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  • @seanrose675
    @seanrose675 5 років тому +580

    No relationship on earth will ever be equal to one with God.

  • @GavinBryce
    @GavinBryce 5 років тому +1366

    I used to be on fire for Jesus but I got in a relationship with this girl who wasn't a Christian and I put her above God which led to me being very lukewarm and by the second month I was with her I started fornicating in my mind to pictures of her, the devil used her to destroy me. Please pray for me, I need it. Thank you💙

    • @steveparks2976
      @steveparks2976 5 років тому +180

      Gavin Bryce don't let the devil lie to you and tell you you're in a situation you can't get out of, friend. Always remember this. I heard a pastor say this one time and I've never forgotten it. no matter how many steps you take away from God it's only one step back. Your heavenly Father loves you man.

    • @LukeJ2023
      @LukeJ2023 5 років тому +109

      Fast two days and humble yourself before God.. when a Christian sin, they do not run away from God but they run to God. Look at story of David.

    • @olitaw45
      @olitaw45 5 років тому +76

      Bruh I just ended a relationship like that tonight..

    • @CodeRed-md3ny
      @CodeRed-md3ny 5 років тому +61

      Gavin Bryce I think a lot of us have been where you are. Everything for us in life comes down to a choice. temptation hits everybody but what you do with that temptation is up to you. We can pray for you but in the end you have to make the decision to leave that relationship. You have to make a choice, bro. Who do you love more? God or the temptation?

    • @LukeJ2023
      @LukeJ2023 5 років тому +7

      Are you still with her?

  • @EdwardsEvelyn
    @EdwardsEvelyn 5 років тому +348

    I hear people say the devil coming against their marriage when MANY times their marriage wasn't from God in the first place (flesh/emotions).

    • @monicantugu185
      @monicantugu185 5 років тому +3

      WORD

    • @bwin783
      @bwin783 5 років тому +19

      The enemy hates covenant, and he comes to kill, steal & destroy...wheter you are saved or unsaved, married or unmarried, equally yoked or unequally yoked. He hates what God loves period
      I have been married 42 years, you still need to pray & fast & cover your spouse & family.

    • @worthwhilediscussion
      @worthwhilediscussion 5 років тому

      Black Girl 💯💯💯

    • @dorothydanso9820
      @dorothydanso9820 4 роки тому +12

      EVERY marriage is sanctified in the eyes of God regardless of it's inception. Study the David and Bathsheba saga. From Uriah to Solomon God shows us His mind and His plan towards marriage. Bottom line is: Divorce is NEVER an option for a child of God and a Christ-follower.

    • @sassysweet9355
      @sassysweet9355 4 роки тому

      Facts! 💯‼️👏🏻

  • @unlikenoother434
    @unlikenoother434 5 років тому +277

    Folks, PLEASE make sure you are getting someone who matches your level of spirituality, someone who can help cover the anointing over your life & someone who knows how to cover you in prayer. These things matter!

    • @jasminjadore42
      @jasminjadore42 5 років тому +11

      be equally yoked !

    • @buddyblack1659
      @buddyblack1659 4 роки тому +3

      Sad part is everyone changes.

    • @dorothydanso9820
      @dorothydanso9820 4 роки тому +9

      It is not up to YOU to find. God brings you your mate. I know Bible says He who finds a wife finds a good thing. BUT It is God who puts her in your path. Believe that! And believe that there is nothing new under the sun

    • @kopanomodiro-marata5512
      @kopanomodiro-marata5512 4 роки тому

      Not really !

    • @roxannemeeks8985
      @roxannemeeks8985 4 роки тому +8

      True!! Sadly I learned this lesson after being hit with a Divorce because he couldn't kill me. Turns out my ex husband and his family was working witchcraft on me throughout the marriage. Looking a blood sacrifice to gain fortune. Thank God I became a Christian shortly after getting married to him hence they would have killed me in the spiritual realm which would result in physical death. All this Hell I went through because of rushing into a marriage with a man I barely knew or thought I knew enough of. I still paying the price though he gone as I face fierce spiritual attacks that I believe they are sending the evil spirits to attack me. I am victorious through Jesus Christ.

  • @bryanburns2362
    @bryanburns2362 5 років тому +728

    Me and my Wife were on fire for God when we got married and it seems the enemy has worked through her family and friends to stray her away prayers please!

    • @bryanreed7216
      @bryanreed7216 5 років тому +43

      Man I have a friend who literally the closer she got to God the harder the devil attacked her....she now isnt in the faith anymore it's very saddening. So I feel you man. Devil is using family nowadays

    • @jamesbates5552
      @jamesbates5552 5 років тому +30

      Wash her with the word bro...night and day

    • @mizzzbutterfly2063
      @mizzzbutterfly2063 5 років тому +39

      She will find her way back, in the name of Jesus! Amen!

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 5 років тому +25

      @@bryanreed7216 Make prayer war room and pray for her. God will remove those people who mean n good.

    • @majesticminister
      @majesticminister 5 років тому +19

      Believing GOD Will Step into your Situation And Heal your Life and MARRIAGE. LORD RESTORE THIS UNION, In JESUS Name. Amen- 🙌🏾❤🙏🏽

  • @vanessalynn4064
    @vanessalynn4064 5 років тому +178

    A relationship really can affect your whole life. I’ve dated a lot of toxic men but now I see that I was the problem as well. Accountability allows you to fix your problems.

    • @taylordowning2533
      @taylordowning2533 5 років тому +5

      Amen and Amen!!

    • @jacquelinebroussard6546
      @jacquelinebroussard6546 5 років тому +6

      Its never about them..ITS ALWAY ABOUT U!..WHAT U ARE ATTRACTING..ITS WHAT I PERSONALLY LEARNED FROM MY MARRIAGE
      ...A QUEEN RECONIZING SHES ROYALTY KNOWS WHOSE SHE IS...HER INHERITANCE, SHE WILL HOLD TO HER STANDARDS AN ACT LIKE ONE...HER CROWN WILL BE SEEN...IF WOMEN IN OUR TIME WOULD QUIT BABBLING
      THEY WOULD BE HEARD
      AN CLOSE THEY DAMN LEGS CAUSE THAT AINT WORKIN!

    • @ryanturner9979
      @ryanturner9979 5 років тому +1

      True

    • @shaquanamalloy1109
      @shaquanamalloy1109 4 роки тому +1

      Exactly right! I learned THAT aswell

    • @jessicawestbrook3730
      @jessicawestbrook3730 3 роки тому

      So so true. Many of us can't see our own faults within relationships.

  • @kieoni-x7472
    @kieoni-x7472 5 років тому +499

    I know that am only 10 years old but I want to come very close with god though many kids my age are out there going trick or treating whiles am at home praying
    P

    • @jqgatlas4281
      @jqgatlas4281 5 років тому +35

      God bless you Kieoni X Continue to pray and seek God first

    • @zandrashoffner4134
      @zandrashoffner4134 5 років тому +29

      How sweet. Be blessed and continue your walk with the Most High. .

    • @janiecorbitt4841
      @janiecorbitt4841 5 років тому +26

      Proud of you keep doing the lords work ❤️😊

    • @tunetribe4986
      @tunetribe4986 5 років тому +31

      This is an awesome comment and I pray you stick with this so many times I’ve took my eyes off God and I regret it God bless you

    • @bisia7772
      @bisia7772 5 років тому +25

      Continue praying reading the word and getting close to God dear....you are doing the right thing!

  • @tessalogan586
    @tessalogan586 5 років тому +100

    A relationship without God will FAIL, period!

    • @MsNita991
      @MsNita991 5 років тому +1

      Yep! Even if they stay together

  • @repentorperish6414
    @repentorperish6414 5 років тому +640

    You can always get your bishops opinion, but Christ should be the first you go to.

    • @MsVI-ow4vs
      @MsVI-ow4vs 5 років тому +17

      L Lugs, you're right. We must go to Jehovah first!!

    • @AlltheWorldsAStage444
      @AlltheWorldsAStage444 5 років тому +26

      Seeking Godly wise counsel is scriptural and wise to do. The thing is prayerfully knowing who's who

    • @msjordanndasilva
      @msjordanndasilva 5 років тому +35

      He said that they BOTH prayed and fasted before they pursued each other. THEN he seeked wise council from his bishop.

    • @glorialynnjackson
      @glorialynnjackson 5 років тому +1

      Totally agree.

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 років тому +14

      @Pigoda Broadway there's only one way to God, that's through his son, our Lord and savior Jesus Christ. No Bishop or priest can save you. It's actually a form of idolatry. He should only be talking to Jesus, receiving counsel from only Jesus Christ! It's the only way.

  • @Corinthians-om2mx
    @Corinthians-om2mx 5 років тому +370

    Don't take it to the bishop, take it to Jesus because Jesus may not be in the bishop!

    • @joequinbrownsr2414
      @joequinbrownsr2414 5 років тому +9

      He said his bishop knows everything we must pray for him that's a yoke, He is putting his bishop on the pedestal.

