    "I'm 6'4. I'm gonna do what I want" This man is dangerousssss

    • @juanitacruz6015
      @juanitacruz6015 2 роки тому +25

      🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

    • @Lucathagirl
      @Lucathagirl 2 роки тому +14

      That line alone scared me 😢 poor woman

    • @catherinewilliams3850
      @catherinewilliams3850 2 роки тому +11

      Clearly been spoiled since the day he was born and never told 'no', a controlling bully.

    • @marfa1861
      @marfa1861 2 роки тому +6

      VERY dangerous! I fear for her!

  • @SandraHof
    @SandraHof Рік тому +1

    "That’s a win in my book" It’s not supposed to be a competition. Scary.

  • @ScarlettOHara-zn8dn
    @ScarlettOHara-zn8dn Місяць тому

    "im 6'4 im gonna do what i want" spoken like a true toddler . 👏Well done sir

  • @lamar9331
    @lamar9331 4 роки тому +1475

    He's really creepy and so immature. Girl you don't need a new dress you need a new man. The one you have is a childish pouting baby. Mum talk some sense into your daughter. This is not the man for her, she deserves better.

  • @hannahdigiovanni9785
    @hannahdigiovanni9785 3 роки тому +873

    ummm. the fact that they ALL CHEERED when he left is a HUGE telling of how the family thinks of him like girl leave him

  • @cherokeeanna969
    @cherokeeanna969 11 місяців тому +1

    Nobody puts Monty in a corner! 🤣💀😭💅

  • @luciabrunette
    @luciabrunette 2 роки тому +3

    Run, bride, RUN!!

  • @NC-ij9rb
    @NC-ij9rb 4 роки тому +1265

    “Rules are made to be broken”
    Me: so you gonna cheat then?

    • @WDOWNEY
      @WDOWNEY 4 роки тому +28

      Only if he finds another insecure woman like her🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @marylynnneill1958
      @marylynnneill1958 3 роки тому +6

      Moron.

    • @Tracy137
      @Tracy137 3 роки тому +16

      Yup if he can get his ex to cheat on her brother with him.....let's face it, that's the ONLY reason he's marrying her - it's way for him to be close to his ex. Such a damn stalker.

  • @scarlettmcbride
    @scarlettmcbride 3 роки тому +514

    Guys, stop being mean to the groom.
    I can't keep liking them all 😂.

  • @quinnythepooh3003
    @quinnythepooh3003 2 роки тому +5

    Monte’s come backs are amazing 🤣 #Queen👑

  • @Dizzy_Dezzy
    @Dizzy_Dezzy 11 місяців тому +1

    4:08 the way he breaks character like he drops the facade for a split second and that’s actually terrifying. I hope she can learn to stand up for herself ❤

  • @adaramohammed1575
    @adaramohammed1575 4 роки тому +1150

    “I’m 6’4, nobody gon’ tell me what to do” boy did you once heard the bigger they are the harder they fall😌

    • @samroyle6154
      @samroyle6154 3 роки тому +14

      My grandma always says that

    • @ccbean1276
      @ccbean1276 3 роки тому +25

      A little kick to the groin and Timber

    • @sherrynevis-baltzer734
      @sherrynevis-baltzer734 3 роки тому +8

      Just makes it easier for someone my size to nail him in the...😎

    • @ThePimmy11
      @ThePimmy11 3 роки тому +7

      Everyone has to eat and everyone has to sleep. 6'4" won't mitigate vulnerability.

    • @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju
      @MsSHINeeTVXQSuju 3 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

  • @bri2103
    @bri2103 3 роки тому +1230

    The "Yes - I'm engaged to my sister-in-laws high school sweetheart" kind of made me go YIKES.

    • @mayamorabito1669
      @mayamorabito1669 3 роки тому +31

      Oh. Cringe.

    • @jennifercarpenter5105
      @jennifercarpenter5105 3 роки тому +66

      Yeah like great you're sister in law has seen your man naked and vise versa 🤢

    • @MrAlexmercer94
      @MrAlexmercer94 3 роки тому +38

      @@jennifercarpenter5105 when you put it that way.. BIG YIKES

    • @taylorfields3191
      @taylorfields3191 3 роки тому +26

      What in the cornbread hell???

