The 5 Ways The Narcissist Disengages
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- Опубліковано 7 лют 2025
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If the narcissist disengages from you, how does the narcissist do it and why does the narcissist disengage in this manner? What does it mean and what might happen in the future?
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Mine had the audacity to tell me he wanted to be able to go out with his "female friends" who were actually, ex romantic interests he had pursued before meeting me. I told him to go screw himself & go out with them all he wanted. I removed myself from the equation and have been NC He's just lucky he left with everything in tact. Revenge is better served cold and this Triple Scorpion can wait forever. He'd best be on his way if he knows what's good for him.
Personally, I am more inclined to give people the benefit of the doubt for awhile. But once I believe I am made to consistenly feel unsafe, taken for granted, and disrespected, it doesn't take long to leave, let go and move on...forever. Sure, it hurts, but it also does no one any good in continuing to have hope, when there is dishonesty, sadness, confusion and stress on a consistent basis. It's like living with a big "elephant in the room" that is never open for question or discussion. This is not what a healthy relationship, or even friendship is meant to be. Anyway, the Narcissist has free will...but so does everyone else, including me. So, off I go...and it's forever. It does no good to "beat a dead horse". You live, heal and learn.
Mine did it by giving a list of things he wanted me to fix about myself (which were really just projections of his faults) he said once I have worked on myself then we can “be back on cloud 9 with each other, start a family and get married” it took me 2 months to realize🙄
I was in a similar bind and it drove me up & down emotionally. When I figured out the other person was not the same person I had fallen for, I had to end it rather prolong the suffering.
Exactly
Me too 💯
I recall all of these were used against me in some form by the relevant narcissist be it through friendship or romantic relationship.
Dirty, rotten scoundrels.
Abominably selfish and
extremely lacking in genuine concern and true conciliation.
While one is left bereft and broken 💔 hearted the other
is brutishly aloof and free of any ties that bind. Leaving
the used object of their prime aims despondent only to put their focus on the new conquest of the prime aims.
Tsk, tsk. For shame. With not so much as a thought of care
or compassion. 😐
The wedge. He did the wedge, but continues to engage.
After listening to all of the ways, I believe he used a fake disengagement
All is true however, it feels good to speak our minds, fuel for the narcissist or not. It's their loss not ours. Thanks H.G for sharing your knowledge 🙂
I got discarded 6 weeks ago, she's a fool because had friends since childhood and they see her for what she was and I trust them
She picked a fight and just left me and the kids in the middle of the night, texted we were over..she hoovered me after 3 months, guess the new supply didn't work out
This is one of the better movies!!! Thank you.
It disappeared many times, before it disappeared for years. And he used each of these 5 methods repeatedly and alternately.
Everything stood before my eyes like yesterday... Longing. A tremendous longing. Pathetic...
Today, many times dug doors are opened carelessly. But no one goes through it. Neither on one side nor the other. Only signs.
Thank-you HG! I really needed a re-listen of this one.
I left HIM. I had no choice. I considered it all the vengeance I needed. There are people controlling him. It's not my fault, not my problem. We're permanently disengaged.
Wow. Brilliance 🧡. I need to re-listen, like 3x.
I had a Narc friend that started this cat and mouse game because I didn’t call him daily while he was in the hospital, so the next time I called him he said he couldn’t talk to me so I texted him and we were back and forth to each other so I told him at my age I don’t need this BS so he became very angry because he realized I was going to abandoned him, I blocked him from my contacts. This is a month and I haven’t heard from him and I hope I never hear from him again. Thank God we don’t live in the same area.
HG Can I please ask a specific question? My ex husband , a suspected NARC, who I have been separated from three months with no contact, suggests a meeting/conversation. Is this hoovering?
Sometime in the early days that word was used in the diagnosis of you.Being referred to as parasitic will have wounded and enraged you.It still does to this day, so you enable yourself to deal with it, by projecting it on to the devalued one.You have been so badly affected by your upbringing, that you ensure when someone (in your mind) is reducing the love to you, then you must be the first to strike and make them feel reduced to nothing.I am sure the list is long HG and yet I can see it through the different lens you look through.Hurt people, hurt other people.