    • @Katie-ic4fx
      @Katie-ic4fx 5 років тому +8

      This is very wise and true. Jesus Christ Is The way, The Truth, and The Life

    • @hopefaithandlove6236
      @hopefaithandlove6236 5 років тому +37

      @@joequinbrownsr2414 That's not what he meant...He's stating that His Bishop knows everything about him because he shares with him...I see it as his Bishop being his accountability partner...He prays and ask for godly wisdom but he must have the spirit of discernment for him share with his bishop

    • @reginaowen5992
      @reginaowen5992 5 років тому +9

      Aretha Smith I think this is correct. We all need someone to be accountable to ( counsel) and I'm sure they don't know all, of course Jesus first but we need an audible voice from a Godly council to help us. Nice comment!

    • @L0v3dCh0s3nNCall3d
      @L0v3dCh0s3nNCall3d 5 років тому +15

      What he is saying is that his bishop is his accountability person. He puts Christ first if u notice in all his videos.

  • @veromarie2169
    @veromarie2169 5 років тому +161

    Omg shes so pretty, congrats to you and her for showing us what it means to date in a Christian perspective and how to go about it respectfully without jeopardizing our main relationship with God. Awesome you two! Thank you

  • @sheyanderson9498
    @sheyanderson9498 5 років тому +252

    I'm staying single to draw nearer to God..

    • @dianalorenzi4272
      @dianalorenzi4272 5 років тому

      Sheyonia Anderson Amen

    • @brandyanderson7142
      @brandyanderson7142 5 років тому +2

      This makes sense

    • @manicoquita
      @manicoquita 5 років тому +6

      Good, there are so many good things in singleness. You can one, focus on God, then your career etc.

    • @derrickclark5510
      @derrickclark5510 5 років тому +4

      Is it possible for God to be able to do more with us when we’re single?

    • @theharvest5366
      @theharvest5366 5 років тому +1

      HybridSyndicate exactly....GOD said it is better to marry then to burn!!!

  • @belladonnelly8063
    @belladonnelly8063 5 років тому +34

    I’m 64 and have been married x2. Both times I was looking for a knight in shining armour lol. After separation from my second marriage I found Christ and can say it’s the best decision ever in my life. I know now that it’s not a man that I need to rely on for my self esteem. I’m a victorious woman of God. I am free from all condemnation because of what Jesus did for me on the cross. He is my provider/ healer / and protector. Thank you Jesus all Glory praise glory and honour to God Amen Amen Amen Hallelujah 😊

    • @niseyjohn3166
      @niseyjohn3166 4 роки тому

      Absolutely, Sis! Praying God restore your marriage if that’s His perfect will for you both.

    • @eddyedixon9394
      @eddyedixon9394 Рік тому

      Glory be to the most high JESUS CHRIST 🙏❤❤❤

  • @daynachapin7916
    @daynachapin7916 5 років тому +278

    awe Marcus you can tell you Adore her...when she started speaking your face lit up! 💜

    • @ceecee8757
      @ceecee8757 5 років тому +4

      That's his daughter!!

    • @tw33ty4u
      @tw33ty4u 5 років тому +8

      His sister in Christ

    • @kaylaj490
      @kaylaj490 5 років тому +35

      @@ceecee8757 His daughter really??? 😒In her testimony she said she grew up without a dad...He mentioned how he's slow walking this relationship,etc.

    • @brittneykc
      @brittneykc 5 років тому +51

      It's crazy how God will show you things. I had to continuously ask for forgiveness for lusting after Marcus, hoping I could meet him one day. And then the next day God shows me that this man is taken. And I can only praise him for that. Hallelujah

    • @msscottrellable
      @msscottrellable 5 років тому +30

      @@brittneykc sister, every word of your name you must repent of. With love

  • @mitsy565
    @mitsy565 5 років тому +42

    A prophetic lady I watch on UA-cam “A CHange is Coming” said that God still considers her first husband to be her husband. Her first husband actually killed her child but in God’s eyes that is still her husband. She said that it is not God’s will for them to be together any longer but she can’t remarry. It sucks. But obeying God has eternal benefits. You have to look at how your decisions will affect you eternally. Being a Christian is not easy. You have to die to your flesh everyday. But heaven is beyond beautiful and that is what we’re striving for! So be obedient.

    • @alexa6260
      @alexa6260 5 років тому

      Mitsy do you have the link to the video where she talks about her first husband? I watch her and i had no idea about that

    • @vannellssaaden7810
      @vannellssaaden7810 3 роки тому

      AMEN!!!!

  • @victoryisyourportion
    @victoryisyourportion 5 років тому +250

    *MY TESTIMONY* My bf and I had been together for 4 years and he is everything that I need he has a heart for God and God's people. What's funny is a little over 4 years ago I prayed and asked God to send me a friend(Godly) I struggled with myself and felt very lonely I just wanted to have someone who I can talk to about God because I wanted to know more about him. I had a mental list of the things that I'd like in a friend and when i tell you a few months after praying about it I went and visited a new church it was bible study night and I went with my mom and sisters. And there he was teaching bible study. What's crazy is I didn't look at his outer appearance though he is very handsome but I was looking at his spirit and it was beautiful it's like our spirits connected right at that moment( and when I looked at him the first thing that came to my mind was "husband" lol four years later we are dating working on becoming engaged and his story matches mine almost to the T even with the list and all and he also said he prayed that God would send him a wife and he wrote a list of the attributes that he would like and I have all those lol. Moral of the story is to seek the kingdom of God first and God will add on the rest. Ps he still is THE GREATEST MATCHMAKER❤

    • @Shadow-runner939
      @Shadow-runner939 5 років тому +3

      Tori Monique I can relate! 🥰🥰🥰

    • @shyhiemjames8226
      @shyhiemjames8226 5 років тому +12

      Smh 4 years and he still hasn’t proposed to you he’s playing you like a game of pool.. he obviously doesn’t love you it’s been 4 years !!? Why aren’t y’all married if he truly love you it wouldn’t even take a year .. he would’ve been put a ring on that .. how foolish !

    • @victoryisyourportion
      @victoryisyourportion 5 років тому +5

      @@shyhiemjames8226 You literally have no idea what you're talking about I'll pray that God brings you out of your miserable mindset.

    • @shyhiemjames8226
      @shyhiemjames8226 5 років тому +8

      Tori Monique atleast the woman in my photo I’m married to her .. took me only 6 months to decide not 4 years smh that man don’t love you he gonna end up leaving you he’s just playing with you .. I say this with all love and respect .. I know how men do .. if they don’t marry you within a year it means they playing with you .. they got options .. you’re just an accessory .. his accessory smh .. he don’t love you how foolish can you be .. leave that guy..

    • @victoryisyourportion
      @victoryisyourportion 5 років тому +4

      @@shyhiemjames8226 Well if this is how you talk to others who you dont know I cant even imagine how unbearable you are in person for that I feel bad for her. We were waiting for God's signal because he LEADS US however you and yours went about it is you. So go spew your negativity else where when you know nothing about he nor myself.

  • @RebekahDawnMinistries
    @RebekahDawnMinistries 5 років тому +118

    So true. I struggled in my former marriage with my ex to walk with Christ with no support. We have got to come to the point where we are willing to be alone rather than settle being unequally yoked. And hey, in the meantime, you have plenty of time to work on you and become closer to Christ!!

    • @RebekahDawnMinistries
      @RebekahDawnMinistries 5 років тому

      Creative Cassy God Bless you too!!

    • @msjordanndasilva
      @msjordanndasilva 5 років тому +2

      Amen Rebekah! I actually watch ur videos. Ur testimony was simply amazing!

    • @RebekahDawnMinistries
      @RebekahDawnMinistries 5 років тому

      Jordann Sunshine oh thank you. To God be ALL of the glory !!!

    • @Nay20109
      @Nay20109 5 років тому +1

      GOD THANK YOU FOR YOUR KNOWLEDGE

    • @hanalulgjuraj8276
      @hanalulgjuraj8276 5 років тому +7

      I agree, it's very very difficult when your spouse doesn't share the same beliefs as you😟

  • @jazminrogers
    @jazminrogers 5 років тому +172

    I will be 25 in a few months for the people asking. When I said “I’m a teenager” I was talking about the past and how i felt when i was a teenager. It came out wrong

    • @angiepittman5
      @angiepittman5 5 років тому +14

      No worries(not that ur worried) sister in Christ, thats they t/way I understood u, but clarification is one of t/best tools 4 communicating well. GBY & ur union/marriage in Jesus name💜

    • @loveyah7051
      @loveyah7051 5 років тому +11

      @Jazmin Troche Yeah, I think most of us that were listening got that - And I don't think it came out wrong. Thanks for your testimony Jazmin!

    • @Rachelsawthat
      @Rachelsawthat 5 років тому +3

      Hugs to you!

    • @goldengirl7625
      @goldengirl7625 5 років тому +8

      Omg i thought you were younger than me, you look like a baby lol

    • @jeezusgurl
      @jeezusgurl 5 років тому +12

      Hopefully GOD would send you a man who has never been married...... Young lady GOD will never send you someone else's husband ! BE NOT DECEIVED ! These are the last days .... Be Wise !!!!