    • @cheyannecatalano2951
      @cheyannecatalano2951 3 роки тому +31

      I was half paying attention while she was explaining it and I started listening at that part and my mind was doing some mental math to try to figure it tf out

  • @marrymedwaynejohnson1547
    @marrymedwaynejohnson1547 Рік тому +1

    She married her BROTHER!!?? Well that’s one way to get your revenge

  • @Shaz-jl1on
    @Shaz-jl1on 2 роки тому +2

    Omg Monte, I bloody love you 😄
    This groom is a control freak & she is headed for a miserable marriage. No groom should be dress shopping, it should be a surprise

  • @Lassieandfriends2019
    @Lassieandfriends2019 3 роки тому +2435

    I spent 5 years in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and the level of control he has over her is scary. The fact she refuses to voice her own opinion unless she gets his first makes me feel sick to my stomach. I’m truly afraid for this woman’s wellbeing. I hope the wedding never went ahead or at least she has by now walked away and never looks back!!

    • @cherylmontgomery7537
      @cherylmontgomery7537 3 роки тому +81

      OMG! I hope that you are ok and out of that horrid relationship now! ❤️

    • @shelbyxoxo3920
      @shelbyxoxo3920 3 роки тому +49

      She’s still married to him and they have kids now.

    • @bvnny1379
      @bvnny1379 3 роки тому +7

      Its a dress, chill

    • @victorysgoodlife679
      @victorysgoodlife679 3 роки тому +44

      @@shelbyxoxo3920 this it’s so so sad

    • @whyarewestillhere4781
      @whyarewestillhere4781 2 роки тому +150

      @@bvnny1379 its not- did you even watch the video..?. We dont care about the dress we care about the way he treats her and everyone else around him

  • @sweetlikechocolate909
    @sweetlikechocolate909 4 роки тому +1805

    Groom = 🚩🚩🚩
    GIRL NEEDS TO RUN FOR THE HILLS!! ⛰⛰

    • @paulastenavage1785
      @paulastenavage1785 4 роки тому +27

      Yes. Run as fast as you can

    • @paulastenavage1785
      @paulastenavage1785 4 роки тому +27

      Yes. Run as fast as you can and don't stop!

    • @yazminecancel8834
      @yazminecancel8834 4 роки тому +4

      ⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰⛰

    • @helenholt1161
      @helenholt1161 4 роки тому +4

      Oh yeah.

    • @wilmaknickersfit
      @wilmaknickersfit 4 роки тому +13

      The wedding was in 2013, so unless someone has an update I don't think she escaped.

  • @karlsharasym7286
    @karlsharasym7286 2 роки тому +2

    I've never hated a fiance on this show so much

  • @stephaniejoles4043
    @stephaniejoles4043 11 місяців тому +1

    I hope that beautiful lady is away from that manipulator

  • @helena_lang
    @helena_lang 4 роки тому +762

    “His opinion matters the most to me”
    That is an instant red flag! This is your wedding dress honey! Your opinion should matter the most!

    • @lucybirch9360
      @lucybirch9360 4 роки тому +8

      fluff cat you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

    • @wdcart.co.8206
      @wdcart.co.8206 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah I mean in a healthy relationship the opinion might matter but it would be more in the attitude he’ll love it because I love it

    • @arthiutamiahmad8599
      @arthiutamiahmad8599 4 роки тому +3

      @@lucybirch9360 😱 I didn't notice until you said it..it's... Probably the light?

    • @laurawest2720
      @laurawest2720 4 роки тому

      Its like she believes that he wont like her unless he picks E ERYTHING like im sorry a household is 50/50 not what YOU want

  • @malicemew
    @malicemew 4 роки тому +609

    This girl must be hella insecure to settle for a man like this. He's so disrespectful. The fact that she got kinda emotional speaking about her former marriage, she's still hurt & chose this jerk to feel wanted & validated. Also is he paying for the wedding? "I'm not going anywhere!" Wow the nerve! Ladies you deserve better don't settle for less!!!!

  • @jacquelynvalentine5987
    @jacquelynvalentine5987 2 роки тому +1

    Look out, girlie. The way he competes with your mother is the way he will compete with you in the future. He has to win and he is never wrong, never will compromise with you. Wow. So sad.

  • @cclark5456
    @cclark5456 Рік тому +1

    So sad and a little scary that the Groom is in charge of what dress the Bride will wear and how she should feel.

  • @maret_the_ferret7510
    @maret_the_ferret7510 3 роки тому +466

    I hate this groom so much. He was so disrespectful. The bride has no personality, I have no doubt that this relationship is not going to last. 😂

    • @MountainPearls
      @MountainPearls 3 роки тому +21

      I don’t she’ll go anywhere for quite awhile. She’ll stag with him and be miserable (b/c he talks her into having kids really quickly).

    • @mimib8032
      @mimib8032 3 роки тому +17

      @@MountainPearls Nailed it. Still married with several kids now.

    • @bhuvaneshwarij1326
      @bhuvaneshwarij1326 3 роки тому +2

      @@mimib8032 I thot so, she thinks he s perfect n too good for her, she wont leave him

  • @TheIndigoworld
    @TheIndigoworld 4 роки тому +818

    I’m just praying the wedding won’t even take place. This is not okay.

