Having sex is important in a relationship as it brings the couple closer. So, in terms of the importance of having sex, I'd say it's an 8. But the importance of the sex being GOOD (as in highly enjoyable), I'd say that's only about a 2 or 3.
i think sex is not important, to me money is most important. with money, i can buy everything and anything i want, sex is just ONLY one of the things that can be bought with money. I rest my case.
For me, at my age sex scale 5. When you see same naked body for so many years, it gets pretty mundane. And manhood has "wear & tear" occurance. lol If my teen yrs, of course scale is 9 or 10 - 1 day min twice. Hormones raging mah. Now my age, I rather choose a mid-low libido partner, who can fulfill emotional needs - *Companionship* .
This episode was... hard to watch. Javier was trying too hard to portray himself as the perfect gentleman and it didn't feel genuine or sincere. On the other hand, it seemed as though Alia wasn't really trying. It was also so obvious that there wasn't any attraction, not that I blame them for it. They're not actors so if there's no attraction, then it can't be helped la. But it just made the episode difficult to watch and I couldn't help but skip through segments.
I guess it's the blind date sort of thing. And as you said, they're not actors. They are two people who just happen to be doing this. Perhaps the editing could be better done? hmm :)
haha if you seen him in person, he's one of the most animated individuals ever ! yeah can understand he looks that way but that's the way he really is! I think that's one of the reasons why he is one of the most recognized emcees in NTU too haha really sincere and nice chap
Hi just wanted to say this is the first episode that really engaged me. Alia was very natural and genuine. It wasn't that she wasn't "trying", I just think she was taking time to warm up to him/the idea of a first date with someone. She was very thoughtful and true to herself throughout the video, which made for good content because she was being real. This is the first time I've been able to relate to the someone on the show. I hope that you guys include other races more often (beyond using them for a race deal breaker or in this case, maybe Alia was picked especially because of her sexuality?). You miss out on a demographic when you don't represent the minority races, and you miss out on an opportunity to educate other Singaporeans on the minority races.
It should be a 4 or 5. Relationships are about getting to know the person. And being there for the person, sex isn't the main point of love. It's only for pleasure not love
@@walaoeh_ i said he could be super nervous... im not judging... i know people that licks there lips alot to stop salivating as well n im one of them...
i was really hoping this series was gonna be great as the previous one but man its been hard to watch with how awkward or how little effort one person is putting in :(
Is it just me or out of the episodes so far, almost all of them has the guy trying his best to make things work even when it's obvious to us (the viewers) that there's either no spark between them, or the girl is not interested? Idk, somehow quite painful and sad to watch.
Javier should definitely be paired with another partner I feel. He seems so genuine and enthusiastic, but his partner... The ending too she appeared too strong and I felt Javier handled it really well as a PR point of view. Pairing nicely would definitely help :)
i enjoyed ep 1 & 2 but sadly not this. i feel like the girl came here with a strong mindset to not date and mingle around like her vibe is so mehh. hope you guys can pick someone better & who is more interested in the future.
Pretty painful to watch. Javier is outgoing and trying really hard to keep the whole show going and as fun as possible, while Alia comes off as someone uninterested in getting along. It would be great if the show is able to do better filtering and find girls who are ready to mingle rather than someone coming to the show to see if the guy can impress her.
Z Aw Hey, thank you for raising the point about us discussing Alia’s sexuality. We’d like to take this opportunity to assure our audience that we did discuss with Alia beforehand what she was okay with sharing. Prior to filming the video, she gave us her consent that we could discuss her sexuality. At ZULA, we believe consent is of paramount importance. Once again, thank you for your concern!
@@ZULAsg I see! Thanks for the clarification! Just seemed that it was unbeknownst to her that it was going to be the "dealbreaker" being tested so as a viewer (and someone of a non-normative sexuality), I felt triggered haha. Thank you for bringing this issue up! Maybe other sexualities in other episodes too? ;)
For those unaware, sex creates a soul-tie .. much like two pieces of paper being glued together and you try to separate them after the glue dries up. The two pieces of paper will inevitably have pieces of the other stuck on each other .. it's impossible not to. So, where soul-tie in people are concerned, negative DNA traits and influence will be exchanged and absorbed between the parties... and for those who know about the "chi" factor in guys, well guys, I have bad news for you... it is the female who will absorb the "chi" from you. So think twice before you have casual sex especially if you don't want any part of your partner's "demons" in your life. So be aware that causal sex is in fact more dangerous than we all think and it is not just about unwanted pregnancies, HIV , etc.
ive really had a super hard time understanding this dude... rather shocked by the comments he hosts/speaks at events... but then again im a foreigner so i guess thats why xD
On a scale of 1 to 10, tell us how much sex matters in a relationship.