  • @LukeJ2023
    @LukeJ2023 5 років тому +154

    People are not destroyed because of other people ..
    My people are destroyed due to lack of ............Knowledge! There is great wisdom in the bible.

    • @jestersage8700
      @jestersage8700 5 років тому +5

      everyone wants to blame other people or the devil but never themselves. if that was the case then other people would be blamed for our sins not us

    • @kasheemsmith6239
      @kasheemsmith6239 5 років тому

      That's all it is good wisdom moral and morality

    • @danimotherofchickens479
      @danimotherofchickens479 4 роки тому

      MegaPower that's not entirely true God uses people to lead you astray look at Sampson

    • @nevegoods1694
      @nevegoods1694 4 роки тому

      And not having wisdom to know if a person is good for you is not having knowledge to know a person can destroy u

  • @roxanelk2802
    @roxanelk2802 5 років тому +27

    So true my son met a girl who was a Buddhist and next thing you know he went off track. Now I'm praying for God to restore and heal him.

    • @roxanelk2802
      @roxanelk2802 5 років тому +3

      @ HYBRIDCYNDICATE LOL I KNOW THE DEVILS GOT YOU AND YOU ARE HERE FOR SALVATION AND DELIVERANCE. I WILL PRAY FOR YOUR SOUL. GOD LOVES YOU. TURN FROM YOUR WICKED WAYS AND MOUTH OR YOUR TONGUE WILL CLEVE TO THE ROOF OF YOUR MOUTH.I KNOW ALOT OF WITCHES AND SATANIST THAT ARE BOUND TO SATANS HATE. YOU ARE DEFINITELY AN OFFSPRING OF YOUR FATHER THE DEVIL. MAY YOU FIND PEACE AND SAVATION THROUGH JESUS CHRIST THE ALPHA OMEGA SOON AND COMING KING!!! IN THAT DAY EVERY KNEE SHALL BOW TONGUE CONFESS THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD. THE DEVILS GOT YOUR MIND TWISTED AND BLINDED. I RECOMMEND EX SATANIST JOHN RAMIREZ . I LOVE YOU WITH THE LOVE OF GOD!!! PEACE!!!!!!!🙂🤙🏽

    • @almondwater9583
      @almondwater9583 5 років тому +3

      @@roxanelk2802 yea pain is a good teacher tbh. Hopefully this will help your son's mindset be on Christ

  • @donnell8402
    @donnell8402 5 років тому +21

    One of the most important thing you said is to first have a relationship with God before entering a relationship.This is so true for both men and women. If you have a relationship with God and you seek Him first, he will lead you and guide your path. God is greater,,wiser and stronger than our past situations. We need him in our lives and we should want him involved in every aspect of our lives.

    • @dianalorenzi4272
      @dianalorenzi4272 5 років тому +1

      Dee Praise God and Glory to God, in Jesus name Amen. God bless you.

    • @donnell8402
      @donnell8402 5 років тому

      Diana Lorenzi May God bless you too.

  • @mel_revealz
    @mel_revealz 5 років тому +46

    Amen, I'm single and it's so hard to find a Godly man. I was in an abusive relationship for 11 years and I've been separated a year. I pray everyday that the Lord will bring me my soul mate. All the guys I've ran across only care about your looks and just want to start off with intimacy, it's so sad.

    • @sabrinaalston1243
      @sabrinaalston1243 5 років тому +2

      Sis so true still holding on to GOD

    • @dathip
      @dathip 5 років тому +4

      If you are separated, you are not permitted to remarry under biblical law. Reconcile with your husband or stay separated and dont remarry

    • @BabyTon11
      @BabyTon11 5 років тому

      Check out MotivatingU2Win channel Sister Sharon...I love her teachings

    • @scottykingdavid
      @scottykingdavid 5 років тому

      Vice versa

    • @avaknight6055
      @avaknight6055 5 років тому +1

      Christ InMe thats the wrong type of man but keep praying and you will get the right husband for you

  • @lovelysosweet8386
    @lovelysosweet8386 5 років тому +28

    So sorry for your loss!!!! Jas thank you both! Honesty is Sooooo important!!!

  • @teresaallen3321
    @teresaallen3321 5 років тому +21

    So true.. I became weak to men's garbage in my life, do to not having a father in my life and seeing my mom dealing with all the type of wrong men in her life and as i got older, i had seen myself doing the same thing. I was always a lover of God but i didnt know how to live holy and do to my mom, i was so weak over men. But it took a nonstop flow for me to get stronger for God, i didnt stop and i refused to stop building a relationship with God no matter the sin i was dealing with. It was oneday, i was so tired of me living the same life as my mom, i stoold my back against yhe wall and started crying asking God why it seemed i couldnt get it right with him, no matter what i still fell into some kind of lustful temptation. However, i had got pregnant by m ex i knew for yrs and he had turned my life up side down in the past and he told me he change, which he didnt and i got pregnant. All of a sudden i felt this need to want to please God for blessing me with a child at 34. I started focusing on what was best for me and my child and that was leaving the gather completely and starting over with God and doing whatever i needed too in order to be the child of God i needed to be. It was hard and challenging at first, but by yhe time i had my son, i kid you not, God delivered me from every demon i was fighting with and i now ti this day is going on almost 6 yrs being without any sex and my relationship with God is so much better. When i was pregnant i prayed so much for God to help me be better for my son. I prayed over my stomach so generational curses would not affect my child and my son praises God without me needing to say anything. Please those of you that is trying to be better with God, dont give up bc your deliverance will come...PRAISE GOD AND STAY BLESSED

    • @dianalorenzi4272
      @dianalorenzi4272 5 років тому

      Teresa Allen I love your testimony, We have to have a strong relationship with our Father. I love talking to him everyday and all day, Glory to God, in Jesus name, Amen. My sister God bless you and your son.

  • @donaladreama6475
    @donaladreama6475 5 років тому +23

    You two are sooooo precious!!! Jasmine your so beautiful and humble. It's great to hear how you both pursued (or didn't) your relationship. So wise! - I'm happy for both of you.

  • @manifestationofgod1379
    @manifestationofgod1379 5 років тому +16

    Being broken in the inside will have you in some crazy situations. Born and raised in the church but never took God word serious until I hit my mid thirties. I knew the ways of living in sin could eventually take me out but I gambled against my salvation. I've been married a couple times and they ended in divorce.. Getting beat half to death, adultery and just not living according to his word. I tried marriage again but it's been nothing but backlash and once again beatings... We must obey the word of God and really give our lives to Christ. You'll find yourself on that same rollercoaster each time. We're not God and can't love a broken person back together... Give it all to God and do your best to live for God.

  • @brianmichaelbenjamin7318
    @brianmichaelbenjamin7318 5 років тому +2

    What a beautiful young lady. Her smile shows her idk, innocence i think, probably because I'm so old and that was chased away from my eyes long ago. I hope my daughter grows up loving God like this young lady clearly does. Good girl. I am proud of you for being faithful, smart and true. Be blessed and thanks Marcus and friend. Sorry, i didn't catch your name

  • @veronicawaller1614
    @veronicawaller1614 5 років тому +34

    Hi Marcus, my name is Veronica. I watching your video, the one, you had introduced Jasmine. Marcus , when you post videos .....all God wants me to tell you. God knows your heart and the intent of your heart, but you must understand you are talking to some people who are not fully in their scripture and their walk with the Lord is not full in obedience.
    I have been married for 12yrs. And I, even I understand how lonely it can be serving the Lord and how hard it is walking in obedience. When I started watching your videos, you were like John the Baptist : ), One Crying In the Wilderness, Come and repent, make your path straight for the Kingdom of Heaven is at hand. Marcus The Lord is not to be mocked. One, one, one crying. Marcus, He calls us to not be unevenly yoked. God calls us to check the Spirit when someone is trying to come into your ( our ) life. The anointing in one's life holds us accountable to self and to others. You know it just not enough just to know the Lord, the Spirit has to line up according to the scriptures, walk in faith & in obedience and seek the Lord daily without ceasing. When Judas Iscariot came to Jesus and asked to be part of his walk Jesus implied come, in time you will know a tree by its fruit it bears. "Having the second set of eyes having a wiser set if eyes". Is not biblical. Please do not be deceived..1Samuel 16:7 "FOR THE LORD SEES NOT AS MAN SEES: BUT THE LORD LOOKS ON THE HEART." Pray and ask the Lord to reveal to you.: )