    • @lucybirch9360
      @lucybirch9360 4 роки тому +18

      Theindigo World you can see bruises on her arms 5:03

    • @NintenGamer
      @NintenGamer 4 роки тому +1

      It did cause this episode was filmed years ago.

    • @debrastanfield6113
      @debrastanfield6113 4 роки тому +9

      @@lucybirch9360 I can't tell that she has bruises on her arm. It looks like she does, but I can't tell

    • @galaxyninja6784
      @galaxyninja6784 4 роки тому +1

      Debra Stanfield If you look close enough, there is definitely bruises

    • @hannahweber5215
      @hannahweber5215 4 роки тому +17

      Theindigo World I checked theyre facebooks, they’re still married and have been since 2013. just hope that poor girl has a voice of her own now

  • @yamommaloveme420
    @yamommaloveme420 2 роки тому +1

    “im 6’4” oh no oh shiver me timbers🙄

  • @bethsanders635
    @bethsanders635 Рік тому +2

    Her fiance is one giant red flag.

  • @peytonleffingwell8082
    @peytonleffingwell8082 4 роки тому +554

    Am I the only one getting red flags from this guy?
    (Checks comments)
    Good, glad most of us agree this is way too controlling! She needs to run

    • @ruinsane100
      @ruinsane100 4 роки тому +6

      He is TROUBLE, scary trouble. Mom is right not to like him. The bride will find out the hard way, unfortunately, but hopefully move on to greener pastures.

    • @number1nanaof2
      @number1nanaof2 4 роки тому +2

      And run fast!!! In would love to know how this marriage is a few years down the road. A controlling husband like him? I don't give it much of a chance. And to be so rude to his future mother-in-law??? 🤬

  • @kristenm4692
    @kristenm4692 3 роки тому +422

    “It’s nowhere near my style.” Did he just say that?

    • @ccbean1276
      @ccbean1276 3 роки тому +27

      Yeah I just picture of him jacked up.

    • @humaneleaguelancPA
      @humaneleaguelancPA 3 роки тому +4

      Very funny!

    • @maryduka
      @maryduka 3 роки тому +4

      I was thinking well your not wearing it so shut the hell up!!!!!

    • @s.b.7121
      @s.b.7121 3 роки тому +3

      Exactly! I would have said: "Excuse me, are YOU going to wear it?"

    • @healingandhappy9262
      @healingandhappy9262 3 роки тому +1

      🤣🤣

  • @marinastrez
    @marinastrez 3 місяці тому +1

    Run away, Samantha! Run away fast!! Michael is a bully. I predict physical violence as well as emotional pain.

  • @thighzi
    @thighzi Рік тому +1

    “I’m 6’4 I’m gonna do what I want” 💀 bruh???

    • @serahloeffelroberts9901
      @serahloeffelroberts9901 4 місяці тому

      Until he runs into someone 6'7? I'd rather be an old maid than marry such an immature bully.

  • @roses09
    @roses09 3 роки тому +827

    This was horrible. Not once did she make her own decision. She is going to end up miserable.

    • @UMewMew
      @UMewMew 3 роки тому +28

      I'll be damned if my future husband tells me what to do,how to act,talk,dress,eat,look he'll be 20 feet under before dinner time

    • @patriciastrassner4883
      @patriciastrassner4883 2 роки тому +7

      And divorced a second time.

    • @gothicyid
      @gothicyid 2 роки тому +1

      Actually she said she loved it before she even came out and asked their opinion.

  • @stay_gold6316
    @stay_gold6316 4 роки тому +752

    Holy cow.. he’s so obnoxious, I don’t even want to finish the clip

  • @salveharumi
    @salveharumi Рік тому +1

    Oh wow, that was painful to watch. Couldn't avoid feeling sorry for her getting married.

  • @Elibloom414
    @Elibloom414 Рік тому +1

    His smirks say everything toxic.

  • @Nicole-by3ng
    @Nicole-by3ng 4 роки тому +610

    Oh males coming into lori beauty salon thinking they are gonna stay throughout the entire appointment. Adorable. Also can I say the real winner it seems the ex girlfriend married to the brother. Seems she escaped a mad man.

    • @shirishasiri7930
      @shirishasiri7930 4 роки тому +4

      Exactly 😂😂

    • @aplmao
      @aplmao 4 роки тому +8

      The only male exception for these consultations is gay best friends because they know style and are actually supportive

    • @rikarogers7315
      @rikarogers7315 4 роки тому +15

      Males come in all the time. Fathers, sons, and brothers. Not just gay best friends. It’s Grooms who can’t stay. Not men in general.