Having sex is important in a relationship as it brings the couple closer. So, in terms of the importance of having sex, I'd say it's an 8. But the importance of the sex being GOOD (as in highly enjoyable), I'd say that's only about a 2 or 3.
i think sex is not important, to me money is most important. with money, i can buy everything and anything i want, sex is just ONLY one of the things that can be bought with money. I rest my case.
@@samsumggalazy7632 is your relationship with escorts because that's pretty sad.
@@pongodongo645 Lorong 34 Geylang, $80.00
For me, at my age sex scale 5. When you see same naked body for so many years, it gets pretty mundane. And manhood has "wear & tear" occurance. lol If my teen yrs, of course scale is 9 or 10 - 1 day min twice. Hormones raging mah. Now my age, I rather choose a mid-low libido partner, who can fulfill emotional needs - *Companionship* .
He called her man twice upon meeting her 😅 friend zoned so quick
This episode was... hard to watch. Javier was trying too hard to portray himself as the perfect gentleman and it didn't feel genuine or sincere. On the other hand, it seemed as though Alia wasn't really trying. It was also so obvious that there wasn't any attraction, not that I blame them for it. They're not actors so if there's no attraction, then it can't be helped la. But it just made the episode difficult to watch and I couldn't help but skip through segments.
I guess it's the blind date sort of thing. And as you said, they're not actors. They are two people who just happen to be doing this.
Perhaps the editing could be better done? hmm :)
Javier's friendliness seems a bit forced and unnatural leh. But may just be the pressure of being in front of the camera
Possibly a trained behaviour? He does do hosting after all, so he could probably 'switch on' a friendly mode. Or at least that's what I presume.
@@oldtownkopi agreed. I think that's the case.
haha if you seen him in person, he's one of the most animated individuals ever ! yeah can understand he looks that way but that's the way he really is! I think that's one of the reasons why he is one of the most recognized emcees in NTU too haha really sincere and nice chap
@@benjichannel4359 glad to hear it! And yeah, he does seem nice.
Hi just wanted to say this is the first episode that really engaged me. Alia was very natural and genuine. It wasn't that she wasn't "trying", I just think she was taking time to warm up to him/the idea of a first date with someone. She was very thoughtful and true to herself throughout the video, which made for good content because she was being real. This is the first time I've been able to relate to the someone on the show. I hope that you guys include other races more often (beyond using them for a race deal breaker or in this case, maybe Alia was picked especially because of her sexuality?). You miss out on a demographic when you don't represent the minority races, and you miss out on an opportunity to educate other Singaporeans on the minority races.
Shirin Keshvani I like that they included someone on the lgbtqia spectrum too
OMG ITS KIRAN!
From the moment he said, “nice to meet you, man.” That’s where i know this is gonna be so hard to watch. And the friendly handshake too haha.
Lets play a game.
Take a shot everytime Javier says "that's so cool"
please do an episode on different dietary needs !! (like vegan and a normal meat diet)
Omg yes please
Funny video because both of them are my friends and I knowing them I know they will not work AT ALL. There is no way 😂
Do an age deal breaker episode
Irdina Sabri omg YES
9:38 she looked so cute when she was surprised by the camera 🤣🤣
I find Javier really outgoing and cute 😂 and Alia is just really chill and bro I guess
It should be a 4 or 5. Relationships are about getting to know the person. And being there for the person, sex isn't the main point of love. It's only for pleasure not love
I'm seeing a trend here which is smoking as a deal breaker haha
lol people wear semi-casual to look better, Javier looks better in sports attire how even
Did anyone hear Alia snort at 17:49 or is it just me
I just dont understand whats wrong with his mouth and the licking of lips
either stopping saliva flow.. or he a f-boy... or he was super nervous one of those 3
Dry lips maybe? Stop judging
@@walaoeh_ i said he could be super nervous... im not judging... i know people that licks there lips alot to stop salivating as well n im one of them...
i was really hoping this series was gonna be great as the previous one but man its been hard to watch with how awkward or how little effort one person is putting in :(
Strangely this ep didn’t feel or seem like a date
Is it just me or out of the episodes so far, almost all of them has the guy trying his best to make things work even when it's obvious to us (the viewers) that there's either no spark between them, or the girl is not interested?