    • @veronicawaller1614
      @veronicawaller1614 5 років тому

      Peace be with you Marcus,
      I had went home and spoke with Jesus to open my mind and give me understanding regarding, "one, one one, crying" The Holy Spirit revealed, Ephesians chapter 4 ( please read) . God his good!!: ) "Whosoever has ears, let them hear what the Spirit says to the churches... it grew in strength and numbers, living in the fear (reverence) of the Lord and the encouragement of the Holy Spirit."(Revelations 2:29). Hallelujah, Glory to God!!
      Listen: ) Ephesians 4 King James Version (KJV)
      4 I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,
      2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
      3 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
      4 There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling;
      5 One Lord, one faith, one baptism,
      6 One God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.
      7 But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ.
      8 Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men.
      9 (Now that he ascended, what is it but that he also descended first into the lower parts of the earth?
      10 He that descended is the same also that ascended up far above all heavens, that he might fill all things.)
      11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
      12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
      13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
      14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftiness, whereby they lie in wait to deceive;
      15 But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ:
      16 From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.
      17 This I say therefore, and testify in the Lord, that ye henceforth walk not as other Gentiles walk, in the vanity of their mind,
      18 Having the understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God through the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their heart:
      19 Who being past feeling have given themselves over unto lasciviousness, to work all uncleanness with greediness.
      20 But ye have not so learned Christ;
      21 If so be that ye have heard him, and have been taught by him, as the truth is in Jesus:
      22 That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts;
      23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
      24 And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness.
      25 Wherefore putting away lying, speak every man truth with his neighbour: for we are members one of another.
      26 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath:
      27 Neither give place to the devil.
      28 Let him that stole steal no more: but rather let him labour, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth.
      29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
      30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.
      31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
      32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
      King James Version (KJV)
      Public Domain
      Ephesians 4 King James Version (KJV)
      4 I therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you that ye walk worthy of the vocation wherewith ye are called,
      2 With all lowliness and meekness, with longsuffering, forbearing one another in love;
      3 Endeavouring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
      4 There is one body, and one Spirit, even as ye are called in one hope of your calling;
      5 One Lord, one faith, one baptism,
      6 One God and Father of all, who is above all, and through all, and in you all.
      7 But unto every one of us is given grace according to the measure of the gift of Christ.
      8 Wherefore he saith, When he ascended up on high, he led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men.
      9 (Now that he ascended, what is it but that he also descended first into the lower parts of the earth?
      10 He that descended is the same also that ascended up far above all heavens, that he might fill all things.)
      11 And he gave some, apostles; and some, prophets; and some, evangelists; and some, pastors and teachers;
      12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
      13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ:
      14 That we henceforth be no more children, tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine, by the sleight of men, and cunning craftin

    • @louiseattzs
      @louiseattzs 5 років тому +4

      Seeking counsel is definitely biblical, you do need to be careful of who you go to (should be saved and born again, God's given us discernment to notice such), and pray on any advice the give you. God has put pastors and leaders in place for a reason. He's also given us wisdom to make good decisions. Proverbs 11:14. If we aren't to seek counsel then, who are the many counselors this scripture talks about. When Moses appointed men to lead the 1000, 100 and 10s, was it not to deal with problems and issues? This may have been the Israelites and not the church but it's a picture of order. What was Paul doing in the majority of the new testament if not giving advice.

    • @shawntalwilliams8271
      @shawntalwilliams8271 5 років тому +1

      Woah wait a minute what is the five fold ministry? They're overseer s right! a pastor watches out for your soul because that is his or her's responsibility. In the multitude of counselors there is safety that is in Proverbs so yes God will use a second set of eyes to give Godly advice but ultimately God has the final say so we know God looks at the heart but come on really would you go into a situation blindly and not consult with anyone who has your best interest at heart and at least listen to their opinion? Not to be rude Ijs.

    • @veronicawaller1614
      @veronicawaller1614 5 років тому +1

      (7)And the Lord said unto Samuel,
      Hearken unto the voice of the people in all that they say unto thee: for they have not rejected thee, but they have rejected Me, that I should not reign over them. (8) According to all the works which they have done since the day that I brought them up out of Egypt even unto this day, wherewith they have forsaken Me, and served other god's, so do they also unto thee. (9) Now therefore Hearken unto their voice: howbeit yet protest solemnly unto them, and show them the manner of king that shall reign over them. 1 Samuel 8:7-9 (please read to understand)
      Pastors, Apostles, prophets, evangelist, teachers bring all people to Christ, back to God. He is our king, our councilor, our Doctor.....and so much more. There is no second set of eyes, no wiser set of eyes (it's not biblical). King Salomon (the wise king), read his story if you do not believe. Put all your trust in God , Do not reject Him.
      (Stop looking at man/woman, go to God and pray)

  • @truthseeker6321
    @truthseeker6321 5 років тому +80

    My problem was being single so many years and waiting on God for the right person. It was alright when I had the church support. But the church doesnt realize how lonely the walk can be when you're single and away from home. If you don't have the people in church to hang out with, who else will you hang out with? Whether saved or not people still need a support group (family, friends, church).

    • @Just_F.e.e
      @Just_F.e.e 5 років тому +4

      Pray and bind that spirit of loneliness. Ask Jesus to fill your heart so being by yourself won't matter, but what will matter is your relationship with Him. The Bible says you are not alone, that other believers are going through what you are going through. God created the Heavens and Earth, how much more will He do for His children? He can make your mate appear out of thin air, it's nothing for Him to do. Sometimes we need time in the "wilderness" so God can work out the things He needs to work out in us. He's not going to send you someone if that person will become an idol in your life. I know how you feel, keeping your focus on the things above, get involved in something for the Kingdom. Learn who you are through the eyes of Christ. Shalom.

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 5 років тому +3

      I agree. It can be lonely even though we are not alone. We have GOD. " God saids in bible it's not good for us to be alone." Just don't make that person your idol

    • @GodGirlP
      @GodGirlP 5 років тому +2

      @Felicia Johnson loneliness is not a Demonic Spirit nor is It from The Devil At All. God Was The One Who Said " It is Not Good for Man To be Alone." So Desiring a Mate from The Heart of a Godly Man or Woman is a God Given Desire. He is To Have His HelpMeet and She desires To come and be Her Future Husband Help Meet. Glory To Jesus.💖

    • @GodGirlP
      @GodGirlP 5 років тому +2

      Abisola Abiodun the Bible admonishes us to " not forsake the assembling of ourselves together." You should Pray and Have God Direct you to a church. It isn't Biblical to NOT sit under preaching and teaching. Paul taught believers in churches as well as the other apostles.... Read 1 corinthians 12:28 . The devil Had Convinced you of a lie by telling you " you don't need church." Because He knows that as long as you stay away from the Body , He is going to pick you off and devour you eventually. Fellowship Goes even into the Godhead Being 3&1 . That Voice said told you to separate yourself from The Church was either Directly Satan or A Demon. Lying Spirit. & I Rebuke that Lying Spirit in The Name of Jesus and I cast it Back to Hell ! ... And you My Dear Love , Pray For Gods Leading , And Get Yourself Into a Church.❤ Let God Direct Your Decision. Not Your Ownself. You are Not Your Own. Jesus Christ Bought you with a Price. You have to Submit your Life To HIM and not the dictates of your own Heart , Because The Bible Says The Heart Is Decietful. I Love You and I don't want to see you messed over from Following Satans Lies nor Your Own Will. God Bless You.❤🎁💕🙏 Pray For HIM to LEAD YOU to The Church He wants You At ❤🎁🙏.

    • @truthseeker6321
      @truthseeker6321 5 років тому +3

      @Antonne Turner my response wasn't about waiting on a partner. My response was about having positive people around you to hang out with. When you are in the military away from family and friends your choices can be limited. Out of that 7 billion, how many are people are really truly righteous and saved? Not many. But the ones i had at that time moved a lot because of the military.

  • @jesusfirst3289
    @jesusfirst3289 5 років тому +35

    God says he hates divorce. When you break up with a girlf that is NOT divorce that’s a break up. God is serious about being married. And STAYIMG married. Yes it’s hard but what isn’t! Marriage is not meant to be easy.

    • @daughterofelohim7
      @daughterofelohim7 5 років тому +12

      Marriage is meant to be easy, sin and satan makes it hard. It is meant to be enjoyed not endured.

    • @saribrown7156
      @saribrown7156 5 років тому +9

      Anthonia Okpunor Marriage to be enjoyed, yes, but it doesn’t mean it is not hard sometimes. Living with another person for years isn’t always easy, it takes commitment and compromising.

    • @roxannemeeks8985
      @roxannemeeks8985 4 роки тому +10

      God seperates some people. Only God alone can see the heart. Some marriages end in Divorce as it wasn't bless by God to begin with. People make mistakes.

  • @sylviamjames
    @sylviamjames 22 години тому

    Appreciate you two! My grown children would be wise to listen, if they would. I been through so many situations , they walked it with me. I’d hope they learned something. ♥️🙏

  • @PaulinaJohnsonMBA
    @PaulinaJohnsonMBA 5 років тому +165

    Yes they are!!!! Unfortunately there are many churches who push people to get married above emotional and spiritual maturity!!! Tell the truth and give the person and opportunity to make an informed decision! Period

    • @Thenwowillfail13
      @Thenwowillfail13 5 років тому +3

      PaulinaJohnson MBA
      And Marcus Rogers has been divorced 3 times already. He is a liar and of satan. He calls God a liar when God promises ETERNAL LIFE look at Marcus Rogers video saying Once Saved Always Saved is a lie. If you don’t believe God’s promise of ETERNAL LIFE YOU ARE NOT SAVED.