@HG Tudor. Well according to the tarot readers there is great change coming soon. I see you have managed to be in the midst of karmic chaos again.Is it a gift or do you have to work at it? Focus on your work HG, breathe deeply, think good thoughts,well,as many as you can.Keep up that wicked sense of humour.x
I don't see the problem.Empaths have intuition and one assumes that as Narcissists religiously follow patterns eventually, the empaths through HG having provided the information in this video, will themselves employ a backup plan.Basically the fact the NPD is off romancing elsewhere,then to reduce the loss, empaths must pull out their backup plan.He must be suitably enamoured with you to continue the lovebombing and thereby take your mind off things.In fact if you are particularly inventive and intuitive and good with timing,you could manage a series of lovebombing stages to be consecutive with each impending devaluation from an NPD,so you just deal with their best side.I am not inclined to listen to someone listing my faults because I already know them and can use them to good effect.Thanks to HG for the in-depth information.Well Done.For every problem,we women can think up a solution.xx
So Cringe would happily wedge Ginge if her dreams of Mr Pitt were realised
Can u do one about the narc and the new supply? Or the one they control for years?
Does a narcissist prefer negative fuel over positive fuel?
I think both.
I disengage.
Not them- never them.
Same
Here was the Savage Strike™️ delivered to me:
"If you think I'm a gaslighter and an abuser, we have nothing! Our marriage is over!"
So be it. It is in fact over now.
All I did was ask to stop being told I'm "misremembering, forgetting, not letting me finish, talking over me..." because "its making me feel crazy, and that's technically gaslighting, and gaslighting is abuse."
I intentionally told her she was making me feel like I'm going crazy only towards the end, which she was, but I had only recently learned this was a narcissist life strategy. I thought I would see if she ramped up the gaslighting after I admitted "my weakness." She did.
Through the years she manipulated and tried to control me through food, telling me how I need to gain more weight, see a doctor, take better care of my mental health, but it got really bad towards the end. So I intentionally told her that it really made me feel self conscious and hurt when she commented on my weight all the time. It didn't hurt me, it made want to lose my fucking lid. Controlling behavior pisses me off. Well, she didn't quit commenting about my eating, as suspected.
Anyways, the point of my excrucuatingly long comment was that these are some of the things I said (manipulations I of my own suppose, but more of a litmus test) that led up to the inevitable end, but the Savage Strike™️ was the coup de grace I needed flr our marriage to actually die because I wasnt going to back down from my own truth.
HG, if I remember well, you said that when two narcissists meet, they know that the other person is the narcissist.I wonder how the narcissist reacts when he detects that a person he met is also the narcissist?
Could empathic people learn how to mimic some behaviours of narcissists to send a "stay away!" message to the other side? Well, in nature some animals use mimicry to pretend they're predators... . Could an empathic person learn a form of mimicry to pretend....they're narcissists? If yes- why yes, if not- why not?
Romantic relashionships that I was not aware of he only done himself a favor downgrade below ground zero I could say more but I’ll 🛑 👿🤥🤮🌪💯🌊🤮💯
I ended it...Haha he is a Muslim looking for a second wife.I tried to end my very long term relationship but decided to stay lol
No ur not he tried and told him ur my enemy after what u done to me keep ur friendship to urself enemy 👿🤥💯🙏
Where does this fall: 55 year old man cheating with a YOUNG hooker and keeping a selfie of them together, knowing I would find it? Is this number 5? Could you do a show about blowing up relationships intentionally? I think he just couldn't be arsed to break up and wanted me GONE out of our friendship circle, so he constructed something so heinous that I would turn tail and never show my face again.Post Script: I managed to get him to tell the friend group when he was still in shock. Any observations about that? He immediately turned it on me and was livid with me only 48 hours after my finding the selfie.
You're not seeking help and support from HG but hoping to find a sympathiser/supporter with this twisted game you are playing with your partner. Good luck with that!
Black narcs don't give these kinds of reasons LOL