Idk, somehow quite painful and sad to watch.
javier's sooo nice!!! i actually really love his sincerity and his instagram videos are quite funny haha
How often he calls her “man” and she calls him “dude”. Lol. And all the “cool” and “nice” topics 😅
Feels like he's dating the camera more than Alia
Javier should definitely be paired with another partner I feel. He seems so genuine and enthusiastic, but his partner... The ending too she appeared too strong and I felt Javier handled it really well as a PR point of view. Pairing nicely would definitely help :)
The amount of times javier sticked out his tongue 👅
i enjoyed ep 1 & 2 but sadly not this. i feel like the girl came here with a strong mindset to not date and mingle around like her vibe is so mehh. hope you guys can pick someone better & who is more interested in the future.
impressive he has 13k followers, bright future for a young man
why is Javier always smiling LOL
elizabeth Tan that’s what I do when I’m nervous LOL
I dont know whether is the Indian guy really tall or the ntu guy really short?
Pretty painful to watch. Javier is outgoing and trying really hard to keep the whole show going and as fun as possible, while Alia comes off as someone uninterested in getting along. It would be great if the show is able to do better filtering and find girls who are ready to mingle rather than someone coming to the show to see if the guy can impress her.
JAVIER IS EVERYWHERE
..... did you guys just outed her asexuality to her partner without her prior consent.......? Alia looked super taken aback when it was revealed.
Z Aw Hey, thank you for raising the point about us discussing Alia’s sexuality. We’d like to take this opportunity to assure our audience that we did discuss with Alia beforehand what she was okay with sharing. Prior to filming the video, she gave us her consent that we could discuss her sexuality. At ZULA, we believe consent is of paramount importance. Once again, thank you for your concern!
@@ZULAsg I see! Thanks for the clarification! Just seemed that it was unbeknownst to her that it was going to be the "dealbreaker" being tested so as a viewer (and someone of a non-normative sexuality), I felt triggered haha. Thank you for bringing this issue up! Maybe other sexualities in other episodes too? ;)
Why does he like to say "man" to a girl when she is obviously a girl.
Fuck sake. I choke on my food at 5:23
He looks quite familiar, saw him at some event at Tampines before with Sylvia if I'm not wrong
I recognise Javier from the Circle's Life video! Really next level comedian
so fucking awkward hahahahhaha
The guy though...ERM..
THIS IS THE GUY!! He was at my school emceeing for Health Promotion Board. Very good and engaging host
That guy is a weirdo man
Why does javier keep licking his lips. Weird
oh this is the famous host in ntu right
That's our NTU pride right there haha, he was still fat too 5 months ago lol
Javier is 100% hot stuff 10/10 will marry this chap.
Bet you like him cause of his tongue, you better wear extra shorts.
r/niceguy
👑🙏
why is she even here lol she seem so uninterested.............. welp zero rs
Why this guy smile non stop omg and the girl is soooo uninteresting help la
wow sundown marathoner no wonder thighs and calves so big
TOO MUCH OK
For those unaware, sex creates a soul-tie .. much like two pieces of paper being glued together and you try to separate them after the glue dries up. The two pieces of paper will inevitably have pieces of the other stuck on each other .. it's impossible not to. So, where soul-tie in people are concerned, negative DNA traits and influence will be exchanged and absorbed between the parties... and for those who know about the "chi" factor in guys, well guys, I have bad news for you... it is the female who will absorb the "chi" from you. So think twice before you have casual sex especially if you don't want any part of your partner's "demons" in your life. So be aware that causal sex is in fact more dangerous than we all think and it is not just about unwanted pregnancies, HIV , etc.
i agree, all the chi bai ... so many chi bai
Ya ya ya ok ok hmm ok
ive really had a super hard time understanding this dude... rather shocked by the comments he hosts/speaks at events... but then again im a foreigner so i guess thats why xD
The lady cannot date NUS guy
So cringey
Get good looking people on this show please it’ll be more interesting to watch
Definitely wont get you. Dont worry .