    • @Lala-cg2yl
      @Lala-cg2yl 5 років тому +2

      @@Thenwowillfail13 where did you find this information?

    • @mandielou
      @mandielou 5 років тому +3

      @@Thenwowillfail13 you're taking the Bible out of context. 1 John 2:19 says, “They went out from us, but they did not really belong to us. For if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us; but their going showed that none of them belonged to us.”
      Those who apostatize are simply demonstrating that they are not true believers, and they never were.
      Matthew 13:1-30
      Matthew 7:21-23
      Isaiah 29:13
      Mark 7:6
      these prove you can lose your salvation bc some are walking around thinking they're save but aren't! After you become reborn you're supposed to turn away from sin. Like he told the lady that was committing adultery with many men, instead of condemning her he looked to her and told her to go and sin no more.
      Study more this topic is very interesting and very important.
      willful sin can make you lose your salvation because that means you were never saved in the first place. I could give you all of verses supporting your claim but I'm sure you know those ones. If not let me know...

    • @Thenwowillfail13
      @Thenwowillfail13 5 років тому +1

      Lala
      He is own video he denies Once Saved Always Saved you know ETERNAL LIFE the promise of God. He says faith in Jesus Christ is not enough to be saved. He has videos out there exposing himself for the heretic he is BUT YOU ALL EAT HIM UP.

    • @Thenwowillfail13
      @Thenwowillfail13 5 років тому +1

      Amanda Peterson
      Are you stupid? If “they were not of us” they were never saved. I swear you people that call your self CHRISTIANS ON MARCUS ROGERS PAGE ARE NOT CHRISTIANS. I love it how you phony Christians like YOU like to call God a liar.

  • @Neeva01
    @Neeva01 5 років тому +21

    it took me 3 years to leave my ex. I put him b4 god in everything so god left me to him and he used me and beat me up all the time. For me it was normal to have black eyes. Every year i tried to leave him but i felt compelled to him because i just couldnt. Eventually he left me for some1 else n 1 year passed i was still left broken in pieces. When i finally had enuf of the brokeness, i turned bk to christ n god gave me a revelation. I acknowledged my sin repented n fasted with tears n god broke my horrible chains. He is so faithful, loving, merciful n just. Now i know, never ever get a godless partner with the characteristics of ESAU OR CAIN. They will lead you astray and bring curses upon curses on you. Wait on gods timing. His timing is always perfect.

    • @rwr166
      @rwr166 5 років тому +1

      "Wait on God's timing". Amen!

  • @donnajackson1758
    @donnajackson1758 5 років тому +15

    Amen. My husband and I did things all out of order in the beginning as well for a number of reasons, childhood not being in the will of God Etc. And doing things that way you sacrifice a lot not just your body but you're mind, soul, your emotions so on and so forth. and I began to learn about soul ties that's when I told my now-husband after 2 years and one son and the Lord speaking to me over and over again I told him it was time for us to get married if we were going to live together. We went to marriage counseling we got married we have now been together for 20 years I've been married for 18 and it's still work oh, yes it is LOL and there were lot of things we had to go back and correct separately and collectively but we're still moving forward and still working at things and this time we're Allowing God to lead us and not we ourselves. Wonderful video blessings and favor man and woman of God

    • @IamAHouseOfPrayer
      @IamAHouseOfPrayer 5 років тому +2

      Donna Jackson Love it. God says "return into me and I will return into you" When we put Him as our cornerstone, when we commit to the Lord, He establishes our thoughts and plans, He brings it to pass. You humbled yourself under His mighty hand and He exalted your union. Just wonderful. I enjoyed reading your truth. Thanks for sharing

  • @pj7362
    @pj7362 5 років тому +19

    Also if you would lift my situation up in prayer . I'm in a medical facility that is not conducive to growth and it has been a trial. I am praying that God deliver me from this place so that I can further my life in a healthy productive Manor. Or if it is not the father's will to have me move , then that he show me what he would have me do here should that be his will. Thank you brothers and sisters in Christ . Your prayers are warmly received. May the living God , the God of David be with you all . Amen

    • @ControversialKia
      @ControversialKia 5 років тому +1

      PJ 73 prayers sent !

    • @pj7362
      @pj7362 5 років тому

      @@ControversialKia Thank you Kia 🤗

    • @natasha9805
      @natasha9805 5 років тому +1

      Prayers sent as well !❤️💪🏿

    • @pj7362
      @pj7362 5 років тому

      @@natasha9805 Thank you so very much. Thank you Jesus. My Lord and my God.

    • @AlltheWorldsAStage444
      @AlltheWorldsAStage444 5 років тому

      AMEN👆🙏💪💯

  • @DrEliane01
    @DrEliane01 5 років тому +85

    I had that second set of eyes before all 5 marriages. Between my parents and my pastors, no one got it right including myself. I've been honest at all times with the spouses and counselors. Don't rely on anyone's advice because they all gave me their blessings. Now I say, if you see a red flag, it's going to be 10 times worse after marriage. While no one is perfect, never ever ignore those red flags because that's the Holy Spirit warning you that that trouble is not going away! Yes, all of the divorces were even okayed by my pastors. The Devil is a real deceiver! He will wreck you if you ignore those red flags in the name of no one is perfect and I've been approved by a second set of eyes and my pastor. Just saying...

    • @eraofawakening4659
      @eraofawakening4659 5 років тому +2

      70 X 7 you need to read Romans 7 ASAP

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 5 років тому +9

      Wow 5 marriages

    • @DrEliane01
      @DrEliane01 5 років тому +1

      @@jesuswilljudge7296 scriptural divorces. Lessons learned.

    • @jesuswilljudge7296
      @jesuswilljudge7296 5 років тому +5

      @@DrEliane01 5 is a lot though..

    • @msbrig1
      @msbrig1 4 роки тому +3

      Not trying to be ugly or anything, but maybe they gave them the green light because the issue was truly with you. I sincerely hope you seek some healing and counsel before your next relationship or marriage.

  • @nothanks091
    @nothanks091 5 років тому +5

    The problem is when you go outside of the will of God to get something you have to stay outside of the will of God to keep it.

  • @jesusismyjoy7102
    @jesusismyjoy7102 5 років тому +7

    This is so prophetic I am literally sitting here talking to my mother about this exact thing and 💥 boom I run across this video !

  • @Lala_Milli
    @Lala_Milli 5 років тому +25

    I literally just walked away from my relationship. He wore that mask and now I see him

  • @veraa.willis2478
    @veraa.willis2478 5 років тому +37

    She's beautiful Marcus God bless you both.

  • @kimbeyer9315
    @kimbeyer9315 5 років тому +76

    Has anyone done an in depth study on marriage and divorce...i mean relly dig into a study of it? GOD never expected me to stay married to someone doing drugs...putting our children in danger and myself.....also the servant of the Lord must not be in strife....it seems that a lot of people are bashing Marcus....thats not right or helpful.....seek GOD first above all and His kingdom....and all theze other things will be added unto you. GOD BLESS!!!

    • @MSALL-co8bf
      @MSALL-co8bf 5 років тому +7

      Preach!!!! What God put together let no man put asunder. Foolishness we put together in our flesh, can easily be fixed by a divorce.

    • @indiasgift1729
      @indiasgift1729 5 років тому +1

      LISTEN TO CHRIST RETURNS SPEAKS HIS TRUTH ON UA-cam

    • @BabyTon11
      @BabyTon11 5 років тому +1

      True...I don't think he meant stay in a bad relationship. It's 2019...we can't possibly go by everything in Bible and neither did anyone back then

    • @jeezusgurl
      @jeezusgurl 5 років тому +8

      God hates divorce. .....
      Moses allowed divorce because of the hardness of people's heart ! Also , Those who remarry , & those who marry someone who has an living spouse ..... Is guilty of Adultery!

    • @BabyTon11
      @BabyTon11 5 років тому +2

      @@jeezusgurl I read all that do we all are we all able to abide n live by the full gospel? No, if so ppl would stop getting tattoos and piercings. I don't have any but I realize we still trying to tell ppl to follow the Bible and we are not all following the entire scriptures plus Jesus already paid the price so it doesn't matter just don't play on Gods grace. We are under the Grace not the law in my opinion and we only get one life to live. So if ppl don't want to die old and alone sort them be.