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 4 роки тому +10

      I mean, isn't that a red flag on itself? The ex gf married her brother and then HE decides to marry Samantha...that on itself would be a bit too much for me..there's too much familiarity between them already and it makes me doubt his motives especially with his stank attitude

  • @rbekahlma2519
    @rbekahlma2519 4 роки тому +993

    Wait did anyone else catch that his ex girlfriend is now her sister in law? No offense but that’s just awkward and plain out weird .

    • @cocokai9661
      @cocokai9661 4 роки тому +140

      Yep. I was wondering if that might be why he's marrying her. Her seems the controlling weird type that might go to extremes to stay in his high school girlfriends life.

    • @pinkheart315
      @pinkheart315 4 роки тому +46

      Exactly! That was weird.😅 But in that photo of her sister in law and brother. Gosh that baby girl is adorable😍

    • @barbaradufek9669
      @barbaradufek9669 4 роки тому +36

      »𝚛𝚎𝚋𝚎𝚔𝚊𝚑« Happened.to me, or maybe to my sister, Diane. Her now husband, Don, and I dated for a year. I broke up with him when I started dating my late husband. To make matters even more weird, his brother, Larry, was married to our other sister, Carol, . Carol and Larry are now divorced. He has remarried to the woman he cheated on her with. Makes for tense family gatherings.

    • @rbekahlma2519
      @rbekahlma2519 4 роки тому +10

      Barbara Dufek dang 😳😳😳.

    • @kanikagaral7637
      @kanikagaral7637 4 роки тому +3

      @@cocokai9661 I literally commented that then read urs. I agree with it.

  • @mirroredoffofme
    @mirroredoffofme Місяць тому

    "I think we should boot him out" Queen

  • @ayishahzafar4594
    @ayishahzafar4594 2 роки тому +1

    The reason someone's first marriage doesn't survive rarely has to do with whether they were part of your wedding dress shopping experience or not...

  • @apoloniaguerrero8095
    @apoloniaguerrero8095 4 роки тому +589

    He said “I’m 6’4” like that’s supposed to mean something. Like what are you gonna do you are in a bridal shop. Very prideful and disrespectful. Imagine what it’s going to be like later down the road.

    • @MrsZen1
      @MrsZen1 4 роки тому +2

      Is he going to become an abusive man

    • @jennym007
      @jennym007 4 роки тому

      Apolonia Guerrero Yes. Will he say that to his wife when they’re married?😒😭

    • @lisahinton4668
      @lisahinton4668 4 роки тому +3

      My Momma always said “The bigger the tree the harder the fall”.

    • @litastardreams
      @litastardreams 4 роки тому

      What’s worse is, he isn’t 6’4, clearly. But he wants to be intimidating and that’s his response when he feels threatened. I worry for this girl’s future.

  • @itsjessicabae7024
    @itsjessicabae7024 3 роки тому +572

    This guy is clearly overbearing and very egoistic. I believe he's still in love with his ex and only marrying this girl to get back at her. It's his way of staying close to her. Totally creepy. Throw the whole wedding and family away.🚮

    • @snottiempofu3082
      @snottiempofu3082 3 роки тому +3

      Honestly

    • @easterneuropeaninmexico3554
      @easterneuropeaninmexico3554 3 роки тому +5

      I hope the bride never sees your comment. It may hurt her feelings.

    • @roseannfox7871
      @roseannfox7871 3 роки тому +4

      @@easterneuropeaninmexico3554 I think the struggle is like watching professional wrestling. FAKE

    • @busyhockeymom1100
      @busyhockeymom1100 3 роки тому

      Wow now that you put it that way, that is some scary crap. Sounds like a reddit video

    • @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752
      @chunellemariavictoriaespan8752 3 роки тому

      Same conspiracy theory... I'll bet he'll forget about her the minute his ex calls, saying she's lonely...

  • @leslieludwick1321
    @leslieludwick1321 2 роки тому +1

    Relationship sounds like a scene out of deliverance

  • @floriastjames7637
    @floriastjames7637 3 місяці тому +1

    What a jerk! The silly girl signed up for an unhappy marriage! She should have opened her eyes the second time around

  • @alysham519
    @alysham519 3 роки тому +620

    Lori to bride: "Tell us what you think"
    Bride: "I want to hear what Michael thinks" 🙄

  • @doriandias2184
    @doriandias2184 3 роки тому +342

    This is why her sister in law married her brother and not him - he was so rude towards her

  • @mrfsealah
    @mrfsealah 2 роки тому

    You in danger, girl. The second time he said, "It's not happening," I was like...RUN!

  • @cathlynballard8409
    @cathlynballard8409 Рік тому +1

    This dude is trouble. Run baby, run!!!