  • @katyastars.
    @katyastars. 5 років тому +8

    Jasmine is so beautiful 😍 God bless you two! ❤️

  • @rosepatterson870
    @rosepatterson870 5 років тому +9

    Amen! So true people don't take marriage vows seriously and don't be honest. I pray everything goes well with you and her 🙏

  • @dennise4174
    @dennise4174 5 років тому +7

    Preach it my Brother! You're so right! I feel you on this! God's continued blessings upon you and your family in Jesus name! Amen! 🙏

    • @BabyTon11
      @BabyTon11 5 років тому

      Check out MotivatingU2Win channel Sister Sharon...I love her teachings

  • @roseh6213
    @roseh6213 5 років тому +20

    I was beginning a relationship with this guy . We have known each other 16 yrs as friends & he always wanted a deeper relationship with me. God has been doing mighty things in my life , then he comes knocking . He was saying all the things I always wanted a guy to say to me. He said he believed in the Lord & spoke to him but spending a few weeks with him I could see he was not of the spirit. It was a connection of flesh. I really cared for him but God told me to much is given much is required& that not to be unequally yoked!! He was not the man God had for me so I broke up last week with him. 🌈❤️🕊🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😇

    • @rwr166
      @rwr166 5 років тому +6

      Thank you for your testimony. It is so important to be obedient to God; when we follow him, he leads us to where we need to be. Glad you listened...may God continue to bless you!

  • @jasonreyes1716
    @jasonreyes1716 5 років тому +4

    God bless this brother and may he be shielded from all the devils fiery darts. Im starting to notice subtle negative attacks on this man, questioning his validity especially that he's preaching the word and becoming more popular and famous. I also pray that he doesnt slip and that he makes all his moves based on Gods instructions. May the brothers support him and may he have strength and power to bless the brothers and sisters with the true riches, which is the knowledge, the wisdom and the understanding of God.. Amen

  • @anagreer2568
    @anagreer2568 5 років тому +2

    I'm so glad you too are honest and transparent...Marcus you have been truly open and that's what we need to do as Christians...If more of us stop playing church and be real, relationships can flourish..I wish I knew to hide myself in God along the way but like my sister said I'm glad I went through because when I look back it helped my relationship with God, and hey the right one will find you hid in God because they will be hidden too...Thank you guys

  • @Secorad
    @Secorad 5 років тому +4

    That smile when she started talking. ❤️. Adorable. You can tell he really cares and respects her.

  • @crazojw
    @crazojw 5 років тому +16

    He who finds a wife, finds a good thing! Likewise, she who finds a husband finds a good thing! God answers prayers. I can testify to that....And I have learned that Gods time is the best time. Never allow people to pressure you into getting into relationships not designed by God, it will not work!!! If you pray with sincerity and faith, and wait on God, he will bring it to pass. Have patience because he is never late and everything he does is perfect!!! He did it for me and he will do it for you too!!! God bless🙏

    • @aaronodle8764
      @aaronodle8764 4 роки тому

      AMEN!! I'd like to find a wife. ie woman of god to marry and settle down with. please pray for me

    • @TriciaRP
      @TriciaRP 3 роки тому

      God doesn't do this ..... REMARRY AND REMARRY....nope that is YOU.
      THE FIRST living wife is who Jesus will hold you accountable for ...saved or unsaved.....these people have itching ears and FALSE DOCTRINE

  • @LottsaLayer2012
    @LottsaLayer2012 5 років тому +6

    May God Bless your relationship!! Thanks so much for sharing this testimony, I’ll be forwarding this video for sure. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @smc1774
    @smc1774 5 років тому +2

    Brother Marcus thank you and your girlfriend for your words of wisdom and knowledge from your own life experiences.This message was truly a blessing. May God bless the both of you.👏👏👏👏

  • @madlyn792
    @madlyn792 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing! So many people need this message. I know Christians that rush into relationships with ungodly people because they are lonely and I say God will not bless that relationship. We should always seek God first and wait.

  • @myname2496
    @myname2496 5 років тому +12

    Omg.. there was a guy on a dating app posing as you. He sent me pics of you with kids. He said his name was David Rogers. I was just minding my business on UA-cam and your video popped up.

  • @karendistefano6001
    @karendistefano6001 5 років тому +88

    Just FYI. You should always introduce the person that is with you. Manners first.....

    • @NAOMILOREN
      @NAOMILOREN 5 років тому +11

      Karen Distefano yes!!! Im trying to figure out who this girl is 😭😭😭

    • @momomiler5641
      @momomiler5641 5 років тому +10

      I know and not call her HER

    • @ms.claudia4855
      @ms.claudia4855 5 років тому +4

      That's his girlfriend!

    • @oscarcat1231
      @oscarcat1231 5 років тому +8

      Yes I agree. It didn’t come across too well - to call her ‘her’ and not introduce her

    • @cupcakebabynurse3964
      @cupcakebabynurse3964 5 років тому +3

      Jasmine is beautiful Marcus..but seems more like a sister or friend for you..seems unequally yoked to me...

  • @naomiknight1154
    @naomiknight1154 4 роки тому +1

    Most importantly God first and knowing we have to give room to grow and open minds. And to believe have faith in one another as for as the east to the west big big faith in one another. God bless you Marcus and your precious family in Jesus name amen

  • @biankaceleste7146
    @biankaceleste7146 4 роки тому

    This is the BEST advice. I know I’ve made some terrible decisions and I’ve been in relationships with people that would tell me terrible things and do terrible things to me. It took me many years to hear god and to know Jesus. But here I am a walking testimony. God is good.

  • @dede4004
    @dede4004 5 років тому +4

    There are more toxic relationships than ever because even believers have gotten away from God, and live by a "pick and choose" Biblical belief. It's not easy to follow Jesus, but it's SO worth it. We Need to work on ourselves first with God, before adding someone else into the mix.

  • @Godisnotdead1111
    @Godisnotdead1111 5 років тому +6

    This is a good video to have talked about divorce and re-marriage as well. Unfortunately so many Christians think they can divorce and get married again while their partners is still alive because they have misread matt 5.32.

    • @cch1586
      @cch1586 5 років тому

      This video confused me because i been married for 12 years and my husband is lukewarm christian and i want to pursue God's will i even came to the conclusion to get divorced because its hard to grow in Christ when your spouse doesnt want too but reading the bible God doesn't like divorces and he doesn't allow us to remarry until one has passed because we will be committing adultery if we remarry when your spouse still alive, I think Marcus has been married a few times (for reading in a few comments) , I'm a newly Christian and i am confused because my husband and i came to a conclusion years ago to get a divorce and there's something that wont allowed that to happen and now that i accept Christ and experience the holy spirit and my husband hasn't and really dont care much about it ITS EXTREMELY HARD, but i have met hardcore christian women that had been in my shoes and now their spouses are great men of God, they advised me to keep praying and to have faith in God and allow Him to do his work in my marriage, it can take time (it took them years) but God knows why and why he put me in my husband's life and to remember that God will reward me in heaven for fighting for what he unite, my husband and i .... so now I'm confused, can we get remarry then? 🤔

    • @Godisnotdead1111
      @Godisnotdead1111 5 років тому

      @@cch1586 hi sister, thank you for sharing what you are going through. You will be rewarded most definitely. I believe God put you in your husband's wife to share the Gospel and win him over, this will involve long suffering which will produce fruits for sure. I am going to pray for you. To answer your question, once married wheather before becoming a Christian or as a Christian you are married for life until death Romans 7. People may get a divorce but kn God's eyes you are not divorced just committing adultery. You can separate from your partner because you are not bound, you can live separately if you cannot get along. Pls study for yourself. If you need materials I will be happy to provide.

  • @JennyAmigo31
    @JennyAmigo31 5 років тому +1

    I have been watching all your videos for a while now. You are always on point! I am 48 and have 6 kids. Was abused by their dad for 26 years, and Jesus got me out! I realize your age makes you younger, but I see you like a Timothy. Your time with, and love for Jesus and obedience to the Holy Spirit, gives you maturity beyond you age! You inspire, teach and encourage me as a "Mom" dating again.... I am having my own daughters watch your videos. Keep going! I can't wait to read the book. I will be married and start again, but will be the RIGHT WAY THIS TIME! My mistakes cost 26 years of torture. I love to share with younger ladies how to avoid mistakes. But as she said, "I didnt listen, I was stupid," (as I say, "TEENAGERS!" SMH),
    Your newd for Godly counsel NEVER ENDS. I think of music... Every singer needs a vocal coach. And even Whitney Houston had a vocal coach until her very end. Why? Because we never ever have will the answers. God will speak, but we often hear our flash louder. Being sure, getting good counsel IS SAFE! Its a biblical principal!
    Thanks again!!!
    How do we order the book?

  • @inner-galacticfreedomkeepe8068
    @inner-galacticfreedomkeepe8068 5 років тому +1

    Beautiful! You both walked through how starting a relationship looks like for those that didnt have an example. Blessings to you both!!!

  • @donnawarrior1908
    @donnawarrior1908 5 років тому +6

    I hate to say it but that girl next to you looks terribly young and like she could be yr daughter and looks like she still NEEDS her daddy and Marcus u look a father figure for that little girl next to u. rethink the child parent thing u too got going on its bad,set up for any kind of adult marriage relationship. Hope yr not seeing this little girl as a marriage partner on a equal level it won't happen. you are a teacher and father figure to that little girl who is looking for a father and a care taker

  • @peacegirlusa4761
    @peacegirlusa4761 5 років тому +5

    We cannot blame Satan for everything, it’s about “choices, choices, choices”!

  • @yvettecain7447
    @yvettecain7447 4 роки тому +2

    I went to my pastor and he messed my marriage up. I have left that church. Not all pastors are spiritual enough to give Godly counsel. It's some evil leaders out to separate couples. They are the devil's agents and advocates. Now I'm not at any church. Just praying to God for direction.

  • @ytziyratiyaryehyisrael9350
    @ytziyratiyaryehyisrael9350 5 років тому +2

    I had a woman once who I loved to the point of obsession. One night I had a "prophetic dream" about her. The only way I can describe a prophetic dream is it looks like 4k quality (to the point you will remember it your entire life) compared to normal dreams. In my dream my woman was there on a throne looking like a goddess. I kneeled down before her throne and told her I loved her and she said to me "I love to love other men". It was like God was showing me I loved this woman more than I loved myself or God even.

  • @tamelacole478
    @tamelacole478 5 років тому +9

    Congratulations PASTOR MARCUS ROGER'S TO YOU AND YOUR VERYYYYYY PRETTY LADY👁️👁️ ......GOD BLESS YOU GUY'S AND YOUR FAMILY🙏🙌🙏®™®

  • @ericaharris4728
    @ericaharris4728 5 років тому +4

    Yes, Amen, LISTEN TO GOD!! When it comes to relationships. Amen, don't compromise it IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!

  • @b.tabati911
    @b.tabati911 3 роки тому

    Beautiful!!! What an awesome example!!! You guys make a great couple!!! You’re so right!!! Transparency is so important. This advice is so so needed out there today. I think we have all fallen short in broken consciousness but praise God that He restores!!! God Bless and protect you guys!!! May He continue to guide and bless you guys in your comings and goings, in Jesus Mighty Name!!! Keep going!!!🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @carlosleiva5169
    @carlosleiva5169 4 роки тому

    You all are a blessing. Everything you are saying is biblical and right on point. Keep letting God speak through your experiences because you are helping more people than you might think. In Jesus name..

  • @GilbertodeJesus87
    @GilbertodeJesus87 5 років тому +9

    Perfect timing, God is good....🙏🙏🙌

  • @sipseewithki828
    @sipseewithki828 5 років тому +5

    Awww that's cute. She looks and sounds real young. But shes 25. He is not that much older. He needs to do a video on how they meet and a follow up on how they are now, since he went to the Bishop and all.

  • @dannydean4013
    @dannydean4013 5 років тому +1

    Amen all so true. Our people need a personal relationship with God. Always put God first and foremost. God Bless all of my Brothers and Sisters out there.

  • @samantharios6900
    @samantharios6900 4 роки тому

    She is beautiful.A kind and meek spirit in her.i lost both my parents also .My mom passed away when i was 9yrs old my dad when i was 13.I needed love and i searched for thinking a man would feel that void.I wanted soemone to love me cuz my parents left me i was severely hurt.so I made so many mistakes.but God is a father to the father less.Yall are speaking a lot of truth.beautiful couple may God continue to bless yall.

  • @fugitivemoses7515
    @fugitivemoses7515 5 років тому +9

    In my opinion I believe marriages, especially in this end times will always have an element of toxicity at some stage. There's a reason the apostle Paul advised Christians against getting married not because marriage itself is a bad thing (He who finds a wife finds a good thing) but it's as a result of it's complexities and complications that come with it. And the enemy is going all gun's blazing against marriages these last days.

    • @jdfodio
      @jdfodio 5 років тому +1

      👍 Marriage requires an extremely high level of spiritual maturity that most Christians don't even have yet most are jumping into relationships prematurely and with the wrong people. They refuse to pray and/or receive objective, wise, godly, BIBLICAL counsel about it. Oh well.
      ---
      When Jesus had completed these teachings, he left Galilee and crossed the region of Judea on the other side of the Jordan. Great crowds followed him there, and he healed them.
      One day the Pharisees were badgering him: “Is it legal for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?”
      He answered, “Haven’t you read in your Bible that the Creator originally made man and woman for each other, male and female? And because of this, a man leaves father and mother and is firmly bonded to his wife, becoming one flesh-no longer two bodies but one. Because God created this organic union of the two sexes, no one should desecrate his art by cutting them apart.”
      They shot back in rebuttal, “If that’s so, why did Moses give instructions for divorce papers and divorce procedures?”
      Jesus said, “Moses provided for divorce as a concession to your hard heartedness, but it is not part of God’s original plan. I’m holding you to the original plan, and holding you liable for adultery if you divorce your faithful wife and then marry someone else. I make an exception in cases where the spouse has committed adultery.”
      Jesus’ disciples objected, “If those are the terms of marriage, we’re stuck. Why get married?”
      But Jesus said, “Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn’t for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked-or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you’re capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it.”
      (Matthew 19:1‭-‬12 MSG)
      Hebrews 13:4 NLT:
      Give honor to marriage, and remain faithful to one another in marriage. God will surely judge people who are immoral and those who commit adultery.

  • @KeeplookingUP777
    @KeeplookingUP777 5 років тому +4

    Love your videos Brother. Maybe introduce your guest for a minute first before you start. 👍.
    Glad Iam not the only one, of course, that struggled in this area of relationships. God's receipe is where it's at!💖

    • @deandra777
      @deandra777 5 років тому +1

      That little girl in the video is his girlfriend looks like his daughter smh

  • @josiejump64
    @josiejump64 4 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing. I relate to what you are saying because I have been doing this my entire life. I will now confess openly and will not give the devil a foothold. Jesus save me

  • @gterobert
    @gterobert 5 років тому

    This is very well said; i know this young girl mid 20 looking to get married and refusing counsel from her parents is doing this on her own. Lets keep her in prayer that she do the right decision. amen

  • @ohjetty1020
    @ohjetty1020 5 років тому +9

    Man I made the mistake last year with bringing the wrong woman in my life! I just turned 20 this Christmas Nd I dated I woman that had I child I was 19 and I thought she was the one I was even saying that I was gonna marry her! And I even told God and too this day me and my family laugh at this but I told God in prayer that “Look God. I’ll keep it real if there’s anyone better for me I don’t want it. I’m content with what I have” and I did the complete opposite of what God would want me to do from sex to not even speaking to him for days on end. I’m glad God ended it and I moved to another state. I realized that my destiny is far more important than a woman at all.

    • @almondwater9583
      @almondwater9583 5 років тому

      @HybridSyndicate yea he threw conditional human love away for the unconditional love of Jesus Christ. You love the evil one so your here to spread lies

    • @almondwater9583
      @almondwater9583 5 років тому

      @HybridSyndicate another Satanist told me y'all are atheists? So you don't worship the Satan? I serve the truth, you love living in sin. That's why you like satanism

  • @611mellissa
    @611mellissa 5 років тому +23

    Y'all. He did do a video entitled Divorce and remarriage: Going to hell or something to that effect but if you actually listen to it, he was saying that's the opinion of the people, and he discussed things like abuse and how some expect women to stay in abusive marriage because of the sin of divorce and how he disagrees so yes. He made the video but the actual content said something else. A lot more than I added so please listen to it first. Next, the young lady says she's almost 25. Marcus is 32. We really need to do better in how we treat each other. People being straight ruthless saying they are correcting someone. No. You're being nasty in Jesus name. At least be nasty in your own name so we can stop bringing shame to our Father. SMH. I pray that God shows us the collateral damage that we do to His children while trying to prove our points. Truth in love or truth in vain.

    • @cheritajeffries5794
      @cheritajeffries5794 5 років тому +4

      I like to first thank you for clarifying the Remarriage you're going to Hell video's content and for making me holler..😂🤣😃😅"Y'all STOP being nasty in the Jesus name, and be nasty in your own" PRICELESS

    • @manicoquita
      @manicoquita 5 років тому

      Right, I'm like, was there another video idk about?

    • @carlabryant4811
      @carlabryant4811 5 років тому +1

      ThAnk you Amen well said!!!!!

    • @jessicawestbrook3730
      @jessicawestbrook3730 3 роки тому

      Amen.💖💖💖

  • @ladyoladyday
    @ladyoladyday 5 років тому +1

    Love it!! Truth in foundation is key. Don't manipulate to get, use truth. This is my learnt philosophy; the ideal person is a person who puts their relationship with Yahweh first, then comes you. This way you get the benefit from their loyalty to walk upright, not perfect but upright. Their concern not to dissappoint Him is your overflow. I pray the best for you both. There is power in snergy...Lady O #StillSmiling

  • @Gr8terIsHe
    @Gr8terIsHe 5 років тому +2

    Congrats Marcus!!! I see as soon as she started talikng you started blushing, she is beautiful and i pray u2 well!!!

  • @kacym.118
    @kacym.118 5 років тому +7

    It made me sad to hear you say, “I left my dad”. See, my dad left me, and that was hard on me. Anyway, that bothered me and I wanted to say so.
    You’re a wise young man. And your )I’m assuming girlfriend) seems sweet and on the same page. I won’t get into my childhood and young life. But just know this old white woman is listening and learning or in much, being reminded of things I sit on the back burner. You’re inspiring and you stir that crying emotion a person gets when they know they have fallen off the right path and feel separated from God. I need prayer for much and hope anyone who reads this will just say a little prayer for me. I pray daily and have since I was a child. Even in my darkest hours of sin, I prayed. God bless.

    • @CynthiaAva
      @CynthiaAva 5 років тому +2

      Someone in New York is praying for you right now.

    • @kacym.118
      @kacym.118 5 років тому +2

      Cynthia Ava,
      Thank you so much and God bless you !!

    • @msmessenjah9098
      @msmessenjah9098 5 років тому +1

      Praying for you!

  • @catherinehayes1683
    @catherinehayes1683 5 років тому +5

    Marcus as you said, "Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths." So if FATHER GOD has told you yes, why do you need a man's (your bishop) yes or no, as to what you should do??

  • @saytbtblog3341
    @saytbtblog3341 2 роки тому

    God bless you both. Thankful for you both. I am so grateful that the Lord brought you both together. God is moving in great ways in your life, and in great ways through your life for others. ❤

  • @jadoncal
    @jadoncal 3 роки тому

    This is helping me get through a relationship that was not of God. Thank you

  • @rebekahm9402
    @rebekahm9402 5 років тому +3

    You know you have true love and they have true love for you when you both don’t want to make the other person do anything that will cause them to sin, or endanger that persons relationship with God. It is true love when maintaining your holiness matters more to them than their own fleshly desires. That is what true selfless love is.

  • @01Rambomom
    @01Rambomom 5 років тому +17

    Marcus remember being "evenly yoked" seriously!!!!

    • @01Rambomom
      @01Rambomom 5 років тому +3

      This is your first video that made me feel very uncomfortable for you Marcus.

    • @northstar2621
      @northstar2621 5 років тому +1

      @@01Rambomom Why?

  • @bladia
    @bladia 5 років тому +1

    She's so sweet and honest God really loves her and she is blessed...Marcus you are blessed to have her. Thank you for sharing with the world of people who want to know Jesus Christ.

  • @sendit1157
    @sendit1157 5 років тому +1

    Brother Rogers, that's why am confident that it's so important to marry a prospective mate that is in the Lord. Making sure also that both of you also have the same goal in the Lord. Thank you for encouraging me. I always look forward to your encouragement.

  • @pathway777
    @pathway777 5 років тому +22

    You two are so cute.God bless. Marcus you look so happy. I love to see young people on the right path.

    • @BabyTon11
      @BabyTon11 5 років тому +1

      Check out MotivatingU2Win channel Sister Sharon...I love her teachings

    • @pathway777
      @pathway777 5 років тому +1

      Grace Batson thank you sweetheart will do.

  • @lovelysosweet8386
    @lovelysosweet8386 5 років тому +22

    We need to hear this! I just run! Forever to heal yessss yes I was raped as a child so I run! God don't bless no mess!

    • @bryanreed7216
      @bryanreed7216 5 років тому +3

      God is a great restorer. I hope he healed you from this. God bless

    • @TiffaniMcClainOfficial
      @TiffaniMcClainOfficial 5 років тому +4

      Kim Jackson I understand the pain you feel. Always know He makes beauty for ashes and your pain has purpose when God gets His hands on it. You’re beautiful, keep shining! - Radiant 💎

    • @royaldawnnairne112
      @royaldawnnairne112 5 років тому +4

      Our God is healer and restorer of the broken pieces of our lives... Trust and know Kim, you are new from the inside out in Jesus name. What the enemy used to destroy you, God will turn it around for your good and His glory... Be blessed my sis

    • @lovelysosweet8386
      @lovelysosweet8386 5 років тому +2

      @Danielle S. thank you for caring I appreciate that 😘

    • @matthewdilloncook6307
      @matthewdilloncook6307 5 років тому +1

      I’m so sorry bless you🙌

  • @jackiebailey435
    @jackiebailey435 5 років тому +2

    That was good I am so glad you're recognizing this is going to help a lot of people

  • @SpringAction
    @SpringAction 4 роки тому

    Just saw this today, focus on the good things that make good relationships good, and it will help with the things that came accross today news wise (news 10 from me) and humanity wise. Thank you and did share yours, no I couldnt email that person you were hoping to get through too, but I do believe the things you were mentioning last two days are important to everyone. Bless you for coming out the LBGT too. Thing is bullying and hatred on anything results out not good, and it doesnt mean its okay to return hatred cause it begets more hatred. But remember one thing? The Lord is good.

  • @EdwardsEvelyn
    @EdwardsEvelyn 5 років тому +13

    Many comments here are 'She is so pretty' 'She is so cute' Now we don't know her character or qualities (what type of person she is). This is the problem with MANY Christians - they're shallow.

    • @richardrichard9330
      @richardrichard9330 5 років тому

      My friends, I have had a couple of witnesses on this problem
      What's with the backward words on her hat and his shirt!!!

    • @joequinbrownsr2414
      @joequinbrownsr2414 5 років тому +2

      I can see the demons on her.

    • @calvinbrown8344
      @calvinbrown8344 5 років тому

      There is nothing wrong with giving someone a good comment we got more problems then what you talkin about come on wake up.

    • @calvinbrown8344
      @calvinbrown8344 5 років тому

      Some of you people on this site who is talking bad about that young lady. Is not real Christians y'all are counterfeit no man woman would say some of the stuff you all saying you are like the Pharisees when Jesus said you acting like your father the devil.

    • @09michaele
      @09michaele 5 років тому

      Evelyn Edwards....Full head nod!

  • @LIVINGTRUTH200
    @LIVINGTRUTH200 5 років тому +6

    OPTIMISM IS THE FAITH THAT LEADS TO ACHIEVEMENT,
    NOTHING CAN BE DONE WITHOUT HOPE AND THE KING JESUS✝✝

  • @ladytn3052
    @ladytn3052 5 років тому +2

    My husband & I have struggled over these past 8 years because of the devil using others to tear us apart. We stand together with CHRIST & stay studying the Word as a union. GOD bless♡

  • @nessatucker7043
    @nessatucker7043 5 років тому

    Amen! Wow, this really registered.. I know for a fact that the desire for acceptance and to be loved made me look in all the wrong places. I could have saved myself 10 years of my life if I had just realized that all I needed I already had in God. However God will allow you to go down those paths to minister to others, if I hadn't fallen I wouldn't have appreciated God's grace like I do now. I wouldn't have my daughter, and he knew from the beginning that she would be the one thing that would soften my heart and bring me back to him. The lord is and will continue to take the mess of a life I have and use it for something bigger then I ever could have imagined.

  • @yvonnewright3323
    @yvonnewright3323 5 років тому +31

    Amen Marcus and Jasmine

  • @jelicianorwood24
    @jelicianorwood24 5 років тому +6

    They really are and they must be broken down. Im a introvert (loner) and don't like being in relationships with negative people who glorify sin. That like also feel the need to say they "don't believe in God." I learned now It's foolish if I can continue a relationship with them. God will show us our flaws and purpose. We must know these things 1st.

    • @yzmundanord1908
      @yzmundanord1908 5 років тому

      Well in a way thats great but in a way that can be detrimental because sometimes being around certain people can actually reveal the flaws we have within ourselves. Like pride and self righteousness and because this is text it might sound harsh but I dont mean it in that way at all. It can also be humbling and a way for you to disciple to those people like Jesus did. People like that can be a bad influence but when we continue walking in our identity in christ we come to realize that we are good influences and people need a touch of that light even if it doesnt seem like the seed landed it was still planted. :)

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 5 років тому +1

      @@yzmundanord1908 Yeah feel that same way actually. Lord its not easy cutting peoppe off because im nice but can become hindrance like MARCUS SAID. I am always at work (chickfila). I use to think the same way but where Iive (Atlanta)people don't like Christians like that and dont want to go church. They don't want here nothing about GOD. All I can do love them from far. I can't change them but God can. I had to learn now that "Bad company corrupts good morals." So I keep distance now and be "the light." Shine bright. 😊

    • @jelicianorwood24
      @jelicianorwood24 5 років тому +1

      It's not detremintal for me. I have a UA-cam Channel where GOD uses me. I'm introvert and God made us all different. God gives us all gifts.

  • @christzking
    @christzking 4 роки тому

    Thats very true...I have problems in this area but in love I try to follow my heart and pray on this. you said the most powerful words...seek ye first and then acknowledge God in all your ways ...God bless you and your lovely wife. I hope you both can help strengthen faith in marriage. For better or worse you are in a holy union and thats so beautiful. So happy for you both finding each other....may God bless and deliver you from evil. In Jesus name ..Amen.

  • @PHATGrace
    @PHATGrace 5 років тому

    This video is so timely. People aren't honest about who they are while pursuing someone because they don't even know who they are. It's so imperative that you know who you are in Christ and just as a person, before seeking intimate relationship with another individual. Deal with your demons prior to because those things really can rub off on others.